The Joe Rogan Experience - October 24, 2019


Joe Rogan Experience #1370 - Brian Grazer


Episode Stats

Length

2 hours and 3 minutes

Words per Minute

174.38004

Word Count

21,565

Sentence Count

2,454

Misogynist Sentences

32

Hate Speech Sentences

18


Summary

In this episode, I sit down with writer and TV producer Brian Downey to talk about dyslexia, his childhood, and his new book, The Curious Mind: The Secret to a Bigger Life . We talk about how he got his start as a writer and producer, and how he became one of the most successful people in the world. We also talk about his early struggles in school, how he overcame them, and the lessons he learned along the way. I hope you enjoy this episode and that it inspires you to do what you need to do to get the most out of your day to day life. Thank you so much to Brian for coming on the show, and for being so open and honest with us about his journey to becoming a writer, producer, actor, and all-around great human being. I hope this episode inspires you and motivates you to go out there and do the most important thing you can do, which is learn and grow. I know I know it can do the same for you. XOXO -Jon Sorrentino Jon Downey is a stand-up comedian, screenwriter, writer, and podcaster. He has been featured on Comedy Central, The Office, and many other media outlets. He is a regular contributor to the New York Times, and is a frequent contributor to The Hollywood Reporter. and the New Yorker. New York Magazine. The New York Post. Jon talks about his new novel, A Curious Mind and much more. . Jon also has a podcast, and he is a friend of mine, and I think he's a really good friend of Jon talks a lot of good stuff. Thanks Jon, Jon is a really great guy. Jonathan talks about all kinds of stuff, too! Jon's work is really good, Jon s work is a lot, too. He's a great guy and he's very funny, Jon also does a good job, too, he's funny and he does a great job, so you should listen to him too. I really hope you like it. - Jon s a good guy, Jon's a very good at it too, Jon has a good one, Jon talks it out in this is great, Jon thinks he's also good, he really good and he also does it well, Jon does it so good, good enough that you should check him out, Jon loves him out.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Ding.
00:00:02.000 Alright, here we go.
00:00:03.000 What's up, Brian?
00:00:03.000 How are you?
00:00:04.000 Hey, good.
00:00:05.000 Thanks for being here, man.
00:00:06.000 Appreciate it.
00:00:07.000 Yeah, I'm psyched about it.
00:00:09.000 I'm psyched about having you.
00:00:10.000 Yeah, I'm now adjusting to the sound.
00:00:13.000 Oh, in your ears?
00:00:14.000 Yeah, my ears, and is it muffled?
00:00:16.000 How's it all sounding?
00:00:16.000 Perfect.
00:00:17.000 Sounds perfect.
00:00:18.000 Alright, cool.
00:00:18.000 So we were just talking about your books, and I said, let's save it.
00:00:21.000 Let's save it for the podcast, because I wanted it to sound fresh.
00:00:26.000 I want you to re-say it.
00:00:27.000 So tell me about, you wrote two books?
00:00:29.000 I wrote two books.
00:00:31.000 And, you know, as you know, I'm a writer and a movie and television producer and stuff.
00:00:36.000 To say it mildly.
00:00:37.000 I mean, you made some fucking amazing movies.
00:00:40.000 Wow, thanks.
00:00:41.000 Thanks, Joe.
00:00:41.000 My pleasure.
00:00:42.000 Yeah.
00:00:42.000 And all this...
00:00:45.000 I think, you know, my whole life and whatever those stories are, the movies are and the successes, I kind of think...
00:00:55.000 Anyone that's really focused can do what I do.
00:00:58.000 So that was kind of the end product of the first book, which was – it was called A Curious Mind, The Secret to a Bigger Life.
00:01:06.000 And that book is really about – I mean, how much do you want to know about it?
00:01:12.000 Everything.
00:01:13.000 Whatever you want to tell me.
00:01:13.000 Okay.
00:01:16.000 Basically, I couldn't read at all in elementary school.
00:01:20.000 And it caused a lot of shame and then a lot of trauma.
00:01:25.000 Did you have dyslexia?
00:01:27.000 I had dyslexia.
00:01:28.000 Quite acute dyslexia.
00:01:30.000 And I think we're out in Woodland Hills, which was the fancy part of the valley.
00:01:35.000 I grew up in the flats of Sherman Oaks, actually as a little kid going to Riverside Drive Elementary School and then later to Nobel Junior High and then later Chatsworth High School.
00:01:46.000 And in elementary school, I couldn't read it all, and they didn't classify it as dyslexia.
00:01:53.000 It was just your...
00:01:55.000 Slow.
00:01:56.000 You're dumb.
00:01:58.000 Why can't you answer this?
00:02:00.000 And then you'd say, I can't read.
00:02:02.000 And then that didn't make sense.
00:02:04.000 None of those things computed, really, that somebody couldn't actually read a word.
00:02:10.000 And I really couldn't read a word.
00:02:12.000 So when you can't read a word, then you find ways to...
00:02:21.000 We're good to go.
00:02:33.000 So I found that as that went on for quite a while, around the 4th, 5th, 6th grade, I really looked at people.
00:02:42.000 I really looked them in the eyes to learn.
00:02:46.000 And I found that by looking somebody in the eyes, you could engage – I didn't know this then, but you engage their heart if you're really – Doing it with sincerity and interest.
00:02:58.000 You can engage people and move them and evangelize things.
00:03:01.000 Get people to play on your team or you play on their team.
00:03:05.000 They pick you and stuff.
00:03:07.000 Good things happen, except the reading part.
00:03:10.000 But it enabled me to learn a lot just by looking at people and talking to people.
00:03:17.000 And I had this one mentor, this little grandmother.
00:03:20.000 Her name was Sonia.
00:03:22.000 And little Sonia, she was like...
00:03:26.000 Four, ten, I guess, you know.
00:03:28.000 And she would always say to me, she'd see me once a week, minimally, always once a week.
00:03:34.000 And she'd say, you're going all the way.
00:03:36.000 You're going to make it big.
00:03:38.000 Think big, be big.
00:03:39.000 And she had all these isms.
00:03:41.000 Because my mom's side of the family was Jewish.
00:03:43.000 My dad's side of the family is Catholic.
00:03:45.000 The Jewish side, the grandmother, was my mentor.
00:03:49.000 And the person that really...
00:03:51.000 Was the single person that I could kind of count on in life.
00:03:53.000 And she'd constantly tell me how things – I'd go great.
00:03:57.000 You have a gift for gab, she'd say.
00:03:59.000 And every time she said, you're going to go all the way, I'm thinking there's like absolutely no empirical evidence I'm going all the way anywhere, you know?
00:04:10.000 Except my parents were always arguing, let's put him back.
00:04:13.000 The teacher, Ms. Stegg, said, let's put him back.
00:04:15.000 So I just wasn't going anywhere, I didn't think.
00:04:18.000 So that gave rise to the fact that I thought, the way I can really learn a lot is have these kind of curiosity conversations.
00:04:28.000 And once I graduated college, I did this on a weekly basis, and I still do it to this day.
00:04:34.000 Wow.
00:04:35.000 Once a week.
00:04:36.000 Sometimes once every two weeks, but never more than once every two weeks.
00:04:39.000 I never – I'm pretty militant.
00:04:41.000 I'm extremely militant about it.
00:04:43.000 Like how do you do it?
00:04:44.000 Like what do you mean?
00:04:46.000 Well, what I do is I think about – it's often – And I know you do something possibly similar to this.
00:04:56.000 But my system would be, I bombard myself with, now I can read, of course.
00:05:02.000 And I was able to start to read, like, in high school.
00:05:04.000 Can you tell me how they fixed that?
00:05:06.000 They couldn't fix it.
00:05:07.000 It wasn't fixable.
00:05:10.000 Dyslexia reverses words on you, right?
00:05:13.000 It reverses the way you view letters and scrambles.
00:05:17.000 Initially, as a kid, it scrambles the letters.
00:05:20.000 Then, when it gets better, it reverses the words.
00:05:24.000 And to this day, I still start on the right and go to the left.
00:05:30.000 So it takes, like, really thoughtful discipline to make sure I'm always starting on the left.
00:05:35.000 Do you mean with sentences or with words?
00:05:38.000 With the sentences.
00:05:39.000 Really?
00:05:39.000 So you'll start at the right end of the – you should read Hebrew or something, isn't that – Or Chinese or something.
00:05:45.000 Yeah, different languages do that, right?
00:05:47.000 Yeah, I guess they do.
00:05:49.000 But incidentally, when you have dyslexia, it's very hard to learn other languages.
00:05:53.000 I would imagine.
00:05:54.000 Very, very hard.
00:05:56.000 But I can read and I bombard myself.
00:05:58.000 So how do you switch it around?
00:06:01.000 Like when your brain is making you read right to left?
00:06:05.000 Yes.
00:06:06.000 I started to learn – just create like an exercise, a discipline, where I could – like as in college, I was able to read – I could force myself to start on the left and go to the right.
00:06:21.000 Is there a certain mechanism that's causing you to do right to left?
00:06:25.000 Like do they know what the cause of this is?
00:06:28.000 Not that I know of.
00:06:29.000 Not that I know of.
00:06:31.000 Probably something neurological and certainly genetic.
00:06:35.000 I mean, I have no genetic trace, but it has to be a letter within your genome, I'm having to guess.
00:06:41.000 So you learned how to read, you learned how to figure it out, and then you said you have these conversations at least once every two weeks.
00:06:51.000 Yes.
00:06:51.000 So how do you do this?
00:06:52.000 Do you organize them?
00:06:54.000 They're structured?
00:06:55.000 They're structured.
00:06:58.000 There's a randomness to them because often you'd have to – it's not like getting on your show where everybody wants to be on the show – I say that with a compliment, of course, but I'm begging people because even though – To sit down with you.
00:07:14.000 I'm begging them to sit down with me and I'm groveling and I'm calling assistants directly.
00:07:19.000 I still – I have three assistants, but I make all of my own phone calls always because – You know why?
00:07:25.000 Because I have this discipline of getting to know assistants and going, hey, it's Brian, is Richard around?
00:07:31.000 And I just, like, I do that.
00:07:33.000 That's so refreshing from a guy who's as successful as you are, because so many times when people get that successful, you insulate yourself with a bunch of other people who do all the calls for you and open all the doors for you, and you just kind of, you stay insulated and more aloof.
00:07:50.000 Yeah.
00:07:50.000 Well, thank you.
00:07:52.000 Thanks.
00:07:53.000 Well, yeah, people do.
00:07:55.000 I mean, look, there are producers that are sort of – let's say we're in the same category, same ilk, that just do it differently.
00:08:03.000 I made a lot of deliberate choices through trial and error.
00:08:08.000 I went through the 80s where power guys had desks above the other chairs that are on the other side.
00:08:16.000 The power guys always had black lacquer furniture.
00:08:21.000 They did all these power things.
00:08:24.000 And I thought, I want artists to like me, relate to me, and I always did everything to create a democratic environment because not that I was such a cool guy, but more like you just get so much more out of a creative person by not intimidating them.
00:08:42.000 And I just saw...
00:08:44.000 My peers and often someone maybe a decade ahead of me – I'm so close to saying names – but just those sort of tough guys.
00:08:55.000 And I didn't think that was effective.
00:08:58.000 I just didn't think it was effective.
00:08:59.000 And I wasn't making these really hardcore action movies.
00:09:03.000 I was doing movies that were – they're designed to ignite emotion and feeling.
00:09:10.000 In fact, even when I do public speaking, I say, oh, Brian Graves or whatever they might say, but I go – I always say I'm in the feelings business.
00:09:19.000 I'm not a movie producer.
00:09:20.000 I'm just a – I'm in the feelings business because I feel like that's what we want out of a cinematic experience for me, for the movies I'm interested in doing or TV shows.
00:09:36.000 Because I grew up loving those movies of the 70s and I'm captivated by things that move me emotionally and elevate me emotionally.
00:09:47.000 So you make these phone calls and you arrange these conversations.
00:09:51.000 So you arrange basically a podcast that no one's listening to.
00:09:59.000 That's exactly...
00:10:00.000 I never thought of it in those words.
00:10:03.000 That is really funny.
00:10:05.000 You should probably record them.
00:10:08.000 So I've done it for, say, 35 years.
00:10:10.000 Really?
00:10:11.000 And you didn't record any of them?
00:10:12.000 The first 15 years, nothing.
00:10:14.000 I didn't write really notes either.
00:10:17.000 And then the second 10 years, I'd say 15 was nothing.
00:10:24.000 I just did it.
00:10:25.000 Because I felt like that could inhibit somebody or I felt like...
00:10:28.000 I was trying to do these sort of down low in a way.
00:10:32.000 Like I didn't want to commodify them.
00:10:34.000 You know, like industrialize my conversations.
00:10:38.000 And I had friends go, like, can we be part of it?
00:10:41.000 And I tried it once with a couple other guys during my thing.
00:10:46.000 And it fractionalized my attention.
00:10:49.000 And it...
00:10:51.000 What I found, the great thing about the conversations, the one-on-one with no one else in the room, which that's all I do.
00:10:57.000 Again, I tried it different ways.
00:11:02.000 What you're trying to do, I'm trying to do is create the best date that Isaac Asimov ever had.
00:11:09.000 I mean, I have so many people, just Margaret Thatcher.
00:11:13.000 I'm trying to...
00:11:15.000 Like, I'm trying to have no idea of time and space.
00:11:20.000 And I want them to have no idea of time and space.
00:11:23.000 Because that is like your best date.
00:11:26.000 Yeah.
00:11:26.000 And I always think like, what is my best date with a girl?
00:11:30.000 For me, Brian, because my best date is I'm not even thinking about time.
00:11:35.000 And it just becomes almost like a biochemical event.
00:11:39.000 It's just things are evolving.
00:11:41.000 Yeah.
00:11:41.000 Yeah.
00:11:41.000 And I felt like I could do this with many Nobel laureates, with Sheldon Glasgow, who converted the four forces of nature to three.
00:11:52.000 And I brought his name up because, well, first of all, I knew that your show, you could do whatever you want.
00:12:00.000 And with Sheldon Glasgow, it's like I usually do an hour or two hours, but I hung out with this guy, shut up my whole day down for six hours.
00:12:09.000 Wow.
00:12:10.000 Just because I was so captivated by him and he talked about multiple subjects.
00:12:14.000 So basically, I'm always got somebody that I'm really wanting to meet and it takes a year at least.
00:12:23.000 Or sometimes years.
00:12:24.000 To organize this.
00:12:25.000 To get them to say yes or to be in the same city or be willing to say yes and me fly to New York or some other place.
00:12:32.000 It sounds like you have figured out the benefit that I've experienced from having podcasts and having these kind of conversations, one-on-one conversations, but you did it Just for your own personal edification.
00:12:46.000 Yeah.
00:12:47.000 It's kind of amazing.
00:12:49.000 I have gotten more out of talking to people like this, and it made me grow more as a person and made me understand more about communication and how to talk to people than anything I've ever done in my whole life.
00:13:03.000 Yes.
00:13:23.000 And we're talking.
00:13:25.000 There's no phones.
00:13:26.000 There's no nothing.
00:13:26.000 We're sitting across from each other.
00:13:28.000 How would I ever organize this?
00:13:29.000 I thought about that with so many different people that I've had a chance to talk to.
00:13:33.000 Like, how would I ever get Sean Carroll, the astrophysicist, to sit down and just talk to me for three hours?
00:13:40.000 You had to captivate him.
00:13:41.000 I would never get him to do that.
00:13:42.000 No.
00:13:43.000 I would never get him to, hey, let's put headphones on and you just tell me about stuff.
00:13:48.000 Explain to me.
00:13:49.000 No one would ever do that.
00:13:51.000 But because of this thing called a podcast, because I can share it with all the other people that are listening, I've had this chance to have these kind of conversations.
00:14:00.000 And it sounds like you've done the same thing, but without an audience.
00:14:04.000 Exactly.
00:14:05.000 That's really brilliant.
00:14:06.000 It's a brilliant way that you figured out that this is a great way to expand your own understanding of people by being one-on-one with these brilliant folks.
00:14:18.000 Yes, exactly.
00:14:19.000 And maybe you do this too, but I've found...
00:14:25.000 I mean, I do meet a lot of people.
00:14:27.000 I reach out to meet people that are, you know, expert at many different things that I don't do, of course.
00:14:34.000 But sometimes I just, I become really motivated just to meet somebody because they're so uniquely committed to something.
00:14:43.000 They're so obsessed.
00:14:46.000 And I've even found that I've learned a lot from Uber drivers and baristas and stuff where I But I do reach out to meet people that have really committed to a really intense journey and often have triumphed in it.
00:15:06.000 Yeah, it's very contagious.
00:15:07.000 Yeah, it is.
00:15:08.000 The kind of energy that those people exude.
00:15:09.000 Yeah.
00:15:10.000 It is.
00:15:11.000 It's inspirational too, isn't it?
00:15:13.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:15:15.000 Because like even, who was it, Josh, you might know this guy, Josh Waitnick.
00:15:20.000 Yeah.
00:15:20.000 Okay, the guy that was the subject of searching for Bobby Fischer.
00:15:24.000 Yeah, the chess master.
00:15:24.000 The chess master who now is like a martial art.
00:15:27.000 Jiu-jitsu martial.
00:15:27.000 Exactly.
00:15:27.000 And he was able to like succeed in both templates or formats.
00:15:32.000 Yeah, did we say his last name right?
00:15:34.000 Yeah.
00:15:35.000 Waitkins?
00:15:36.000 Is that it?
00:15:37.000 I thought it was Wait...
00:15:38.000 I don't know.
00:15:39.000 Waitnik?
00:15:40.000 Waitnik?
00:15:40.000 He's a student under Marcelo Garcia.
00:15:43.000 Exactly!
00:15:44.000 Yeah, one of the greatest Jiu-Jitsu masters of all time.
00:15:46.000 That's right.
00:15:47.000 He's very proud of that.
00:15:49.000 He should be.
00:15:49.000 He's amazing.
