JustPearlyThings - November 15, 2023


She Gets REALLY UPSET with Pearl For Calling Her Average


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Length

36 minutes

Words per Minute

209.58188

Word Count

7,689

Sentence Count

833


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Five years and doesn't want to make a move. I want to be with you. How long does it take to create a proper business and be successful in life?
00:00:05.120 But if you're unemployed, not doing nothing.
00:00:07.400 Girl, I don't think you should. Like, don't let him. I forgot I was unemployed for five years now.
00:00:12.740 What the hell? No, not unemployed. That's what I said. I said unemployed. Oh, you said unemployed.
00:00:15.940 Okay, yeah. So if he's stagnant. I'm with you, but my point is you're lying. Like, it's lying. Yeah, you're just lying.
00:00:25.140 Why? Because you're like, oh, if he has the right mentality, I don't care about money.
00:00:28.440 Okay, but I said, like, all that ambition translates to is money later. So when women say, oh, I don't care about money.
00:00:35.080 Yes, it does. Because women do leave if the men don't make enough money. If women out earn the men, they leave.
00:00:42.540 The average woman. But I feel like the average woman will leave.
00:00:46.280 But you are the average woman.
00:00:47.880 I mean, the average mindset woman. The average mindset woman.
00:00:50.400 You have the average mindset.
00:00:51.260 No, I don't. I don't. I definitely don't. I definitely don't.
00:00:53.980 You just said that.
00:00:54.760 And everyone tells me I don't. I'm different.
00:00:56.420 You just, no, I'm telling you, you're, you're, I promise you.
00:01:00.340 Okay, what makes you different?
00:01:01.520 Because I'm just, I feel like I'm very deep and I've just learned, I've really taken that time out to study life and to understand how life is.
00:01:10.440 How old are you?
00:01:11.200 I'm 32 now.
00:01:12.160 Okay.
00:01:13.000 Last month.
00:01:13.700 So I feel like I've taken time out from, to go inwards and to learn about life and to just, you know, be more, not logical, but be more on point.
00:01:23.380 I don't know how to explain it, but I don't think my mindset's average.
00:01:26.080 I don't think I will ever be average.
00:01:27.620 And I really believe in myself.
00:01:29.000 So I'm a different.
00:01:29.740 Okay.
00:01:30.220 So you are, you are a hundred percent average.
00:01:32.420 You're a comedian.
00:01:32.880 No, no, no, no.
00:01:34.300 No, she's a comedian though.
00:01:35.480 No, no, no.
00:01:35.960 Look at me.
00:01:36.360 Look at me.
00:01:36.740 Dead serious.
00:01:37.800 Average.
00:01:38.460 Average.
00:01:38.740 Girl.
00:01:38.900 And that's not an insult.
00:01:40.020 I think, I think I'm an average chick.
00:01:42.200 I don't think you are.
00:01:43.000 Average.
00:01:43.120 Because I even said before I came on the show, she's a, she, she's a badass.
00:01:46.300 Like, she's built all this.
00:01:47.200 See, you're lying again.
00:01:48.220 Why are you lying to her?
00:01:48.700 Romeo, didn't I say that to you?
00:01:49.940 I've been talking about that stuff before I met you.
00:01:52.160 But I'm saying, I'm saying like the way you speak.
00:01:55.540 Okay.
00:01:55.940 And I'm telling you, I've met women with a top 10 percent, 20.
00:01:58.820 Like, do you know how many women I speak to?
00:02:00.820 Hundreds.
00:02:01.500 Hundreds.
00:02:02.140 And I'm saying like, I've met women with a top 10, 20 percent mindset.
00:02:05.100 I'm not saying it's horrible, but I'm saying an average chick when it comes to mindset.
00:02:09.140 Do you know what I think?
00:02:09.820 I just think it's because I don't, I think money's, I don't, I don't think money is important.
00:02:13.620 So it's nothing to me.
00:02:14.900 But see, you've contradicted yourself like 20 times in this conversation.
00:02:18.460 It's very chaotic to like speak to you.
00:02:20.800 Like, it's very chaotic because I don't really understand what you're saying.
00:02:23.540 Okay.
00:02:23.900 Because on one hand, you kind of, we're speaking down to the men in the room because they don't
00:02:28.160 want to spend 200 pounds on a date.
00:02:29.900 Then you're saying money is nothing.
00:02:31.560 Do you see how that's confusing?
00:02:32.200 I mean, money is nothing.
00:02:32.920 So paying 200 pounds, what is that?
00:02:34.520 I don't, that's fine.
00:02:35.680 Okay.
00:02:36.020 It's nothing.
00:02:36.900 It's nothing.
00:02:37.480 Because they said I don't appreciate it.
00:02:38.980 And I do, but it's not, I don't think about it because money is money.
00:02:42.840 It's just, it's what it is.
00:02:44.000 Because you don't have to.
00:02:44.680 That's what I mean.
00:02:45.400 Okay.
00:02:45.860 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:02:46.660 I understand.
00:02:47.600 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:02:48.220 Okay.
00:02:48.680 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:02:49.540 I understand what you're saying.
00:02:51.000 I just don't think you understand how it sounds.
00:02:53.180 And it sounds really unappreciated.
00:02:54.900 I can't change my opinion.
00:02:59.640 It is what it is.
00:03:00.300 Can you spend 200 pounds every night on dinner on yourself?
00:03:03.720 Me, I spend a lot of money.
00:03:04.860 No, every night on yourself.
00:03:06.620 No, I can't.
00:03:07.260 Why?
00:03:07.880 Because that's irresponsible.
00:03:10.500 But it's money is nothing.
00:03:11.400 I invest my money.
00:03:12.340 Money is nothing.
00:03:12.980 I invest my money.
00:03:14.120 I invest money.
00:03:15.520 So what about the man that invests money?
00:03:17.520 That's his business.
00:03:17.980 I didn't ask him to take me out and take me to a place that cost 200 pounds.
00:03:20.880 I didn't ask for that.
00:03:21.600 So what you're saying is.
00:03:22.300 So it's not my problem.
00:03:23.260 You don't care about the man's money.
00:03:24.480 The thing is.
00:03:24.820 As long as he's spending it.
00:03:25.600 Well, I don't ask for money.
00:03:26.980 I don't ask a man for money.
00:03:27.920 I've never asked him.
00:03:28.560 I've never had a man.
00:03:29.560 Well, I've had a long-time relationship where we live together.
00:03:32.160 But I've never relied on a man for anything in my whole entire life.
00:03:35.340 So wait, can I ask you a question?
00:03:37.100 Okay.
00:03:37.440 So, all right.
00:03:39.760 You've never been proposed to.
00:03:41.940 Not really.
00:03:42.600 Not like that, no.
00:03:43.660 Okay.
00:03:44.120 Okay.
