JustPearlyThings - October 28, 2023


Women RUINED Modern Families


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00:00:00.000 have someone who is self-harming and you give them the razor how are you helping because they
00:00:05.420 want to do it in their mind it helps it relieves something it helps me the same with anorexia if
00:00:10.960 someone believes they are huge but they are actually seriously seriously anorexic if you
00:00:16.180 reaffirm that broken problem in their mind and you go well if you're happy and you give them
00:00:21.420 laxatives or diet pills how are you helping them the truth is is that without tolerance we can't
00:00:26.620 discern what's good and bad for society and that actually comes from a place of love if we can
00:00:31.380 decide collectively it's not good to be overweight so we don't celebrate it it's not good and i agree
00:00:36.820 pop culture it's not good to celebrate drugs and alcohol if we can make definitive decisions on
00:00:41.780 what's good and bad it's not about your individual spirit being good or bad no no it's just telling
00:00:47.820 you you're making a decision that ultimately in reality isn't going to be good for you and it's
00:00:53.060 like if you go with the whole mentality of who are we to judge each other how far does that go
00:00:57.820 because if we don't judge each other how do we decide murderers are bad no i agree i agree because
00:01:04.420 you said everyone can can you know it's that egalitarian mindset that king was referring to
00:01:10.000 if you're if you're deciding okay everyone can can do what they want and you can celebrate what you
00:01:15.860 want to celebrate some people are really messed up some people want to celebrate murderers and and what
00:01:21.860 you think we should just let them absolutely not we should collectively decide as a society what is
00:01:26.300 good for us and what is bad for us because without that we descend into chaos it's not about you being
00:01:33.260 bad it's about you making a choice that's bad for you every nail on the head yeah i agree but i also feel
00:01:40.560 like everybody is entitled to especially is as far as there is a line because we have laws so there is
00:01:47.080 definitely a line that you know has been established and voted and agreed upon that this is what everybody
00:01:52.620 has collectively agreed that's wrong if you're not hurting somebody if you're drinking if you're smoking
00:01:56.960 if you're vaping you're overeating you're hurting yourself so no but what is it to you to go and project
00:02:02.460 your opinion on someone else in this country you're then gonna put your um health issues onto the nhs
00:02:08.680 which is gonna cost in tax and other things everyone else has to pay for like everyone has to pay for
00:02:14.980 the air pollution because everybody's outside smoking cigarettes and vaping everybody has to pay for
00:02:19.120 no no a lot of thoughts no not no it's not comparable that's not that like okay you think that vaping has the
00:02:27.040 same effect on the healthcare system and our taxes as maybe not but i think that everything you die too
00:02:34.760 young you're gonna upset your family and your friends that's gonna cause a ripple effect what about
00:02:39.960 like yeah what about your kids there's a lot of things involved yeah so i'm not arguing that being
00:02:44.640 overweight is somehow like an exception or it's okay i'm not even arguing over the overweight topic at all
00:02:50.560 i'm overing over the arguing over the fact that it's not your say or your decision or
00:02:55.740 yeah so i'm not saying you're a bad person women are celebrating things that are bad if there's a
00:03:00.480 group of people who want to get together and celebrate whatever it is then that's their right
00:03:04.220 but so so what what i'm disagreeing with is you said it doesn't affect anyone it does and and that's
00:03:09.800 where i'm disagreeing i'm saying it does because when you have health issues the everyone around you
00:03:15.320 has to take care of you and then the health system has to pay for it so that that's where i'm saying i
00:03:20.600 disagree that it doesn't affect anybody and the point of freedom like i also agree with people
00:03:25.400 should be allowed to exercise their freedoms to do whatever they want like ultimately if if people
00:03:30.540 are telling you don't do this don't do this and you still decide to do it you know i'm not a tyrant
00:03:34.740 i'm not then gonna absolutely put a gun to your head until you do what i want you to do because it's
00:03:39.560 coming from a place of love if you decide not to listen and you kill yourself that is ultimately
00:03:44.000 your fault at the end of the day but the point that pearl was making was about celebration and the
