The REALITY Of Women Going To College @vtsoscast
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In this episode, we discuss women in the workforce, college, college debt, and why women should or shouldn't go to college. We also talk about why college is a waste of time and what women should do if they don't have a degree.
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So women, education, jobs, we had your friend Nick Fuentes on, right?
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And he was adamant women should not go to college, period.
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They should not go to college, with maybe the exception of certain people
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that are going into STEM, medicine, law, but he's basically an advocate for that.
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I played sports, so I really enjoyed college sports.
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But, no, I mean, it didn't help me in the workforce.
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So I guess the conversation I'm looking for is college overall has become watered down.
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It doesn't offer as much value as it used to offer.
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You're not necessarily unique if you go to the four-year university and you graduate.
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But should women specifically not go to college?
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This is the STEM field that I was talking about.
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The chicks don't want to be engineers, you know.
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Should women go back to the pre-1950s and just stay at home, cook, clean, mother, raise the kids, not go to the workforce?
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I think it's so funny when I hear these chicks talk about, oh, I miss the days when we just got to stay home and not work.
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It's like, bitch, what do you think the 1800s were like?
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Do you think your life was easier when you were working on a farm?
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So, you know, I think that women should listen to their husbands.
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You know, I know women that do work and they work for their husbands.
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I think it depends on every family's financial situation.
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But I think it's better if the women can stay home.
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Not every family can afford to do that, you know.
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Well, look, I can kind of agree with you on the whole listening to the husband thing.
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What happens before they have a husband, though?
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If they don't work or go to college or anything like that.
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Like, walk me through the logic like, yeah, college is useless.
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Well, if I was going to tell, like, a 22-year-old, I mean, I would get a job where you would want to meet your husband.
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So if you want to date a doctor, you know, you work as an assistant at, like, a medical clinic.
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No, but this is important because I have a lot of conversations with women about this.
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Because I actually have a very unique perspective on this, Pearl.
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Because, you know, in my old age of 40 plus, 42, I see women that have focused on their career so much, right?
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And have done all the high body count, travel, living it up.
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But beautiful women who are now 38, 40, 42, 44, still single.
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And my advice to them is, yeah, you probably should have prioritized a man, marriage, if that's what you want, which many women do, right?
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But at the same time, I also give that advice to a 22-year-old.
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So how do you give this knowledge to a young 22-year-old girl who's like, what are you telling?
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And if you were having that conversation, what you do with plenty of women, how would you basically get on their level to basically see what you're saying?
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Do you warn them of what the future would look like?
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I mean, I can go through the antidepressant stats, like the women over the age of 45 that are on antidepressants.
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You can go through the single childless women statistics.
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But, you know, I'm not in the business of forcing people to live one way or another.
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For someone like her, specifically, you know, if you could, if Dr. Pearl put on her medical hat, what would you tell Nat?
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This is a place that I'm going to find my career, and I probably will meet somebody along the way.
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That just Nat whispers an answer, and you agree with it?
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That did not sound convincing by either of you right now.
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I mean, long term, this is a company that I want to build.
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And I know along the way, there'll be a lot of people I will meet, and I will probably find who I'm looking for along the way.
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So, I think this is important, because you, you know, some people say, you know, this isn't advice, but it kind of is, but it's, you know, kind of, I don't know.
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But at the end of the day, we're all kind of giving opinions, which could be perceived as advice.
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If you met a guy that you really liked, would you prioritize that?
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That's going to be my next chapter in my personal life.
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So, that's an area that I do have to give time and attention.
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So, knowing female nature, you're a woman, you know female nature.
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What age do you think most women even start thinking about actually settling down, having kids, getting married, all that stuff?
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I see a lot of women that get the 30 itch, and then, oh, I got, so, but prior to 25, you know, how are they eating?
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Oh, what I would say, I would just say, be a virgin, young chicas, be a virgin and get married.
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If we want to look at, you know, if your goal is family and children, that is the best option for you.
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How would you suggest a woman would court, or how would you suggest a woman get experience?
