JustPearlyThings - June 14, 2023


This Modern Woman Got HIT With REALITY @ModernLifeDating


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Length

8 minutes

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208.0647

Word Count

1,818

Sentence Count

32


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Hey, then oh my god the poor modern man like I said earlier he's a bitch
00:00:05.160 Well, and he's a bitch cuz he's raised by one
00:00:07.160 No, he's a bitch because he's just one because not every single modern man out there is from a single mother home
00:00:12.400 But the majority of them are
00:00:14.400 You're talking to a guy that coaches men he coaches like that like I would write you coach a man run
00:00:20.560 Yeah, right I coached thousands of men
00:00:22.660 Yeah, he knows more than you do about like what like type of homes these men come from
00:00:27.540 Okay, that's fantastic, but I'm the one that deals with men on a more personal level because I'm a woman and I know how
00:00:33.520 Most of these modern men act and can I just say more than what he will know because they don't try to chat him
00:00:37.900 No, listen, they I've talked listen you're wrong with all due respect my love tell me. Okay. I talk to
00:00:44.100 Thousands of men for tens of thousands of hours and I understand intimately what the problem is
00:00:51.100 And a lot of things this do one thing a lot of these single moms do is
00:00:55.040 Is they will guilt trip and turn these sons into like a de facto husband?
00:01:02.580 Where the son is now helping paying the rent the son is like helping like he becomes they're like
00:01:09.000 Husband placement holder that happens a lot if you watch that movie the Joker, right?
00:01:14.040 There's a scene at the end when he kills his mother and a lot of these guys for the incel community and stuff like you know
00:01:20.480 I wish like that's what that's how I feel my mom was oppressing me and stuff like that
00:01:24.180 So I mean when you're just trying to say that
00:01:27.340 This is entirely men's fault
00:01:30.240 You're wrong and it's also wrong when we say it's entirely women's fault
00:01:35.240 Because listen because because it's the truth because here's the thing if women want all the rights and
00:01:42.520 Responsibilities that men have they also must have the accountability that comes with the responsibility because you can't have responsibility
00:01:51.220 Without accountability and that's why I love exactly what you said because you acknowledge the fact that is both of our faults
00:01:57.160 Rather than just being the typical red pill who just says is women's fault is women's fault and another thing I want to mention
00:02:02.280 Can I find something out though whenever we bring up a problem about women the gut reaction is always to say but men
00:02:08.100 When we always are talking about men and then no, but i'm saying but we have so many conversations
00:02:13.480 There's been 50 years of media talking about men's issues. I don't want no scrub and you know the you know
00:02:19.300 Like the many shit is normal like we have so many and you don't see the men come in
00:02:25.600 And say oh, but women and there's a shift to you got. Okay. You don't know what you're you're like in your 30s. How are you 30?
00:02:31.960 Yeah, so you remember this you remember the song? I forgot who's saying it
00:02:34.640 But she would say the boy is mine. Yeah, remember that now you have these always like I don't need no man fuck this guy
00:02:41.680 You know, I do big shifts as well. Hold on. I do agree men's songs have gotten simpier
00:02:47.600 Do you know why I get no, no, no, no, no drake has changed even drake is thinking he's a gangster
00:02:53.220 I don't know hotline bling. I don't know hotline bling. That's
00:02:59.220 Listen right there
00:03:01.220 No, no drake is a simp. I'm not gonna lie. There you go. There we go. Oh, not all
00:03:07.960 Music nowadays is but made by simps a lot of these men like won't you stay with that guy would get taken to an alley
00:03:15.920 That's pretty old though. That's pretty old though. Now what is he singing?
00:03:19.660 Back in the day
00:03:24.660 I avoid that shit like the plague. I don't know
00:03:26.660 Men used to serenade women's with their songs. They used to sing outside used to like it's raining
00:03:31.200 But the difference is women used to be worth serenading
00:03:34.320 No, that's a w on pearl for that. That's a w on pearl
00:03:40.320 They downgrade you in their songs and they just have like you half naked and they say that you're basically worthless
00:03:45.680 You're just you're good for one night, but who's dressing half naked
00:03:48.960 No, but there's less
00:03:57.120 Just just question and I need raise your hand are there more whores today than there were 50 years ago
00:04:02.560 Raise your hand if you think yeah, everything's different. No, no, no. Yes. Okay. Come on. Thank you
00:04:09.200 So so is it is it really like can we blame them for treating us like whores when there are more whores to treat like
00:04:16.240 Can I say something effort? Let me this is the problem I have right if a dad constantly tells his daughter
00:04:21.800 You're a whore. You're a whore. You're a whore. You're ugly. You're ugly. You're ugly
00:04:24.320 Guess what's gonna happen? She's gonna continue to think that for sure
00:04:26.880 It's the same thing with terrible these rappers when they continue to call women hoes hoes hoes
00:04:30.340 bbb's tricks tricks tricks women are gonna actually start to believe that this is what they like or this is what they want
00:04:35.860 And this is what I mean by this this lack of acknowledgement when it comes to where the men are going wrong in this type of conversation
