JustPearlyThings - She Gets DISGRACED For Claiming To Be Virgin while Acting as a Whore

00:00:00.000 uh let me go from okay yeah here on the end i'm gonna have to look at the camera

00:00:07.200 which way this way yeah yeah um what's your name sorry me yeah valentina valentina oh

00:00:13.280 that name might have just given you an extra point

00:00:19.680 6.5 i was gonna say six but valentino was like oh it's a nice name um in the middle here

00:00:27.600 um based on what i'm looking at right now i don't know because i you did say you just came from a

00:00:34.480 shoot so i mean i don't have like foundation on it yeah so i'm gonna just say five and call it a

00:00:39.920 save five okay yes say five you know um naomi rabbit run

00:00:51.200 you guys are friends though aren't you yeah exactly that's not my friend i don't i'm not friends with

00:00:56.080 females we're not friends what we are friends we're acquaintances of course like you're my

00:01:00.000 people and you're my brethren in it my brother that's what i'm saying yeah it's love but you

00:01:04.000 know being friends with females is tough um let's not get into it um naomi i'll give a naomi a

00:01:13.920 seven point five

00:01:21.440 yes i'm gonna take that i'll take like 7.5 and that was tense yes it was um

00:01:33.840 you can stop there no no i'm gonna no no i'm gonna continue man i'm gonna rate everybody on the panel

00:01:40.000 um and based on based on the information that i've received so far she gets a nine

00:01:50.000 and the reason why she gets a nine because one she has a ring so that automatically just puts five

00:01:55.680 points right um and um what you were saying about how you would go into like a just just the the kind

00:02:09.040 of honest devotion that you've given to your husband and the respect that you've given him

00:02:13.360 and told him like even if he wasn't here my will be messed up that's that nine that's that nine this

00:02:18.400 this is that's a nine bro so bro let's celebrate love my guy it's so cute yeah all right what about

00:02:26.320 you all right respectfully i won't even rate his wife i have no respect no respect no respect i won't

00:02:35.920 rate his wife i'll give naomi a solid eight yay that's cute i'll give sorry what's your name the blonde one

00:02:43.280 sorry harabella harabella i'll give you i'll give you a solid five and a half and i'll give your friend

00:02:50.240 six and i'll give you a solid eight see what i'm saying

00:02:57.920 quick and simple okay no question no no no question for the girls so okay the girls have to close your

00:03:04.560 eyes close your eyes close your eyes close your eyes i like this okay okay um so if you open your eyes

00:03:13.200 eyes you're gonna be subbed out yeah what oh yeah there's a sub there's a so you'll be subbed out

00:03:18.320 if you open your eyes all right um from the couch on the left do you guys remember where everyone's

00:03:23.360 sitting oh yeah yeah yeah so i was on our couch i'm sorry i i forgot some of your names i won't lie to

00:03:29.920 you um but pull it polish girl all right all right put your hand up for how what you rate her

00:03:35.040 wait would you like like one like with both put both your hands up yeah fingers put your fingers

00:03:44.480 okay wait danelva you have to put your hand up oh oh oh oh wait wait wait what did she put up in

00:03:49.600 her eyes i'm doing this hand up hand up okay okay now um next to her with the the tattoos naomi naomi

00:03:57.040 put your hands up okay um the blonde i'm sorry i'm so sorry i'm bad everything's blonde

00:04:06.640 arabella no arabella okay arabella arabella with a height okay okay keep my eyes closed yeah eyes

00:04:12.880 closed eyes closed eyes closed this is so stressful okay okay and then right what's what's the question

00:04:20.480 the rate rating one to ten wait who are we on uh arabella arabella hey what's your rating

00:04:27.120 then over you're supposed to put your fingers up before you're rating what am i going to be doing

00:04:31.200 i don't care close your eyes put your finger up close your eyes and okay and rate how much you

00:04:36.240 think the other girls look the number with your fingers oh my god she's saying the name oh my god

00:04:42.000 memory for memory to never the blonde girl on the couch the blonde girl on the couch okay wait so i

00:04:47.840 i haven't written anybody i haven't written i thought you were asking people to open their eyes

00:04:51.520 okay okay it's another

00:04:54.800 i'm scared to open my eyes okay um you had you had a very pretty name but i don't remember what it was

