JustPearlyThings - May 20, 2023


These Women ADMITTED This Fact About Themselves


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7 minutes

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00:00:00.000 Do you think the type of guys that women go for changes as they get older?
00:00:03.440 Yes.
00:00:04.440 More like Mr. Nice Guy as you get older.
00:00:06.680 Now I'm with someone who's more about their business mind,
00:00:11.920 you know, the way their family looks, things like that, than just looks.
00:00:15.880 You were more about looks when you were younger, and now it's less about looks.
00:00:18.680 When I was younger, I used to go for the fittest one, but now, hell no.
00:00:22.000 Would you say more of like a provider type guy?
00:00:24.000 Yes, yes, for sure.
00:00:25.400 Would you agree with that or disagree?
00:00:26.680 Well, you're only 19.
00:00:27.680 But the guy I'm chatting to right now, he's quite a bit older,
00:00:32.120 and I've always tried to older guys.
00:00:33.400 All the people in the past who were my age, they were childish.
00:00:36.960 Men are childish in the brain.
00:00:38.200 I can't lie.
00:00:38.800 Older guys don't also treat you better because he's a good looking guy I was talking to,
00:00:41.680 about three years older than me.
00:00:42.720 He's still treating me the worst I've ever been treated in my life, so.
00:00:45.320 Do you guys think women like nice guys or bad boys?
00:00:48.200 Bad boys.
00:00:49.000 Bad boys.
00:00:50.560 Can you blame men for treating women like shit if that's what we like?
00:00:55.520 No, but I feel like you don't want a bad boy to settle down with.
00:00:58.240 You like it for the fun and game, but then when it comes to settling down and being with
00:01:02.680 someone long-term, you don't want someone like that.
00:01:04.960 What age would you guys want to settle down?
00:01:07.400 28, 29?
00:01:09.120 I think the best age to settle down would probably be like 27, 28.
00:01:12.960 Yeah, I feel like living your life a little bit.
00:01:15.280 Who gets away with cheating more, men or women?
00:01:17.440 Men.
00:01:17.960 No, women.
00:01:18.960 Women.
00:01:19.960 Who lies more, men or women?
00:01:20.960 Men.
00:01:21.960 Men.
00:01:22.960 I mean, women are better liars, but I think it's men that lie more.
00:01:25.120 Do you guys remember when Chris Brown and Rihanna were in that incident a couple years
00:01:29.920 ago?
00:01:30.920 Yeah.
00:01:31.920 Yeah?
00:01:32.920 I've been watching about that recently to be fair, but just update myself on it.
00:01:35.000 Why do you think there was a public outcry for Chris Brown and Rihanna to the point that
00:01:39.880 he was canceled for a while and couldn't do shows, but there was no public outcry for
00:01:44.600 Cardi B when she publicly admitted to and robbing men.
00:01:48.040 I think because Chris Brown's a guy, so everyone looks at the guy like the person who beat someone
00:01:54.200 up that's not good, but for a girl, if you do that, you don't get the same.
00:01:58.000 But I feel like the thing is, obviously, don't get me wrong, you shouldn't hurt or hit someone,
00:02:03.120 but you don't know the underlying issues.
00:02:05.720 It's all talk at the end of the day, isn't it?
00:02:07.120 Do you think if a woman hits first that the men should have the right to hit back?
00:02:11.400 Yeah.
00:02:12.400 Yeah.
00:02:13.400 Yeah.
00:02:14.400 Yeah.
00:02:15.400 Yeah.
00:02:16.400 Because girls get away with it.
00:02:17.400 I hate to say it, but that is how it is.
00:02:18.400 Like, girls have the perception of, like, little miss innocent, like, they don't do nothing
00:02:22.120 bad.
00:02:23.120 Like, it's okay for a girl to smack a boy around the face, like, in an argument, but if
00:02:26.320 a boy did the same to you, like, imagine a boy smacking you around the face, like, you'd
00:02:29.760 be fuming.
00:02:30.760 And, like, it would be assault, so, like, why is it not the same, vice versa?
00:02:34.800 I'm awful.
00:02:35.800 Equal rights, equal rights.
00:02:36.800 Equal rights?
00:02:37.800 I mean, yeah, I guess.
00:02:38.800 Like, if a boy slaps you and you slap a boy, you're just as bad as each other.
00:02:42.080 Do you think that men should have a right to hit women if they, if the woman hits first?
00:02:47.200 Yeah.
00:02:48.200 Fair play.
00:02:49.200 Like, if I know that if I, I mean, I'm not condoning it at all, but like, like I said,
00:02:54.040 like, you're just as bad as each other.
00:02:55.080 Like, if you smack a boy and then a boy smacks you back, you kind of can't be mad about it
00:03:00.360 because you have to admit that you were in the wrong in the first place.
00:03:03.360 Would you say...
00:03:04.360 But it's not good either way.
00:03:05.360 Would you say they're not just as bad as each other?
00:03:07.480 Would a woman be worse and he would be acting in self-defense?
00:03:09.800 It's a tricky one because men are technically stronger than women.
00:03:13.000 So if you give him a little smack on the face and he boots you in the fucking jaw, like,
00:03:17.600 that's not, that's not the same.
00:03:19.920 Like, so I have a question.
00:03:21.240 If my producer, Blessing, that's his name right there, goes up to Dwayne The Rock Johnson
00:03:26.600 and hits him and Dwayne The Rock Johnson smacks him back, is, are they equally in the wrong?
00:03:33.080 Would you say that's the same thing?
00:03:34.320 I would have to say yes, because I think the same, like, same with girls.