00:04:42.420 But we acknowledge it all the time in media and music like it even in general conversation like it's okay
00:04:49.460 He knocked her up. Who's the accountability on him?
00:04:52.820 We have so many phrases that just like literally absolve women of any accountability
00:04:57.300 And so it's like whenever men have a movement like women feel the need to police how they speak about women
00:05:02.820 But what I feel like I'm sorry
00:05:04.500 Can I just quickly say something what I feel like is what's because I used to really be this like red pill type of thing
00:05:09.620 But now that I'm looking deep into it
00:05:11.140 What I'm scared of is that society is gonna turn into what the feminist movement is turning into you
00:05:15.940 Which is just putting the blame on women women women the way we used to put the blame on men men men
00:05:20.180 When are we just gonna stop pause and try to find like a middle ground between each other because I genuinely feel like this is what is turning into
00:05:26.820 There's no middle ground with the way the laws are if the idea is hey, let's come to a compromise and get married
00:05:34.100 I think most men are for that
00:05:35.780 But the problem is women have voted for these systems that actively oppress men and we can see it with the tate interview
00:05:42.340 Because a top 1% guy that can afford the best lawyers in the world is in a prison because the women me to him
00:05:49.700 And so so the difference is i'll tell you the difference the difference is men have no power right now
00:05:54.580 Yeah, I will I will push back on that and it is in the romanian justice system, which is romania is notoriously corrupt
00:06:01.700 So like I do but I understand what you're saying but at the same time like, you know
00:06:06.580 There is objective truth in the sense that
00:06:10.820 when it comes to
00:06:13.460 Divorce and breaking up the families
00:06:16.020 78% of the women are doing this and so let's just theoretically say
00:06:21.940 The men are at fault for the divorces
00:06:26.020 Why aren't women better at choosing good guys?
00:06:28.660 Because they don't have fathers in the home to teach them how to
00:06:31.220 Who kicked the father out the home?
00:06:32.740 They did! A woman is not just going to decide I don't want a husband in the home
00:06:36.260 The husband has to do something and that's the part of the conversation that no one is acknowledging
00:06:40.820 That's kind of annoying like a woman's not just going to decide I'm going to kick you out
00:06:44.500 The man has to be being very useless for him to kick him out
00:06:47.220 So then why is she choosing a bad guy?
00:06:49.300 How are you going to know?
00:06:49.780 Because maybe she didn't even have a dad because her dad wasn't even in the home to teach her how to
00:06:53.460 And some guys are good dead but they know how to hide well
00:06:55.860 Okay, cool, cool, cool
00:06:56.980 So who kicked her dad out of the house?
00:06:59.220 Can I tell you?
00:06:59.780 He kicked himself out of the house
00:07:00.660 Can I add something?
00:07:01.620 Can I add something?
00:07:02.820 Can I add something?
00:07:03.780 Because we keep talking
00:07:05.620 Whenever we have these conversations I can argue for both men and women very easily
00:07:10.260 But if we're going to learn anything from Andrew Tate
00:07:12.740 And one of the things that he does say that I stand for the most
00:07:15.300 And I'm like, yeah, do you know what?
00:07:16.180 You're a G for seeing this
00:07:17.300 It's the matrix, right?
00:07:19.060 And the matrix is that there is just like a figurative term
00:07:23.860 To explain the people that are running this whole thing
00:07:26.980 The whole machine that actually influences the whole world
00:07:29.220 On every level from media to energy industries to politics to everything
00:07:35.140 And those people at the top are men
00:07:37.780 The world is actually run by men
00:07:40.180 As much as we're trying to run away from that
00:07:42.180 That is a fact
00:07:43.140 Women have a lot of power in a man's world
00:07:45.460 Because we have the sexuality side of things
00:07:47.860 But it's men running this machine
00:07:49.300 I agree with you
00:07:50.340 And they use women as a tool in my opinion
00:07:52.820 Because they know that we
00:07:55.140 We know that women can be easily
00:07:57.140 Like propagated
00:07:58.420 Yeah, and manipulated
00:07:59.780 Because we agree to
00:08:00.660 So
00:08:00.820 Okay, so
00:08:02.740 And so it goes back to the point of saying
00:08:05.220 Man them
00:08:06.180 Stop getting smarter
00:08:07.220 Since we are supposed to be the weaker beings
00:08:09.300 Why are you letting this mess up?
00:08:10.500 What percentage of men are
00:08:13.220 Like what percentage of men are making those decisions
00:08:15.540 Versus women being manipulated?
00:08:17.940 And even it's funny
00:08:18.820 I say manipulated
00:08:19.620 Like the women don't choose this
00:08:22.420 It's like in our language, right?
00:08:23.540 Women are being manipulated
00:08:25.380 Men are being manipulated
00:08:26.580 I'm saying like if we're going to go
00:08:27.540 It's men versus women
00:08:28.820 I agree with you
00:08:29.460 It is a small percentage of men running things
00:08:32.100 And they use women as a tool
00:08:33.620 But I'm saying more women are being used as a tool
00:08:35.940 Than men running things
00:08:37.220 Well, to an extent
00:08:37.780 Because that's a very, very small percentage of men
00:08:40.100 That's like less than one percent
00:08:41.540 And Danelva, you're correct
00:08:42.420 But yeah, yeah
00:08:43.380 So I agree with you