JustPearlyThings - November 06, 2023


Why Modern Women RUINING Society with Their NUDITY in 2023


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Length

29 minutes

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201.06749

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5,952

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18


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 She chooses to put in all the pictures she took on a holiday. Why is it that one where she's naked that she chooses to put on the internet?
00:00:06.620 Actually, actually even further the reason I saw this picture was I
00:00:11.240 Pointed out some girl because I've been doing this fun thing on Twitter where I judge appropriate or inappropriate
00:00:16.680 They should they should thank you
00:00:18.680 Yeah, yeah, yeah
00:00:22.040 Everyone gets mad. I'm like you don't have to listen to my opinion. It's just my opinion
00:00:25.700 Anyway, so this woman decides to I said inappropriate to one chick
00:00:31.060 She starts tweeting at me your selfie to show me. I'm like and I'm gonna say inappropriate. Yeah
00:00:36.940 There's a much bigger problem with what she's posting as well
00:00:39.560 And this is one of the reasons why many women are choosing not to have children is they believe that after they have children
00:00:45.000 They're expected to have these gorgeous bodies
00:00:47.180 They're expected to look like 20 year olds and when people post things like this, they're giving people the impression
00:00:52.300 Well, I can't do that after I give birth. I can't you know, my body's not gonna look like that
00:00:57.200 I'm not gonna have kids they get terrified of it
00:00:59.400 And there needs to be a frame shift in how motherhood is done and after you give birth after you have kids
00:01:05.160 You're not expected to look like a 20 year old anymore
00:01:07.580 So the most damaging
00:01:08.620 She ain't trying to look like a 20 year old at all. I think she was she's genuinely built that way
00:01:12.660 She's trying
00:01:14.660 Wouldn't you be inspired if you saw a woman that's had a kid and she looks great
00:01:18.460 Wouldn't you be inspired to want to look like that's my only that's my only I only wonder sometimes
00:01:22.860 I wonder because when I when I some guys I follow them
00:01:25.300 They look they have great bodies and I get inspired by that, you know, and they've gone for a lot of things
00:01:29.400 So a mother she's had a baby and then she's she's just been right like I've had I've had three kids
00:01:34.420 All right, I'm not I'm not huge right, but I'm not sexualizing myself and that's what she's doing
00:01:39.340 She's posing wearing a bikini. She has her breasts out. It is a sexualized image of herself
00:01:45.480 It's the pose
00:01:49.480 If a guy was standing there with a kid
00:01:51.480 I have loads of pictures with my mom and aunties where they're in obviously bikinis at the beach
00:01:56.580 Yeah, but it's in a photo and it's not online. Yeah, that's a different generation
00:02:01.020 Yes
00:02:02.020 It's a different generation
00:02:03.520 What I'm trying to say is that we're trying to basically bring the old school ways of how modesty used to be into a new age
00:02:08.280 I think this woman is from the same generation though. Yeah, so that's your point doesn't stand
00:02:13.120 Wait, I haven't finished
00:02:15.120 Okay, sorry
00:02:17.120 I just personally feel like
00:02:19.120 What does the guy in the green suit think?
00:02:21.120 Sorry, I just personally feel like we live in 2023
00:02:25.120 This is made to seem normal to just take a picture of yourself a post online get loads of lights. It's nothing
00:02:31.120 Nothing at all. I mean
00:02:33.120 No cause, no reaction. That's just how people live these days
00:02:35.120 One thing I've noticed throughout this conversation is almost like we're not realizing that everyone in here is also a little bit vain
00:02:41.120 Naturally, we all have wool clothes today looking at ourselves. Do I look nice? Do I know?
00:02:47.120 It's just a natural thing that no matter what we do, it's gonna still be here
00:02:51.120 So when we post up we're trying to say to our followers. Oh, look look at me. Oh, I look good today
00:02:57.120 But really if you're smart or if you feel like you want to be modest in a certain way
00:03:02.120 You can put your page on private
00:03:04.120 You can also have certain people that follow you
00:03:06.120 Not the predators or people that you think that might be a little bit like looking at you in a certain way
00:03:10.120 You can try and police it
00:03:12.120 Private stories as well, yeah
00:03:13.120 There we go
00:03:14.120 There's still screenshot and they still get out there
00:03:16.120 You can't trust nothing
00:03:17.120 She could be private
00:03:18.120 Hear me out, hear me out
00:03:20.120 Or you could just take the picture
00:03:22.120 Hear me out, hear me out, hear me out, hear me out
00:03:25.120 And you could send it to your husband
00:03:27.120 That's one option
00:03:29.120 And then he'll say
00:03:30.120 He'll say that's amazing, honey
00:03:31.120 One option
00:03:32.120 Send it to the group chat with your friends
00:03:34.120 Yeah, like you got, you could text whoever you want
00:03:36.120 Like how many people got to see it?
00:03:38.120 I take acceptance of this
00:03:40.120 I'm incredibly vain
00:03:42.120 What?
00:03:43.120 I have a little vain
00:03:45.120 Thank you for saying
00:03:46.120 I think you shouldn't speak on my behalf
00:03:48.120 Okay, the next woman go next, please
00:03:53.120 I just think this is
00:03:54.120 Oh, Jesus
00:03:55.120 All right
00:03:56.120 I want the Mariah Carey one after this one
00:04:02.120 Because I got a lot of heat for that one
00:04:05.120 So this one I said inappropriate
00:04:09.120 Inappropriate for a wife
00:04:12.120 One is in the library
00:04:14.120 Oh my God
00:04:15.120 Oh my God
00:04:16.120 Did you just say that
00:04:17.120 Is there a reason why they're all being dumped?