00:03:49.420 thing that's what i was talking about the thing with body positive body positivity and the trans movement
00:03:53.580 the two uh examples that we just gave is that when you celebrate something you are encouraging it
00:04:00.720 so without the celebration because it's like people can still do that right trans people can still exist
00:04:05.340 people can still be overweight and be positive in themselves but it's the point the point is is that
00:04:10.820 it's projected and celebrated upon society and we shouldn't be doing that because it's not good for
00:04:17.500 individuals but if individuals decide that they want to do that great i don't think anyone should be
00:04:21.860 forced to do anything in life but if you celebrate it you encourage it and what good does that do
00:04:28.060 in encouraging people you know we had a woman on the front of sports illustrating magazine who was 300
00:04:32.440 pounds if we all know girls girls we've all heard this narrative for years you know it was in the 90s it
00:04:40.200 was girls are seeing women who are too skinny so girls are then starving themselves okay well now they're
00:04:46.120 seeing women who are too fat so now they're thinking oh well that's okay and that's celebrated and the truth
00:04:51.860 is either way that's not good so i think the point is is that people can do what they want but
00:04:58.260 as a society we should not celebrate the things that are bad for humankind that's the point and
00:05:04.800 ultimately if you then decide to go against that um you know more power to you but don't go out and
00:05:10.700 project it onto the rest of the world because it's not good for people i don't think people making a
00:05:14.560 choice to celebrate something that they feel strongly about that they care about that they
00:05:18.100 feel that they relate to is influencing other people i think that if you have a weak mind or
00:05:24.900 you're easily influenced or you maybe are not securing your own foundation but children are weaker
00:05:29.780 that's why i agree that's why children shouldn't be on tiktok or whatever they shouldn't be having
00:05:34.800 so much access to these things because in the world people are going to do what they're going to want
00:05:38.600 to do people are going to kill people are going to do other things for example advertising children walk
00:05:43.140 around in the street somewhere like new york city i've never been but i know that you guys have
00:05:46.460 huge billboards right what are they seeing on those billboards look at the latest dove adverts
00:05:50.880 right things like that that's what i'm saying so if we look on a societal level children are a part
00:05:55.780 of our society you know we go to something like the trans movement that is absolutely 100% targeted
00:06:01.160 towards children my point is we shouldn't be celebrating things in our society that are bad for
00:06:06.820 the vulnerable people within our society and that includes children that includes people who are
00:06:11.000 weak-minded you know it should be our human duty to look out for one another and people
00:06:15.080 putting stuff out there i agree with you kids shouldn't be on tiktok kids shouldn't be on
00:06:18.920 instagram the point is they are so we should be aware of that as competent adults so to not expose
00:06:25.980 children to things that could encourage them to make bad decisions in life can i just say ask a
00:06:30.580 question but being that a competent adult that's raising these children the family that that are so
00:06:36.360 concerned about her these let's say she's a traditional family girl who was leading this
00:06:42.720 family as to what was put in this child's mouth for her to then gain this weight and then for them to
00:06:50.060 now sit down and say to this child you are now overweight because now they've created habits and
00:06:56.760 addictions and so on and so forth because they see that this is not healthy and they because they have
00:07:03.140 the knowledge because they know better they are the competent adult they were competent enough to
00:07:08.120 provide the food from birth to whatever said date that she is now overweight so oh now we have a
00:07:14.160 problem and i'm going to tell you that you are the problem and we this we need to fix this problem but i
00:07:20.260 created this problem so we're going to come down and sit with our leader whoever that may be in that
00:07:25.580 family and together as a family and we're going to change the habits and unlearn these bad behaviors that
00:07:31.040 have caused this child to now then be overweight and we're going to do it together as a family or are
00:07:35.920 we going to just magnify this child who has now learned this terrible behavior which has now caused
00:07:40.420 possible health problems and she feels bad or whatever it is negative positive whatever it may be
