JustPearlyThings - She Gets FINISHED For Giving Women Wrong Advice on How To Get Men

00:00:00.240 like there's this guy the guy that i'm talking to at the minute like i literally just got back from

00:00:04.400 portugal to see him and like i can tell like i feel like he would be ready to like kind of settle

00:00:10.400 down but if i met him when he was like 22 there is no way like i can i'm the right like i feel

00:00:16.480 like me and him have amazing amazing chemistry like it's all perfect like best time i've ever

00:00:21.520 had with someone but at 22 he's good looking he's six foot four like he's talented he's ambitious

00:00:28.320 like there's no way he would have just wanted to like in my mind i don't think he would have wanted

00:00:33.680 to like settle down with anyone at that point because he has like the world at his fingertips

00:00:37.840 and that's what women don't i don't think modern women understand that another thing people never

00:00:43.040 talk about is that younger men go quite well with older women yes there you go no she said young

00:00:51.040 young women all the men synergize well with younger women and you said the opposite yeah i'm saying

00:00:55.680 younger men also synergize with older women because if you're someone who likes casual

00:00:59.200 relationships right older women are great less stress i see all these guys chasing these young

00:01:03.600 girls and i'm looking at them like you're not you don't want a long-term relationship anyway

00:01:06.640 you're going to get stressed out she needs attention every five seconds there's going to be all this

00:01:10.080 drama i think we're talking about relationships here we're not talking about just flings yeah that's

00:01:13.760 that's for fun yeah i'm talking about for fun yeah yeah forget that it's different but i thought

00:01:18.000 at that point you might as well both be young like okay let's make an agreement i didn't know

00:01:22.960 you're basing relationships on just like having children in these times you're basically you're

00:01:27.760 wanting these people to have children and then be together forever it is about having children

00:01:35.520 why else would a man get married if he doesn't get kids out okay and this is what i'm saying

00:01:39.760 what if they had children already then why would he get married in 2022 yeah no i don't want marriage

00:01:45.120 if we're making about children if we were making about children then i would say just pick somebody

00:01:51.600 that is genetically fit somebody that is somewhat emotionally healed and have a baby with them

00:01:57.120 and then let them live their life you live your life you got a baby and together you can have a baby

00:02:02.240 baby why wouldn't you pick someone that just wasn't damaged like i know i know a guy that's dating

00:02:10.720 because everyone is i know i know most people have trouble i know at some level even if you've got

00:02:17.440 both heads i know like it's so simple there's two times there's two types there's two types listen

00:02:25.200 there's two types of relationships you're gonna get like i don't know why people are making it hard

00:02:29.040 you can either pick somebody who has the end result already and fit in or you can find somebody

00:02:34.720 and journey with them and if you have unfortunately and if you haven't made the decision to journey

00:02:40.320 with somebody in your teens you miss the boat the boat has already sailed listen if you've reached

00:02:48.880 a certain point if you reach a certain age because in other parts of the world they make it clear

00:02:53.440 if you're over 30 and you're unmarried without children in china is like 25. no actually in the

00:03:01.120 in the in the us it's like um they used to have a term i can't remember what it was not even

00:03:07.600 leftover it was like a maid is like 26. is that what it used to be yeah it's like uh there's some

00:03:14.080 i mean they wouldn't say that nowadays but but you're at leftover women over 35. that's it so just

00:03:18.880 accepted that if you've waited this long and you haven't got what you got you're gonna just take

00:03:22.800 what you're gonna get and if you're smart enough and you're young and you know that what your value

00:03:27.200 is make smart detroit smart decisions now that's all it is you just have to be real about it like

00:03:33.200 i'm at a certain age i haven't done certain things by this age this is my reality and that's just anything

00:03:39.200 do you think it's a bit weird to give women advice i'm not giving women no advice i'm giving women

00:03:43.920 advice on how to get men no he's just it's just saying what it is yeah like it's not an advice

