JustPearlyThings - August 17, 2023


What 39Year Old Single Female Think Of A Bus Driver


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00:00:00.000 but yeah so my question is what does a 39 year old single woman why does she feel comfortable
00:00:07.200 shitting on a bus driver i think because she's oh sorry when the men say she's a six roughly
00:00:14.720 and she kids is out the window so i mean because like as a guy i'm assuming right and you guys can
00:00:21.280 tell me if i'm wrong you're going to go down a point in terms of marketability to you because
00:00:25.040 she can't have kids yeah yeah i had to um end the relationship because the person was a few years
00:00:30.400 older than me and i knew that there wasn't gonna be a future there by the time i was ready she
00:00:34.240 wasn't gonna be ready yeah i mean so it's definitely a factor yeah so why why are we in a society where
00:00:39.760 an average chick is shitting on average men because we're making more i think the reason why she can
00:00:44.800 say that is because obviously she's in an established position so hence why like you said women always
00:00:49.680 go for men that are doing better than them so definitely a bus driver would be her down
00:00:54.800 downgrading herself yeah i understand the age factor but at the end of the day she's successful
00:00:59.040 so she should deserve to go for someone that's more successful than her see i disagree i i think
00:01:05.760 it's like what what is your marketability to men so so you can you can go after the men that make more
00:01:10.960 than you but i think that's a recipe to die alone if you can't get the men that make more than you then
00:01:14.720 you have to go down and you have to respect him but then the relationship's not gonna work because
00:01:19.360 she's with someone that's broker than her like any guy who is broker than you broke men are so
00:01:24.800 sad and depressed and dangerous like she's gonna be in an unhappy relationship an average like a bus
00:01:30.080 driver like he's broke he's not broke but my point but see this this is the problem with our mentality
00:01:37.200 as women we care more about the lifestyle than the family because all we're thinking about is the
00:01:42.160 money well he's broker than me but what percent what percent of women are gonna give up their
00:01:46.800 careers for a family what percent of women are gonna give up their lifestyles for a family i think
00:01:51.680 him being a bus driver sorry i think him being a bus driver that will contribute to the the family
00:01:57.360 aspect because if a man is making less than the girl and can't provide he's gonna feel inferior so
00:02:03.040 therefore the marriage is eventually gonna break down i don't think that i think it's more that the
00:02:07.920 woman makes makes feel inferior yeah i don't think like honestly like i i've gone for guys that make
00:02:15.360 less than me but it's like if you don't treat them like they do they like they don't feel it yeah
00:02:21.360 and it's like if you're not super snotty and asking for like all these crazy
00:02:25.360 i was entitled to their preference of like what they want and like correct everyone's entitled for
00:02:30.560 what they want but it's a recipe to die alone like this is what would you rather be have a bunch of
00:02:35.360 money and be by yourself or have a family but what does she do like is she just to present all
00:02:40.240 she's like a newscaster and it's and it's funny because her job is completely like you don't
00:02:44.800 society doesn't need it to run so it's like i don't understand as women why we come off thinking
00:02:49.120 we're so much better than the men when our jobs aren't even needed in society to run like a bus driver
00:02:54.480 the society needs to run but i think with hers maybe hers like desire for like not even desire
00:03:01.120 story maybe her like disregard for a bus driver probably just stems from the fact that maybe this
00:03:06.560 was her ambition like you know how you said your end goal is to like marriage and kids i think that's
00:03:10.000 maybe most girls is end goal maybe she her dream was to be a presenter or a news report or something
00:03:15.440 like that and she's clearly 39 no kids no man like i think she's sacrificed she's made sacrifices to be in
00:03:23.440 a position like if this was her end goal then she's clearly sacrificed a lot like 40 years of work
00:03:28.400 maybe like to get into this position so i wouldn't blame like if that was really the angle i wouldn't
00:03:32.640 blame her for disregarding a um bus driver because it's like she's 40 with no kids like why would she
00:03:38.400 go but i think i think if you're a woman and like that's the position you choose to put yourself in
00:03:43.040 you have to date down and be happy with it i don't think like because otherwise don't put yourself in
00:03:47.680 that position because what what percent of men like makes six figures it doesn't even have to be six figures
00:03:56.240 maybe i'm so sorry maybe she's not um like shitting on the the salary i think just in the word itself
00:04:03.120 bus driver sounds like manual labor it sounds like i don't want to date what's wrong with manual labor
00:04:08.720 no but that's the thing is like bus drivers like this is what i'm saying is like i've seen a bus so
00:04:13.520 many times like i 15 pounds like if i went on indeed and saw freaking pound an hour job i would not mind
00:04:19.920 but it's something about driving a big red bus for me personally i just find it i wouldn't even say
00:04:24.480 embarrassing because there's people who drive buses but if i'm a news reporter and you'll hop
00:04:29.920 like there's people like tap in the oyster card the school kids at 3 p.m on your bus and i'm here
00:04:34.560 reporting globally like oh my gosh the king's been coronated and my man is driving kids from school