00:07:45.820 it started at the foundation of her being a baby because the baby did not put the processed food on the
00:07:51.300 table the baby did not go and buy it the baby did not see the billboard and say mommy i want that
00:07:56.020 mcdonald's and mommy said yes you can have every time you say you want mcdonald's you can have it
00:08:00.440 you have to be able to make the executive decision as a competent adult that chose to raise a child
00:08:06.100 and together as a collective with whoever your village or your support is and your leader
00:08:11.000 and make that then don't go and make the child feel bad for your choices i agree with you but she
00:08:17.480 wasn't a child the problem she started somewhere but the problem with that habit started somewhere
00:08:21.900 in the west we live in a gynocentric society so even if you notice women make most of the decisions
00:08:28.880 women are the ones that are raising these kids most men and this is what i noticed i'm i'm african i
00:08:35.340 came from nigeria i only came to this country in 2019 back in my country even even though it's changing
00:08:41.740 but back in the day the men were the leaders of this of the family what they said goes but that
00:08:47.940 even started changing a couple of like years ago like but the reality is women are the ones that make
00:08:54.020 all the decisions if a man tries to stand his ground in the west he is literally shut down
00:08:59.980 he's literally kicked out of his home he's literally seen as the enemy he gets kicked out
00:09:04.820 he gets yes so men men can't even enforce their masculinity on their own families and this is
00:09:10.280 the point we're saying of the whole thing so then you should vet your partner properly before
00:09:14.240 it's not about vetting your partner it's not about vetting your partner it's about the society
00:09:18.040 no matter how much you vet your partner do you think society can have an impact about what my
00:09:22.460 husband is telling you yes i'll tell you why i'll tell you why because there are many women
00:09:26.040 who were raised in nigeria who were raised with traditional values the moment they stepped foot
00:09:30.800 into this country they went haywire yeah so so so therefore vet your wife or your husband
00:09:35.800 no the reality is the society creates the um toxic environment for women to be able to run rampant
00:09:42.800 and do whatever they want okay so how do you combat that do you now then go when you're fighting
00:09:48.220 a war do you go to war without equipment i i mean some men won't fight it that's the point
00:09:54.380 the point is that that's the reason why men are no longer getting married okay because they see that
00:09:59.320 they cannot have any sort of um authority in their homes that's the reason why men run from
00:10:05.220 from it used to take three months for a guy to marry you now it takes three years on average
00:10:11.140 yeah so it's like that's what men are doing they're trying they're vetting harder but
00:10:16.520 honestly just doing this divorce documentary i would say there's no way you could possibly know
00:10:21.380 women switch up switch up very quickly after they get what they want um it's really i would say it's
00:10:26.760 a roll of the dice um there's high risk women there's low risk women but you're never going to
00:10:30.620 know a hundred percent what do women get out of marriage um protection and provisioning most men
00:10:36.180 out earn women so the average man still even if it's more of a 50 50 even the 50 50 relationships
00:10:41.880 that i look at men still work longer longer hours and they contribute more financially
00:10:46.400 um you also get protection i mean there's some sort of where are they
00:10:50.140 yeah well i mean most most men um earn enough for a wife and kids do they yeah i mean it's just
00:10:57.100 no but the problem is but the problem is i'll tell you guys the problem you you see you you
00:11:01.880 get you have jewelry you have makeup on you have you have i know yeah i know but but i'm saying
00:11:07.100 most women won't go down wait wait most women won't go down in lifestyle for a family so i'll give
00:11:12.480 you an example my friend my friend rachel um she is a homeschooled mom she had four kids
00:11:17.480 and what she did they never took vacation she never had any of the latest fashion trends she barely
00:11:22.900 bought makeup she homeschooled her children she lived on like um they they had chickens they like
00:11:29.400 she did all of that stuff most women aren't willing to do that for a family um and the what she and
00:11:35.480 what she explained she's from um midwest so uh chicago or in america grand rapids yeah i'm from