00:03:49.600 like me saying the sky is blue is not me advising somebody that the sky is blue the sky if you get

00:03:54.560 very lonely there's simps out there that's anything for you you'll never be lonely let me let me just

00:03:59.360 jump in fast wait wait wait wait wait like you know dating app data by 30 50 of your options are gone

00:04:10.560 basically 30 like the the men that were attracted to you at like at 20 50 percent gone okay i don't

00:04:17.600 let me let me jump in i'm not i'm not even i'm not talking about you wait wait wait

00:04:25.360 and so you can't go to men and say you should want this you should want this they don't want it

00:04:29.520 and if you weren't smart enough to get with a guy in your early 20s it is what it is you're

00:04:33.440 probably not going to get the men you want and any man that wants you is probably going to be a simp

00:04:37.200 sorry it is what it is and it's okay and as a man and remember this and as a man i am more likely

00:04:45.600 to get the woman i actually choose and want if we're not exceptions to the rule where you kind of

00:04:51.120 you know you get girls early at an older age i have to work my way up to a status to then pick

00:04:57.040 a woman i want some dudes are lucky we got we got the the luck of the draw looking good being

00:05:02.080 such symmetrical being you know appealing to women in my in our age but for majority of men

00:05:07.280 they have to work their ass off to get to the point to get the woman they want what were you

00:05:11.440 gonna let him go no i was gonna say that on the topic what you were saying about how we're giving

00:05:16.240 advice to women i was going to give the advice to men and i do think like that's something that's

00:05:20.720 missed out quite a lot in these conversations nowadays which is young guys if you plan ahead and

00:05:27.520 you want to have a focus and a vision for yourself then that's probably a good time that if you do

00:05:33.120 have something around you that's actually right and pushing you forward in the right direction

00:05:37.840 maybe consider that more than you would when you most of your boys would that just jump onto the

00:05:42.080 next thing because i feel like that kind of creates a pattern as well within guys and i don't

00:05:45.920 think that's talked about i would say like to me a lot of these redpool guys they just sound like

00:05:50.240 they bitch a lot because it's kind of like dude it's in your power in it like oh women don't do this

00:05:54.720 then find someone who doesn't it it's really that simple it's really it's not that hard i like

00:05:59.040 him again just go find someone like like i don't i don't walk around the club and then complain that

00:06:03.360 like oh these guys are doing this yeah i'm not a fan of it alex half of red pill is self-improvement

00:06:09.200 that's like half of it yeah there's so it feels a lot like complaining there's so many yeah because

00:06:14.160 women aren't used to being used to being complained about ever like i'm sorry but women complain about men

00:06:20.640 all the time but all the time so so if women have to hear what men have to say and they don't like

00:06:25.920 it sorry i don't really feel bad for you like men have been hearing this for years i don't want no

00:06:31.280 script but we have a lot of that we have that's why i fucked your bitch you fat motherfucker what what

00:06:38.000 we have a lot of male friends that um would go through a long stage of the whole phase and then

00:06:43.680 they will realize it's actually not fun the only reason that it's fun is because i can actually go back

00:06:48.000 to my boys and say yo guess who i slept with they didn't actually enjoy it that much they

00:06:53.040 actually would rather settle down it's all about your catalog bruv yeah that's what i was gonna

00:07:12.240 say i think guys want a girl to settle down with at the end but i i know some guys that are very happy

00:07:17.520 with their rotation put it this way like one thing i've noticed as well yeah like um if you

00:07:23.040 like bump into like what they would call a pretty hoe and she sees she sees the girls that you slept

00:07:29.600 with before and she doesn't feel like they're on your level you don't get access to that hoe and i've

00:07:34.000 seen that happen bare times oh you said with her you think you can come to me yeah you look desperate

00:07:38.400 now can i say something can i just i i think i i think it's my responsibility as a woman to praise good

00:07:44.560 behavior okay when i see it in a man nemesis no i have issues with you but i'll say something if men

00:07:51.600 were thinking more along the lines of these two where they say actually sex is not really what