00:04:19.120 It's like they're just
00:04:20.120 Just the hench, right?
00:04:22.120 Who's bigger than the holding?
00:04:23.120 Raise them
00:04:24.120 All right, all right
00:04:25.120 We're going to try to get through these
00:04:26.120 So raise your hand
00:04:27.120 Inappropriate
00:04:28.120 Raise your hand
00:04:29.120 If you think it's until appropriate
00:04:30.120 is she a mother and a wife?
00:04:32.120 because of the second picture
00:04:34.120 as a mother and a wife
00:04:36.120 inappropriate most say
00:04:38.120 go to the next one please
00:04:40.120 yes
00:04:42.120 alright this is
00:04:44.120 this is Hayley Bieber
00:04:46.120 I knew her, I was going to say
00:04:48.120 but she's not a mother, she's just a wife
00:04:50.120 and she is a social media influencer
00:04:52.120 and she's a model
00:04:54.120 so she has an expectation
00:04:56.120 ok so I think, here's my thought
00:04:58.120 alright, I think that
00:05:00.120 you can have one but you can't have
00:05:02.120 both, if your job
00:05:04.120 is to be a whore
00:05:10.120 I think alright, which I mean
00:05:12.120 I'm being funny
00:05:14.120 I know she did modeling, I know she did
00:05:16.120 but if your job is to act
00:05:18.120 sexual or whatever
00:05:20.120 I say do that
00:05:22.120 but once you get married
00:05:24.120 now is the time to be a wife
00:05:26.120 I don't really advise it before but
00:05:28.120 my point is more
00:05:30.120 even if you get paid for it
00:05:32.120 you should put it away
00:05:34.120 especially in her position
00:05:36.120 because she's married to a world-renowned superstar
00:05:38.120 what does she need her career for?
00:05:40.120 that makes it less worse
00:05:42.120 because the rules are different
00:05:44.120 because like good
00:05:46.120 if she's hypergamous and she's putting that out
00:05:48.120 to get the kind of attention that regular women put that out
00:05:50.120 good luck displacing Justin Bieber
00:05:52.120 in the hierarchy of men right now
00:05:54.120 she's speaking like you might say whatever
00:05:56.120 but really like who's gonna
00:05:58.120 who's gonna pop up on her feet
00:06:00.120 that's gonna like outplay him the game
00:06:02.120 he's not getting game
00:06:04.120 what?
00:06:06.120 did she?
00:06:08.120 yeah because Justin Bieber
00:06:10.120 yeah there was a whole beef thing
00:06:12.120 yeah there was a whole beef like Justin Bieber was dating her
00:06:14.120 and then she went to Drake
00:06:16.120 but then she came back to Justin
00:06:18.120 I don't follow the relationship
00:06:20.120 but seriously though the celebrity rules
00:06:22.120 like hypergamy are like super different
00:06:24.120 because like the amount of men that have access to her
00:06:26.120 on any sort of relative sexual plane
00:06:28.120 is like almost non-existent
00:06:30.120 it's just how it is
00:06:32.120 I don't know you know because her DMs would be crazy
00:06:34.120 she would have some very very serious people there
00:06:36.120 she would get a million DMs but it wouldn't matter
00:06:38.120 because all men to her would just look like the exact same person
00:06:40.120 right?
00:06:42.120 I don't know Dimitri I think if that were true
00:06:44.120 you'd see more celebrity relationships work out
00:06:46.120 exactly
00:06:48.120 right right right
00:06:50.120 but celebrity relationships were failing long before Instagram right?
00:06:52.120 right but I would argue it's for the same reason
00:06:54.120 because they could
00:06:56.120 because women kept advertising themselves
00:06:58.120 yes partially
00:07:00.120 and because they have all these
00:07:02.120 they have access to all these high status men
00:07:04.120 well actually quite the opposite
00:07:06.120 we know that the propensity to cheat goes
00:07:08.120 down for a woman as the man's income
00:07:10.120 fame status go up and they go up for a man
00:07:12.120 so in celebrity relationships the dynamics are reversed
00:07:14.120 because it's usually the men that leave the relationships or cheat
00:07:16.120 versus if you have an income that's quite like you know
00:07:18.120 that we had this conversation literally earlier today
00:07:20.120 right but the reverse dynamics
00:07:22.120 you're telling me that the divorce rate
00:07:24.120 because I could see that for high income
00:07:26.120 that includes celebrities?