00:04:40.240 so like what it's like get off your high horse you talk i talk for a living you're just talking but
00:04:44.640 this is what i'm saying i don't think i don't think it's actually like the way i personally think
00:04:49.200 is just the position because if you said it's 15 an hour like a musician maybe it might change i know
00:04:54.320 and i think that's the problem is average women like on average men and we act like we're better
00:05:00.480 than them when we're not no i don't i don't know i think i think i've actually i think i've actually
00:05:05.360 been like subject to doing that like to actually thinking that i deserve more than what i can give
00:05:13.280 to you or exactly that what i bring to the table which is which is different for both because
00:05:18.480 because the thing is like because you're you're a really successful musician because you've been on
00:05:22.560 like x-factor or whatever right so it's like if you put yourself in the top 10 percent of of talent
00:05:28.080 right and that's great but you you have to know what's come what comes with it and it doesn't make
00:05:33.520 you more attractive to men men don't care it's nothing and so it's like women will treat their career
00:05:38.960 and act like it's an asset to men when it's nothing you're still an average chick um how are
00:05:44.880 you i'm 26 26 do you have babies or i wish i'm trying do you have a husband no no no ring but no
00:05:55.040 and it's true to me too it comes with like i could tell you because i'm in that situation it comes with
00:05:59.280 a lot of problems you can't look like you're better than these men you have to speak from experience
00:06:04.240 that's it yeah i just think the preference thing and like everyone's entitled to what they think
00:06:09.200 they desire and deserve yeah and the standard that they want for their life i don't agree with
00:06:14.880 shitting on people like i don't agree with that i'm so against that actually like i don't i wouldn't
00:06:19.680 say she really shat on the bus driver she just answered the question if she dissed it oh did she
00:06:25.760 i haven't watched the whole thing oh does she does she if she does then yeah okay because what i said
00:06:30.720 they ignore what i said but it's more like she doesn't ask him about his character he doesn't
00:06:34.400 she doesn't ask about his values it's just bus driver he's out the door without asking any
00:06:39.600 other questions and i'm saying that's the problem no i think that's wrong also i think if she was
00:06:44.560 younger maybe but you're so old like respectfully you can't what are you gonna if i was a man i'd be like
00:06:51.600 what can you provide for me you can't even make babies she doesn't want babies and what if he doesn't
00:06:56.160 want babies she can find somebody on the same level as her man want to have tribes yeah no but
00:07:01.200 why would a man why would a man marry a 39 year old that can't offer him children like because he
00:07:06.240 might have had his kids like surely she's 39 she can probably go for someone that's about 50 55.
00:07:10.400 he's probably had his kids right but then why but then why would he get married at all he might
00:07:15.280 you might not get married and that's my and that's my marriage the epitome of success i think i think as
00:07:20.480 a woman yeah i think i think you're a loser if you don't get married and have kids i think the
00:07:25.600 equivalent of not getting married and having kids i think the equivalent of that is as a guy that
00:07:30.480 doesn't have a job but that's the other thing as well that i think you have to consider because you
00:07:34.320 said that she might want to date someone that's like maybe 55 55 year old bus driver but a 39 year
00:07:40.960 old tv presenter i feel like is not the same i feel like realistically the bus driver is not going to be
00:07:45.760 like 20 years old he's probably going to be older so it's slightly more embarrassing that within your life
00:07:50.320 you didn't build a better career right but why does it matter if you have money so she has money
00:07:55.200 what it was naturally women like naturally like natural selection or whatever like naturally women
00:08:01.520 feel more secure with a guy who has more money but the but this is the problem it's like she's not
00:08:06.320 a traditional woman how many bodies she got by 39. well this is an assumption oh come on 30 you're
00:08:13.360 telling me 20 years in the dating market but even if she does even if she does like i don't think that
00:08:19.040 now that lowers your value to men it makes you less valuable so so the whole point is she wants
00:08:23.760 a traditional outcome but she's not a traditional woman we don't know that yet i don't know that yet
00:08:28.400 but i think another thing a lot of people don't and i noticed it everyone just ignored the fact that
00:08:36.480 she's this quote unquote high value woman that earns this amount of money and this and that and she's
00:08:41.920 around a lot of high value men so why haven't any of them picked her that's very interesting and um i only
00:08:48.320 say that because i grow with i grew up with my brother and i can think like a man um so with my
00:08:53.920 brother what i understood how men think is the older you get how men think the more experience you have
00:08:59.840 whether you do or don't only you and god knows it doesn't matter but the older you get the way a man
00:09:04.480 can view you is like you have a lot of experience why are you single why are you so old more the older
00:09:10.800 you get you have more experience it's harder to change you the older that you get so a man will go for
00:09:15.920 a younger woman because they're able to manipulate yeah we can view it in a bad way or we can view