00:05:02.640 valentina valentina valentina um everyone go um okay denel what do you put for valentina put your

00:05:10.640 hands up okay wait oh my god please okay now everyone do denelva

00:05:17.840 okay okay thank you guys that's it that's it nobody didn't do the rest i didn't do the rest

00:05:27.520 are we allowed to open our eyes yeah you can open your eyes it's just interesting i just it's

00:05:31.760 interesting to see what the men put the women put and then like what you guys put i'm going to watch

00:05:36.320 this back

00:05:42.000 so back to the back to the whole topic back to the whole topic all right um let's let's ask the

00:05:47.760 tough questions today how many bodies does it take for a woman to become a hoe

00:05:51.760 i want to start with the men and then the woman can answer how many bodies yeah how many bodies does

00:06:01.440 it take for a woman as in like uh high high level men or bodies yeah i thought you said baddies okay

00:06:08.720 um in my experience sun changes after like three people i know

00:06:22.400 if she slept with three people that you've actually yeah what number does she become a hoe

00:06:26.400 so i don't know i don't i don't have an opinion for you know women before that but when i meet

00:06:32.160 someone or like you know they're coming to the same scene as me etc if she's been with more than

00:06:39.840 more than two people but definitely three then that's like so you're saying like you're never

00:06:44.400 going to know the actual body count so you kind of base it by the number of dudes that you know that

00:06:49.200 she's slept with yeah so if you so if you find out about three then she's a hoe that's how you conduct

00:06:54.320 yourself yeah if i know two or three guys in the room if i know two or three guys in the general scene

00:06:58.720 in london that you've been with then it's um because it's too much of a small world so you've

00:07:03.600 been about no i'm about but no the girl the girl if the girls had three men that you know that means

00:07:10.000 she's been about to go all the way to the three that you know in your life the coincidence also my

00:07:15.040 boys are some of the top guys in it so if if you've been with one of my boys then i know you know

00:07:21.920 where you at yeah yeah i know where's your head at type vibes okay what about you

00:07:30.800 his wife's got one so is it two you know what i'll be a little bit more generous on that front

00:07:37.360 maybe i'll say when you hit the double double figures so ten yeah okay what about you uh i'll

00:07:46.320 maybe say when you roughly hit above maybe over seven but then then again some girls be dating a

00:07:54.880 lot but they're not really hoeing but they'll be dating and hopeless romantics will fall in love

00:08:00.240 and you know what i'm saying and then they'll add up so as he said like yeah when it starts reaching

00:08:05.680 nine ten then it's like yeah you just you're reaching the whole phase so okay so nine ten what about

00:08:11.840 you so mine is kind of like age condition so if you're like in your 20s and you're over 10

00:08:21.840 yeah it's you're done if you hit 30 and you're over 15 okay you say 15 by 30 10 before okay ladies

00:08:33.360 what do you guys think how many bodies does it take for a girl to become a hoe

00:08:36.240 um yeah i'll agree with you i think it's like very age conditioned but i do think like

00:08:46.560 i don't know because i know some people like i think it's like double digits yeah that's when

00:08:52.640 you like become a high i think i hope you can reform but yeah but then like oh this is kind of

00:09:07.040 embarrassing to admit but like i'm only 19. my i've never fucked before like i've still never been

00:09:14.240 fucked i'm still a virgin i don't think that's embarrassing obviously i've obviously done like

00:09:18.560 stuff with guys nine guys to like count um but people would still call me a hoe because i like

00:09:23.360 post provocative or like i think it's just very subjective on what you think a hoe is like i have

00:09:29.680 people call me a hoe every day because i like post half naked but i've actually never been

00:09:34.240 fucked before and like all my hoeing is like i've done like online stuff and whatever but yeah there's

00:09:41.360 levels to hoeing though so that's why i will say there's there's levels you know you can get an escort

00:09:45.920 that's gonna do everything you can get escort that's gonna talk to you on the phone like there's

00:09:48.960 levels i mean i mean one level is language right and so if you refer to yourself as like being

00:09:55.920 fucked i'm very i'm very like confused or like made love or yeah yeah you want to use one of the nice

00:10:03.680 words you know what about uh you two haven't answered yet um i'm kind of like where i've forgotten your

