JustPearlyThings - October 25, 2023


Pearl Shuts Down ENTITLED Modern


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Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

223.95341

Word Count

2,295

Sentence Count

310


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 If you think broke men shouldn't date, then should fat women not date?
00:00:06.180 What is the always going to die?
00:00:09.360 I just don't know if we have the same energy.
00:00:11.160 Do you know what it is?
00:00:11.780 I feel like beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
00:00:13.920 No, you can't change your eyes.
00:00:15.420 Sorry, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, period.
00:00:17.620 So there's a guy that might be attracted to an overweight woman.
00:00:19.980 Money is in the eye of the beholder.
00:00:23.140 Listen.
00:00:23.640 Money is in the eye of the beholder.
00:00:25.200 Listen, if your mentality is above average and you're broke, I fuck with you.
00:00:30.160 Because I know you've got potential and that we can build together.
00:00:32.680 We can be a power couple.
00:00:33.760 What is potential?
00:00:35.000 It's money later.
00:00:36.080 That's all it is.
00:00:37.320 Potential is money later.
00:00:38.340 No, no, no.
00:00:38.460 It's more about life.
00:00:40.220 Okay, if you meet brokey at 25 and you're with him for five years, he's still brokey, unemployed.
00:00:47.500 What, you're staying?
00:00:48.380 Say that again, sorry.
00:00:49.240 Brokey.
00:00:49.700 He meet a brokey guy, 25, and he's unemployed.
00:00:52.700 And now he's 30, you're still with him, he's unemployed.
00:00:56.660 Are you staying or going?
00:00:57.920 No.
00:00:58.460 Because you're not pushing me to my limit, no.
00:01:00.080 I wouldn't.
00:01:00.640 What, five?
00:01:01.080 You wouldn't ride out five years?
00:01:02.200 If he is unemployed and broke for five years and doesn't want to make a move, I can't be
00:01:06.140 with you.
00:01:06.420 How long does it take to create a proper business and be successful in life?
00:01:09.080 If you're unemployed, not doing nothing.
00:01:11.320 Girl, I don't think you should.
00:01:13.580 Like, don't let him.
00:01:14.220 I forgot I was unemployed for five years now.
00:01:16.640 What the hell?
00:01:16.800 No, not unemployed.
00:01:18.380 I said unemployed.
00:01:19.140 Oh, you said unemployed.
00:01:19.780 Okay, yeah.
00:01:20.260 So if he's stagnant.
00:01:21.700 I'm with you, but my point is you're lying.
00:01:27.000 Like, it's lying.
00:01:28.120 Yeah, you're just lying.
00:01:29.060 Why?
00:01:29.320 Because you're like, oh, if he has the right mentality, I don't care about money.
00:01:32.480 Okay, but I said, like, all that ambition translates to is money later.
00:01:36.820 So when women say, oh, I don't care about money.
00:01:39.060 Yes, it does.
00:01:40.040 Because women do leave if the men don't make enough money.
00:01:44.480 If women out earn the men, they leave.
00:01:46.440 The average woman.
00:01:47.280 But I feel like the average woman will leave.
00:01:49.860 Facts.
00:01:50.220 But you are the average woman.
00:01:51.780 I mean, the average mindset woman.
00:01:53.240 The average mindset woman.
00:01:54.300 You have the average mindset.
00:01:55.180 No, I don't.
00:01:55.860 I don't.
00:01:56.380 I definitely don't.
00:01:57.120 I definitely don't.
00:01:57.880 You just said that.
00:01:58.660 And everyone tells me I don't.
00:01:59.920 I'm different.
00:02:00.380 You just said that.
00:02:01.380 No, I'm telling you.
00:02:02.780 What makes you different?
00:02:03.540 I promise you.
00:02:04.260 Okay, what makes you different?
00:02:05.480 Because I'm just, I feel like I'm very deep.
00:02:08.240 And I've just learned, I've really taken that time out to study life and to understand how
00:02:13.840 life is.
00:02:14.360 How old are you?
00:02:15.120 I'm 32 now.
00:02:16.060 Okay.
00:02:16.920 Last month.
00:02:17.620 So I feel like I've taken time out to go inwards and to learn about life and to just, you know,
00:02:24.100 be more, not logical, but be more on point.
00:02:27.320 I don't know how to explain it, but I don't think my mindset is average.
00:02:30.020 I don't think I will ever be average.
00:02:31.640 And I really believe in myself.
