JustPearlyThings - May 18, 2023


This Bi-Sexual Man Said This


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Length

8 minutes

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215.77441

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1,760

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2


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 a woman hit the lottery for 1.3 million dollars right she hid it from her husband and 11 days
00:00:10.280 later divorced her husband he found out two years later from a letter in the mail and it was the
00:00:14.600 lottery company saying do you want to get the lump sum or do you want to continue getting the
00:00:18.440 monthly earnings okay because yeah they didn't like recognize that they were divorced because
00:00:21.640 he stayed at that same address right so he got the letter but they were divorced at this time
00:00:25.720 two years later correct but she won the lottery at the time they were married he sued her and for
00:00:31.080 fraud oppression and malice ended up winning 100 percent plus she had to pay the court fees on her
00:00:39.840 end what a king win what's a king oh no 100 100 yeah what'd you guys think of that she was wrong
00:00:50.040 yeah he won he won right man one yeah don't try it don't try it she tried it she would have got
00:00:59.200 some payments monthly until the letter came through and he realized or whatever it's crazy because you
00:01:04.500 know this made national news that a woman was you know taking all of a guy's earnings but women do
00:01:09.240 that all the time 24s yeah no cuz this this one's funny because it's a different amount i know that's
00:01:17.400 a big amount of money you know she was taken and he won legally he won everything as well because not
00:01:21.800 only did he win money not only did she have to pay the legal fees he also found out the kind of
00:01:25.480 woman his wife was yeah he really won but that's probably because i'm guessing they never had any kids
00:01:30.280 with her if he had kids with her it might have been a different situation because of liability and blah blah blah
00:01:36.680 and remember what he earns but it still shows the kind of woman i'm talking about 100 i'm saying the
00:01:45.160 reason why he would have won 100 he couldn't have had you know any liability with her with with actual
00:01:49.800 kids who know that's because she was lying you know it's interesting they looked at what happened when
00:01:53.720 like each sex won the lottery and their probability of divorce and how do you think it turned out
00:02:00.200 guys it was like the majority of the men's tape from the majority of the women laugh but see that
00:02:08.360 that goes to show who who is responsible with the power of leverage
00:02:16.040 elaborate so the power of leverage you being the breadwinner you having a life-saving amount is that
00:02:21.640 something that you're going to want to push into the tree that you already have or is that something
00:02:26.280 that you're going to go and want to do like more selfish things and go and you know do something
00:02:30.200 independent do you know what i mean because bearing in mind in that marriage you have gone
00:02:33.880 through things where you're both broke you're both going through things you know what i mean
00:02:37.720 not even like a yo i won the lottery but here take that this is my money but boom here take that
00:02:42.920 or and a none nothing like that just just up and left i can imagine if you know i'm married my
00:02:49.080 wife divorces me then i see her in bahamas and here there i'll be thinking where did she get
00:02:56.520 and i found out she won the lottery no you know you know it's crazy the the idea that men will leave
00:03:04.200 you for a younger woman before like no fault divorce was introduced isn't even correct even before no
00:03:10.040 fault divorce like women would still leave men more like they always have right i see that being true
00:03:16.840 i didn't know that wow yeah because a lot of people know because it's a propaganda campaign
00:03:21.720 because basically um with the women's suffrage movement they just put like all of this propaganda
00:03:26.440 in the media to like take men out of the home basically and tell women that like we need a
00:03:30.120 career more than we need men but then again you need to look at it like this so men are proposing
00:03:34.600 sometimes it's not really i don't know it's the guy that's made that big decision sometimes the girl might
00:03:39.880 be like yeah your boyfriend material but i didn't want to break up with you but now we're married
00:03:44.280 and i didn't really think i'd spend the rest of my life i've dated a lot do you know what i mean but
00:03:48.280 now we're married things have just moved faster than i really cared for them to at the time i thought
00:03:52.120 i'll just go with the flow and i'm comfortable and they might not actually think boom like this is not
00:03:57.080 even the i might have grown out of love with this person but for the guy because he's making all these
00:04:01.880 um intentional move movements with you of course it's a no-brainer well i got more money to do things boom
