The Joe Rogan Experience - July 30, 2020


Joe Rogan Experience #1517 - Nancy Panza


Episode Stats

Length

1 hour and 54 minutes

Words per Minute

180.67188

Word Count

20,705

Sentence Count

1,465

Misogynist Sentences

4

Hate Speech Sentences

8


Summary

In this episode, we discuss the recent events surrounding the death of a police officer in the wake of the George Vellian Floyd shooting, and how we can prevent similar tragedies from happening in the future. We also discuss the need for more police officers to be better trained and equipped with the skills and equipment they need to be able to respond to the increasing number of incidents involving police officers, and the lack of training that is being done in order to prevent them from responding to them in the first place. This episode is brought to you by Cal State Fullerton's Department of Psychology and the Cal State Los Angeles Police Department's Office of Emergency Management and Emergency Response Team, as well as the Department of Public Safety's Tactical Response Team and the Office of Professional Standards, and The Office of the Chief of Police, as they respond to all types of situations involving law enforcement officers and first responders in the aftermath of a shooting involving a police shooting, such as the death or attempted murder of a member of the public officer, and use of deadly force, by a suspect in the case, and what we can do to prevent future incidents like this from happening again. . We are joined by Dr. Nancy DeBaun, a forensic and Police Psychology professor at Cal State, Fullerton, to discuss the events that have occurred since the Floyd's death and what can be done to prevent more of these incidents in the near future. We also hear from J.J. Willink, a former Navy SEAL commander and former commander, to help us address the problem of training and support the police officers in the field. and how they can be better prepared for situations like this in the way the SEALs have been trained to deal with them. , and what they need more effectively to do their day to day lives. ... and much more! Thanks for listening and supporting the podcast, Joe. Thank you, Joe! Thank you for listening, Joe, for your support, and for being a good friend of the force, Joe and Joe, you're a great friend of mine, and I hope you enjoy this podcast, and thank you for being my neighbor, Joe for joining me in this conversation. -Joe and Joe and I appreciate you, I'll see you soon! -Jocko Willink - Thank you Joe, too Joe, and Joe's words of wisdom and support you, too, Joe's thoughts on this podcast and your support.


