Woman Uses Beta Male For A Free Meal
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about dating in your 20's and 30's and how to deal with a guy who you don't find attractive because you just want a free meal. We also talk about what to look out for in a potential mate and what to do if you find a guy attractive but you just don't want to go out on a date because you're not attracted to him.
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ever gone on a date with a guy that you did not find attractive because you wanted a free meal
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yeah and the second one is have you ever had a friend that was the whale in this situation that
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they're all describing and did you tell her the truth about what was going on okay uh first
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question um i may have been out with a guy that i didn't find attractive initially but it wasn't
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for the meal um basically i think that like looks aren't everything in a relationship if
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if someone has personality integrity like has a brain then that could take you places you don't
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necessarily have to look like a hundred million dollars for me to kind of like there's other
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there's other factors other ingredients that would make a man my type um in terms of the second
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question um i'd say no because all my girls are paying like nah there's never been a situation
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that's my best friend all your girls are paying hey beautiful all my friends are
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oh is that okay i don't know that oh my god oh i'm with that i'm with the slang now
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okay there's always the ugly one in the group yeah like yeah i mean yeah i mean your friend can be pretty
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but she could still punch out of her league yeah exactly like like she could be a solid seven punching
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a ten but my girls are smarter than that they would never put themselves in a situation where like
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they're just kind of like okay a hole i'm sorry like no i disagree single i disagree i've i've gone
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out with a guy yeah just for a meal i mean the guy i knew what his intentions were but for me it was
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never going past friendship because i wasn't attracted to him and you just didn't tickle my
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fancy i mean you were short you was like nearly just a bit taller than me on the rankings now
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if i'm wearing heels and i'm and i'm like a skyscraper over you
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how tall are you how tall are you i'm five foot two you're five foot two so maximum you're going
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to be five foot five yeah was the guy taller than you in heels though no how tall was round about
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i don't know how tall he was but he was short and yeah i went out for a meal i was like do you know
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what he was a persistent guy as well he kept on like responding to my stories and stuff like that
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so i was like you know what that's it okay it's really easy to swipe up yeah that's persistent
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you thought yeah let me use man for a free meal because i just want to eat yeah after work that's
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deep fair enough it gets like that it gets like that it gets like that it wasn't a waste of time
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because for me like i said i never saw it past anything being a friendship you're a cool guy
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but me and you will never did you express that to him like we are not going anywhere past a friendship
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yeah we can go out and eat no i didn't but so what so so basically you let him believe that okay boom
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there's a opportunity there's a chance but in your head you know there is no chance but like you're not
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going anywhere with me yeah yeah i didn't so basically you used him yeah i did oh okay
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yes hello can we admit that like this dating thing is transactional because the man will take you on
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loads of dates these fancy restaurants to smash and this is why i say like as a man you have to
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set your standards like some guys in the beginning they'll take them to the shard yeah you can't
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you can't blame a woman after that to be expecting fancy wine and dining and stuff like that you've
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got a you've got a you know feel it out first build it up a bit a bit a bit and then see if she's
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actually you know worth this you know what it is yeah sorry sorry to cut you off my guy a lot of men
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are simps innit they they see bum breast and face and they lose themselves in them a lot of men forget
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that what a woman's personality is like will make me take her to the shard i personally i don't take
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girls on dates unless i know they're serious on my girlfriend level but these simps they see your
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pretty face your bum your breast whatever it is i don't know what it is and i'm not saying that you
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ain't going but i'm trying to say men in general and they'll take you to these places to try and have
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a transactional experience and try to smash you yeah and now for you you're looking at the experience
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in itself in general right yeah so even though you don't rate him you don't seem any potential
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you're saying it's just a free meal right yeah so i think it's a fair game i don't know what are you
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saying can i ask your question though can i ask your question did you see that guy ever again after
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that um no wait wait wait wait wait no no no no let me learn i did i don't want to bait out how i
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saw him how i saw him but he basically came and gave me like a birthday present after that but i never
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saw him so basically he bought you food you enjoyed it you went home no kiss no hug no nothing or maybe
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the church did he get a did he get a side hug at least i don't even remember that's how that's how
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guys guys guys guys guys i probably did i probably okay okay okay but yeah anyway so what was the
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question again um the first one was have you ever taken a date from a guy you don't find attractive
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and the second one was has your friend ever been in a situation that they were describing and did you
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tell her oh yeah i also wanted to mention as well based upon what you said because you said
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you don't go out with guys you go out with guys based on their personality but the first thing you
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see of a guy with anybody is their looks yeah so the looks is what's going to attract you your
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personality comes along with it after and that develops and stuff yeah so you wouldn't talk to
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a guy that does it is not aesthetically pleasing to you and you wouldn't know that he's a good
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guy if if he wasn't a state aesthetically pleasing to you just because he's aesthetically pleasing
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doesn't make him a good guy but that's the start though no but listen listen that's the start
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why would you accept a date with a guy you don't find attractive because to me it's like if you don't
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find him attractive in the beginning that's what you're supposed to like maybe i found him
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attractive based on our conversation that we had maybe i found him attractive based on his warmth you
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wouldn't give him the time of day based on yeah he's a warm person because at first you're ugly you got
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money whatever cool so then we talk to you and then no i'm just talking about less because more time when
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you see pretty girls with ugly guys they've got money if they've got something something of value to them
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right so obviously right right now let's talk about money because more time that's what girls go for
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right and then when you start going out with him over time you start thinking oh do you know what
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he's actually all right like he's got some substance to him he can hold conversations
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and as for the whale question there's always an ugly person an ugly girl in the group no matter how
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pretty the group is there's always ugly girl have i ever told my whale friends maybe not and maybe i
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should but at the same time those friends deal within their league they know they're not the best
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so they go for like ugly guys sorry so women always try to date up they never date down never