00:10:20.960 name alex alex says um like if i don't know then like who am i to call you a hoe you know and

00:10:29.520 like i would probably say double digits maybe but then i know friends that are in double digits and

00:10:37.760 i'm like i love them so like as hoes or as people it's humans like i mean you can you can be they

00:10:45.600 could be a nice hoe but why would i call it but for me to use that language towards somebody for me in that

00:10:57.200 moment like i can't say that i love somebody and call them a hoe like it doesn't come in the same

00:11:02.000 sentence so like to me you're just experience life to its fullest right yeah i can't i can't call you

00:11:08.080 a hoe and then say i love you like they don't come in the same sentence i wouldn't call someone a hoe full

00:11:12.880 stuff to be fair like i have a very different definition of a hoe because i i think of a hoe

00:11:23.760 someone who's who who who sleeps around carelessly yeah that's you can consciously oh yeah yeah i think

00:11:30.080 i think someone who sleeps around consciously whether they've slept with 10 you know 20 people

00:11:34.240 whatever i mean after after a point it's like it's hard to consciously sleep with like 40 people but

00:11:38.960 you know that that's that's how i think of it so hoes to me have an energy it's a spiritual vibe

00:11:43.680 it's like tendencies it's whole tendencies no it's spiritual bro it's spiritual it's like a

00:11:48.400 spiritual vibe it's a sweaty vibe you just know well in tantra they exchange energy on so many different

00:11:53.040 levels with people and it's not classed as being a hoe like you are exchanging energy but for some people

00:12:00.640 if you're touching like i'm a tantric practitioner we like we get taught how to do certain things to

00:12:06.320 people and it's not but and you can give that service but would you then class me as a hoe like

00:12:11.360 i don't do that by the way but i mean for some tantric practitioners but it's not called our a

00:12:16.400 prostitute or a hoe you get what i mean it's very very very conscious and it's a massive exchange of

00:12:21.520 energy that can be you can manifest you can do something i think for women not for men i mean men

00:12:27.360 i don't sleep with god damn anything any holes ago why don't you do those services that you just said

00:12:34.880 that you um she writes books no i don't feel that i'm a space where i am able to give that to somebody

00:12:44.560 because for me i would i need to be really trusting of somebody to get to that point of intimacy to that

00:12:52.320 level because i as much as i'm very out there with my thoughts and opinions me exchanging energy

00:12:57.360 with you i understand the level of energy that i am able to give and so i can't just touch somebody

00:13:03.520 i know how to do it but i yeah you just don't i just don't choose to yeah i was going to say then

00:13:09.440 it means that in in a way because it's conscious you exactly you knowingly don't want to be exchanging

00:13:15.600 energy with so many people so in a way it will take a certain type of person to do it would take

00:13:21.120 it take a hoe to do that shit exactly well i was getting out my brother you got it all right i got

00:13:26.240 you bro how many how many bodies is too many bodies too what's a hoe how many i think i excuse

00:13:33.280 my friends i think it's a little bit different because i'm like i'm i'm a person that doesn't take

00:13:38.320 explanations for anything but when it comes to my friends i'll be like but you can tell my friends

00:13:44.880 they're at home they've slept over 15 people i'll be like you're at home but i love you okay 15.

00:13:50.800 yeah i think if if you're like if you're at my age 25 and you've slept over 15 then it's like

00:14:00.720 you must have gone and gone through a dark path something must have happened in your life

00:14:04.880 you've been street in absolutely and back to what you were saying i do think people nowadays don't

00:14:10.800 think sex is like a big deal like it is a big deal like for me to especially for a woman like for me

00:14:16.640 to let someone inside of me that is literally so personal that is so like that should only be

00:14:23.760 shared with someone i genuinely really care about you guys can come out and wash their dick and they're

00:14:28.640 fine right like actually letting someone inside us it's the same as like you're becoming a part of me

00:14:33.600 basically yeah for that period of time not period of time forever dna yes when a man goes inside of

00:14:38.640 you their soul connects dna is inside you for life you're you're connected to that person on a soul

00:14:44.400 level it's not just oh yeah i can you can do lots of rituals to try and get rid of that but at the

00:14:49.360 same time that's why girls that do sleep around you can bet what do you what do you mean their dna is

