JustPearlyThings - June 04, 2023


Women Don't See The PROBLEM In This


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8 minutes

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211.97847

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1,890

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Summary


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00:00:00.000 best friend with someone you have to tell them everything you won't say you know everything and
00:00:04.000 that's the new like age like you should be best friends with your partner but in the old days
00:00:08.960 your husband was at war you'd be home with the kids and then he would go out with his boy like
00:00:14.160 i think men need male friends to hang out with i don't think we're meant to be their best okay okay
00:00:20.000 and this is coming from someone you know i was a bit of a tomboy but it's like you know i just
00:00:25.600 don't think men want to talk to you in the way they talk to other men we don't that makes sense
00:00:30.160 they don't but men need male time and females need female time yeah and i don't really want to like
00:00:36.560 talk to my my husband or my boyfriend about the same things i'm talking about a girl's night like
00:00:42.640 it's just it'll be awkward it doesn't work it doesn't you know okay okay i'm like i don't
00:00:48.720 believe what becky diane and deborah did and then he's like i don't care
00:00:55.600 it kind of works we're at least we're at least with the girls they're interested yeah but then
00:01:00.320 he's not your best friend because he doesn't have the same level of interest into the things that you
00:01:03.200 do but there is a man that would be interested in what becky did i don't want the guy that's
00:01:07.680 interested in women things like that's a feminine man i know i mean i i i pluck my eyebrows does that
00:01:13.280 make me feminine i cry you know i get a haircut twice a week i'm gonna i'm gonna answer um yeah you
00:01:20.560 know i do think you have a little bit of a feminine energy like just talking to you
00:01:24.240 you know okay i i do i do get a little bit that's fine and i think like if you're crying all the time
00:01:30.160 i do think you're more feminine than a guy that doesn't cry all the time trust me but why is it
00:01:34.640 not okay for men to cry that's because women don't respect it women think you're a punk when you cry
00:01:39.600 did i say it was not okay i mean you can do it but i think like as women we want a strong leader
00:01:45.200 and like what we call our husband like our rock that we want we want to lean on right we don't
00:01:49.760 want a guy that's crying all the time is is the president of the country like is trump when he
00:01:55.760 was in office crying on stage you know you don't want that but equally a lot of women need to realize
00:02:00.640 that you're not like the president too you're the first lady i'm president do you know what i mean and
00:02:06.000 that like his analogies go that works quite well i think there's like we need to be different and
00:02:10.640 that's actually a complement to each other and we need to work together in that way and i feel like
00:02:14.720 as much as i hear what he's saying like being close is a great thing but we are different and
00:02:19.920 we need to like come together in a different way so you kind of need to balance each other yeah yeah
00:02:24.560 she's gonna fill in my flaws and i'm gonna fill in like yeah i think my best friend i think we
00:02:30.160 read too deeply into it i meant someone that you trust you love someone who you you are happy to be in
00:02:34.480 their presence and you know it doesn't feel like a chore i understand what you mean but of course we're
00:02:38.640 not going to sit down and play xbox one and so i get it that's what no one would expect i would as
00:02:45.200 well like yeah i was a bit of a tomboy i was a breakdown there's nothing worse than a girl trying
00:02:49.200 to play playstation watch the girls being better than you guys you're taking away from my excellence
00:02:55.360 right now okay i'm great at this girls you might be um say if you girls yeah are your partner's best
00:03:02.080 friend yeah is it okay for your partner to have other lady friends is it okay for us to have
00:03:10.640 more no it's rude to answer a question with a question
00:03:13.360 i would it's difficult it's difficult one um before i would have said yes but i watched a
00:03:28.960 what's that harvey weinstein no it was a guy i watched recently oh yeah yeah steve harvey
00:03:35.920 yeah steve harvey and he was just saying something like um when male and females are friends it's
00:03:41.360 because the woman hasn't allowed him in yet yeah i saw that video she had the slightest chance that he
00:03:47.520 could go through that gap he would yeah and for me i was just like hmm that's very interesting do you
00:03:53.200 girls agree with that or disagree yeah i agree 100 do you girls have male friends then i
00:03:58.480 i do have i have male friends i have male friends and they know where they stand but they still they
00:04:06.800 may know they stand but they they you know if you if you if you said to them you gave them the green