00:07:28.120 it's not about the divorce rate it's about
00:07:30.120 it's about who's leaving the relationships
00:07:32.120 so it's like statistically you know that 90% of relationships
00:07:34.120 are ended by college educated women
00:07:36.120 if the woman's not college educated it's like 80%
00:07:38.120 those statistics are reversed it's the men that leave the relationships
00:07:40.120 oh the men leave more
00:07:42.120 yes because men like very high value men
00:07:44.120 very rich men basically act like women
00:07:46.120 because they're the ones that the market is now
00:07:48.120 they're the ones that are being pursued
00:07:50.120 not the women
00:07:52.120 there's no hope
00:07:54.120 there's no hope for you to marry a celebrity
00:07:56.120 no I just mean that you said high value
00:07:58.120 when I class as high value it's just like a really awesome
00:08:00.120 what I mean by that sorry I'll clarify
00:08:02.120 that's a really good nuance point
00:08:04.120 not celebrities
00:08:08.120 I just want to clarify when people say high value
00:08:10.120 and people get like oh you mean this and that
00:08:12.120 and these what I mean is just who the market chooses right
00:08:14.120 basically a high value woman just means that men are offering you marriage
00:08:16.120 that's it and a high value
00:08:18.120 a high value man just means that women are offering you their bodies
00:08:20.120 that's all it means it's not
00:08:22.120 there's no metric there are metric statistics you can determine it
00:08:24.120 but it's just the market
00:08:26.120 obviously the more high value they are the more they're like
00:08:28.120 B-I-T-C-H isn't it
00:08:30.120 so obviously B-I-T-C-H-E-S
00:08:34.120 I didn't use that word so I don't understand
00:08:36.120 sorry
00:08:38.120 I understand what the word spells
00:08:40.120 but I never said that word
00:08:42.120 I was gonna say the reason why we wrote about this
00:08:44.120 in our relationship book why celebrity relationships
00:08:46.120 are so unstable
00:08:48.120 and our sort of equation
00:08:50.120 for the stability of a relationship
00:08:52.120 is your partner's value to you
00:08:54.120 like your perceived value from your partner
00:08:56.120 divided by
00:08:58.120 the potential partner
00:09:00.120 you think you could get on an open marketplace
00:09:02.120 the problem with celebrity relationships
00:09:04.120 is because both partners are typically
00:09:06.120 near the perceived top
00:09:08.120 that once they get to know each other
00:09:10.120 their relationship is always lower quality
00:09:12.120 than what they think they can get on the marketplace
00:09:14.120 so their relationships are always gonna be unstable
00:09:16.120 options
00:09:18.120 so can I ask one last question
00:09:20.120 so did you say the high valued men
00:09:22.120 or did you mean the high valued celebrity guys
00:09:24.120 like they turn into more like
00:09:26.120 girly when they're
00:09:28.120 not girly what I'm saying is that
00:09:30.120 as a man grows in his
00:09:32.120 so basically here is how it is
00:09:34.120 the formula is very simple
00:09:36.120 a value of a woman in the sexual marketplace
00:09:37.120 again I know this is getting like
00:09:38.120 very like objectifying people
00:09:40.120 just bear with it
00:09:41.120 the value of a woman in the sexual marketplace
00:09:42.120 is her present minus her past
00:09:44.120 the value of a man in the sexual marketplace
00:09:46.120 is his present plus his future
00:09:48.120 does that make sense?
00:09:49.120 so as men age and acquire more wealth
00:09:51.120 and status they grow in value
00:09:53.120 and as women age and gain more sexual experience
00:09:55.120 they lose value
00:09:56.120 that's just that's just how it is
00:09:57.120 in the sexual marketplace right?
00:09:58.120 so what happens is
00:09:59.120 they just there's just like a crossover
00:10:01.120 where eventually men that become more and more successful
00:10:03.120 just turn into women in the sexual marketplace
00:10:05.120 so the value of 50 year old
00:10:07.120 I don't know Tom Cruise
00:10:08.120 is like roughly the same as the value of the hottest
00:10:11.120 23 year old chick on the planet
00:10:12.120 but then who are we to say that?
00:10:14.120 I'm sorry?
00:10:16.120 but who are we to say that?
00:10:18.120 it's supply and demand
00:10:19.120 it's market dynamics
00:10:20.120 this is just literal science
00:10:21.120 like there's like this is just like
00:10:22.120 I'm not
00:10:23.120 well who are you to
00:10:24.120 so it's just basically saying that hot
00:10:26.120 it's just basically saying that hot
00:10:28.120 tall rich men have more women throwing themselves at them
00:10:31.120 and then they're more likely to
00:10:33.120 cheers
00:10:34.120 like people like Kanye
00:10:36.120 yeah you know what's crazy about Kanye?
00:10:38.120 I'll give you a really good example right?
00:10:40.120 like he's insane and he still has women
00:10:42.120 like he used the example of serial killers right?
00:10:44.120 just fame in itself is such a marker of value for a man
00:10:47.120 because it's a high level of pre-selection
00:10:49.120 and women generally operate in pre-selection as a mating mechanism
00:10:51.120 just fame for a man
00:10:53.120 you can literally be a serial killer
00:10:55.120 and women are lining up and sending you letters to try to get with you
00:10:57.120 they had to
00:10:58.120 it was a crazy story
00:10:59.120 there was a story about a serial killer
00:11:00.120 where they had to change the conjugal visit rights
00:11:03.120 because so many women were showing up
00:11:04.120 and he literally said
00:11:05.120 he slept with like 300 women in the course of a couple of months
00:11:07.120 because so many women were
00:11:09.120 like the women showing up for the conjugal visits
00:11:11.120 he's like I have no idea who this is
00:11:12.120 but this woman just showed up to sleep with me right?
00:11:14.120 so fame is like fame is a really crazy
00:11:16.120 you can really gamify fame right?
00:11:18.120 but the point is as men grow
00:11:20.120 they basically start to become more and more like women
00:11:23.120 just because their choices go up
00:11:24.120 they have more opportunities that's all
00:11:26.120 that's all
00:11:27.120 okay then I understand
00:11:28.120 all right
00:11:29.120 so I got a lot of heat for this one guys
00:11:31.120 yeah
00:11:32.120 bring on Lelaya
00:11:33.120 I came for
00:11:34.120 no
00:11:35.120 well she's in the snacks
00:11:36.120 but
00:11:37.120 but I came for the one and only
00:11:39.120 JLo
00:11:41.120 JLo it's time
00:11:42.120 I know you look good
00:11:44.120 but it's time
00:11:45.120 but it's time
00:11:46.120 but it's time
00:11:47.120 to put it away
00:11:48.120 you're like 50 something
00:11:49.120 what?