Transcript

00:00:01.000 Hello, Nancy.
00:00:02.000 Hi, Joe.
00:00:03.000 How are you?
00:00:03.000 I am doing well.
00:00:04.000 Thanks for being here.
00:00:05.000 Thank you for having me.
00:00:06.000 Thanks for letting me come and talk.
00:00:08.000 My pleasure.
00:00:09.000 So, tell everybody what you do.
00:00:11.000 So, I am, well, my day job, I'm a professor in the psychology department at Cal State Fullerton.
00:00:18.000 And in my side gig, I am a forensic and police psychologist.
00:00:23.000 That is a very appropriate subject for the strange times we find ourselves in right now.
00:00:29.000 Indeed.
00:00:30.000 So, as you are watching all this play out from the George Floyd murder to where we're at right now, what has this been like for you since this is your field of study?
00:00:46.000 It's a weird place to be in.
00:00:48.000 You're kind of, for me, caught in between two worlds, it seems.
00:00:53.000 I mean, my job is to take care of police officers, so keep them healthy, keep them well, to make sure that they can do a good job doing their jobs.
00:01:03.000 And so the first thing I see is, oof, we got a mess on our hands.
00:01:08.000 For me, when I see a lot of the videos that end up on TV, my initial reaction is, well, let's have a look.
00:01:14.000 Is there something really to be upset about here?
00:01:16.000 Well, obviously, in seeing the video of George Floyd's murder, there's a whole lot to be upset about here.
00:01:23.000 And so heartache comes from that.
00:01:27.000 And then my next response to kick in is, okay, we've got problems on both sides.
00:01:32.000 We need to not only figure out why such things are happening and prevent them, because that's not good.
00:01:39.000 Nobody wants bad policing.
00:01:40.000 Even the police don't want bad policing.
00:01:43.000 On the other hand, how do we also take care of our officers who are out there who now have to go out and continue doing their jobs in a really difficult and overwhelming environment?
00:01:54.000 Yeah, it's such a strange time because on one hand, you got all these people that are calling out for defunding the police.
00:02:01.000 And here's a point of view that Ben Shapiro had when he talked about the protests.
00:02:09.000 He said, He said, saying they're mostly peaceful protests is like saying OJ Simpson had a mostly peaceful day when he killed Nicole Simpson because he was only violent for a couple minutes.
00:02:22.000 The rest of the day, it was mostly peaceful.
00:02:25.000 And he's like, that's a good way to describe the protests.
00:02:29.000 I think you could also say the same thing about the police department.
00:02:32.000 The police department and police officers are mostly good people doing a good job.
00:02:38.000 But the problem is when one, out of all these millions of interactions, when one goes bad or there's a bad officer, people see that, they highlight that, and then they say, this is the cops, these are the cops.
00:02:50.000 I don't think that's true.
00:02:51.000 I've met a lot of great police officers.
00:02:54.000 I know a lot.
00:02:56.000 And it's an insanely difficult job.
00:02:58.000 I don't think they get paid enough.
00:03:00.000 I don't think they get respected enough.
00:03:01.000 I don't think they get trained well enough.
00:03:03.000 I had Jocko Willink on here, who's a former Navy SEAL commander, and his perspective is very clear.
00:03:10.000 He's like, they do not train enough.
00:03:11.000 He goes, if I was in control, they would be trained 20% of their time.
00:03:15.000 20% of their week would be spent in training.
00:03:17.000 De-escalation drills, safety drills, how to handle things if one of your partners is losing his cool.
00:03:24.000 All sorts of drills that they should be doing that they do do in the Navy SEALs that they should be doing in the police department as well.
00:03:31.000 Yep.
00:03:31.000 I listened to your podcast with Jocko on it and I was blown away.
00:03:35.000 Actually, I listened to it twice.
00:03:36.000 I listened to it the first time and was like, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
00:03:40.000 I loved everything that he had to say.
00:03:42.000 He's a real leader.
00:03:43.000 He's so good.
00:03:44.000 He's so good.
00:03:45.000 And his idea about training was, I mean, I'm in full agreement and full...
00:03:50.000 The 20% training thing would be super hard, especially now where we are because money's going away, not coming in.
00:03:57.000 Right.
00:03:57.000 Because that would mean 20% of the force would be off training and we'd need that many more officers and that many people on duty, you know, to fill in the active roles.
00:04:05.000 You know, while that would be a dream, and I think he's right, all those skills that you need, if you're not actively, you know, if you're not actively training and keeping them up to par, they're going to go away.
00:04:17.000 They're going to decay.
00:04:18.000 But on top of what he said, the piece where I was like, yeah, but let me come in and talk with you too, is that, you know, he thinks like the warrior that he is, you know, Navy SEAL, super tough guy, talking about firearms.
00:04:29.000 And he's right.
00:04:30.000 The firearms training is probably not enough.
00:04:32.000 But what's even more so is Especially in today's world and society is that when you look at the makeup of a police academy training, you know, first of all, it's so short.
00:04:42.000 And they do.
00:04:43.000 They get field training after that for a long period of time.
00:04:46.000 And so that's good.
00:04:47.000 It balances it out.
00:04:48.000 But the content of the academy, you know, by far most of that time in training is spent learning laws, learning that kind of textbook of what it is to be a cop and how to function.
00:04:58.000 And then the other parts, there's the physical training and the firearms training.
00:05:02.000 But if you look at what happens once a police officer gets out there on the job and what they're doing, a huge percentage of it is in communicating.
00:05:10.000 And there is almost none.
00:05:13.000 Almost none.
00:05:15.000 You know the example I think of that comes to mind most when I, prior to being at Cal State Fullerton, I was a faculty member at John Jay College of Criminal Justice in New York.
00:05:24.000 And so in the city we worked, we did some trainings with the NYPD. We had a contract to do de-escalation training.
00:05:31.000 Yeah.
00:05:52.000 Okay, ready?
00:05:53.000 Here goes this training scenario.
00:05:54.000 We pull these rookies up who are scared to death.
00:05:57.000 Give them like a block gun.
00:05:58.000 Say, okay, like wood block, not a real weapon.
00:06:01.000 You know, go to it and engage this individual.
00:06:04.000 And our actors were brilliant and portray these individuals with mental illness wonderfully.
00:06:09.000 And, you know, inevitably they'd come in hot and...
00:06:12.000 Things, you know, screaming erupts and the rookies going for their gun.
00:06:15.000 And we're like, okay, okay, okay.
00:06:17.000 Hold up.
00:06:18.000 Stop.
00:06:18.000 Let's talk about what just happened.
00:06:19.000 From the psychology side, we kind of explain here's what's going on.
00:06:22.000 Here's why that didn't work with this type of individual.
00:06:25.000 The police, you know, would come in on the tactics side and we'd say, okay, rewind.
00:06:29.000 Do over.
00:06:29.000 And then we would run them through the scenario and we would keep stopping and starting.
00:06:33.000 And this interactive, like, hands-on training, by the end of the day, they were like, I learned more today than I learned in the last two months.
00:06:40.000 Yeah.
00:06:40.000 But we got them for one day.
00:06:41.000 Right.
00:06:42.000 Six hours.
00:06:43.000 And then that's it.
00:06:44.000 You know, so that whole constant training and giving the skills, not just the firearms and the tactics and the, you know, how to use force properly, but also...
00:06:54.000 The communication and dealing with these stressful situations and distressed individuals because that is what they do non-stop, day in and day out.
00:07:04.000 Yeah, I know what you're saying when you were talking about how difficult it would be to actually have them train 20% of the time, but I don't think it's difficult enough that we should ignore it.
00:07:17.000 Obviously, I'm never going to be in control, but if I was in control, I would say that's how it's got to be.
00:07:23.000 We have to hire more people.
00:07:25.000 I think they need way more people, way better training.
00:07:28.000 And I think there also has to be evaluations in terms of, like, how are they dealing with stress?
00:07:34.000 Because it's not just how to de-escalate, how to deal with a situation with a possible criminal, but also how are you dealing with the fact that every time you go to work you might get shot?
00:07:47.000 You might not ever come home to your family.
00:07:49.000 How many times do you see suicides?
00:07:51.000 How many times do you see murders?
00:07:53.000 How many times do you see car accidents?
00:07:55.000 All that stuff weighs on a person.
00:07:58.000 Absolutely.
00:07:58.000 And all those police officers that see that stuff every day, depending entirely upon, and that's one of the things Jaco talked about, their psychological makeup.
00:08:06.000 He talked about it with soldiers.
00:08:08.000 Some soldiers can see some crazy shit and be like, it's okay, I'm good to go.
00:08:12.000 And then other soldiers are like, I'm fucked up.
00:08:15.000 I don't know what to do here.
00:08:16.000 I have anxiety.
00:08:17.000 I can't sleep.
00:08:18.000 I'm a nervous wreck.
00:08:20.000 Same thing is true for cops.
00:08:22.000 Some folks are, they can go through, you know, have the worst call that you could imagine.
00:08:28.000 Death, gore, you know, loss of a child's life.
00:08:30.000 I mean, these things are horrific.
00:08:32.000 And they see it and, you know, they react and it's awful.
00:08:36.000 But they recover and they're okay the next day.
00:08:39.000 And then, you know...
00:08:40.000 On the opposite hand, you've got somebody who has maybe a less intense or, you know, a less horrific call, and it just puts them over the edge.
00:08:48.000 And, you know, from the psychology side, you know, we've studied this.
00:08:50.000 We've looked at this.
00:08:51.000 How can we tell?
00:08:52.000 Is there a way we can predict, you know, what type of event, what type of person?
00:08:56.000 Who is likely to fall apart, to end up with, you know, post-traumatic stress disorder?
00:09:02.000 Can we tell who's likely to develop, you know, a clinical syndrome later?
00:09:06.000 And the shorter answer is we can't.
00:09:09.000 There are some things that we know, and obviously, you know, some of them are really logical.
00:09:13.000 If you're in a higher state of stress, if you've already got vulnerabilities going in, you're, you know, going through a divorce at home and unhappy on the job and drinking too much outside, and you've got all these other things that are already, you know, festering underneath, and then you also are put in front of that, you know, it's not surprising that maybe that would push somebody over the edge into a really troubling place.
00:09:33.000 But other times...
00:09:35.000 You know, it's a really hard thing to predict.
00:09:38.000 And so instead, we need to be there and be on it.
00:09:41.000 And there, I mean, there's so many things I can add in about, you know, how we do that in ways that we're really falling short, which is kind of my passion and where I am these days, in trying to do a much better job of being on, you know, what we would call officer wellness,
00:09:57.000 because we've historically done a really shitty job.
00:10:01.000 Is there a standard procedure like when someone comes back from say witnessing a murder?
00:10:07.000 Is there a standard way that they interact with them across all police departments or is it depending upon the department and what set up the sheriff or the police chief has put in place?
00:10:18.000 Yeah, very much depending on the department and what they put in place.
00:10:21.000 So when it comes to like the mental health and psychology, the things that we do with departments are, it's very standard these days.
00:10:30.000 Like I think the numbers show about 98% of departments do a pre-employment psychological evaluation before they're hired.
00:10:39.000 That's what I spend the majority of my time doing, is screening people who are starting the job.
00:10:44.000 So that part is very normal to do.
00:10:46.000 And I can tell you all about that process.
00:10:48.000 So beyond that, what happens from there on out is very much up in the air.
00:10:54.000 It depends on the department.
00:10:55.000 Some departments require what we would call a critical incident debriefing.
00:11:00.000 So some of the agencies that I work with will, if somebody is involved or there's a major incident, every officer who is on scene there We'll come in and do a debriefing with me or with another psychologist to check in afterwards.
00:11:14.000 And a lot of that is just, where are they?
00:11:16.000 How are they in this moment?
00:11:18.000 Are they okay to go home?
00:11:19.000 Are they safe?
00:11:20.000 How do you determine that?
00:11:21.000 And education.
00:11:22.000 Is it just a judgment call?
00:11:24.000 It is.
00:11:24.000 It's a judgment call.
00:11:26.000 And the ones that I've done, I would say most of the time it feels pretty clear cut.
00:11:32.000 Most of the time folks are either they're doing all right, they're a little shaken up, which is normal.
00:11:38.000 I mean, anybody who experiences something life-threatening is going to be off at that point.
00:11:43.000 So a lot of what we do in those debriefings is education.
00:11:47.000 I have these little handouts that I give to all the officers that go through and say, this is what you are likely feeling right now.
00:11:53.000 This is what you're likely to feel in the next couple days.
00:11:56.000 And anything kind of goes.
00:11:57.000 You know, we say in those first few days, whatever you're feeling is probably okay.
00:12:03.000 But then over the course of the first week, we expect people to settle in and to start recovering.
00:12:07.000 And if you're not, then we want to start paying attention to the ways.
00:12:11.000 Are you still not sleeping?
00:12:12.000 Are you having nightmares?
00:12:13.000 Are you having flash?
00:12:14.000 You know, what's going on?
00:12:15.000 And, you know, again, It varies by department.
00:12:18.000 Some of them will then also offer up to four sessions to come back and continue meeting to see them through that kind of early adjustment phase.
00:12:29.000 And then if they're still struggling at the point at the end, then we can refer them to longer term for treatment.
00:12:35.000 And if everything looks fine, then we say, okay, you know, resume duty or clear to go back.
00:12:40.000 So that initial meeting afterwards is mandatory, at least for the departments that choose to do it.
00:12:46.000 That's a mandatory.
00:12:47.000 A couple sessions afterwards are not.
00:12:49.000 They're if needed.
00:12:51.000 And then from there, we kind of set the path like, all good, clear, or let's carry on and keep, you know, keep working with you until you can recover.
00:12:59.000 Do you support this idea that it should be controlled locally by each individual police department, or do you think there should be a nationwide mandate, like some sort of a standard operational procedure where they treat everyone the same way, train everyone the same way,
00:13:16.000 deal with every single murder, suicide, child death, and they have like a protocol that they follow.
00:13:23.000 So it's just standard across the country, based on science.
00:13:28.000 I do.
00:13:29.000 I think many of these things, these fundamental pieces, should be mandatory.
00:13:34.000 I think pre-employment psychological evaluation is an absolute must.
00:13:38.000 And again, most agencies do that piece.
00:13:41.000 I think the critical incident debriefings are an absolute must and should always occur.
00:13:46.000 And they should be mandatory because that takes away the stigma.
00:13:48.000 No cop wants to come see the shrink.
00:13:50.000 They see you coming and they're like, I'm out of here.
00:13:53.000 No, keep the shrink away.
00:13:55.000 But they're probably trying to deal with it their own way.
00:13:57.000 Yeah.
00:13:58.000 And then somebody that they don't even know who comes in and starts probing and asking questions and they see some guy in a suit.
00:14:04.000 Maybe he's never even seen a dead body.
00:14:07.000 And you're like, hey, shut the fuck up, man.
00:14:09.000 I know what I'm doing.
00:14:09.000 Let me just go back out there and go to work.
00:14:11.000 And the other things that feed into that are, I mean, obviously we know law enforcement, just like military, the culture is very, I'm in control.
00:14:18.000 I got this.
00:14:19.000 I don't need your help.
00:14:20.000 I am tough.
00:14:22.000 And supported by each other.
00:14:23.000 And we are each other.
00:14:25.000 And so that culture doesn't make it inviting to come and talk to a shrink or an outside person.
00:14:34.000 And the other part is that officers are really fearful of losing their jobs, having their livelihood taken away.
00:14:41.000 That's a huge deal.
00:14:43.000 And depending on the psychologist, if they're seeing somebody who is not familiar with law enforcement culture or who is real quick to judge and to jump on the, no, no, we can't have this person out there with a badge and a gun, there's a really delicate line there.
00:14:58.000 You obviously don't want somebody who's unstable.
00:15:00.000 To be out there, we want to take care of them and get them healed.
00:15:03.000 But at the same time, this is someone's livelihood.
00:15:06.000 This is their being.
00:15:08.000 This is who they are.
00:15:09.000 And to take that away It's a subjective judgment call.
00:15:33.000 So that's where it gets weird.
00:15:34.000 I mean, and I can make a comparison to refereeing in fights.
00:15:38.000 Some referees stop fights where other referees would let the fights go on.
00:15:42.000 And it makes people so angry when they stop a fight quickly.
00:15:46.000 If someone comes in and says, this guy's not ready, he can't go back on the force.
00:15:49.000 And the guy's like, what are you talking about?
00:15:51.000 I'm fine.
00:15:51.000 Right.
00:15:52.000 Maybe he is fine and maybe the guy just has a weird sense of people.
00:15:56.000 When you have judgment calls like that, what criteria are they using?
00:16:01.000 Are they using just their own personal opinion?
