She DEBUNKED Modern Women’s Delusion
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the dating market and why women are the problem in the dating world and why men cheat on women. We also discuss the difference between women and men in the modern dating market, and how women cheat on men.
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this is the thing like we compromise where it always benefits us and never benefits the man
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because when we compromise it's like at 30 and that's not what men want
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when you talked about the dating market do all the women on the panel believe that women are
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the problem with the dating market they contribute they contribute 100 they contribute because there's
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one can i just say this yeah there's more women on the market in the dating market and how i would
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put it is everyone so a lot of women say they're the prize but they don't act like a prize so they're
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readily available if you're available to 25 men how are you a prize you're readily available i put
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it like this if you have a rolex they don't advertise rolex you know the value of it if you see a ferrari
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they don't advertise that you know the value of it if you're on socials dating apps advertising
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yourself with no clothes you know trying to get male attention are you really a prize but what
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that sounds like to me is a cognitive dissonance huh that that sounds like a cognitive dissonance to
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me so like you think of one thing but you're not the other so that still goes back to the fact that
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women are potentially the problem in the dating market because of this delusion that they they
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carry i'm the prize yeah i deserve this and i deserve that yet read i'm not actually the prize
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like how can you be a prize at all if you're a virgin if you're not a virgin
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no i'm saying like back in the 19 in the 1950s like like you were a hoe if you if you slept with
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like two people i think men nowadays would pray for two and so it's like like how are you a prize if
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you're not a virgin and you're well the first of all that sorry the social parameters have changed
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okay we know this and we're acknowledging that's the case here in this but men haven't changed just
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because the social parameters but the thing is the social the social parameters have changed to
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appease women yeah and so so but men have remained the same they want the same things women have
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changed no but as i said the social parameters have changed so the social parameters for men have
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changed and the social parameters for women have changed what do you mean by definition social
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parameters so for example materialistically men are supposed to still provide be able to provide
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at a higher rate at a faster rate from a younger age this is a social parameter change it's not
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realistic it is set out by women i agree but with the women with the ladies now a lot of us we have
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a materialistic approach to how we view men and when they can't provide that we get upset we don't
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actually look at like what you said the characteristics the moralistic values we don't
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look at actually when i look at this man do i see family because a lot of people they're they're
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they want uh financial benefits but they don't actually want family what does that make women
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the problem then yeah because men are the same like if anything more is expected of men is less
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is given to them i think that um we're getting married a lot later in life and that's you know
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part of it so like for example maybe 50 years ago getting married at age 16 to 18 might not have
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been a big deal whereas now when a when a a young woman wants to get married at 21 it's like are you
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ready for this you know have you finished uni yeah have you traveled there's there's so much that
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women are doing that they weren't doing 50 years ago that they're doing now and it's it's affecting
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the age that people get married so that's gonna make women the problem yeah oh i never i never
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said women are not but then but you did did you not say that they were the prize i said we're the
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prize when we're younger oh yeah yeah before 40 and i'm curious i haven't heard much from you what
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do you think because i don't agree okay i feel like men are the problem okay oh great tell me why
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tell me why because i'm young isn't it so i'm just thinking when i was younger women were always the
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one um more involved in the relationships men were always the one cheating treating the women wrong
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so that now i'm 21 all of us are tired at the age of 21 why did you pick them
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if you if you if women hate being cheated on why'd you pick the ones that cheat girls know you know
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early on that they're gonna cheat on you you know you know damn well which you know you know you
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know you know damn well you know damn well that that guy is capable of cheating so how that's how
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is that on him when you picked him do you know what after i finished with the guys that cheat i was
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not like let me go to a nice guy yeah but now you're but now you're a leftover for him oh but i was
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only like 18 so look i'm not i'm not saying i'm just saying that's how men view it 18 yeah i mean i mean
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i don't i don't know i'm not gonna ask like what i'm just saying like i'm saying this is common so
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so you're young but i'm saying this is common where girls will go through the bad boys and the cheaters
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until they're 27 28 and then come to the nice guys who they've been rejecting the last decade
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right and saying take me oh i'm ready for you and they're like well now you're chad's leftovers
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i hate that but it's like how is that on them when we pick them because one out of three men are
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either virgins or haven't had sex in the last year so there's a lot of men that won't cheat on
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you you just don't want them look at me look at look in your friend zone or go to go to you guys
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don't have talk do you guys have taco bell here you do go to go to taco bell ask the guy out behind
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the counter i bet you he won't cheat on you come on don't do that go ask him out
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what you know how we're talking about the whole team don't we feel like back in the day there was