00:07:56.640 motivates me towards a woman men would have much better luck sense needs to go out the window more

00:08:02.160 wait let me caveat what i said all right so you like intellect i only filtered women out sexually

00:08:09.520 between ages of like 19 18 and like 26. it's only something i've recently stopped doing because i

00:08:16.080 have things are working out very well right now and i no longer have the need to prioritize that

00:08:22.640 certain aspect of relationship you know you reach a certain age so i do think it's it's phases right

00:08:27.680 a young dude yeah dude do it figure it out but you will get bored yes so we're still okay okay guys

00:08:34.000 nah i do not agree with that that's very simpish bro i do not agree with that no no no no no no

00:08:39.920 explain to me because bro a man will go through his whole life build his career and old dudes why

00:08:44.240 do they call old dudes pervs because that's what they're thinking about right because they're still

00:08:48.560 at it granddad is still okay but that's a sex addiction it's not desperate it's not no

00:08:53.520 that's it listen you're not gonna try and deny my my sexual hormones as a male i am i'm an alpha i am

00:09:04.000 a hunter and that will never ever die all right then no no let's be real let's be real let's be real

00:09:13.840 that's why that's why when you said that you lost your virginity in uni it was a shock over the bench

00:09:18.560 because most men are expected to be hunting from as soon as they hit their rights rights of passage

00:09:23.920 your balls dropped yet your voice dropped yet because that's what we know like let's not take

00:09:28.560 that away from us being men that's why women like men that are like that that's why if you was getting

00:09:35.040 sex during that age group you know what type of dude you had to be you had to be confident you had to

00:09:40.640 have style you have these are things that create us as status do you see what i'm saying no she was smart

00:09:47.520 enough to see his project trajectory she knew that this guy's fit he does what i like i'm a pick i'm

00:09:55.120 a choose she made a wise decision and he made a wise decision by recognizing that he needs to value

00:10:00.000 himself but i also like i said i was seven years old when i broke up with my first boyfriend because

00:10:04.400 he had bad grades yeah and i literally said all right if you're gonna have bad grades you're not

00:10:07.440 gonna go to you you're not gonna have a good job you're not gonna take care of my kids at seven

00:10:10.480 years but i'm gonna go back but i understand what you're saying but to close my point is what what

00:10:15.520 what makes what what shows that she's a different kind of woman is that she was willing to fight

00:10:20.000 for it because like she said she broke he broke up with her three times okay but but modern women

00:10:26.480 just like we was here on the other day like just the other day should modern women compete for men

00:10:30.640 what was it unanimous unanimous answer no no no no no no that's what's it what was it it was it was

00:10:38.560 we asked if modern women should compete for a man and most women said no i would not compete for a

00:10:43.200 man i said hell yeah isn't it natural competition like isn't it just a natural sorry isn't it just a

00:10:49.040 natural thing that you automatically no but i mean like without that would be the center of his

00:10:53.440 no i mean you can be in competition and you never know you're on competition that's what i was about

00:10:57.360 to say without them like actively subconsciously we're always in competition because if we see

00:11:03.280 if we walk into a room as a group of girls and we see a guy and he is the hot one we're automatically

00:11:09.600 hoping that well not hoping but we would have made the most effort to be there yeah well of course but

00:11:14.640 i mean we're talking about women um and so yeah no i think subconsciously naturally women compete

00:11:21.040 and i think as a as a woman if you're not like willing to like fight for your man and like

00:11:26.960 actually put in the effort to like nurture that relationship and make it really special

00:11:31.840 like that's not the one like i think a lot of modern women nowadays they want to just sit on their ass

00:11:38.080 not do anything like and they expect this guy to make like fucking eight figures and like

00:11:44.880 be on his hands and knees for her doing everything that like doing something that i always say is

00:11:51.520 like you know everyone um that will we live in a culture where it's very replaceable and it's like

00:11:57.040 oh uh if he can't have me at my worst he can't have me he shouldn't have me at my best so what