00:11:42.620 chicago okay um and so what she what she explained to me is kids really aren't as expensive as people
00:11:47.600 want to believe it's just it's just like the women want the vacations they want their they won't do
00:11:52.500 hand-me-downs with the kids yeah like they don't they don't want to homeschool the kids they'd rather
00:11:57.000 have a career too and and the thing is when you start breaking down men's income men's income
00:12:02.020 peaks at about 55 um and and typically over the age of 30 men are making enough for um like to have a
00:12:11.180 family to have two to three kids right but that doesn't mean that they actually share or give
00:12:16.100 or most men most men most men do most men so so if you look at the stats um there's only really about
00:12:22.780 and this is why i don't really get the there's like this group that's like basically insinuating
00:12:29.160 most guys are losers the stats don't really back that up the number one employer of men in the u.s
00:12:33.820 is truckers um and there's only like 15 percent money yeah they do they do there's only there's only
00:12:40.100 like 15 percent of men that that are like the 20 i think it is um that are the losers throughout
00:12:46.240 their lifetime um and the other thing is men are having a harder and harder time getting jobs in
00:12:51.440 high-paying industries because they are discriminated against like i've talked to recruiters
00:12:55.600 um in like tech for example and and there was even a um tech conference for women men were so desperate
00:13:01.960 to get like into that field they infiltrated it they literally like like pretend yeah they pretend
00:13:07.220 no but that but that tells you how much like they're being discriminated against for certain jobs
00:13:13.160 um so that there's more traditional men wanted to be equal yeah there's there's i would say i said
00:13:19.760 it was a good idea yeah well i would say there's there's definitely a lack of masculinity like i don't
00:13:24.720 think most men were taught to be like masculine but it's like who are we most women weren't taught
00:13:29.920 to be feminine and and we'll always say we want a leader but like what percent of women know how to
00:13:34.460 follow but those points you said about the benefits of a woman being married she could still get those if
00:13:40.140 she wasn't married right that's what i was gonna go the same way well but i but but the difference
00:13:46.600 financial support but the difference for but the difference for no not the same because you you can
00:13:51.640 have more um uh basically you have more legal rights as a woman in marriage yeah so okay quick
00:13:58.860 question you mean in like when it becomes divorce yeah yeah you have more protections yeah you have more
00:14:05.620 protections for a woman is this marriage that who and and i would say men typically actually stay
00:14:11.660 so women typically actually get the vows that are promised where men do not but like men don't
00:14:17.760 typically file for a divorce and their reasons i i can't remember them off the top of my head but
00:14:22.020 the reasons that men file for a divorce are um like one is substance abuse like they're typically
00:14:27.620 more serious than the reasons that women file for divorce in general are these um so quick in terms of
00:14:34.180 like marriage and divorces that are signed by a contract that you're going to society has created
00:14:39.780 a contract and in a contract there's obviously rules that you cannot break and if you choose to
00:14:45.620 then break this contract we call our separate ways and somebody has to pay to come so you pay to get
00:14:50.260 into a contract and now you have to pay to get out of this are you talking about a prenup no no no no
00:14:54.580 sorry sorry say that again so marriage in like when you go to the court and you legally do these
00:14:59.220 documents it's a contract correct because you you contract same together now we bind together this
00:15:04.340 is the contract so we paid to get into a contract that was created by a third party
00:15:11.620 and then we have to pay this third party again when we decide this contract no longer serves us
00:15:15.700 yeah right it makes no sense so now so the third party the third party has collected money from you twice
00:15:21.220 to get together right and so now because something in this contract you now decided to exercise this
00:15:30.020 law this contract that both and both of us have agreed that we're going to abide by this whatever
00:15:34.900 is in this contract but we also have the choice to create our own contracts as individuals we don't
00:15:39.940 necessarily have to go to the law right and sit down so i i agree with you but the issue is in this
00:15:45.060 country and in the u.s when you have a child you're automatically put into that system regardless