00:16:04.000 Do they have to fit a set of guidelines?
00:16:08.000 When they say this guy's not fit to go back on the street, he's seen too much, he's too shaken up by this murder scene, how do they make that call?
00:16:17.000 So it kind of depends on what scenario you're making that decision.
00:16:22.000 And there's two different levels that are most likely.
00:16:25.000 So the debriefing is usually – unless the person is completely shaken.
00:16:32.000 Let's do a scenario.
00:16:34.000 Okay.
00:16:36.000 Guy pulls some guy over.
00:16:38.000 The guy reaches for a gun, shoots at the officer.
00:16:41.000 The officer shoots the person, kills him.
00:16:44.000 You know, big investigation, news, the whole deal.
00:16:47.000 The guy's on television.
00:16:48.000 They show the body cam footage.
00:16:51.000 And then this guy has to do an evaluation and then go back to work again.
00:16:56.000 How would one decide whether or not that guy's okay to go back to work?
00:17:00.000 Probably going to look at multiple factors.
00:17:02.000 Mental state.
00:17:03.000 Basic mental state is our starting point.
00:17:05.000 And how do you do that?
00:17:05.000 So, questions.
00:17:07.000 In the debriefing, we're unlikely to pull into our bag of tests, which, you know, in the other scenarios, big psych evals, we're going to dig into our tests.
00:17:14.000 That's what we do as psychologists.
00:17:15.000 When you say tests, you're not like fMRIs or anything like that?
00:17:18.000 No, like MMPI. Let me throw out other letters.
00:17:20.000 What is that?
00:17:20.000 Like the personality tests and tests that show different levels of, you know, of pathology or clinical issues and problems.
00:17:28.000 Anxiety, depression...
00:17:29.000 You know, bodily dysfunction, all those things.
00:17:32.000 Do you do a physical examination, check their heart rate, blood pressure?
00:17:36.000 I wouldn't.
00:17:36.000 As a psychologist, I would not.
00:17:37.000 So what I'm looking at is their mental state and just basically their overall functioning.
00:17:42.000 So are they able to go about their daily activities, you know, and if this is right after the scene, I won't know this yet.
00:17:49.000 If it's right after the scene, I will be going and sitting down talking with them.
00:17:54.000 If they want to talk about what happened and kind of run through the scenario, we have them do that.
00:17:58.000 That can be very telling if they're comfortable sharing that detail.
00:18:02.000 Are they able to describe it?
00:18:04.000 Are they able to get through it without breaking down?
00:18:07.000 Are they able to talk, you know, sort of clearly?
00:18:10.000 Even emotionally is expected and fine.
00:18:13.000 In fact, somebody who has zero emotion after that, I would be like, you know, what's happening?
00:18:18.000 What are you feeling?
00:18:19.000 Right.
00:18:19.000 But in that, you know, immediate part after, it's really just looking to see what's going on.
00:18:26.000 What's happening?
00:18:27.000 Are they able to function?
00:18:28.000 Are they able to safely go home?
00:18:30.000 Are they having any thoughts about hurting themselves?
00:18:32.000 Are they, you know, are they feeling like they are, you know, kind of losing their mind?
00:18:37.000 Anything that just is completely out in left field.
00:18:40.000 What we often do is we're going to go on the scene only if the agency wants someone to check in right there.
00:18:47.000 I more often than not see them a day later.
00:18:50.000 Usually our rule here is within the first 48 hours.
00:18:53.000 So I'll see them within the first couple days afterwards, and they'll come in.
00:18:56.000 And at that point, they've been able to get through at least one night of sleep.
00:18:59.000 I can see if they're sleeping, if they're eating, if they've spoken to anyone.
00:19:04.000 Are they having any major really strong emotional reactions?
00:19:07.000 And so we're kind of looking to see, what are you feeling?
00:19:09.000 What are you thinking?
00:19:11.000 What's happening?
00:19:12.000 And is it kind of within the realm of what we would expect?
00:19:15.000 And do you need any additional supports right now while you're in this sort of immediate short-term aftermath?
00:19:23.000 The only times that really I'm likely to say you're not ready to go back are the ones that stand out are when, number one, the officer, him or herself, says, I cannot do this right now.
00:19:36.000 How many times have you seen that?
00:19:38.000 It's rare.
00:19:39.000 It's rare.
00:19:40.000 I mean...
00:19:43.000 Maybe four times.
00:19:45.000 In how many years?
00:19:49.000 Well, total years I've been doing this for about 15, but more recently out here in the last few is kind of what I'm thinking of since I've been doing more than, you know, out of a few hundred.
00:20:00.000 So it's not...
00:20:01.000 And so what is the protocol?
00:20:03.000 How is that handled?
00:20:04.000 Say if there's an officer that can't go back, they say, I just can't handle this right now.
00:20:08.000 Maybe they see a horrific child murder or something like that.
00:20:11.000 What do they do to get back on track and what assistance does the force offer them?
00:20:18.000 So the odds are that even without – in that scenario, if they've been involved in a shooting, and especially being the shooter, they're likely to be on an admin leave anyway while everything's being reviewed because the agency side, you know, the investigations and all the procedures and checks are going on.
00:20:34.000 So they're probably not going back out to the street right away anyway while all of that stuff gets cleared.
00:20:38.000 So that's a good thing.
00:20:40.000 They get a few days to – You know, get their wits about them while they're, you know, kind of calming down and recovering from that.
00:20:47.000 So, you know, odds are they're not jumping right back out anyway.
00:20:52.000 But what happens in that time, you know, if we say, okay, somebody's just not ready, we usually say, let's check back in in a week or two weeks, depending on, you know, I usually will discuss it with them and say, you know what, let's meet again in a week.
00:21:04.000 Take the time and then I'll check back in with the agency.
00:21:07.000 So they're just on their own?
00:21:08.000 We need more time here.
00:21:10.000 When you say time, just leave them alone, let them figure it out themselves?
00:21:13.000 Well, let them go.
00:21:15.000 If they want to come in and continue, if it's an urgent matter, the person's feeling like they might hurt themselves, we're going to continue to see and support and do whatever we need to do to take care of that person.
00:21:24.000 That is a giant issue, too.
00:21:26.000 I mean, suicide amongst police officers is a huge issue.
00:21:30.000 Huge.
00:21:30.000 Although, it's much more likely to happen from somebody who has not recently been seen.
00:21:38.000 The suicides that happen are the ones that are out there.
00:21:41.000 They're still functioning on the job.
00:21:42.000 We have no idea what's going on because nobody is checking in on that person's mental health.
00:21:47.000 Okay, so it's not after seeing some horrific incident or being a part of a shooting.
00:21:52.000 It's just the overall stress of the job.
00:21:54.000 Right.
00:21:56.000 That is one of the biggest problems out there.
00:21:59.000 I feel like we do an okay job having these debriefings right afterwards because we can monitor, we check back in periodically, and we keep touching base until we're feeling comfortable that the person's good.
00:22:11.000 We also, in those debriefings, get to educate them and say, hey, here are, you know, I give them those flyers and say, look, here's what we know.
00:22:17.000 Here's some good things to do.
00:22:18.000 Here's some bad things to do.
00:22:19.000 Here's what it might feel like.
00:22:21.000 If any of these things are off, here's my information.
00:22:23.000 Call me and come back in.
00:22:26.000 Is it a real problem with cops just not wanting to help because they're, you know...
00:22:31.000 The fear.
00:22:32.000 The fear also, and they're tough guys, a lot of them, and tough girls.
00:22:37.000 They're tough.
00:22:37.000 They're like, I got it.
00:22:39.000 I've got this.
00:22:40.000 I mean, the whole job is about being in control.
00:22:42.000 Every scene you roll up on, you are in control.
00:22:45.000 That command presence is necessary to be an officer.
00:22:49.000 And so to not be in control, it just feels terrible.
00:22:54.000 And I mean, for anybody...
00:22:56.000 For any human, it's hard to make a call to a therapist and say, I need a little help.
00:23:01.000 Anybody who's thought, you know what, I'm not doing so well right now.
00:23:04.000 I really feel like I could use picking up that phone and calling to seek help is a big deal.
00:23:08.000 So for a police officer, yeah, there's a stigma.
00:23:11.000 There's a, do I really need this?
00:23:13.000 It just is hard to pick up.
00:23:15.000 You don't want to be the person that wants help all the time.
00:23:18.000 Like, hey, figure it out yourself.
00:23:19.000 And can this person really help me?
00:23:21.000 Who's this going to be?
00:23:22.000 How do I find it there?
00:23:23.000 There's a lot of factors.
00:23:24.000 The most frequent question I get from my friends and family and people are like, I'm thinking I might need to see someone.
00:23:28.000 Like, how do I go about doing that?
00:23:30.000 Get that question all the time.
00:23:32.000 So yeah, for cops, it's even bigger because of that whole control thing.
00:23:36.000 And also, like I said before, their job is on the line.
00:23:39.000 Of course.
00:23:40.000 So for these cops that are in that situation, so when they say, look, I need to take some time off, you basically just leave them alone and say, if you want these resources, here they are.
00:23:52.000 Or did they, I mean, is what...
00:23:55.000 Again, it's going to vary by department.
00:23:57.000 Isn't that kind of crazy that it does vary by department?
00:23:59.000 Yeah, it drives me nuts.
00:24:01.000 And has this discussion been had, like, nationwide?
00:24:05.000 Oh, there's so many good things and pieces of advice and recommendation out there.
00:24:11.000 One of the things that's kind of painful right now is, you know, every morning I get a news recap from the International Association of Chiefs of Police.
00:24:20.000 They send this email out to all the members of there and they have the psychological services group.
00:24:25.000 And so you get these updates and I usually just kind of pass them over.
00:24:29.000 But lately with all the police reform, so it's just headlines from around the country.
00:24:33.000 And the piecemeal That randomness of this city's doing this and this city's doing this and this city's doing this and it's all over the place.
00:24:43.000 That's driving me nuts because I'm like, there's already been groups that have studied and reported and told us what we need to do to help the world of policing rise up and do better.
00:24:54.000 That information's out there from wonderful, brilliant people who've come together and have laid it out for us.
00:25:01.000 It's there, but yet we don't have that national standard.
00:25:07.000 Each state has certain...
00:25:09.000 Most states have a group.
00:25:11.000 Like in California, it's the California Post.
00:25:14.000 It's the police officer standards and training.
00:25:17.000 So they set all the rules for minimal training requirements for all the departments in California.
00:25:24.000 So all the police agencies here in this state...
00:25:28.000 Are, you know, need to comply with all of the post recommendations.
00:25:31.000 But they're all, you know, it's a minimum standard.
00:25:33.000 And our post, California Post, is kind of heads and tails ahead of most of the country.
00:25:38.000 Some states don't actually have that organization.
00:25:41.000 Most do have something similar to like what we have.
00:25:44.000 So they do set some standards.
00:25:46.000 But there's so many things that are not included in that.
00:25:50.000 And so it is a bit, you know, random.
00:25:54.000 It's hard, I think, to make a one-size-fits-all, everybody must do this, because if you think about it, I think there's about 18,000 different police agencies in the U.S., and I think I read about 50 percent of those have 10 or fewer full-time officers.
00:26:10.000 So, you know, when you've got podunk, tiny little town in the middle of, you know, the Midwest in a very rural county that's, you know, that's a whole lot different than LAPD. Right.
00:26:23.000 It's hard to have everybody on the same standard and the same expectations when we've got a lot of different makeups for a lot of different departments.
00:26:30.000 That said, there are some fundamentals that I think every department should be held to.
00:26:37.000 And one of those is the debriefings after an incident.
00:26:40.000 And the one that almost no one is doing, that's been talked about for a while, is regular mental wellness checks.
00:26:48.000 You know, at this point, you get a psyche vow when you're hired.
00:26:58.000 We're good to go.
00:27:13.000 And that is a scary evaluation to have to be a part of.
00:27:17.000 Because then you're going in and, yeah, if the psychologist judges and decides that you are not able to go back out, well, then you're off duty until you can fix whatever that problem may be.
00:27:29.000 Right.
00:27:30.000 Well, also, just for the public's health and welfare, it's important to do that.
00:27:34.000 Sure.
00:27:35.000 I mean, there clearly are a lot of police officers that are unfit for duty.
00:27:39.000 How do we stop what happened in Minneapolis?
00:27:44.000 How do we stop that from happening or at least mitigate it?
00:27:49.000 So, I mean, again, I see everything through my lens as a psychologist, as a police psychologist.
00:27:54.000 So I'm sure there are things beyond my realm that also answer this question.
00:27:59.000 But for me, the things that I think we could be doing different that would really make a difference are the regular annual mental wellness checks.
00:28:10.000 From my perspective, when I look at people like Derek Chauvin, the officer that murdered George Floyd, and we see what happened there, I would say, I would be willing to guess, and I don't know him.
00:28:23.000 I've never met him.
00:28:24.000 I don't know much about his career other than what I've read in the news and whatnot.
00:28:29.000 Police officers that get to that place become that.
00:28:33.000 They're not that when they're hired.
00:28:35.000 To get hired as a cop, you have to go through what often takes a year-long application process where they are digging and poking into every aspect of your background, your life.
00:28:45.000 Let's be clear, though.
00:28:45.000 That's in some places.
00:28:46.000 In other places, it's pretty easy.
00:28:49.000 Again, smaller departments that don't have the resources, probably so.
00:28:53.000 I shouldn't say pretty easy, in comparison.
00:28:57.000 In comparison, yeah.
00:28:58.000 But the vast majority of departments have a similar process in that you're going to go through the application, you have to pass a written test, there's going to be a background investigation, which really I think is a hugely powerful key part.
00:29:13.000 That it should be a well-done background investigation.
00:29:16.000 You know, they're talking to people who you know, people from your past, your landlord, your ex-wife, your girlfriend, your boyfriend, your whoever.
00:29:22.000 They have the resources to do that for every single candidate?
00:29:24.000 They do.
00:29:24.000 Now, some agencies take far more care than others.
00:29:27.000 Right.
00:29:28.000 The wide variety of people that I see that have Past their backgrounds, some agencies I work for send me the most amazingly clean candidates, and others that are trying to hire a lot, squeaky clean.
00:29:40.000 But they've all gone through, and it has, you know, gone through this background.
00:29:43.000 They also do a polygraph.
00:29:45.000 They do social media checks.
00:29:47.000 They, you know, they make you list all your tattoos.
00:29:50.000 And, you know, so they're looking for.
00:29:52.000 And if there is somebody who is just...
00:29:54.000 Flagrantly racist has, you know, been out there toting white supremacy.
00:30:00.000 Like they're going to see that somewhere in that digging around.
00:30:03.000 So the blatant racist folks are likely weeded out during a good background process.
00:30:10.000 Let's say maybe they're not as openly because, you know, we all know that people No better than to admit to such things most of the time these days, and it could be more subtle.
00:30:19.000 So at that point, what comes next?
00:30:21.000 You've got oral interviews with, you know, police administrators, a polygraph, you know, coming along in there.
00:30:27.000 And once they pass all of that, That's when they come to the last, they get their conditional offer of employment.
00:30:32.000 So they're basically like, as long as you get through these last two steps, you're good to go for the academy.
00:30:37.000 And the last two steps are the medical evaluation and the psych eval.
00:30:41.000 So by the time we get them, they have been heavily vetted.
00:30:45.000 Poked around, you know, and looked through in their past.
00:30:49.000 And we get a pretty clean group of people.
00:30:53.000 But then we get to do more digging and we get to ask questions at this point that they're not able to ask before.
00:30:58.000 So about mental health and background and psychological treatment and history.
00:31:02.000 And so, you know, and then if they get through these evaluations, then they go on to the academy.
00:31:08.000 So for us, that vetting process, that psych eval is a really important place.
00:31:13.000 And I've had a lot of conversations with other psychologists, you know, in the past few months, like, what are we missing?
00:31:19.000 I've had, I taught a workshop a couple months ago for other police psychologists on, you know, some of the things we do in these pre-employments and had someone say, how do we screen out the cops who kill?
00:31:30.000 And I said...
00:31:32.000 We can't.
00:31:33.000 And that was not a good answer.
00:31:35.000 We can't.
00:31:36.000 We can't because what we're doing here is predicting the future, right?
00:31:40.000 Where we're saying, how do we know who is going to be that person who does that later?
00:31:46.000 Predicting the future is incredibly hard.
00:31:50.000 Figuring out who may be, you know, subtly racist or biased is also incredibly hard.
00:31:57.000 So that said, we do a whole lot of things.
