The Future For Modern Women
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss AI girlfriends and why women should be worried about them. We also talk about why women need to learn to be more modest in order to attract and keep a good relationship with a man.
Transcript
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And if you think things are bad now, wait until there are AI girlfriends out there.
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If you think it's hard to get a guy to settle for you now, and same for girls.
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And when we talk about prenatalism, I'm like, look, we're playing on easy mode now.
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Convincing people it's worth dealing with another human being for the rest of your life,
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that's going to be dramatically hard to motivate in the near future.
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How soon do you see that happening, the AI girlfriends?
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I'm not telling people to go out there and start dating AI.
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I think Futurama is their robo-sexuality episode.
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It's because you can get everything that you want.
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Is the equivalent of an AI girlfriend the equivalent to women as Instagram?
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Because you're getting all the attention that you would have gotten from your husband?
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Because I really almost see Instagram as like a new religion for chicks.
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Yeah, because it's like, and this was kind of an interesting thought I had.
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Who here, raise of hands, thinks that women owe society modesty?
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So, my thought was, I feel like when you become a wife and a mother, you're supposed to move
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You're not really, you know, and I'm not even pro, you know, dressing super provocatively,
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but, you know, I think back in the day, they'd raise the skirt a little bit, show the ankles,
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and, you know, it would signal that they were single, right?
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But now it's like you have women that are married, wives, mothers with children, signaling
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that they are single when they're in a relationship.
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I say it like this, if your wife is a feminist, you didn't work hard enough.
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And so, there's a really interesting thing about the AI girlfriend.
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So, for example, an AI girlfriend, what does that imply?
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It implies that a man can choose the perfect features, let's say, physically, for what he
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And then also modulates for the personality trait that a woman exhibits towards him.
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And he's probably not going to maximize for nagging and hate.
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He's going to maximize for compliance and loving on a second, right?
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And so, a question I would ask is, let's say a man without any, like, proliferation of
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technology or anything like that, how would a man be able to maximize for the ideal physical
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And I tell my friends this, and I say that your wife or your girlfriend will treat you
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exactly as good as just a little better than the next girl that would be available to you.
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I.e., if you're a low-value man and your wife treats you like crap, the reason she's
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doing it is because she doesn't believe you have better options in the marketplace.
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Otherwise, the market would steal you away from her.
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So, in the past, in order for a man to iterate up to the point that he gets his ideal woman,
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So, for example, if you're David Beckham and you're ridiculously good at sports, like,
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you've worked your ass off to do that, and you've kept yourself in shape, and you've kept
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yourself in a straight line, you get to pick a Spice Girl, right?
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But with the AI model, again, we eliminate the desperation because the man can have what they
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want without paying the prices that they owe to society to get what they want.
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And this is why religions often augment this with negative externalities from moving between
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This is why, in most traditional religious cultures, they'll say, oh, you left your wife.
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Now, your value on the market is, like, super, super low because you're an oath-breaker.
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Do you know that this also explains why 95% of billionaires and 89% of millionaires are
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Because the negative repercussions of leaving your spouse shows the other men in the
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community that you're untrustworthy, and then you lose the business.
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So, people think that, like, the rich guys do all the bad stuff.
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But 95% of billionaires and 89% of millionaires are married because of maintaining the social
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The reason I didn't raise my hand when you say, do women owe society modesty?
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Women owe their husbands or future husbands modesty.
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That is the person who will suffer most for your immodesty.
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I don't think it's something you owe society or even yourself.
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It's something you owe the person who is going to dedicate their life to you.
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And you will get a lower-quality partner if you do not.
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I actually, I think children deserve a world where they're not seeing private parts.
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I just think you should have a culture that does not reward.
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And really, I think we should shame, you know, especially when you're married.
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I think when you're married, you're supposed to move differently than when you are not.
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And I want us, for posting as a wife and a mother, I want you to raise your hand if you think that this is wrong or right.
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Like, I'm going to, we're going to show the picture.
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I just want to, I want to know the rules of, like, when you're married.
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Is this appropriate for a wife and a mother or inappropriate?
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So, number one, I want to hear from the men first.
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To be honest, if she's in a hot country and I'm topless and I look good as well next to her, then why not?
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What's the specific question about this picture?
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No, the question is, like, if you added a caveat where you're in the picture, I'm saying you're not in the picture.
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If I'm not in the picture, is that appropriate for my wife to dress like that?
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If she's not dressed like that, to post this picture on Instagram.
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Honestly, I have more trouble with the tan than the swimsuit.
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A tan is a sign of vanity that shows that you've traded years of your life to show off to other people on social media.
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Well, I don't like vanity that costs you your health because that's what your kids rely on.
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Yeah, I don't even, it's not even about the swimsuit.
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What we're missing, she clearly has an eating disorder.
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Bodybuilders are famous for their eating disorders.
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You can tell she does that vacuum thing with her stomach.
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But I'm more just asking, like, okay, raise of hands.
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Who thinks this is appropriate for a wife and a mother?
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My wife doesn't have the time to do this kind of stuff because she's trying to make the world a better place.
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Why do you think this is appropriate for a wife and a mother?
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I don't feel like there's anything wrong with the picture.
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She's clearly on holiday or somewhere tropical or something, even if that's her backyard, she's got a nice house.
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But I feel like because of the nature of the picture, it doesn't look inappropriate.
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Whereas if she was just somewhere, I don't know, in ends or just in, like, underwear, like a Savage X Fenty kind of pose, then, yeah, cool.
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I think based on 2023 standards, this is normal.
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What mother does not do this online to show their combat body and how great they are as moms, they look sexy, they have kids, this and that.
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Obviously, a stomach kind of offends me because how do I get that?
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But, like, it doesn't really offend me, but obviously I don't have kids yet, so I can't really speak on it.
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I think if I had kids and I had to, I was thinking, oh, I want to feel, dude, I want to post it, but I don't know.
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I'd actually just choose my kids and be like, you don't forget it.
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She's not even sucking on that straw the way some females would.
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Is she posting it because she looks good and she wants attention?
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But if she's with a secure man, that's really not going to faze him.
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It is, though, because you're worried that she's posting something.
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You're worried that she's going to get DMs and likes and attention.
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Why would you put yourself in a situation where you can get DMs and likes from other men?
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Because she's not going, oh, I'm posting this for men.
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She's genuinely going, she's posting it for herself.
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But when you post something, you know other men will see it.
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But you can post a picture of yourself in a tracksuit.
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No, but I'm saying when you post something, when you post something, you know other men will see it.
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So, why would you, when you are a wife and a mother, why would you put yourself in a situation like that?
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You can create the world that you live tonight.
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I just, I see her as a woman who has all the rights in the world to do whatever she wants.
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So, like, is this appropriate for a wife and a mother?
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And I have something on my Facebook called Facebook feed where I'll scroll through.
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Like, my Halloween 11 years ago was a softcore site on Facebook because all the girls were in kitten outfits and mini skirts as nurses.
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So, who I have on my Facebook are the mutual friends of myself and my wife and our neighbors.
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Now, I think to myself, like, if I'm scrolling through my Facebook feed and I see the neighbor's wife posting pictures like that in her bikini,
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and I wonder what my wife would think about that.
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Like, huh, the neighbor's wife, who's also connected to my husband on Facebook, is posting pictures of herself in a bikini.
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If your husband's Facebook feed was showing the neighbor's wife dressed like that, how would you feel, honestly?