00:15:51.000 Yeah, he's excellent.
00:15:52.000 And Josh is, yeah, weight skin.
00:15:55.000 Oh, weight skin.
00:15:56.000 You have it right.
00:15:56.000 Thank you very much.
00:15:58.000 I want to get it right.
00:15:58.000 But a brilliant, brilliant guy.
00:16:01.000 He is.
00:16:02.000 And he's amazing on, have you ever heard him on Tim Ferriss' podcast?
00:16:05.000 I did.
00:16:06.000 Excellent.
00:16:07.000 Yeah.
00:16:07.000 Excellent episode.
00:16:09.000 I think he's done more than one episode, in fact.
00:16:11.000 Yeah.
00:16:12.000 So, your experience with him, what were you saying?
00:16:15.000 No, I just thought like this guy, he's so committed to excellence.
00:16:19.000 And it made me, like as you were just saying, made me think about that as a premise, like just complete commitment to excellence.
00:16:31.000 Because I don't really think of it, you know, these sort of creative puzzles that way.
00:16:39.000 A creative puzzle would be like a movie or a TV show or a documentary.
00:16:46.000 I could go on.
00:16:49.000 Jay-Z asked me because I knew Jay-Z because he was very obsessed with wanting to do the soundtrack to a movie called American Gangster, which I produced.
00:17:00.000 Great movie.
00:17:01.000 Love that movie.
00:17:02.000 Did you think?
00:17:02.000 Loved it.
00:17:03.000 Oh, great.
00:17:04.000 Thanks.
00:17:04.000 I like that one a lot, too.
00:17:07.000 And I said, as impressed as I am with Jay-Z and his level of mastery himself, I said, look, we've already done the entire score.
00:17:19.000 I mean, you can't do it.
00:17:20.000 It's been done.
00:17:21.000 He said, well, look, I feel a kinship to Frank Lucas who was played by Denzel Washington.
00:17:29.000 He ends up being a drug dealer, like the biggest heroin dealer in America at the time and head of like his own mafia that he creates.
00:17:37.000 So anyway, the bottom line is – He feels this kinship to him.
00:17:42.000 He wants to do this.
00:17:43.000 He's very dedicated.
00:17:43.000 I say, it's already done as much as, you know, superstar you are and how great you are.
00:17:48.000 And he said, look, I will do a second album.
00:17:51.000 I don't have to be the primary album that's on the screen.
00:17:54.000 I'll do a second album.
00:17:55.000 And I said, but I only have three weeks.
00:17:57.000 He goes, I will do the whole thing in three weeks.
00:18:01.000 And he did it.
00:18:02.000 And I went and saw him.
00:18:04.000 He did the singing.
00:18:05.000 He did the writing.
00:18:07.000 He engineered it.
00:18:09.000 He did every single thing.
00:18:10.000 So the guy that's the king of hip-hop, he goes to work.
00:18:14.000 And I was really blown away because he still has that grit in him.
00:18:21.000 And And it turned out to be, like, for real hip-hop lovers, they really like this album.
00:18:27.000 I guess it was...
00:18:28.000 Everybody loves everything he does, though.
00:18:30.000 When was the last time Jay-Z put out something that was shit?
00:18:33.000 He doesn't really, yeah.
00:18:35.000 He's kind of brilliant, actually.
00:18:38.000 He's a brilliant marketer.
00:18:42.000 He says things that are very insightful.
00:18:47.000 So he wanted to do – after that, we got to know each other and then he said, hey, I'm going to do a festival, a festival with 22 different artists and all different types.
00:19:03.000 And it's going to be in Love Park and it's called – we're calling it Made in America.
00:19:07.000 Would you produce it?
00:19:09.000 And I said, yeah.
00:19:11.000 And I knew that Ron Howard could get a chance at directing it.
00:19:15.000 And I thought it'd be really good for Ron to be around Jay-Z. That's a good thing for him.
00:19:20.000 He's got a good aura and the right one for Ron.
00:19:22.000 And I thought, well, so we joined him.
00:19:25.000 I said, what is this about?
00:19:27.000 What's the premise?
00:19:29.000 And he said, it's about democratization of music itself.
00:19:33.000 There's no record stores anymore.
00:19:34.000 And the walls are down.
00:19:39.000 There's a crossover between hip-hop and trance music and all that stuff.
00:19:46.000 And I thought that was kind of cool.
00:19:48.000 And then I said, have you ever seen this movie called...
00:19:51.000 Because it didn't have a story, this concert.
00:19:54.000 Did you ever see Amadeus?
00:19:56.000 He goes, I've never seen Amadeus.
00:19:58.000 And I said, well, it's about genius.
00:19:59.000 And he asked about it and he goes, that's what the premise of this will be.
00:20:03.000 And he immediately thought, had this idea that it should be every artist, every human being has a little bit of genius in them.
00:20:12.000 And he made it very relatable.
00:20:14.000 And that became the thesis Of what this documentary became, and he only had that like a week before we were shooting.
00:20:23.000 Wow.
00:20:24.000 So it was kind of remarkable.
00:20:25.000 That's pretty remarkable.
00:20:26.000 Yeah.
00:20:27.000 So you've been doing this for 35 years and you haven't recorded any of these conversations you've had with people?
00:20:33.000 Okay.
00:20:38.000 In the last 10 years, I've recorded some.
00:20:41.000 And sometimes I do FaceTimes, and they allow me to, like Admiral William McRaven, who I really wanted to meet, you know, the Navy SEAL that created SEAL Team 6 and just recently sort of – doesn't speak out publicly,
00:20:58.000 but had a point of view about the president and the whole Oval Office and stuff like that.
00:21:04.000 And he's a really amazing guy.
00:21:07.000 But I said, can I FaceTime you?
00:21:09.000 Because that was the only way.
00:21:10.000 So if somebody can't meet with me, I now say, would you Skype with me or FaceTime?
00:21:14.000 At the time I started, the tool didn't exist.
00:21:18.000 Right.
00:21:19.000 So you would fly to them?
00:21:20.000 I'd fly to them.
00:21:21.000 Yeah.
00:21:22.000 That's so amazing that you've had this commitment to do this.
00:21:25.000 Yeah, I do.
00:21:26.000 I feel it's a really...
00:21:29.000 It's important to my life, and it's like a hobby that you're completely committed to doing.
00:21:37.000 And for me, I'm a person that gets better.
00:21:42.000 I can get better all the time.
00:21:43.000 I'm open every minute of every day for self-improvement.
00:21:47.000 Like if you said, Brian, did you think...
00:21:49.000 If you gave me a note about...
00:21:53.000 This experience or something.
00:21:55.000 And you said, you know, you'd probably be better if you did it this way.
00:21:58.000 If I could integrate it or assimilate it, I would then do it.
00:22:02.000 Good for you.
00:22:03.000 That's a beautiful attitude.
00:22:05.000 Well, I know how fallible I am.
00:22:07.000 We all.
00:22:08.000 All of us.
00:22:09.000 If you're human.
00:22:10.000 If you think, yeah.
00:22:12.000 Yeah, that's part of being us.
00:22:14.000 Yeah.
00:22:15.000 So you embrace that yourself, too.
00:22:17.000 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:22:18.000 Yeah, you have to.
00:22:20.000 Constantly seeking self-improvement.
00:22:22.000 Yeah.
00:22:22.000 The big problem is holding yourself prisoner to the mistakes of the past.
00:22:27.000 Don't do that.
00:22:29.000 And just constantly looking to get better at anything you're trying to do.
00:22:33.000 And I think having these kind of conversations like you're talking about will make you a better, more thoughtful person, too.
00:22:41.000 Yes.
00:22:41.000 Because it gives you a level of communication with human beings that it's very rare.
00:22:47.000 In this world, it's very rare that you get to sit down across from someone.
00:22:51.000 And sometimes I have these conversations with people where there's no one around.
00:22:54.000 Like, you know, the back bar at the Comedy Store.
00:22:57.000 Sitting down with a buddy and we'll just sit there.
00:22:59.000 No one's around.
00:23:00.000 He and I will just shoot the shit for an hour and a half, two hours.
00:23:03.000 No one around.
00:23:04.000 Just talking.
00:23:05.000 And those are rare moments where you're not distracted.
00:23:08.000 Where you could just talk about things, you have ideas, and someone brings something up and you consider it, and then you add your own thing and they consider that, and then you just go back and forth and you get a better understanding of each other.
00:23:20.000 Yeah, I agree with you.
00:23:23.000 It's amazing that you're able to do it and get away with it.
00:23:25.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:23:27.000 I mean, see, we're both sounds like open-minded to – as long as we're kind of disrupting our comfort zone, I think, and being open-minded to that, you're then being open-minded to, like, the value of human error.
00:23:40.000 Yes, yes.
00:23:41.000 Oh, yeah, the value of human error.
00:23:43.000 That's a great way of putting it.
00:23:44.000 Because sometimes some of the – it's not exactly human error, but human error for sure, but it's often the thing you failed at or the ugly thing that happened that sticks in your head and makes a difference in your life,
00:24:00.000 makes you better.
00:24:01.000 Fuel for improvement.
00:24:02.000 Yeah.
00:24:03.000 Yeah, the feeling that you get when you fail at things is very valuable.
00:24:06.000 Because even though it sucks and it feels terrible, it does force you to sort of recommit and reconsider.
00:24:13.000 First of all, reconsider the consequences for failure, the feeling that you get when things don't go well, which is a terrible feeling.
00:24:20.000 And then it also makes you aware of the commitment that's necessary to not fail, to do well at things.
00:24:26.000 Yes, exactly.
00:24:27.000 It's enlightening.
00:24:28.000 Sure, yeah.
00:24:29.000 Because sometimes you think that's as far as – even if you feel like you've accrued all the facts, you've been able – sometimes you don't know that there's that – going back to Josh, there's this extra level of excellence that exists there.
00:24:44.000 There's still more room to go and you realize, oh, I could fill in those inches.
00:24:50.000 They can be filled in.
00:24:51.000 Yeah.
00:24:51.000 Well, something like what he did, chess and also jiu-jitsu, there's so many levels to it.
00:24:58.000 It's such a multifaceted discipline.
00:25:01.000 There's so many different possible moves with both activities, chess and jiu-jitsu.
00:25:07.000 And jiu-jitsu, there's the physical element as well, which is a big part of it.
00:25:11.000 Physical fitness and then also mental conditioning.
00:25:23.000 Right.
00:25:25.000 Right.
00:25:26.000 Right.
00:25:35.000 But there's actually a lot of mental stress and strength that's involved in discipline that you need to have in order to get your body into a position where it can perform like Josh's can on the mats.
00:25:51.000 Yeah.
00:25:51.000 It's very, very hard mentally to do that because you have to have all these battles where you want to quit, you want to give up early, you want to take a break, you want to rest, you don't want to go today, but you know you should.
00:26:04.000 You know, all those things must be overcome in order to achieve the level of excellence that he's achieved.
00:26:09.000 Yeah, and probably because you've done this yourself, so you know what that feels like when you said you don't want to get exhausted or get tired.
00:26:19.000 That probably takes a tremendous amount of focus because you get exhausted when you're nervous, right?
00:26:25.000 Because your heart beats faster, you breathe less air, blah, blah, blah.
00:26:28.000 That's when...
00:26:30.000 In surfing or something, that's when you can choke.
00:26:34.000 Sure, yeah, yeah.
00:26:36.000 That's when you run out of air because you're so nervous and you're scrambling around.
00:26:40.000 But it's the guys that are relaxed.
00:26:41.000 Like outside, you have Laird Hamilton.
00:26:44.000 He's so trained to be able to be under the water for I don't know how long he can do it.
00:26:49.000 Yeah, he's very, very accustomed to that kind of environment.
00:26:52.000 And it doesn't freak him out.
00:26:53.000 He goes, okay, there's a very good chance.
00:26:55.000 I'm going to get caught in the impact zone.
00:26:57.000 I'm going to be taken under.
00:27:00.000 And he doesn't freak out.
00:27:01.000 If he freaked out...
00:27:05.000 Yeah, I mean, that's his business.
00:27:06.000 His life and death, yeah.
00:27:07.000 His business is riding the biggest waves.
00:27:09.000 Yeah.
00:27:09.000 Yeah, you've got to be able to keep it together when that water wall comes crashing down at your head.
00:27:13.000 Yeah.
00:27:14.000 So I have to imagine it's a different thing, but in jujitsu or fighting that you've done, which I think you still do jujitsu, correct?
00:27:23.000 Mm-hmm.
00:27:24.000 Those things, those factors, they're just different environments.
00:27:28.000 You don't necessarily get nervous with jiu-jitsu that much, unless you're in a competition, but what you do get is exhausted.
00:27:34.000 It's very physically demanding.
00:27:35.000 Yeah, I bet.
00:27:36.000 You get very, very tired, and you really should be...
00:27:39.000 The more conditioned you are physically, like the more strength and conditioning routines you go through, the more your body is in shape, the more you can perform.
00:27:48.000 It's sort of like...
00:27:50.000 Racing, right, with a race car, but you can actually add horsepower to the race car through discipline, and you can add better tires, and you can add a more supple suspension through thought and activity.
00:28:04.000 Really?
00:28:04.000 Yeah, through yoga and different kinds of training.
00:28:08.000 It's like, you know, like you're involved in this thing that's a physical thing, but it's also a mental thing.
00:28:13.000 In racing.
00:28:14.000 No, no, no.
00:28:15.000 In what?
00:28:15.000 In jiu-jitsu.
00:28:16.000 In jiu-jitsu, yes.
00:28:17.000 Your body is the race car, right?
00:28:19.000 Yes, got it.
00:28:20.000 Sorry.
00:28:20.000 But through strength and conditioning, you could actually add tires.
00:28:23.000 You could actually add a bigger engine.
00:28:25.000 Yeah, I get it.
00:28:26.000 It could do more.
00:28:27.000 Yeah, that makes so much sense.
00:28:29.000 Yeah, and through repetitive drills, you actually can hone your neuromuscular system to the point where these grooves are cut, so you know exactly how to turn and how to move when you're moving, and you're doing jujitsu,
00:28:45.000 and everything sort of goes and flows automatically, and that requires extreme amounts of discipline.
00:28:51.000 Yeah, I bet.
00:28:52.000 I bet, yeah.
00:28:53.000 I'm just imagining it as you say it.
00:28:56.000 Because I don't know that much about jiu-jitsu.
00:28:58.000 I've gone to some fights with a friend of mine, Ari Emanuel.
00:29:02.000 Oh, yeah.
00:29:02.000 Okay.
00:29:03.000 Owns the UFC. The UFC guy, yeah.
00:29:05.000 So he's a really good friend, and my daughter's obsessed with...
00:29:09.000 She's obsessed with martial arts, jiu-jitsu.
00:29:12.000 She trains.
00:29:13.000 It's not what she does for a living, but she trains, and she loves the community of people.
00:29:18.000 She got injured, pretty seriously injured, and then she didn't want to be indulgent.
00:29:25.000 But I said, look, just I'll pay for you to start back early, and you can just do one-on-ones, because she didn't want to...
00:29:31.000 How'd she injure herself?
00:29:33.000 She got, like, choked off from the back.
00:29:37.000 I don't know how that...
00:29:38.000 Her neck?
00:29:40.000 Yeah, it created a stroke in her...
00:29:43.000 Whoa!
00:29:44.000 Yeah.
00:29:45.000 Multiple strokes in her brain, but it didn't...
00:29:56.000 Yeah, that's right.
00:29:59.000 Yes.
00:30:04.000 I will email you exactly what happened to her.
00:30:07.000 Please do.
00:30:07.000 But she got through it.
00:30:09.000 And went back to training again.
00:30:11.000 She goes back to training.
00:30:12.000 She is.
00:30:13.000 On my phone, I'll show it to you later.
00:30:15.000 You would think multiple strokes.
00:30:17.000 I'd be like, all right, that's a wrap.
00:30:18.000 We tried that.
00:30:19.000 She just loves it.
00:30:20.000 And she now, you know, people are a little, she does one-on-one, so they don't do that move.
00:30:26.000 Whatever that move would be.
00:30:28.000 Again, I'll get all the information.
00:30:29.000 And just for your own curiosity, I'll send it to you.
00:30:33.000 But she's back in it.
00:30:34.000 She loves it.
00:30:36.000 She's fully recovered?
00:30:38.000 She's fully recovered.
00:30:40.000 Did it have any effect on it?
00:30:40.000 She had a little nerve damage which – honestly, she had a little nerve damage that is now in her foot.
00:30:52.000 So periodically – Her foot will become completely black and blue.
00:30:58.000 But she'll get through it because she's really strong mentally.
00:31:06.000 She wasn't always that way, but my wife and I have sort of helped her with tough love, like, you can do it, you know, that kind of a stuff.
00:31:15.000 Sure.
00:31:16.000 um because she's she's uh she's a therapist she's a you know she's a psycho her name is sage grazer on the joe rogan show i mean everyone loves their kids right sure um and so that's so that's what she does she's an actual therapist with with you know like patients well i'm glad to hear that she recovered from that i've never heard of anybody having a stroke from that before that must be terrifying Yeah,
00:31:45.000 it was.
00:31:46.000 So back to these conversations that you've had over these 35 years, the ones that you've recorded, what have you done with them?
00:31:51.000 You're holding on to them?
00:31:52.000 I just keep them.
00:31:54.000 People get so mad at me because I tell everybody they should do a podcast.
00:31:58.000 How mad do people get at me?
00:32:01.000 Because I think so many people can.
00:32:03.000 But you definitely should.
00:32:05.000 Well, I should because I like doing this so much.
00:32:08.000 I just, I really, probably like you, I'm just super interested in people.
00:32:13.000 Yes.
00:32:14.000 Well, curious.
00:32:15.000 I'm really curious.
00:32:16.000 Part of the title of your book.
00:32:17.000 Yeah.
00:32:17.000 So that was, so Curious Mind, I realized that, geez, I've done 35 years of these.
00:32:24.000 At that time, I might have been 30. And My kids, my four kids don't really know what I'm doing.
00:32:31.000 You know, like I'm really spending a lot of time hustling to get Edward Teller to meet me.
00:32:36.000 It took a year and a half, two years.
00:32:38.000 Or Daryl Gates.
00:32:40.000 It was the craziest meeting of all time.
00:32:42.000 Daryl Gates.
00:32:43.000 The L.A. police chief.
00:32:44.000 Wow.
00:32:45.000 Wow.
00:32:45.000 Well, how was that the craziest one of all time?