00:31:59.000 We've got our psychological tests that we give.
00:32:01.000 We ask a lot of crafty questions and we dig as deep as we can to try to, again, weed out anyone who we think could potentially become that person down the road who could be a cop who kills or who...
00:32:13.000 You know, is racist and biased and is treating people improperly.
00:32:16.000 So, you know, that's one big thing that we want to be very cautious and make sure we're doing a good job of screening up front.
00:32:23.000 But I would say, and so much more to say about the tests and the screening, but it gets really nerdy and detailed.
00:32:29.000 I would say that the officers who end up having the most problems are the ones who, once they get on, are in a department where that is the culture.
00:32:38.000 That is, that those types of behaviors are acceptable.
00:32:41.000 So as a young officer, they learned that.
00:32:44.000 Have you ever seen the documentary, The 7-5?
00:32:47.000 I have not.
00:32:48.000 It's a great documentary about Michael Dowd, who has been a guest on the podcast.
00:32:52.000 He was a terrible cop and talks openly about how he was corrupted and how his first day on the force he witnessed corruption and was told to shut his mouth and further went on to become a drug dealer and robbing drug dealers.
00:33:08.000 It's a crazy documentary.
00:33:10.000 You would enjoy it, particularly from a psychological perspective because he's talking about it after having served time.
00:33:18.000 Showing the images from the time and telling the stories.
00:33:22.000 The culture of each individual department is different.
00:33:28.000 There's a great video of Flint, Michigan, where these police officers, after the George Floyd death, they show up for these protests and tell these people protesting, we're going to march with you.
00:33:43.000 We're a part of this community, too.
00:33:45.000 We're your friends.
00:33:47.000 We are police officers, but we are not the person who did that thing, and we wouldn't do that thing, and we want to show you that we support you and that we're here to help.
00:33:54.000 That's what really we want.
00:33:55.000 It's beautiful.
00:33:56.000 It's so cool to see them all march together and they're hugging.
00:34:00.000 That's what we want, right?
00:34:02.000 That is.
00:34:02.000 And I think that one of the biggest things when we, you know, how do we prevent these issues is we need to look at the individual officer level.
00:34:12.000 We need to look at the culture.
00:34:18.000 Has developed that way over time.
00:34:20.000 And I think one of the pieces is the culture in the department.
00:34:23.000 Is this something that's acceptable?
00:34:25.000 Is there corruption in that department?
00:34:27.000 And so certainly better oversight and tracking is a really important thing that should happen.
00:34:32.000 But the other piece and the one that I focus more on from my end is the wellness.
00:34:37.000 Is this somebody who is burning out?
00:34:40.000 Is this somebody who has gone into a dangerous place psychologically that they started out and they were fine when we screened them up front?
00:34:48.000 But, you know, over 5 or 10 or 15 years, they've seen so much.
00:34:52.000 And, you know, there's some – things happen in your brain that change the way you think and see and perceive the world when you do this type of work.
00:35:01.000 And when you get to a place where those processes have really taken their toll and somebody has gone down this kind of dark path – It's hard to come out of that.
00:35:12.000 And the way they react to the world and the individuals that they see on a daily basis is going to be very different than what they look like when they were hired.
00:35:20.000 So if we're not regularly checking in and seeing who might be at risk for going to that dark place, that bitter and angry place, you know, we're not able to catch them before something happens.
00:35:34.000 And that's where, you know, for me, my big platform is regular wellness checks.
00:35:38.000 I'm not the first one to come up with this idea.
00:35:41.000 It's been suggested by task forces and study groups and people who know a whole lot more than I do for a while now.
00:35:48.000 But in reading, there was a wonderful report to Congress that was put out by the COPS, which is Community Oriented Policing Services.
00:35:59.000 They sent this, like, 60-page report to Congress I think?
00:36:18.000 Are they helpful?
00:36:20.000 Can they prevent this?
00:36:21.000 And I believe they are.
00:36:23.000 So my next big thing is to go and explore and do that research so that we can show, hey, this does help.
00:36:32.000 If we're touching base and we're getting people in, then we can catch the problems as they develop.
00:36:38.000 And before they become a major problem where someone's interacting with the community and they go awry and do something awful.
00:36:44.000 Let's take care of them along the way and catch the problems before they become behaviors that are problematic.
00:36:53.000 There seems to be a lot of discussion now about police brutality, but there's not a lot of discussion about the psychological troubles and the really difficult path of being a police officer and appreciation for the people that have to do that job.
00:37:12.000 All this defunding the police talk scares the shit out of me because I see what's going on right now in New York City and it's a goddamn shooting gallery.
00:37:22.000 It's crazy.
00:37:23.000 And the reason why is because the police officers have no trust in the mayor.
00:37:28.000 They want to quit.
00:37:30.000 They don't feel like they get any respect.
00:37:31.000 They feel like they have all been lumped in With this one murderous cop from Minneapolis, now they're all bad cops, and there's a license to call them bad cops, scream terrible things at them when they've done nothing wrong, when they're just there to protect and serve.
00:37:47.000 A lot of them are good people, the vast majority.
00:37:50.000 So when you're seeing this giant uptick in murders in New York City, and giant uptick in shootings, and then you still have that dipshit of a mayor calling for the defunding of the police, like, my God, like, what...
00:38:03.000 I know so much of the things they say are just political because they just want to appeal to their base and there's so many people out there that have this very narrow-minded perspective.
00:38:14.000 They just have blinders on and their ideas like racial justice, social justice, defund the police.
00:38:19.000 It's like this mantra that they have to say with no depth to it.
00:38:23.000 They don't understand the consequences of saying such a thing or implementing such a thing.
00:38:28.000 Now we're seeing A call for police action because there's a lot of people these a lot of community groups a lot of people that are community leaders that are in these communities that are just Experienced unprecedented gun violence and crime and now they're saying we got to do something about this So they're trying to reinstate some of these policies that they had pulled before I'm hoping That through this,
00:38:53.000 what we talked about with training and with funding the police more, instead of defunding the police, train them better, fund them more.
00:39:03.000 You obviously need police.
00:39:05.000 This idea that you don't need police.
00:39:06.000 Are criminals just going to go away?
00:39:09.000 Is crime going to go away?
00:39:10.000 We have a problem.
00:39:12.000 We have an enormous number of people, and out of that enormous number of people, there is a certain percentage of them that will victimize other people.
00:39:20.000 They will steal, they will kill, and if they don't get caught, then you develop a culture of crime.
00:39:26.000 And then you develop a thing where you basically have what's going on in Mexico.
00:39:32.000 Where the cartels have more power than the police, which is a terrible situation.
00:39:37.000 If you have that in individual locations like in New York City, if all of a sudden these criminal gangs develop more gun power, more support of the community, they have more people than police officers, you've got a giant problem.
00:39:53.000 And the actual peaceful citizens are the ones that are going to be in trouble.
00:39:57.000 And all those people that are out there protesting that think they're immune from it because they're the ones saying defund the police, hey man, they'll fucking rob you too.
00:40:05.000 They'll shoot you too.
00:40:06.000 Like you don't understand humans and you don't understand violence.
00:40:09.000 And so this utopian world that they're trying to push, like defund the police, we're just going to, we're going to refund, we're going to put that money into the community and everything's going to be fine.
00:40:17.000 It's not going to be fine.
00:40:19.000 You need to fund the police more.
00:40:20.000 You need to train the police better.
00:40:22.000 We need more oversight.
00:40:23.000 And we need to recognize that this is a time where everybody's got to come together on this.
00:40:28.000 And we've got to figure out what's wrong, fix what's wrong, recognize that there's some problems.
00:40:32.000 But you can't blame all cops.
00:40:34.000 And you can't say defund the police, because that's nonsense.
00:40:37.000 That is a silly...
00:40:41.000 Like a version of life that doesn't...
00:40:43.000 It's not real.
00:40:44.000 You need good cops, better cops.
00:40:47.000 Are you saying we need to get rid of bad cops?
00:40:49.000 Yes.
00:40:49.000 Definitely.
00:40:50.000 I think everybody agrees with that.
00:40:52.000 How do you do that?
00:40:53.000 That's where the question starts.
00:40:54.000 And...
00:40:55.000 Training them more.
00:40:57.000 Like this idea that you can't spend 20% of the time training them.
00:41:00.000 Well, if you did spend 20% of the time training them, and there was a lot less crime because of it, and the interactions with people were much better, wouldn't that just be overall better?
00:41:09.000 Is that an impossible task?
00:41:11.000 I mean, how much money goes into the police department?
00:41:14.000 You tell me you can't add 20% to that and train them more?
00:41:18.000 I bet you can.
00:41:19.000 And I bet you could find it Financially beneficial.
00:41:23.000 I would say overall, if you could reduce crime that way and reduce the animosity between citizens and the police, wouldn't that be better for everybody?
00:41:33.000 It would.
00:41:33.000 And I agree.
00:41:34.000 I agree with you.
00:41:36.000 I mean, on the defunding thing, you know, I think, and you've had other people say this too, and you know this, I'm not saying anything amazing here, that like, it means different things to different people.
00:41:46.000 And I wholeheartedly agree.
00:41:48.000 The folks who think defunding means like, just get rid of them.
00:41:51.000 Like that.
00:41:52.000 That's silly.
00:41:53.000 What's your plan B? What do you do?
00:41:55.000 I don't think they really mean that.
00:41:56.000 I don't understand what happens next, and I haven't heard anybody articulate, so then what?
00:42:02.000 There is no then.
00:42:03.000 That's why.
00:42:04.000 No one has a then what.
00:42:05.000 Those are the emails I get that talk the headlines.
00:42:07.000 I saw one yesterday or the day before that in Minneapolis now there are groups of citizens banding together online.
00:42:13.000 Yeah.
00:42:20.000 Yeah.
00:42:22.000 Yeah.
00:42:24.000 Yeah.
00:42:34.000 The anger and the frustration because you're right, we don't need bad cops.
00:42:37.000 There's nothing worse than the person you call to protect you and to help you when you're in an emergency doing the wrong thing and doing harm.
00:42:46.000 We don't need or want that.
00:42:48.000 And I wholeheartedly agree that more training and the right type of training and spending that time because I also think that the training gives you Access to see where people are and if they are on a good path or if they are that problematic person.
00:43:02.000 You see what kind of character they have too if you test them during this training.
00:43:06.000 So if we're seeing them on a regular basis and pulling them out and giving them the tools that they need, then absolutely I think that is an exceptional thing to do.
00:43:15.000 That was part of what your podcast with Jocko just blew me away with the way he talked about.
00:43:21.000 And the other thing that sort of has gotten lost is this whole idea of You know, the interaction with the community, with community-oriented policing.
00:43:30.000 You know, and it's exactly what Jocko was talking about when he was talking about being overseas and I think he was talking about Petraeus and the order of, you know, you don't just roll up in your tank and cruise through.
00:43:40.000 You stop and you talk and you humanize yourself and you engage with these, you know, with the folks here and you let them know that you're here to protect and to serve and you connect with them.
00:43:51.000 And that helps both the community citizens and the soldiers.
00:43:55.000 That's the same thing that we're wanting here at home in this country, that your police are supposed to be your supporters and your resources and the people that you trust and are connected to.
00:44:06.000 And that is what community-oriented policing is.
00:44:09.000 It's not a new idea.
00:44:11.000 It's been around for decades.
00:44:13.000 Right.
00:44:13.000 But we somehow still don't have that going on now.
00:44:17.000 It's still, well, what seems like everything in society is now it's us versus them.
00:44:22.000 It's the police versus the community instead of we are a community together and we need to work with each other to keep this place safe and to understand what the biggest problems are, what are the citizens' concerns.
00:44:34.000 And it isn't easy to do.
00:44:36.000 It's not an easy thing to do.
00:44:38.000 But it works.
00:44:40.000 Yeah.
00:44:41.000 I go to a tactical range where they teach you how to shoot handguns, and the guy who teaches me was telling me, you would be stunned at how inept some of these cops are that come here.
00:44:57.000 He goes, they literally barely know how to shoot a gun.
00:45:01.000 And I wouldn't believe him, except I've seen so many cops that are so fat and so sloppy.
00:45:09.000 And I'm like, how are you going to defend yourself?
00:45:12.000 Like, the idea of you serving and protecting.
00:45:15.000 Like, dude, if someone throws you on the ground, you're not even getting up.
00:45:18.000 How does that happen?
00:45:20.000 How do they not have standards for being able to shoot a gun, knowing how to handle it properly, being accurate, being consistent with your training, and also physical fitness?
00:45:32.000 The job of a police officer is dealing occasionally with violent criminals.
00:45:37.000 When you have no capacity to defend yourself, How are you able to help people?
00:45:45.000 If you're in a situation where something turns physical, if you have no ability to defend yourself physically other than firearms, a situation that could be de-escalated turns into a violent encounter because you have to shoot someone.
00:46:00.000 So, a couple of things that come to mind.
00:46:02.000 So, you know, imagine that.
00:46:05.000 Police officers do get annual firearms training.
00:46:07.000 They do have to pass, in most places, an annual physical fitness test.
00:46:12.000 And you're saying, you know, already you're seeing people who are out of shape and overweight and physically not in great condition, and you're seeing people who can't shoot well.
00:46:20.000 But yet those are regular.
00:46:22.000 There are regular firearms trainings, annual firearms trainings, and there are regular physical fitness tests.
00:46:28.000 Everywhere, though?
00:46:28.000 Most states have a minimum in initial training.
00:46:31.000 And again, there's so much variety that I'm sure not everywhere.
00:46:34.000 But most departments have annual, you know, service that in-service training you've got to go through and do.
00:46:42.000 Right.
00:46:48.000 Right.
00:46:51.000 Right.
00:47:03.000 That the shooting isn't on par and the physical health isn't on par.
00:47:06.000 The one we can't see, what's going on on the inside, imagine how messy that might be.
00:47:10.000 And there's nothing.
00:47:11.000 We have no oversight and no regular check-ins there.
00:47:14.000 So that's one thing that sort of stands out.
00:47:16.000 I was like, but imagine that.
00:47:19.000 The other thing is firearms training.
00:47:22.000 Obviously, it is super important if you're going to carry a weapon to be able to use it and to use it well.
00:47:27.000 But it's also not something that you're going to encounter on a regular basis on the job.
00:47:32.000 There are officers who go through their entire career without ever pulling a weapon.
00:47:37.000 Well, that's great.
00:47:38.000 Right?
00:47:39.000 That is great.
00:47:39.000 And when you do, it should be few and far between because there are other ways to manage situations.
00:47:46.000 That's lethal force, and then we've got a variety of non-lethal force, whether it's something physical, hand-to-hand kind of thing, or whether it's a taser or baton or whatever else they may be using or having on their hands.
00:48:01.000 You know, their tool belt.
00:48:03.000 So there are other options there.
00:48:05.000 So hopefully, you know, that the continuum is set from verbal de-escalation, communication.
00:48:13.000 When that doesn't work and it's still a danger, then, you know, there are certain criteria.
00:48:17.000 And obviously, officers are taught their continuum of force and what needs to be necessary to move up that level with deadly force, you know, or lethal force being the highest.
00:48:28.000 So it's so rare that That to me, there's so much else that comes before that, that if we're doing a good job, that almost is never an issue because these other tools work better.
00:48:45.000 Wait a minute.
00:48:46.000 What's almost never an issue?
00:48:47.000 Being able to use a weapon?
00:48:49.000 Having to shoot someone.
00:48:50.000 Having to get to where you're breaking a strap and you're pulling your weapon and you're firing at someone.
00:48:54.000 That should...
00:48:55.000 I mean, that is a...
00:48:57.000 That is the last, last, last...
00:48:59.000 It doesn't happen on a daily basis.
00:49:01.000 But isn't that entirely dependent upon where you're at and what kind of situation?
00:49:06.000 I mean, all across the country, there are situations where cops have to pull their guns and have to use them.
00:49:10.000 There are, but they're not as frequent as you think.
00:49:12.000 But they're happening every day.
