JustPearlyThings - May 21, 2023


She Proved Why Modern Women Are NOT Marriageable


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

211.79251

Word Count

1,972

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

10

Hate Speech Sentences

4


Summary

In this episode of the podcast, we are joined by our good friend, to talk about women and sex. We talk about sex, sex education, and sex education in general. We also talk about why women leave the marriage after a certain age, and how to deal with it.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 yeah if you're gonna okay let's let's say it like this if a guy said to me what's your body count
00:00:04.320 i'm not gonna answer him because i just think that's inappropriate disrespectful
00:00:09.380 actually i don't even want to talk to you anymore so i'm just gonna get up and leave you think it's
00:00:13.920 disrespectful i think i think men should i think men should know that to be honest um i don't think
00:00:20.380 i think it's disrespectful if it's someone like you don't know i mean i disrespect like it's it's
00:00:25.160 private right but it's like if so if he wants to if he's taking you seriously and wants to marry
00:00:29.400 you i think it's a valid question i just think it's only valid if you've been with someone that
00:00:34.080 he is associated with like friends or family i feel like a guy that has no kind of connection to your
00:00:40.360 guy i don't think it actually matters and furthermore you can ask a woman however many times
00:00:45.500 what her body count is first of all she's always gonna lie even if she doesn't lie how do you know
00:00:49.820 she's telling the truth were you in her body for all the years she's been alive never tell on
00:00:54.480 themselves like guys start to count like because you'll be like oh this sex like that's what guys
00:00:58.280 telling me that the women will tell on themselves later yeah i think most guys like don't ask to
00:01:02.380 be fair but i mean when you look at the numbers as a guy i don't know how you wouldn't care
00:01:07.460 especially men have so much to lose in divorce um court today it's like if the girl's a virgin on
00:01:13.160 her wedding wedding night she has an 80 chance of a happy marriage you know it drops down to if she
00:01:17.140 slept with more than five people 20 so if you slept with more than five people your chance of a happy
00:01:22.660 marriage in 10 years goes down to 20 percent and if you slept with more than 10 it's like you're
00:01:28.240 you're probably going to be divorced like more likely than not within five years have they said
00:01:33.320 what the reason is for that i mean i think i think it's going against nature like throughout all of
00:01:38.460 history like when have women been as promiscuous as they are today you don't undo biology just because
00:01:43.000 we have birth control now so do you think that's down to because she's experienced so many partners
00:01:47.740 that she then doesn't feel fulfilled or do you think it's down to the man finding out and not
00:01:52.080 respecting her what do you think it's down to well it's the women leaving so it's not the men like
00:01:55.660 women usually leave not men um so i think it's the psychology of choice if you have 10 meals in front
00:02:02.480 of you and you pick one you're not as happy but if there's one in front of you you're happy you're
00:02:06.020 just happy to be eaten you know what i mean and so i think girls start to compare so they'll say like
00:02:11.060 the first guy uh he had this second you're not a no it's true no i agree with that i actually agree with
00:02:16.260 that yeah and then i think like the the more you've been with it's like the odds are the guy
00:02:21.020 you married isn't your favorite and so now you're getting married to your second choice is that good
00:02:25.680 and i think we can all like think of a girl that maybe had an ex that she kept going back to or
00:02:30.860 didn't get over maybe an ex that you that happened to you you know um i think that's common
00:02:35.680 women start running out of time so they run to their like second or third choice
00:02:39.740 true that's what i think anyway you know there's no i hope that never happens to any of us but yeah
00:02:44.860 no i mean i mean the data honestly shows that half of us aren't going to have kids
00:02:48.480 50 percent in here single and childless if you hit 30 and you're still single you're sure if you're
00:02:54.460 if you hit 30 you're still single your chance of having a kid drops below 50 percent so you're
00:02:58.620 actually more likely to not have a kid than have one is that just females yeah yeah women i rebuke
00:03:03.180 these stats and i um no no it's not like rebuking i think i think it's good for women to know
00:03:08.940 because that's what's going to happen if like you know and it's a fact as well like your eggs just
00:03:14.240 yeah yeah yeah we know that yeah but 90 90 of your eggs are gone by 30 and then they sell you
00:03:20.660 ivf as an option but the majority of ivf treatments don't work so the majority of women that go get
00:03:26.320 like ivf they don't actually get get a kid at all i'm just a firm believer i feel like the way my
00:03:32.400 life is supposed to pan out it will pan out just perfectly and yeah the stats are important but i
00:03:38.660 just feel like if i'm not ready now and i'm ready later and it doesn't happen maybe it just wasn't
00:03:44.540 meant to be i'll just leave it to to life yeah i think a lot of women feel like that but you know