00:32:47.000 Okay, I'll give it to you very quick.
00:32:48.000 I'll give it to you.
00:32:49.000 Okay, so I really thought this guy, he's one of the most well-known and most accomplished police chiefs in America.
00:32:59.000 I think there were three of them, and he was one of the three in a century.
00:33:05.000 And then Daryl Gates, I knew, was one of the fundamental curator of SWAT. Which was bringing paramilitary tactics to the LA Police Department.
00:33:18.000 He started out as a bright-eyed, strong-minded, clean-cut guy working for the police department.
00:33:25.000 And because he was sharp, he was the driver to the police chief, which was Chief Parker.
00:33:33.000 And then Chief Parker, L.A., there was a riot called the Watts Riot.
00:33:39.000 Not the L.A. riots, but the Watts Riot.
00:33:42.000 And the police went in, and they were not qualified to be in that situation.
00:33:47.000 And they kind of failed at – they felt they failed at it.
00:33:53.000 And Daryl Gates was like by the chief's side the entire time.
00:33:57.000 And he kind of vowed to himself, I'm not going to let that happen again.
00:34:02.000 And when he had the opportunity, because he became later police chief, not much later, became police chief of Los Angeles Police Department, he instituted SWAT and other, you know, paramilitary tactics and a mind discipline that was pretty,
00:34:19.000 you know, was like creating, you know, like martial law, people would argue.
00:34:25.000 And then we went – that kind of produced an environment that I think many think and I think myself helped – an environment that caused the LA riots because there was a lot of inequity, I think,
00:34:41.000 human inequity felt.
00:34:42.000 I know I'm getting this kind of political.
00:34:44.000 And you should tell me what your point of view, please.
00:34:47.000 On the LA riots?
00:34:48.000 Yeah.
00:34:48.000 Well, I moved here after that.
00:34:51.000 So I wasn't here while that was going down.
00:34:53.000 Right.
00:34:53.000 It was pretty intense.
00:34:55.000 Yeah, and the LA riots were a direct response to the Rodney King trial.
00:34:58.000 Yes, exactly.
00:34:59.000 And yeah, that was a crazy time.
00:35:01.000 I mean, the reaction, first of all, the reaction to the video, the video was horrible, watching Rodney King getting beaten like that.
00:35:09.000 Then you also heard that they had been on a high-speed pursuit.
00:35:14.000 And that there was more to that video.
00:35:17.000 Like that was the end of their altercation.
00:35:20.000 Apparently there's much more physical altercation before that video.
00:35:23.000 And maybe if someone saw the full thing, they would understand, well, okay, you're dealing with a wild person who's on PCP and these cops are doing everything they can to detain him.
00:35:30.000 But there's a distrust of the police in these communities in the first place because they had seen so much police brutality.
00:35:37.000 So that reaction, that riot, was not just because of that one situation.
00:35:43.000 It was an accumulation of different events and different interactions that people had had with abusive police officers.
00:35:49.000 It was a boiling pot.
00:35:50.000 Sure.
00:35:51.000 And then the whole Rampart unit, and there was so much corruption.
00:35:55.000 There was a lot of shit going down during that time.
00:35:58.000 So all that just...
00:36:00.000 All of it exploded.
00:36:01.000 Exploded.
00:36:02.000 And so the thing about this story, I got a meeting with Daryl Gates.
00:36:12.000 It was 10 months on the book.
00:36:14.000 10 months.
00:36:15.000 Wow.
00:36:19.000 Ironically, the day of my meeting with him was the day of the L.A. riots.
00:36:25.000 So I thought, and it already happened, 2,000 buildings on fire and everything, and my office gets a phone call from Daryl Gates' office confirming my meeting with him.
00:36:36.000 I'm thinking, oh my god!
00:36:37.000 Parker Center is under siege.
00:36:39.000 It's like the whole city is under siege.
00:36:42.000 He still wanted to keep the meeting, a meeting that was on the books for 10 months.
00:36:47.000 I thought, that's really crazy.
00:36:50.000 So I went down.
00:36:52.000 I had a guy drive me, and I went down, and they zigzagged through like a security...
00:36:58.000 Clearance thing where no other cars could get through that was really bizarre, you know, like we see this now often.
00:37:04.000 But they initiated this kind of maze that the car would go through.
00:37:09.000 I get to the front door.
00:37:13.000 A couple of police chiefs – police officers – Escort me in.
00:37:19.000 They put me in a room.
00:37:21.000 I joke, they didn't give me a cavity search, but just about everything but.
00:37:26.000 You know, took my clothes off, did everything.
00:37:28.000 Did they really?
00:37:28.000 Yeah, I did.
00:37:29.000 Why did they think that you, a guy who makes movies, that you would go rogue?
00:37:36.000 No, I know.
00:37:38.000 Like that, there's no evidence for sure.
00:37:41.000 That's crazy.
00:37:42.000 So, and then I got upstairs, and he is sitting so calmly.
00:37:46.000 He'd already ordered two tuna fish sandwiches.
00:37:48.000 Very, you know, very utilitarian, the sandwiches.
00:37:53.000 And we had the potato chips, and he said, you want an iced tea?
00:37:58.000 I couldn't even swallow.
00:38:00.000 I couldn't eat my food, because it was...
00:38:02.000 I was so shocked by the whole thing that he had so much, he was impervious to everything that was going down and the city council was on his TV and on the TV out there and, you know, guys, police officers were running and go, Chief, you're on TV right now!
00:38:18.000 And they're yelling and he goes, he says to me and to them, ah, this is nothing, they'll never get me out of here.
00:38:25.000 He had so much hubris.
00:38:27.000 It was amazing.
00:38:30.000 And I thought, and he's so calm about it.
00:38:32.000 And of course, they did get him out.
00:38:35.000 I think the next day, actually, because the city council was really – had very liberal guys on that board, people on that board, rather.
00:38:43.000 And it's a long, insane story.
00:38:46.000 But I had my meeting, my lunch meeting.
00:38:50.000 How long was the meeting?
00:38:51.000 Yeah.
00:38:51.000 Normal, like an hour.
00:38:53.000 It was a full hour.
00:38:54.000 So you just have lunch and just pick his brain and talk to him?
00:38:57.000 Yeah, just have lunch and ask questions and try to not be nervous or upset about what's going on in the environment and the TVs flashing archival footage that they'd shot days before or the day of and buildings on fire and the Korean shop,
00:39:14.000 market, somebody getting killed and all that stuff they were showing on television.
00:39:19.000 And he was just kind of matter of fact.
00:39:21.000 Like, this is just what's going down.
00:39:23.000 It'll just pass.
00:39:25.000 Wow.
00:39:26.000 I know.
00:39:26.000 It was crazy.
00:39:27.000 Well, it sounds like someone designed for the job.
00:39:29.000 So I couldn't record that one.
00:39:31.000 Yeah, obviously.
00:39:32.000 So anyway, I did think that my kids should know about all this stuff.
00:39:37.000 And actually, Charlie Rose, of all people, said, you should write a book.
00:39:41.000 And so it got on my mind and I mentioned it to a couple people and they said, oh yeah, you should write a book.
00:39:47.000 And so then I thought, okay, I'll write a book because I'm going to write notes on this anyway, these 35 years for my kids so that when I pass, they'll know this was a very big part of my life, beyond my career, but my life.
00:40:00.000 And so that's what the first book is about.
00:40:02.000 It synthesizes many of the important one-on-one conversations I had over the 30 years.
00:40:08.000 And then it connects the synthesis of those stories to narrative storytelling.
00:40:14.000 For example, in 1984, I met Sting, you know, the lead singer of The Police.
00:40:21.000 Because I thought, wow, he'd be fascinating to meet because he was like a school teacher in England, and now he's like a rock star?
00:40:27.000 I just thought that's kind of an interesting transition, like one of the biggest rock stars.
00:40:32.000 So I meet him, I get him to say yes.
00:40:34.000 It wasn't horribly hard.
00:40:37.000 And then a year after I met with him, He calls up in 1985 and he says, I'm having a barbecue at my house.
00:40:45.000 I think some interesting people will be here.
00:40:47.000 And that was right after the Amnesty tour.
00:40:49.000 And he took a woman named Veronica DeNegre in 1985, along with other superstars.
00:40:55.000 She wasn't a superstar.
00:40:56.000 She was held in a Chilean prison and tortured every single day of her life for 18 months.
00:41:03.000 And she went on the Amnesty tour only for a few days as evidence of somebody that can survive, you know, like she was hopeful, you know, still.
00:41:11.000 Like most people don't survive torture either from the torture itself or they – sadly, they commit suicide because there's just so much trauma, so much PTSD. So it's just – so she survives.
00:41:23.000 I meet her and I say, how do you survive?
00:41:26.000 And she tells me that while she's being, she creates a story that she's living in the entire time.
00:41:33.000 So there's reality, and then there's an alternate reality.
00:41:36.000 The alternate reality is the story that she creates, that she can live in, that alleviates some of the pain and the unpredictable pain of torture.
00:41:46.000 So now, that's pretty fascinating to me, and I really sat with those insights.
00:41:55.000 Now, many things happened after that that I was able to use that.
00:41:59.000 Like I became, when I was stuck on A Beautiful Mind because it wasn't cinematic, I thought, well, how can I make it cinematic?
00:42:08.000 And I thought, Veronica denigrate.
00:42:11.000 She lived in an alternate reality.
00:42:12.000 Well, that's exactly, involuntarily, what a schizophrenic has to do.
00:42:17.000 They live in alternate realities.
00:42:19.000 So in the movie A Beautiful Mind, to make it really compelling, We started in an alternate reality and made it a thriller and realized, oh my god, there's this epiphany and you realize that was not even reality, right?
00:42:34.000 And that's what blew people's minds and that's why the movie kind of worked because it drew you in so deeply into this character that it became like this subjective experience that every audience, every audience member could feel like the pain of that and the insanity of what that must feel like.
00:42:53.000 That was another brilliant movie.
00:42:54.000 Oh, thank you.
00:42:54.000 I love that movie.
00:42:55.000 When you say make it cinematic, what do you mean by that exactly?
00:43:02.000 Well, Ron and I realized that Ron Howard, who directed it, won an Oscar, and we realized that in order to make it really interesting, you have to see – you have to understand the mind of a schizophrenic.
00:43:19.000 So, therefore, you have to see somebody's mind.
00:43:21.000 Mm-hmm.
00:43:22.000 How do you see somebody's mind other than just graphically, you know, or, you know, like through graphic design?
00:43:29.000 And we thought that's not very interesting, you know, like the insertion of graphic design or voiceover narration, that makes it kind of a documentary.
00:43:36.000 So, but we thought, like, but if you could have an entire story Kind of with the military and paranoia and all that.
00:43:45.000 That's exactly one of the dimensions or realities of a schizophrenic's mind.
00:43:51.000 So you get to film it with other actors and other people.
00:43:55.000 And that's why I mean when I say cinematic.
00:43:59.000 So basically when you're seeing the 25 minutes of living in this alternate reality with Ed Harris and all that stuff, craziness...
00:44:09.000 It blows your mind as an audience and then you reflect later like, wow, that wasn't even real and wow, is that guy really going to come back?
00:44:17.000 You make it seamlessly cinematic with the rest of the narrative of him trying to cope with schizophrenia itself.
00:44:26.000 It becomes the merging of an alternate reality and actual reality.
00:44:32.000 And the actual reality is when he's – you watch him in that level of pain and just trying to survive, like cope with meds and the wife.
00:44:42.000 And then we found the way to make it – You know, kind of worked triumphantly because it was love that was the most powerful force.
00:44:52.000 It was that one person decided to stay with this other one person.
00:44:56.000 The wife, Alicia, stayed with John Nash.
00:44:59.000 That's so interesting that you pulled that from that woman's experience.
00:45:03.000 I did.
00:45:03.000 Surviving torture.
00:45:05.000 I credit her for that.
00:45:06.000 Wow.
00:45:13.000 So I found that all of these insights that we're referring to, the ones that you have when you're just getting off stage and you realize, wow, I could talk to my buddies or this new guy for a minute.
00:45:24.000 Those random moments that you get to talk to somebody can often produce a story or an insight, an emotional insight that you can transport to something else.
00:45:37.000 I found that all these conversations that I was having...
00:45:41.000 We're like, kind of like I see these stars behind you.
00:45:44.000 They were like stars or a constellation of dots, you know, and that you just have faith that they somehow inform you and make you better and smarter and that they connect someday.
00:45:56.000 Well, it's so insightful that you look at these conversations that way.
00:45:59.000 Because, I mean, I really have felt that effect on me personally over the years doing this.
00:46:04.000 But the fact that you've like sought it out just as an education, just as something that expands you.
00:46:10.000 Because we really are a combination or an accumulation of all of our experiences.
00:46:16.000 And the more experiences you can have, even if it doesn't feel tangible in that moment, it broadens your perspective.
00:46:22.000 It broadens who you are.
00:46:24.000 Well, I think for you as well, because you still do stand-up.
00:46:28.000 We were talking about that some of the works in my office saw you the other night, and you remembered who she was.
00:46:33.000 She goes, he won't remember me.
00:46:35.000 And you did.
00:46:36.000 She used to be on Kill Tony.
00:46:38.000 Kill Tony is a great podcast that my friend Brian Redman and Tony Hinchcliffe do.
00:46:44.000 And this podcast involves comedians going up and doing one minute of material in front of these professional comics.
00:46:54.000 And the professional comics either say, hey, that was great, or they shit all over it, or everybody makes fun, there's a band, there's a bunch of chaos, and it's all done in front of a live crowd.
00:47:03.000 And Vanessa was on it for quite a while.
00:47:05.000 Wow.
00:47:06.000 Oh, that's good.
00:47:07.000 Yeah.
00:47:07.000 Yeah.
00:47:07.000 She tries hard.
00:47:08.000 I know that.
00:47:09.000 It's a hard business.
00:47:10.000 But as I was saying, when I watch you do stand-up, because I made a point to catch up on it, you're really, really good.
00:47:24.000 I'm watching you tell comedic stories.
00:47:27.000 You make them comedic.
00:47:30.000 And I think I can tell, and you tell me if I'm wrong, that sometimes you don't know all the answers to that story.
00:47:36.000 And I see that you're grabbing things that lived in – that you – experiences or insights that lived in the environment that you have or had.
00:47:47.000 Because I watched – A couple of scenes very closely, and I know you didn't have it figured out, and you got the bigger laugh from the thing that you pulled from some place, I thought.
00:48:01.000 Or you're just a really good actor.
00:48:04.000 There's a little bit of recreating that when you're doing that in stand-up, but...
00:48:09.000 Oftentimes, it's a combination of all those things.
00:48:12.000 It's a combination of actually improvising in the moment and figuring it out in the moment and then figuring it out in the moment and recreating it again and recreating it again the same way you did before.
00:48:23.000 But being in the moment and being able to bring it into someone's attention...
00:48:28.000 As if you're recreating it or give them the feeling that it's being recreated so that they can experience it.
00:48:39.000 That's what stand-up is.
00:48:40.000 There's revelations that you repeat.
00:48:43.000 And then I'm like, wait!
00:48:46.000 What the fuck is that about?
00:48:47.000 But you have to be able to recreate that over and over and over again.
00:48:51.000 Like a beginner's mind.
00:48:53.000 Like it's brand new for you.
00:48:55.000 Right, right, right.
00:48:56.000 You're thinking for the people.
00:48:59.000 Of course, yes.
00:49:00.000 Say if you go to see a great comic like Bill Burr, right?
00:49:02.000 And you're sitting in the audience and Bill's on stage.
00:49:04.000 You're allowing him to think for you in a way.
00:49:08.000 Like he's taking you on a journey.
00:49:11.000 So it has to be...
00:49:12.000 He's pointing left and right, and now we're going straight.
00:49:14.000 And you're just going along with it.
00:49:16.000 Like, this is the ride.
00:49:17.000 I'm letting him take over the reins of my attention and my mind.
00:49:22.000 Yeah.
00:49:22.000 Yeah, so there's a craft to that.
00:49:24.000 Yeah, you're the passenger.
00:49:25.000 He's the driver in the Formula One car.
00:49:27.000 Yes, yes.
00:49:28.000 And so any great comic, whether it's Chris Rock or Dave Chappelle or whoever it is, when they're on stage and they're killing, you are allowing them to think for you.
00:49:38.000 Oh, that's interesting.
00:49:39.000 I love it.
00:49:40.000 So they're trying to take you on an organic journey of understanding whatever the fuck they're talking about and explaining it to you in a way that's going to resonate.
00:49:49.000 Like, this is how you would notice it.
00:49:51.000 And I'm like, hold up.
00:49:53.000 Who the fuck brought the baby?
00:49:55.000 And then that kind of stuff is like in that moment, it has to feel like you're really realizing that somebody brought a fucking baby to a gun range or whatever it is, whatever you're joking around about.
00:50:06.000 That's funny.
00:50:06.000 Right.
00:50:07.000 That's interesting.
00:50:08.000 Yeah.
00:50:09.000 So it is – these conversations are really kind of valuable on so many levels.
00:50:15.000 Yeah.
00:50:16.000 They're not like – like sometimes people will go – People sometimes just want to get to the end.
00:50:23.000 Like, how do I make the money?
00:50:26.000 But the journey is really valuable.
00:50:30.000 Sure.
00:50:31.000 There's a lot of people that get into podcasts specifically because of that.