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I'm not saying sleeping around, because I'm not condoning sleeping around, but how would you suggest a woman like that, you know, she's been home, to be able to identify this as a man that is going to...
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So what suggestion would you have to those women that stay at home?
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Well, I think, like, traditionally, it used to be that the dads would help you.
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And so the dads would say, these are, like, five guys in town.
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All right, so you got a daughter, right, let's just say.
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And you say, these five guys, they're everything that I think would be good in a husband.
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So kind of like the Indian culture, where they kind of give the marriage.
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So I do want to talk about women and the body positivity.
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This is something that I find fascinating, this conversation about virgin brides.
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One of my favorite movies of all time is The Princess Bride.
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And, look, you know, in high school and college, maybe I took one or two, right?
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But at this phase in my life, the last thing I'm looking for, for me, is a virgin, because
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I'm, in many respects, yes, but maybe not in certain categories.
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Are you, like, looking to get married the next couple years?
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Traditional marriage, as far as the government getting involved in my life, you know, I don't
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Well, at the end, you're going to flip it on me, have this conversation.
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Because I've been pretty traditional, but I'm becoming more traditional, evolving, as
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Well, when I think of, like, a traditional woman, I think of a woman that, like, I don't
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So I was, like, I spent, like, four hours a day in the gym.
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I mean, in modern society, a lot of girls play sports.
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How else are you not traditional, but you would love to be traditional?
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Well, I think traditional women get married before the age of 25, so...
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Like, I just don't see athletes, like, female athletics, as being, like, the epitome of
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You've said you're not traditional, but you wish you were.
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But you're also saying, hey, women, go be traditional.
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You're also like, look, I'm not really traditional, but this is what I would recommend for you.
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But when it comes to virginity thing, it's actually pretty fascinating to me, because I have some
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You said the ideal marriage of two virgins is getting married and staying married for a
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Non-virgin women cause all of the world's problems.
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So, you know, in the West, specifically, the concept of virgin brides, in my opinion,
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How can we go back in time and recreate this traditional virgin lifestyle?
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And, like, how much does this actually weigh on your mind?
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A lot more since every show I go on, they bring it up.
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But here, before you answer, look at these stats.
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So, in the 1970s, all you have to do is look at the top number.
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So, in the 1970s, this is, when you get married, 21% of women were virgins.
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By 2010s, specifically when social media hits the scene, it plummets down to 5%.
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So, is this, can we put the toothpaste back in the tube, or are we doomed?
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If you look up 1920s, the first sexual revolution was actually in the 20s.
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Yeah, women's suffrage, everything that goes along with that.
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And so, it was actually like 85% in the early 1900s.
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So, think about how far that's fallen in 100 years.
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But, you know, the concept of Virgin Bride, are we just too far gone that it's, like,
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we're not, these numbers are trending that way.
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How do you envision it going from 3% back to 5%, back to 10%, back to 20%?
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If you can kind of put things in place to make it go back in place, what things would you put in place to influence more of that?
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Well, I would say women respond very quickly to social shame.
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When something is socially shamed as a society, that is typically when you see women make changes.
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For example, and I don't know, you guys have to see this on the show.
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You just hear women repeat back the same things that they've heard, like, in the media.
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I've heard about Kim Kardashian getting married so many, like, so, really, I think the only way to swing it back is the culture and through social shame.
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So, when you guys ask me, you're like, well, what would you tell a 22-year-old chick?
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Like, it's like, well, I can give them this advice, but I'm not stupid.
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But I don't know, like, if you had a daughter, like, are you going to tell them it's better to have multiple partners or zero partners?
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That's just me, but it's just, the only reason also why is because, to me, it's like you can't handle a level of discipline.
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And you can't handle a level of, like, keeping something that's private, private, you know?
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Like, being able to be tempted with something like that, I think that's a level of discipline that's very hard for people to have.
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And so, for me, I'm with, I'm not, like, going to argue.
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Like, go sleep around, because that's not what I provide.
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Like, I genuinely know chicks that have waited.
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No, I know, I can think of three off the top of my head.