00:03:49.660 then they hit 45 and they're on antidepressants and more depressed than any other group like women
00:03:54.680 over the age of 45 are more depressed than any other group like more anxious and the same thing
00:03:59.460 like body count is associated to all those things like anxiety depression like i can't remember the
00:04:05.080 list off the top of my head but there's a bunch of like negative like things that are associated
00:04:09.800 like negative mental health with high body count and sometimes you don't really know when you're
00:04:14.280 ready until it happens so a lot of like my brother has a baby and he was he thought he wasn't ready
00:04:19.120 to be a dad until baby happened and he's a great father yeah you become ready right yeah sometimes you
00:04:24.480 need the moment to to understand what you can and can't do that makes sense the women that are
00:04:31.180 depressed um do they have children no no yeah that's sorry i might not have said childless single
00:04:38.400 childless um um do you think you're above average and what would you bring to an above average man
00:04:45.380 i would say i'm currently average because i have a lot of improvement that needs to happen um
00:04:50.820 um my man is above average and what i bring to the table as a sense is um same thing you said babe
00:05:02.880 i am very nurturing the job that i have allows me to you know i feel like i'm going to be a very good
00:05:10.340 mum i feel like i'm very caring um money wise i'm able to take care of certain things as well so the
00:05:18.600 pressure isn't all on him i know a lot of people think oh you know it should be because he's the
00:05:23.360 man absolutely i agree with that but i want to help i don't want to feel useless in the household
00:05:28.980 um even if i'm just providing groceries do you know what i mean a little bit of something
00:05:33.160 um very understanding i i listen to a lot of things my ears are open yeah i think that is it's important
00:05:41.620 um i don't go clubbing a lot there's you know i haven't been with a lot of people before him
00:05:48.340 there's a lot of things that that would make me uh worthy perhaps of being with someone like that
00:05:55.800 if you're attracted in a above average man wouldn't you say you like you're above average
00:06:00.100 because you kind of are what you attract so he's he's older than me um and at the moment
00:06:06.480 i think as humans we'd be silly to think that we don't have a lot of growth
00:06:12.340 there's always room for improvement i'm not going to sit here and be like oh yeah i'm above average
00:06:16.920 no babe i've got shit to i've got shit to work on do you know i mean it isn't a negative thing
00:06:21.780 no no no and honestly it shows humility that you're like saying that to be honest which i think is
00:06:26.900 something men look for yeah perhaps um but yeah even for myself i know that i've got a lot of growth
00:06:33.860 that needs to happen so yeah what are you looking to improve on um work wise i can make a lot more
00:06:43.000 money i can improve in that area my my body can be a lot better my hair can be a lot longer do you
00:06:49.460 know men men don't care about money uh yeah exactly um some do but the bombs yeah not men that make
00:06:58.080 money but it's just it's just nice if the person that you're with has got ambition at least do you
00:07:02.400 know what i mean for women no with with the person that i'm with he doesn't really care about money
00:07:07.440 but he cares what are you where are you going in life yeah otherwise i can get with any woman what
00:07:12.140 are you bringing what makes you different so i've got ambition you know what is that i do in life
00:07:18.560 that's what intrigues him okay what else um what do you mean are you looking to improve on so you
00:07:25.340 said money fitness yeah it's okay if it's just that i was just curious uh yeah money fitness uh mental
00:07:32.080 health as well i think that's very important um i've still got a lot of a lot of growth to do in
00:07:37.140 that area i think we all do our money 24 so i have a lot more work to do but um yeah i think oh and
00:07:44.660 also being more more calm listening to him because i've also been very dominant in the past
00:07:50.340 he's told me that so i'm trying to be a bit more submissive yeah a bit more feminine that's it
00:07:56.820 where do you like why do you think you've been more dominant in the past like where does that come
00:08:00.820 from is that something you saw modeled growing up or is that just a trait about you so i didn't
00:08:06.020 really have a dad growing up so therefore i've naturally had to been had to be a bit more masculine
00:08:11.620 i've had to fend for myself i also grew up in a bit of a hood area you could say so yeah i came
00:08:17.780 from a bit of a rough background in a sense but um i feel like i'm dragging myself out of it and
00:08:23.780 better in myself how do you because i've always wondered how if you didn't grow up in that um
00:08:28.980 environment how do you learn to be like a wife or more feminine like where do you go um he has taught
00:08:35.220 me a lot um what i've what i've seen a lot of my family members and friends have also taught me
00:08:40.980 and if you're not willing to learn and change you're never going to you have to be able to do
00:08:44.980 that yourself it doesn't matter what background you've come from you have to be willing to learn
00:08:50.180 and to change and then you're going to it's that simple as many of you know i was just banned on
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