00:50:35.000 They think there's money in podcasts.
00:50:36.000 Like, how do you make money in podcasts?
00:50:39.000 I've had that conversation.
00:50:40.000 I'm like, well, make a good podcast that people like.
00:50:42.000 Yeah.
00:50:43.000 It's kind of simple.
00:50:44.000 And the best way to do that is to actually enjoy doing podcasts.
00:50:48.000 Right.
00:50:48.000 That's really the best way.
00:50:49.000 And then people are like, oh, that sounds like a lot of work.
00:50:52.000 It does.
00:50:53.000 You also have to do it over a long enough period of time where people, you know, like one person tells another person.
00:50:59.000 One thing that I've never done with this podcast, I've never advertised it in the sense that I never did I did anything to make it grow.
00:51:06.000 I just did it.
00:51:07.000 I just kept doing it.
00:51:08.000 I never did anything.
00:51:09.000 I never took out ads.
00:51:10.000 I never went on shows to promote it.
00:51:13.000 I never did anything to promote it.
00:51:14.000 I just did it.
00:51:15.000 And I did that on purpose.
00:51:17.000 Because I wanted to never have any thought at all about growing it.
00:51:22.000 I only wanted to think about doing the best that I can.
00:51:25.000 Right.
00:51:26.000 And then it just became what it is.
00:51:27.000 Not make it a commercial experience.
00:51:29.000 It became that.
00:51:31.000 It became that.
00:51:31.000 But even while it's become that, I haven't changed.
00:51:35.000 I've changed how I do it because I got better at it and because I became a different person as I've grown up.
00:51:40.000 I've gone through my own personal evolution, but I don't change my thought on it, which is just do it.
00:51:47.000 Just enjoy it and do it and do the best I can and try, whoever I'm talking to, try to connect with them.
00:51:52.000 And some people like you, I'm connecting with really easily.
00:51:55.000 It's fine.
00:51:55.000 It's great.
00:51:56.000 I enjoy this conversation.
00:51:57.000 It's great.
00:51:58.000 It's easy.
00:51:58.000 But then some people, it's like a little bit of pulling teeth.
00:52:01.000 Some people, it's harder.
00:52:02.000 You're doing heavy lifting.
00:52:03.000 Yes, for sure.
00:52:04.000 But it's still enjoyable, all of it.
00:52:06.000 It's still like when it's heavy lifting, it's like, oh, okay, how do I solve this problem?
00:52:09.000 Yeah, I totally know what you're talking about.
00:52:12.000 I had this female rapper at my house, like really a big – and I'm good at like creating conversation.
00:52:21.000 It was almost impossible.
00:52:23.000 Yeah.
00:52:24.000 At least you recorded that one.
00:52:25.000 I was freaking out.
00:52:26.000 Oh my god.
00:52:27.000 I'd like to hear that one.
00:52:28.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:52:30.000 How long did it last?
00:52:32.000 Oh, finally?
00:52:32.000 You hit something?
00:52:33.000 No, finally I hit something.
00:52:39.000 Finally...
00:52:39.000 Two things.
00:52:40.000 One thing was she liked to talk about This is going to reveal who it is.
00:52:47.000 And I ended up liking her so much.
00:52:48.000 She liked talking about stripping and prostitution.
00:52:52.000 Oh, okay.
00:52:52.000 I know who that is.
00:52:53.000 And pimps.
00:52:54.000 And she's got a master's class on this.
00:52:58.000 Oh, sure.
00:52:58.000 She's a genius.
00:52:59.000 Okay.
00:52:59.000 So that she could do, but it took a long time to get there.
00:53:04.000 Like really a lot of, very polite to me, but kind of looking around a lot.
00:53:10.000 Uncomfortable with you.
00:53:13.000 Well, we weren't relating to each other.
00:53:15.000 She's very street.
00:53:16.000 And then when she hit it, yes.
00:53:18.000 I thought it was really funny in how she diagnosed the street, that thing.
00:53:23.000 Wow, she's like a scientist in this area.
00:53:25.000 Oh, yeah.
00:53:26.000 Well, a lot of hustlers are.
00:53:27.000 A lot of people that are hustling.
00:53:30.000 So she was really good.
00:53:31.000 And then she and her husband decided they're really interested in some art that I had on the wall.
00:53:37.000 And that produced more interest and more art.
00:53:39.000 And then they wanted to know, like, why is this worth so much money?
00:53:42.000 How's pricing work?
00:53:44.000 I say, well, dealers.
00:53:46.000 You go, what do you mean by dealers?
00:53:47.000 I go, what's a dealer?
00:53:48.000 So I explained what dealers were, like Larry Gagosian, kind of sets the market.
00:53:53.000 What does that mean?
00:53:54.000 And then they were fairly interested in that.
00:53:58.000 Wow.
00:53:59.000 So then it got to be kind of longer, and then I had to go someplace.
00:54:04.000 But it worked out.
00:54:05.000 But it worked out really well.
00:54:06.000 And so, to your point, it was really, really hard to figure out this puzzle.
00:54:12.000 And then I accidented upon a way to crack that puzzle, and that was really gratifying.
00:54:20.000 And it was good enough that I'm talking about it on your show, so it was memorable, for sure.
00:54:26.000 So it elevated your people skills.
00:54:28.000 Yeah, it did.
00:54:29.000 You added another facet to your game.
00:54:31.000 I did.
00:54:31.000 Yes, I did.
00:54:33.000 And you learned about pimps and hoes.
00:54:35.000 I did.
00:54:36.000 A little bit.
00:54:37.000 And pricing.
00:54:37.000 I learned pricing on that field, you know?
00:54:40.000 In that field.
00:54:41.000 In that field.
00:54:42.000 It is a field.
00:54:43.000 It's just a suppressed field.
00:54:44.000 She was really mad about the idea of a pimp.
00:54:47.000 Like, why would anyone give a pimp money?
00:54:50.000 I understand that.
00:54:50.000 I don't get it.
00:54:51.000 I guess protection, right?
00:54:56.000 I guess she wasn't acknowledging that as protection.
00:54:59.000 But she's pretty sharp.
00:55:01.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:55:02.000 So there's that.
00:55:05.000 And so the other book I wrote, because this kind of ties in.
00:55:09.000 This is kind of interesting, because you asked, actually.
00:55:13.000 So what happened is In my house, there was a new person that started working on our – like our staff at home kind of thing.
00:55:24.000 And like working on the house staff kind of thing.
00:55:28.000 I don't have like – I'm not like butlers.
00:55:30.000 I'm not going to – I'm not – What do you mean by house staff?
00:55:32.000 Just like we have people that are housekeepers that either cook or they clean or they – but it's a team.
00:55:41.000 I have a team.
00:55:42.000 Okay.
00:55:43.000 There's a team.
00:55:45.000 But I don't want to mislead you and make you think like I'm living in – it's not insane.
00:55:50.000 This is what I'm picturing.
00:55:51.000 I'm picturing a dude with a napkin hanging.
00:55:54.000 No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:55:55.000 Mr. Grazer.
00:55:56.000 That's what I don't know.
00:55:57.000 Please don't.
00:55:58.000 Yeah, it's not that.
00:56:00.000 I'm glad that you pointed that out.
00:56:01.000 And that he gives you your top hat.
00:56:03.000 No, no, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:56:05.000 Top hat and gets my tux ready every night.
00:56:08.000 You get into the Rolls Royce and they throw rose petals at your feet.
00:56:11.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:56:12.000 Thirst and howl.
00:56:13.000 Yeah, no, it's not that.
00:56:15.000 It's just like an organized place.
00:56:17.000 I get it.
00:56:17.000 You're balling.
00:56:18.000 It's all good.
00:56:19.000 Something.
00:56:20.000 And so apparently she'd worked there.
00:56:25.000 That's funny.
00:56:27.000 So apparently she worked at our house for like almost three months.
00:56:33.000 And my wife, she says to my wife, I really like Brian a lot.
00:56:38.000 And my wife said, well, have you talked to him much?
00:56:40.000 She said, well, I haven't talked to him very much, but every time he speaks to me, He always looks me directly in my eyes and it makes me feel like a human being.
00:56:51.000 And I thought of the simplicity of that.
00:56:54.000 I thought, wow!
00:56:56.000 Just by looking at somebody directly in the eyes, not looking behind them or just looking at them, it immediately is an equalizer.
00:57:06.000 It says we're both equal.
00:57:07.000 We're both species on this planet, the same species on this planet.
00:57:11.000 And it makes me feel like a human being.
00:57:14.000 It gives me dignity.
00:57:16.000 And then I thought, that's pretty powerful.
00:57:19.000 I mean, this is only like two years ago.
00:57:21.000 And then I retrofitted back all of those conversations I was alluding to, like 35 years of every week a curiosity conversation.
00:57:30.000 And I thought, well, the only reason these conversations were good is I must have been really looking at these people in the eyes and we were really dialed in.
00:57:40.000 Otherwise, they wouldn't share these private things or these insights.
00:57:44.000 They wouldn't share their heart with me.
00:57:47.000 If they didn't feel I was present with them.
00:57:51.000 And so that became kind of the thesis of this book and that's why it's just called Face to Face the Art of Human Connection.
00:57:59.000 Because then I set all of this I thought to myself, we're living right now in the loneliest time in our generation.
00:58:07.000 It's like an epidemic of loneliness.
00:58:10.000 Is it?
00:58:11.000 It is, actually.
00:58:13.000 All statistics point, millennials will admit that One quarter of them will admit that they're incredibly lonely, like where they can't almost cope with their loneliness.
00:58:25.000 Do you think that's digital lives?
00:58:27.000 I think it's digital lives for sure, because they're not even used to talking now, because everything is a text.
00:58:33.000 And you know with kids, and I have a 16-year-old kid who just turned 16, they text each other when they're in the same room.
00:58:40.000 They're sitting there watching Netflix, and they're texting each other like, who are you texting?
00:58:44.000 Johnny.
00:58:45.000 Johnny's right there.
00:58:47.000 He's right on the couch.
00:58:48.000 Just talk to him.
00:58:49.000 He's right there.
00:58:50.000 Yeah.
00:58:51.000 That's weird.
00:58:52.000 It's weird.
00:58:52.000 And this dating, that's why these kids, they just ghost girls or ghost guys, just vaporize because they don't have feelings.
00:59:01.000 They don't...
00:59:02.000 When you don't talk to people because you're really out there.
00:59:06.000 You're feeling people all the time.
00:59:10.000 When you feel people, you have empathy.
00:59:12.000 You feel their feelings, right?
00:59:15.000 Yeah, for sure.
00:59:16.000 And when you feel people's feelings, you try not to hurt their feelings.
00:59:20.000 Yeah, when you're actually in the presence of them instead of digitally.
00:59:25.000 And when you feel people's feelings and you meet them and demystify whatever you think you heard about them, you tend to like them more for the most part and you tend to love as opposed to have war.
00:59:38.000 So it really is important in our lives from multiple levels, like just looking at people and going out of your way to connect.
00:59:47.000 Yeah.
00:59:48.000 No, I agree.
00:59:49.000 So that's what this book's about, basically.
00:59:51.000 And doing that reaffirms it in yourself.
00:59:53.000 It does.
00:59:55.000 Exactly.
00:59:55.000 It reaffirms it in myself.
00:59:58.000 Because, right, it's like a tool.
00:59:59.000 You're right.
01:00:00.000 Exactly.
01:00:01.000 You get it.
01:00:02.000 Beyond get it.
01:00:03.000 But it's like, I learn off of it every day because I'm not perfect, but I make sure that when I get into elevators, I... I practice what I preach.
01:00:13.000 I put my phone away.
01:00:15.000 I don't go in the elevator and just look at my phone.
01:00:17.000 I look at people.
01:00:18.000 I'm just cool.
01:00:20.000 I can relax, you know, chill.
01:00:22.000 Yeah.
01:00:24.000 Often, you make people feel better if you're actually looking at them.
01:00:28.000 For sure.
01:00:29.000 Yeah, for sure.
01:00:30.000 The last week, I put a one-hour limit on my phone use.
01:00:34.000 Oh, wow.
01:00:35.000 Yeah, I put a one-hour limit on whether it's apps per day.
01:00:39.000 Per day, yeah.
01:00:39.000 Yeah, apps, whatever I'm using.
01:00:42.000 That's a good idea.
01:00:44.000 And I thought about looking at the phone aimlessly.
01:00:46.000 Yeah.
01:00:46.000 And not.
01:00:47.000 You know, I've got this thing now that I'm doing where I just grab my phone, and I go, no, no, no, and then I put it away.
01:00:53.000 Because people are really, really addicted to phones.
01:00:57.000 They're really addicted.
01:00:58.000 And you don't realize until you look at that screen time, that reading that you get at the end of the day, and you're like, five hours?
01:01:05.000 I'm sure I'm in that, maybe four hours.
01:01:08.000 A lot of us are.
01:01:37.000 It's weird.
01:01:38.000 Yeah, and it contributes to loneliness and disconnection and...
01:01:42.000 Unhappiness.
01:01:43.000 Unhappiness.
01:01:44.000 Yeah.
01:01:45.000 It does.
01:01:46.000 And I don't know what the solution is other than abstinence.
01:01:49.000 Yeah.
01:01:50.000 Other than putting them away.
01:01:52.000 Well, at some point, I think we're going...
01:01:55.000 I have this feeling that the privileged people...
01:01:59.000 I don't want to say it that way.
01:02:01.000 I think it could be the most scarce and valued commodity is being present with human beings.
01:02:07.000 Yes.
01:02:08.000 And it's like, you know, the cool kids, they do...
01:02:12.000 They're listening to vinyls, right?
01:02:15.000 Well, I think the people that are...
01:02:19.000 Good at it are rare.
01:02:21.000 The people that, like, what you've done, you've practiced this idea of sitting down and talking to people on a regular basis, looking them in the eye and having meaningful conversations.
01:02:32.000 You've made a choice.
01:02:34.000 You've made a concerted effort to do that, and that's not common.
01:02:38.000 And most people don't have good people skills.
01:02:42.000 I mean, I've learned how to not interrupt people.
01:02:45.000 I've learned how to not talk so much.
01:02:47.000 I've learned how to listen.
01:02:49.000 I've learned how to interact.
01:02:50.000 And I've also learned when people are not good at it.
01:02:53.000 You know, some people, you're talking to them and they're not even listening to you.
01:02:56.000 They're just waiting for their turn to talk.
01:02:58.000 Yes.
01:02:58.000 I have a couple of guys I know that do that.
01:03:01.000 It's frustrating.
01:03:02.000 It is frustrating.
01:03:02.000 Yeah.
01:03:03.000 Well, because you kind of go, what's the point of this?
01:03:06.000 Yeah, we're not connected.
01:03:07.000 We're not connected.
01:03:08.000 Like we both like.
01:03:09.000 Or I'm sure you've made people that will ask you three questions basically at the same time.
01:03:15.000 Like, bam, bam, bam.
01:03:16.000 And you're trying to answer the first question.
01:03:18.000 Then you realize, now we're sharp enough to know that they don't really want to know the answer.
01:03:23.000 Yeah, they might be just on Adderall.
01:03:24.000 Just firing questions at you.
01:03:26.000 Yeah.
01:03:27.000 What about this?
01:03:28.000 The sky's blue.
01:03:28.000 How do I know it's blue for you?
01:03:30.000 What is blue?
01:03:32.000 I just had lunch with one of my funniest close friends.
01:03:35.000 His name is Jimmy Iovine.
01:03:37.000 And he's a music producer.
01:03:39.000 And he and Dre created this Beats.
01:03:41.000 And we've known each other, like, I guess 30 years.
01:03:44.000 We were at this restaurant called...
01:03:46.000 I won't even say it.
01:03:47.000 It's a Greek restaurant, Beverly Hills.
01:03:49.000 And our waiter, Jimmy goes, that dude's on Adderall.
01:03:52.000 Because he was like...
01:03:54.000 I mean, like, he just...
01:03:56.000 I said, it's too much Tony Robbins for me.
01:03:59.000 He said, no, it's Adderall.
01:04:02.000 But he was just like, you couldn't finish a sentence.
01:04:05.000 Or we said, okay, we think we know what we want.
01:04:08.000 We're going to have the Branzino.
01:04:10.000 He rattled off like 10 dishes.
01:04:12.000 We go, we realized we couldn't stop him.
01:04:15.000 We knew what we – we said what we wanted.
01:04:17.000 He didn't want to hear it.
01:04:19.000 He wanted to do the other nine.
01:04:20.000 Yeah.
01:04:21.000 So – That's a common thing today.
01:04:23.000 Incredibly common.
01:04:24.000 There's a lot of people on speed.
01:04:26.000 A lot.
01:04:27.000 And the doctors are just prescribing it.
01:04:28.000 Oh, really?
01:04:29.000 Actually on speed?
01:04:30.000 That's what Adderall is.
01:04:31.000 Yeah, so you think people are really...
01:04:32.000 That's the thing I don't know that much about that.
01:04:35.000 It's legal speed.
01:04:37.000 Adderall is legal speed prescribed by a doctor.
01:04:40.000 If you went to a doctor right now, if you went to the right doctor and said, I just feel listless, I'm having a hard time connecting, I'm having a hard time getting motivated...
01:04:49.000 Oh, I got the thing for you, Brian.
01:04:52.000 Wow.
01:04:52.000 Here you go.
01:04:53.000 And then you'd be like, I am organized!
01:04:56.000 And you know what?
01:04:57.000 It's about me.
01:04:58.000 It's about me.
01:04:59.000 Because Brian's out here fucking kicking ass.
01:05:02.000 There's a lot of other people that are slacking.
01:05:04.000 They're all losers.
01:05:05.000 This guy's a loser.
01:05:07.000 That guy's a loser.
01:05:08.000 That is really hilarious.
01:05:10.000 Isn't that the Adderall mindset?
01:05:11.000 That is the Adderall mindset.
01:05:13.000 Adderall Mindsets, it's basically a low-level meth mindset.
01:05:16.000 It's speed.
01:05:17.000 It's amphetamines.
01:05:18.000 Super jacked up.
01:05:18.000 Like not listening, just talking.
01:05:21.000 It's almost like assaultive, isn't it?
01:05:23.000 Yeah.
01:05:23.000 Well, you can get productive.
01:05:24.000 You can get a lot done with that.
01:05:25.000 But it's just, there's a lack of connection.
01:05:29.000 Yeah, there is.
01:05:29.000 A severe lack of empathy.
01:05:31.000 Sorry.
01:05:32.000 It's not really real.
01:05:34.000 No.
01:05:34.000 Yeah, it's a weird sort of vibe.
01:05:36.000 I'm going to look for it, and I'm going to prospect for it.
01:05:38.000 Oh, there's a lot out there.
01:05:39.000 You'll find it.
01:05:40.000 It's mining for gold.
01:05:41.000 I didn't realize there's gold in the hills.
01:05:44.000 That's funny.
01:05:45.000 You go prospecting for people that have Adderall.
01:05:48.000 You better have a large cargo to put it in a large train box.