00:11:50.120 she looks good
00:11:51.120 she looks good
00:11:52.120 she looks good
00:11:53.120 she looks good
00:11:54.120 girl
00:11:55.120 look at look at look at
00:11:56.120 I didn't say she didn't look good
00:11:57.120 but she's married
00:11:58.120 she's got a kid
00:11:59.120 but what is
00:12:00.120 what does she have out?
00:12:01.120 okay let
00:12:02.120 I will answer okay
00:12:03.120 that Janet Jackson
00:12:04.120 serious question
00:12:05.120 so I
00:12:06.120 what happened to her?
00:12:07.120 did JLo turn into Janet Jackson?
00:12:09.120 I don't know
00:12:11.120 but she looks great man
00:12:12.120 she looks great
00:12:13.120 okay so
00:12:14.120 this chick
00:12:15.120 has got
00:12:16.120 yes Romeo
00:12:19.120 one it's a skin tight dress
00:12:21.120 I really think over
00:12:23.120 roughly
00:12:24.120 I'm going to give women
00:12:25.120 in Pearl's world
00:12:26.120 what am I going to give us?
00:12:27.120 I'll give you
00:12:28.120 I was going to say 30
00:12:29.120 but I'm going to say until 32
00:12:31.120 I'm going to give us an extra two years
00:12:33.120 it's time to change your fashion
00:12:35.120 to be a bit more modest
00:12:37.120 I actually would actually say a little sooner
00:12:40.120 but you know
00:12:41.120 I'm just I'm going to be super generous today
00:12:43.120 a skin tight dress
00:12:44.120 so what should she wear?
00:12:45.120 I think
00:12:46.120 wait go back
00:12:47.120 go back
00:12:48.120 yeah so this is a perfect example of an outfit
00:12:50.120 you know she looks
00:12:51.120 she looks cute
00:12:52.120 that's very skin tight
00:12:53.120 she looks cute
00:12:54.120 definitely skin tight
00:12:55.120 she's wearing skinny jeans
00:12:56.120 you look gorgeous by the way
00:12:57.120 but it's definitely skin tight
00:12:58.120 let me
00:12:59.120 let me
00:13:00.120 let me get this straight
00:13:01.120 you guys think
00:13:02.120 let's pull this up
00:13:03.120 we're really going to make the argument
00:13:04.120 that what she's wearing
00:13:05.120 and what JLo is wearing
00:13:06.120 is the same
00:13:07.120 but this is two completely different occasions
00:13:09.120 she's going out first of all
00:13:10.120 okay okay
00:13:11.120 we're on a podcast
00:13:12.120 no so
00:13:13.120 but what does she have out though?
00:13:14.120 I okay
00:13:15.120 her boobs
00:13:16.120 it's just a cleavage
00:13:19.120 I would say
00:13:20.120 I would say boobs
00:13:21.120 but we have them
00:13:22.120 and a very skin tight dress
00:13:24.120 it's like very fitting
00:13:26.120 I think that's pretty embarrassing
00:13:28.120 when you're a mom
00:13:29.120 yeah I think it's pretty
00:13:30.120 you are embarrassing your children
00:13:32.120 when you're walking around naked
00:13:34.120 trying to be a sex object
00:13:35.120 but this is not naked
00:13:36.120 so you don't think it's embarrassing
00:13:37.120 she doesn't look like a granny
00:13:38.120 before your time
00:13:39.120 she's not naked
00:13:40.120 I think it's embarrassing
00:13:42.120 I think it's more embarrassing
00:13:43.120 to try to look 20 when you're 50
00:13:45.120 she doesn't look 20 though
00:13:46.120 she doesn't look like she's trying to look 20
00:13:47.120 she doesn't look like she's trying to look 20
00:13:48.120 at the age of 50 she looks better than a lot of 20 years old
00:13:50.120 I'm saying that she is
00:13:52.120 she is attempting to look 20
00:13:54.120 by the botox in her forehead
00:13:57.120 the fake hair
00:13:58.120 the pound of makeup
00:13:59.120 and her tits out
00:14:00.120 I think at some point as a woman
00:14:03.120 even if you're a super attractive a woman
00:14:05.120 it's time to put it away and be modest
00:14:08.120 typically that's when you get married
00:14:10.120 and have children
00:14:11.120 some women
00:14:12.120 I think it's even more ideal for women
00:14:14.120 to have that value from a super young age
00:14:16.120 but I'm saying a wife is a role
00:14:18.120 and part of that role I think is to be modest
00:14:20.120 but she's more
00:14:21.120 I hear what you're saying
00:14:22.120 to a certain degree
00:14:23.120 but out of all the pictures that we've seen
00:14:26.120 she's more covered up than anybody else
00:14:29.120 even though it's skin tight and everything
00:14:31.120 I mean I think she looks great anyway
00:14:32.120 I'm biased
00:14:33.120 but anyway
00:14:34.120 but my thing is that she's still more covered up
00:14:36.120 than any of the other photos that we've seen
00:14:38.120 so why is what she's wearing an issue
00:14:40.120 okay okay so
00:14:41.120 so you know
00:14:42.120 I think this logic is kind of stupid
00:14:44.120 okay
00:14:45.120 and the reason I think you know
00:14:46.120 is an OnlyFans model pure
00:14:48.120 because porn stars are worse
00:14:50.120 like okay
00:14:54.120 okay we're in a
00:14:55.120 I hear it
00:14:56.120 I hear it
00:14:57.120 okay yeah yeah
00:14:58.120 I think so
00:14:59.120 like it looks like a woman
00:15:00.120 who's desperately trying to cling to her youth
00:15:02.120 oh this is one day of the year guys
00:15:03.120 that's just basically what this woman represents
00:15:06.120 so that's why it kind of just seems to be
00:15:08.120 I don't see
00:15:09.120 she has an age naturally
00:15:11.120 now wait wait
00:15:12.120 so you said this is one day
00:15:13.120 why she has to look like an old woman
00:15:14.120 so now I'm gonna get there
00:15:15.120 but you said this is one day a year
00:15:17.120 she just partook in a movie where she played a stripper
00:15:21.120 this was very recent
00:15:22.120 I stand corrected
00:15:24.120 and the second question
00:15:26.120 the second question you had is
00:15:28.120 why does she have to look like a grandma
00:15:30.120 was that your question
00:15:31.120 yes
00:15:32.120 yeah I think at some point
00:15:33.120 it's time to not be known for your sexuality
00:15:36.120 I think that's a young woman's game
00:15:38.120 roughly 30
00:15:40.120 really 27
00:15:42.120 what?