00:15:51.460 you know i've interviewed divorce attorneys about this and you know i asked one of them if he was
00:15:56.340 afraid of marriage and he said no i'm not afraid of marriage i could get an ironclad prenup i'm not
00:16:01.540 afraid of that but what i am afraid of is having a child because when you have a kid that kid is not yours
00:16:08.020 and you are always at the mercy of her and her family if they start getting in her ear her friends if
00:16:14.420 they start getting in her ear if she starts watching the wrong stuff on tick tock and he said
00:16:18.980 every man thinks that they can prevent it somehow but you just never know for sure so again back to
00:16:26.420 the decision makers right was it i don't know because again it's a genuine question was it a
00:16:33.220 man or a woman that thought it was a good idea to put this contract together that benefits a woman because
00:16:38.260 that's what we're saying it only benefits so yeah and the family because nobody wins when the family fights
00:16:43.220 so i'll tell you i'll tell you why because i had this question like why why are these laws so hard
00:16:47.860 to change and so i started interviewing men's rights activists who have been trying to get them changed
00:16:53.060 for years and their overwhelming consensus is that we cannot get them changed because the politicians
00:17:00.420 can't get their job they can't get elected unless they cater to the female voters and the female voters
00:17:07.220 unfortunately for whatever reason women are very selfish with our voting power and and we we have
00:17:13.780 voted for policies that break down the family and in the 1920s um you know we always hear about the
00:17:18.980 suffragettes so the women that like fought for women to get the right to vote but what they yeah yeah
00:17:24.340 yeah but what they don't know is those those women yeah they were actually they were known as terrorists
00:17:28.740 they planned assassinations they planned bombings they were women who couldn't get husbands yeah yeah and
00:17:33.700 that's what they were known as yeah they were known as that in the community the anti-suffragists
00:17:37.940 were a movement that were against the suffragettes and they said no no no we cannot let women have
00:17:43.060 the right to vote there will be increased spending and you will see the breakdown of the family unit and
00:17:48.180 you will see an increase in regulations now it's it's quite yeah it's been a hundred years who passed
00:17:53.700 the law no but that that's my point women voted to get the laws passed because those laws were not
00:17:59.780 passed when women did not have voting power so you could argue that a small percentage of men
00:18:06.020 were involved in that decision but more women are involved in voting than men are involved in
00:18:12.180 politics so it's a very small percentage of men where women have overwhelmingly voted to break down
00:18:17.860 the family so we're saying that women had a say in this contract that was put together for them to
00:18:24.500 benefit if the family or when the family women or am i saying women had a say yeah and when the contract
00:18:30.100 is drawn yeah is it we all sitting on this table together is there a woman at this table that says yes
00:18:35.300 yeah so someone wrote that contract well it depends right so one it depends on the state you're in in the
00:18:40.500 u.s but when you have a child with a woman you're automatically put like you're put into the state system
00:18:47.460 so then basically what a woman can do is she can be in a relationship in this country she can go to a
00:18:52.260 woman's shelter and the overwhelming response that i've gotten is that these women's domestic abuse
00:18:57.380 shelters that they have stories that they tell you to say about your husband so if he has say a nigerian
00:19:03.380 background you say this story if he has a muslim background you say this story if he has a british
00:19:08.180 background you say this story so they go there they get they get these stories and then what they can do
00:19:13.620 is they they make one phone call and the police can kick a guy out of his house and because they they accuse
00:19:20.180 him of abuse and what what women typically do and you see women do this in conversation is they change
00:19:25.220 the definition of things so if i say she's fat they say oh no she's not fat she's chubby they've done
00:19:30.820 that legally right so when you say oh she was abused it used to just be a man hitting a woman so women
00:19:37.460 come in and they expand and they change the definition so what they did was they switched the definition of
00:19:42.340 abuse they added emotional abuse that's very subjective they yeah they changed the definition of rape