00:14:55.600 like well when somebody comes inside you to be graphic like that's okay just use condoms then

00:15:03.280 yeah i get that but i mean at the same time not everybody is using condoms that's why there's so

00:15:07.600 many condoms like someone's body is actually entering yours no i'm just saying in terms of the dna thing

00:15:12.720 for the rest of your life on an energetic level on an energetic level still exchanging energy with

00:15:19.200 somebody so it's like yeah you can wrap it up but i mean energy isn't just inside this physical thing

00:15:24.400 yeah just trying around all right what about you dnava ho is not really a word that's in my

00:15:30.240 vocabulary like that therefore i would say using understanding that whore i'll tell you

00:15:43.520 is the female version of a simp where you are eaten and you don't eat that's it which means that if

00:15:51.280 you're a woman yeah and you're being used by men because you are insecure because that's when you're

00:15:56.640 going to be likely to be labeled a hoe you know i'm saying whereas i believe in sexual freedom which

00:16:01.360 means that you shouldn't be labeled anything for wanting to be with a man i have my needs you think

00:16:06.560 because i don't have a husband i can't have sex please give me a number i don't have a number it depends

00:16:12.640 it depends it depends like for example i know women that slept with five men that'd be like actually

00:16:17.360 do you know what you're kind of loose but then i know that people that slept with five men that

00:16:20.560 actually i'm like do you know what i understand what you did it is okay okay okay okay okay okay

00:16:25.520 all right five a hoe or not a hoe yes please yes it depends on the person okay okay okay 50.

00:16:31.840 you sound like my teacher like please 50. is a girl that slept with 50 people a hoe i think she's maybe damaged

00:16:39.920 okay okay okay okay so so let's let's let's let's use the word okay okay let's use the word damaged

00:16:47.920 and everyone else this means how damaged damaged is she damaged at 10. depends on her intentions okay so

00:16:56.960 maybe how maybe not 15 is she damaged depends on her intentions okay when does it switch to yes

00:17:02.160 so when she's letting men go 20 is she damaged yeah yeah hmm depends on her intentions okay 30 is she damaged

00:17:12.480 i just want to know when it switches how old um let's say 30 by 30. under what conditions how many were

00:17:18.560 boyfriends okay you know what for shits and giggles let's say half were boyfriends then no well if she was

00:17:28.320 having threesomes with her boyfriend how does that change because if you have an open if you're in

00:17:32.720 a relationship for a long long time maybe you want to open that i just i i think i think anyone

00:17:40.800 that does an open relationship that like that's hopefully i don't mean i don't mean all i'm hearing

00:17:44.880 is just mad defending like bare excuses i don't mean i believe in sexual liberation it doesn't mean

00:17:51.200 that you need to be labeled all it means is how you feel about the action that you're doing so i don't

00:17:55.760 like it when it's but i don't think there's anything liberating for sex with women there is a woman a

00:18:01.120 woman has needs you really think that woman doesn't want to have sex but you can get your needs met by

00:18:06.960 a boyfriend or a husband yeah and that's what i'm saying so sex is not really what your body is not

00:18:11.760 the amount how is it liberating to sleep around and not call someone a hug no it is liberating to be

00:18:16.800 able to choose to have sex you know when have we ever not been able to choose listen and that's what i'm

00:18:23.360 saying no because this is the thing as a woman if you are not able to make a choice yeah based on

00:18:31.600 who you are and what you want then you are more likely to be damaged because your decision making

00:18:36.000 is skewed if you don't want to be having sex with men but you you're using sex as a way to validate

00:18:40.800 your beauty to validate that you are somebody that is desirable then that is damaged and a lot of

00:18:45.680 women in that situation some girls just i think they just enjoy sex literally some girls got crazy

00:18:51.600 sex drive some don't some are damaged but why can't you do that with one person that knows exactly

00:18:57.040 in and out what you like because the problem is finding the person that's compatible you're lucky

00:19:01.440 that you found somebody so young and you're working out i'm going to agree with on a level

00:19:07.200 and say like what what is this is what i don't get about this space what is the obsession with like

00:19:11.520 judging other people's sexual partners and like what they do i don't understand how a grown man would

00:19:16.160 sit down and be like because we have children with this many people let me tell you let me ask you a