01:05:53.000 I've got to check it out.
01:05:54.000 It's a lot.
01:05:55.000 Because I thought it was funny when he said it, and I thought...
01:05:57.000 And he goes, no, no, this is really true.
01:05:59.000 Like what you would say to me right now?
01:06:01.000 He goes, no, no, this guy, he's actually on it.
01:06:03.000 And I go, really?
01:06:05.000 And he says, yeah.
01:06:07.000 How does a guy become that guy?
01:06:09.000 He literally was on the table.
01:06:11.000 A lot of writers, a lot of journalists, a lot of people that have deadlines and they have to push and they run out of energy.
01:06:18.000 A lot of them are on Adderall.
01:06:19.000 Extremely, extremely common.
01:06:21.000 Extremely common with very productive people, very ambitious people, business people, people that do a lot of meetings, people that work 12 hours a day, 13 hours a day.
01:06:29.000 It gives you the energy to do that.
01:06:31.000 And then they take Ambien to crash.
01:06:33.000 And there's a double whammy going on.
01:06:35.000 We know that's not good.
01:06:36.000 No, no, no, no, no.
01:06:39.000 There's millions and millions of people that are on that stuff.
01:06:44.000 Do they ever...
01:06:45.000 If you ever ask somebody on the show, like...
01:06:48.000 Well, I don't know.
01:06:50.000 Does anyone ever tell you they're on it?
01:06:51.000 Yes.
01:06:52.000 Oh, really?
01:06:53.000 Yeah, yeah.
01:06:53.000 Like at comedy clubs or on the show?
01:06:56.000 No, I've had people tell me on the show.
01:06:57.000 They take Adderall.
01:06:59.000 I've had people in real life tell me they've taken Adderall.
01:07:03.000 I mean, I've had people justify it.
01:07:05.000 I've had people talk about it with a little bit of shame that they would like to not be on it, but they're on it because it helps them be productive and they've got to do what they've got to do.
01:07:12.000 But the real revelation was I have a friend who's a journalist and he was talking to me about how many journalists are on it.
01:07:19.000 He's not on it.
01:07:20.000 I go, how many?
01:07:21.000 He goes, fucking all of them.
01:07:23.000 And I'm like, are you serious?
01:07:24.000 He goes, dude, it would blow your mind.
01:07:27.000 It would blow your mind how many of them.
01:07:29.000 Wow.
01:07:29.000 Because it's so effective.
01:07:30.000 See, we wouldn't...
01:07:31.000 I wouldn't really know.
01:07:33.000 No, I've never messed with it.
01:07:34.000 But if you do...
01:07:34.000 Jamie, you've tried it, right?
01:07:36.000 Yeah.
01:07:36.000 How is it?
01:07:37.000 I did not like it.
01:07:37.000 I had to call off the next day at work because I... Thought I could go to sleep.
01:07:41.000 I took a little bit just to do some artwork because I knew I was going to have to...
01:07:44.000 You have an unusual constitution.
01:07:46.000 Maybe, I guess, yeah.
01:07:48.000 Jamie, edible marijuana does not affect him.
01:07:50.000 Literally, he could take a thousand milligrams and play video games.
01:07:53.000 Geez!
01:07:54.000 Or more.
01:07:56.000 A thousand milligrams put most people under the couch for life.
01:07:59.000 They'll be like, no, I'm hiding.
01:08:02.000 Jamie can handle it.
01:08:03.000 I cannot do that.
01:08:04.000 I can't do it.
01:08:06.000 You know, there was a minute I was single, and a girl said to me, let's have one of these lollipops.
01:08:13.000 She pulled them out of her refrigerator.
01:08:15.000 Oh, boy.
01:08:15.000 So I took a little lick of a lollipop, whatever, and it was interesting.
01:08:21.000 It wasn't terrible.
01:08:24.000 The next weekend, I see the girl again.
01:08:26.000 I'm at my house and she – I hope I'm not going to – let me see if I'm okay here.
01:08:31.000 But she says, I got more lollipops.
01:08:35.000 And I thought, well, that was kind of fun.
01:08:38.000 I take this – I lick on this lollipop.
01:08:41.000 Oh, my God.
01:08:42.000 It so freaked me out.
01:08:45.000 I called my doctor, Dr. Dennis Evangelatos.
01:08:49.000 That's his name.
01:08:50.000 I'm saying that's okay.
01:08:51.000 He's good.
01:08:52.000 And he, I said, I need you to come over right now and sleep over.
01:08:57.000 He goes, he slept.
01:09:00.000 He did.
01:09:00.000 He slept in my bedroom at the foot of my bed.
01:09:03.000 That's a good doctor.
01:09:05.000 He was so good.
01:09:06.000 I said, he's right in Westwood, and I was in Malibu, and I said, I'm serious.
01:09:12.000 He goes, look, this is what will happen.
01:09:14.000 I can tell you exactly what happens.
01:09:16.000 It goes up, and it's going to come down, everything.
01:09:18.000 I go, I don't think I can survive it.
01:09:21.000 I am too scared.
01:09:23.000 So he said he'll sleep over, and he slept over the whole night.
01:09:26.000 Wow.
01:09:26.000 Yeah.
01:09:26.000 Yeah, that's the problem with those lollipops and candies and stuff like that.
01:09:31.000 You've never done it, have you?
01:09:33.000 What?
01:09:33.000 Oh, I don't know.
01:09:34.000 All the time, man.
01:09:36.000 Yeah.
01:09:37.000 Constantly.
01:09:37.000 I don't think so.
01:09:38.000 Yes, honestly.
01:09:40.000 Really?
01:09:41.000 Yeah.
01:09:41.000 I smoke a lot of pot.
01:09:43.000 I eat a lot of pot.
01:09:44.000 Swear?
01:09:45.000 Oh, yeah.
01:09:46.000 I got a box of it right here.
01:09:47.000 But you seem so...
01:09:48.000 Surrounded by it.
01:09:49.000 Yeah, you're surrounded by it.
01:09:51.000 Oh, so you can actually...
01:09:52.000 This is weed.
01:09:54.000 That's not weed!
01:09:55.000 You want to smoke it and see if you go to Pluto?
01:09:58.000 That's Mike Tyson's weed.
01:09:59.000 I don't believe you.
01:09:59.000 That fat one right there, that's weed.
01:10:01.000 Wait a second.
01:10:01.000 That's weed right there.
01:10:02.000 Okay.
01:10:03.000 You guys tell me the truth.
01:10:05.000 Let me see that.
01:10:07.000 Well, that looks real.
01:10:07.000 Our big box just got taken away.
01:10:09.000 It's getting filled right now.
01:10:10.000 We could open that for you.
01:10:11.000 Wow, this is...
01:10:12.000 That's real.
01:10:13.000 Jeez.
01:10:13.000 Eat one of these.
01:10:14.000 That'll put you on the moon.
01:10:15.000 I can't do anything.
01:10:17.000 I'll need my doctor.
01:10:19.000 That's really...
01:10:20.000 Wow.
01:10:20.000 I like the smell of pot and stuff.
01:10:23.000 Yeah, it smells good.
01:10:24.000 But I know it's not good for me.
01:10:26.000 It's not my thing.
01:10:27.000 Margarita tonight.
01:10:28.000 Maybe tonight, actually.
01:10:30.000 A margarita?
01:10:30.000 Yeah, I like margarita.
01:10:31.000 I do, too.
01:10:32.000 You got all your stuff here.
01:10:33.000 Be careful with those.
01:10:34.000 All your snacks.
01:10:34.000 No, I'm not going to touch it.
01:10:36.000 Okay, this is a real issue.
01:10:39.000 Can you do it during the day?
01:10:41.000 If you want to die.
01:10:42.000 Yeah, of course.
01:10:43.000 I mean, can you do it during the day and be functional, highly functional?
01:10:47.000 Yes, I can.
01:10:48.000 Wow.
01:10:49.000 I really admire you.
01:10:52.000 It works with me.
01:10:55.000 Because you're so high-functioning.
01:10:57.000 Yeah, but it just makes me more sensitive.
01:11:00.000 That's what marijuana does to me.
01:11:02.000 But the paranoia, I kind of just, I embrace it.
01:11:05.000 You know, the paranoia that comes with being really, really high.
01:11:07.000 Wow.
01:11:08.000 I just meditate, calm down, embrace it.
01:11:10.000 And enjoy it.
01:11:11.000 Ride the wave.
01:11:11.000 Yeah.
01:11:12.000 Yeah, a lot of the freaking out comes from freaking out.
01:11:15.000 Yes, that's with me.
01:11:17.000 You're like, you're freaking out, and you're like, oh my god, I'm freaking out.
01:11:20.000 Yes, I'm watching myself.
01:11:22.000 I'm going, oh, I'm out of control.
01:11:24.000 I think I'll freak out.
01:11:26.000 And then that's what happens.
01:11:27.000 It sounds crazy, but it makes me a nicer person.
01:11:29.000 Wow.
01:11:30.000 Yeah, it makes me nicer.
01:11:31.000 I want to be better.
01:11:32.000 I want to be a better person.
01:11:33.000 It highlights all the flaws that I find in my own personality, in my own life, whatever things I've done that I'm not proud of or that I think are mistakes.
01:11:44.000 It highlights them, and it makes me think more diligently.
01:11:48.000 Soften it a little bit.
01:11:49.000 Yeah, be a better person.
01:11:50.000 Jeez, that's good.
01:11:51.000 It enhances my sense of community, makes you more sensitive, makes food taste better.
01:11:56.000 I'm getting a contact high right now.
01:11:57.000 Well, this is Sober October for me, so I'm not doing anything.
01:12:00.000 Can you do that?
01:12:01.000 I guess you can.
01:12:01.000 Yeah, yeah.
01:12:02.000 I don't have an addiction, but me and my buddies...
01:12:05.000 It's choice.
01:12:05.000 You dig it.
01:12:05.000 It's fun.
01:12:06.000 And you and your buddies are cool with it.
01:12:08.000 Yeah, we do Sober October, so the entire month of October every year.
01:12:12.000 We do something, like last year we did a fitness challenge.
01:12:16.000 What's that thing?
01:12:16.000 It's like Ramadan.
01:12:17.000 Yeah, it's like Ramadan for us.
01:12:19.000 The year before that, we did hot yoga.
01:12:22.000 We had to do 15 hot yoga sessions over the month.
01:12:24.000 Jeez.
01:12:24.000 Yeah, this year we have to do 10 classes of any kind, and we have to read 500 pages of any book.
01:12:30.000 Wow.
01:12:30.000 Yeah, so we do it.
01:12:31.000 I like to test yourselves.
01:12:32.000 Yeah, and it's fun.
01:12:34.000 In a cool way.
01:12:35.000 And people join along, and this year we're all wearing these Whoop straps.
01:12:38.000 What is a Whoop strap?
01:12:40.000 A Whoop strap is a fitness monitor that works with this application that works on your phone that monitors heart rate variability.
01:12:50.000 So it tells you, first of all, it tells you how much you're sleeping, which is very revealing.
01:12:54.000 It tells you what kind of sleep you're getting, and it gives you very detailed analytics.
01:12:57.000 It shows it.
01:12:58.000 How much do you sleep?
01:12:59.000 Can we just stay on that one side?
01:13:01.000 I have sleep apnea, so I know because I go to an app.
01:13:04.000 I have an app.
01:13:05.000 Okay.
01:13:05.000 So do you use a CPAP machine?
01:13:08.000 I do.
01:13:08.000 Yeah.
01:13:09.000 I do.
01:13:09.000 Two guys in a row use a CPAP. My friend Chris Ryan, who's here right before you, uses CPAP machine.
01:13:13.000 This is my thing.
01:13:14.000 Look at this.
01:13:14.000 Yeah, I have sleep apnea as well.
01:13:15.000 Look, I got 87 last night.
01:13:17.000 I had a bad night.
01:13:18.000 What is 87?
01:13:19.000 That's the score.
01:13:20.000 That's the computation.
01:13:21.000 It's like a coefficient.
01:13:23.000 How many?
01:13:24.000 Okay.
01:13:24.000 Okay.
01:13:25.000 I wear glasses, but you can see it right there.
01:13:27.000 It says 87, but what does that mean?
01:13:29.000 How many hours?
01:13:30.000 Okay, 5 hours and 52. I think 37. Was it 552?
01:13:34.000 Yes.
01:13:35.000 Usage hours.
01:13:36.000 It says 5 hours and 52. It says good.
01:13:39.000 On the seal.
01:13:41.000 Good, make a seal.
01:13:42.000 You had six events per hour.
01:13:44.000 How many interruptions?
01:13:44.000 Event.
01:13:45.000 Six events per hour?
01:13:46.000 That's what it says.
01:13:47.000 Wow, that's not good.
01:13:48.000 Well, it's probably right.
01:13:50.000 I had a bad...
01:13:51.000 I didn't sleep all last night.
01:13:52.000 Well, actually it says 0.6.
01:13:53.000 Is that the same thing as six?
01:13:54.000 No.
01:13:55.000 What does that mean?
01:13:55.000 Oh, so you didn't have six an hour.
01:13:57.000 Yeah, six an hour is a lot.
01:13:58.000 Well, it's weird because it says 0.6 and then it says five in the corner.
01:14:02.000 What does that mean?
01:14:02.000 Five total over the six hours of sleep.
01:14:04.000 Oh, look.
01:14:05.000 What are you, you wizard?
01:14:06.000 Well, he measures pot.
01:14:08.000 He can do...
01:14:09.000 He's like a pound of pot, not a problem.
01:14:12.000 It says mask on and off four.
01:14:15.000 So you took your mask off four times?
01:14:16.000 To pee and then...
01:14:17.000 Oh, okay.
01:14:18.000 To pee twice and then twice because I was obsessing over something.
01:14:22.000 Oh, thinking.
01:14:22.000 I had to break the obsession.
01:14:24.000 Oh, I understand.
01:14:25.000 Yeah.
01:14:25.000 Okay.
01:14:26.000 I wear a mouthpiece.
01:14:28.000 Ooh, those are hot.
01:14:29.000 It presses down on my tongue.
01:14:30.000 Yes.
01:14:30.000 It keeps my tongue from falling back over the hole in my mouth.
01:14:34.000 Oh, so it's not about your teeth.
01:14:35.000 It's about falling back.
01:14:36.000 Yes.
01:14:36.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:14:37.000 What is that thing?
01:14:38.000 What's that called?
01:14:40.000 What happened?
01:14:42.000 It doesn't matter what it's called, but you have it.
01:14:44.000 Dr. Kevorkian.
01:14:45.000 Is that his name?
01:14:46.000 Kevorkian.
01:14:47.000 Kevorkian's the murderer guy.
01:14:49.000 Yeah, he's the murderer.
01:14:50.000 Kevorkian.
01:14:50.000 Dr. Kevorkian.
01:14:51.000 You obviously knew that.
01:14:53.000 Whoops.
01:14:53.000 It was a mistake.
01:14:55.000 But yeah, it just keeps your tongue from falling back.
01:14:59.000 I have a fat tongue.
01:15:00.000 That's my problem.
01:15:01.000 Fat.
01:15:02.000 Fat.
01:15:03.000 It closes the air hole.
01:15:05.000 Jeez.
01:15:06.000 Yeah, so it keeps it from doing that.
01:15:07.000 A lot to be said about that.
01:15:09.000 Yeah, I guess.
01:15:10.000 So what the Whoopstrap does is it monitors your sleep, but it also measures heart rate variability, so it tells you whether you're tired or not.
01:15:22.000 So if you've had a hard workout and then you're still a little beat down the next day, it'll show you on the application.
01:15:28.000 Here's your heart rate.
01:15:29.000 Your heart rate is responding to the fact that you had an extremely stressful, physically stressful day.
01:15:34.000 So good stresses and bad stresses, exercise and lack of sleep, all those things are monitored and it gives you like pretty detailed analytics.
01:15:41.000 So we're all wearing these straps and we're doing these 10 different classes like we've done tactical gun classes and yoga classes and boxing classes.
01:15:50.000 And the whole idea about the month is sort of just helping yourself, like doing things that are good for you.
01:15:57.000 Self-help.
01:15:58.000 Great.
01:15:58.000 Got it.
01:15:59.000 I see.
01:16:00.000 Like, yeah.
01:16:01.000 Self-help.
01:16:02.000 Yeah.
01:16:02.000 Like, this is the month of getting smarter, better.
01:16:05.000 Yeah.
01:16:06.000 Learning some new shit.
01:16:08.000 You know, meditating.
01:16:10.000 Getting an education.
01:16:12.000 Reading, you know, 500 pages of some books.
01:16:14.000 Who are the guys?
01:16:14.000 Tom Segura, who's a stand-up comedian.
01:16:20.000 We're good to go.
01:16:36.000 And we'll all have, to fulfill these number of hot yoga classes.
01:16:40.000 So 15 90 minute hot yoga classes.
01:16:43.000 And then the next year we had...
01:16:44.000 15 90 minute?
01:16:45.000 Yes.
01:16:46.000 Ooh, wow.
01:16:47.000 And then the next year we had a crazy fitness challenge.
01:16:49.000 That got a little out of hand, so we decided not to compete with each other anymore because we were literally going five, six, seven hours a day of working out.
01:16:57.000 Yeah, seven hours a day of cardio.
01:16:59.000 It was bananas.
01:17:00.000 It was nuts.
01:17:01.000 Yeah.
01:17:01.000 Yeah.
01:17:02.000 We're getting high on exercise.
01:17:04.000 I'm not in your group.
01:17:05.000 I know why now.
01:17:07.000 This year it was just the fitness classes, different classes, 10 classes, and then 500 pages of any book, just reading something.
01:17:17.000 It's pretty great.
01:17:18.000 Yeah, it's fun.
01:17:18.000 It gives me something to do.
01:17:20.000 We look forward to it.
01:17:21.000 And then a lot of fans do it along with us.
01:17:24.000 So a lot of people go sober through the month and join in with us.
01:17:28.000 Fans from the show say, hey, I want to be part of this.
01:17:31.000 Yeah, they just jump in.
01:17:32.000 I mean, you can wear a whoop strap, too.
01:17:33.000 You can compare the amount of sleep and the amount of exercise that you get to us.
01:17:37.000 But more importantly, for people, it's nice for people that maybe don't even know that they have a little bit of an issue with substances.
01:17:45.000 I mean, maybe they're not alcoholics or drug addicts, but maybe they just are indulging a little too much.
01:17:49.000 And so they'll get this break for October because they're committed for the entire month.
01:17:53.000 And then what they see is like, you know what, I feel a lot better.
01:17:56.000 And, you know, I don't have a problem, but I do feel a lot better when I'm not drinking all the time.
01:18:02.000 Because I'm going to comedy clubs, and I'll have a couple beers.
01:18:05.000 Hey, you want to do a shot?
01:18:06.000 All right, let's do a shot.
01:18:07.000 And then the next day I'm like, oh.
01:18:09.000 And then I go to the gym, and it's like a little bit more of a struggle.
01:18:11.000 But this entire month, you know, what is today, 23rd?
01:18:15.000 Yeah.
01:18:16.000 There's none of that.
01:18:17.000 This entire month, it's just, you feel good.
01:18:19.000 You're on.
01:18:19.000 Yeah.
01:18:20.000 And you realize, like, that is an unnecessary tax on your system, alcohol in particular.
01:18:26.000 You know, pot doesn't make me feel like shit the next day, but it definitely does some wonky things to your memory.
01:18:33.000 Pot does.
01:18:34.000 For sure.
01:18:35.000 Oh, yeah.
01:18:35.000 For sure.
01:18:36.000 We all have pot memory.
01:18:37.000 All of us.
01:18:38.000 Pot memory.
01:18:38.000 Yeah, pot memory is weird.
01:18:40.000 Yeah, it's just like...
01:18:41.000 That's funny.
01:18:42.000 It definitely does something to your memory.
01:18:43.000 I mean, that's pretty much been proven.
01:18:45.000 Okay.
01:18:46.000 All right.
01:18:46.000 So that's what we do all the month.
01:18:47.000 That's interesting.
01:18:48.000 Yeah.
01:18:49.000 So do these guys...
01:18:51.000 Oh, and you guys can afford to do that because you can still work.
01:18:55.000 Yeah, yeah.
01:18:55.000 Still do stand-up.
01:18:56.000 Still do podcasts.
01:18:58.000 Still do everything.
01:18:58.000 Yeah.
01:18:59.000 And then we have No Remember November where we get blitzed.
01:19:02.000 Okay.
01:19:02.000 Yeah.
01:19:03.000 That is hilarious.
01:19:04.000 That's what I look forward to, right?
01:19:06.000 Not really.
01:19:06.000 I didn't really.
01:19:08.000 You don't mean blitz.
01:19:09.000 You just go for it.