00:02:32.900 So I'm a different, you're a hundred percent average.
00:02:36.320 You're a comedian.
00:02:37.120 No, no, I'm not.
00:02:38.200 No, she's a comedian though.
00:02:39.400 No, no, no.
00:02:39.900 Look at me.
00:02:40.300 Look at me.
00:02:40.660 Dead serious.
00:02:41.700 Average.
00:02:42.340 Average.
00:02:42.640 Girl.
00:02:42.820 And that's not an insult.
00:02:43.840 I think I'm an average chick.
00:02:46.120 I don't think you are.
00:02:47.200 Because I even said before I came on the show, she's a badass.
00:02:50.280 Like, she's built all this.
00:02:51.100 See, you're lying again.
00:02:52.260 Why are you lying?
00:02:52.620 Romeo, didn't I say that to you?
00:02:53.860 I've been talking about that stuff before I met you.
00:02:56.100 I'm not sure you can admit, though.
00:02:57.000 But I'm saying, like, the way you speak, okay, and I'm telling you, I've met women with
00:03:01.520 a top 10%, 20, do you know how many women I speak to?
00:03:04.680 Hundreds.
00:03:05.400 Hundreds.
00:03:06.060 And I'm saying, like, I've met women with a top 10, 20% mindset.
00:03:09.020 I'm not saying it's horrible, but I'm saying an average chick when it comes to mindset.
00:03:13.060 Do you know what I think?
00:03:13.740 I just think it's because I don't think money is important.
00:03:17.900 So it's nothing to me.
00:03:18.840 But see, you've contradicted yourself, like, 20 times in this conversation.
00:03:22.360 It's very chaotic to, like, speak to you.
00:03:24.660 Like, it's very chaotic.
00:03:25.620 Because I don't really understand what you're saying.
00:03:27.360 Because on one hand, you kind of, we're speaking down to the men in the room because they don't
00:03:32.080 want to spend 200 pounds on a date.
00:03:33.840 Then you're saying money is nothing.
00:03:35.500 Do you see how that's confusing?
00:03:36.120 I mean, money is nothing.
00:03:36.840 So paying 200 pounds, what is that?
00:03:38.560 I don't, that's fine.
00:03:39.660 It's nothing.
00:03:41.400 Because they said I don't appreciate it.
00:03:42.880 And I do, but it's not, I don't think about it.
00:03:45.600 Because money is money.
00:03:46.760 It's just what it is.
00:03:47.940 Because you don't have to.
00:03:48.580 That's what I mean.
00:03:49.220 Okay.
00:03:49.700 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:03:50.340 I understand.
00:03:51.520 Just know what I'm saying.
00:03:52.120 I understand what you're saying.
00:03:54.920 I just don't think you understand how it sounds.
00:03:57.160 And it sounds really unappreciative.
00:03:58.920 It is what it is.
00:04:01.100 I can't change my opinion.
00:04:03.560 It is what it is.
00:04:04.220 Can you spend 200 pounds every night on dinner on yourself?
00:04:07.640 Me?
00:04:08.020 I spend a lot of money.
00:04:08.780 Not every night on yourself.
00:04:10.540 No, I can't.
00:04:11.160 Why?
00:04:11.780 Because that's irresponsible.
00:04:14.420 But money is nothing.
00:04:15.320 I invest my money.
00:04:16.340 Money is nothing.
00:04:16.900 I invest my money.
00:04:18.020 I invest money.
00:04:19.480 So what about the man that invests money?
00:04:21.440 That's his business.
00:04:21.940 I didn't ask him to take me out and take me to a place that cost 200 pounds.
00:04:24.640 I didn't ask for that.
00:04:25.500 So what you're saying is.
00:04:26.180 So it's not my problem.
00:04:27.180 You don't care about the man's money.
00:04:28.420 The thing is.
00:04:28.720 As long as he's spending it.
00:04:29.500 Well, I don't ask for money.
00:04:30.900 I don't ask a man for money.
00:04:31.840 I've never asked him.
00:04:32.480 I've never had a man.
00:04:33.500 Well, I've had a long-time relationship where we live together.
00:04:36.040 But I've never relied on a man for anything in my whole entire life.
00:04:39.260 So wait.
00:04:39.700 Can I ask you a question?
00:04:41.020 Okay.
00:04:41.340 So.
00:04:41.780 All right.
00:04:43.700 You've never been proposed to.
00:04:45.880 Not really.
00:04:46.720 Not like that.
00:04:47.300 No.
00:04:47.460 Okay.
00:04:48.020 Okay.
00:04:48.340 So if you were.
00:04:49.680 If you had this amazing mindset.
00:04:51.940 You're 32.
00:04:53.360 Do you have kids?
00:04:54.480 No.
00:04:55.140 Okay.
00:04:55.480 So do you know your chance is below 50% of having a child?
00:04:59.240 Possibly.