00:19:20.400 question because we have children to raise and if i have five girls i do not want somebody who is

00:19:26.880 sexually liberated to teach my young female children to grow up in a world that they feel like they can

00:19:35.600 just go around and sleep around and they're not gonna have no and they're not gonna have no

00:19:39.440 and ain't gonna have no repercussions now no one's saying that you can't go out and sleep with whoever

00:19:44.480 you want to no one's saying that but what we're saying is that comes with repercussions and

00:19:49.520 consequences and the consequences are if you're looking for a husband you're going to be deemed

00:19:54.560 less valuable to some guys yeah what were you gonna say so forget what i was gonna say i just

00:20:01.520 want to respond to what he says i think um when you um when the problem is that now social media other

00:20:09.680 women people that have been sexually liberated or whatever you want to call it um they say you know

00:20:15.200 just do what you want to be just be free and i think i mean i'm as a woman i can't judge other

00:20:20.400 women like do your thing it doesn't affect me right it's not that i'm gonna marry you but i think um

00:20:25.680 the one thing that lacks in our society right now is the fact that there is no education for

00:20:31.120 consequences of what actually happens if you sleep with 20 50 because i know girls personally and i don't

00:20:37.920 know three four five ten girls i know multiple girls that at my age have body counts of over a

00:20:44.240 hundred over a hundred what's the consequences from that because you can catch an std sleeping one

00:20:54.080 person and you can catch an std sleeping a hundred no i'm not talking std my question is is what is the

00:21:00.000 consequence the fact that you can't paragon for example yeah yeah it's mental you lose the

00:21:05.920 you start comparing every man that you slept with and no one is ever enough and i know that from my

00:21:11.600 friends yeah because you may find someone for example our relationship someone might look at it

00:21:17.120 it's not perfect whatever but for me it's perfect i can easily say that it's perfect i mean you're both

00:21:23.200 like fitness models so i think you two are different but but the thing is we did that next to you like

00:21:28.800 literally besides each other yeah so the way i started the way that you started was literally

00:21:34.080 yeah but you're growing up no no i'm not i'm not he's a professional boxer but he's he knows what

00:21:40.320 he's doing yeah but what i was what i was saying is like there's always going to be something right

00:21:46.080 the fact that he freaking drops his towel on the floor when he comes out the bathtub that pisses me the

00:21:51.520 fuck off he literally like takes over the whole bed the fact that you know there's certain things

00:22:00.400 you're always going to not like about a person there's always little uh you know icks but nowadays

00:22:05.040 women's lists of icks are ridiculous and then you look at your partner that you're with at the moment and

00:22:11.440 i and i see that through some of my friends and they'll say oh he's missing this and yeah and then

00:22:16.640 they'll see that in someone they may be working with or they meet in a club or whatever and all

00:22:22.080 of a sudden it's like oh he fulfills that 20 or that 10 and all of a sudden they're missing out and

00:22:27.760 then they go into that relationship and they find out actually but then they went into that one and

00:22:32.560 it's that one's missing they mess up a good thing because they're looking for the one thing that that

00:22:36.560 guy didn't have instead of just working with what they got basically yeah i would also i would also i

00:22:43.120 i think i would argue that a lot of the women that sleep around aren't necessarily unable to pair

00:22:50.080 bond i think they because in my experience they do want relationships have that deeper connection with

00:22:55.840 someone so but they can't because they've slept with too many people so i don't i think it's like um

00:23:01.600 i don't think girls girls girls girls want to be with like the best that they can do basically and so

00:23:07.600 i'm definitely punching and and so the the thing is like the more men that a woman slept with the

00:23:14.480 less likely he is the best that she can do but but like look at i mean there's times where like

00:23:21.680 and and then it's like she can't do as well because you know he'll he'll find out about three guys she

00:23:26.480 slept with they'll be like i have that wife in that one i'm good it's true but that's what i think it is i

00:23:35.200 think that the standards get higher and i don't think that's necessarily a bad thing but obviously

00:23:38.800 we're in this awkward situation now where like you know that that competition is getting a bit

00:23:42.720 unreachable for most dudes um but yeah but i i do think like this conversation is weird because it's

00:23:49.120 both like spiritual and like reality so in reality the fact is we have there's objective levels right

00:23:55.040 like you know there are objective standards between what you want a man is willing to invest in for