00:03:37.840 But like, but in the same, like, The Rock will have a harder smack.
00:03:41.400 So...
00:03:43.000 Do you think people would feel bad for him though?
00:03:44.920 Because...
00:03:45.320 100%, 100%.
00:03:46.320 I wouldn't want to get smacked by The Rock.
00:03:47.760 If he hit The Rock first, you don't think it's dumb on him?
00:03:50.640 I think everyone would probably hate on him and be like, you're, you're an idiot.
00:03:54.360 Like, why are you doing that?
00:03:55.360 The only point I'm making is that it's interesting because it's different when it's a man and a woman.
00:03:59.440 Do you know what though?
00:04:00.120 Like, that is the perception that, like, men, that women are allowed to get away with it, men aren't.
00:04:04.120 But I genuinely believe, like, if you smack a boy, you have to expect to smack back.
00:04:08.120 Like, not expect it, but like, you can't be mad if it happens.
00:04:11.720 You have to own up to your own shit.
00:04:13.400 Like, you can't just be mad at someone for doing the same thing you've done.
00:04:16.760 You're a hypocrite then.
00:04:17.880 And who wants to be a hypocrite?
00:04:19.160 Or why do you think there was such a public outcry with Rihanna and Chris Brown,
00:04:24.760 but there was not the same outcry for Cardi B when she publicly admitted to drinking and robbing men?
00:04:31.160 No, that is f***ed up because Cardi B, that's so wrong.
00:04:34.360 Like, there should have been, like, the same uproar.
00:04:37.240 But she wasn't cancelled at all.
00:04:38.360 No, she should have been.
00:04:39.320 She should have been because that's f***ing disgusting what she done.
00:04:42.120 I think for some reason, it's still, if a man does anything to a woman, it's bad.
00:04:47.080 But if a woman does anything to a man, it's still somehow the man's fault.
00:04:51.160 Just depends, like, situation and how the media show everything.
00:04:56.280 You don't know what's real.
00:04:57.720 If a woman hits a man first, then a man should be able to defend himself.
00:05:01.800 Yeah, definitely.
00:05:02.600 It works both ways.
00:05:03.640 Like, it shouldn't be no-hitting.
00:05:05.160 It's toxic.
00:05:05.880 So, exactly.
00:05:06.920 Do you think if a woman hits someone, she should expect to get hit back?
00:05:10.280 I'm not here for violence against women.
00:05:12.360 Like, I'm not trying to...
00:05:13.480 What about self-defense?
00:05:14.520 What about self-defense against women?
00:05:16.040 Self-defense, but I think as a man, you can contain yourself and, you know what I mean,
00:05:18.520 control the situation.
00:05:19.640 If you can't make me a knife, then I've got to do what I need to do to protect my life.
00:05:22.440 Honestly, I have to do whatever needs, you know what I mean?
00:05:24.920 Whatever needs a must, you know what I mean?
00:05:26.360 I'm going to do that.
00:05:27.000 I have a question.
00:05:27.640 If my producer at there, Blessing, goes up to Dwayne The Rock Johnson and hits him,
00:05:31.800 can Dwayne The Rock Johnson hit him back?
00:05:34.040 Absolutely, because you hit him unprovoked.
00:05:35.800 So, wouldn't you say that's a little bit of a double standard you have then for men and for women?
00:05:40.120 Because that's a weaker man versus a man that's clearly stronger.
00:05:45.000 No offense, Blessing.
00:05:46.120 Man against man, woman against woman, you know what I mean?
00:05:47.320 It's all fair, it's all fair, you know what I mean?
00:05:49.480 How is it fair when Dwayne The Rock Johnson is much stronger than him?
00:05:52.680 Because Dwayne The Rock Johnson put in the work and he put himself to that size,
00:05:57.160 didn't it?
00:05:57.480 So, if he happens to have that size and that strength, that's his business,
00:05:59.480 you know what I mean?
00:05:59.960 But I think man against man is always going to be fair, woman against woman is going to be fair,
00:06:02.920 man against woman, not so fair.
00:06:04.360 So, you think Chris Brown was wrong for hitting Rihanna even if she hit first?
00:06:07.960 I'm not going to comment on that because, yeah, common though.
00:06:11.640 What kind of question is that?
00:06:12.840 Ooh, it's a bit too thick.
00:06:14.040 I don't know, I wasn't there, I wasn't there in it.
00:06:15.320 So, I don't know what happened between them, I don't know who hit first,
00:06:18.040 but we're glad Breezy's back.
00:06:19.960 Do you think, why do you think that Chris Brown was cancelled for the Rihanna situation,
00:06:24.840 but Cardi B wasn't when she publicly admitted to drugging and robbing men?
00:06:30.120 Do you think there's a bit of a double standard?
00:06:32.120 Yeah, 100%.
00:06:33.080 He shouldn't have done that, but he also shouldn't have used his force against her.
00:06:37.160 He's back now, but I'm saying Cardi B never left.
00:06:39.720 Like, he had to go away for a couple of years.
00:06:42.840 To be honest with you, I think there's a difference between being physically violent
00:06:46.120 and taking men's money, like...
00:06:48.520 What if it was reverse, if a guy was drugging and robbing women,
00:06:52.280 not touching them, just drugging and robbing women?
00:06:54.040 Yeah, it's bad.
00:06:54.680 It's a bit of a double standard, right?
00:06:56.120 100%, yeah, it is.
00:06:58.200 But in the same breath, there's a difference between, I personally believe,
00:07:01.720 like a woman, you know, isn't as strong as a man.
00:07:03.800 Many of you know I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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