00:09:21.520 it as they're able to because i know that if i was a man i'd get someone younger so that i can mold
00:09:26.640 them to what i want them to be now you lot can sit there and be like oh you know he's manipulating
00:09:31.120 he's grooming all right cool but actually i know that if i go for a 30 year old woman they're going
00:09:36.880 to be stuck in their ways if you both smoke i've got a 20 year old woman there 30 year old woman there
00:09:42.080 both of you smoke i can actually probably change a 20 year old woman but a 30 year old i don't think
00:09:47.280 there's going to be much two are supposed to become one flesh anyways right so and that's like that's
00:09:53.200 how they used to view it i think they were one yeah i think the main question here is if she was to date
00:09:59.040 a bus driver will the relationship work no one won't work because he's not providing for her he's not
00:10:04.960 being the superior person in the relationship so what's the point of her going for a bus driver what for the
00:10:10.160 sake of saying she has babies i think she knows is just not going to work like a bus driver probably
00:10:15.200 doesn't know as much as her probably hasn't had as much experience as her they probably do not have
00:10:19.360 the same thing in common in terms of what experience does she have she talks for a living yeah but she
00:10:24.000 probably has experience of like she's probably in big rooms with people they have like really serious
00:10:28.480 conversations she probably can't have them conversations of a bus driver so i think the
00:10:32.240 reason why she's saying that is because she knows with a bus driver the relationship is just not going
00:10:36.560 to work i'm sure you can agree that a man's role is to provide right so if you can't provide the
00:10:41.120 relationship is just it's not going to work i think his role is to provide if you're a traditional woman
00:10:46.640 if you deserve to be provided for so what is a traditional woman could be like state like what
00:10:52.000 what is that i think i think you can in general like what our great grandmothers were our grandmothers
00:10:57.280 so like virgin more so yeah yeah i mean i i really don't think they exist anymore to be honest but
00:11:06.080 like virgin um usually like submissive to their husband cooks cleans no good with children has
00:11:13.680 experience with children knows sewing isn't like i i think we know in general what a traditional woman
00:11:19.280 is like we're not we're not dumb you know so um i i think it's entitled to ask for something you don't
00:11:26.480 deserve and that's why i think this is crazy because she's asking for something she doesn't
00:11:30.400 deserve she's asking for traditional treatment when she doesn't deserve it i think that's a bit
00:11:34.320 harsh to say that she's entitled only because obviously when you compare it to like traditional
00:11:40.160 women the grandmothers and stuff like that they didn't have an option to become a tv presenter their
00:11:44.560 whole life goal was to be a housewife and have raised kids like women have been able to work since
00:11:49.520 like the 20s no but this is what i'm saying is that like work and tv presenters two different things
00:11:53.680 like this woman isn't on tv every day she's having fun she's living her dream she's kicking back like
00:11:57.920 i personally if i'm on tv having fun i don't really know if at 39 i'd want to come back to a however
00:12:03.440 year old bus driver but he's probably riding his bus and he's going to be so happy to see you know his
00:12:08.400 pretty wife on the tv and he comes home and he sees her as well i feel like this is what's better a bus
00:12:13.760 driver or air air air like like to breathe um what like nothing no no no so you come home right and
00:12:23.360 you lay in bed and there's air but no that's different and there's or or there's a bus driver
00:12:29.760 or the equivalent of an average job because she's an average chick but that's what i'm saying
00:12:35.200 asking me like if like if he's getting on my nerves i'd rather air but i feel like bus drivers work long
00:12:41.840 hours anyway so 90 of the time is probably going to be air in that bed but i just feel like it's
00:12:46.400 harsh for her to be entitled just because men like so she's 40 right what does life look like for her at
00:12:52.320 60 70 like we're supposed to live to be 90 years old what is she going to do the last 40 years of
00:12:59.040 her life her looks are gone so tv's over i don't know but she's invisible she's invisible to men because
00:13:05.040 like men aren't really checking for women over the age of like 45 50 you know 50 if you're lucky
00:13:09.840 um so now what does the second half of her life look like the thing is it's obviously personally
00:13:15.760 like i don't know but obviously she says she just doesn't want to spend it with a bus driver so if
00:13:20.480 that's what sis doesn't want then that's what sis doesn't want and maybe like who knows maybe that
00:13:26.320 debate actually sparked up and woke up a bus driver and he's thinking do you know what i'm really gonna
00:13:31.840 work harder or maybe do you know what they're like fuck it she's 40 i can't really i'm gonna keep driving
00:13:36.080 my bus like but my point my point isn't even really her like i don't i don't really give a
00:13:40.160 shit about this girl right my point is like average women still feel entitled to above average men and
00:13:46.000 we're so delusional to think that we are going to get them when what does she bring to the table as a
00:13:51.520 39 year old news presenter so would you say the bus driver's above average and she's average i'm saying
00:13:57.600 she's average um maybe even below average at 40 as into what she can bring to a guy and a bus driver
00:14:05.120 is an average man so they're like equals kind of yeah and she thinks she's above it