00:23:59.200 long-term relationship on the other side you should be able to kind of express yourself really and not

00:24:03.920 not be judged in that way because i don't think every time someone sleeps around it's necessarily

00:24:07.760 because they're this or you need to kind of have some traditional conservative opinion on oh she's

00:24:11.760 this or that i know a lot of women who can have casual relationships and they know the boundaries and

00:24:16.160 i know a lot of people who tell themselves they can have casual relationships without actually looking

00:24:19.680 for something deeper and there's women who are doing that but they're actually damaged there's women who

00:24:24.080 are kind of virgins but they're deeply traumatized you know it's not the world isn't that simple i think

00:24:29.120 that nuance needs to be there of like i agree so slapping things on people you're right bro but how

00:24:34.800 do we create a filter to find out who's who you get to know let me tell you how because the world has

00:24:40.800 done it for time every with anywhere else in our lives other than relationships everybody follows the

00:24:45.840 same rules credit score as soon as you go to get a loan what's the first thing you think they do they

00:24:49.520 look at your history when you go to get a job what's the first thing they look at your history when you

00:24:53.520 get arrested and you make a crime what's the first thing they look at so how do you find their history

00:24:57.440 handles how do you have to yo yo nowadays it's on your social media it's everywhere i just go on

00:25:03.360 facebook like that's the problem like i think that one of the best industries i think one of the best

00:25:08.480 industries like i think i think one of the wait i think one of the best industries going forward is

00:25:13.040 going to be um erasing women's sexual past online i think that's going to be like you want to be rich

00:25:19.520 that thirst traps you were like um thirst traps you were posted when you were 18 it's it it's a shame

00:25:24.960 for you in a way because you're paid to do it but it's like i could see how that would no like there's

00:25:30.320 definitely times where like i definitely don't do anything extreme now it's more like well actually

00:25:36.960 i'm like quite invested in someone at the minute so i'm not talking to any guys but um it is some things

00:25:43.760 i have posted i know they're going to come back to like bite me in the ass one day and i do

00:25:48.880 really regret that so yeah i can see what you're saying yeah and i think people would pay thousands

00:25:54.800 of dollars to get some of that like you twerking at i've literally been sent like 2k from one guy

00:26:01.120 just for conversing and like talking and like talking i was like oh i have an insecurity about

00:26:06.160 my nose he was like oh let me send you the money for it and i didn't send any news or like yeah

00:26:11.360 that's crazy you know can i um okay you go and then donald i can go go ahead can i just say this

00:26:17.680 may sound a little bit barbaric but i say this to all my friends and they hate me for it he's probably

00:26:21.920 gonna tell me off later but like i feel like um there is certain like some people are just better

00:26:27.680 than others like you can just some people will just you know whether that's looks or the decisions

00:26:33.520 they make and it doesn't mean that every girl that has slept with you know loads and loads of guys

00:26:38.160 is traumatized or hurt or you know she's trying to forget something sometimes it just means that

00:26:44.720 she makes really bad decisions and i mean still a hoe though exactly that's what i'm saying so that

00:26:48.720 doesn't mean that she makes bad decisions and that just she's a hoe that makes bad decisions because

00:26:52.160 there's hoes that make good decisions oh my days like yeah but the word the word is kind of disrespectful

00:26:57.280 this is so stressful because what these what these like i'm sorry baby you know i love you

00:27:02.160 how else would you describe it you gotta use a word to describe it

00:27:15.680 i'll just say she gets around i don't know i've kind of she does i think i've kind of reached this

00:27:20.400 point of like avoiding being unnecessarily disrespectful so so so for me and i think

00:27:26.400 this happens a lot in this space of like people get so obsessed with this conservative viewpoint of

00:27:30.240 having to judge people and i think people get a kick out of being like you slept with three people

00:27:34.800 four years ago so you are bam or if you don't do this then you aren't good enough for these standards

00:27:40.000 xyz and i get that i'm that is not wrong at all but i think eventually and i had a bad hinge day i

00:27:46.160 learned this like yesterday yeah well i went off on her about like we're talking and then she was

00:27:51.440 obviously a feminist and then we had that feminist conversation and she just first date i do i filter

00:27:56.720 okay if you if you have any of those like you know those like oh men are stupid or my brother's