00:04:11.120 light you know the greener if my partner wasn't happy with me having male friends i would happily
00:04:17.760 you know cut them off would you all of you would you cut all the male friends off for the month um no
00:04:22.960 it depends because i mean you're if you're telling me to cut off my friends
00:04:29.360 but then but then you're still being able to have your female friends then no but if it's something
00:04:36.080 that we're both willing to do yes if we're both willing to do it i don't see a problem with that
00:04:41.440 but if it's a case of yeah you're my woman uh you can't talk to this person no
00:04:48.240 i personally don't believe there's nothing so there's no such thing as a male best friend
00:04:52.320 towards a female because i feel like every every guy would know what he wants and if he did put it
00:04:57.360 on the plate and say i know if you a female did put on the plate for that guy and say like you know
00:05:01.600 what i'm fed up on my guy that he's been peeing me off a bit like he's come around and show his
00:05:06.320 intentions when i was one of my first girlfriends she convinced me it's not like that and you know when
00:05:14.560 you're young and impressionable you're willing to like let things go because you really love her and
00:05:17.920 all of that and then the minute we broke up he was in there he was dying everything i was like
00:05:23.920 i'm never gonna allow this again ever it's the way it works i mean i was at a club last night
00:05:29.520 yeah and i spoke to um this guy that used to be friends with one of my ex-girlfriends
00:05:34.080 and even he said to me he was like you know when you used to go out with danielle i used to love her
00:05:38.000 off you know i'm like oh word yeah he's like yeah man i used to proper love her off and i'm like this
00:05:44.000 is this is exactly what i mean we can't really trust ourselves what if the girl's not attractive
00:05:49.520 though if the girl's not attractive yeah what do you mean that's a good she could have a male
00:05:53.520 friend yeah but he might not be the same level of service do you you know i mean you see like all
00:05:58.320 the pretty girls they're like oh yeah my male best friend he'll pick me up any time of the night
00:06:02.720 and all this kind of stuff you're gonna get certain um privileges from being that that good
00:06:07.680 looking friend yeah you know i mean whereas if if i mean i've got what if it's a gay friend
00:06:12.400 again if it's a gay best friend because i've had those that one's cool yeah so you're cool with him
00:06:16.560 seeing her butt naked slapping her yeah no no no slapping her beauty but actually he can
00:06:20.880 that's different i know i'm sorry someone pretend that was gay just because he wanted to go on her pants
00:06:32.480 yeah and this ah this is what i was going to say so you can't even trust me before but you see um
00:06:37.760 women cheat more yeah but see the men the men are more willing to be more conducive to the cheating
00:06:45.360 so what's that mean so what it means is i will i will be more in a way to conduct myself for you not
00:06:52.240 to get caught out and for our situation to keep evolving right so if i'm going to be a side negro
00:06:57.680 yeah what i would tend to do would be to save my number as something else in a girl's phone book
00:07:04.640 if if a man rings up my phone i'm not going to blow up her spot i'm going to say oh no no bro i'm
00:07:10.240 i'm a cousin or like whatever it might well be i'm gonna but girls girls don't really give a
00:07:15.440 shit you see once the jig is up yeah but yeah i told your girlfriend yeah you know what i mean
00:07:20.960 i told your girlfriend about arsenal but men are more conducive we'll try and hold it down i've
00:07:25.200 seen two girls go home in a taxi together wasn't it wasn't a good situation you know what i mean
00:07:30.560 so we we are generally more conducive to you guys not being caught and if we're if we're the side
00:07:35.760 pieces we tend to play that role better i believe whereas women they don't really give too much of a
00:07:42.720 shit they they don't mind if men get caught when it comes to the cheating side of things that's what i
00:07:46.320 think you know when when men do it men i think it's got a lot to do with a man's confidence as
00:07:51.440 well when i was broke and i didn't look the way i did i'll be honest i was insecure i didn't want
00:07:55.680 my ex-girlfriends lingering around other guys because i knew they were better than me but i've
00:07:59.440 got to a position in my life by working on myself for two years without having a girlfriend where
00:08:04.000 i'm i know mate i'm not god's gift bro just look at my height no no you i know i'm enough i know
00:08:08.640 what's gift thank you so much i'll give you that 10 pound so at the end of the day i do know what
00:08:18.000 i offer and um go ahead have as many male friends as you know that's true bro but we do have to we
00:08:23.600 still have them in security i know what i offer but it's not about this question as many of you know
00:08:28.400 i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if you want to
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