00:03:44.360 So if you were, if you had this amazing mindset, you're 32.
00:03:49.440 Do you have kids?
00:03:50.580 No.
00:03:51.200 Okay.
00:03:51.580 So do you know your chance is below 50% of having a child?
00:03:55.360 Possibly.
00:03:55.820 But if you're, if you're single at 30, your chance is like 40% of having a kid.
00:03:59.840 So you're more likely to never have children.
00:04:01.420 That's statistically.
00:04:01.920 And at 30, and at 32, that means you're three years away from geriatric pregnancy.
00:04:06.120 Whoa.
00:04:06.620 Like, so that means if you're single today, you got to find a guy in three years to agree
00:04:11.820 to marry you and agree to get in a long-term relationship, marry you, and then have a kid
00:04:17.000 or just get pregnant.
00:04:19.060 So, so the odds.
00:04:20.660 Statistically.
00:04:21.360 Statistically.
00:04:21.980 Right, right.
00:04:22.580 Statistically.
00:04:23.260 Statistically.
00:04:23.840 Okay.
00:04:24.200 Okay.
00:04:24.720 Okay.
00:04:25.180 Based on fact.
00:04:25.840 So, so, and based off of like the, so the last, you've been dating since what,
00:04:29.240 you're 18?
00:04:30.400 No.
00:04:30.940 Well, yeah.
00:04:31.440 Okay.
00:04:32.040 So, so 10, 12, 14 years, you've been unsuccessful.
00:04:36.580 Wow.
00:04:37.820 Right?
00:04:38.580 Yeah.
00:04:38.960 So you're single, right?
00:04:40.800 And I'm not claiming to be the all, like, I know everything, but I'm saying, how, how
00:04:44.840 can you say you're in the top?
00:04:46.080 Like, you have this amazing mindset if no men have picked your mindset and you're, and
00:04:50.320 it's not looks, you're pretty.
00:04:51.500 My mindset changed at age 28.
00:04:53.980 So before that, I was a different person.
00:04:55.500 So now, so you, so you've had, four years ago.
00:04:57.300 Okay.
00:04:57.640 So you had four years to try out this mindset.
00:05:00.060 I haven't been dating.
00:05:01.400 And, and, and, okay.
00:05:02.400 I've been going through stuff.
00:05:03.740 Okay.
00:05:04.200 So, and you've been accum, you've been going through things.
00:05:06.620 So you've been accumulating more trauma.
00:05:07.740 But I've been in one relationship.
00:05:09.180 Kind of.
00:05:09.740 Okay.
00:05:09.880 Okay.
00:05:10.180 Where, where you were problematic.
00:05:13.100 I don't think that.
00:05:13.960 Because he's still on my phone to this day.
00:05:15.820 So I must not have been that problematic.
00:05:16.860 Oh, okay.
00:05:17.380 For sex.
00:05:18.280 And like, I don't think he realized.
00:05:19.660 No, no, no.
00:05:20.300 But I'm not, but hold on.
00:05:21.780 I'm not easy to have sex.
00:05:22.800 I'm a pro, I'm really, really bougie.
00:05:24.520 Okay, did he have sex with you?
00:05:27.220 Not, not straight away.
00:05:28.240 No.
00:05:28.380 No, did he, did he ever have sex with you?
00:05:30.140 Yeah.
00:05:30.620 He's back for sex.
00:05:32.200 Okay.
00:05:32.400 It's like, this is how men, this is how men.
00:05:34.940 No, no, no, no.
00:05:35.240 He makes things worse, you know?
00:05:36.260 No, okay.
00:05:37.000 No, no.
00:05:37.260 I'm telling you, girl.
00:05:38.300 This is how guys see it.
00:05:39.440 Like, I've talked to so many dudes.
00:05:41.040 If they've had sex with you once.
00:05:42.340 But he can stick with other gals.
00:05:43.680 He's got money.
00:05:44.400 Maybe he liked having sex with you.
00:05:46.300 Okay.
00:05:46.740 Yeah, because my pussy's tight.
00:05:49.040 Okay, okay.
00:05:49.820 Can I just say, it wouldn't take three months to come to a decision on this one.
00:06:04.500 And you're so lovely.
00:06:05.940 Honestly, you have so much going for you.
00:06:07.740 I really like you.
00:06:08.740 Thank you.
00:06:09.220 Don't say things like that.
00:06:10.660 Like what?
00:06:11.900 What's that?
00:06:12.780 Right.
00:06:13.220 Keep it for yourself.
00:06:14.680 I'm playing around.
00:06:15.760 I'm just like, that's my current song.
00:06:17.640 I'm just really outspoken.
00:06:18.840 I don't think you understand.
00:06:20.020 Okay, okay.
00:06:20.400 How is a husband going to hear that?
00:06:22.020 Yeah.
00:06:22.440 You just dampened your trances even more.
00:06:24.300 But I'm not heard.
00:06:25.040 Because loads of men now know your pussy's tight.
00:06:28.400 Wait, wait, wait.
00:06:29.180 Can I ask you something?
00:06:30.660 Who did it?
00:06:30.960 Who did it?
00:06:31.380 Okay, okay.
00:06:31.860 Tell me who did it.
00:06:32.660 Okay, listen, listen, listen, listen.
00:06:34.460 Okay.
00:06:34.900 And I'm genuinely trying to help you.
00:06:36.640 I'm trying to help you.
00:06:37.600 So, seriously.
00:06:39.160 So, those are fake eyelashes?
00:06:41.380 Yeah.
00:06:41.760 Do you know what those stand for?
00:06:43.620 Oh, yeah.
00:06:44.100 Do you know what the history of those are?
00:06:45.500 No.
00:06:45.940 It's literally what hookers used to use to keep calm out of their eyes.
00:06:48.660 I could probably believe that.
00:06:50.780 Yeah, for sure.
00:06:51.380 Yeah, okay.
00:06:51.780 Okay.
00:06:52.280 Okay.
00:06:52.700 So, and when men see that, they, like, hoop earrings, that signals to guys.
00:06:56.620 Yeah, yeah.
00:06:57.020 That's it.
00:06:57.520 And yours aren't too bad.
00:06:58.820 But I'm saying when you're saying, like, my tie, like, is that what you want your wife
00:07:03.080 and the mother of your kids to see?
00:07:05.160 But the thing is, I'm just a funny person.
00:07:07.680 Like, I'm really outspoken.
00:07:08.900 Do you know what I mean?
00:07:09.700 And I'm a fan.
00:07:10.840 I like to think I'm funny.
00:07:12.440 You know, a comedian.
00:07:13.420 But, like, there's some things that you really shouldn't say publicly if you want
00:07:17.020 to be taken seriously from a guy.
00:07:19.580 I think that, you know, if it's meant to be, it's meant to be, he's out there somewhere
00:07:24.900 and he'll appreciate who I am.