00:04:59.640 If you're single at 30, your chance is like 40% of having a kid.
00:05:03.780 So you're more likely to never have children.
00:05:05.460 That's statistically.
00:05:06.180 And at 32, that means you're three years away from geriatric pregnancy.
00:05:10.140 Whoa.
00:05:10.580 So that means if you're single today, you've got to find a guy in three years to agree to marry you.
00:05:16.660 And agree to get in a long-term relationship, marry you, and then have a kid or just get pregnant.
00:05:23.420 So.
00:05:24.580 Statistically.
00:05:25.320 Statistically.
00:05:25.900 Right.
00:05:26.100 Right.
00:05:26.460 Statistically.
00:05:27.180 Statistically.
00:05:27.760 Okay.
00:05:28.120 Okay.
00:05:28.620 Okay.
00:05:29.060 Based on.
00:05:29.520 So, and based off of like the, so the last, you've been dating since what, you're 18?
00:05:34.320 No.
00:05:34.880 Well, yeah.
00:05:35.700 Okay.
00:05:36.020 So, so 10, 12, 14 years, you've been unsuccessful.
00:05:40.480 Wow.
00:05:41.740 Right?
00:05:42.500 Yeah.
00:05:42.880 So you're single, right?
00:05:44.720 And I'm not claiming to be the all, like, I know everything, but I'm saying, how can you say you're in the top?
00:05:49.920 Like you have this amazing mindset.
00:05:51.720 If no men have picked your mindset and you're, and it's not looks, you're pretty.
00:05:55.540 My mindset changed at age 28.
00:05:57.900 So before that, I was a different person to who I am now.
00:05:59.880 So now, so you've had.
00:06:00.540 Four years ago.
00:06:01.240 Okay.
00:06:01.540 So you've had four years to try out this mindset.
00:06:04.400 I haven't been dating.
00:06:05.420 And, and, okay.
00:06:06.400 I've been going through stuff.
00:06:07.660 Okay.
00:06:08.120 So, and you've been accum, you've been going through things.
00:06:10.540 So you've been accumulating more trauma.
00:06:11.660 But I've been in one relationship.
00:06:13.100 Kind of.
00:06:13.640 Okay.
00:06:13.800 Where, where you were problematic.
00:06:17.040 I don't think that because he's still on my phone to this day.
00:06:19.740 So I must not have been that problematic for sex.
00:06:22.220 And like, I don't think he realized.
00:06:23.620 No, no, no.
00:06:24.280 But I'm not, but hold on.
00:06:25.700 I'm not easy to have sex.
00:06:26.740 I'm really, really.
00:06:28.300 Okay.
00:06:29.020 Did he have sex with you?
00:06:31.120 Not straight away.
00:06:32.180 No.
00:06:32.400 Did he ever have sex with you?
00:06:34.080 Yeah.
00:06:34.520 He's back for sex.
00:06:36.940 This is how men, this is how men.
00:06:38.820 No, makes things worse.
00:06:40.000 No, okay.
00:06:40.940 No, no, I'm telling you, girl, this is how guys see it.
00:06:43.360 Like, I've talked to so many dudes.
00:06:44.920 If they've had sex with you once.
00:06:46.260 But he can stick with Abigail.
00:06:47.700 He's got money.
00:06:48.320 Maybe he liked having sex with you.
00:06:50.500 Okay.
00:06:50.640 Yeah, because my pussy's tight.
00:06:52.960 Wow.
00:06:53.240 Okay, okay.
00:06:53.860 Is this?
00:06:55.680 No.
00:06:57.200 No, I'm telling you, really.
00:06:59.240 You're in the danger zone.
00:07:01.280 Can I just say, it wouldn't take three months to come to a decision on this one.
00:07:08.500 And you're so lovely.
00:07:09.840 Honestly, you have so much going for you.
00:07:11.660 I really like you.
00:07:12.720 Thank you.
00:07:13.020 Don't say things like that.
00:07:14.560 Like, what?
00:07:15.760 My pussy's tight.
00:07:16.700 Right?
00:07:17.120 Keep it for yourself.
00:07:18.640 I'm playing around.
00:07:19.680 I'm just like, that's my current zone.
00:07:20.940 No, no, no.
00:07:21.440 I'm just really outspoken.
00:07:22.780 I don't think you understand.
00:07:23.940 Okay, okay.
00:07:24.300 How is a husband going to hear that?
00:07:25.920 Yeah.
00:07:26.360 You just dampened your trances even more.
00:07:28.240 But I'm not a hoe.
00:07:28.960 But I'm not a hoe.
00:07:29.980 Because loads of men now know your pussy's tight.
00:07:32.320 Wait, wait, wait.
00:07:33.100 Can I ask you something?
00:07:34.860 Who did it?
00:07:35.360 Okay, okay.
00:07:35.880 Tell me who did it.
00:07:36.560 Okay, listen, listen, listen, listen.
00:07:38.360 Okay.
00:07:38.840 And I'm genuinely trying to help you.
00:07:40.560 I'm trying to help you.
00:07:41.160 So, seriously.