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But when I look at their outcomes for life, I'm like, well, like, they're probably the happiest married people I know, like, under the age of 40.
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There are stats that show that the less body count you have, the longer the marriage lasts.
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What do you think about the girls, we've had this on the show a bunch of times, who are born-again virgins?
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Would you ever consider yourself a born-again virgin, or are you living in reality?
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I'm going to start saying that on the show, as I swear to God.
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Yeah, I mean, I think those chicks, you're going to kind of have a hard time selling a guy on that.
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Like, yeah, they got it for free, but you, sir, need to marry me first.
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Well, I think we could start by not rewarding it.
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Maybe the guys come in, stop marrying the Kim Kardashian, stop giving these women commitment, neon.
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You know, men used to, like, shame other simps.
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You know, Dylan Danis is really doing a service to the men throughout this country.
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But, you know, it's interesting because you talk about the free markets and capitalism.
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I would say the onus is on the men, the simps, the guys who are paying these women.
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Because if guys stopped paying the OnlyFans and the sex workers and the strippers, what have you, then they would stop doing it.
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So at what level does the men have accountability for rewarding these women?
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Yeah, so if a guy deals drugs, is it the crack addict's fault?
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I think addiction is a lot different for being addicted to drugs than being like, yeah, I just want to see some ass.
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Why do we have empathy for drug addiction but not sex addiction?
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You know, there are studies that say that sex is a need for men.
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So when you have one out of three men that are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year, it's like, it's on the internet.
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If this was Pearl's World, I would just ban it all.
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But it's interesting how when women make a poor decision, we find a way to blame it on the men.
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But when men make a poor decision, we blame it on them.
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But at the end of the day, it comes with choice.
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You know this that you don't want to be banned.
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So why can you ban speech but not ban activities or ban what people want to do?
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You try to ban people making decisions with their own bodily autonomy.
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How could you ban something that the market wants?
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Well, I mean, people are still going to do it illegally, of course.
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But I don't really want to live in a world like Amsterdam where you can go down the street and get a hooker.
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And that's really like, you know, have you seen that where the women are like in the front?
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And so it's like, do you really want to be in a society that is so accepting that we accept that?
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I don't think the argument should be, well, someone's going to buy it.
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Because, you know, there is some validity there.
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But you're also saying that there's some sort of equivalency to a crackhead to a dude who wants to go to a strip club.
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And there's some guys that just kind of want to have a fun night on a Saturday night.
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There's crack addicts and some guys that want to smoke a joint.
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I'll tell you what we could make an equivalency to.
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The one out of three very, very lonely men in this country.
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A lot of these men still do jobs that run the infrastructure in society.
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I mean, you heard Andrew Tate talk about when he did the cam business.
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But my point is when we were talking about the sex workers, you immediately blame the customers.
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And whenever women make a bad decision, we have a tendency to blame the men.
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So as an example, those one-third of men, we've seen that stat.
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Maybe they don't have any respect from women because they don't deserve respect.
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Hector, maybe you should be a virgin until you improve your life.
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That's like if you break down the numbers, that's not the majority.
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You know, that's not like a men or women thing.
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Who I feel bad for is the, there's two groups of men that I have a lot of empathy for.
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One is the average men that do not get respect in this country.
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Again, 45% of men, almost one out of two men, do a job that makes the country run.
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And a lot of times, especially in the influencer space, I see this a ton, where we shit on the
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The second group of men that I have a lot of empathy for are the traditional men that do the right thing and get married.
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And they typically have average jobs, work the same job for 20 years, and then come home one day to a woman that has taken half of their assets.
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And I've been on the other side of that, and I've interviewed these guys.
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I have a ton of empathy for them because they have no idea what they are signing up for.
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Yeah, no, men definitely need to be forewarned of sort of the pitfalls of marriage.
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But I'll say this, I'm almost taking like a different angle than you, but I am a man.
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I'm one of those dudes that actually want men and women to win.
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I'm not that person that's like, men win, women lose, women win, men lose.
