JustPearlyThings - May 15, 2023


The SHOCKING Truth Women NEVER Admit


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8 minutes

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213.00716

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1,904

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Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 for the girls okay would you rather how many how many kids do you guys i know some of you have kids
00:00:05.440 i have just one do you want more i do yeah okay how many do you want total maybe like three in
00:00:11.600 total three how many kids do you want how many kids do i want yeah um probably about four okay
00:00:17.280 four kids yeah better get moving girl i've got some already oh you have some okay so now you
00:00:24.320 want two more okay what about you um i always want each more than five okay um um i'd be happy with two
00:00:36.000 one boy one girl okay so how much do you guys think it costs a year to raise um the amount of kids you
00:00:42.720 want a lot especially if you're a single mom a lot okay um so so if you have two choices guy a
00:00:52.240 you have to work until you're 65 70 we're going to up it to 70 and you have to work 30 hours a week
00:00:59.760 while being a mom okay guy b takes care of everything but he steps out from time to time but you don't
00:01:06.080 ever have to work again and you're done i already work 40 hours a week yeah now you get to work zero
00:01:14.000 i've been in relationships where it's been 60 40 my ends and then we both be paying like 50 50 on the
00:01:18.960 bills and then i'll be cooking cleaning and doing the washing and i'll be doing like grocery shop as
00:01:24.880 well but i don't think i could do that again that was a lot um but and imagine looking after the kid
00:01:30.240 as well you would take which one i would probably say b the guy who paid for everything yeah yeah okay
00:01:36.400 she's honest i think most girls would take b yeah i i i would because i've been there and i saw
00:01:41.120 wait hold on i mean i'm just thinking like like so you're taking the easy way out
00:01:49.840 no i mean 40 years is a long time you're not gonna have the same energy you do at
00:01:55.520 the same time i do love what i do and i i love it with a passion regardless i did it without money so
00:02:00.480 i still want to you know some kind of control over me doing some kind of work you can still
00:02:05.120 what is it sorry what is it you do for a living um i direct model and dance okay yeah i do like
00:02:11.200 commercials like adverts on tv and stuff it's a i mean i'm not saying it's an easy job but it's a
00:02:17.200 fun job something that you look forward to going to yeah yeah so would you would you say out of the
00:02:22.400 two options that you presented that b would be the easier way out it would be yeah it is okay so we
00:02:28.640 need to keep that energy it is the easy well we look at only fans creators and say that we've taken
00:02:33.040 the easy way out no no no no no no no no i like consistency as he said i don't like hypocrites
00:02:39.920 so when he pulled me up he's right he's right when you were right you were right but if we're
00:02:43.920 gonna go and say that you're gonna go for plan b then please we can't have no no no i'm talking about
00:02:51.600 the bees in the room don't then say ah you took the easy way out because you've just confessed with
00:02:55.760 your own mouth if you had the opportunity between the hard and the easy way but i think in life most
00:03:00.720 people take the easy way yeah the majority it just depends if it just it just depends if it interferes
00:03:06.720 with your morals and values so it's like yeah the thing that surprised me as a man in in this day and
00:03:12.560 age is like knowing how many women have to work these days is when i was in situations where i was
00:03:18.240 able to say to women you don't have to work anymore i'm gonna look after you all of that the lack of uh
00:03:23.600 appreciation staggering staggering i'm talking like within a couple of months they're acting like
00:03:30.000 they've always been this yeah they they have like this memory you know you've had a men in black
00:03:34.720 where they've deleted memory it was like they'd never worked the day in their life so women get
00:03:38.640 comfortable fucking super quick and that that surprised me the more more than anything no i
00:03:43.200 believe exactly what you're saying i feel like the majority of females nowadays are taking the um plan b
00:03:47.840 that nowadays that's why guys aren't really taking them serious and i feel like that's that's just the
00:03:52.400 way it is yeah but then if you're if you're you as a man are going to a woman saying i can offer
00:03:56.240 you this and i can offer you that of course the woman's gonna be like you know what let me take
00:03:59.200 that offer yeah no but i feel like you've got to think of it like this you're going to a job interview
00:04:02.880 yeah you're going um you you i don't know you you've gone to starbucks for instance starbucks is
00:04:08.720 offering you a manager role first for 30 grand a year you go to another starbucks that starbucks is
00:04:14.400 offering you 40 grand a year for the same job which one you're going to pick no i get it but i'm just