00:19:48.260 it used to be forced sex okay you know what that is someone grabs you off the side of the road right
00:19:52.900 now it's sex without consent subjective um and they base they added the word sexual assault into the
00:19:58.260 language what does that mean most people don't even like what you know now they're saying someone hits
00:20:03.940 your butt that's that's the same thing as an assault you know i i don't know and i'm not even in this
00:20:09.700 country you can get uh arrested staring staring yeah i don't know how long um it's on the train
00:20:22.020 looking at you sexually report to the police wow wow and so unfortunately when women get power we're
00:20:29.300 just not good with it i don't know why we're like this but you know and the women were agreeable we're
00:20:34.180 more neurotic it's all about personality yeah because it's nature isn't it we're not meant to be
00:20:38.420 we're not meant to we're meant to be led yeah yeah if you do something that goes against nature that's
00:20:42.740 then when things mess up yeah and so and that's what the anti-suffragettes like all the women
00:20:47.860 of the time like there's more women that were against women voting than were for it yeah i just wanted to
00:20:53.300 i know you didn't have a direct answer but it's kind of like if you created something who was the
00:20:58.420 creative it's someone invented this camera and now the camera's faulty okay so i'll tell
00:21:04.020 you the the deciding vote for um giving women the right to vote which by and large changed the
00:21:09.300 court system it was a guy who basically did it because his mom was an anti-suffragette
00:21:14.740 that was like the deciding vote so he was kind of like the og simp so they said
00:21:24.020 the reason why men give women the right to vote is because by a lot men are good people and they
00:21:29.940 thought well women should have the right to vote now women get the right to vote but what do they
00:21:34.660 do with it that's the real question are you saying that prior to women voting because the contract of
00:21:40.420 marriage was completely different after women became family family well i'm talking about the
00:21:45.540 contract okay okay because we say that the contract benefits women okay so uh it's a it's a multi to
00:21:52.340 really gynocentrism goes back a thousand years so it like men being discriminated against in court
00:21:58.660 isn't necessarily a new thing i think we just have a natural men just have an innate ability
00:22:04.820 to want to protect women however the culture was really different and the family court yeah the
00:22:10.420 culture yeah yeah because women respond really quickly to social shame yeah yeah so well you know
00:22:15.940 when when something is shamed upon as a culture that's why i say it's not good that we celebrate
00:22:20.260 these things because when things are celebrated women tend to do it when they're shamed we tend to
00:22:24.180 we're going to celebrate him when he gets a divorce and he looks after his ex-wife now and his kids we
00:22:30.500 celebrating him because he's doing the right thing he is still providing he's not being bitter he's not
00:22:36.420 cutting her off she should ultimately not want to take away but again he might decide he wants that 24
00:22:42.260 year old now because she's 35 she's giving him the kids and he's like oh i want a bit of something
00:22:46.260 different again different conversation about right if a man can be with one woman for the rest of his life
00:22:51.300 that's a different rabbit hole so she might not agree to that so then that might be a reason as
00:22:58.260 to why she decides that that's no longer for her right but the problem is we don't celebrate women
00:23:03.140 being amicable after divorce we do not we do not celebrate and we don't celebrate bitter women
00:23:09.620 we i would say we do celebrate bitter women yeah i know we shouldn't but i will give you an example
00:23:14.660 like um anyone carrie underwood fan anyone no one no you guys don't listen to country here but there
00:23:20.820 was a big yeah there's a big yeah but and there's other examples but one that comes to my head is
00:23:26.260 there's a top country song about a woman keying a guy's car after he cheated do you know what i mean
00:23:31.460 like that a couple of them in the pop culture too yeah yeah the one the one i don't hear them do a lot
00:23:37.220 kill my ex that is literally in the charts i might kill my ex can you imagine if that was a man
00:23:45.140 singing that song i might kill my ex not the best idea and everyone's like it's funny because she's
00:23:52.260 just a woman and she's crazy if a man made the same song in a rap song in a rock song i don't
00:23:57.300 care what it is if a man said the same thing the media would be going nuts but it is absolutely glorified