00:28:04.000 dumb because he wants to be in finance he's supporting the patriarchy i was like oh right

00:28:06.800 so you're feminist so what would you say if people thought you were like an arsehole that that kind

00:28:10.160 of conversation yeah um and i can afford to do that but essentially i got kind of reverse traumatized

00:28:14.960 because she basically didn't say anything and she was very intelligent went to a top uni in london

00:28:18.880 and i kind of realized that traumatized me i was like well she she really didn't talk she didn't like

00:28:23.120 normally they you know the delusions come out and it's like this that and i kind of realized that

00:28:27.920 was just unnecessarily mean i guess like you know even if she didn't meet any standards or she had

00:28:34.320 any silly ideas about being you know sexually liberated or or how many people she slept with

00:28:38.560 you didn't i didn't really need to do that like you know i could have seen the best in her and assumed

00:28:44.000 she was a decent person who wants a meaningful relationship which i think 99 of people are

00:28:47.760 but instead i went with the red pool stuff and you know it you know so so that's why i'm on this like

00:28:54.800 do we have to call each other hoes could you just be like learn better language there's a difference

00:29:00.560 she going up to a random girl you don't know and calling her a hoe and describing yeah obviously in

00:29:06.960 person like obviously in person but sometimes even in a group dynamic like i think i think we all know

00:29:12.720 what that is without having to be like because we all know hoes are derogatory it's it's not respectful

00:29:16.640 time isn't it that's that's why you wouldn't say it to someone in person but i'm just saying like

00:29:20.160 we never have this conversation about like simps like i was like yeah and so it's like if i i don't

00:29:29.520 think it's derogatory to call a man a simp no it's not and i would do it i don't think i think it is i

00:29:34.320 think that's worse than calling someone that's terrible that's you like that's you just like

00:29:38.720 burning like putting your finger in the skull but it's like if you call a man a simp he might stop simping

00:29:44.800 if you call a girl a hoe he will not he will feel shameful simps don't do that

00:29:51.120 no i think sometimes like that's how a lot of guys in the red pill space get started

00:29:55.760 they call it yeah most guys i think i think most guys have been taken advantage of by a girl they

00:30:01.280 were simping for at some point absolutely i can name my hundreds yeah i know i know i know i know a

00:30:08.640 a list of people that are simping as hard as they possibly can oh yeah i know a lot of my sisters

00:30:14.320 that are simping but if you as the boys come together and say you know hey stop simping you're

00:30:19.520 simping hey bro the girls like if you start getting called a hoe you might do it less but not really

00:30:24.640 you do what you want more of a like a it has a more of a permanent kind of stamp like no no i would

00:30:30.240 say ho or something yeah but you know we all know that if you call someone like a ho you can't be

00:30:37.280 like oh you've changed i don't mean to call you out but then you come in and the first thing you said

00:30:43.680 like that's a fun term fun time to say i do i wouldn't allow my daughter to call herself a ho in a

00:30:50.560 my daughter's 18 and there's no way i would be like oh yay you're a ho because it's fun you might not

00:30:56.800 hear her but she's probably doing it no she's what hear her having sex she's having no no no not that

00:31:00.880 no i didn't mean that i mean just like using the term if you saw my daughter remember though you know

00:31:06.080 she's not but it's like i wouldn't as a mother to a girl be like oh this is a fun term if there's if

00:31:12.960 it was a fun term i would be okay with using it but it's not a fun term no it's the same thing i'm

00:31:21.760 just a fan of being honest and like simps are simps hoes are hoes i'm not going to change the

00:31:25.920 language i honestly think it does what i've noticed about women is that the second they want to

00:31:32.800 this another woman so in your own world forget men for a second when another woman wants to degrade

00:31:38.480 another woman what's the first thing they call her you're a hoe you're a slag you're this you're

00:31:43.840 that because they know within their own group that is not the category they want to be in you're not

00:31:48.640 going to get offended like if someone calls me a or ignorant or something yeah all right cool but

00:31:53.360 if someone calls me a slag also and i'll be like get your facts straight i do think so technically

00:32:00.160 if you slept with more than one person someone can say you're a slag sorry you're saying i do think that

00:32:04.800 it does just depend on the person like i have friends that like they're 19 their body count is like