01:19:10.000 Yeah, it went hard a couple of days in November last year.
01:19:13.000 That's super funny.
01:19:14.000 And your buddies are funny, guys.
01:19:16.000 Yeah, it's fun.
01:19:17.000 Well, it's a camaraderie thing, too.
01:19:20.000 The four of us, it's a lot of bonding and it's very fun.
01:19:23.000 Like the podcasts we have are very fun.
01:19:25.000 And the one that we did when Sober October was over last year was ridiculous.
01:19:30.000 We were barbecued.
01:19:31.000 It was very fun.
01:19:33.000 But it is a good thing for people just to have that one month reset of their system.
01:19:42.000 Just to give them a perspective, like, hey, maybe it'd be better if you didn't drink.
01:19:46.000 Maybe it'd be better if you took some time off.
01:19:48.000 Maybe it'd be better if you exercised and really thought about things this way.
01:19:52.000 I mean, we're only doing it once a month, but we even propose doing it a couple times a year.
01:19:56.000 And it proves to you, I guess, obviously, it does prove to you you can do it.
01:20:01.000 Yes.
01:20:02.000 And that's important.
01:20:04.000 Yeah.
01:20:05.000 It's like having an exit, right?
01:20:06.000 Yeah.
01:20:07.000 You know, when you're trapped on a boat or you're in some place, you have an exit here.
01:20:12.000 You know you can do it.
01:20:13.000 Well, the motivation for a lot of it was our friend Bert, who drinks way too much.
01:20:18.000 And he's calmed down quite a bit, apparently, because of...
01:20:21.000 Doing that first podcast where we did go sober for the whole month because we didn't think he could do it.
01:20:26.000 Because even during the weight loss challenge, Tom, who won the weight loss challenge, Tom didn't drink anything but water the entire month and worked out like crazy and lost a ton of weight.
01:20:35.000 Bert kept drinking the entire month and also worked out like crazy and tried to lose weight.
01:20:40.000 And what happened?
01:20:41.000 He lost.
01:20:41.000 He couldn't compete with Tom.
01:20:43.000 It doesn't work.
01:20:44.000 It was a dumb way of doing it.
01:20:47.000 It wasn't as effective.
01:20:49.000 Right, of course.
01:20:52.000 Now there's this new, I guess, nutritional exercise or weight loss, I don't want to only call it that, of like, what is it, 16 hours, I don't know, is it 10 hours on, 10 hours off?
01:21:06.000 Oh, intermittent fasting?
01:21:07.000 Intermittent fasting, yes.
01:21:09.000 See, I can't lose weight.
01:21:11.000 I mean, I'm happy.
01:21:13.000 I don't need to lose weight, actually.
01:21:16.000 But I can get stronger and have better disciplines in areas.
01:21:20.000 But that particular thing is about losing weight, I think, right?
01:21:24.000 Mostly.
01:21:25.000 It's about losing weight, but it's also about feeling better and raising your ketone levels, which is one thing that does happen when you go long periods of time and you get your body accustomed to this period of time where you're not eating.
01:21:40.000 You know, this timed eating or whatever they call it.
01:21:42.000 What is the term they refer to it as?
01:21:44.000 It's not just intermittent fasting.
01:21:46.000 There's...
01:21:48.000 Time-restricted eating?
01:21:50.000 Yeah.
01:21:50.000 Okay.
01:21:51.000 There's some benefit on your digestive system as well.
01:21:55.000 So your body's not eating 10 hours a day, 15 hours a day, or even more with some people.
01:22:04.000 Some people are just eating constantly throughout the day.
01:22:06.000 Instead of this, you have a four-hour window, or a six-hour window, or an eight-hour window, whatever you decide it is.
01:22:13.000 And during that time, you can eat.
01:22:14.000 But after that, it's over.
01:22:16.000 And then you cannot eat for X amount of hours, whether it's 10 or 12 or 14. Yeah.
01:22:23.000 You get accustomed to it, though.
01:22:24.000 Yeah.
01:22:24.000 See, my goal, because I don't know if I could – I'm sure you could prove me wrong, but I'm not sure I could do any of those really strict disciplines of any type almost.
01:22:35.000 So I've always thought if I do everything with moderation – I might not have to do one of these things that I might find to be too hard.
01:22:47.000 The strict is not hard.
01:22:49.000 It's not?
01:22:50.000 No.
01:22:51.000 Seems hard.
01:22:51.000 It does seem hard.
01:22:53.000 Seems really hard.
01:22:54.000 Yeah.
01:22:55.000 You get used to it, though.
01:22:56.000 You honestly get used to it.
01:22:57.000 And then once you do get used to it, then it becomes normal.
01:23:00.000 Okay.
01:23:01.000 Yeah.
01:23:02.000 So once you get like three days, four days or a week or something?
01:23:07.000 Yeah.
01:23:08.000 Once you get a few days in, it's no big deal.
01:23:10.000 Is that a way of saying that if I really committed to it, it's possible I could do it?
01:23:15.000 Of course you could do it.
01:23:16.000 Look, you're an accomplished man.
01:23:17.000 You can do anything you want.
01:23:18.000 You just have to force yourself to do it.
01:23:21.000 Just decide.
01:23:22.000 I need a compelling reason to do it.
01:23:24.000 Sure.
01:23:24.000 Well, that's one of the beautiful things.
01:23:26.000 Like if a doctor said...
01:23:26.000 Get that doctor that sleeps over your house.
01:23:30.000 Get him to write a prescription.
01:23:32.000 But the thing that we talked about, like Sober October, one of the things about it is that we all know that this is coming.
01:23:39.000 October 1st, boom, it's here.
01:23:41.000 So you're committed for the month.
01:23:43.000 It's not like a wishy-washy idea.
01:23:45.000 Are you nervous about it?
01:23:46.000 No.
01:23:46.000 Is there any anticipatory stress?
01:23:50.000 No, not really, but you think about it.
01:23:51.000 We've done it a couple years in a row now, three years in a row.
01:23:53.000 But the thing about it is that it's there.
01:23:56.000 It's a real thing.
01:23:57.000 It starts.
01:23:58.000 And then you can't be wishy-washy.
01:24:00.000 Part of the thing that people have a problem with diets and with exercise routines is that they're wishy-washy.
01:24:06.000 They give themselves a way out.
01:24:08.000 If you know that you have to work out one hour, six days a week, Every day, you have to work out one hour.
01:24:14.000 You get one day a week off.
01:24:15.000 You have to.
01:24:16.000 There's no cheating.
01:24:17.000 And you write it down on schedule, and you decide, all the month of November, I'm going to work out one hour a day, six days a week, period.
01:24:24.000 And then I'm going to write it down.
01:24:25.000 I'm going to mark my calendar with an X every time I accomplish that.
01:24:28.000 Well, if you just do that, you're going to get it done.
01:24:31.000 But if you say, I need to work out more.
01:24:34.000 Well, that's not a very specific goal.
01:24:35.000 You're a little flexible.
01:24:36.000 Yeah.
01:24:37.000 Yeah, it doesn't work.
01:24:37.000 That's not specific.
01:24:38.000 Yeah.
01:24:38.000 You have to go, there's no, this is, this is, This is absolute.
01:24:43.000 Yes.
01:24:43.000 These boundaries are inflexible.
01:24:46.000 You have to hold yourself accountable.
01:24:47.000 Okay.
01:24:47.000 Yeah.
01:24:48.000 You have to make sure that you're accountable.
01:24:49.000 All right.
01:24:50.000 When I pick something up like that, I'm going to let you know.
01:24:53.000 What would you want to do?
01:24:55.000 Like if you wanted to do something, if you had a thing and you say, hmm.
01:24:59.000 What would I want to do?
01:25:06.000 Maybe not drinking for a month.
01:25:09.000 I haven't done that.
01:25:10.000 How about no booze November?
01:25:13.000 That's coming up.
01:25:14.000 Maybe for next year, you mean?
01:25:17.000 I need to warm up.
01:25:18.000 I gotta warm up.
01:25:19.000 How much time do you need to prepare?
01:25:21.000 A year sounds good.
01:25:22.000 Okay.
01:25:23.000 Sober October.
01:25:24.000 Why don't you do Sober October with us next year?
01:25:26.000 Wow.
01:25:27.000 How about that?
01:25:28.000 That gives you a whole year.
01:25:28.000 It's in my mind.
01:25:29.000 I got it.
01:25:30.000 Not sure.
01:25:31.000 Sounds a little wishy-washy.
01:25:32.000 Well, I'm going to try to think about doing it.
01:25:35.000 Yeah, you don't have to do it.
01:25:36.000 Yeah, but I can try to warm up and think it's possible.
01:25:39.000 You certainly could do it.
01:25:40.000 Yeah, I probably could do it.
01:25:42.000 I mean, I took a week off, and then it was very...
01:25:46.000 I could have gone.
01:25:46.000 Was it boring?
01:25:47.000 No, I could have gone.
01:25:48.000 Well, yes, a little bit.
01:25:52.000 It was a little bit.
01:25:53.000 But I thought after the week, I thought I could keep going.
01:25:56.000 But then I thought, I don't know.
01:25:57.000 It's kind of a nice luxury to have a margarita or a glass of wine.
01:26:00.000 It is a nice luxury.
01:26:01.000 So I thought, I don't know.
01:26:03.000 No one's making me not.
01:26:04.000 I'll just go back to drinking.
01:26:06.000 Right.
01:26:07.000 Yeah, that's the thing.
01:26:08.000 I mean, I have no reason.
01:26:11.000 But if I had reasons, like I didn't want to wear that sleep apnea machine.
01:26:15.000 And I put it off for, oh God, five, six years.
01:26:19.000 Really?
01:26:20.000 Yeah.
01:26:21.000 And then, by the way, the sleep apnea machines got smaller and smaller and smaller and less intrusive.
01:26:27.000 So now they're very easy.
01:26:30.000 Yeah.
01:26:30.000 But it still was somewhat intrusive.
01:26:33.000 And now I always sleep with it.
01:26:36.000 I never thought I would do that.
01:26:38.000 Because I thought, you know, I'm laying with my wife.
01:26:40.000 I like to feel like I'm a romantic guy or something, or could be.
01:26:44.000 You sound like Darth Vader.
01:26:46.000 No.
01:26:48.000 No.
01:26:50.000 That's what it sounds like, yes.
01:26:52.000 Yeah, it's Darth Vader.
01:26:53.000 It does.
01:26:53.000 I don't know how she perceives it.
01:26:56.000 Ask her.
01:26:58.000 I will.
01:26:58.000 She won't be honest.
01:26:59.000 She wants me on it.
01:27:00.000 She calls it the tube of life.
01:27:01.000 You have the tube of life on?
01:27:02.000 Oh, that's a good way of putting it.
01:27:03.000 She wants me to live.
01:27:04.000 Sure.
01:27:04.000 Yeah.
01:27:05.000 So, thank God.
01:27:06.000 Well, it really does.
01:27:08.000 I mean, she's sleeping right next to me.
01:27:09.000 I'm glad she wants me to live.
01:27:10.000 She probably doesn't want you to snore either.
01:27:12.000 Yeah, I don't snore.
01:27:13.000 I never snored.
01:27:14.000 Really?
01:27:14.000 Yeah.
01:27:15.000 The sleep apnea that I had wasn't a snoring.
01:27:17.000 It was more like...
01:27:20.000 Like that.
01:27:20.000 Oh, choking kind of thing.
01:27:21.000 Yeah, the choking kind of thing where you'd stop breathing.
01:27:25.000 Right, right.
01:27:26.000 So it's not snoring.
01:27:27.000 Got it.
01:27:27.000 Yeah.
01:27:28.000 Yeah, it's scary stuff.
01:27:30.000 A lot of people have it.
01:27:31.000 Well, yeah.
01:27:33.000 It's terrible for your health.
01:27:34.000 Yes, it's terrible for your health, and you lose oxygen to your brain.
01:27:37.000 There's all these different things.
01:27:40.000 So anyway, to leave that alone, because I do do it.
01:27:43.000 I don't want to jinx myself out here.
01:27:46.000 I'm very superstitious.
01:27:47.000 Really?
01:27:48.000 Very, very, very.
01:27:50.000 So if I'm doing something right, I don't want to brag about it, I don't want to do anything, because then I'll think, I just...
01:27:57.000 You fucked it up?
01:27:58.000 Yeah, I don't want to fuck with things.
01:28:00.000 Like, there's...
01:28:01.000 When an equilibrium has been found, whatever that thing is, I just quiet down on it.
01:28:08.000 So you find something that works, you find a good vibe, and you stick with it.
01:28:12.000 Yeah, but I don't brag about it, I don't say a thing, because then I think, oh, maybe something like that, you know.
01:28:17.000 Right.
01:28:18.000 So I once was fat, actually.
01:28:21.000 Really?
01:28:22.000 Yeah, like, you know, rolls, like the guys that have rolls of fat and the thing.
01:28:26.000 And I was with a girl who, you know, was a very, very serious young and everything.
01:28:32.000 And we went to her beach.
01:28:34.000 Her beach was called Little Doom, you know, Doom Beach, Little Doom.
01:28:37.000 And she talks to these, she goes, I have to go talk to these guys.
01:28:40.000 And they were the cool surfer dudes.
01:28:42.000 And it was like 25 years ago.
01:28:45.000 30 years ago.
01:28:46.000 And she talks to these guys and they start laughing.
01:28:49.000 And I go, what are you guys laughing at?
01:28:52.000 To her.
01:28:52.000 Because she's now left these and they're back there and I see a chorus of them kind of laughing.
01:28:58.000 They go, well, I guess they're laughing because they said, we never thought you'd be with like a fat guy.
01:29:04.000 And I thought, wow, they look at me and that's what they're seeing and they think it's funny?
01:29:09.000 I got to fix this.
01:29:11.000 And that was like the straight up October forever for me.
01:29:16.000 That is what's called fat shaming.
01:29:19.000 Fat shaming.
01:29:20.000 Yeah.
01:29:20.000 Oh, I didn't even know that!
01:29:21.000 There's a phrase!
01:29:22.000 Yeah.
01:29:23.000 You never heard of fat shaming?
01:29:24.000 Never heard it!
01:29:25.000 Well, it's a very controversial thought because some people think that fat shaming is terrible and that you shouldn't do it to people.
01:29:33.000 It works for me.
01:29:33.000 And other people say that fat...
01:29:36.000 It's true, it does work on certain people, but it makes people feel bad, and some people think you should protect people from feeling bad, whereas other people think you should tell them that they're fat so they feel bad, so they act on it.
01:29:50.000 How do you see it?
01:29:51.000 I say I'm the latter.
01:29:54.000 I think you should tell people that they're fat.
01:29:57.000 If they want to know.
01:29:58.000 I don't think you should go after people and make them feel like shit.
01:30:01.000 If they want to know, you mean like...
01:30:02.000 If they want to know, I don't think you should protect them from it.
01:30:05.000 Okay, give me the signal of if you want to know.
01:30:08.000 Like, you're with some friend.
01:30:10.000 Let's say you're with someone you only know a little bit.
01:30:12.000 I wouldn't say anything.
01:30:13.000 Okay, so now you're with...
01:30:15.000 So we're talking about like relatives or...
01:30:19.000 No, you're talking about a husband-wife or boyfriend-girlfriend.
01:30:23.000 That's tough, because they can resent you forever.
01:30:25.000 Yeah.
01:30:25.000 You gotta be real careful, especially with the ladies.
01:30:28.000 Yeah, yeah.
01:30:29.000 And if you're a man and you resent your wife forever because she tells you you're fat, you're probably not really a man.
01:30:36.000 That's really funny.
01:30:37.000 You might be a little bitch.
01:30:38.000 Oh my god!
01:30:40.000 I can't believe you said that.
01:30:42.000 Really?
01:30:42.000 I mean, I like it, because it's...
01:30:44.000 I don't know what you...
01:30:44.000 I like it.
01:30:45.000 You might be a little bitch.
01:30:46.000 You might be a little bitch.
01:30:47.000 Yeah, if your wife says you're fat...
01:30:49.000 Like, if my wife tells me I'm fat, I'm like, I'm not fat.
01:30:53.000 What are you talking about?
01:30:55.000 It doesn't work.
01:30:55.000 It only works if you're fat.
01:30:57.000 It's one thing if they're saying something about...
01:30:59.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:31:00.000 I get it.
01:31:00.000 It's one thing if they're saying something about something you can't control.
01:31:03.000 Like, I wish you were black.
01:31:05.000 I don't like white guys.
01:31:06.000 Okay, I have a question.
01:31:06.000 Now you feel terrible.
01:31:07.000 It sounds like you have no boundaries on your show.
01:31:09.000 Right.
01:31:10.000 Okay.
01:31:12.000 The guys that have really little dicks.
01:31:14.000 Ooh, that's a rough one.
01:31:15.000 I got it.
01:31:17.000 I'm hearing you.
01:31:18.000 So do you think the girl and the guy are together?
01:31:25.000 Did the girl ever say?
01:31:28.000 I'm sure some girls do.
01:31:30.000 Did they say it?
01:31:30.000 But here's the thing.
01:31:31.000 Some girls.
01:31:32.000 We feel pretty rough guys.
01:31:35.000 We can talk about it.
01:31:37.000 I think some girls who are beautiful, beautiful girls, are also lesbians.
01:31:44.000 Oh yes, that's true.
01:31:45.000 So some girls who are beautiful girls are bisexual.
01:31:50.000 So they like girls and guys.
01:31:52.000 Here's the question.
01:31:54.000 Would those girls be more likely to settle for a guy with a little dick?
01:31:58.000 Yes.
01:31:59.000 A rich guy with a little dick.
01:32:00.000 Or is it they like girls to be girls and like guys, no matter what, to have a big dick?
01:32:07.000 All right.
01:32:08.000 I think they're probably the latter.
01:32:12.000 Probably, unfortunately.
01:32:14.000 Evolution's a motherfucker.
01:32:15.000 It really is.
01:32:16.000 I think that there's not a damn thing a person can do about that one.
01:32:21.000 You could suck fat out of your waist and stuff it in your ass.
01:32:24.000 You could get fake boobs.
01:32:26.000 There's a lot of shit you can do if you've got a little dick.
01:32:28.000 That's a wrap, son.
01:32:29.000 It's a wrap.
01:32:31.000 Not much you can do.
01:32:32.000 I mean, there's some operations that can help you out a little.
01:32:35.000 But I think that...
01:32:36.000 For the most part.
01:32:38.000 Yes.
01:32:39.000 Yeah, cutting and dick.
01:32:40.000 Those two words don't go together well.
01:32:42.000 Do you think it makes guys crazy when they have...
01:32:43.000 Oh, for sure.
01:32:44.000 I think it might, too.
01:32:45.000 Guaranteed.
01:32:45.000 It must.
01:32:46.000 It must make them suicidal.
01:32:48.000 Because it's...
01:32:48.000 What if we started throwing shit right now?
01:32:50.000 That would mean, like, we had little dicks.
01:32:52.000 Maybe.
01:32:53.000 It'd have to go crazy.
01:32:54.000 I think there's certain things that, you know...
01:32:59.000 There's nothing you can do about it.
01:33:00.000 You just have to handle that roll of the dice, whatever you got.
01:33:04.000 Yeah, I would guess.
01:33:05.000 Yeah, that's one of them.
01:33:06.000 But I mean, if things like CRISPR and genetic manipulation and things they're working on now, that's probably one of the first things they're going to work on.
01:33:14.000 Wow, I never thought of this.
01:33:16.000 You just hatched them right on the show today.
01:33:19.000 I think I've thought about it before.
01:33:20.000 Okay.