00:07:26.200 Do you think a broke, fat guy should say, oh, if it's meant to be, women will like me?
00:07:32.260 Or do you think he should improve?
00:07:34.300 I personally would definitely improve, but, yeah, of course.
00:07:37.700 So if your mindset is off, do you think we say if it's meant to be, it's meant to be?
00:07:43.400 Or do we try to improve?
00:07:44.980 Always try to improve.
00:07:45.960 Okay, so how do we improve as women if we can't even admit there's a problem?
00:07:50.340 Right.
00:07:51.160 And so right now, it's like you're kind of living in delusion.
00:07:54.360 Everyone's like, you know, maybe it's not a good look.
00:07:56.120 And you're like, well, it's just how I am.
00:07:57.620 But I feel like me saying, my pussy's tight, it doesn't determine how many men I've slept with.
00:08:04.440 If I'm a hoe, do I go out and suck dick every week?
00:08:06.420 No, but it doesn't.
00:08:07.300 Okay, let me ask.
00:08:09.440 A virgin could be like, my pussy's tight.
00:08:11.700 What does that mean?
00:08:12.420 You're a hoe.
00:08:12.840 I want to hear from the men.
00:08:16.320 What do you, hey, blessing.
00:08:21.220 What do you, blessing as a guy, I would say you're a more traditional guy.
00:08:25.100 You want to be married, right?
00:08:26.260 Bring me this one.
00:08:27.080 All right, all right.
00:08:27.760 What do you, what do you, what do you think when a woman says that?
00:08:30.980 Canceled.
00:08:31.980 Okay.
00:08:32.600 What do you, what do you think when a woman says that?
00:08:34.600 Pretty much the same.
00:08:35.480 And they'll probably just want to sample it just to see if it's tight.
00:08:37.940 But imagine you could never though.
00:08:38.980 That's the thing.
00:08:39.620 And that's just the difference between, do you know what I mean?
00:08:41.460 If you don't, you don't, then it, but like I'm saying, if you're saying that out there,
00:08:44.560 man, I'm going to be like, all right, let me test it and see if it's true.
00:08:46.260 And they could never.
00:08:47.000 That's the thing.
00:08:47.440 That's why I'm so confident.
00:08:48.280 Because I'm not like that.
00:08:49.200 But the thing is, if guys, if guys see signals that you're a hoe, they're not going to investigate
00:08:53.620 to find out.
00:08:54.380 They're just going to think, hoe, hoe.
00:08:56.000 Like they're not going to go and do these deep dot, like no, they're just going to, they're
00:08:59.720 just going to write you off.
00:09:00.520 But I think it takes an individual to take time to actually get to know the person.
00:09:04.800 See, they're really like that.
00:09:05.660 Do you know what I mean?
00:09:06.240 And they can find out.
00:09:06.880 But the men you want don't have time because they're working.
00:09:10.400 And what happened to waiting for marriage?
00:09:12.520 Like where did that go in all of this conversation?
00:09:15.400 Wait, wait for what I'm going to do.
00:09:16.900 Sorry, go ahead.
00:09:17.560 Where did that, where did waiting for marriage come in this conversation?
00:09:20.620 Like where did that go?
00:09:21.460 Like why did that leave the world?
00:09:24.200 Women.
00:09:25.380 Yeah, why?
00:09:26.220 Because I think women, because I think women, we're in control of the, like sex.
00:09:30.520 So we're in control of the chastity of the sexual marketplace.
00:09:33.080 I think virgins have a hard time nowadays because like one, why would a man wait for
00:09:39.080 a woman that's not a virgin?
00:09:40.960 They wouldn't.
00:09:41.740 They wouldn't.
00:09:42.640 So, and the problem I think that virgins are going to have is how does he know she's
00:09:46.180 a virgin with how much women lie nowadays?
00:09:49.280 Yeah.
00:09:49.880 And how does he know, like even if he gets a virgin, and this, I've spoken to guys with
00:09:54.180 this like about virgin, and I'm not saying guys don't want it, but I think it's more
00:09:57.080 difficult because of the marketplace.
00:09:58.520 Because even if you get a virgin, like she could still go on social media and leave.
00:10:02.720 But I still think it's a valuable value to have.
00:10:04.880 I agree with you.
00:10:05.760 And if you're needing somebody to marry them, then you should like just wait simply.
00:10:08.780 That's, that's what I believe.
00:10:10.600 Do you think that, so what about the women that, okay, so again, the average woman here,
00:10:16.920 one out of three women has an STD, one out of three women's having an abortion.
00:10:20.380 Do you think they should say we're going to wait till marriage?
00:10:22.360 I mean, I think they should stop doing what they're doing because they're, if they keep
00:10:26.460 doing that, they are going to further their likeliness of not getting a man, not being
00:10:30.440 married, not having kids, and being miserable in their 70s.
00:10:32.580 No, and it's hard because it's like part of me agrees with you.
00:10:35.900 I think it's idealistic, but I think like telling a single mother, wait till you're married,
00:10:40.220 good luck.
00:10:40.820 I mean, that's, that's, that's.
00:10:41.800 Or a girl that's slept with like 20 dudes, good luck.
00:10:44.800 But stop, at least stop because if you're going to keep sleeping with dudes, you're going
00:10:47.180 to, when you're 30, you're going to be like 100 guys.
00:10:49.420 You know, so at least stop now.
00:10:50.760 And I think it comes from family values, like how you're raised.
00:10:53.900 You didn't raise me that way.
00:10:54.880 I know.
00:10:55.340 That's what's so shocking.
00:10:56.240 Before, when I told my grandmother I was marrying your dad, she was like, well, I hope you've
00:11:00.000 slept with him.
00:11:00.820 And I was shocked because she was a hardcore Christian and her upbringing was in the church
00:11:05.160 100%.
00:11:05.840 But she's like, if you don't know, then, you know, you could be getting yourself into trouble.
00:11:09.360 And I'm not saying that was right, but I was shocked when she said that.
00:11:12.760 I just think like from a guy's point of view, like if a girl's not a virgin, like a guy shouldn't
00:11:17.080 wait.
00:11:17.520 Like, I think, like why would a guy, so I think that's the tough thing like for those
00:11:22.720 women.
00:11:23.120 It's like, what are they, like what you're going to, because I think a guy that does that
00:11:26.920 as a simp, to be honest, if she's not a virgin, you're going to, you're going to buy a used
00:11:32.320 car for new prices.
00:11:33.940 Yeah.
00:11:34.560 No.
00:11:34.900 And I'm in a relationship that's dating to marry and we're waiting for marriage.
00:11:37.860 And I think that's a beautiful thing.
00:11:39.260 I think that's a beautiful thing.
00:11:40.680 And I just want more women to fall into that role, fall into that, that place because it's such
00:11:45.880 a beautiful thing to have with somebody.
