She Said This Without Any HESITATION
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about what we would do if we were smart enough to have perfect bodies and brains and how we would trade them in for a perfect body and brains. We also talk about the benefits and drawbacks of having perfect bodies vs having perfect brains.
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all right if you had to go like go down a standard deviation iq but you get a perfect body for the
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rest of your life would you do it oh that's like whatever your dream like whatever your dream body
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is you get it like frozen in time the rest of your life if i did an iq thing i 100 would do it i'm a
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smart ass bitch no you would have to go down you're dumber now oh fuck no fuck that body
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okay so you'd keep the iq what would you do um i want somebody else to go next no no come on it's
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all right be honest you know what to be honest i know what it's like to have brains because i have
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it now so i'm going to already have i'm going to go with the brains okay you'll keep the brain yeah
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you know i think i'd keep the brains too because hopefully i'm smart enough to make enough money
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to buy my body that part okay what about you um so if even after after i was like i like my body
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even let's even when you have a kid you just the kid comes out and it's right back and just goes
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right back right back you don't have to work out or anything okay okay so but you just gotta be
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because you gave me that i have a kid i must be married so i don't care to have my brain so i guess
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i'll go down and keep my body looking good right then you get a smarter guy you know what i mean
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i'm like a smart guy doesn't need a smart lady he's smart you know i'll do the body that's fine
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i am so annoyed by stupid people i would never want to be one of them i need to be able to carry
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a conversation but that doesn't mean you're stupid just go down a little bit right yeah yeah i mean
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you go down like like a couple iq points but you get this perfect body the rest so you didn't say
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that at the beginning i didn't realize that stupid i said okay you weren't specific enough
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so you're dumber technically you didn't say it specifically so i need the right angle of the
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altitude of the percentage considering the fact that i'm already really fucking smart i could
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drop it you'd still be fine yeah right right all right no change my answer
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what percent of like 60 year old ladies really have perfect bodies like you'd be like the hottest
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60 year old 70 year old right now i'm like at the top of the cream of the crop so if i was to drop a
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view i'd still be at the bottom layer of cream yeah you're so good you're not like you'll be a
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average bear or i'm just fine as fuck i wouldn't be a dummy for a body but like i can drop a couple
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yeah like we'll give some off i mean like a b plus student as opposed to like i've seen her do an
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amazing little thing with like losing weight and like you could do it on your own girl don't leave
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not the boobs like you can't get big boobs out of nothing no body what i said body no i i know
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when i lost all that weight my kids also but she's saying you can do it on your own i'm saying unless
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you want to put like a foreign object in your body which you know or like talking about magic here oh i
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got foreign objects in my body you ever wonder like how does that work with like kids you know
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like breastfeeding like it doesn't that it's so fun you can still breastfeed yeah oh wow isn't that like
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the plat because this is just how i think like doesn't the plastic or whatever's in it just go
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over it and like then the kids like drinking like plus whatever the hell is i just can't imagine the
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implants like are good for you no they're they've actually come a long way so i have like uh i have
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gummies so it's like if if it pops it doesn't leach but then it's like every 20 years all the women
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come forward and they're like oh fuck i have i think that was the old
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but they just invent something new and then 20 years later chicks have the same problem
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it's gonna be cyborgs and ai robots they're gonna be robots yeah okay what about you perfect body but
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you got to be dumber i'm definitely taking brains immediately because i'm always at work like damn
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if i was so smart i could just figure out how to ai this shit but yeah but but it's like we get the
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perfect body but for me i mean me being smaller me being larger i've lived both lives and i
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get attention regardless i have always been able to attract all different type of everything so none
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of that matters to me physicalness is just so surface level but for me if i have the brains to
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make as much money as i want i mean because i trade i do options i do forex so for me like if i had
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the brains truly to see things on a different perspective i would but then but then it's like if
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if we were like the ultimate hotties then you could just get a super smart guy you know and
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then you wouldn't have to think at all you could just be at home chilling i don't want to get bullied
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well let me say wait a minute i i have that option now so so it doesn't really lean me more to it's
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like oh the perfect body first of all just having that man who is that man who takes care of me i
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already have that so it doesn't make me feel like oh i gotta get this perfect body so i can get the
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man that's already gonna take care of me but what about like keeping the man you got what about it i
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got him well i'm saying like wouldn't it i mean are you married you said you're in a relationship
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in a relationship right so it's like maybe the perfect body he's like ring right here no i don't
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think so i think it has to do with i want to go back what we were just talking about you said
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something about uh what did she just say i lost my train she said she can attract anybody big or
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small anyway and that she wants to be able to create ai and all types of stuff at work so she
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doesn't want to lose her brains okay yeah i can't i lost the train of thought we were my bad well i
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would want to i would want a perfect body so i can look in the mirror and be like damn bitch it's
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fucking fine satisfied not so i can catch a man or yeah it's not for a man yeah it's for yourself
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i wonder why this is like gut reaction of us women whenever it's like we have with this you
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could have this for a man it's so interesting because we'll always have to say no no no it's
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for myself but it's really interesting because a family is supposed to be selfless families only
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work if we're selfless and we're thinking about the other person for your kids yeah and it will
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and the husband and it's interesting too because we'll give up stuff for our kids and we'll do stuff
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for the kids but it's like why why is it a bad thing to say i want to have a perfect body for the