00:49:14.000 Probably somewhere every day, but not every day in every officer's life.
00:49:18.000 Right.
00:49:18.000 But if it's you, if you're that officer, you got to be ready.
00:49:21.000 Yes.
00:49:22.000 Like this idea that that's not important.
00:49:25.000 It should be of critical importance.
00:49:27.000 Not that it's not important, but that there are so many other things that need to also be in place.
00:49:32.000 Yes.
00:49:36.000 If you are a master, you know, they like to call verbal judo, if you can talk someone down, if you are a master at de-escalation, You are never going to need these other tools.
00:49:47.000 Maybe not never, but you are very rarely going to need any, you know, the less lethal force or the least lethal force because you are managing situations.
00:49:55.000 If you suck at these, you need these a lot.
00:49:58.000 I see what you're saying.
00:49:59.000 Right?
00:49:59.000 So for me, because I, you know, deal with communication and deal with, you know, de-escalation and how to talk someone down, how to talk to an individual with a mental illness, how to talk to somebody who's a victim or has been traumatized, how to talk to somebody who's maybe on drugs and not able to, you know, How do we manage those situations with verbal,
00:50:18.000 with interactions, with communication, so that we don't have to go up the chain of command of levels of force?
00:50:26.000 But that seems to me to be an incredible amount of training that must be necessary.
00:50:30.000 And it also has to be constant and consistent.
00:50:32.000 Absolutely.
00:50:33.000 And that's why when you and Jocko were talking about the training and how much more, I'm like, yes, let me get in on that.
00:50:39.000 How much training do they have to do in terms of hand-to-hand combat?
00:50:44.000 I don't know.
00:50:44.000 I'm not sure how much.
00:50:46.000 And again, I'm sure it depends on what academy they go through.
00:50:48.000 Some academies are four months, some are six, some less longer, you know, and the makeup depends on who's running that academy as to like the breakdown of, you know, how much is in the classroom, how much is physical, how much is tactical.
00:51:00.000 So I'm not sure what the numbers would be on that.
00:51:02.000 Andrew Yang, a presidential candidate, he had an awesome idea.
00:51:08.000 He said every person who is in the police force should be a purple belt in jujitsu or higher.
00:51:12.000 And I think that is a really good idea because at that level, you have a real understanding of how to defend yourself and how to control bodies.
00:51:22.000 I saw a video, I've seen quite a few of them, but one of the more pathetic videos I've ever seen was two people trying to hold one guy down completely ineptly.
00:51:30.000 The guy gets up, runs, gets into his car, and shoots both of them, and then takes off.
00:51:36.000 And I'm like, Jesus Christ.
00:51:38.000 Went into his car, got a gun.
00:51:39.000 Like, they had no control over this guy.
00:51:41.000 Two people.
00:51:42.000 And I'm like, that should never take place.
00:51:46.000 And this guy wasn't some freak of nature either.
00:51:48.000 It wasn't like they're trying to hold down Herschel Walker or some super athlete.
00:51:52.000 No, it's just a regular guy.
00:51:53.000 Just they sucked.
00:51:54.000 And it's terrible to watch.
00:51:57.000 Well, so, you know, part of the challenge with officers also is that we think of it as this...
00:52:04.000 You know, go, go, go, do, do, do, adrenaline junkie job, which there are spurts of that.
00:52:10.000 But, you know, a lot of that 12-hour shift is sitting and waiting or patrolling, depending on where you are and where you're patrolling.
00:52:19.000 It's tedious, tedious, tedious.
00:52:21.000 And then it's...
00:52:22.000 Intense or difficult or stressful.
00:52:25.000 So they need to be trained to recognize that that's what's going to happen too.
00:52:31.000 And to be psychologically prepared that this is part of what it is.
00:52:35.000 I remember the first time I went on a ride along with someone and thinking, This feels so much different than what I thought it would feel like.
00:52:43.000 First of all, everybody stares at you and is looking at you and you're just standing out no matter where you go because you're in the patrol car.
00:52:51.000 Where did you go?
00:52:52.000 Oh, I've been many times.
00:52:54.000 My first one was decades ago in North Carolina.
00:52:57.000 I had a police officer for a roommate who took me out for the very first time.
00:53:02.000 And on my first ride-along, it was nighttime, just tedious, boring, a couple of low-level arrests, but just the way people respond and react really just felt so much different than I thought.
00:53:15.000 And then I went out again a while later and I saw a dead body and had all sorts of weird experiences on that one.
00:53:22.000 Just the difference from shift to shift to the adrenaline excitement or something scary or overwhelming happens and then the, you know, just tedious and monotonous shift.
00:53:33.000 There's so much unpredictability and uncontrollability that you do sort of need to be alert and on and ready.
00:53:42.000 And part of that is what does a number on an officer's mental health.
00:53:47.000 I would imagine also the current state of the way people are treating police officers has got to be devastating.
00:53:54.000 So much.
00:53:55.000 It changed in just a few short months.
00:53:58.000 We went from just most people have respect for the police to it seems like it's in fashion to talk shit about cops.
00:54:07.000 And it comes and goes, right?
00:54:09.000 But this is about as bad as it's ever gotten, don't you think?
00:54:11.000 It's bad now.
00:54:13.000 And when I talk to folks.
00:54:15.000 It's nationwide, too, which is what's fucked up.
00:54:17.000 Yeah, it's not isolated.
00:54:18.000 It's not just an L.A. thing or a Minneapolis.
00:54:21.000 It has really spread.
00:54:24.000 Who would have ever thought that that one incident would ignite this powder keg the way it did?
00:54:30.000 Because every other incident that we've had in the past, like the Rodney King incident, that just started riots in Los Angeles.
00:54:36.000 It didn't do anything in New York, but this one is across the world.
00:54:42.000 There's riots in London.
00:54:45.000 People are going crazy in France because of this.
00:54:49.000 And I don't, I mean, who knows?
00:54:51.000 I have no idea what it was about this other than it was just so outrageously awful.
00:54:58.000 Yeah.
00:54:59.000 There's that.
00:55:00.000 It's so outrageously awful what happened.
00:55:03.000 And to watch that, you know, it was the video.
00:55:05.000 We all got a first-hand look at something hideous and scary.
00:55:14.000 So I think the video, I mean, you literally saw a man lose his life and that was traumatizing for anybody who saw it.
00:55:20.000 I'm sure the pandemic and everyone being shut down and restless and all the, you know, effects of that mentally and psychologically on all of us, you know, just sort of the unrest of that combined with the horror of what happened.
00:55:34.000 There's also the guy who got shot in Georgia.
00:55:36.000 Right.
00:55:36.000 Yeah, Ahmad Avery with what had happened to him.
00:55:39.000 Yes, it was just before that.
00:55:40.000 And then this was like the last straw.
00:55:42.000 And that was just enough.
00:55:42.000 And I mean, I agree.
00:55:45.000 I found it, especially in those early weeks, very stressful to be somebody who really loves and supports law enforcement.
00:55:53.000 My whole goal in life is to take care of and protect cops and to help them be good and do a good job.
00:56:01.000 That's my passion.
00:56:02.000 That's what I want to do.
00:56:03.000 But I'm also...
00:56:05.000 Very opposed to racism.
00:56:07.000 I want to be as anti-racist as I can be too.
00:56:10.000 And to stand on both sides and to say, can I be both of these things?
00:56:14.000 And to work through and say, well, yeah, I really can.
00:56:17.000 Because that's not what we want cops to be doing out there.
00:56:21.000 We've got to find a way to not do the us versus them and to meet both.
00:56:26.000 Good cops, anti-racism, those are things that can go together.
00:56:30.000 I think everyone can agree that racism is awful and racism by police is awful.
00:56:34.000 It's psychopaths that scare me.
00:56:38.000 It's not just racist.
00:56:39.000 It's like that guy that shot that man in the hotel in Phoenix.
00:56:44.000 Do you know that story?
00:56:45.000 It made the guy crawl and the guy's pants were falling off and he kept reaching back.
00:56:51.000 He said, don't reach back and then he shot him.
00:56:53.000 There was a cop that did that?
00:56:54.000 I don't remember the story.
00:56:55.000 Well, the guy had a toy gun and someone reported them.
00:56:59.000 They were drinking.
00:57:00.000 They were in a hotel room.
00:57:02.000 SWAT team shows up.
00:57:03.000 They tell this guy, this guy tells this guy to get on the ground.
00:57:08.000 The guy gets on the ground.
00:57:09.000 He's crying.
00:57:10.000 He's saying, I didn't do anything.
00:57:13.000 And then he says, crawl towards me.
00:57:15.000 He gives me these really fucked up instructions.
00:57:17.000 Like, crawl towards me.
00:57:18.000 The guy's crawling and his pants are falling down.
00:57:20.000 So he goes to reach back and tries to pick up his pants.
00:57:23.000 The guy's screaming at him, I will fucking shoot you.
00:57:26.000 And it's really clear there's nothing in his pants.
00:57:28.000 He's just reaching back because his pants are falling down.
00:57:30.000 And so he says again, crawled towards me and the guy's pants are falling down.
00:57:35.000 He reaches back and the cop just lights him up while he's on it, face down, no threat, no weapon, no nothing.
00:57:41.000 I mean, it's one of the grossest ones you've ever seen and it's a white guy doing it to another white guy.
00:57:46.000 I think racism is awful, but psychopaths Are what the problem is.
00:57:51.000 It's not just racism, it's psychopaths that are racist.
00:57:55.000 Or, I mean, I think that guy had problems that Derek Chauvin, didn't he have problems with white people, too?
00:58:02.000 Like, he had a long history of abuse.
00:58:05.000 It certainly wouldn't surprise me.
00:58:07.000 There was more than, there was multiple incidents.
00:58:10.000 And this is what's scary to me.
00:58:12.000 It's like, how does a guy stay in the police force when there's multiple incidents of him abusing people?
00:58:17.000 Like, at what point?
00:58:19.000 Did they just said, well, we never thought he was going to kill somebody.
00:58:22.000 We just thought he was rough, but he was a good cop otherwise.
00:58:26.000 Like, is that how they're looking at it?
00:58:27.000 Like, how does a guy like that get to a place where, you know, when you go back and look at his complaints, and this guy was one of the reasons why Amy Klobuchar was kind of tanked as being a vice presidential possibility, because she was in control back when this guy was doing this,
00:58:45.000 and they said, well, they were connected to her.
00:58:47.000 Right.
00:58:47.000 I remember reading that.
00:58:48.000 Yeah.
00:58:50.000 Yeah, I know that...
00:58:51.000 Obviously, I don't work in Minneapolis.
00:58:54.000 I don't know what was going on in their department.
00:58:55.000 But just from the things I've read and heard, you know, media, which I always take with a grain of salt because you never know what you're getting, is that he'd had multiple prior incidents, multiple prior shootings.
00:59:04.000 I think one was fatal.
00:59:06.000 So these are, you know, these are red flags and markers.
00:59:09.000 Now, does that mean he was definitely, you know, take this prior to this incident if we didn't know what had happened here?
00:59:14.000 And if I just saw that he'd had...
00:59:17.000 Prior complaints and prior shootings.
00:59:20.000 That may or may not be enough for me to say, hey, what's going on?
00:59:23.000 And that depends on what were the complaints.
00:59:25.000 You know, citizen complaints happen all the time, right?
00:59:28.000 So just seeing that someone's had a complaint, you know, you could give someone a parking ticket and they think you're an asshole and so they call up and complain they treated me unfairly.
00:59:37.000 When you look back at, you know, if there's body cam footage or whatever, and it's a perfectly normal stop, but that person just pissed off because they got a ticket.
00:59:43.000 You know what I mean?
00:59:43.000 So a complaint can be something very substantial and very real and problematic, or it could be one of these that complaints come at, citizens' complaints come all the time.
00:59:53.000 How do you feel about the other cops that were on the scene that were there with him?
00:59:58.000 I can't understand how one wouldn't intervene and say, okay, that's enough.
01:00:03.000 Let's back off now.
01:00:04.000 Was he the senior officer?
01:00:07.000 I don't know.
01:00:08.000 It sounded like it because I know they said two of the guys were pretty new on the job.
01:00:12.000 And the other one, the one that you can see kind of standing in front, had also been on the force for a while.
01:00:16.000 But I don't know which of the two had been on longer.
01:00:19.000 The way the culture is, the two that were new, if they saw him do that, is that a thing that they can say?
01:00:30.000 If you're a new guy, and you've been on the job for a couple months, and there's a guy who's been on the job for 20 years, and you see him doing something, is it your place?
01:00:40.000 I understand it's your place as a human being.
01:00:42.000 Right.
01:00:42.000 But how does the culture work?
01:00:44.000 It is a paramilitary environment where if someone is your superior, it is very hard to speak out against that person.
01:00:51.000 So that is definitely a problem and something to act out.
01:00:57.000 And the culture in the department would be, yeah, if that's somebody who either is a higher rank than you or who's been on longer, especially if they're brand new and that's like their field training officer, you're not going to step in and tell them not to do that.
01:01:12.000 And it kind of has to be that way.
01:01:13.000 It's not the way it's done.
01:01:14.000 Yeah, that's that paramilitary model.
01:01:17.000 So if you are shit out of luck and your superior officer is a psychopath and he's doing something like that, if he doesn't kill that person and there's no complaint, what recourse does that person have?
01:01:30.000 If they go to...
01:01:32.000 The person who is the victim or the other officer?
01:01:35.000 The other officer that's there, what recourse does that officer have?
01:01:38.000 If you're seeing someone abuse someone and you're new on the job, can you go to internal affairs?
01:01:43.000 And if you do, there's a stigma attached to that, correct?
01:01:47.000 There are ways to report fellow officers, yes.
01:01:50.000 But would most people do that?
01:01:54.000 It's a tough call.
01:01:55.000 Yes, it happens.
01:01:55.000 And some people do the right thing.
01:01:57.000 But yeah, there's a cost that comes with that.
01:02:00.000 The code of silence.
01:02:01.000 Yeah, yeah.
01:02:02.000 One of the interesting reforms that lots of folks are talking about in some cities are passing is this requirement for other officers to say something.
01:02:11.000 And this is an interesting one.
01:02:13.000 There's a lot of these piecemeal reforms that kind of make me go, like, okay, it's fine, but I don't know if that's going to make much change.
01:02:19.000 This one makes me stop and think and I wonder if maybe it will.
01:02:23.000 Maybe it will.
01:02:24.000 I don't know.
01:02:25.000 I see it could go both ways where it could be something that's helpful if there's a safe mechanism for people to report.
01:02:35.000 But, you know, in that situation, you know, thinking about the George Floyd situation, you know, if two of those officers had said, hey, you need to back off, and again, still, if they're inferior to him, you know, what are the odds that he's not going to tell them,
01:02:53.000 you know, screw you, like, I'm superior to you, you back off, and And then tell everybody else also on the force and then it becomes… And then they're the snitch and they're the weasel and whatever else.
01:03:05.000 And so it's really these – the idea I think is a great one.
01:03:10.000 Let's put this law in place that you have to report it or to intervene if you see something.
01:03:16.000 But I just wonder how that will look as it plays out.
01:03:20.000 And you can't have a divide among people that you have to work that closely together and you have to rely on to protect you, you know, to have your back.
01:03:27.000 Right.
01:03:27.000 And body cameras really are only good once something's happened and you have to review the body camera.
01:03:32.000 Right.
01:03:33.000 It's not like someone's reviewing the body camera every day and going, Mike, you're kind of a cunt.
01:03:37.000 Like, the way you treat those people, you fucking asshole.
01:03:39.000 Like, why are you so rude?
01:03:41.000 Why are you so mean?
01:03:41.000 Like, this is not good as a police officer.
01:03:44.000 Yeah.
01:03:44.000 The only thought that folks had, especially when body cams were first becoming the thing and tons of departments were You know, we're starting to use them as people thought that kind of, you know, Big Brothers watching feeling.
01:03:55.000 You know, if we know we're on camera, we're going to be on our best behavior and that we're going to always do the right thing.
01:04:01.000 And I'm sure there is some element of that.
01:04:06.000 There's one way to do that.
01:04:07.000 What's that?
01:04:08.000 You stream it live, all cameras.
01:04:11.000 That's a lot of footage.
01:04:13.000 Yeah, right.
01:04:14.000 That's part of the problem in police departments when they start to implement body cam footage.
01:04:17.000 They have to make these big decisions on where do we store this data, how long do we keep it, all these massive decisions.
01:04:25.000 So we flood YouTube.
01:04:27.000 Yeah, but listen, people are flooding YouTube anyway.
01:04:30.000 I mean, it sounds crazy.
01:04:33.000 But if you did do that, there would be very little shenanigans.
01:04:37.000 But we kind of have that already because cell phones, you know?
01:04:40.000 No, you don't.
01:04:41.000 I mean, maybe not every minute.
01:04:43.000 If no one has a cell phone and it's just one perpetrator and three cops, you don't have anything.
01:04:48.000 If everyone was streaming all the time, it would be really hard to get away with a lot of the stuff that people get away with.