00:11:47.520 And to sleep with 20 guys and 50 guys and say like, my is tight.
00:11:50.920 Like, that's not cute.
00:11:52.040 Like, that's not.
00:11:52.480 What do you think?
00:11:53.120 What do you think of the women that say you're missing out?
00:11:55.160 Like, you just need to see what's out there.
00:11:56.720 Missing out on what?
00:11:57.520 Getting drunk and like having with a bunch of guys and like, like my body's a temple.
00:12:02.140 Like, my body is precious.
00:12:03.520 Period.
00:12:03.760 Anything that goes on it or in it is very, like, it has to be pure.
00:12:07.820 I believe in purity.
00:12:09.280 And if it's not pure, it's not right.
00:12:11.100 Period.
00:12:12.140 So your mind's a virgin right now?
00:12:15.900 I'm not going to say, like, but that's like very personal.
00:12:18.980 But obviously, I was talking to Pearl about this conversation.
00:12:22.140 So obviously, that's my answer.
00:12:24.180 I get that, but the pure thing, you can't be pure.
00:12:27.320 Yes, me and my partner are pure.
00:12:28.920 But both virgins then.
00:12:30.660 Because you can't be pure if you're virgins.
00:12:31.320 What is the definition of pure?
00:12:33.600 Clarity.
00:12:34.540 Just give clarity.
00:12:35.660 Are you both virgins?
00:12:36.360 We are both waiting for marriage.
00:12:37.560 If you're pure, that means nothing has touched your body.
00:12:40.600 Your body, that temple that you have is pure.
00:12:43.560 That means nobody can touch you.
00:12:44.640 None of you two.
00:12:45.680 I'm not going to expose his life.
00:12:47.000 No, obviously, I'm not saying expose.
00:12:48.040 It's okay.
00:12:48.400 She doesn't have to.
00:12:49.160 It's okay.
00:12:49.380 It's okay.
00:12:49.800 Yes.
00:12:50.200 Where were we in the freaking, all right, hold on.
00:12:56.240 Sorry.
00:12:56.440 Let's read some super chats now.
00:12:57.500 Oh, super.
00:12:58.200 Thank you for reminding me, Blessing.
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00:13:21.040 Guys, guys, these, by the way, I have these opinions.
00:13:24.960 Do not reflect me.
00:13:26.580 But when people give me money, I will read them.
00:13:29.140 All right.
00:13:29.440 Black Moses, she's acting very childish.
00:13:31.740 She refuses to grow up, return back to the streets where she belongs.
00:13:35.340 Josh, depends how many opportunities we've had relationships.
00:13:38.080 For real, I respect her after three, done after two.
00:13:42.320 If you're not attractive, I'll wait after three.
00:13:45.520 If she's a good woman, I'll just wait for her.
00:13:47.360 D, I love how you ask the right questions and they're just telling themselves, black top, ma'am.
00:13:52.680 I'm 32 and 35.
00:13:53.960 I'm embarrassed for you.
00:13:54.900 Please stop.
00:13:56.400 Josh, depending on how many opportunities we have relations.
00:14:00.460 For real, for real, I respect her after three.
00:14:03.140 I think you sent the same one twice.
00:14:04.780 It done after two.
00:14:05.660 If you're not attractive, I'll wait for three.
00:14:07.700 If she's a good woman, just wait for her.
00:14:09.580 Deonti, Royal, please remove all that makeup.
00:14:11.800 I bet you are a four out of ten.
00:14:13.620 You are in the wall.
00:14:14.800 Lol.
00:14:16.160 Guys, remember, it has to be over a $5 super chat in order for me to read it.
00:14:20.480 Royal needs to go back to the streets.
00:14:22.300 Can't fix all of that.
00:14:23.880 But, Sonny, $200 isn't a lot.
00:14:28.900 You're not even worth 20.
00:14:31.380 Brighton, two weeks.
00:14:32.920 Two weeks, I'm taking into account her actions, which will give a hint to body count, and then
00:14:37.800 I'll ask around and know her body count.
00:14:41.220 Lawrence, woman with the eight tattoos is giving off narcissism vibe like she's never the problem
00:14:47.360 if the relationship doesn't work out.
00:14:49.680 Harshima, can you stop gaslighting and accept that the men you want only use you for a booty call.
00:14:55.840 Stop saying I don't want anyone nod.
00:14:58.280 Just pump and dump.
00:14:59.600 Not going to lie.
00:15:01.780 Rice, pure Miss Shogun chaos.
00:15:05.940 Fulby Todd, the body positivity movement exists to make money off of women because big girls
00:15:11.480 get money, too.
00:15:12.220 You don't see any plus-size male models.
00:15:15.160 Doug MPA, Pearl, please list the things that high-value men don't want in women.
00:15:21.580 Remember, you came up on a live a couple months ago.
00:15:25.340 I will read.
00:15:26.160 That is my favorite list to read.
00:15:29.200 Scout and Bradley, being submissive doesn't mean do whatever I say, but listening and not
00:15:33.820 fighting to everything, Southern Bells do this, can't wait to see Pearl on unapologetic.
00:15:39.380 Trigger, statistically after the age of 65, the percentage of obese people drops drastically
00:15:43.780 because they die.
00:15:45.060 Glenn Lawrence, all men need to do is read Rolo's The Median is the message blog post,
00:15:57.360 then see if her words and actions match.
00:15:59.920 Interracial relationships, for black men, we value community.
00:16:03.820 For black men community, we value bigger women because they make for better.
00:16:07.700 Oh, I read that already.
00:16:09.180 Let me refresh it really quick.
00:16:13.340 Let me double check.
00:16:15.180 How many likes are we at, Blessing?
00:16:19.060 Almost a 900.
00:16:20.360 900.
00:16:20.700 Guys, 100 more likes.
00:16:24.040 Black Moses, she's acting very childish.
00:16:26.840 Oh, I read that already.
00:16:29.100 Oy, $5, you think I'm made of money.
00:16:31.380 Well, you said two, so you're halfway there, you know.
00:16:35.400 Okay, guys, I'm going to find this Google Doc.
00:16:40.180 A couple months ago, I made a list of the things that us as women should stop doing.
00:16:45.480 Now, this is not to say that I am perfect and have never said anything on this list.
00:16:50.320 However, I just felt like this was a very, very good list.
00:16:56.680 So this is the things that men look for, basically, or don't want.
00:17:01.320 It's like want, don't want kind of a combination.
00:17:03.320 No tattoos.
00:17:05.540 Your hobbies cannot be going to the bar every weekend and going out all the time looking
00:17:09.240 like a hoe.
00:17:10.140 No heavy makeup, eyelash extensions.
00:17:12.120 No super heavy eyeliner.
00:17:13.840 No shopping addiction.
00:17:15.240 No piercing except ears.
00:17:16.740 Be able to get ready in 30 minutes or less.