00:07:43.060 So, like, those are fake?
00:07:44.600 The eyelashes?
00:07:45.340 Yeah.
00:07:45.680 Do you know what those stand for?
00:07:47.540 Oh, yeah.
00:07:48.040 Do you know what the history of those are?
00:07:49.400 No.
00:07:49.720 It's literally what hookers used to use to keep cum out of their eyes.
00:07:53.280 I could probably believe that.
00:07:54.680 Yeah, for sure.
00:07:55.340 Okay, okay.
00:07:55.860 Okay, so, and when men see that, they, like, hoop earrings, that signals to guys.
00:08:00.540 Yeah, yeah.
00:08:00.940 That's it.
00:08:01.460 And yours aren't too bad.
00:08:02.760 But I'm saying, when you're saying, like, my tight, like, is that what you want your wife
00:08:07.000 and the mother of your kids to see?
00:08:09.080 But the thing is, I'm just a funny person.
00:08:11.620 Like, I'm really, like, outspoken.
00:08:12.800 Do you know what I mean?
00:08:13.620 And I'm a funny, I like to think I'm funny, you know, a comedian.
00:08:17.040 But, like, there's some things that you really shouldn't say publicly if you want to be taken
00:08:21.400 seriously from a guy.
00:08:23.240 I think that, you know, if it's meant to be, it's meant to be, he's out there somewhere
00:08:28.820 and he'll appreciate who I am.
00:08:30.120 Do you think a broke, fat guy should say, oh, if it's meant to be, women will like me?
00:08:36.180 Or do you think he should improve?
00:08:38.200 I personally would definitely improve, but.
00:08:40.700 Okay.
00:08:41.140 Yeah, of course.
00:08:41.620 So if your mindset is off, do you think we say it's meant, if it's meant to be, it's
00:08:46.480 meant to be?
00:08:47.320 Or do we try to improve?
00:08:48.900 Always try to improve, never stop.
00:08:50.360 Okay, so how do we improve as women if we can't even admit there's a problem?
00:08:54.260 Right.
00:08:55.040 And so right now, it's like, it's like you're kind of living in delusion.
00:08:58.280 Everyone's like, you know, maybe it's not a good look.
00:09:00.040 And you're like, well, it's just how I am.
00:09:02.060 But I feel like me saying, my pussy's tight.
00:09:05.240 It doesn't determine, it doesn't determine how many men I've slept with.
00:09:08.380 If I'm a hoe, do I go out and suck dick every week?
00:09:10.340 No, but it doesn't.
00:09:11.100 Okay, let me, let me, let me ask.
00:09:13.280 A virgin could be like my pussy's tight.
00:09:15.620 What does that mean?
00:09:16.320 You're a home.
00:09:16.800 I don't know, go on.
00:09:17.460 I'm not a Christian about hearts.
00:09:18.880 I want to hear from the men.
00:09:20.240 What do you, hey, blessing?
00:09:22.440 What do you, blessing as a guy, I would say you're a more traditional guy.
00:09:29.040 You want to be married, right?
00:09:30.180 Bring me this one.
00:09:31.000 All right, all right.
00:09:31.680 What do you, what do you, what do you think when a woman says that?
00:09:34.860 Canceled.
00:09:35.880 Okay.
00:09:36.460 What do you, what do you think when a woman says that?
00:09:38.500 Pretty much the same.
00:09:39.300 And they'll probably just want to sample it just to see if it's tight.
00:09:41.840 But imagine you could never, though.
00:09:42.860 That's the thing.
00:09:43.560 And that's just the difference between, do you know what I mean?
00:09:45.400 If you don't, you don't, innit?
00:09:46.720 But like I'm saying, if you're saying that out there, man, I'm going to be like, all right,
00:09:49.300 let me test it and see if it's really easy.
00:09:50.180 And they could never.
00:09:50.900 That's the thing.
00:09:51.360 That's why I'm so confident.
00:09:52.440 Because I'm not like that.
00:09:53.060 But the thing is, if guys, if guys see signals that you're a hoe, they're not going to investigate
00:09:57.540 to find out.
00:09:58.340 They're just going to think, hoe, hoe.
00:09:59.940 Like, they're not going to go and do these deep dot, like, no, they're just going to,
00:10:03.280 they're just going to write you off.
00:10:04.420 I agree with that.
00:10:05.140 But I think it takes an individual to take time to actually get to know the person.
00:10:08.720 See, they're really like that.
00:10:09.580 Do you know what I mean?
00:10:10.140 And they can find out.
00:10:10.800 But the men you want don't have time because they're working.
00:10:14.340 And what?