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man i think like the whole like feminist like movement of being like an independent woman and
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even saying that you're codependent on somebody it almost is a negative tone these days but it's not
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i mean technically you are you're in a relationship it's okay to be codependent on each other yeah like
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i i would love a perfect body to get married and then a husband and then that's his body like i think
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that'd be great like what's wrong with that it's nothing wrong with that's just how you view it you
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know what i mean i think everybody has to live with what they would feel comfortable with so if
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she doesn't feel comfortable with having a perfect body but she feels comfortable with having a perfect
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brains that's her mindset now and what she'll live with right and there's nothing wrong with that but
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i'm just more asking like why do we have this gut reaction that anything we do like for the men we
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have like whenever girls say oh i don't put on makeup for the men i do it for myself i don't do this
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for the men like why is our gut reaction as women like this is for ourselves when if we want to be
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in a long-term marriage you're supposed to do a lot at least for him you have a guy grows a beard
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because his wife wants him to is that equivalent to what you're saying no because i think men and
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women are different and i think women are here to serve they have an exception that we don't yeah
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because i think we're lied to and saying that we're equal and i think the natural order of the world
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is we're not i think everybody should be living for themselves and their own happiness and that you
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should never be codependent on your partner i think i think i think i think i think that's
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the problem we'll be happy together so so these people talk about being independent independent
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means you're alone yeah you're not independent independent means to fail look i'm a provider
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protector my responsibility as the king of the house is to provide and protect for her not control
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her right you brought something up but like treat you bad there's always except there's always these
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exceptions i was in a toxic relationship everybody's been in bad relationships right but my duty and
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responsibility and honor is to serve her and provide and protect her her responsibility
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she takes care of the home she cooks the food this is how we live our life now when you say that if
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i say i'm independent well then why am i in a relationship right i rely on her to take care
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of the home that's what she does i didn't say independent did i no but i'm saying you said
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codependency is bad it's not codependent like you're unable to like you can't survive
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everybody that's not codependent it's just being a team well no no no so this is the other
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misconception a relationship is not a partnership a partnership is where you go into business with
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somebody we're not in a partnership we're in a relationship i leave the home is a business
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but it's not this is this is where the problems come in we come in it's 50 50 no it's not 50 50
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no and i agree with that i leave the home but here we are right here we are i don't believe it's
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50 50 i don't believe it but this new generation set of men is why a lot of the women are the way
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they are with the feelings of wanting to be so independent because the men are like so aggressive
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with they don't want men are the new bitches let me tell you why because women ask them to be
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bitches and 80 of the single parent homes are women and they're trying to raise these boys and
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they're raising them as feminine men you need to do this you need to do this your grandma your
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great-grandmother's like you go go out and find yourself a good man that can take care of you
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a lot of not and when i say this i know a lot of the a lot of a lot of these women nowadays their
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mamas are like you don't need a man you can be an independent boss bitch and then what happens is
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you you become 50 60 years old drinking box wine watching netflix with your with your with your cats
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right talking about angel numbers and horoscopes i'm fine i'm fine but let me tell you something
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i'm fine i'm fine and then you come 60 you're like what am i going to do for work
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you can't retire you don't have two three million if they picked the perfect body at 60
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i'm not coming at you i'm just stating what what as a man of high value man we're looking we're like
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i i talked i had a conversation last night i i talked to hundreds and hundreds of women i coach
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men and women i get these challenges i've helped marriages now i'm not perfect i don't know everything
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but i'm rarely in doubt because this is what i do and i see the challenges that some of the ladies
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and men have and a lot of these men are simping i get it they're simping and they'll come up like
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like pearl pearl was in a situation watch this pearl was in a situation a guy watched my podcast pearl
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was on there he reached out to her somehow shape way or form and he wanted to date her and like soon
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as he met her he goes i want to marry you it turned her off he was simping thirsty am i right
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yeah yeah i did and these guys i say men stop chasing women stop chasing women what value does
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a woman bring to the table i say that or to the relationship outside of sex what do you bring to
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the relationship outside of sex i'm fucking hilarious dude men don't want to date comedians
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they want to date models what i mean if that was true if men wanted to date funny if men wanted to
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date funny well i'm a funny model so what's up chelsea you're you're not that i also have a
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girlfriend so y'all need to keep that yeah i understand well they're right you're in a different
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relationship you're in a different relationship yeah but but you know for men it's like they're not
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looking for funny chicks otherwise you wouldn't see all these comedians they're always single
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no that's not true have you seen that asian comedian she just came out with a movie and she
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fucking funny you know you know it's so funny she was pregnant she already had that baby you know
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it's so funny it's like you have to bring up the exception whose name you don't really watch
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comedians well yeah but like just i can't remember her name but i've seen handlers by herself all the
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big name comedians are by themselves that woman is pain i still do think like as much as you can be as
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black and white with stuff i still think that men do choose you or fall in love with you or like
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more because because of your personality and because of things that you bring to other things that you
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bring to together they miss you when you're not around not because you're fine i know
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these really nice bodies at that really nice bodies tatted up gorgeous i mean the the woman that all the