JustPearlyThings - July 01, 2023


Woman Accuses Pearl Of Misogyny And Gets Annihilated


Episode Stats

Length

12 minutes

Words per Minute

195.35617

Word Count

2,353

Sentence Count

308


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 You seem like a statistician.
00:00:02.540 No, no, no, no, I'm just saying, you're not saying facts.
00:00:05.480 You're not actually...
00:00:06.360 Right, I'm giving you, I'm giving you, I just said this as...
00:00:09.000 It's just a parent, it's just comparing racism, it's comparing...
00:00:12.360 I didn't bring up race, let's not make this a race convo.
00:00:16.480 Can I say something?
00:00:17.440 Wait, wait, wait, wait, ladies, ladies, wait, wait, wait, my point, this is an opinion, so
00:00:24.080 this part is an opinion, right, you can disagree, but I...
00:00:28.180 Can I say, I think what you have just said is, when you put it in practice, it almost
00:00:33.740 it makes it easier for a woman to leave.
00:00:37.300 You don't work at the marriage, you don't want to fix things, you don't want to talk about
00:00:41.340 it, you don't want to communicate, it's easier to leave.
00:00:45.060 That's true, that's a fact.
00:00:46.620 Men and women leave, but one's paid to, obviously the women are going to do it.
00:00:50.320 No, no, no, I will...
00:00:52.260 Work-oriented, my woman has other things, you know...
00:00:56.660 So, oh wait, I need to finish one part, I'm sorry, I'm going to let you go, I'm sorry,
00:01:01.180 one more part, and I will, I will.
00:01:03.260 But the other thing is, even in the industries that women work a lot in, men can easily learn
00:01:09.000 those industries.
00:01:10.340 Men can easily become nurses, men can easily become teachers.
00:01:13.760 So if all the women left the workforce...
00:01:15.100 Because they learn easy things.
00:01:17.000 What are you talking...
00:01:17.920 Okay, okay, build a building.
00:01:19.280 Can I make a point?
00:01:20.880 Look it, look it, so if you think men learn easy things, they're...
00:01:23.800 So wait, wait, wait, wait, okay, okay, then go, wait, wait, wait, wait, so next...
00:01:27.120 Sorry, Pearl, can we please just remember the rules?
00:01:30.820 It's not just about Pearl, it's about each other as well.
00:01:32.760 Let's stop overtalking each other.
00:01:34.260 I know it's hard, but we need to try and...
00:01:36.280 Should...
00:01:36.680 Okay?
00:01:37.600 Should women be in charge?
00:01:39.980 It just really depends on the women.
00:01:42.080 Sorry.
00:01:42.680 If she's great at soccer, let's let her coach a girls team.
00:01:46.620 But would I let this lady in the pink manage a beauty salon?
00:01:54.020 Of course not.
00:01:55.940 It just depends on the position.
00:02:00.000 So you don't love her.
00:02:01.280 No, no, no, no, sorry.
00:02:01.960 Can you emphasize on what you're saying?
00:02:03.840 I don't get the point that you made about her running...
00:02:07.220 A beauty.
00:02:07.920 Yeah, I don't get that.
00:02:09.300 It depends on the position.
00:02:10.640 It depends on should women...
00:02:12.480 I mean, okay.
00:02:14.060 I don't know if this sounds sexist or not to the viewers,
00:02:19.080 but isn't this sort of show why women get the bad rap that they get?
00:02:25.540 Exactly.
00:02:26.160 No, no, no, no.
00:02:26.760 I feel like this show...
00:02:28.580 This show, I'm sorry, it almost caters for misogynist viewers, literally.
00:02:34.200 Because I agree with Pearl to a certain extent.
00:02:36.560 My problem where me and Pearl kind of like, I don't agree.
00:02:40.740 Misogynist.
00:02:41.400 That's a tough accusation.
00:02:42.700 Can I just say what you said?
00:02:43.900 No, no, no, no, no.
00:02:44.620 I got to address the first part.
00:02:46.780 I mean, that's my opinion.
00:02:47.860 It's all facts.
00:02:48.520 What is the definition of misogyny?
00:02:51.740 It's all facts.
00:02:52.440 It's my opinion.
00:02:52.960 It's exactly what you're saying.
00:02:52.980 No, what is it?
00:02:54.060 No, what is the definition?
00:02:55.000 I don't have to give you a definition.
00:02:56.400 I'm saying yes.
00:02:57.020 It's your message.
00:02:58.880 No, just like she didn't have to say she was married.
00:03:00.820 Okay, if I was...
00:03:01.720 Exactly.
00:03:01.980 No, no, no, no.
00:03:03.020 If you're going to accuse me...
00:03:04.580 Because there's an agenda.