00:17:19.500 No super long fingernails.
00:17:20.860 Do not be an idiot.
00:17:22.220 Do not be a beautiful, majestic creature.
00:17:24.860 A girl, she has to have a fitness routine.
00:17:27.780 Good with kid.
00:17:28.420 Knows how to cook.
00:17:29.380 Coachable.
00:17:29.900 Teachable.
00:17:30.420 Feminine.
00:17:31.300 Do not be a feminist.
00:17:32.240 Men want women that work hard but not too hard and at the right things.
00:17:36.660 They do not want a girl that wants a career more than a family.
00:17:39.820 This is my favorite one.
00:17:41.220 The words we're going to stop saying.
00:17:45.020 Partner.
00:17:45.720 Horoscope signs.
00:17:46.780 Looking for a connection.
00:17:47.940 Energy.
00:17:48.420 Trauma.
00:17:48.940 Toxic masculinity.
00:17:50.760 My truth.
00:17:51.960 Healing.
00:17:52.400 My narcissistic ex-boyfriend.
00:17:54.040 My abusive ex-boyfriend.
00:17:55.780 Grape accusations.
00:17:57.280 Don't judge.
00:17:58.040 Yeah, but.
00:17:59.120 Manifesting.
00:17:59.700 Equals.
00:18:00.020 I want to do no work and still get the outcome.
00:18:02.240 I want.
00:18:03.200 As a woman.
00:18:03.980 We know you're a woman.
00:18:05.320 I did too much and I let him walk all over me.
00:18:08.620 Equals.
00:18:09.020 I like cheaters and toxic men and I will choose them and be toxic as well and not admit my
00:18:13.520 part that I had any part to play except quote unquote giving too much.
00:18:18.140 Generational trauma.
00:18:18.960 I make the same mistakes that my parents make and I'm too dumb to learn from their mistakes
00:18:23.200 and instead I will make the same mistakes but blame it on them.
00:18:26.580 I'm in my feminine energy.
00:18:29.120 Men always stare and approach me.
00:18:31.400 I will be submissive for the right man.
00:18:34.420 Men are trash.
00:18:35.300 Equals.
00:18:35.700 I take no accountability for the negative part that myself or any women play in relationships.
00:18:40.960 He needs to make six figures.
00:18:42.540 Equals.
00:18:42.900 I have no emphasis on character.
00:18:45.200 I don't need a man but I want a man.
00:18:47.040 My ring costs this much.
00:18:48.840 Financial abuse.
00:18:49.800 I became feminine.
00:18:50.660 I need a man to maintain you.
00:18:54.260 We need to vibe.
00:18:55.240 I feel like I'm a traditional when I am single.
00:18:58.540 Manish.
00:18:59.280 I will be submissive for the right man who hurt you.
00:19:02.000 Internalize misogyny.
00:19:03.440 I'm leveling up altogether.
00:19:05.420 I need a man to be on my level.
00:19:08.500 I'm a boss babe.
00:19:09.500 I'm a bad bitch.
00:19:10.720 These men are broke and dusties.
00:19:12.700 I am the table.
00:19:14.020 I am a 10.
00:19:15.380 He needs to add to what I have going on in my life.
00:19:18.120 Not all women equals that is a problem with women but I won't admit it's a problem.
00:19:24.480 I need someone to match my energy.
00:19:28.740 I still don't really know what that means.
00:19:31.300 I am his peace.
00:19:32.940 Broken men.
00:19:34.500 Men are F boys.
00:19:36.000 My body my choice.
00:19:37.340 He hit me harder than I hit him.
00:19:39.660 Body positivity manifest.
00:19:42.340 I am not fat.
00:19:43.560 I am plus size or thick.
00:19:45.720 Small d energy.
00:19:46.680 My ex was a narcissist.
00:19:48.360 I am a queen who hurt you.
00:19:50.260 No respect for my own mother.
00:19:52.320 Yeah.
00:19:52.760 I mean how is that?
00:19:54.040 Those are all the words that you can't say.
00:19:55.560 Yeah.
00:19:55.920 What can we say then?
00:19:57.300 I don't know.
00:19:58.240 I have a list.
00:20:00.520 Don't worry.
00:20:01.800 I am so here to help.
00:20:05.100 All right.
00:20:05.740 And this is collaborative.
00:20:07.640 So if you guys have anything you want to add to it, you know, feel free.
00:20:11.480 Phrases to add.
00:20:12.300 I trust you.
00:20:13.000 I support you.
00:20:14.000 Whatever you say, honey.
00:20:15.440 Thank you.
00:20:15.920 I have your back.
00:20:16.760 I'm making this for dinner tonight.
00:20:18.560 I believe or I think.
00:20:20.000 What can I do for you?
00:20:21.360 How can I help?
00:20:22.080 I'm proud of you.
00:20:22.720 I believe in you.
00:20:23.460 I couldn't do this without you.
00:20:24.620 I need you.
00:20:25.200 I love you.
00:20:25.760 I miss you.
00:20:26.260 I care about you.
00:20:26.900 I want you.
00:20:27.760 I admire you.
00:20:29.340 Oh, gosh.
00:20:29.820 I always forget this one.
00:20:30.900 I'm not reading that.
00:20:31.980 You inspire.
00:20:32.540 Don't do that.
00:20:33.620 Don't do that, pal.
00:20:34.440 I'm not reading that.
00:20:35.300 I do this every time.
00:20:36.400 I hate reading this one.
00:20:37.620 Get in the bedroom and drop your pants before you go to work.
00:20:40.540 Yeah, man.
00:20:40.920 I'm glad.
00:20:41.120 You inspire me.
00:20:42.840 I get so red.
00:20:44.440 Thank you for working so hard.
00:20:46.400 Babe, I know you didn't mean it.
00:20:47.540 I'll let it go.
00:20:48.060 It's not a big deal.
00:20:49.220 I love that.
00:20:49.820 I love that.
00:20:50.420 I actually love that.
00:20:51.040 At least they were short.
00:20:52.080 I love that.
00:20:52.960 It was short, you know?
00:20:54.160 Well, you know, we can add more if you have things you want to add to it.
00:20:56.860 It's really collaborative.
00:20:58.140 I've worked with a lot of people on this.
00:20:59.840 Okay, cool.
00:21:00.780 I think that whatever you say, honey, that's the only thing.
00:21:04.680 That depends on the context.
00:21:06.880 And I was thinking that as well, yeah.
00:21:08.140 It can be a little bit like, oh, you know, like, oh, I have to do it again.
00:21:12.900 I just, you know, it depends on the context.
00:21:16.540 See, this is where the good women are gone.
00:21:17.980 You guys don't want to do that.
00:21:19.180 If you're with the right woman, that won't happen.
00:21:21.600 If you're with the right woman, if you're with the right man, that won't happen.
00:21:25.100 It depends on the context.
