00:02:14.520okay okay i i i've had like crazy messages but you you know come on it's a dm they don't count
00:02:25.380no no no you don't count but obviously out of those dms one of them was the one i mean i mean
00:02:31.340but that's i was like yes but that's my point that's what every girl thinks every girl's walking
00:02:37.200through life thinking they're going to win the lottery and date this top one percent man he has
00:02:40.800to be over six foot he has to make over 70k he has to be attractive he has to be what and but see
00:02:47.180this is this is but this is here here wait this is the problem that sounds nice it's it sounds nice
00:02:52.740and like and it's possible but it's not probable it's probably not going to happen
00:02:56.260so so i'll tell you i'll tell you another stat okay so big banks are investing
00:03:00.400in things like cat food wine because 50 of women are projected to be single and childless over 30 so
00:03:06.520that means all the girls in this room half of us will never have kids okay half of us will never
00:03:11.500get married so if you say oh just manifest it believe it sounds nice and it's also like if you
00:03:16.240don't get married by 35 your odds of getting married and having a long stable relationship ever
00:03:19.960it's very it's very it's very low it's very low i actually a lot of women yeah
00:03:24.340actually i'm gonna i want to read uh when a single woman reaches the age of 30 the statistical
00:03:44.060probability of her sex successfully finding a long-term relationship and having just one child
00:03:49.560falls below 50 percent it then declines rapidly by 3.5 percent to 5 percent each year this is based
00:03:56.360on the average fertility rates in developed countries of course but it's also based on the
00:04:00.140average amount of time it would take a single 30 year old woman to find a good mate and progress
00:04:03.660the relationship to the point of pregnancy um a little messed up is what you consider the average
00:04:09.300age of first child is 29 for women it varies very slightly by country and most women start taking
00:04:15.320the idea of a family seriously in their late 20s and 30s um and let's talk about ivf too 61 um the
00:04:24.100the failure rates of ivf is 61.1 percent in women under 34 so out of 100 women that go and get ivf 61
00:04:32.440percent fail um and women that are between the ages of 35 to 38 it's 73.7 percent 86.2 percent in women
00:04:40.200ages 39 to 42 and 94 percent in women over the ages of 43 have that's the ivf failure rate wow isn't it
00:04:47.060now that there's more female binge drinkers than male for the first time ever yeah that's true that's
00:04:51.480crazy yeah wait that's mad that's crazy which part what do you there's more female yeah there's more
00:04:58.020you can go yeah it was uh it was like it was something that came out earlier this year that there
00:05:02.240are now more female binge drinkers than males and it's the first time in history this has happened
00:05:07.580wow that's crazy i'm really getting educated green so um they're smoking more so so men smoke more and
00:05:18.640women drink more yeah but that's the first time in history that women are drinking more
00:05:21.860why is that because we're an evolving race because women are becoming men
00:05:27.940i'm gonna read one more thing to you guys according to the average span of committed
00:05:37.560relationships of committed dating relationships the average them and the average interval of time
00:05:44.000women take between related relationships an average woman has a maximum of guess how many
00:05:48.900serious relationships three how many four five five five yeah um has a i think a woman can only wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait guys guys wait let me finish a maximum of five serious relationships five swings at a bat before her chance of starting a family drops to zero so that means if you've had five boyfriends your your chance of a family's dropped to zero wait wait wait wait please can you explain that again guys what is it like
00:06:15.900according to the boyfriends according to the average span of committed dating relationships the average and the average
00:06:22.340interval of time women take between relationships the average woman has a maximum of five serious relationships five swings
00:06:28.780at the bat before her chances of starting a family drops to zero
00:06:35.780but this is but see but see this is like and that sounds that sounds that sounds depressing
00:06:42.860it's according to numbers like so they think but how many people wait what if they what if the new generation what if these people are just willing to love easily
00:06:52.300more easily more easily than the previous one but this is but this is like we always do a roundabout way to make the numbers not sound like what they are
00:06:59.400yeah but numbers were only numbers when people started creating numbers okay numbers weren't there
00:07:04.920numbers wait numbers were only numbers when people started creating numbers
00:07:10.220how did you count a rock like how did you count how many rocks before they were okay this is this doesn't make any sense
00:07:18.100what really makes sense nowadays is the stats like who are these people that put out these reports
00:07:25.200they do they do they do they do they do surveys they do surveys it's self-reported in different countries around the world and they all have similar numbers so
00:07:32.360so so they they start to have a similar conclusion in a similar trend so
00:07:36.120when we when we tell women oh it's going to be okay it's like my dms are full this this this for a lot of women
00:07:41.800for a lot of women it's not going to be okay and out of women that don't have kids
00:07:45.740right eighty percent of them wish they had them a hundred percent it's gonna be okay
00:07:49.660record at the end of it oh that's what i'm saying sometimes these conversations could also go
00:07:54.800to the other side of the spectrum wait explain that so what do you mean i think that these
00:08:00.400sort of conversations we have they can sometimes be very strategic and stats have stated and these
00:08:06.640people yeah but there's a whole group community of people who don't do surveys and just love their life
00:08:13.080and love people and talk to people and are real and they don't give their reports back
00:08:17.460yes okay okay so that's just okay okay some some some people you're right some people don't take
00:08:25.160surveys but if we're doing surveys in different places and they're all concluding the same thing
00:08:30.340it's like if you don't want to believe numbers you don't have to you can just live in the in the land
00:08:34.340of feelings but but it's right it's quite hard it's quite hard to do that when you're living in the land