00:03:06.020 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:03:06.520 There's an agenda.
00:03:07.300 I'll tell you why.
00:03:08.340 Okay, thank you.
00:03:10.940 Thank you.
00:03:11.580 What is the definition of misogyny?
00:03:14.120 I just...
00:03:14.820 If I'm going to call someone something, I know...
00:03:17.180 Okay.
00:03:17.600 Okay.
00:03:17.940 Right.
00:03:18.580 The fact that you just base it, everything that you base and all the information that you
00:03:22.140 base, it caters literally for men's egos.
00:03:26.460 Okay.
00:03:26.720 You basically eradicate any sort of work that women...
00:03:31.720 Okay.
00:03:31.980 Just answer the question.
00:03:32.700 First of all, first of all, first of all, don't tell me.
00:03:35.100 It's not...
00:03:35.580 I don't have to tell you the...
00:03:36.900 I don't have to define...
00:03:38.040 You can't call someone a word.
00:03:39.660 You have an agenda.
00:03:40.980 There is an agenda.
00:03:41.840 There's a narrative being played.
00:03:43.200 In society, in society, there are women who are toxic and there are women that play a field
00:03:48.460 that basically push this agenda.
00:03:51.740 It's like basically toxic masculinity.
00:03:53.200 That's all good I'm going.
00:03:53.780 It's the same thing as toxic femininity.
00:03:55.520 It's just...
00:03:56.540 You're basically the opposite to what we basically...
00:03:58.520 No, that's good I'm fine.
00:03:59.160 That's good I'm fine.
00:03:59.660 That's good I'm fine.
00:03:59.700 That's that.
00:04:00.160 Let me explain something.
00:04:01.000 The reason why we're asking you to define misogyny is not because we're trying to pick
00:04:05.120 on you.
00:04:05.480 There's a reason.
00:04:06.500 We've done this show.
00:04:07.640 If you can look at the...
00:04:09.080 But that's just my opinion, though.
00:04:10.180 Just one second.
00:04:10.920 You just keep cutting me off.
00:04:12.160 We've done this show.
00:04:13.060 This is episode 137, right?
00:04:15.040 Yeah.
00:04:15.540 And every single time, a woman...
00:04:18.460 Think about it.
00:04:19.580 How many women are here?
00:04:20.760 So we've done 137 episodes.
00:04:22.620 That should tell you that we've probably had over 600 women in this room.
00:04:27.080 So every time a woman has used the word misogyny, she has not known the meaning of the word.
00:04:31.600 So I want to...
00:04:31.900 I just told you.
00:04:32.800 No, you haven't told us the meaning.
00:04:34.260 What's the meaning?
00:04:34.900 Oh my Lord.
00:04:36.180 Oh my Lord.
00:04:36.740 You basically...
00:04:37.640 I just basically told you.
00:04:39.120 Your show is almost like the opposite to feminism.
00:04:42.260 No.
00:04:42.400 What is the definition of misogyny?
00:04:44.320 What is the definition of misogyny?
00:04:46.200 What is the definition of misogyny?
00:04:46.560 It's sexist.
00:04:47.500 It's basically sexist to...
00:04:48.880 It's a sex...
00:04:49.600 You're basically...
00:04:50.240 Okay, what is sexist?
00:04:50.760 Those are all adjectives.
00:04:51.780 Oh my God.
00:04:52.000 These are all adjectives.
00:04:53.040 Listen, I feel...
00:04:53.680 What have meaning?
00:04:54.600 Listen, I'm not going...
00:04:55.820 Because I feel...
00:04:56.260 I know what you guys are basically trying to sort of do.
00:04:58.260 You know exactly what I mean.
00:04:58.860 No, you don't know what we're trying to do.
00:04:59.960 You push an agenda with a specific type of women.
00:05:02.620 And you generalize all women in that sense.
00:05:05.540 You take away...
00:05:06.720 Literally, the society...
00:05:09.120 What do you call it?
00:05:09.640 The...
00:05:10.040 Oh my gosh.
00:05:11.100 The systemic...
00:05:12.040 The systemic oppression of women.
00:05:14.080 Okay, but are you going to answer the question?
00:05:14.960 You disregard the systemic oppression of women.
00:05:17.380 You do.
00:05:17.820 Are you going to answer the question?
00:05:18.240 That's all misogyny.
00:05:19.340 I'm just...
00:05:19.740 I'm trying to.
00:05:20.360 But you don't want to hear it.
00:05:21.780 What is...
00:05:22.080 Okay.
00:05:22.380 Oh my God.
00:05:23.220 I have my opinion.
00:05:23.920 You have your opinion.
00:05:25.160 And that's all.
00:05:25.780 But here's being respectful.
00:05:26.340 Can I ask you...
00:05:27.140 Can I ask you...
00:05:27.280 Can I ask you...