00:15:43.120 you're offending me
00:15:44.120 no
00:15:45.120 science is getting better
00:15:47.120 people are looking better
00:15:49.120 I think most women look good in the cameras
00:15:54.120 now listen
00:15:55.120 I think women will put the Botox in their forehead
00:15:57.120 the makeup
00:15:58.120 and on camera
00:15:59.120 and I see the difference
00:16:00.120 because on camera it looks amazing
00:16:01.120 I produce all the content
00:16:03.120 you know amazing
00:16:04.120 and like we put it out here
00:16:05.120 but it's like in real life
00:16:07.120 I could see everyone's foreheads not moving
00:16:09.120 I can see your lip fillers
00:16:11.120 I can see all of it
00:16:13.120 and it looks silly in my estimation
00:16:16.120 and I think in person
00:16:18.120 and I think it looks like
00:16:19.120 you know
00:16:20.120 kinda good in the picture
00:16:21.120 sure
00:16:22.120 but in real life
00:16:23.120 she just looks like a woman
00:16:25.120 that's focused on her looks
00:16:26.120 instead of her kid
00:16:27.120 I
00:16:28.120 I want to
00:16:29.120 word what you said
00:16:30.120 in a slightly different way
00:16:31.120 because I think it could help
00:16:32.120 earlier you were saying
00:16:33.120 that every man prefers a 23 year old woman
00:16:35.120 like if you look at men
00:16:36.120 you know women
00:16:37.120 I mean obviously not every man
00:16:38.120 but over the course of the averages
00:16:40.120 this is because
00:16:41.120 if I'm a man
00:16:42.120 and I'm 50
00:16:43.120 and like I'm just talking like
00:16:44.120 evolutionarily or whatever
00:16:45.120 right
00:16:46.120 like if my wife had died
00:16:47.120 and I want to marry a new woman
00:16:48.120 who's gonna have like maximum fertility
00:16:50.120 you know I'm gonna marry a young woman
00:16:51.120 with a large fertility window
00:16:53.120 and so men sort of biologically
00:16:54.120 they're drawn to that
00:16:55.120 this means that if I'm an advertising company
00:16:57.120 or I'm a movie executive
00:16:59.120 and I want to put a woman in something
00:17:01.120 that's gonna cause guys
00:17:02.120 to subconsciously value that thing
00:17:04.120 more than they should
00:17:05.120 then I am going to put a woman in that
00:17:07.120 who looks like
00:17:08.120 they are still in their
00:17:10.120 their like reproductive years
00:17:11.120 right
00:17:12.120 and so they dress in a set
00:17:14.120 like it might not be that she looks 20 or something
00:17:17.120 but she's dressed in a way that's meant to evoke
00:17:19.120 sort of tropes
00:17:20.120 that we associate
00:17:21.120 with this high fertility woman
00:17:24.120 whereas if you look at traditional cultures
00:17:26.120 that have had to survive intergenerationally
00:17:28.120 they are able to
00:17:30.120 and they are rewarded for
00:17:31.120 because you are rewarded for this
00:17:33.120 at the intergenerational level
00:17:34.120 glorifying the mother
00:17:36.120 and the position of motherhood
00:17:38.120 even above the position of the woman
00:17:40.120 who is sexualizing herself
00:17:42.120 and I think that we can talk about
00:17:43.120 like what women owe or whatever
00:17:44.120 right
00:17:45.120 but I think sometimes it's easier
00:17:47.120 just like with kids when I'm like
00:17:48.120 look if you don't have kids
00:17:49.120 then you won't exist in the future
00:17:50.120 right
00:17:51.120 if you as a woman
00:17:52.120 dress in a revealing way
00:17:54.120 there are a portion of men
00:17:56.120 not every man on the marketplace
00:17:57.120 but there are a portion of men
00:17:59.120 who will hold that against you
00:18:01.120 in choosing who they're going to marry
00:18:02.120 which will make it harder for you
00:18:04.120 to find that lifelong partner
00:18:06.120 and that lifelong partner
00:18:07.120 is the most important thing
00:18:09.120 and I hate to say this
00:18:10.120 as a husband
00:18:11.120 my wife
00:18:12.120 is the most important thing
00:18:13.120 I could ever achieve
00:18:14.120 because I have to deal with
00:18:15.120 like every single day
00:18:16.120 she determines my happiness
00:18:18.120 and my success
00:18:19.120 more than anything else
00:18:20.120 I have ever done in my life
00:18:22.120 and so when you make those costs
00:18:24.120 I think we just don't properly
00:18:26.120 tell young women
00:18:28.120 or communicate to them
00:18:29.120 because it's seen as so negative
00:18:31.120 in our society to do this
00:18:32.120 the scale of what they're sacrificing
00:18:35.120 when they look for this kind of validity
00:18:38.120 mm-hmm
00:18:39.120 yeah well
00:18:40.120 I yeah because
00:18:41.120 you know you'll see these beautiful
00:18:43.120 21 year old chicks starting in OnlyFans
00:18:45.120 and what did you sacrifice
00:18:47.120 a lifetime of happiness
00:18:48.120 for most of them are terrible at business
00:18:50.120 so you get what 500 bucks a month
00:18:54.120 cause and effect
00:18:55.120 and now your kids have to see
00:18:57.120 and that's more my point is
00:18:58.120 these women are more concerned
00:19:00.120 about their sexuality