00:21:26.680 She's right.
00:21:27.420 It does.
00:21:27.980 But it doesn't matter.
00:21:28.540 Okay, I have to be honest.
00:21:30.080 I think women that say this, because I hear this a lot, it typically means I am disagreeable
00:21:36.060 and I don't want to listen.
00:21:37.460 Okay.
00:21:38.220 Typically.
00:21:39.120 Or the men I pick aren't worthy.
00:21:41.240 Or like something, like I like bums, basically, is the other, like, it's like a trend.
00:21:46.100 Well, some women pick men who are, I think, for their character, too masculine.
00:21:52.620 I don't want to say that because then you're going to be like feminine, masculine.
00:21:55.780 No, like, too, you know, like, she's not feminine enough.
00:21:59.120 The man is really masculine.
00:22:01.420 But we don't mean to be masculine.
00:22:02.000 She's in her feminine most of the time, but sometimes she's like, oh.
00:22:06.060 See, I see the language.
00:22:07.380 In her feminine.
00:22:08.660 Yeah, I knew you were going to pick that up, girl.
00:22:11.420 I just think it's, like, nonsense.
00:22:14.440 Like, it's just, it's like these women that go on Instagram and they'll say, oh, I'm a
00:22:19.280 feminine.
00:22:19.820 I don't know if it's you.
00:22:20.780 I hope that's not what you do.
00:22:22.340 But, like, it's like, I'm now a femininity coach.
00:22:25.740 And there's some genuine ones.
00:22:27.420 I'm not going to say there's not.
00:22:28.720 There are genuine ones that help.
00:22:29.900 There's men who do this, too.
00:22:30.900 Masculine, feminine energy.
00:22:32.520 There's some.
00:22:34.060 The ones that I see that are full of shit, because men actually look to solve problems.
00:22:37.840 So, if you look at, like, men's improvement, it's very practical.
00:22:41.760 So, it's very much, like, go to the gym, screw a bunch of girls so you know how to, or do,
00:22:47.060 you know, like, I don't even, there's an ex-corn star that's been on my show.
00:22:50.280 He has very practical, you know, tips.
00:22:52.600 Not my thing, right?
00:22:53.920 But, like, and, or they'll do, like, go to the gym, make more money.
00:22:58.780 Women, it's very, like, broad.
00:23:01.000 Like, soft life.
00:23:03.620 I'm going to sit at home.
00:23:05.580 And it's never, like, concrete steps.
00:23:07.900 I've only had one, like, femininity coach give me, like, real concrete steps that isn't just, like, journaling or.
00:23:14.120 Actually, I have something to say about feminine coaches.
00:23:21.000 They operate from, again, energy.
00:23:25.940 But, like, what is to be feminine?
00:23:27.340 And they tell you, be creative, like, focus on things that make you tap into the woman, like, that traditional woman.
00:23:34.000 That's what they are all about.
00:23:36.120 Like, try to, for, I've been in touch with some of them.
00:23:39.800 They tell you, like, listen to music, dance, or create something with, like, a painting or something tangible with, like, artistic.
00:23:49.740 Yeah, and to me, this sounds like nothing useful to a guy.
00:23:54.660 Go listen to, like, go listen to some music.
00:23:59.480 But, like, I'm just, I just have, yeah, there's only been one femininity coach that, like, actually talked about real stuff.
00:24:07.640 And she helped me write most of these, like, words to add.
00:24:10.260 In the short term, it might seem that it's not helping.
00:24:13.480 But imagine on the long term, rather than a woman being in her, as I say, masculine energy, which is, like, shouting and confronting.
00:24:21.680 She learns to be submissive, but, like, step by step.
00:24:25.220 First of all, by tapping into these skills, then to be comfortable just doing even something such as cooking.
00:24:33.320 They tell you cooking makes you tap into your feminine energy more and more.
00:24:37.140 So, maybe by building those little habits.
00:24:41.000 I think cooking, yeah, I don't think cooking's bad.
00:24:43.980 But, I just, you can't convince me.
00:24:48.560 Do you know why we need these now?
00:24:50.340 I agree with you.
00:24:51.640 I agree that it shouldn't matter.
00:24:53.900 But we need these now because a lot of women and men as well forgot that natural state.
00:25:00.580 You know, what's your natural state as a woman?
00:25:02.880 I don't know because I get really confused.
00:25:04.980 Because I hear these, like, women talk about soft life, right?
00:25:07.840 But, like, our great-grandmothers really didn't have a soft life.
00:25:11.900 They were milking, like, at least I'm from the U.S., they were milking cows.
00:25:15.240 Like, have you seen Amish people?
00:25:16.640 That's where they used to live.
00:25:17.820 Like, they do not have a soft life.
00:25:19.680 And soft life, to me, is living off a man.
00:25:22.300 That's what I see as a soft life.
00:25:24.960 Maybe.
00:25:25.200 Yeah.
00:25:25.920 When you ask where all the women, good women, went, I mean, to me, they went to confusion
00:25:29.400 and independence.
00:25:30.720 Right.
00:25:30.820 And this confusion is a diffused awareness because of the primal nature, right?
00:25:36.060 A man is hunting.
00:25:37.240 He's directive in his focus.
00:25:40.240 And a woman is diffused because she only has a certain amount of daylight hours to get as
00:25:43.500 many berries as she can.
00:25:44.760 And she's very skilled at it.
00:25:46.040 She can do it way quicker than a man, apparently.
00:25:47.980 And it's part of our survival mechanism.
00:25:50.720 And so it is kind of obtuse and broad when we think about how we go back into our feminine
00:25:55.760 nature so we're not, you know, in this CEO role of our families, of our relationships,
00:26:02.960 of our businesses.
00:26:04.140 And then we got to come home and then deal with the reality of, like, you know, being
00:26:08.340 a partner, which is a totally different energy.
00:26:10.660 It's not, you're not directive.
00:26:12.420 Like, yeah, you got to get the meal on the table.
00:26:14.700 And my grandmother and my mother, they worked really hard as homemakers.
00:26:17.960 It was, like, taboo for them to work.
00:26:20.540 But my generation and our generation now, it's a lot of confusion.
00:26:25.820 And we're still growing into that.
00:26:27.880 You know what it is?
00:26:28.340 How do we balance that?
00:26:29.500 It's Beyonce's fault.
00:26:32.120 I'm being serious.
00:26:33.120 She made a tune called Single Ladies, All of These Things with a Ring on Her Finger.
00:26:37.200 I think we're very capable as women.
00:26:39.060 You know what I'm saying?
00:26:39.480 But I think there's a lot of confusion.
00:26:40.760 From the 90s, to be honest, you'll say you're right.
00:26:43.100 From the 90s, 2000s, whatever, there's been a lot of independence, independence,
00:26:47.960 do your thing, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:26:49.580 Cool.