00:05:28.040 Can I ask you...
00:05:28.560 Can you please...
00:05:29.480 Can you kindly tell us the definition of misogyny?
00:05:31.060 I already told you.
00:05:31.960 No, you haven't.
00:05:32.920 You really haven't.
00:05:33.540 Okay, then I didn't.
00:05:34.920 Okay, then...
00:05:35.780 Then I didn't.
00:05:36.380 Please, can you don't use the word again?
00:05:37.680 I mean, that's my opinion.
00:05:39.020 But we move.
00:05:40.180 But what is untrue?
00:05:42.360 And this is the thing.
00:05:43.240 I'll tell you why.
00:05:44.280 Like, because a lot of...
00:05:45.340 You know, people think that I'm super hard on women.
00:05:48.300 Right?
00:05:49.480 And my thing is, historically, women are just worse than we've ever been.
00:05:53.640 From a historical point of view.
00:05:55.380 It's unprecedented.
00:05:56.780 You know what percent of women are virgins on their wedding days?
00:05:59.740 And some would say...
00:06:00.800 That's what you're saying now is misogynistic.
00:06:02.580 This isn't misogynistic.
00:06:04.080 I'm about to give you stats.
00:06:05.460 I'm about to give you guys numbers and stats.
00:06:07.400 For where?
00:06:08.020 So, I mean, you could Google them pretty easy.
00:06:10.980 It's pretty simple.
00:06:11.820 I mean, give us the statistics.
00:06:13.460 Which should you take them from?
00:06:14.260 One is...
00:06:14.660 I mean, this is what the left will try to do to, like, discredit you.
00:06:18.120 Is they just question every stat.
00:06:20.220 But you can Google them pretty easy.
00:06:23.180 Okay?
00:06:23.360 So, what percent of women...
00:06:25.140 What percent of women do you think are virgins on their wedding day?
00:06:28.020 Okay.
00:06:28.500 So, if a woman was to be a virgin...
00:06:30.080 Wait, wait, wait.
00:06:30.880 I just...
00:06:31.220 Then the man would have to be a virgin.
00:06:32.520 Okay, okay.
00:06:32.880 And the man cannot be a virgin, so the woman would not be a virgin.
00:06:35.760 We're going to go into this later.
00:06:38.740 But I want to say, what percent of women are virgins on their wedding day?
00:06:42.540 In the West, in the West, can we answer the question?
00:06:48.340 Probably about 25%.
00:06:49.680 25%?
00:06:50.720 Okay, who thinks it's higher than 25%?
00:06:52.520 I'm not going to answer, because I genuinely don't know.
00:06:53.740 Unless I go in the same answer.
00:06:55.200 Okay, it's an answer.
00:06:56.140 All right, all right.
00:06:57.700 It's five percent.
00:06:59.780 What percent of women have been on birth control at some point in their life?
00:07:04.280 90%.
00:07:05.480 But what are the reasons why women are on birth control?
00:07:08.140 Wait, wait, because...
00:07:08.640 I've been on birth control before, but it wasn't because of sex.
00:07:10.420 Okay, okay, fine.
00:07:11.240 Which is all good and well, until we start looking at the body count statistics, where
00:07:16.180 after a woman has had five partners, her chance of a happy marriage drops to 20%.
00:07:22.160 Okay, so an average woman has slept with more than five men.
00:07:26.700 Okay, which, remember, historically, 100 years ago, 85% of women were virgins on their wedding
00:07:32.000 nights.
00:07:32.820 Now, what else does men get out of marriage?
00:07:35.060 They get loyalty, but not today, because half of women leave.
00:07:39.020 Then, then we start to go into weight, where women are overweight.
00:07:43.540 The average woman is 5'3", 170 pounds.
00:07:46.240 These are just numbers.
00:07:47.280 And yet, we scream misogyny at me.
00:07:49.940 But these are, these are just numbers.
00:07:52.720 Now, I'm, and it's like, I can't say numbers without being called sexist, when they are
00:07:58.580 true.
00:07:59.500 Can I tell you something?
00:08:00.360 I'm going to let you go.
00:08:01.860 I'm going to let you go.
00:08:02.360 Firstly, I'm a family therapist, and I make big research, and I have a lot of numbers.
00:08:06.160 80% of women decide to divorce.
00:08:08.880 You're totally right.
00:08:09.560 And you're totally right that women choose, but women choose from men who choose her.
00:08:14.060 And have, wait, sorry, that's, I didn't, I didn't.
00:08:16.640 Women choose, but first, for example, if you are one Roman, you have five men.
00:08:21.560 From these five men, you choose men who choose you.
00:08:24.640 One man make you signal, I like you, I smile you.