00:19:01.120 than their children
00:19:02.120 that's my point
00:19:03.120 um I you know they're more
00:19:05.120 they're
00:19:06.120 and they think more about themselves
00:19:07.120 than their husbands
00:19:08.120 and their family
00:19:09.120 and we used to be in a society
00:19:10.120 where family was more important
00:19:12.120 and bringing shame upon your family
00:19:14.120 was the like that
00:19:16.120 that was looked down upon
00:19:18.120 but now it's like
00:19:19.120 I can't even say put your boobs away
00:19:21.120 but these people who aren't doing this
00:19:23.120 we will be in that society again
00:19:25.120 yeah eventually this big urban monoculture
00:19:27.120 this this mimetic virus
00:19:29.120 which is telling everyone to look young
00:19:31.120 and sexualize yourself
00:19:32.120 these aren't people who are having
00:19:33.120 above replacement fertility rates
00:19:34.120 right
00:19:35.120 the people who are above replacement fertility rates
00:19:36.120 are the ones that are still in these cultures
00:19:38.120 like the ones you're talking about
00:19:39.120 so long as we can protect these people
00:19:41.120 from the school system
00:19:42.120 which often aims to erase their culture
00:19:44.120 yeah it totally does
00:19:45.120 then the future goes back to the past
00:19:46.120 well the very fact that we're having this conversation
00:19:48.120 gives me hope
00:19:49.120 the very fact that you're talking about this
00:19:50.120 and people are excited about this
00:19:52.120 shows that there's a backlash
00:19:53.120 right
00:19:54.120 we're not okay with this anymore
00:19:55.120 next one
00:19:57.120 now this one I also got a lot of backlash
00:19:59.120 for
00:20:00.120 oh gosh
00:20:01.120 oh Pearl
00:20:02.120 I came for Mariah Carey
00:20:04.120 alright
00:20:05.120 I came for Mariah Carey
00:20:07.120 around the Christmas season
00:20:08.120 oh my god
00:20:09.120 I said now I know
00:20:10.120 I know Christmas
00:20:11.120 oh
00:20:12.120 Mariah
00:20:13.120 don't you got twins
00:20:15.120 but what's wrong with those pictures
00:20:16.120 you got twins on there
00:20:17.120 I think it's because of the
00:20:18.120 it's showing the boobs
00:20:19.120 what the cleavage
00:20:20.120 are you having a laugh
00:20:21.120 I think Pearl's a Rastafarian as well
00:20:23.120 you know
00:20:24.120 oh my gosh
00:20:25.120 no I'm
00:20:26.120 I'm a hundred percent serious
00:20:27.120 you think I'm kidding
00:20:28.120 no I know
00:20:29.120 I'm about
00:20:30.120 I'm about to turn 27
00:20:31.120 I have my turtleneck
00:20:32.120 do your thing man
00:20:34.120 do your thing
00:20:35.120 do your thing
00:20:36.120 oh god
00:20:37.120 yeah I think it's time
00:20:39.120 to put the boobs away
00:20:40.120 who thinks this is inappropriate
00:20:42.120 raise your hand
00:20:43.120 oh it's just me and King
00:20:45.120 I think it's borderline tacky
00:20:47.120 as in
00:20:48.120 not inappropriate
00:20:49.120 I think it's tacky
00:20:50.120 she's just like
00:20:51.120 Henry
00:20:52.120 I wouldn't say it's tacky
00:20:53.120 I'd say it's her image
00:20:54.120 thank you
00:20:55.120 and she's giving the people her image
00:20:58.120 she still looks like her image
00:20:59.120 the glitz
00:21:00.120 the little bit of cleavage
00:21:02.120 that is her image
00:21:03.120 and she's giving the people her image
00:21:05.120 do you know what I mean
00:21:06.120 she's literally like her aunt
00:21:07.120 like
00:21:08.120 so
00:21:09.120 would it still be her image
00:21:10.120 so literally what you're saying is
00:21:12.120 and that's exactly what's happening to someone like Madonna
00:21:14.120 so by the time she's 70 she should still keep giving us this image right
00:21:17.120 but
00:21:18.120 will she still continue to be an artist
00:21:21.120 she's 50
00:21:22.120 by the age of 70
00:21:23.120 take the career out though
00:21:24.120 that's what I'm saying
00:21:25.120 so Madonna right now
00:21:26.120 literally just keeps walking about
00:21:28.120 naked half naked
00:21:29.120 doing all the whole crazy stuff
00:21:30.120 but she's still an artist
00:21:31.120 yes
00:21:32.120 but she's 70
00:21:33.120 but as a wife though
00:21:34.120 so the point is like
00:21:35.120 even at 70
00:21:36.120 why are you still making sexualized music at 70
00:21:39.120 and underneath the bed with her thong on
00:21:41.120 like she's
00:21:42.120 to create controversy
00:21:43.120 how are you
00:21:44.120 how are you human beings supposed to grow
00:21:46.120 so at 20
00:21:47.120 at 18
00:21:48.120 you are making sexualized music
00:21:49.120 at 30 you are making sexualized music
00:21:50.120 at 50 you are still making sexualized music
00:21:52.120 at 70
00:21:54.120 you're still making sexualized music
00:21:55.120 these are
00:21:56.120 hold on hold on hold on
00:21:58.120 hold on a second
00:21:59.120 can you please pull up a picture of Madonna please
00:22:01.120 that's two completely different extremes
00:22:03.120 we were just looking at a gorgeous picture of Mariah Carey
00:22:07.120 and all she had was a little bit of cleavage