00:12:02.240 you're gonna be a moody bitch all year round and then all of a sudden he's gonna like just wait for

00:12:06.640 that one day you're in a good mood to and a lot of modern women place so much value on money and

00:12:12.880 status money and status isn't going to emotionally fulfill you and make you happy you need to find

00:12:17.840 someone who has that ambition that drive to make their self better to make their self like someone

00:12:22.320 with talent someone with like i don't know it's not all about money it's like not impressive

00:12:26.800 so please don't cut the other guests off go ahead no i was just saying that i my eggs and over 150

00:12:42.560 and it wasn't loving it was at moments and i put all the i was trying to be that the nine years

00:12:48.880 no that was after the nine years we were both in the military together me and my son's dad

00:12:54.160 um and so i met him in iraq and so my point was that like that money thing it doesn't make you happy it

00:13:06.960 was the most miserable relationship for me personally that i've ever been in like yeah we have money but

00:13:14.160 are we happy together no so like it's like for me that that isn't like the ultimate goal of like

00:13:19.680 i call them dudes finances that's why he wasn't financing me though because i paid all my own

00:13:24.160 bills i did everything myself and i always have done so it's not like he was financing me it was just

00:13:29.920 he looked like i sat like in it like i went to porsche and i drove out with the nissan micro because

00:13:35.920 the package the outside of it wasn't what the inside was saying so for me it isn't the you know you can

00:13:42.800 no i also wanted to add on to it quickly because back to that quickly the british renner thing i

00:13:48.960 felt like loads of modern day women they'll see instagram girls be getting birkin bags and assume

00:13:55.600 that's value but i want to look at one situation like there's a rapper called lil baby and he had

00:14:02.400 a baby mama called jada wader and he gave a porn star that he cheated on his girlfriend with 15 000

00:14:09.120 dollars so that's the same amount of money you can get a birkin bag with so you need to ask yourself

00:14:13.920 what's the value of a birkin because to us people that are regular joes of course you see a 15 grand

00:14:19.440 bag and think i want that but if the mistress is also getting the value of that bag that's equivalent

00:14:25.360 to both guys taking me on a date to i don't know gaucho and the beat but she's cheating on me with

00:14:30.640 to gauchos so the truth is money is not i feel like money to an extent does build a relationship in

00:14:37.680 terms of like you know providing and stuff but there's morals there's emotional support there's

00:14:42.880 so much things like i feel like people have just lost morals nowadays yeah how how old are you 19

00:14:51.040 yeah um at some point like women aren't going to date a bum for so long like i think this sounds

00:14:59.040 nice but like at some point there's a minimum amount of money yeah yeah i'm saying there's a

00:15:03.200 have a minimum yeah yeah like yeah we don't need them to like make six figures or anything like

00:15:08.160 that but it's like i i just think i just think to say that money isn't important at all is kind

00:15:12.880 of like no no i didn't say that i feel like like i said to a certain extent like you need to provide

00:15:18.560 and play your role as a man but i feel like girls don't even like 50k 80k is good but girls one million

00:15:26.480 figure like rap like half of these high value men aren't even good men like well and you wouldn't

00:15:31.520 and a lot of them like it's those you wouldn't be happy in those circles it's not good like if you're

00:15:36.800 with a guy that's so out of your league like the other girls are going to be sizing you up and trying

00:15:41.120 to steal your man yeah and when you get old he's leaving you yeah because your eggs are old um but okay

00:15:48.880 guys i'm tired so i'm gonna wrap this up um i'm gonna read super chats real quick and then we're

00:15:54.000 gonna do final thoughts um guys like the video um thank you for the super chats they're all going

00:16:00.400 towards blessings monopod um whoa jezek look at that alpha hunter who doesn't have the balls to

00:16:05.760 look into the eyes when talking give me a break um sean morris denelva is unhinged and intellectually

00:16:11.680 bankrupt um janace i like the merry dude i find it funny that he's in the middle of two extremes the