01:04:56.000 It would be.
01:04:56.000 And one of the things I've heard people talk about with body cam footage is having, you know, sort of that oversight committee to regularly review footage.
01:05:03.000 In fact, you'd be reviewing eight hours a day all day long.
01:05:07.000 Of all the officers on there.
01:05:08.000 It's such a monumental type of thing.
01:05:10.000 Leave it to the people.
01:05:11.000 Put it on YouTube.
01:05:13.000 Sounds scary.
01:05:15.000 What sounds scary about it?
01:05:16.000 Just the chaos and mayhem that would ensue from that.
01:05:20.000 Well, also accountability.
01:05:23.000 True.
01:05:23.000 You know, both things would ensue from that.
01:05:27.000 Here's another example that made me sick.
01:05:30.000 It has nothing to do with racism.
01:05:32.000 When they were in...
01:05:33.000 Was it upstate New York where they pushed that old man down and he fell and bounced his head off the ground and...
01:05:42.000 I think he's still in trouble.
01:05:44.000 Is he?
01:05:45.000 Yeah, he's still hurt.
01:05:46.000 I mean, look, he's really old.
01:05:48.000 And he fell and slammed his head off the ground.
01:05:51.000 So they charged the officer for doing that, and then the rest of the officers, they quit.
01:05:59.000 Clearly, you shouldn't push an old man like that.
01:06:02.000 Clearly.
01:06:03.000 When that guy falls and hits his head, you gotta look after him and give him medical attention.
01:06:08.000 The guy was unconscious, bleeding from the back of his head, and he's really old.
01:06:13.000 Like, if you're that old and you fall down like that, he easily could have died.
01:06:25.000 Yeah.
01:06:40.000 Why did they retire?
01:06:41.000 Well, they quit because of this same camaraderie.
01:06:44.000 And I understand that.
01:06:45.000 You need that.
01:06:46.000 If you go to war together, you have to stay together.
01:06:49.000 You have to stick up for each other.
01:06:51.000 You're part of a team.
01:06:52.000 I understand that.
01:06:53.000 But you can't do that.
01:06:55.000 And the whole world saw that.
01:07:01.000 What else can I say?
01:07:02.000 I don't know.
01:07:21.000 When you've got these police and they're lined up and they're marching, what's going on and how could that have happened and why?
01:07:28.000 I don't know.
01:07:29.000 I don't have an explanation for that one.
01:07:31.000 I would like to know.
01:07:32.000 I would like to talk to the people.
01:07:33.000 I'd like to see what was happening, why it was in that kind of mindset.
01:07:37.000 Those all piled up.
01:07:39.000 They pile up.
01:07:40.000 All these videos pile up.
01:07:42.000 All these times where cops abuse people pile up.
01:07:44.000 You know, it's just, it's so unfortunate.
01:07:48.000 And every time a cop fucks up, every other cop has to deal with the pain of that.
01:07:53.000 They have to deal with the stigma.
01:07:55.000 And they have to deal with the anger and the backlash.
01:07:59.000 It's definitely one of the hardest aspects of the job is that you're given an immense amount of power.
01:08:09.000 That badge and that gun just are tremendous in terms of what they give you liberty to do.
01:08:17.000 And like all humans, power can corrupt.
01:08:21.000 Nothing corrupts more than money and power, right?
01:08:23.000 Cops don't have money, but they've got the power.
01:08:26.000 It is so easy to let that go the wrong way.
01:08:34.000 Like I said, I don't think that the folks that you see in these videos started out as bad people.
01:08:43.000 I spend so many days of my life evaluating these folks who want to go into this very noble profession.
01:08:50.000 And the majority of them are just really great people.
01:08:54.000 Occasionally you get an idiot that comes through and usually they fail because they don't belong on the force.
01:09:00.000 And that person, no thank you.
01:09:02.000 My fear is that more idiots are going to get in now because less people want to be police.
01:09:06.000 So it's going to be even worse.
01:09:07.000 It's doubly scary now.
01:09:08.000 The defunding thing obviously is a huge issue.
01:09:11.000 Like, what's going to happen?
01:09:12.000 Agencies are not going to be able to hire because the money is being taken away.
01:09:16.000 It's a political thing as well.
01:09:18.000 It's totally political.
01:09:19.000 When they say we're going to defund the police, all the progressive people go, yes, I want to be unsafe.
01:09:24.000 Yes.
01:09:26.000 But the combination of the defunding as well as the tanking economy, you know, some of the departments that I work for, you know, the money that comes into that city or that town to support the department, you know, the financial crisis that's going on from the pandemic,
01:09:42.000 you know, so a few of the agencies that I work for are like, yeah, we don't anticipate hiring in maybe the next two to three years.
01:09:51.000 So, and that's partly, you know, and some, it's not a defunding thing issue.
01:09:55.000 It's just, it's the financial crisis from the pandemic.
01:09:58.000 Right.
01:09:58.000 You know, that there's just, there's things that are...
01:10:00.000 There's cuts across the board.
01:10:01.000 Yeah.
01:10:01.000 They can also use that as a political ploy.
01:10:04.000 Like, say, we're defunding the police as well, but really they're cutting education, they're cutting...
01:10:08.000 Right.
01:10:08.000 So we're all suffering right now because of the financial crisis that's going on from this COVID crap.
01:10:13.000 But in addition, then you've got that plus the COVID stuff.
01:10:17.000 And I mean, you've got departments who are going to be really strapped for being able to hire.
01:10:25.000 And then, like you said, who wants to go into this job now?
01:10:29.000 In fact, when I do these, I'm still doing some evaluations right now.
01:10:33.000 And the question that I start off is, why do you want to do this?
01:10:37.000 Given the current climate, you know, what makes you want to be an officer?
01:10:42.000 Just to hear what their thoughts are, you know, and to sort of get into their mind a little bit on what is it that makes you want to do this.
01:10:50.000 Because really, you've got to be second-guessing your options here at this point, because it's not an easy time to be a cop.
01:10:59.000 What if I gave you a magic wand, or the president did, and the president said, look, Nancy, we've got a real problem.
01:11:07.000 We want you to help.
01:11:09.000 And we'll let you structure the program for the entire country, for the police officers.
01:11:14.000 What do you think should be done?
01:11:16.000 Cost no option.
01:11:18.000 I love that you asked that question.
01:11:20.000 In therapy world, therapists, we ask that question for our clients all the time.
01:11:24.000 We call it the miracle question.
01:11:25.000 Therapist trick you just did right there.
01:11:27.000 And you do it to a lot of your guests.
01:11:29.000 I like it.
01:11:29.000 I don't even know.
01:11:30.000 Total therapist trick that we do.
01:11:32.000 I didn't know.
01:11:32.000 In your life, if things could be perfect, what would it look like?
01:11:35.000 So look at you.
01:11:36.000 Okay.
01:11:37.000 So yeah, if I could...
01:11:39.000 I'm a therapist.
01:11:39.000 You are.
01:11:40.000 You didn't even know.
01:11:43.000 If I could just take over and make all the changes.
01:11:48.000 Honestly, I would take the advice of the amazing people who have done a ton of work already.
01:11:55.000 In, you know, about five years ago, there was a task force put together, you know, recommendations for what should 21st century policing look like.
01:12:03.000 And they lay out in a, you know, like 170 page document What policing should look like.
01:12:10.000 And this really amazingly brilliant group of people came up with some excellent advice.
01:12:16.000 And it talks about racism and it talks about technology and it talks about community-oriented policing and it talks about wellness and all the things that I see that are missing.
01:12:27.000 It's been sitting there for five years.
01:12:29.000 And not to say that nothing has happened since then, but we certainly haven't enacted what that task force put together and what they recommended back then.
01:12:40.000 Take that and all the other great work.
01:12:42.000 Change and reform.
01:12:45.000 Right now you see it happening left and right all over the place, right?
01:12:49.000 It's piecemeal.
01:12:50.000 It's haphazard.
01:12:51.000 It's political.
01:12:52.000 It's let's satisfy the unhappy folks right now.
01:12:54.000 And I agree that people are demanding change and they need action.
01:12:58.000 They want to see it right now.
01:12:59.000 I get that.
01:13:01.000 It's satisfying to say, yes, there's change.
01:13:04.000 But I'm also really concerned about whether some of these random haphazard changes are going to make any different for these real, real problems.
01:13:14.000 But yet we've had these brilliant groups that have laid out what we need to do, that report to Congress from back in March of 2009 on officer wellness.
01:13:23.000 What I would do if I got the magic wand and all the money is I... Again, psychologist lens for me is I would sit down with that and there were 22 recommendations in that report and I would work my way through making these recommendations become mandates across the board.
01:13:39.000 And this is a big battleship that's going to take a long time to turn.
01:13:42.000 Absolutely.
01:13:43.000 These are not easy problems.
01:13:45.000 If they were, we would fix them, right?
01:13:47.000 We would just snap our fingers.
01:13:48.000 Even with an unlimited budget.
01:13:49.000 Absolutely.
01:13:50.000 They are not easy.
01:13:51.000 They are not simple.
01:13:53.000 You know, so many of these societal problems, they're so important and they're so profound.
01:13:58.000 But like I always say, you know, my husband and I all argue politics because we see things from other sides of the fence.
01:14:04.000 And I'll be like, you know...
01:14:05.000 Which one's the liberal?
01:14:10.000 I'm the do-gooder, soft-hearted.
01:14:12.000 He's more conservative.
01:14:13.000 He's a business guy.
01:14:14.000 I'm the psychologist.
01:14:15.000 It all makes sense if you know us.
01:14:17.000 I get it.
01:14:17.000 We'll debate and go back and forth and we get mad at each other.
01:14:21.000 Fun.
01:14:23.000 We butt heads and he thinks I'm an idiot.
01:14:25.000 I think he's an idiot.
01:14:26.000 We roll our eyes and then I stop and think and reflect on it and think, you know, If these problems were simple, with all the brilliant people in the world, we would have solved them already.
01:14:36.000 You know, we would have solved them.
01:14:37.000 We have to be able to see things from the perspective of others.
01:14:40.000 While I might get mad when he sees things differently from me, it also makes me stop and think.
01:14:45.000 Because you know what?
01:14:46.000 In this case, here's someone who I love.
01:14:49.000 Who's saying the things that maybe I don't love.
01:14:50.000 And so I have to stop and think, maybe there's something to this.
01:14:54.000 You know, I could just be, ugh, you're horrible because you see these things and you think I'm horrible because I see things this way.
01:15:00.000 But, you know, we both have a perspective.
01:15:02.000 And they probably both have value.
01:15:05.000 What you described as Twitter.
01:15:07.000 Yes.
01:15:08.000 But yeah, I mean, look, there's a lot of very good people that are conservative.
01:15:14.000 They're decent people.
01:15:15.000 And there's a lot of very good people that are liberal.
01:15:17.000 Absolutely.
01:15:19.000 There's a lot of problems in this world, and there's not clear-cut solutions.
01:15:24.000 And the problem of law enforcement, to me, is akin to the problem of education, in that there's not a lot of money in it, but it's an incredibly important part of the world.
01:15:33.000 Incredibly important part of our society.
01:15:35.000 But yet the people that do it don't get paid well.
01:15:39.000 Some police officers can make a really good living if they do a lot of overtime.
01:15:43.000 That is true.
01:15:44.000 But also, you've got to think about what are you talking about?
01:15:47.000 You're talking about someone literally giving up 80 hours a week of their life to make that kind of money.
01:15:54.000 And when it comes to officer wellness, that's one of the things I recommend against.
01:15:57.000 Is overtime.
01:15:59.000 I think you're right about that.
01:16:01.000 It's very tempting financially.
01:16:04.000 Honestly, the best description of what happens mentally, how the mental state of an officer can get off track over time, was written in a book.
01:16:15.000 It's older now.
01:16:16.000 I think it was early 2000s.
01:16:17.000 A guy named Kevin Gilmartin wrote a book called Emotional Survival for Law Enforcement Officers and Their Families.
01:16:25.000 That's probably not exactly right, but that's close.
01:16:28.000 Yeah.
01:16:43.000 We all are kind of in here.
01:16:45.000 When you're on the job and as a police officer, you've got to live in this state of hypervigilance.
01:16:50.000 Like you're on, you're alert, you're looking around, you're always ready and, you know, sort of energized, a little bit of adrenaline flowing.
01:16:57.000 And so they have to live up there.
01:16:59.000 And our bodies are meant to do that for short term.
01:17:02.000 You know, that's our nervous system.
01:17:03.000 You know, parasympathetic nervous system kicks in.
01:17:05.000 We're up.
01:17:06.000 We're alert.
01:17:07.000 And you stay up there.
01:17:08.000 And then when they come off the job, it dips down.
01:17:11.000 But instead of going back into that like middle zone, the normal zone where most of us are functioning, you know, kind of going about normal level of energy, they dip down below because once you've been on that high, kind of that rush while you've been on the job, your body needs to recover.
01:17:25.000 So it goes down into this low state.
01:17:27.000 Mm-hmm.
01:17:47.000 Your body can recover from this.
01:17:49.000 So the cycle for COPs is that they're up, and then when they come home, they go down.
01:17:53.000 And it usually takes the body 18 to 24 hours to get back into the normal zone.
01:17:58.000 Great.
01:17:59.000 So if we did that one day and then we dip down and recover, we come back.
01:18:02.000 But what happens within 24 hours?
01:18:04.000 Well, you go back to work again.
01:18:06.000 So what happens for COPs is they're up, then they're low, then they're way up, then they're low.
01:18:10.000 And that's not the way our bodies were made to function.
01:18:13.000 You're in this state of hypervigilance for so long It starts to wear on you.
01:18:17.000 It wears on you physically.
01:18:18.000 It wears on you mentally.
01:18:20.000 It wears on you emotionally.
01:18:22.000 And you never get that recovery time to get back to a normal state.
01:18:26.000 So they constantly are in this like...
01:18:27.000 Shorter and shorter fuse.
01:18:28.000 Yeah, tense and alert.
01:18:30.000 And it makes you...
01:18:31.000 It sort of just wears on you over time.
01:18:33.000 The other thing it does that, you know, cops are notorious for having kind of trouble functioning at home if they're working too much and they're so into it, that on...
01:18:42.000 Tense state feels good.
01:18:44.000 You're energized.
01:18:44.000 You're alert.
01:18:45.000 You're active.
01:18:45.000 And then when you dip down, you don't feel good.
01:18:47.000 So they start associating home with negative feelings and work with positive feelings.
01:18:52.000 Oh, wow.
01:18:52.000 And so then what do they do?
01:18:53.000 They crave work more.
01:18:55.000 So they go take overtime shifts and they hang out with other police officers and they start to kind of become their police self.
01:19:02.000 And they lose their personal self.
01:19:04.000 And so this is—I love Gil Martin's book for this, and I've recommended it to any officer that I've come across if they haven't read it because it really beautifully explains this cycle and kind of what it does over time.
01:19:16.000 And he also goes on to recommend, well, you know, how do you—and the long and short of it is at the end, if you stay in that and you lose too much of your personal self— You become that burned out, bitter, angry, going to snap and, you know, and do some make a bad decision kind of place.
01:19:32.000 So how do you resolve that?
01:19:34.000 You know, you've got to protect your personal self.
01:19:37.000 You've got to keep from getting hard and bitter and becoming too much of that police self.
01:19:42.000 And so one of the things is you protect your off time and you use it.
01:19:47.000 You engage.
01:19:47.000 You do the things you love.
01:19:49.000 You don't give up your hobbies.
01:19:51.000 If you have a family and kids, you do things with your children, you have to get back into the real world so you remember that the real world is out there.
01:20:01.000 Because if you are only in that state where all you're seeing is the things that cops see, which is negativity and stress and horror and trauma and angry people and hurt people and victimized people, if that's all you're seeing and you're spending all your life in that state,
01:20:17.000 you forget what happens on the outside.
01:20:20.000 And I think it's really hard to understand from the outside looking in.
01:20:25.000 And I've told millions of people this story that I got a little bit, a little bit of a taste of it from my years when I was before I went into the academic route and I was working in the prisons and forensic hospitals.
01:20:39.000 And so here's maximum security setting.
01:20:42.000 You know, being a young, small female in a maximum security setting, I'm surrounded by offenders who are mentally ill.
01:20:47.000 It's not an easy gig.
01:20:49.000 And you've got to be in that state of hypervigilance.
01:20:52.000 And so after a few years of that, I didn't notice it was having any effect on me until I was working at a federal prison at the time.
01:21:00.000 And one of my college roommates came to visit me.
01:21:02.000 And we were hanging out and having a drink or whatever and joking.
01:21:07.000 And after a while, she was like, Hey, Nance.
01:21:10.000 And I was like, yeah, she's like, you're different.
01:21:13.000 I'm like, what are you talking about?
01:21:15.000 I'm not different.
01:21:16.000 What?
01:21:17.000 Like, no, I'm not.
01:21:18.000 She's like, you're really hard.
01:21:21.000 I'm a little bit scared of you.
01:21:23.000 And I was like, what do you mean?
01:21:25.000 And she's like, you're just kind of hard.