00:32:10.640 over 100 yeah and they're proud hoes like they literally call themselves how they call themselves a

00:32:18.240 like they call themselves like that's what i said about the lack of like that's just yeah

00:32:25.520 like what she was saying though i do think some of my friends are like they have trauma and they

00:32:31.200 are damaged in a way where like they don't under that's the only way they can seek validation is

00:32:36.320 from having sex with men it's very unhealthy but and it's very sad if they were if they were like

00:32:42.560 taught from a young i'm not saying young young but like from if they were maybe given the facts about

00:32:47.520 things like we spoke about like parabonding or the the likelihood of divorce and the likelihood of

00:32:53.280 not finding someone or one million percent do you not think that they would actually okay fair enough

00:32:57.440 i fucked up in the past but you know what i mean statistically how many people are growing up in

00:33:02.880 one parent families where they're not taught that dynamic of two-parent households so they're not

00:33:07.200 taught how to i'm just saying i'm just talking generalization i'm not talking personally um if like

00:33:15.600 it takes that dynamic to you have an anomaly no i don't i just don't buy it like when the girls are

00:33:24.240 like oh i didn't know i had no idea like if you didn't know then your first reaction when a girl

00:33:28.960 pisses you off wouldn't be to call her a slut like i think innately we we know i don't know if i think

00:33:33.920 we know this from what your parents might not teach you these kind of it comes from a lot of things the

00:33:40.080 people that are i think the women are blurring the line of the word hoes are the women are in between

00:33:45.040 being a hoe and being married and that space in between there is a dangerous space for women to be

00:33:51.040 because the whole hoes like real hoes like for real that know they're coming and smashing everybody

00:33:56.160 in the room they don't give a and they're like you said they're proud hoes yeah hold on let me finish

00:34:01.200 and they'll let you know that they're a hoe and they'll make it clear that we hoes and we are here

00:34:05.840 twerking and then the girls who are married like you at the other end of the spectrum have

00:34:10.080 a different perspective the women in the middle that are single trying to get out of the whole

00:34:14.160 phase trying to get out of the whole section that's why they blur the line of like oh i'm not

00:34:18.240 a hoe i'm just dating oh no this is just my phase this is my tendency i think i think it's a mating

00:34:23.520 strategy though like i think it's just like the top like women fight for the top 20 of men 5 of

00:34:29.280 whatever it is 10 of men's attention and i think like there's a group of women that know they can't

00:34:34.160 get their attention any other way it's like either they're too far gone so there's no way they're

00:34:38.720 gonna wife them so you know what i'll just i'll just signal easy sex easy sex easy sex and i'll get

00:34:45.120 their attention and that goes down that goes down to insecurities that goes into self-esteem i don't

00:34:50.400 even think it's self-esteem i think like the world will just let you know real quick where you're at

00:34:55.200 i think i think it's like like no i think it's girls that are punching that's true it's like you know you

00:35:01.200 might girls i mean how many how i mean britney renner right yeah do you know what it is no no she's so

00:35:11.520 far gone that no no guy's gonna wife her right that's what i'm saying but like she's so far gone

00:35:19.200 wait wait wait so yes yes i can um so britney renner um she's uh she's no she's a publico um so basically

00:35:27.600 she's just been with a lot of like athletes rappers entertainers like that's she's like known for

00:35:33.120 sleeping with a lot of people in the industry so much so she wrote a book yeah and like she didn't

00:35:38.400 use any of their names but people kind of put together who they were and then she also like

00:35:42.320 posted videos about like how to catch a baby off of an nba player like they're the and you know

00:35:49.040 you know what is sad about like public figures like this like no hate do what you want to do

00:35:54.000 etc but i remember literally being in secondary school like 15 14 years old and like my friends

00:36:00.720 would get up her videos on instagram and they'd be like oh see so like it is fine that my body count

00:36:06.160 is this and it is fine that i've had sex with this many people like i don't care but sex is being so

00:36:11.440 devalued in today's society society sorry but yeah like i don't think it should be praised to be a ho i

00:36:19.840 think yeah if you want to be sexually free be sexually free you're gonna find as many of you

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JustPearlyThings - October 14, 2023

She Gets DISGRACED For Claiming To Be Virgin while Acting as a Whore

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