00:24:03.540 in our culture there's another one as well um it's megan trainer i i did an episode on this so i spent a
00:24:08.820 long long time researching the charts and how things have changed over the years how music and
00:24:13.620 television what they show us right even in soaps you never hear in soaps anymore of you know on
00:24:18.820 eastenders no one's been together for 30 years someone's having it off with someone everything's
00:24:23.380 chaotic in music again megan trainer there's this song and she says um she says i am your mother you
00:24:30.900 listen to me i don't want to hear none of that mansplaining and the whole song is basically
00:24:35.860 composed in such a way of this gynocentric society so you have this queen kind of in a dictatorship
00:24:45.620 figure and it's basically the whole song is just putting down men lots of women's music that is in
00:24:52.260 the charts if you read the lyrics you would be absolutely appalled and you would only be appalled
00:24:57.620 when you apply it to the men because that i might kill my ex song and another one oh she's sweet but a
00:25:03.300 psycho can we imagine if if we had a song about a dude where he said oh he's a gentleman but he's
00:25:09.620 also a narcissistic abuser we celebrate these things in women but if you heard it as a man i heard the uh
00:25:16.980 the other song in when i was selling photocopiers before this job um i heard this song and it was like
00:25:22.900 i might kill my ex and it's like a really like creepy song catchy yeah and it gets in people's heads and
00:25:28.900 we don't know what kind of subliminal messaging that's doing to the unconscious minds of programming
00:25:33.300 exactly yeah back to again gender yeah yeah exactly but like basically there was a small percentage of
00:25:41.780 you know i would say simp beta men that decided to give women all of this power and then all of men had
00:25:48.020 to pay for it is are those the same would you put them and the women of that they call the pick me's
00:25:53.540 woman and the same is that like mirror like the manipulation of the pick me's the girls that they
00:25:58.420 say they oh she's a pick me like she's going to agree that she wants to be a traditionalist and she
00:26:03.060 just wants because she just wants to agree when when i when i think of simps i think of a woman
00:26:09.220 right i just think it's like a woman in a guy's body that's what i think of so he disagrees to
00:26:15.300 everything for women's benefit no i think simps will tell you what you want to hear yeah they tell you
00:26:20.820 what they want to hear that's what i'm saying and then and then well but they call a pick me
00:26:24.900 anyone that like listens to her husband they call a pick me they can i hear you yeah okay the
00:26:30.740 difference is women should absolutely be pick me's and men should absolutely not be simps that's the
00:26:35.220 difference one one is bad for society and one is actually good for society not everybody wants to
00:26:40.420 get chose okay what do you think of the song oh with the yeah chubby girl um i shouldn't say that
00:26:56.660 i don't want to send the ladies you know what um i feel like she's just lazy but the song itself was
00:27:02.340 a little bit it sounded like she just went to cry about life she just sounds like the traditional
00:27:07.700 person that would just continuously moan all the time like my mom didn't appreciate the way i look
00:27:12.340 she told me to do this and i didn't i tried to do it and i couldn't do it and all that kind of stuff
00:27:15.940 it just sounds lazy to me and where everybody was talking about eating certain things and that you
00:27:20.340 don't really have to do that you just have to wake up in the morning walk down the stairs instead of
00:27:23.780 taking the elevator then walk to the gym instead of driving there just simple stuff that you could just
00:27:29.060 do to lose weight without even changing your diet it's not hard what do you think i think her voice was
00:27:34.420 amazing as a singer i think she's incredible i know her voice was good i was like the song kind of
00:27:38.740 slaps a little bit i was like i don't like the lyrics but it's kind of fire i just think that her
00:27:49.060 voice is good but she was in her mental space was in a bad place um yeah so her delivery was very
00:27:56.100 up and down regarding what she wants as to most so what she doesn't want that's it really well thank you
00:28:03.460 guys all for coming um i i think we're gonna do final thoughts so um i'm gonna read the super chats
00:28:09.220 really quick um and then you guys can give you know any final thoughts you have on what we learned
00:28:14.100 today or the show or anything um okay guys um make sure you like the video um that's the most important