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no social media like they were writing letters everyone's covered up from head to toe i feel
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like because now there's more temptation even for the guys because women because yeah because women
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got worse yeah because because men will do anything to get laid literally literally anything so
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if if we required marriage to get laid we would all be married
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if we if we required a fancy date so our values have lessened that's what you're saying
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i would say women have thrown it at them yeah like we're less valuable to men because men are the
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same so can we ask the men that what's valuable to them that would be yeah go ahead
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what do you mean like what what does value mean to you in a woman uh femininity uh submission
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um being my piece that's the key one yeah it's important so important they love that one yeah
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that's it yeah i would say literally the same stuff as him like literally the same i'm being feminine
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peace of mind um being able to look at yourself as well and have self-development like be able to
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actually say accountability yeah do you know i mean and being able to have a conversation about stuff
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like if there's an issue which some a lot of people can't do to be honest so also question do you
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guys value purity would you guys would you guys rather have a girl that slept with 100 guys or
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one guy okay let's let's say would you rather have a girl that slept with 10 guys or 50
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10 obviously okay okay so you value purity yeah yeah definitely yeah same thing yeah yeah okay what
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about you same as me boy you know what's crazy um that you're talking about purity i went into
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someone's tiktok live but it's about purity and she was talking about andrew tate and you know he
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said the same kind of thing yeah with girls sleeping with loads of people and the girls sleeping with
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less um and she said well i don't really care what guys think i'll sleep with whoever i want and as
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much people as i want nothing you could do about it in my head i just thought this is the problem
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because i don't know if there's like something that's mad but they will still get wiped so
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yeah but not by like but no i don't agree with it i don't agree with that i think that's very
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tapped but that's crazy but those kind of girls i'm sorry but those kind of girls i feel like i
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strongly disagree it's mad because you get like let's say i've seen good guys that will go for that
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and i'm just there like what i'll tell you why they're the nice guys picking up the leftovers and
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the problem is those girls don't respect him because they actually want the dude that cheated
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whenever whenever a girl whenever a girl has a guy that she always complains about that's who
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she loved the most it's not it's not the one that she doesn't really talk about he said he was such
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a good boyfriend he was such she didn't like him you're laughing you know it's true and so those guys
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pick them up at 30 and then they'll still cheat with the the guy they really wanted or wish they
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were with him yeah what done for but that's that's why that's why like virgins should be preferred like
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if you if you've slept with one person and you get married what is your chance of a happy marriage
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do you think i heard your podcast you actually mentioned this but then do you know what i find
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crazy that you also get the guys that complain that oh my day she didn't know what she was doing
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in bed and then now he started cheating five years down the line because she's so dead and also no
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wait no wait no wait no i've heard a guy say we actually weren't sexually compatible that's the
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reason why because he was probably too much of a freak most girls can't have good sex serious
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no honestly most girls just take wood let's be real like but if it's your partner would you not
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teach them and would you not would you lot not like grow like as in you're teaching her what you
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like she teaching you what she likes of course it's contextual um i don't think you can be your
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partner and not expect her to like certain things but that's what i'm saying certain guys
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they're just overly freaky because most men are very simple to please
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it's true but guys would prefer a girl they could teach
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versus because if she's coming in a freak he's like where'd you learn that
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i i i do you know what's so funny i have this discussion with like my male cousins my brothers
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i feel like every guy says listen i'd be read men are from mars women are from venus
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one of my favorite books men are so simple well what you lot say peace of mind when they don't
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want to talk just leave them he will come back when he's ready and i feel like because we're so
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emotional and erratic sometimes it's like you know how men are quite logical when you call your man of a
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problem we just want to hear is it is it he's like the reality most times we're not doing well because
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of our nature we don't we try in our heads we're like like me for example i feel like i can be very
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peaceful i can be very understanding but there are times in the month where i'm not i'm just not
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having it because of my i don't know maybe i can blame it on hormones or or that day is just not
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the day or i'm in my head about something that he's done as much as i want to be peaceful i might
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not be peaceful that day and so i feel like somebody then it wouldn't be your character
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i'm not saying that it's it's good that i'm like that i know that it can be a problem but
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relationships are never perfect you know i mean so you could control that at work right i i can and
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the thing is i do control it in my relationship as much as i can there's no relationship that
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doesn't have fights or arguments you know i mean so but sometimes you go from zero to a hundred and
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you know you've done as long as you acknowledge you've done it and you're able to apologize and
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accept um accountability and try and change you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are
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