00:16:17.680 simp on his right right and the pimp on his left black is black is panther alex

00:16:23.840 and denelva look great together the simp and the 304 the classic tale of simping simping groveling

00:16:29.040 and desperation alex bro tone down the simping um mo blizz pearl let's get it right um let's get

00:16:37.040 it right men are 304s but not 304 makers sebastian from what i have heard it seems like a winning male

00:16:42.720 strategy is wholesome grooming as early as legally possible also self growth and game um whoa jensky

00:16:48.960 let's hear you struggle struggle to pronounce my name again i'm sorry i'm sorry um elite gamer any

00:16:56.560 self-respecting man would only wife up a girl who had a history of long-term relationships any girl who

00:17:00.880 says i needed to heal or find myself has been ran through and you're going to fail miserably in a

00:17:04.880 marriage um i think i read the rest also guys um my manager sent me the new members that joined the

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00:17:30.800 um okay final thoughts this way go around and then do second row um i feel like

00:17:37.280 i feel like women need to be real with themselves and i feel like they need to take accountability

00:17:45.200 i feel like in terms of men i feel like men just need to man man up but that's pretty much all i have

00:17:52.800 to say um i think that women like well i'm generalizing but i think most modern day women need

00:18:02.960 to stop thinking of their self as the prize like you should both be a prize to each other like you

00:18:08.880 should both be excited about each other just as much as like one another so yeah i think people need

00:18:17.120 to stop placing so much value on their self when they're not actually even emotionally like that

00:18:23.440 depth full if you get what i'm saying yeah i don't have said enough i feel um thanks for having me

00:18:32.960 i would just say put less value on not value but don't be as greedy i think a lot of women

00:18:42.880 and men i guess women will want the six uh value six figure man whatever but um at the end of the

00:18:50.880 day if you're picking someone like that in his 30s he's going to feel like he's got the right to

00:18:54.640 cheat on you so you're better off in um in investing in someone and seeing someone's potential if you're

00:19:00.560 looking to find a husband if you want to be a side chick be a side chick yeah but thanks for having

00:19:06.400 me it's been a great time it's been a great time uh what do i have to say you know i think what we

00:19:18.240 need to kind of get rid of is like the whole mentality that we've kind of adapted of everyone

00:19:22.000 gets a trophy because the fact that people like women aren't able to admit to themselves that they're

00:19:27.920 competing with other women for the guys that they want guys need to be aware of that as well

00:19:33.680 and i think everyone just needs to know that in the workplace you're competing all against each

00:19:37.200 other at the end of the day too but um yeah if everyone just focuses on being the best not even

00:19:42.960 the best version of themselves but overdoing the next person i think we'll start going in a better

00:19:47.280 direction again i think i think people need to stop sugarcoating and say how it is

00:19:54.720 and if that is that and this is that if you're ho you're ho if you're sim you're simp and that's

00:20:00.720 that's how you know i'm saying that's how people need to learn man no one's gonna learn man like

00:20:05.280 as you're saying shaming that you shaming is useful like you need that so say how it is and stop

00:20:12.640 trying to be that person like oh yeah yeah nah nah nah like trying to be the soft person now like say how

00:20:19.120 it is this is reality especially in this generation now especially how the social media is and the

00:20:24.080 internet is just what's going on this you have to say how it is because people need to hear it

00:20:31.280 alex you wanna go um okay three parting points first point is uh we want to be wary of taking on

00:20:42.080 feminine behavior i think one i see a lot in the red pill community is constantly talking about the type of

00:20:46.160 women that you don't want which is kind of like reminds me of women who only talk about the bad

00:20:50.000 boys and xyz it's like bro if you don't like girls who only want a six foot guy eight figures guy and

00:20:55.360 you're not that guy then why is that why is that what you talk about in it two be pragmatic be a

00:21:00.320 man all you man way too much i'm sick of red pill now because i just hear complaining non-stop