00:26:50.360 You can do your independence.
00:26:51.520 But if you don't need a man, then cool.
00:26:54.180 Someone said modern-day gathering has turned into shopping.
00:27:00.360 Yeah, but why do you think women are having burnout, endocrine disruption, cancer, depression?
00:27:06.340 I mean, there's all these issues with women's health because they're trying to be a man.
00:27:10.560 No, I spoke to a hormone doctor about this.
00:27:14.420 He said women and men don't handle stress the same, and it really messes up our hormones
00:27:19.420 being in high-stress positions.
00:27:21.460 And you know what the matter is?
00:27:22.260 If you stay in your feminine energy and you come home and you look after your partner,
00:27:25.580 your man is going to want to look after and do everything in his power to make sure you're good.
00:27:30.360 Yeah.
00:27:30.560 That's as simple as I can explain it.
00:27:33.940 As long as you stay in your feminine and you look after that man, he's going to do everything
00:27:37.400 for you, regardless, naturally.
00:27:39.200 But earlier with what I was saying, if you're not showing certain things to him, he's going
00:27:43.380 to see that.
00:27:43.840 All right, cool.
00:27:44.640 She's not really my kind.
00:27:46.760 I'll sit back.
00:27:47.500 I'm there, but I'll sit back a little bit.
00:27:49.320 But if he sees you're making effort, even cooking, if you want to get through to a man's
00:27:54.340 heart, it's through his belly.
00:27:55.180 100%.
00:27:55.620 It's as simple as that.
00:27:56.320 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:27:57.300 Yeah.
00:27:57.600 And I also, I fell into the boss babe culture for a long time when I was obese and I, and
00:28:01.760 then I started losing weight, but I was still in the boss babe culture.
00:28:03.900 I was like, oh, I don't need a man.
00:28:05.500 Like I'm fine.
00:28:06.260 And it was when I had the daddy issues when I wasn't, I didn't have a good relationship
00:28:09.440 with my father.
00:28:09.900 And it wasn't until I hit my relationship with my father that I was like, oh, okay.
00:28:14.440 I actually, you know, it's really important that I don't have to work like a man.
00:28:18.340 I was so stressed.
00:28:19.840 I was so anxious all the time.
00:28:21.380 And then I just let it go.
00:28:22.320 I was like, I don't need to do that.
00:28:23.580 My future husband will provide for me.
00:28:25.060 My future husband will do these and I'll fall into my feminine roles.
00:28:27.400 I will cook.
00:28:28.240 I will clean.
00:28:28.820 I will take care of the kids.
00:28:29.640 I'll take care of the house like that.
00:28:30.740 And I'll garden.
00:28:31.960 What did you do?
00:28:32.520 Did you quit your job?
00:28:33.700 No, I just.
00:28:34.660 Okay.
00:28:34.900 I was just curious.
00:28:35.600 Well, I guess I did.
00:28:36.580 It's a total miracle.
00:28:37.240 I just, I flipped two houses last year and I was like, I don't want to do this anymore.
00:28:40.920 So I just decided to stop doing it.
00:28:42.860 That's cold.
00:28:43.380 Oh, wow.
00:28:43.780 It was a miracle though, really.
00:28:45.240 Yeah, because I, no, no, no.
00:28:46.540 No, because I was the boss, right?
00:28:48.360 I had to be the provider.
00:28:49.640 I had to be everything.
00:28:50.800 And you didn't have that example.
00:28:52.040 And I think that's another part of where all the good women have gone inside of this independence,
00:28:55.620 inside of this confusion.
00:28:57.380 It's fatherless families.
00:28:58.780 And like Pearl was saying earlier, if you don't have the example, how are you supposed
00:29:02.160 to know?
00:29:02.660 And you haven't had the example, Penelope.
00:29:04.480 So it's a miracle, purely.
00:29:06.720 Purely.
00:29:07.100 Yeah, no, it is.
00:29:07.620 And it was like growing up with you as my mom, like you played both roles, the dad and the
00:29:11.180 mom.
00:29:11.840 And so that was very interesting because I grew up thinking, oh, I don't need men.
00:29:15.320 Like men are terrible.
00:29:16.280 And I even thought my dad's father was terrible, but now he's like my best friend.
00:29:19.280 And I think where the good women are going is they think that it's a bad thing to be
00:29:23.500 feminine.
00:29:24.180 I think that the mindset of women today feel like I'm like that.
00:29:28.160 And now if you're feminine and traditional online, people are like, you're not a feminist,
00:29:32.200 you hate women, you are terrible, you are a disgrace to society, you should go die.
00:29:36.160 And it's like, wait, wait, what?
00:29:37.440 Like women are the most beautiful things on the planet.
00:29:39.340 They create human beings.
00:29:40.960 Men cannot create human beings.
00:29:42.420 So why are women putting women down?
00:29:44.320 Well, I think it's probably because women want women to fail and see them.
00:29:48.300 I think it's because we're not supposed to be competing with our mom's generation.
00:29:53.160 Because the thing is, like, if you have a 45 year old and you have like a 25 year old
00:29:57.600 girl, it's like a lot of times the guys you might want are the same age.
00:30:01.300 Because women like 45 tend to want guys like it's like five to seven years younger.
00:30:06.060 Where women, um, 25 want guys five to seven years older, this crossover.
00:30:10.040 And I think bitter older women that don't want you to win will tell you the wrong information.
00:30:16.140 And it's because like if they're, if they're being a hoe, right?
00:30:19.420 Like what's the worst feeling when you take a test and you fail?
00:30:22.200 What's the worst feeling when everyone else succeeded?
00:30:25.740 Right.
00:30:26.140 But if you turn around and they say, I failed too.
00:30:28.100 It's like, you feel a little bit better.
00:30:29.560 So it's like these women want other people to be miserable in their negative decisions.
00:30:33.700 And I've lost hundreds of people because of it, because of succeeding in my relationship
00:30:38.000 and having a healthy relationship with my father.
00:30:39.760 People dislike me because of that.
00:30:41.480 And it's like, why do you hate me for having a healthy relationship with my family?
00:30:44.960 Am I, am I, am I, am I, am I.
00:30:46.100 So would you, would you say?
00:30:47.000 And especially, I'm like, they don't want you to win.
00:30:49.340 No.
00:30:49.540 Like, it ain't.
00:30:50.300 They want you to fail.
00:30:50.800 They want you to be divorced, miserable, sad, fat, on your phone, on TikTok, dying.
00:30:55.880 I mean, it's terrible.
00:30:56.240 So would you say that this is like technically just a woman's problem then?
00:31:00.320 Because it's women that, it's not technically men that put down women, you know?
00:31:03.260 It's women that put down women.
00:31:04.500 The women trying to be men hurt, are hurting the feminine, not the feminine, the beta men,
00:31:09.800 right?
00:31:10.440 That's hurting beta men.