00:08:28.000 You go and you choose from men who choose you.
00:08:30.220 If men don't like you, if not have sex attraction, you cannot do anything.
00:08:35.360 First, men need to go up and say, I want this woman.
00:08:39.380 And then you choose from men who choose you.
00:08:42.060 First, second, you're totally right.
00:08:43.880 We are women.
00:08:45.200 I make my book about entrepreneur, and it's absolutely in numbers.
00:08:49.800 We are women.
00:08:50.420 We are not so smart like men.
00:08:52.140 We cannot make many things which make men.
00:08:54.540 Never, ever, because our brain, it's different.
00:08:57.920 It's different.
00:08:58.780 We cannot, we cannot run so fast.
00:09:00.420 We cannot make some big numbers.
00:09:02.540 You are totally right that business which make we are women, it's psychologist, coach,
00:09:07.120 and beauty, it cannot be male men.
00:09:09.380 And if a woman, for God, she is a woman, she becomes to be sick.
00:09:14.160 Every day I work with women who cannot be pregnant.
00:09:16.500 Today is the biggest problem in our society, in UK.
00:09:20.020 And what they do, they become to be men.
00:09:22.560 She has a lot of cortisol.
00:09:23.860 She has opinion about it all.
00:09:25.420 It messes up your hormones.
00:09:26.100 She wants to be feminist.
00:09:27.400 And after she came to me, like family therapist, I want to be pregnant.
00:09:30.820 What do you do 40 years?
00:09:32.460 You hate men, you hate your father.
00:09:34.180 You try to show that you have big balls.
00:09:37.020 And after you say, oh, I want to be a woman.
00:09:39.600 What you did before.
00:09:41.200 You need first to be a woman.
00:09:42.700 And woman, it's totally different quality.
00:09:44.700 Quality which you need to survive as a man.
00:09:47.540 You need to be strong.
00:09:48.620 And we know usually what women today tell to me.
00:09:51.240 Natalia, I want to find a man which is very kind, very rich, very good looking, very sexy.
00:09:57.600 Love me like a crazy.
00:09:58.800 He's very crazy to accept my child.
00:10:01.760 He wants to take care about him, about my child.
00:10:04.540 He wants to marry me.
00:10:05.520 And from some reason, he's single in 40 years old.
00:10:09.540 And of course, she couldn't find it after she's very disappointed.
00:10:14.100 And you are right that women choose.
00:10:15.700 But probably that women have too high acceptation.
00:10:19.020 She wants to be a princess.
00:10:20.100 She doesn't want to change herself, to go to fitness, to take care about how she looks, how she speaks with men, how she listens to men.
00:10:27.860 Because a woman must listen, not to speak.
00:10:30.640 You need to speak 10% and 90% you need to listen.
00:10:33.880 And to speak exactly admiring.
00:10:36.580 Admire your man.
00:10:38.140 Admire to him, admire him.
00:10:39.680 And about single and separation has a big difference.
00:10:42.060 You can be separate with your partner, but he continues to help you.
00:10:46.200 He continues to help your child.
00:10:47.920 He continues to take care about you.
00:10:49.460 He continues to be your best friend.
00:10:51.420 And to call you every time when you need him, if you make a normal relationship.
00:10:55.600 You must do divorce only when you have financial independence, loyal independence, your emotional stability.
00:11:02.480 You love yourself.
00:11:03.800 You love your partner, but you can develop because you say, I want something else.
00:11:08.560 And you continue to say, your child, your father is the best man in the world.
00:11:11.900 And your child, if he can be divorced, but he can love both of parents.
00:11:17.280 And not have psychological trauma.
00:11:20.220 You can be in marriage, to be in toxic relationship, and you can destroy your child.
00:11:25.000 A woman must to love.
00:11:27.120 It's the most important mission of women, which for God, not compare with men.
00:11:31.560 You are not a man, you are a woman.
00:11:33.240 Mm-hmm.
00:11:33.980 Mm-hmm.
00:11:35.020 Mm-hmm.
00:11:35.540 Mm-hmm.
00:11:37.060 Mm-hmm.
00:11:38.000 Yeah.
00:11:38.200 Mm-hmm.
00:11:39.100 Mm-hmm.
00:11:39.160 Mm-hmm.
00:11:39.580 Yeah.
00:11:44.280 That's right.
00:11:44.900 Mm-hmm.
00:11:45.580 Mm-hmm.
00:11:45.780 Mm-hmm.
00:11:48.500 Mm-hmm.
00:11:59.640 Mm-hmm.
00:12:00.620 Mm-hmm.
00:12:01.900 Mm-hmm.