01:21:28.000 Like, you know, and I thought, no, like, she's...
01:21:32.000 And when she said that, it really kind of struck me.
01:21:35.000 And like two weeks after that, I went to visit my sister.
01:21:39.000 And at the time, she had young kids.
01:21:41.000 And I remember sitting outside watching...
01:21:43.000 Somebody playing a ball game and looking at all these families.
01:21:46.000 And I remember having the thought like, what are they doing?
01:21:50.000 Why are they all so happy?
01:21:52.000 Don't they know of what all that's going on?
01:21:54.000 Don't they know about all the horrible people?
01:21:56.000 Aren't they scared to be?
01:21:57.000 And I thought, oh my God.
01:21:59.000 She was right.
01:22:00.000 My brain has started to go into a place where, because every day I had to steal up, get tough, be ready for anything, have eyes in the back of my head, because I was working in a really dangerous setting at that time, and I had to protect myself.
01:22:16.000 After that, I stopped working in the prisons, and I softened back up and came back to a normal state of functioning where I can turn it on or off depending on if I need to.
01:22:26.000 But it really was telling to me to see how much your daily persona can shift when that's your day-to-day functioning.
01:22:35.000 So that Gilmartin stuff with the waves and the hypervigilance and the recovery and the more people start to become their police self more and more and lose their personal self, it's a really important thing for officers to be aware of and to track and to monitor.
01:22:52.000 If they want to stay balanced.
01:22:54.000 The best of the cops that I know, and I know a lot of really good ones, but I think of a few that stand out who I just simply adore as humans and are really wonderful officers.
01:23:03.000 They have that balance really down.
01:23:05.000 When they're on, they're on.
01:23:07.000 But then when they're off, they're doing stuff with their families.
01:23:10.000 They're coaching their kids' ball teams.
01:23:12.000 They're active physically.
01:23:14.000 They're fit.
01:23:15.000 They're mentally sharp.
01:23:17.000 They They have a real personal life that they hang onto that balances out what they see and the negativity that comes at them constantly in their day job.
01:23:27.000 That's just not something that most of us have to deal with in our daily lives.
01:23:31.000 And it's a really big deal.
01:23:34.000 And that's, you know, those mental health checks that I push so hard for and that I really want to get going and to study and figure out how can we do these well.
01:23:43.000 Can check in on that stuff and to help stop that cycle, help to get people into a healthier place so that they don't become bitter and jaded and angry and more likely to be the bad apple, as we like to say.
01:23:56.000 Yeah, the description of that cycle is so important for people to recognize that, you know, even though some human beings might be better at managing things, it's like there's an actual physical thing that's going on.
01:24:08.000 There is.
01:24:09.000 And when I meet with cops after an incident or, you know, if they're coming in, that's the first place I go because it feels so comforting to know this isn't me being weak or me losing it.
01:24:20.000 This is something physiological that's going on, you know.
01:24:24.000 Don't you think that a lot of these cops are tempted to do overtime just because the money's so great?
01:24:28.000 Absolutely.
01:24:29.000 Yeah.
01:24:30.000 Yes.
01:24:31.000 And that's one of the perks of the job.
01:24:33.000 That's one of the things they love, that they can, I mean, hundreds of thousands of dollars a year.
01:24:37.000 They could literally double their pay.
01:24:39.000 And it's great to have that option, but again, at what cost?
01:24:45.000 To have a balance.
01:24:46.000 You know, some overtime is fine, but if that's all you're doing, and if you're doing it, this is probably a really important key, if you're doing it to avoid being at home, Because being on the job is the only place you feel functional and alive and good.
01:25:02.000 That's where the danger sets in.
01:25:03.000 If you're doing it because, you know, you're trying to make extra money to get that, you know, to take your family on a trip, summer vacation or whatever, absolutely, like, do it.
01:25:12.000 Get that extra money because that's great.
01:25:14.000 But if you're doing it because that's the only place you feel alive and on an alert...
01:25:19.000 You might be in trouble.
01:25:20.000 Yeah.
01:25:20.000 You might be getting a little bit off, and that's going to lead probably to a place that's not great.
01:25:26.000 So I'm going to bring you back to this again.
01:25:27.000 If you've got this magic wand and the president says, Nancy, take over, what are you going to do?
01:25:32.000 What's the first thing you're going to do?
01:25:33.000 I'm going to pull all of those things, all the work that has already been done, and I'm going to implement reform.
01:25:39.000 I'm going to tell all those angry political folks that are fighting with each other to hush.
01:25:44.000 I think?
01:25:57.000 I'm going to implement nationwide requirements for screening and mental health and well-being.
01:26:05.000 I'm going to get Jocko on board next to me to develop training programs.
01:26:10.000 I'm going to team up with him and we're going to recreate the world of training together.
01:26:14.000 And we're going to do more training, all the stuff that we need, and to get people who are actually Healthy, well, physically fit as well as emotionally and mentally healthy, and well-equipped to do their job.
01:26:31.000 And not just on the tactical side, but on the communication side, de-escalation, communication, how to talk to people who are victims, what to do, all those things in a training package so that You know, the academies, they do a good job.
01:26:46.000 I don't want, you know, to think that they don't, but that police academies tend to do things in the same way like that the courts do.
01:26:53.000 They rely on precedent.
01:26:54.000 They do what's always been done because that's what we know and that's what works.
01:26:57.000 And to have a joint A joint planning of training where it's not just this is what we do, so this is what we'll keep doing, but to pull in the academic piece as well and to say, hey, yeah, but we've been doing all this research and there's actually a better way, so let's implement this now.
01:27:14.000 And so just to really update and refresh what that academy training and the ongoing throughout your career training looks like.
01:27:22.000 So reforms.
01:27:23.000 Training, on the job, take care of our officers, and to put in place all of these recommendations, these specific level recommendations on how do we actually get in there and take care of folks.
01:27:39.000 There's so much that we can do that could make a big difference.
01:27:45.000 And there's got to be something done to push back against this idea that we have right now, weaponized this idea of defunding the police, that the police are evil, that the police having money is the problem.
01:28:01.000 It's crazy.
01:28:03.000 There's a reason why we have the police, folks.
01:28:06.000 They're necessary.
01:28:07.000 It's very important.
01:28:08.000 And to abandon them or to treat them like anything other than members of our community and very important members of our community is so short-sighted and so crazy and done by people that I don't think understand psychology.
01:28:20.000 I don't think they understand violence.
01:28:23.000 I don't think they understand crime.
01:28:24.000 And again, it's weaponized.
01:28:27.000 It's this thing that they're using now to push a political agenda, to align themselves with people so that it helps them get reelected.
01:28:37.000 It helps them gain power with their constituents.
01:28:40.000 It's so dangerous.
01:28:42.000 And it's such a weird thing to hear coming out of mainstream politicians' mouths that we need to defund the police.
01:28:48.000 I'm like, you guys are crazy.
01:28:50.000 Yeah.
01:28:50.000 I mean, when people talk about defunding along the lines of take some of that money and put it into communities, like that piece of it could be, if done well, beneficial.
01:29:04.000 But why take it from the cops?
01:29:06.000 I don't know that needs to necessarily take from the cops, but to take to really pay more attention to our communities and what they're needing.
01:29:14.000 Yeah.
01:29:14.000 You know, the police over the last five decades have had to take on more and more and more jobs within the community.
01:29:23.000 I mean, a lot of people would say that the key change came in the 60s.
01:29:28.000 When deinstitutionalization happened from the mental hospital.
01:29:31.000 So it used to be if someone was mentally ill, they went to the hospital and they basically stayed there, right?
01:29:35.000 Sixties came, deinstitutionalization, all those folks, let's put them out in the community so they can return to their homes.
01:29:41.000 See, there was a lot of it during the Reagan administration.
01:29:43.000 Right?
01:29:43.000 Let's put money into community mental health.
01:29:45.000 That didn't happen the way it was supposed to.
01:29:48.000 So the community mental health never got funded properly.
01:29:51.000 And then all those folks who had mental illness did not get proper treatment, went off Meds, all sorts of problems.
01:29:57.000 Crime rises.
01:29:58.000 And now who has to deal with it?
01:30:00.000 Chickens have come home to roost.
01:30:01.000 Police officers, right?
01:30:01.000 So they became mental health clinicians, social workers, domestic violence, all of that stuff.
01:30:08.000 So if defunding the police means putting money into social services and helping these folks in a way that makes it so that the police officers don't have to do those jobs anymore...
01:30:20.000 I'm alright with that and I think most of the cops are because I've spent half my career on this side of police psychology stuff training folks how to talk to people with mental illness so they don't end up shooting them, right?
01:30:32.000 I think there certainly should be cops that are designated to deal with those specific types of situations.
01:30:38.000 People have found amazing ways around it to work on it.
01:30:40.000 We've developed what we call crisis intervention teams.
01:30:43.000 You know, this came out of the 80s in Memphis that, you know, this CIT thing where we have cops and clinicians that go out together.
01:30:50.000 But I don't know any clinician that wants to do that by themselves.
01:30:55.000 So if you defund the police and everyone says, yeah, you know, if it's a domestic violence call, send a therapist out.
01:31:01.000 Jesus Christ.
01:31:02.000 Well, I know because I work with cops that domestic violence calls are one of the most likely to end in violence.
01:31:08.000 Yes.
01:31:08.000 I'm not going there.
01:31:09.000 Right.
01:31:10.000 I might go there if there's an armed person with me and I'll try to, you know, to do, but like as a team, but you're going to send me into a potentially violent, dangerous situation where you've got two people going.
01:31:22.000 Again, it's a utopian perspective on a very complicated problem.
01:31:25.000 Yeah, exactly.
01:31:27.000 It's a simple, well, we don't like what we have, so let's get rid of it.
01:31:30.000 And that's, it's far too simplistic.
01:31:32.000 Well, and you've got the evidence right now.
01:31:33.000 I mean, this is a short term study in New York City.
01:31:36.000 Yeah.
01:31:37.000 You know?
01:31:37.000 And Minneapolis as well.
01:31:39.000 Yep.
01:31:40.000 Folks that I know in New York, that training program I talked about earlier, the cops that worked on that who decided, you know what, retirement is the right thing for me right now.
01:31:49.000 Yeah.
01:31:49.000 And who've left the force because they just were like, I can't do this.
01:31:53.000 This is the lack of support and what's going on is just too much.
01:31:57.000 It's not worth staying anymore.
01:31:58.000 It's so dangerous.
01:31:59.000 Yeah.
01:32:00.000 Yeah, it's very unsettling and overwhelming and to see how rather than, you know, trying to come in and figure out how to improve what we've got, it's like...
01:32:11.000 It just doesn't make sense to throw our hands up and say, okay, get rid of it, because what's the plan B? Again, it's a politicized perspective.
01:32:19.000 It is.
01:32:19.000 But isn't everything right now?
01:32:21.000 Yes, everything is right now.
01:32:22.000 COVID is politicized.
01:32:23.000 Police is politicized.
01:32:25.000 Medication is politicized.
01:32:26.000 Medication is politicized.
01:32:27.000 Hydrochloroquine.
01:32:27.000 I have a friend who got COVID, and when he went to the doctor, the doctor tested him, found out COVID, and said, I don't know what your political leanings are.
01:32:36.000 And he was like, what?
01:32:38.000 And he's like, well, hydrochloroquine tends to work really well in the early stages of the disease to keep the virus from multiplying.
01:32:46.000 And he recommended hydrochloroquine and zinc.
01:32:49.000 And he's like, I don't know what your political leanings are.
01:32:52.000 He goes, like, my political leanings?
01:32:53.000 He goes, I just don't want to be sick.
01:32:55.000 He goes, what the fuck do I do, man?
01:32:57.000 Don't tell me that.
01:32:58.000 I mean, there was a recent study that was published in an article in Newsweek.
01:33:04.000 From an epidemiologist that was saying the exact same, that we have something to treat it.
01:33:09.000 And because of the fact that Trump recommends it, it becomes this politicized medication that people are avoiding.
01:33:19.000 This doctor told me people were saying, I don't want to take that medication because I hate Trump.
01:33:24.000 It's like, oh my god!
01:33:26.000 That's when you know we've gotten to a really messed up place.
01:33:29.000 Oh, we're so crazy.
01:33:30.000 That a pandemic is politicized and that whether or not one would – that a physician would ask you what your political leanings are to prescribe you something.
01:33:39.000 That is a place that – I just can't wrap my head around as to how we've ended up here.
01:33:44.000 Well, too many of our ideas are being discussed in social media form where there's no one-on-one interaction with human beings, no compassion, no recognizing that the other person's an actual human.
01:33:58.000 When you ask that dream magic wand question, my, you know, I gave kind of my practical answer.
01:34:04.000 You know, I would take these recommendations and do all of these community policing wellness.
01:34:07.000 But my dream answer, in my fantasy world, where I'm an all-powerful being, I would...
01:34:14.000 What do you dress like?
01:34:16.000 Do you have a Wonder Woman-type costume in this...
01:34:19.000 I'm kind of thinking something like, you know...
01:34:21.000 An angel?
01:34:22.000 No, it's darker than that.
01:34:24.000 Like Batman?
01:34:25.000 Yeah, it's sort of like Batman, Catwoman, something in that.
01:34:28.000 Yeah, I'm thinking in that.
01:34:29.000 That's probably more up my alley than like angel and halo.
01:34:33.000 I don't think I could pull that halo off.
01:34:34.000 So you have this all power.
01:34:35.000 So in my fantasy world where I have all power and I spend all of my existence bringing people from opposing sides together and making them sit like we are now, looking at each other as humans and to say...
01:34:56.000 Yeah.
01:35:13.000 That really when it comes down to it, we are all human beings and we all want to do well and be well.
01:35:19.000 Some people go about it in different ways.
01:35:21.000 Do we have to agree on anything?
01:35:23.000 No.
01:35:24.000 But can we at least find that place where we look for the common ground?
01:35:30.000 And in the case with the police and communities, I feel like it actually is...
01:35:34.000 Is it doable and feasible thing?
01:35:36.000 You know, one of those other things.
01:35:37.000 What would happen if we did that?
01:35:39.000 What would happen if I went around pulling people in and breaking down that us versus them?
01:35:44.000 You know, we could do it.
01:35:45.000 Cops and communities, Republicans and Democrats.
01:35:48.000 And, you know, we are all humans when it comes down to it.
01:35:51.000 And we have to recognize that the people that are opposed to that are the real problem.
01:35:55.000 The people that are opposed to that kind of communication and the people that are essentially cemented in their polarization.
01:36:02.000 They're just looking for a fight and they're not looking for a solution.
01:36:06.000 They're a real problem.
01:36:07.000 It is.
01:36:08.000 And I feel like that is, as a society, we've just gotten to a seriously scary point with that us versus them perspective.
01:36:18.000 And I hate that more than anything.
01:36:22.000 It's weaponized.
01:36:23.000 Yeah.
01:36:23.000 If I could have my magic wand, that's where it would be.
01:36:27.000 It would be to just start healing and putting people together and finding common ground and And pulling us back together as a society.
01:36:34.000 No political speeches either.
01:36:36.000 You can't do that.
01:36:38.000 That's a dumb way to talk.
01:36:39.000 You've got a whole group of things here.
01:36:42.000 This is the academic nerd in me as I was planning.
01:36:46.000 We've talked about a lot of the things on there.
01:36:51.000 Is there anything we didn't cover that you think is important that people need to recognize?
01:36:56.000 You know, the only thing, like, from my perspective that comes up that I think about is, you know, when we're looking for who becomes a police officer, you know, we as psychologists, we're really important gatekeepers because we kind of give the final seal of approval before someone gets hired.
01:37:14.000 And there's been some really interesting discussions about what should we look for in today's culture and with all the issues going on now.
01:37:24.000 Can we screen out bias and racism?
01:37:26.000 And I mentioned it a little bit before that doing so is a really challenging thing.
01:37:32.000 We probably will never be able to do it to the degree that people want us to.
01:37:37.000 And there's been a lot of talk about implicit bias.
01:37:41.000 Have you had anybody come on and talk about that kind of stuff?
01:37:44.000 You know, the idea that we all have these kind of subconscious or unconscious biases.
01:37:52.000 They're just below awareness.
01:37:54.000 They're just kind of things that we all react in ways...
01:37:59.000 Some more dramatic than others, but that we are made as humans that we have these implicit biases.