01:33:23.000 I'm going to be honest with you.
01:33:24.000 But I don't think there's anything more profitable except beauty.
01:33:30.000 Beauty would be incredibly profitable for people who were not born.
01:33:33.000 But they're both all in that same department, well, somewhat, same area.
01:33:37.000 Yeah.
01:33:38.000 Like whatever it is, cosmetics.
01:33:40.000 Yes.
01:33:41.000 Yeah.
01:33:41.000 Yeah.
01:33:42.000 Not just cosmetics, but even people that are not happy with their frame.
01:33:48.000 You're not operational.
01:33:49.000 No.
01:33:49.000 No, you're not operational.
01:33:51.000 I mean, maybe one day they'll be able to do something.
01:33:53.000 They shoot a little virus into your body and then all of a sudden...
01:33:56.000 Yeah, that'd be something.
01:34:01.000 It can happen.
01:34:02.000 I mean, it's not insurmountable scientifically.
01:34:05.000 There's so many things that they're already doing with genetic manipulation.
01:34:09.000 That's not outside the realm of possibility.
01:34:11.000 Yeah, it's not outside the realm.
01:34:11.000 It seems possible.
01:34:12.000 Let's start calling our scientists right now.
01:34:14.000 Call them up and see what they say.
01:34:17.000 So anyway, learn about fat shaming.
01:34:19.000 I got that.
01:34:20.000 I can't believe you didn't know about that.
01:34:21.000 That's like in the zeitgeist right now.
01:34:23.000 Is it?
01:34:24.000 Yeah, people get mad at people for fat shaming.
01:34:27.000 Yeah.
01:34:28.000 James Corden got mad at Bill Maher.
01:34:31.000 Bill Maher was mocking fat shaming.
01:34:33.000 He was like, maybe we should be shaming people more.
01:34:36.000 To him directly?
01:34:37.000 No, no.
01:34:37.000 Oh, just...
01:34:38.000 Bill Maher was talking about on his television show that maybe we should be shaming people more.
01:34:42.000 Oh, I see, I see.
01:34:43.000 And then James Corden said, I have a problem with...
01:34:45.000 That, and he's made a bunch of fat jokes, which I found were kind of weird.
01:34:51.000 You're making fat jokes while you're being upset that someone's calling you fat.
01:34:58.000 That's interesting.
01:34:59.000 He thought he could get that one by you, but that one didn't get by you.
01:35:03.000 No, but he also does have a comedy talk show, so it makes sense that he was making jokes.
01:35:08.000 He's being comedic.
01:35:11.000 He does have a comedy talk show.
01:35:12.000 It's not something that you can't fix.
01:35:19.000 And that's one of the things that people have a problem with being sympathetic about.
01:35:23.000 And I think that was Bill Maher's statement.
01:35:24.000 Because Bill is obviously a very slim man.
01:35:27.000 But it's not something you can't fix.
01:35:29.000 It's a problem to fix.
01:35:30.000 It's hard to fix.
01:35:31.000 It requires discipline.
01:35:33.000 And also your gut biome is probably all screwed up from eating bad foods.
01:35:37.000 And you probably are accustomed to certain...
01:35:42.000 Certain behavior patterns that are unhealthy for you.
01:35:45.000 Yeah.
01:35:45.000 The times you're eating, the kind of foods you're eating.
01:35:47.000 Yeah.
01:35:48.000 All that.
01:35:50.000 I fixed mine with...
01:35:52.000 But I mean, I wasn't fat in the...
01:35:54.000 That really...
01:35:55.000 You fixed it with shame.
01:35:56.000 I fixed it with shame.
01:35:57.000 She shamed me, and I started jumping rope.
01:36:00.000 And I started with...
01:36:02.000 I do all...
01:36:03.000 Everything with an achievable goal.
01:36:05.000 I just did a couple minutes...
01:36:07.000 And I just kept going.
01:36:08.000 And then pretty soon, you know, I did the rope that had a counter on it with those plastic beads that gives a little weight and a nylon cord.
01:36:18.000 And you could really get it going.
01:36:21.000 So I could do 200 beats a minute for 30 minutes.
01:36:24.000 And you're holding your body very tight.
01:36:27.000 So it actually, I didn't think of it that way, but it really strengthened my core.
01:36:32.000 Yeah, jumping rope is amazing.
01:36:34.000 Yeah, so you obviously do.
01:36:36.000 Yeah, it's great.
01:36:37.000 You do it only to warm up?
01:36:39.000 Mostly, yeah.
01:36:40.000 I just do it to kind of get going.
01:36:41.000 Yeah, yeah.
01:36:42.000 But for boxers, that's why the boxers use it so much.
01:36:45.000 I mean, it's a staple of boxing workouts.
01:36:46.000 Yes, it is.
01:36:47.000 Yeah, yeah.
01:36:48.000 Yeah.
01:36:49.000 You're always on your toes.
01:36:50.000 Yeah.
01:36:50.000 So it keeps your calves conditioned and helps your body ability to shift movement.
01:36:56.000 I mean, strong calves and strong feet are very, very important for boxing and anything that requires movement.
01:37:02.000 Football players, a lot of football players use jump rope to help their ability to move side to side and help their mobility.
01:37:10.000 Yeah.
01:37:10.000 Great workout too.
01:37:11.000 Just great cardiovascular.
01:37:14.000 Yeah.
01:37:14.000 It's very trendy right now, too.
01:37:16.000 Is it?
01:37:16.000 Another trendy thing.
01:37:18.000 Yes, another trendy thing.
01:37:19.000 The antidote to fat shaming, right?
01:37:21.000 Well, there's a lot of videos online where people are doing these YouTube workouts of jumping rope.
01:37:26.000 And then they also have weighted ropes, which makes it more intense.
01:37:29.000 I used to weighted rope, too.
01:37:30.000 Yeah.
01:37:31.000 I used to go everywhere with these ropes.
01:37:34.000 So if I were in an airport, I'd be doing it.
01:37:36.000 I remember being on a tarmac in Greece, in Athens, and I was doing it.
01:37:42.000 I would do it in the rain.
01:37:46.000 Every day, I did it.
01:37:48.000 That I did without fail for almost 12 years.
01:37:54.000 Wow.
01:37:56.000 Do you have a trainer?
01:37:56.000 A personal trainer?
01:37:57.000 I do now.
01:37:58.000 I didn't then.
01:37:59.000 But I do now.
01:38:00.000 Because I think...
01:38:01.000 Well, it helps me so much.
01:38:03.000 Sure.
01:38:04.000 Also, it helps me get into the gym without fail.
01:38:07.000 Because I don't want to have him wait.
01:38:09.000 Derek.
01:38:10.000 Oh, by the way, Derek.
01:38:11.000 A shout-out to Derek.
01:38:12.000 Because I said something about I'm doing Joe Rogan.
01:38:16.000 And he goes, Oh, I listen to him all the time.
01:38:18.000 I go, Give me some insight.
01:38:19.000 I really started collecting stuff.
01:38:21.000 He had...
01:38:23.000 I could even show you.
01:38:24.000 He wrote notes.
01:38:25.000 I didn't read them because I didn't feel like I had to.
01:38:30.000 But literally, I'm sorry.
01:38:32.000 But anyway, so Derek...
01:38:33.000 Ah, okay.
01:38:35.000 Oh, it's so long.
01:38:36.000 This is embarrassing.
01:38:37.000 And I didn't read it, so...
01:38:39.000 Okay.
01:38:39.000 So every morning, it's good morning, bro.
01:38:41.000 Good morning, bro.
01:38:42.000 Good morning, bro.
01:38:43.000 That means he's here.
01:38:43.000 Good morning, bro.
01:38:44.000 And this is it.
01:38:45.000 Hey, bro.
01:38:46.000 You wanted a text about bro.
01:38:48.000 Is Derek a bro?
01:38:49.000 He sounds like a bro.
01:38:51.000 He's a guy from Detroit.
01:38:52.000 He says bro a lot.
01:38:53.000 Yes.
01:38:55.000 I don't...
01:38:55.000 He's not a...
01:38:56.000 I don't know how bro-y.
01:38:58.000 But he does go, hey, bro.
01:38:59.000 And actually, I've even said to him...
01:39:03.000 A nice way, don't say, hey, bro, every morning.
01:39:07.000 Because it just doesn't, he goes, hey, bro, like that.
01:39:10.000 And I want to say, you got to chop it up a little bit.
01:39:13.000 Mix it up.
01:39:14.000 Hey, fella.
01:39:14.000 Mix it up.
01:39:16.000 Is that bad?
01:39:17.000 Is fella bad?
01:39:18.000 It'd be funny.
01:39:19.000 I call people fella all the time.
01:39:21.000 Yeah.
01:39:22.000 I think it'd be funny you saying, hey fella.
01:39:23.000 I like that.
01:39:24.000 Like a strong guy going, hey fella.
01:39:26.000 What's up, fella?
01:39:27.000 I'm going to try it.
01:39:28.000 I like fella.
01:39:28.000 Yeah, hey fella.
01:39:29.000 I mean, everyone, all your millions of listeners will know that I'm ripping from you.
01:39:34.000 Well, you gave it to me.
01:39:35.000 You said you could say it.
01:39:36.000 That's not mine.
01:39:37.000 I like it, hey fella.
01:39:39.000 I say it all the time, but I don't know where I heard it from.
01:39:41.000 But do you say it kind of gently, or how do you?
01:39:42.000 Hey fella.
01:39:43.000 I say I like that.
01:39:44.000 Yeah.
01:39:44.000 Like if I saw you, I'd be like, hey, fella.
01:39:47.000 I like it.
01:39:48.000 Now I'm thinking about it, though.
01:39:49.000 Now it sounds weird because I'm being self-conscious.
01:39:51.000 Yeah, but you'll get...
01:39:53.000 I'll get over it.
01:39:53.000 Once I'm off the show, you know, tomorrow you're going to get back to it.
01:39:56.000 Yeah, it'll go back to normal.
01:39:57.000 I like it.
01:39:57.000 I'm going to feel that.
01:39:59.000 Yeah.
01:39:59.000 It's not an issue.
01:40:01.000 Okay.
01:40:01.000 So what is Derek...
01:40:02.000 What kind of advice did he give you?
01:40:04.000 On the show?
01:40:05.000 Yeah.
01:40:07.000 It said...
01:40:08.000 I didn't look at it, but he gave me some advice.
01:40:11.000 He said...
01:40:14.000 You know, he told me your background.
01:40:15.000 First of all, I didn't realize the chronology of your background.
01:40:19.000 I didn't know...
01:40:19.000 He knows New Jersey, right?
01:40:22.000 He just knew all the stuff.
01:40:24.000 Oh, so he did like Wikipedia.
01:40:26.000 Well, I think he...
01:40:27.000 No, he did more than Wikipedia.
01:40:28.000 No, no, no.
01:40:29.000 I know.
01:40:29.000 That sounds...
01:40:30.000 Yes, that leads you to Wikipedia.
01:40:32.000 But I popped that on him, so it wasn't like...
01:40:35.000 That was today, so he didn't like go...
01:40:37.000 Let me just tell you about it.
01:40:39.000 He didn't start looking at his smartphone.
01:40:41.000 He knows your show really well.
01:40:43.000 He's a guy's guy, you know?
01:40:47.000 He's a bro.
01:40:48.000 He's a straight talker guy.
01:40:50.000 Yeah, he's a bro.
01:40:52.000 He's a bro.
01:40:53.000 No wonder he says bro.
01:40:54.000 That expression is weird because it used to be like, first of all, black dudes owned it.
01:41:02.000 What up, bro?
01:41:03.000 It was like that.
01:41:04.000 And then it became white guys.
01:41:06.000 Like dorky white guys.
01:41:08.000 I'm going to give it to you.
01:41:09.000 Because you seem interested in everything.
01:41:11.000 I like the Rogan podcast because it's casual conversation.
01:41:16.000 I feel like I shouldn't be here for this.
01:41:17.000 He always sets the guest at ease and weaves through topics seamlessly.
01:41:21.000 I leave it alone.
01:41:22.000 But he says everything is awesome.
01:41:25.000 Thanks, bro.
01:41:30.000 You said it just like, I mean, perfect.
01:41:32.000 What kind of stuff does Derek have in you do?
01:41:34.000 Oh, physically.
01:41:36.000 Physically, well, okay, so I get in there and I do an elliptical, you know, for me, I do it as high, as hard as you could possibly do it for 20 minutes.
01:41:45.000 So it gets everything kind of going and I tore my rotary cuff so it lubes that up a little bit and I have some injuries.
01:41:53.000 Have you ever done anything about it?
01:41:54.000 The rotator cuff?
01:41:56.000 My doctor, you know him, Neil Eletrage.
01:42:02.000 Okay.
01:42:04.000 He does teams and stuff like that.
01:42:07.000 What did he say?
01:42:08.000 I don't need surgery.
01:42:10.000 Eventually, I might have to have surgery later.
01:42:14.000 He says, I'm a surgeon, that's what I do, but I don't want you to have surgery.
01:42:18.000 You don't need it, you have the same strength you would have, and it just will hurt a little bit.
01:42:24.000 And this is a rotator cuff tear?
01:42:26.000 It's a rotator cuff tear.
01:42:29.000 Have you ever had stem cells?
01:42:31.000 No?
01:42:31.000 Is that a good idea?
01:42:32.000 Yeah.
01:42:33.000 Oh, tell me how you do it.
01:42:34.000 Definitely.
01:42:34.000 Wow, I'm getting this from the man right on public.
01:42:37.000 I'll talk to you after it's over, and I'll give you places that you should go and talk to.
01:42:41.000 I had a full-length rotator cuff tear, and it's gone from stem cells.
01:42:46.000 Is there anything bad?
01:42:48.000 No, nothing negative.
01:42:49.000 Nothing negative.
01:42:50.000 Not for me.
01:42:51.000 I know of no negative repercussions.
01:42:54.000 That's fantastic.
01:42:54.000 I love knowing that.
01:42:57.000 Certainly can help you, for sure.
01:42:59.000 Matter of fact, the place where I go is, well, the place I go is in Santa Monica, and I've been going there for years.
01:43:06.000 What's the name of the place?
01:43:07.000 Lifespan Medicine.
01:43:09.000 Oh, it's not Mark Forrester.
01:43:11.000 No, no, no.
01:43:11.000 Life Spin.
01:43:11.000 Okay, I don't know.
01:43:12.000 I'll explain to you everything after the show.
01:43:14.000 I would love that.
01:43:15.000 Thank you so much.
01:43:15.000 Okay.
01:43:16.000 But there's a lot of different treatments that they can do now for soft tissue tears, things like rotator cuffs and muscle tears and things along those lines.
01:43:27.000 It's amazing what they can do now.
01:43:29.000 Wow.
01:43:30.000 Okay, that'd be awesome.
01:43:31.000 So what does he have me do?
01:43:32.000 I do...
01:43:34.000 You know, variety of different types of weights, you know, curls.
01:43:39.000 He mixes it up, so it's sort of cross-training.
01:43:41.000 So I'll do different things.
01:43:42.000 I'll use those little slides that I love.
01:43:44.000 You put on your feet, and there's four different things you can do.
01:43:48.000 You open them, and you do the push-ups.
01:43:50.000 And I like it because it's hard.
01:43:52.000 Do you like to do it in the morning?
01:43:53.000 I do it all in the morning.
01:43:55.000 I do it at – let's start at 6.30.
01:43:59.000 Wow.
01:44:00.000 He shows up at 7. This is what my – Monday, Wednesday, Friday goes like this for me.
01:44:05.000 From 6.30 to 7, I do my own stuff.
01:44:09.000 Elliptical.
01:44:10.000 Elliptical.
01:44:10.000 Just get going.
01:44:11.000 And a few other things.
01:44:12.000 I might even do those little slides.
01:44:14.000 He shows up at 7. Hey, bro.
01:44:16.000 He's hey, bro-ing me.
01:44:17.000 And then he – we work out till 10 to 8.00.
01:44:24.000 And then for five minutes, he puts that bolt on my legs and calves to make my muscles more relaxed.
01:44:36.000 You're talking about like a neuromuscular stimulator?
01:44:39.000 Yes, thank you.
01:44:40.000 All right.
01:44:41.000 Electrical muscular stimulator.
01:44:42.000 Electrical muscular stimulator.
01:44:44.000 Yes, stimulator.
01:44:45.000 And so we do that.
01:44:46.000 And then I run next door and I play tennis for an hour.
01:44:53.000 Usually one-on-one tennis with a pro named Buster.
01:44:56.000 Shout out to Buster.
01:44:58.000 So after that, so a half hour elliptical, and then you do the weights.
01:45:02.000 You do this different kinds of physical workouts.
01:45:04.000 And then you play tennis for an hour.
01:45:06.000 Tennis for an hour.
01:45:07.000 So, wow.
01:45:08.000 So you're done, like, what, 10 a.m.?
01:45:11.000 No, I'm done exactly at 9 a.m.
01:45:13.000 Sometimes I go, I have to leave a few minutes early, but like 5 to 9 or 3 minutes to 9. So you run right from the gym straight over to tennis, so no missing time at all?
01:45:22.000 Right next door.
01:45:22.000 No missing time.
01:45:23.000 Oh, right next door.
01:45:24.000 Yeah, right next door.
01:45:25.000 It's Skip Rittenham's house.
01:45:27.000 Okay, bam.
01:45:28.000 Bam for him.
01:45:29.000 Yeah.
01:45:29.000 And so then I play tennis, and then I rush back, and I take shower really fast, and then I'm on the road going.
01:45:35.000 And then you do your work.
01:45:36.000 Now you go to work.
01:45:37.000 Wow.
01:45:37.000 But I'm up early actually at 5 o'clock.
01:45:39.000 Really?
01:45:40.000 And I'm doing work and I'm looking at videos and I'm reading things.
01:45:44.000 5 a.m., huh?
01:45:45.000 Every morning that's your thing?
01:45:46.000 Every morning I just wake up at that time.
01:45:48.000 Coffee?
01:45:49.000 Coffee.
01:45:49.000 Yeah, lots of coffees.
01:45:51.000 But I get excited about the day.
01:45:54.000 That's great.
01:45:54.000 I get really excited about the day.
01:45:56.000 That means you're doing what you're supposed to be doing.
01:45:58.000 Oh, good.
01:45:59.000 You enjoy what you're doing.
01:46:00.000 You're excited about it.
01:46:01.000 I'm really excited about it.
01:46:02.000 I really enjoy what I'm doing, and I enjoy my life.
01:46:07.000 I love hearing that from people that are successful.
01:46:09.000 Oh, good.
01:46:10.000 Because it means you've found the thing that's fulfilling.
01:46:14.000 Yes.
01:46:14.000 And it's continually fulfilling.
01:46:16.000 Yes.
01:46:16.000 Which is the real problem with a lot of folks.
01:46:18.000 Sometimes things are fulfilling initially, but then they lose their luster.
01:46:22.000 But for you, as many movies as you made, as long as you've been in the game, that you're still getting up at 5 in the morning, pumped up, excited for the day.
01:46:30.000 Not feeling like I have to, I just want to.
01:46:32.000 That's awesome.
01:46:34.000 Thanks.
01:46:35.000 Yeah.
01:46:35.000 No, I mean, it's really true.
01:46:37.000 I'm really excited.
01:46:38.000 And my life's good.
01:46:40.000 My kids are great.
01:46:43.000 They've gone through some changes.
01:46:44.000 They all kids do.
01:46:45.000 And they're really in the right spot.
01:46:48.000 My youngest kid just turned 16. He plays football in Notre Dame.
01:46:52.000 He's not a big kid, but he wanted to own it.
01:46:54.000 He wanted to own a choice.
01:46:56.000 And he's really disciplined.
01:46:58.000 Really, really.
01:47:00.000 And he's just so not a pussy.
01:47:03.000 He's like, you know what I mean?
01:47:05.000 He's just a tough guy.
01:47:06.000 That's awesome.
01:47:07.000 And I'm really proud of him and happy.
01:47:10.000 And, you know, I go through the rest of the three as well.
01:47:13.000 What other kind of things do you like to do with your day?
01:47:16.000 I mean, you're obviously a guy that's into self-improvement.
01:47:19.000 Yeah.
01:47:19.000 So what are the kind of things?
01:47:20.000 Do you meditate at all?
01:47:22.000 I do meditate.
01:47:22.000 I do TM. I do it once a day, but I know you're supposed to do it twice a day.
01:47:28.000 Are you supposed to do it twice a day?
01:47:29.000 You're supposed to do it twice a day.
01:47:30.000 Morning and night?
01:47:31.000 Is that how you're supposed to do it?
01:47:32.000 Something like that, yeah.
01:47:34.000 But I can't pull that off.