00:22:09.120 and I was talking about thongs under the bed
00:22:11.120 we're talking about that
00:22:12.120 no no no we're talking about image
00:22:13.120 she said something about image
00:22:14.120 but it's two completely different extremes
00:22:15.120 like how is that
00:22:16.120 no so if she's 70
00:22:17.120 she still keep putting her books out
00:22:19.120 can I say something
00:22:21.120 can I say something
00:22:22.120 okay if these people were not artists
00:22:25.120 and these posts were not relevant
00:22:28.120 to their artistry
00:22:29.120 which it is
00:22:31.120 it is relevant to their artistry
00:22:33.120 well because I've done posts relevant to my artistry
00:22:36.120 which wouldn't be posts that I wouldn't usually post
00:22:38.120 well you see this is the point I'm trying to make
00:22:40.120 you're not even realizing how bad what you're saying sounds
00:22:43.120 because the fact is that
00:22:44.120 what you're saying is
00:22:45.120 she's such a terrible artist
00:22:47.120 that she needs to use her body to sell her art
00:22:49.120 no
00:22:50.120 no
00:22:51.120 yes
00:22:52.120 no
00:22:53.120 wait guys guys guys guys guys
00:22:55.120 what about Adele
00:22:56.120 she's never put her body out there like that
00:22:58.120 she definitely has her beads out
00:22:59.120 no
00:23:00.120 she has
00:23:01.120 she has
00:23:02.120 I've seen her
00:23:03.120 I can pull up phone
00:23:04.120 pull up the phone
00:23:05.120 pull up the phone
00:23:06.120 she definitely look good
00:23:07.120 so she definitely does do that
00:23:08.120 look they cut out
00:23:09.120 back in the day she did it
00:23:10.120 she does now but back in the day she didn't
00:23:11.120 that is not what Mariah was doing
00:23:12.120 no it's not
00:23:13.120 don't don't don't don't just go for the bad picture you've seen
00:23:15.120 I'll find it
00:23:16.120 I promise you
00:23:17.120 I know but the point
00:23:18.120 the point is one
00:23:19.120 okay you can find a bad picture of anybody
00:23:22.120 but the point is some of these artists
00:23:24.120 that's what they lead with
00:23:25.120 that is what all of their pictures with
00:23:27.120 the fact that you have to find the picture of Adele
00:23:30.120 shows that that is not what she leads with
00:23:32.120 she leads with her talent
00:23:34.120 they're both different
00:23:35.120 because she is talented
00:23:36.120 and that is the that is the best thing about her
00:23:39.120 but he's right what he's saying
00:23:40.120 if you have to post sexuality in order to sell
00:23:44.120 that you're just not that talented
00:23:46.120 you're not that talented
00:23:47.120 you're not that talented
00:23:48.120 you're not that talented
00:23:49.120 you're not that talented
00:23:50.120 you're not that talented
00:23:51.120 Adele didn't make sexy music
00:23:52.120 she made sad songs about heartbreak
00:23:54.120 Mariah Carey did sexy promiscuous music
00:23:57.120 that's why she was branded the way that she was
00:23:59.120 didn't she
00:24:00.120 but her top song is about Christmas
00:24:03.120 put the boobs away
00:24:08.120 like why do I have to fight so hard to say
00:24:10.120 put the boobs away
00:24:12.120 and she's
00:24:13.120 here's that
00:24:14.120 she's 50
00:24:15.120 she's 54
00:24:16.120 it's time
00:24:17.120 it is time
00:24:18.120 you're almost 60
00:24:19.120 I think she looks tacky
00:24:20.120 I think
00:24:21.120 I think she looks tacky
00:24:22.120 great thing to remember here
00:24:24.120 and one of the blessings of our biology
00:24:26.120 is that as you age
00:24:27.120 and I think this is one of the big problems in our society
00:24:29.120 is the things that will give you happiness
00:24:31.120 happiness and fulfillment will change
00:24:33.120 and one of the biggest problems I think we have
00:24:35.120 is people in their 30s
00:24:36.120 will try to get happiness from the stuff
00:24:38.120 that would have given them happiness in their 20s
00:24:40.120 and fulfillment in their 20s
00:24:41.120 and they don't find it
00:24:42.120 and so then they just go further
00:24:43.120 and further
00:24:44.120 and further
00:24:45.120 and they feel hollower
00:24:46.120 and hollower
00:24:47.120 and hollower
00:24:48.120 and I don't know if it's the same way with women
00:24:49.120 you know I haven't experienced being a woman
00:24:50.120 so I don't know if in my 30s as a woman
00:24:52.120 like trying to find happiness in my sexuality
00:24:54.120 and validation for men
00:24:56.120 lessons
00:24:57.120 but I suspect it does
00:24:58.120 and what I can say is kids
00:24:59.120 the happiness I get from them in my 30s
00:25:02.120 is incomparable
00:25:04.120 to the happiness I can get from things like video games
00:25:06.120 which I used to love when I was young
00:25:07.120 I mean I still like them
00:25:08.120 but it's like not the same
00:25:10.120 so someone super chatted a question
00:25:13.120 for the ladies
00:25:15.120 and I'm going to ask the men the same question
00:25:17.120 but I want the women to go first
00:25:19.120 what do you owe
00:25:21.120 wait who here wants to be married?