00:21:07.120 big up the passport bros i rate those guys get to i was in spain

00:21:10.960 they're solution oriented yeah look man like me and people who get it just move actually guys um

00:21:17.040 follow austin holloman if you guys want to see um he moved from the u.s to brazil and he's having

00:21:22.880 living his best life those women are hot too so listen and if you're in the uk spain spain is down

00:21:30.320 the road malaga all this they still got a lot of traditional women in spain if you're looking for

00:21:34.640 wifey they have the right mindset you got no excuse to be bitching on online about women this and final

00:21:39.920 point would be listen as much as we all know the truth about you know promiscuity and this and that

00:21:45.440 i would hope you're not the kind of guy who gets off on like calling people hoes and you think that

00:21:49.120 does something we all know what it is bro so i would say try and remember to be nice in it because at

00:21:53.520 the end of the day you're still dealing with human beings and i think if we were just a bit more

00:21:56.800 respectful towards each other we might we might actually you know get on a bit better instead of

00:22:01.360 having this like you know divide i see now and i i was previously part of that's what i would say

00:22:06.640 okay um you guys may want to judge me for a bad decision that i made but that my bad decision

00:22:16.480 did something beautiful to me it allowed me to look back in hindsight and understand what actually

00:22:21.600 i did wrong and what other people should do better to not be in the situation that i was in so that is

00:22:25.920 simply pick somebody that likes you for who you are and is willing to support you and grow with you

00:22:31.680 boys and girls because you cannot just pick somebody for what you want you need what you need

00:22:36.080 and that's somebody that is loving and nurturing both ways you need a woman that supports you men

00:22:40.720 and women you need a man that supports you and that's it that's simple all right um what i'll say

00:22:47.120 is on my final thoughts is that there's been an inflation of hoism there's been an inflation of hoes

00:22:55.200 but there hasn't been a match of pimps to match that inflation of hoes get my pimps there's a

00:23:00.240 sympademic though there's a big sympademic yeah crazy sympademic which we're struggling from so

00:23:06.240 it's it's more deadly than covet exactly right so instead of instead of running from the disease

00:23:12.800 and trying to keep six feet away from it you can run to brazil and you know quarantine over there

00:23:18.640 if you want to go and quarantine elsewhere by all means but if you still got the balls to fight the

00:23:22.800 women that are in our in our ring right now bro like like i said there's been an increase of hoism

00:23:27.280 it needs to be an increase of pimpism to put these ladies in check to put them back on the

00:23:31.120 track of wanting to be wives because that's what pimps were there for to remind women this ain't cool

00:23:37.120 you don't want to be out here on like on this corner in the cold like like you know like the

00:23:41.360 statue of liberty you don't want to be standing outside all day so go and be a wife so if you need

00:23:45.600 help on how to be a pimp and you're struggling hold out my instagram and if you want to be

00:23:51.680 if you're three or four and you want to be a wife and if you think there's no coming back there

00:23:55.120 probably isn't however we're gonna try here at just pearly things at just pearly things you

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00:25:33.360 have a recruiter that's on the pregame show page i don't want to do it anymore but a little advice to

00:25:37.920 you if you're a guy and you do want to come on the show there's a lot of guys that want to come on the

00:25:41.120 best way to get on is to bring women um because again we have such a backlog of guys that want to

00:25:46.080 come on and it's a little bit harder to recruit women so if you want to come on i would say bring

00:25:49.520 women um thank you for the super chats oh we just got one more um get pussy let me read this before we

00:25:58.320 end uh poppy poop oh poopy puppy women can see their actually rate actual rating and think average to

00:26:05.840 below average men are beneath them they leave cheat or get bored and move on women hate settling down with

00:26:10.720 good men they know everyone is destined to work sleep and pass with a few things get over yourself

00:26:16.960 okay thank you guys for watching and we'll talk to you next time

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JustPearlyThings - October 15, 2023

She Gets FINISHED For Giving Women Wrong Advice on How To Get Men

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