01:47:36.000 So I don't demand that upon myself.
01:47:38.000 I don't demand upon myself things that I... That I can't quite do.
01:47:42.000 I know I should, and I'm trying to.
01:47:45.000 Sorry, my friend Tom Poppet does TM, and he won't tell me what his mantra is.
01:47:49.000 Will you tell me what your mantra is?
01:47:51.000 No.
01:47:51.000 Damn.
01:47:53.000 Crazy.
01:47:54.000 I had two of them because, actually, Depec Chopra 20 years gave me one.
01:48:00.000 15 years, I have to be honest.
01:48:02.000 15 years.
01:48:03.000 Because I was really in need of meditation to stop these cycles.
01:48:07.000 So he gave you a mantra?
01:48:08.000 He came into my office, taught me how to meditate, and gave me a mantra.
01:48:12.000 And then I dropped it, and then recently, about five years ago, Veronica, who's my wife, who's a big shout-out to my wife.
01:48:22.000 Shout-out to Veronica.
01:48:23.000 Thank you very much.
01:48:24.000 Third shout out today.
01:48:25.000 That's good.
01:48:26.000 And so she and I took a TM from Bob Roth.
01:48:31.000 Bob Roth is the founder of the David Lynch Meditation Center.
01:48:37.000 And he's a very good guy.
01:48:39.000 You'll tell me.
01:48:40.000 No, we're good.
01:48:41.000 And so we do that.
01:48:44.000 And sometimes we get Bob Roth on the phone because he lives in New York and we'll just do it in the backyard and we'll have him on speaker and we'll...
01:48:52.000 He'll talk through the framework of it, and then he's quiet and we're quiet and we meditate.
01:48:58.000 Oh, nice.
01:48:59.000 Do you meditate?
01:49:00.000 Yes.
01:49:01.000 I just find it amazing how many TM people won't tell you whatever they're chanting.
01:49:06.000 I think we're told not to.
01:49:08.000 Yeah, but that's why it's weird.
01:49:10.000 How does somebody have that much power over you, right?
01:49:13.000 Yeah, is it abracadabra?
01:49:14.000 Is it alakazam?
01:49:15.000 What are you saying?
01:49:15.000 Yeah.
01:49:17.000 The style of meditation I do, I just concentrate on my breath.
01:49:21.000 I think only about breathing in and only about breathing out.
01:49:26.000 That's all I think about.
01:49:27.000 So when I'm concentrating, I'm thinking only about the breath in and only about the breath out.
01:49:32.000 And it goes off the rails.
01:49:34.000 I think about other things and I have to get back on track.
01:49:37.000 It always does.
01:49:38.000 There's no way around that.
01:49:39.000 I think we're told it's okay though, right?
01:49:41.000 Yeah, yeah.
01:49:41.000 It's okay.
01:49:42.000 I cut you, yeah.
01:49:43.000 I used to think that it wasn't.
01:49:45.000 I used to think, God, I'm weak.
01:49:46.000 I can't stay on track.
01:49:48.000 But now I realize that's not the point.
01:49:50.000 The point is it's just part of being a person.
01:49:53.000 Just let it happen.
01:49:55.000 But keep on track.
01:49:56.000 Keep on track.
01:49:58.000 And you get off track, just get back on track again.
01:50:00.000 Don't freak out about it.
01:50:02.000 Don't beat yourself up and all that stuff.
01:50:03.000 But I find it very cleansing.
01:50:05.000 Me too.
01:50:06.000 It does something.
01:50:07.000 It opens you up in a very nice way.
01:50:11.000 Is yours, who is the person that turned you on to it?
01:50:16.000 Or is it a type of meditation that has a name to it?
01:50:19.000 No, not really.
01:50:20.000 It's stuff I read about.
01:50:22.000 And I started doing it in an isolation tank.
01:50:25.000 I started doing it, I have one here.
01:50:28.000 Really?
01:50:28.000 So when I leave we can look at the isolation?
01:50:30.000 Yeah, sensory deprivation tank.
01:50:32.000 Shout out to the float lab.
01:50:35.000 You ever been to one?
01:50:37.000 Ever used one?
01:50:38.000 No.
01:50:39.000 Oh, they're amazing.
01:50:41.000 You should get one.
01:50:42.000 It's a great way to meditate.
01:50:43.000 There's portable ones, too, aren't there?
01:50:44.000 Sort of, yeah.
01:50:46.000 I have done one.
01:50:47.000 I have done one, and I liked it.
01:50:49.000 But I can't wait to see yours, because I bet there's a better way.
01:50:52.000 I did it so makeshift.
01:50:53.000 Yeah, I'm sure.
01:50:54.000 Yeah.
01:50:55.000 The Float Labs, the most advanced ones, and they have a place in Westwood and in Venice.
01:50:59.000 They have a place where you can go and rent it for an hour.
01:51:02.000 But the best thing that I found was inside the tank was to just concentrate on breathing.
01:51:12.000 Breathing in through the nose and out through the mouth, and in through the nose and out through the mouth.
01:51:17.000 And that's all I would concentrate on is breathing in and breathing out, breathing in and breathing out.
01:51:21.000 And then I would kind of go into this trance when I was inside the tank.
01:51:24.000 And so then, when I didn't have access to the tank, I started utilizing that outside of the tank.
01:51:31.000 If something's bothering me, if I've got something that...
01:51:34.000 Because I'm an obsessive person, so I get a thought in my head about something I'm working on or something I'm trying to fix, and I just start rolling over in my head to the point where I can't get it away.
01:51:44.000 So then the way I can cleanse that and put my brain back on a good cycle is to just concentrate on breathing.
01:51:51.000 So I use the same method that I would use inside the tank, and I use it outside the tank.
01:51:57.000 But I want to try TM. I'm gonna try to do it this month while we're doing these different classes this month.
01:52:04.000 I'm gonna try to take a class.
01:52:06.000 Maybe go to this guy, Bob Roth.
01:52:08.000 Sure.
01:52:08.000 Where's he at?
01:52:10.000 Well, he's kind of all over the – in New York.
01:52:14.000 Okay.
01:52:15.000 But he comes out here because he has many people in Los Angeles and he makes sure to come, I think, once a month or something.
01:52:20.000 Oh, okay.
01:52:21.000 Yeah.
01:52:21.000 Well, I'll talk to you.
01:52:22.000 We'll figure it out.
01:52:23.000 I think he's, for me, I think the best.
01:52:26.000 I've met a few of them.
01:52:27.000 But he made – Without saying take it seriously, he describes it in a way that I understood what it was, and he has some authority in him that made me take it seriously, whereas the other times I didn't take it quite as seriously.
01:52:46.000 It's kind of important who introduces it to you, I think.
01:52:50.000 I think so too, yeah.
01:52:52.000 Yeah, I mean, it's like what you were talking about earlier about people that are really enthusiastic about something and really committed and disciplined about it, that it's very contagious.
01:53:01.000 It is.
01:53:01.000 I think the same thing about meditation or about anything.
01:53:04.000 Yeah.
01:53:04.000 There's a certain energy you get when you're talking to someone who's really into what they're into.
01:53:09.000 Yeah, really into it.
01:53:10.000 If they're really into TM, you'll get a feeling and then you'll be able to recreate at least some of that when you do it on your own, I'd imagine.
01:53:17.000 Yes, yeah.
01:53:19.000 And, yeah.
01:53:20.000 Well, you'll like how it's described.
01:53:23.000 I don't know if you've...
01:53:24.000 Basically...
01:53:26.000 No, I'll let you do it yourself.
01:53:28.000 Okay.
01:53:29.000 Sorry.
01:53:29.000 Now, what other stuff do you do in terms of self-improvement?
01:53:35.000 If you should ask Veronica.
01:53:38.000 No, I think a little like you as I've researched you that I'm constantly reading things, like all of the time.
01:53:46.000 Always nonfiction, however.
01:53:49.000 No fiction at all?
01:53:50.000 No, I just, no.
01:53:52.000 That's interesting for someone who produces a lot of fiction.
01:53:55.000 Well, what I like is, yes, that's right.
01:53:58.000 What I've found in my life, for me, the foundational creative ingredients to a creative equation, like making a movie or a TV show or painting,
01:54:15.000 is counterpoint.
01:54:17.000 So I have found that I'm dreamy enough myself, you know, like I – you know, and I've read, of course, all Joseph Campbell stuff, so I kind of understand formats of myths and the herewith a thousand faces and – And I particularly like underdog stories.
01:54:35.000 There's so many types of underdog stories that it's – so anyway, so I have that basic knowledge.
01:54:42.000 And then when I learn a subject, let's say I learn the subject of architecture or physics or a little bit of chemistry or whatever the – it's all like from an archaeological perspective because it's all new to me.
01:54:55.000 So I found, for example, when I produced the movie 8 Mile, which is about hip-hop, right?
01:55:01.000 It's about battles in Detroit.
01:55:04.000 First, I thought – I could even go back further.
01:55:08.000 I'll do this quickly, though.
01:55:10.000 I thought I should get like the hottest, you know, video director, the coolest guy.
01:55:16.000 And I won't say those names, but there were the guys that were very visible at being the best at those hot videos.
01:55:23.000 Okay.
01:55:24.000 And then it occurred to me, I should get somebody that approaches it, again, archaeologically, where everything is a discovery.
01:55:32.000 So I hired someone that knew nothing about hip-hop, but was passionate about wanting to do the movie.
01:55:38.000 And he was named Curtis Hanson.
01:55:40.000 He's deceased right now, but he won, I think, two Oscars for LA Confidential.
01:55:45.000 So he was kind of a classic American filmmaker.
01:55:49.000 That looked at everything with sort of a discovery lens.
01:55:53.000 And that's why you're able to...
01:55:55.000 See, if I pick the video guy that thinks he knows everything about hip-hop, then all the little nuances that are new to the audience's eyes would have never been shot because he'd think, oh, everybody knows that stuff.
01:56:09.000 That's the good stuff, you know?
01:56:12.000 And so sometimes authority on top of authority doesn't work out well.
01:56:17.000 And I found that And my career, all I did was write and produce comedies for the first 17 years of my movie career, starting with Night Shift and then Splash and Parenthood and Nutty Professor and Liar Liar and a lot of comedies,
01:56:36.000 a lot of 5 Eddie Murphy things, Jim Carrey three times.
01:56:41.000 And what I found was Jewish writers...
01:56:47.000 Christian actors.
01:56:49.000 In the Jewish words, they go, Jew writers, goyim actor.
01:56:54.000 And goyim is like when Jewish people say, it's the Christian, you know, the Catholic guy.
01:56:59.000 It's always – I made eight movies, I think, with Tom Hanks, but he's like the Gary Cooper or he's the Christian guy with the Jewish writers.
01:57:09.000 Always that works.
01:57:11.000 Why is that?
01:57:11.000 Why?
01:57:11.000 Jew on Jew, no good.
01:57:13.000 Why?
01:57:14.000 Christian on Christian, not funny.
01:57:17.000 Really?
01:57:17.000 Yeah, it just doesn't play.
01:57:19.000 What's wrong with Jew on Jew?
01:57:22.000 Only one Jew on Jew kind of worked in the last Woody Allen.
01:57:28.000 And they weren't meteoric hits.
01:57:30.000 He was just like, you know, he was sort of dominated the ethos, you know, of comedy in the 70s and 80s.
01:57:41.000 But it just didn't work.
01:57:45.000 You can't really, but I could name, I mean, Judd Apatow, talented Jewish writer, director, usually he's got these guys that are like, they're just not that.
01:57:58.000 They're Catholic Christian guys, you know, like girls.
01:58:03.000 I mean, who's the chicken train wreck?
01:58:07.000 Melissa McCarthy.
01:58:08.000 McCarthy!
01:58:09.000 She's Catholic!
01:58:10.000 He's a Jew!
01:58:12.000 It's like, that's the counterpoint.
01:58:15.000 Is what works.
01:58:17.000 Isn't Trainwreck Emmy Schumer?
01:58:18.000 Is it Melissa McCarthy too?
01:58:19.000 Oh, you might be right.
01:58:20.000 Oh, it might be both.
01:58:21.000 Yeah.
01:58:22.000 It's both.
01:58:22.000 Oh, thank God.
01:58:23.000 Thank God we got tiebreaker here.
01:58:27.000 So anyway, do you prefer to do comedy or do you prefer just a movie that interests you?
01:58:34.000 I prefer movies just interesting.
01:58:36.000 Just whatever it is.
01:58:37.000 But there was a point like at the end of these 17 years of like, you know, there's a point where I definitely made a lot of, you know, did well financially at making these movies and I enjoy it because when you're around comedy, you're I'm happy.
01:58:50.000 You're laughing.
01:58:50.000 I mean, that's the whole vibe of the thing.
01:58:53.000 But I thought, you cannot get enough respect just doing comedy.
01:58:58.000 So I thought, I'm going to have to try to just do dramas.
01:59:00.000 Because I've come close.
01:59:02.000 I got nominated.
01:59:03.000 But that's as close as I got.
01:59:05.000 There was no way on Splash they were going to pick.
01:59:08.000 And the writers are the funny guys over there!
01:59:11.000 They picked Robert Benton, you know, like the guy that wrote A Place in the Heart, you know, or Places in the Heart.
01:59:17.000 And Bonnie and Clyde, like they picked that guy, the classy guys.
01:59:21.000 So I felt like if I want to join the classy guys, I better start doing dramas.
01:59:26.000 And then I did Apollo 13 and Ransom and a bunch of dramas.
01:59:30.000 That's interesting.
01:59:31.000 So that's what motivated you to switch it up.
01:59:33.000 Yeah, that was what motivated me.
01:59:35.000 I just couldn't take the abuse any longer.
01:59:39.000 The abuse of producing massively successful movies.
01:59:43.000 What abuse.
01:59:44.000 Yeah, I mean, I felt grateful and stuff, but I just felt like I got it.
01:59:48.000 I understand.
01:59:48.000 You didn't feel like you got the respect you deserved.
01:59:50.000 Yeah, I just feel like comedies are so hard.
01:59:55.000 You do comedy.
01:59:56.000 Comedy is the hardest thing because when it doesn't work, you hear it.
02:00:00.000 It's embarrassing.
02:00:01.000 It's bad.
02:00:02.000 Yeah.
02:00:03.000 Dramas, the great dramas, I can tell you all those dramas that we see in the last five years, They go, it's great, it's brilliant.
02:00:10.000 I mean, I don't even know what happened on some of these things.
02:00:12.000 They're so slow, right?
02:00:15.000 And there's no defining, you know, no one's clapped.
02:00:21.000 Oh, God, you hear everybody who's really quiet.
02:00:23.000 They're quiet because they're asleep.
02:00:25.000 What did you think of the Joker?
02:00:27.000 Okay.
02:00:28.000 I have to break the Joker down because I know a lot of people that are moralistically very against it.
02:00:34.000 Yes.
02:00:34.000 You know, my generation is really mad at it.
02:00:38.000 I thought as a movie, that movie was really badass.
02:00:42.000 That movie was, I thought it was really good.
02:00:45.000 Masterpiece.
02:00:46.000 Masterpiece.
02:00:47.000 Oh my god, those sequences and the going down the stairs and the music choices.
02:00:52.000 That was a masterpiece.
02:00:53.000 It was amazing.
02:00:54.000 I loved it.
02:00:55.000 Now, this other unit that you, you know, if the movie's broken down into two units, the one is the The masterpiece we're calling of the movie itself.
02:01:06.000 And then what are the themes that are giving life to this movie?
02:01:11.000 Or the purpose?
02:01:12.000 What's the purpose?
02:01:14.000 I mean, you could go, well, there could be some bad stuff in there.
02:01:20.000 But I'm not deep enough to identify it exactly.
02:01:25.000 And...
02:01:26.000 Having made so many movies, I can't be judgmental of it.
02:01:29.000 I liked it.
02:01:31.000 So I just feel like people in glasshouses shouldn't throw stones.
02:01:35.000 That's what I think.
02:01:36.000 That's a good way of looking at it.
02:01:38.000 How do you see it?
02:01:39.000 I thought it was brilliant, but very disturbing.
02:01:43.000 But it was supposed to be disturbing.
02:01:44.000 And I think they accomplished their goal with flying colors.
02:01:49.000 I think it was a very, very unusual movie.
02:01:53.000 Very difficult to find any parallels with any other previous movie.
02:01:58.000 Yeah, exactly.
02:01:59.000 I thought it was fucking amazing.
02:02:00.000 Yeah, I thought it was.
02:02:00.000 When I left, I didn't feel good.
02:02:03.000 Yeah.
02:02:03.000 I didn't feel like that.
02:02:04.000 It was like, wow.
02:02:05.000 I'm going to party.
02:02:06.000 What a great movie.
02:02:07.000 I was like, fuck.
02:02:09.000 I walked out of the theater like, fuck.
02:02:11.000 Yeah, it just blows you away.
02:02:12.000 Yeah.
02:02:13.000 It was so good.
02:02:13.000 And me and my wife talked about it for a long time.
02:02:16.000 How was she on it?
02:02:17.000 She loved it.
02:02:18.000 Oh, cool.
02:02:18.000 But it's not her kind of movie.
02:02:20.000 Yeah.
02:02:20.000 But it was...
02:02:22.000 There was something about it.
02:02:24.000 It was so well executed, and Joaquin Phoenix was amazing.
02:02:29.000 It was kind of operatic in some scenes.
02:02:31.000 I mean, where the music and everything was...
02:02:34.000 I mean, the build-up to it, too.
02:02:36.000 There was so much going on and so much madness.
02:02:39.000 And you understood.
02:02:41.000 You felt empathy for this guy who was ultimately a monster and a murderer.
02:02:45.000 Yes.
02:02:46.000 Spoiler alert.
02:02:47.000 But you felt for him.
02:02:50.000 Yeah.
02:02:51.000 You know?
02:02:51.000 I mean, in that sense, they managed to navigate those incredibly treacherous waters brilliantly.
02:02:59.000 Yeah.
02:03:00.000 I thought it was fucking awesome.
02:03:02.000 Yeah, good.
02:03:02.000 Me too.
02:03:03.000 Yeah.
02:03:03.000 I mean, that director's great.
02:03:05.000 Yeah.
02:03:06.000 No, he's great.
02:03:06.000 Todd Phillips is amazing.
02:03:07.000 I'm sure you know him.
02:03:08.000 I don't.
02:03:09.000 I have friends who know him.
02:03:10.000 Yeah.
02:03:10.000 Yeah, my friend Brian Callen, he was in The Hangover, and he was in this movie briefly, too.
02:03:14.000 Yeah.
02:03:15.000 Okay.
02:03:15.000 But I don't know him.
02:03:16.000 Yeah.
02:03:17.000 So, that's that.
02:03:18.000 That's that.
02:03:19.000 Yeah.
02:03:19.000 Brian, I gotta wrap this up.
02:03:20.000 Okay.
02:03:20.000 I really enjoyed it, man.
02:03:21.000 Thank you very, very much.
02:03:22.000 You're so welcome.
02:03:23.000 I really appreciate it.
02:03:24.000 I really enjoyed talking to you.
02:03:26.000 Thanks.
02:03:26.000 I feel really grateful to be on your show.
02:03:28.000 I feel really grateful to be able to talk to you.
02:03:31.000 Thank you.
02:03:31.000 Thank you very much.
02:03:32.000 Thanks.
02:03:33.000 Great.
02:03:33.000 Bye, everybody.
02:03:36.000 Wow.
02:03:36.000 How long do we talk?
02:03:38.000 Wow.
02:03:39.000 Wow.
02:03:39.000 Wow.
02:03:39.000 Wow.
02:03:40.000 Thank you.