00:04:19.680 saying from a guy's point of view just in this day and age i just feel like girls don't really put
00:04:25.040 in that effort girls don't really show that appreciation they just want want want same like
00:04:29.120 a a a a girl um not long ago where she's she's messaged me on instagram like oh like blah blah blah
00:04:36.640 spoke a few from spoke a little bit through instagram and then she's turned around oh yeah she's been
00:04:40.480 i'm like oh what are you doing this week she's telling me oh so where you taking me
00:04:43.520 what you've messaged me what do you mean where am i taking you like i don't do you know what i mean
00:04:49.040 instead of thinking instead of her saying oh like this week i'm free if you're free i will take you
00:04:54.560 somewhere let me cook you dinner something like that that's more appreciation that's what makes
00:05:00.960 the growth of a man to go towards a female i've not i've had like i've been fairly successful on the
00:05:06.000 old internet and i've been dating websites not once has a girl said let me come over and cook you
00:05:10.560 dinner never the onus is on the man and i've got no problem with that necessarily because i'm old
00:05:14.640 school and i don't mind taking you know but that would blow my mind if a woman said that i'd be like
00:05:19.040 wow maybe she is why you can you imagine that's what makes a guy more like that growth towards a
00:05:23.760 next time now you're gonna get women didn't you i'll cook you dinner i'm not as stupid as i look
00:05:31.760 what's your what's your what's your speciality cheese on toast no i'm playing i'm playing i'm
00:05:46.880 trying to get messed up but um women women need to come with the wifey skills man you know i mean as
00:05:52.640 as a guy coming from a caribbean household and everything my mom sort of taught me to be
00:05:57.120 independent so i can cook my own food i can yeah you know generally do skills which are associated
00:06:03.040 with women like sewing i can sew you know what i mean yeah that type of stuff so when um a woman
00:06:09.600 comes to the table she needs to be able to offer me if she wants the i the idea of um being in a
00:06:14.720 relationship to come into fruition she needs to be able to offer a lot of wifey skills stuff which
00:06:20.800 generally i know how to do that but i can't be bothered to chime in on this because i think women
00:06:25.120 don't realize like they're looking for this big moment to show their skills if you meet a guy
00:06:29.680 and you really like him the the thing that will trick him more than anything else is one day he
00:06:34.720 realizes fuck mate my life is way better with her in it she does this for me she does that for me like
00:06:39.760 i haven't asked her to do any of these things she's just trying to make me make my life better yeah
00:06:46.000 and this whole uh mentality that we've got these days with this exchange of what can you do for me
00:06:50.640 and men are just as bad i'm not saying that we're not but like when women do that you catch yourself
00:06:55.040 like okay yeah but you don't have to say you just have to show him absolutely yeah that stems from
00:07:00.160 what we were saying we both need to build each other i mean do you know what i noticed though
00:07:04.480 it's like the women that because i always hear this on the shows where it's like oh i gave him
00:07:08.560 everything or i did all this for him and i realized the girls that say this they're actually spiteful
00:07:13.280 and they keep score because the most giving women i know they don't keep score and they never talk
00:07:18.720 about what they did for a guy and so that's what i realized it's like it's actually a red flag when she's like
00:07:23.680 like oh i did all this because she views herself as the victim and like she did nothing wrong it was
00:07:29.360 all him yeah a million my my experience when women like women be like detectives they start digging up
00:07:36.160 old shit that they did for you two years ago that you've forgotten about and and that i think that
00:07:40.640 that's a really bad a point scoring like when you're in an argument and you start going back and
00:07:45.520 forward and it's like well you did this no you did that and what started and it's like i'm never getting
00:07:50.080 they're sorry so it that's why i don't like that women can't help it that we just store this like
00:07:56.960 in the back of our heads i got it because we're so like emotional yeah and in that emotion i personally
00:08:03.280 feel like when women are really upset with men like you guys uh you you want to vent and you want to
00:08:09.520 like take that out on us and i understand that but you're not we're not solving anything but that's
00:08:14.320 why i think like women having women friends that actually want you to win is so important like
00:08:19.600 they have to be married they can't be single and they have to be happily married because it's like
00:08:23.920 we don't we can't dump all our problems on the guys they don't want to hear about it that's why i was
00:08:27.920 saying earlier as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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