00:31:11.580 That's why we have beta men.
00:31:12.740 It's because of the masculine women.
00:31:14.240 Well, I think it becomes a problem because you have 80% of women screwing 20% of men.
00:31:19.200 So then women don't respect the average guy.
00:31:21.300 I did a show the other day and like most women said they wouldn't date a bus driver.
00:31:25.540 They're above a bus driver.
00:31:26.760 Average chicks.
00:31:27.680 And it's why you have average chicks saying they're at the level of a celebrity.
00:31:31.360 No offense.
00:31:32.360 But like, it's like you have average chicks thinking they're so great when it's like literally
00:31:36.540 you are average.
00:31:37.660 You're average looking.
00:31:38.460 You're an average mindset.
00:31:39.280 Most people are average.
00:31:40.720 And men will accept this, but women won't.
00:31:42.660 It's like an insult for us to be normal.
00:31:44.840 So then you won't see normal women dating normal men.
00:31:48.340 But do you feel like that is because social media has a lot to play for it?
00:31:51.860 They feel like there's a lot more accessibility.
00:31:53.480 I think it's social media and dating apps.
00:31:56.400 They feel like they've got more accessibility to higher people than what they can.
00:32:00.540 They do.
00:32:01.420 Because the issue nowadays, because this is what made me think about this.
00:32:04.820 I'm like, how would you find a good woman?
00:32:06.480 And I was thinking about this and I made a chart and I had like the body count of a woman
00:32:10.480 on one hand and I had the looks of a woman on a one hand.
00:32:14.360 And so I was like, a woman that's eight to ten with a low body count, good luck keeping
00:32:20.080 her.
00:32:20.340 Do you know what the list is going to be for a girl that's like that hot?
00:32:23.720 With like, the competition is crazy.
00:32:26.460 And so it's like you could be dating a woman and if there's high competition for her, Drake
00:32:31.580 could slide in your girl's DMs.
00:32:33.180 100%.
00:32:33.380 Or maybe it's not Drake, it's the town whoever, right?
00:32:36.380 And then I was thinking about it and I was like, unless a guy sleeps with a lot of women,
00:32:40.260 how is he going to know the difference between a woman that's been with everybody and a girl
00:32:44.120 that does it, has it?
00:32:45.120 They never do.
00:32:45.840 They can't.
00:32:46.160 They can't.
00:32:46.940 No, they can't know unless they've been with a lot of girls.
00:32:49.520 And I'm like, it's kind of unfortunate because it's like the only solution for the men seems
00:32:55.000 to be to sleep around, which I don't think is, you know, great for society, but it's like
00:32:59.280 it's women's fault because we're the ones doing the sleeping.
00:33:01.940 Do you think that men should have more than one woman?
00:33:04.040 Um, I, I think that it's silly to date certain men and expect monogamy.
00:33:12.320 So I think it's silly to date, say, Jason Derulo, Chris Brown.
00:33:16.040 These are extreme examples, but there's certain men that it's very silly to expect it because
00:33:21.120 he's never been monogamous and they never will be.
00:33:23.460 I think monogamy in general is better for a society.
00:33:26.940 Forget the higher, I'm even talking on average men, normal men on a day-to-day because obviously
00:33:31.920 you've said earlier on that there's more women on the earth than men.
00:33:36.100 Yeah.
00:33:36.300 So on average, how we are naturally, do you think that the average man should have one woman?
00:33:42.780 Um, I think that it's better for society if monogamy is better because you get like a
00:33:48.460 growing, um, having a lot of sex, sexless men, like usually causes slight society to collapse.
00:33:54.920 Um, so I think monogamy is better by and large, but I think that a certain percentage of men
00:33:59.280 are always going to be non-monogamous.
00:34:01.820 Um, and that's kind of the way it's been the last like 2 million years because 85%, it's
00:34:05.600 like the last, I don't want to say the, how long it's been like this because I don't remember
00:34:09.640 off the top of my head, but I know like historically they always, it seems like all of society has
00:34:14.420 been non-monogamous because 17, um, men, um, reproduced for every, uh, one, 17 women
00:34:21.200 reproduced for every one man like 8,000 years ago.
00:34:24.180 And on top of that, there's like two women have always reproduced for every one man, but
00:34:27.500 it's actually, um, or 40% of men have never reproduced or 40% of men, I'm sorry, I'm butchering
00:34:33.240 this, but, but the 85% of, um, like 85% of society has generally been monogamous where the
00:34:39.760 top 15% of men have just been like slaying.
00:34:42.180 Is it?
00:34:42.740 Yeah.
00:34:42.940 Well, well, okay, cause you do a lot of, you do a lot of stats here, but I know a lot
00:34:47.040 of average men out here that's probably not on these stats doing the same thing.
00:34:50.860 And when I say a lot, I'm talking, if you're just talking average men in London, obviously
00:34:55.180 London, I don't know about America and that.
00:34:57.160 Average in what?
00:34:58.160 In sleeping with a lot of women.
00:35:00.160 No, like average looks, average money, would you say?
00:35:03.300 Average looks, average, average job.
00:35:05.740 I can even give you examples of a few average men that are big in weight and just got normal
00:35:12.420 jobs that are dealing with a lot of women across the board.
00:35:15.180 Um, well, there, there's a couple of things.
00:35:17.380 So, I mean, typically again, like there's been studies on dating apps and in, in person where
00:35:22.860 women find 80% of men is ugly.
00:35:24.800 Not okay.
00:35:25.800 Not average.
00:35:26.800 They think ugly.
00:35:27.800 He is unattractive.
00:35:28.800 Ugly.
00:35:29.800 Would you say the top percentage of men are on these dating apps?
00:35:32.800 Um, yeah, yeah, maybe, yeah, I don't know.
00:35:37.300 I don't, I don't believe so.
00:35:38.240 I think that, I think that if you look at the numbers, social media is the number one
00:35:47.560 way people are meeting.
00:35:49.140 A hundred percent.
00:35:49.580 So, social media and dating apps, and like when you look at, so then the question is if
00:35:53.960 that's where people are meeting, what do the numbers look like in the dating apps?
00:35:57.340 Well, women only swipe right 5% of the time.
00:36:00.460 So that means on the number one way people are meeting, we're sharing men.
00:36:04.340 A hundred percent.
00:36:05.340 Because there's always going to be three men, because we're the hunters, so we're always
00:36:07.840 going to have to.
00:36:08.840 A hundred percent.
00:36:09.840 Wait, say that again.
00:36:10.840 It's always going to be men, because we're the hunters, we're always going, we're going
00:36:13.580 to be the higher anyway.
00:36:14.580 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:36:15.580 So when you're saying the average men that get women, they probably get women over the
00:36:19.120 age of 30, because women tend to go for looks.
00:36:22.320 And so in their twenties, I fully agree with that.
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