00:04:07.640 yeah let's stay together i also think maybe like i don't i'm just guessing here but going with your
00:04:14.120 your scenario i feel like maybe women sometimes like they just want a wedding day like they don't
00:04:20.920 want a marriage they just want a wedding day someone proposes oh i can do this and take
00:04:24.280 little scrap pictures with my girls and all and like it's all gonna be about me like
00:04:29.960 so you know it makes sense i had this conversation with a friend the other day on gay weddings
00:04:34.760 and i said um and i said i understand why a woman want to get married because the whole bridesmaids
00:04:39.720 and the whole i said why why a man would want to marry another man that's just a waste of money and
00:04:44.040 time and the guy said oh yeah blah blah blah men have every right i weren't trying to say men don't
00:04:49.720 have right to marry another man i was just trying to say i understand why a woman wants it but i don't
00:04:53.640 understand why a man would waste his time to marry another man that's how you know with a man it's
00:04:56.840 intentional like you said you know because there's so much more especially in this day and age now and the
00:05:02.200 climate that we're living in there's so much more at risk for the guy like that that is a clear
00:05:07.000 signal from the man that he is committing to you because you know and then if you're a girl
00:05:13.800 and you then just sort of just say yes like i can see it happening would you guys get married without
00:05:17.960 a wedding no no yeah what's the point you wouldn't no why just because i think it's such as and i'm not
00:05:26.520 one of those girls who's like dreamed of this big white wedding my whole life like i still don't really
00:05:31.080 know too much where i want my wedding and stuff but i think it's just a nice way to just bring
00:05:35.640 everyone that you love and share that special memory with them to be honest that seems cool
00:05:40.760 that's what christmas is for
00:05:44.920 roast turkey family you only see once a year that's what christmas is what what if he says okay we don't
00:05:50.040 have like money right now um let's just go to the courthouse and get this thing done i want to be your
00:05:54.840 husband isn't that more important than the wedding i mean that's what my parents did to be fair
00:05:59.080 so why can't you do it i mean yeah i would it's not that i wouldn't want to do it but i'd also want
00:06:04.840 that big special day would you would you be comfortable with would you be comfortable with
00:06:10.360 getting that down the line again would you be comfortable with getting that big day down the
00:06:15.480 line that's more like a certificate of your your union and marriage yeah i could do that small now
00:06:20.520 and then big maybe five years ten years yeah i could do that why is it not enough to just have been
00:06:25.800 picked though like if a guy is literally telling you he wants to marry you like why why do you need
00:06:32.040 some kind of signification that you've achieved this great thing like why is it not just enough in
00:06:37.000 your heart that this guy wants to be my husband i agree with that i agree with that why do you need
00:06:43.400 a legal documentation no i mean the wedding day don't get me wrong of course it's it's nice like
00:06:50.520 you say you get your family and friends together yeah who doesn't want that especially when you
00:06:54.520 know because the bride's family meets the groom family like that's that's lovely but at the end
00:06:58.840 of the day the marriage signifies a partnership and a commitment and why why do you need that wedding
00:07:05.480 day so he asked if you would take it if you had that big day down the line would you do it if there
00:07:10.520 was no big day he just wanted to be your husband but you didn't have the money for a wedding so
00:07:15.320 like that was it you just go to the courthouse or whatever and get the document i mean of course if
00:07:20.040 i was completely in love with the man and i wanted i saw a future with him and i wanted to live my life
00:07:25.000 with him of course i'm not gonna say no do you know what i mean because it is about the marriage at
00:07:29.160 the end of the day but just for me i love memories and i think that would be a celebration of what's to
00:07:35.080 come so for me it's like it's like the beginning of the story what about the memories that you'd make
00:07:39.560 in the marriage yeah no of course but it would be like it would be like a celebration of the beginning
00:07:45.080 of the future but wouldn't couldn't you make memories in him asking you the feeling that you get and
00:07:51.320 knowing that he wants to make that commitment walking down to the courthouse together having that
00:07:55.400 private moment together then whatever you do a little glass of champagne yeah you don't need
00:08:00.760 everyone else to confirm that you've done something great you don't need to seek validation from
00:08:06.760 everyone else this is kind of making me want a courthouse wedding