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Those men, from a macro standpoint, from an economic standpoint, you're absolutely right.
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The millions of truck drivers, okay, the millions of guys that work with their hands, the millions of plumbers, from a macro standpoint, you're absolutely right.
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But from a micro standpoint, are you basically saying that I have to respect Carl, the truck driver, just because he drives a truck?
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But just because he drives a truck, I don't think he deserves respect.
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I think from a macro standpoint, I respect what the men do, but I don't think I really need to respect Carl because he drives eight hours in a truck every day.
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I think it's a pretty privileged position to be in, honestly, because the average men allow you to do what you do and live how you live.
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So I think you should treat the people that help you get to where you are with a lot of respect, yes.
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Just because they have a job, they deserve respect?
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I think that you should respect, I'll give you an example, Uber drivers.
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I couldn't get anywhere without my Uber drivers.
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It doesn't, you know, it's not like a necessarily hard job to do.
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But, yes, I think the average men in this country that work normal nine to fives deserve respect.
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So, you know, Elon Musk has a quote that you are paid in the proportion to the problem that you solve.
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So as an example, I work, and I'm not doing this, in the financial markets, okay?
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I'm a financial wholesaler for a very niche product.
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And I'm, my company, myself, are the best in the world at this one thing called life settlements.
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We're the best of the best of the best, and we are highly compensated for it.
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But very few people can do it, and that's why we're paid a lot.
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So the lower level of a job, the less problems you're solving, the less you'll be paid.
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So, you know, how many YouTubers are out there?
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How many YouTubers have more than 100,000 subs?
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How many have more than a million subs like Pearl?
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So it'd be like saying, just because you're a YouTuber, you deserve respect.
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And it's, you need to establish some credibility and competence in order to get that respect.
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So if you own the trucking company, it's like, all right, that guy built the company and hired all the guys, respect.
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But the guy on his first day of a job just because he drives a truck, I'm not like, oh my God, respect.
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So do you not respect the employees that work for you unless they work their way up and own the company?
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Like, I think that you should respect the people that allow you to do what you do.
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And so you have it here, and I'm also talking about in society as well.
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So, you know, the Uber drivers allow you to get from point A to point B.
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Nine out of 10 trips, they're getting a five star.
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But every one in 10 trips, someone's getting a three star.
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But the point is, I'll respect you if you do a good job and do the job you're supposed
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But if you don't do a good job, sorry, Rick, you just got one star.
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So the whole like, I'm just going to respect you because you're an Uber driver, at what
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point does merit and value come into the equation?
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You're like adding something in where you're like, well, what about the ones that don't
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But my point, well, I mean, I probably would, but I just, I'm pretty easy to please.
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But my point is that average men that allow us to do what we do deserve respect.
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And too many times I see people become successful and get to a certain point and they don't respect
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Not everybody's going to own businesses, not everybody's going to become a top five,
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And quite frankly, we couldn't have like the country would not function if everybody did.
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A hundred percent agree with you on the infrastructure.
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Men do not get the respect that they deserve in that regard on a macro level.
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On a micro level, I think that you have personal responsibility, individual decisions.
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Prior to the 1980s, 1950s, however far you want to go, women weren't necessarily in the
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So you could be at a small town in Des Moines, Iowa, or Jacksonville, Florida, or, you know,
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And point is, you could get, as an average man, you can get a normal girl.
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She relies on you, you pay the bills, an average income could support a family of two, normal
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But as women have been empowered, gone to school, made more money, now they've developed a, I
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I'm only going to go out with a guy that makes more than me.
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So is it because women have made more money, they don't necessarily need that man as a
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And is that the biggest reason that they don't get the respect from the women?
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Actually, I would say they do it through child support, alimony, and government benefits more
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In order to get married, a guy has to fall in love and make that decision.
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You don't need to get, you just need to trap the guy.
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You need like the wrong, get the wrong woman pregnant.
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You know, they say that, uh, but women used to, it used to be, everything was more family
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So women would work, they would just work like if a guy had a farm, the woman would work on
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So they would just be working together typically.