00:25:23.120 okay
00:25:24.120 okay
00:25:25.120 all right
00:25:26.120 all right
00:25:27.120 what do you owe the man that marries you?
00:25:30.120 um
00:25:32.120 uh
00:25:34.120 I hate being the first person
00:25:38.120 swear to God
00:25:39.120 um
00:25:40.120 okay hopefully
00:25:41.120 well a family
00:25:42.120 um
00:25:43.120 obviously when the time's right
00:25:45.120 um
00:25:46.120 uh
00:25:47.120 I don't know
00:25:49.120 hopefully
00:25:50.120 between what's
00:25:51.120 between us both
00:25:52.120 like a great future
00:25:54.120 but that's what's decided between us too
00:25:57.120 okay
00:25:58.120 and what would you decide to
00:26:00.120 um
00:26:01.120 where both our lives are heading
00:26:02.120 whether if it's like career-wise
00:26:04.120 it's like
00:26:05.120 it's choices whether if you want to bring a family in
00:26:08.120 like if we both want a family
00:26:10.120 okay
00:26:11.120 but that would be the main
00:26:13.120 main thing for me
00:26:15.120 if I'd want a family or not
00:26:16.120 kids
00:26:17.120 yeah
00:26:18.120 what do you owe the man that marries you?
00:26:20.120 um
00:26:21.120 unconditional love
00:26:22.120 kids or a family at some point
00:26:24.120 if that's what we want
00:26:26.120 um
00:26:27.120 honesty
00:26:28.120 trust
00:26:29.120 loyalty
00:26:30.120 forgiveness
00:26:31.120 this goes on
00:26:33.120 um
00:26:35.120 I say owe the man modesty
00:26:38.120 honesty integrity
00:26:39.120 basically how I move reflects on him
00:26:41.120 how he moves reflects on me
00:26:43.120 I owe him to be the backbone
00:26:45.120 that's what I was created to be
00:26:46.120 the rib
00:26:47.120 to be the one who holds it down
00:26:49.120 to be understanding
00:26:50.120 to actually have like emotional intelligence
00:26:53.120 whereby I can think logically
00:26:54.120 and think emotionally
00:26:55.120 and also have
00:26:56.120 I think is important
00:26:58.120 you need to be able to fight
00:26:59.120 sorry
00:27:00.120 you need to be able to take care of your kids
00:27:01.120 if you
00:27:02.120 if the guy goes off at work
00:27:03.120 and leaves your home with your children
00:27:04.120 and there's no popo coming around
00:27:06.120 you need to know how to have survival skills
00:27:08.120 so I think it's important to show your partner
00:27:10.120 that you're able to take care of your family
00:27:12.120 if he's not there
00:27:13.120 he needs to be able to trust you
00:27:14.120 with a lot
00:27:15.120 that's just what I think
00:27:16.120 respect
00:27:18.120 support
00:27:19.120 loyalty
00:27:20.120 honesty
00:27:21.120 and communication
00:27:22.120 I want to hear your answer
00:27:25.120 because I think everyone wants their husband to talk about them like that
00:27:28.120 yes
00:27:29.120 I know right
00:27:30.120 everything
00:27:31.120 not just everything I have now
00:27:33.120 but everything I have the potential to get
00:27:35.120 if I'm extremely ambitious
00:27:37.120 all of the things I could possibly get
00:27:39.120 he owed
00:27:40.120 I owe all of it to him
00:27:41.120 I think most wives do to their husbands
00:27:43.120 when they're truly aligned
00:27:44.120 can you explain that a little more?
00:27:46.120 well
00:27:47.120 when we got married
00:27:49.120 it's not about suddenly becoming devoted to a person
00:27:52.120 it's about becoming a new person
00:27:54.120 that is a combined entity
00:27:56.120 when we fight
00:27:57.120 there's not really a fight
00:27:58.120 what there is
00:27:59.120 is we have an ideological disagreement
00:28:01.120 about what is best for the combined entity
00:28:04.120 for the family
00:28:05.120 so it's never I want this and he wants that
00:28:07.120 it's we know we want this
00:28:09.120 but we have a disagreement about the best way to get there
00:28:12.120 so that is absolutely everything
00:28:13.120 and it's everything from him too
00:28:17.120 what about you?
00:28:18.120 everything
00:28:19.120 I like that answer
00:28:20.120 I know
00:28:24.120 well
00:28:25.120 I don't know
00:28:26.120 this will probably be not a super popular answer amongst your audience pro
00:28:29.120 but like
00:28:30.120 I think that
00:28:31.120 a woman owes a man exactly that which he has given himself
00:28:34.120 like
00:28:35.120 for example
00:28:36.120 if I was totally
00:28:37.120 if I was not
00:28:41.120 giving her an opportunity to live the life that is good for her
00:28:46.120 if I was not building myself as a man
00:28:48.120 if I was not growing as a man
00:28:49.120 I think it would be arrogant to expect my wife to be any of these things
00:28:53.120 to be submissive
00:28:54.120 to be
00:28:55.120 anything really
00:28:56.120 right?
00:28:57.120 so
00:28:58.120 I think
00:28:59.120 my
00:29:00.120 what my
00:29:01.120 if I say what my wife let's say owes me
00:29:03.120 it's to treat me
00:29:04.120 to treat me at the level to which I have kept my promises to myself
00:29:08.120 and that's all I ask for because it's not a hypocritical position
00:29:11.120 great answer
00:29:12.120 what do you owe your wife?
00:29:13.120 what do I owe my wife?
00:29:14.120 what do I owe my wife?
00:29:15.120 mhm
00:29:16.120 I owe her
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