00:28:21.540 metric that youtube uses um also okay chris hoodie girl claims to be traditional lol boundless guardian no no
00:28:31.940 okay okay okay um boundless um sorry guys let's let's just read through the super chat so we can
00:28:45.060 get through it quickly okay boundless guardian um help is only help if the intent is positive if
00:28:50.660 someone punches you in the face with the intent to help you learn to fight um there's a difference than
00:28:56.100 just hitting you in the face to hurt you promoting lifestyles works the same ways intent matters normally
00:29:01.220 you're on point pearl but men of all races and colors got the right to vote via the 15th amendment
00:29:06.820 women didn't get the right to vote until 1920 um so previously enslaved men voted before wives did
00:29:13.540 that is a sad fact 90 frito pie i love my bbw but if there's a fire i'm not carrying you if we have
00:29:23.220 if we have if we have kids who's gonna play with with them first dates should be walking flights of
00:29:28.900 stairs um chris this 40 year old lady can't think in general because she's only thinking about her
00:29:35.140 selfish wants women generally think in a narcissistic way and will always make things about themselves
00:29:40.340 and see can't see past their nose 90 frito pie women during a possible world war three still have
00:29:46.740 delusional standards so many bombings on civilians almost record-breaking second to pearl reading super
00:29:53.460 chats um american virus is freedom women started getting custody women started automatically getting
00:30:01.620 custody during the 70s with the tender years loss women would automatically get custody with men
00:30:07.620 all right women would automatically get custody with men getting every other weekend at most um while
00:30:12.900 having to pay 25 percent income to child support enter black dragon um thoughts on age gap dating i'm 41
00:30:20.740 she's 21 she brought sex femininity cooperation compliance and peace women my age are bitter angry
00:30:27.620 and masculine as a man our purpose includes provisioning and protection of families american
00:30:34.260 virus is freedom shared experiences are what build a solid relationship men want to show women their first
00:30:40.900 experiences in the world no man wants to offer you the world only to hear that you already did it with
00:30:46.580 other men this includes in being intimate doug mpa the whale on the couch has no room to trash a man
00:30:53.780 sassy apocalypse your cholesterol is too high to be running your mouth what a bad representative for
00:31:00.020 for american people harpoon whales sorry um hardly tone peace to the goat sterling um enter black dragon
00:31:08.820 black and blue toxic masculinity huge red flag enter black dragon wife equals woman and feminine energy
00:31:16.020 100 percent in marriage um is oh i uh i think that's yeah that's the last wife okay let me refresh it just
00:31:25.460 make sure there's more um okay okay that's all of them all right final thoughts starting here go around
00:31:35.220 and then second row go ahead um i just don't see it as a man versus woman world and i think that both sides
00:31:41.940 could offer a little bit more grace to each other we can offer grace to everybody each other i think
00:31:47.380 a lot of women in this room could offer other women some grace in life okay um thank you for having
00:31:53.540 me um final thoughts um it's been interesting to hear everybody's differences i mean your age age range
00:32:02.180 for me still blows my mind 24 but yeah um yeah drink water and mind your business okay so my final thought
00:32:12.500 is something that i wanted to bring up before about um you know you say women shouldn't vote i don't
00:32:18.180 actually vote because i don't think the votes count i think that they're all wings from the same bird and
00:32:23.300 they're all puppets so whatever your vote goes to it's gonna just happen the way they want it to happen
00:32:30.340 it really doesn't matter so i don't vote for that reason yeah last election was stolen us go ahead
00:32:40.260 mine is just enjoy your life and be happy because it's not long that's it done
00:32:48.180 nobody wins when the family fights
00:32:50.100 happy to have blown some minds with my age gap
00:33:03.220 uh yeah i agree with what you said you know it's politicians they're all the same people in
00:33:11.700 different colored tires really most of them anyway unless you have someone who's brave enough to come
00:33:15.940 along that's anti-establishment there's definitely not one of those in the uk so uh yeah
00:33:23.060 um peace at home is the most important thing i've gathered from today
00:33:28.580 my final thoughts are just walk with love be at peace and have tunnel vision
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