01:38:05.000 And so a lot of folks have talked about, well, can't we screen for implicit bias in officers and not hire the people who have that?
01:38:15.000 And I thought, well...
01:38:17.000 No, because the problem is we all have them.
01:38:20.000 There's an online test that millions of people have taken.
01:38:23.000 It's connected with Harvard.
01:38:25.000 It's the implicit association test.
01:38:27.000 It's online.
01:38:27.000 Anybody can go take it.
01:38:29.000 And it's really fascinating.
01:38:30.000 You can choose what groups you want to see if you have bias towards, you know, different races.
01:38:34.000 There's a black-white one.
01:38:36.000 You can do the...
01:38:38.000 Fat, skinny one.
01:38:40.000 You can see if you have biases towards, you know, different sexual orientation.
01:38:44.000 So you choose which bias you want to investigate.
01:38:47.000 You take this test.
01:38:48.000 And basically it's saying the whole premise is if you have these associations.
01:38:54.000 You know, if you have a bias like against black folks, then what they do during the test is they flash up like a picture of white and black people and then positive and negative words.
01:39:04.000 And you have to respond according to instructions for keystrokes.
01:39:08.000 And the notion is if you associate, you know, a black, if you have a negative bias towards black folks, you're going to associate the black faces with the negative words.
01:39:18.000 You're going to respond faster.
01:39:19.000 Oh, that seems so crazy.
01:39:20.000 This test has been around forever.
01:39:22.000 But is that real?
01:39:23.000 I mean, that has to be really criticized.
01:39:25.000 So what's funny is that- Isn't it?
01:39:27.000 It is if you're a testing person.
01:39:30.000 So in my day job, I'm a bit of a testing geek.
01:39:31.000 But the thing is, it's not life.
01:39:33.000 It's not.
01:39:34.000 And that's exactly kind of the point that I thought was important to me, because you hear a lot about this and people are like, well, give that.
01:39:40.000 I'm like, well, there's some major problems.
01:39:41.000 First of all, from testing standards, you can take it twice and you're probably going to score differently.
01:39:46.000 Well, here's the problem.
01:39:47.000 You could juke that system.
01:39:49.000 You could, like, go, oh, I know what they want me to do.
01:39:52.000 What if you were an actual racist and you took that, but you knew they were looking for a racist?
01:39:57.000 You would pretend.
01:39:58.000 So the theory behind the test is that it supersedes that because it's instant and it's fast.
01:40:03.000 It's how quickly you respond.
01:40:04.000 Yeah, but you know what you're doing.
01:40:05.000 And so the theory is that because these are below the surface...
01:40:10.000 That it gets around trying to manipulate it.
01:40:12.000 That's the idea.
01:40:13.000 I'm not advocating and saying it's perfect.
01:40:16.000 But those who support it would say it's a big deal.
01:40:19.000 What scares me is that people have wanted to use that in screening.
01:40:25.000 And we can't because number one, it's implicit.
01:40:28.000 We all have these biases.
01:40:30.000 Number two, just having it does not predict whether or not you would ever act on a bias.
01:40:36.000 So there's no good research that shows that having implicit bias is meaning you will act in a racist way.
01:40:43.000 So there's not a connection there.
01:40:45.000 So that's the second problem.
01:40:47.000 But what stands out to me is there's people who are, like, now doing these implicit bias trainings.
01:40:52.000 And they're doing it for officers.
01:40:56.000 And I'm not saying this is a bad thing or knocking it.
01:40:58.000 There's some research that supports and shows that if we want to and if we are actively engaging and trying, that we can change things.
01:41:07.000 Our implicit bias.
01:41:09.000 Like we can, once we become aware of it, we can do things to counter it and to change it and decrease it.
01:41:14.000 And that's a great notion.
01:41:16.000 But they're trying really hard to implement this into the world of police work because it's kind of one of the only things going, right?
01:41:24.000 And for me, I'm not as on this bandwagon yet.
01:41:27.000 I need to see a whole lot more evidence that this works because while I have seen research that shows it's possible to change your implicit bias, I have not seen anything that directly applies to police work.
01:41:39.000 And again, it may still be out there.
01:41:42.000 Maybe I haven't come out.
01:41:43.000 Maybe I haven't come across the studies or I haven't seen it yet.
01:41:45.000 There's some stuff out there.
01:41:47.000 But the problem that I see that makes me most nervous about it or reluctant to kind of jump on board here is that it takes a lot of effort.
01:41:57.000 It takes, you know, desire and practice and effort and to make those kind of changes.
01:42:04.000 And I just, you know, you've probably never worked for a company where you've been required to go to a diversity training.
01:42:11.000 I've been to probably a dozen at this point over the course of my career.
01:42:15.000 How fun are they?
01:42:16.000 Horrible.
01:42:17.000 90% of them are horrible.
01:42:18.000 I've been to maybe two that were amazing.
01:42:21.000 What's horrible about it?
01:42:23.000 They're canned.
01:42:25.000 A lot of them just don't give much information that's helpful.
01:42:29.000 When you say canned, what do you mean?
01:42:32.000 It's exactly what you would expect in a diversity.
01:42:34.000 This group is this and this group is that.
01:42:37.000 And if you feel this way, you're wrong.
01:42:40.000 And if you do this, you're wrong.
01:42:42.000 And it just sort of makes you leave feeling like a horrible person.
01:42:47.000 Can you be specific?
01:42:49.000 What kind of questions are they asking you?
01:42:52.000 Oh, gosh.
01:42:53.000 I think of a good specific example.
01:42:56.000 It's been a while since I've had to go to any of them.
01:42:58.000 The most recent one I went to actually was pretty fantastic.
01:43:02.000 It's more like...
01:43:04.000 You know, here's what white people are like.
01:43:09.000 Here's what black people are like.
01:43:11.000 And they're based on these overgeneralizations and stereotypes.
01:43:14.000 And maybe I've just gone to a lot of bad trainings in the agencies that I've worked for and they haven't been put on.
01:43:21.000 But they just seem, I mean, canned in that they're...
01:43:24.000 So they're using implicit bias to describe white people and black people?
01:43:29.000 Because it sounds biased.
01:43:29.000 No.
01:43:30.000 Not so much implicit bias, but more generalization and stereotype.
01:43:34.000 But isn't that biased?
01:43:35.000 It can be.
01:43:37.000 I think it's just they try to, or at least a lot of the groups that have put them on, try to make it very broad so it'll fit a wide audience that they deliver it to, but it becomes so broad that it just feels like...
01:43:49.000 Like, this isn't very helpful.
01:43:52.000 So it seems like something that they have to do to show they're doing something.
01:43:57.000 Right.
01:43:57.000 And so I think a lot of those...
01:43:59.000 And, you know, police departments are being required to do diversity training.
01:44:03.000 So whenever I hear it, I kind of cringe, just having been to some really bad ones, and think, well, gosh...
01:44:09.000 Who's doing that and is it doing more harm than good?
01:44:12.000 Diversity training is a wonderful thing when done well.
01:44:16.000 I just think...
01:44:17.000 How is it done well?
01:44:19.000 You know, when I think of the ones that I've been to that were done well, they explained, you know, the process of sort of exploring one's thoughts and feelings.
01:44:29.000 It was not so much accusatory, but, you know, here are some of the things that folks who are really interested can do.
01:44:37.000 And, you know, you can't, you know, and here are some people who are doing good work and they, you know, show different news stories of people who are You know, who have come along, gone from, you know, being somebody who maybe had problems before with, you know, having, you know, bias or even overt racist acts and that they've learned some things and made changes.
01:44:56.000 And so you kind of see someone's progress and they talk about theory behind how people come to identify, you know, With, you know, their cultural background and self.
01:45:06.000 You know, we've all got some makeup there and what those sort of stages look like.
01:45:11.000 And, you know, much deeper and moving far away from the Just generalizations and stereotyping in this group and that group and all that.
01:45:23.000 I just feel like trying to fix that in a seminar or any – it just seems so silly.
01:45:28.000 Yeah.
01:45:29.000 It's hard.
01:45:30.000 I mean – and if somebody really does want to dig deep and explore and – You know, to move forward in terms of exploring and becoming aware of, you know, it's deep work.
01:45:43.000 It's hard work.
01:45:45.000 It's something that I think you really have to want to do.
01:45:49.000 And that's, you know, sitting in a seminar room for two hours and being talked at.
01:45:56.000 Usually isn't that effective.
01:45:58.000 So they're hard things.
01:46:00.000 It's a really, really important topic.
01:46:02.000 And I think we got a long way to go.
01:46:05.000 You know, and in terms of like screening and whatnot like I do, we're in a tough place because, you know, we don't have any tests that detect bias.
01:46:16.000 And to create one, we would...
01:46:20.000 It's almost an impossible thing because these are things that tend to be more subtle and less overt and hard to directly measure in the way we do in psychology.
01:46:32.000 What else you got in that paper that we didn't go over already?
01:46:36.000 No.
01:46:37.000 We talked about a lot of stuff.
01:46:39.000 Because I would imagine something like this, it's a weird opportunity, right?
01:46:42.000 Yeah.
01:46:42.000 You have to think, what are we going to talk about and how's it going to go?
01:46:45.000 Yeah.
01:46:47.000 Is there anything that we covered that we maybe didn't cover correctly or weird?
01:46:55.000 I'm trying to...
01:46:56.000 I don't know.
01:46:57.000 What have we talked about?
01:46:58.000 It's all such a blur sitting here in this seat in this microphone.
01:47:01.000 You do this every day.
01:47:02.000 I don't.
01:47:03.000 Is it weird?
01:47:04.000 Yeah, it is weird.
01:47:05.000 Weird to hear your own voice in your ears?
01:47:07.000 Totally weird to hear my own voice in my ears.
01:47:09.000 I'm used to hearing my own voice, but more like in a classroom with Students who are hiding behind laptops falling asleep while I talk at them, but talking into a microphone with heads on and a headset on and knowing lots of voices are listening.
01:47:24.000 I think the most important thing that we talked about other than the nonsense of defunding the police is this psychological aspect of the pressure and the high stress and then the amount of downtime that a human being requires to sort of come back to normal and that these cops really never get that.
01:47:42.000 Yeah, I feel like that is one of the most important things I wanted to share and get out there.
01:47:48.000 So, you know, if there are cops out there listening and they're like, oh, wow, I felt that or I'm there, go get that book and read it.
01:47:58.000 There's so much good advice in there.
01:48:05.000 Yeah.
01:48:22.000 We've been under stress before, you know, maybe in a not so great place for whatever reason, just the jobs wearing on them or they've been in a major incident and they're still recovering from that and then combine that with just this pervasive anti-cop and all of that,
01:48:37.000 that that really could push people into a dark place.
01:48:42.000 And we know, you know...
01:48:43.000 Police suicide has been a major problem.
01:48:46.000 It's gone up in the past few years.
01:48:49.000 What is the rate?
01:48:50.000 So the rate, well, in terms of like percentages, it's almost impossible to give a good number because it depends on what your comparison group is.
01:49:00.000 I know in 2018, I think there were recorded, known, about 172 suicides.
01:49:08.000 And then in 2019, it was up to like 228. And I'm scared to know what 2020 might look like given all the other hardships of the world.
01:49:16.000 Well, just suicide in general is way up right now.
01:49:19.000 Suicide in general is high, so I can only imagine.
01:49:20.000 And there's a little bit of argument depending on what stats you look at as to how much higher it is in the police profession compared to the community.
01:49:29.000 So different, you know, people can make stats say a lot of different things.
01:49:32.000 It's generally been accepted that it's a good bit higher for police.
01:49:36.000 It's one of the professions that has the highest suicide rate.
01:49:41.000 So like one of the numbers quoted out there like for the general population it's about 12 or 13 per 100,000 people would commit suicide and for police officers it's more like 17 or 18 people out of 100,000 so We see differences in the rates.
01:49:58.000 And again, all that stuff we talked about before feeds into that tough culture, not going to ask for help.
01:50:04.000 And one of, I think, the most interesting things, interesting and frustrating for me, is that of the other psychologists I've talked to that have worked with agencies, I'm like, how do we get in there and break down that barrier?
01:50:17.000 How do I get them to come to me?
01:50:20.000 And when they need help so that we can prevent the suicides.
01:50:24.000 And how can you help them once they do come to you?
01:50:26.000 So if I can get them to me, I can, I mean, I can't be all knowing and all perfect.
01:50:32.000 If we can get them to a psychologist, we can help them.
01:50:35.000 You think so?
01:50:36.000 In most cases.
01:50:37.000 For suicide, yeah.
01:50:39.000 Because there's always hope.
01:50:40.000 Suicide is when you've just lost the hope and you feel like that pain is never going to end and you don't, you see no way out.
01:50:46.000 And we can help with that.
01:50:49.000 If we know it's there and we know what to look for.
01:50:51.000 I feel very confident that when you get a good therapist and you get someone in with a good therapist, we can help.
01:50:58.000 But it's when they don't reach out.
01:51:00.000 And that is the biggest problem with officers is that they will suffer in silence and they will go every other which way.
01:51:07.000 It turns into depression or they have PTSD or they're using substances to cope with the difficulties and all the other things that compound on there.
01:51:16.000 That what's the best way to Get them into the office so we can help them.
01:51:22.000 And a great line—and now I'm going to blank, and I'm so sorry for whoever it was I'm stealing this from, but another psychologist said what she's like, you got to be like the furniture.
01:51:31.000 And I'm like, what does that mean?
01:51:33.000 She's like, in the department, you got to be like a coat rack or a chair.
01:51:36.000 Like, they're so used to seeing you there.
01:51:38.000 It's like, oh, hey, Doc.
01:51:40.000 You know, hey, what's up?
01:51:41.000 Hi, Dr. Panza.
01:51:42.000 I'm like, hey, you know, like they're so used to seeing you, and you're just like one of them.
01:51:47.000 That's when they come talk to you.
01:51:49.000 So that was one of the things that stood out.
01:51:52.000 Be the furniture.
01:51:53.000 But the thing that's frustrating about that is it's hard for departments to open their doors and let outsiders in.
01:52:00.000 You know what?
01:52:01.000 It's hard to say, you know, okay, here, I'm available or you've got a contract with this company so that anybody who needs therapy can go.
01:52:09.000 But just to have that person present.
01:52:11.000 So things that have been suggested, you know, have a one day a month, have, you know, the docs in the office there and anybody's free to come in and ask questions or talk.
01:52:21.000 It's open door.
01:52:22.000 Talk about you.
01:52:23.000 Talk about a friend.
01:52:24.000 Come in and it's all confidential.
01:52:26.000 It's all covered.
01:52:27.000 You know, it's whatever.
01:52:28.000 But that they're so used to seeing you That, you know, over time they will come in and be like, oh yeah, you're okay.
01:52:36.000 You know, it's doing ride-alongs with people.
01:52:38.000 It's becoming familiar.
01:52:40.000 But I find that it's hard to get departments to open that door and to kind of accept you as part of them.
01:52:47.000 Well, doesn't it depend entirely upon the personality of the psychologist as well?
01:52:51.000 Some people would be really annoying to have around.
01:52:54.000 Yes.
01:52:54.000 Like you would be great to have around.
01:52:56.000 You're a nice person.
01:52:56.000 Thank you.
01:52:57.000 Fun to talk to.
01:52:58.000 Thank you.
01:52:58.000 But I'm sure there's a lot of psychologists that are not.
01:53:01.000 Yeah, it's true.
01:53:02.000 And they probably don't want to be police psychologists then because you kind of got to – you got to at least have an appreciation if not an affinity for that.
01:53:13.000 There's always been something about it that's fascinating and that has drawn me in to say, you know what, this is just – This is just a stupid hard job.
01:53:23.000 And the people who do it work so hard and put so much of themselves into it.
01:53:28.000 I've just always had that soft spot.
01:53:30.000 I'm glad you do.
01:53:31.000 And so, yeah, like just being there and being present so that that door is open and they might just slip into it.
01:53:38.000 Because if we can get them in there, I feel really confident that we can help.
01:53:43.000 We know what to do.
01:53:44.000 That's what we do.
01:53:44.000 We help people who are depressed or anxious or traumatized or considering ending their life because we...
01:53:50.000 Of all the things, want to stop that one.
01:53:54.000 Yeah, and obviously abuse.
01:53:56.000 Yeah.
01:53:57.000 Thank you.
01:53:58.000 Thank you very much, Nancy.
01:53:59.000 You're welcome.
01:53:59.000 It's really good to talk to you, and I think what you do is very important.
01:54:02.000 And I think we're both in agreement that it is an unbelievably difficult job and very underappreciated.
01:54:08.000 Yeah.
01:54:08.000 And, you know, there's a lot more good cops than there are bad cops.
01:54:11.000 That's for sure.
01:54:13.000 That's for sure.
01:54:13.000 Thank you for letting me come today.
01:54:15.000 Do you have a social media or anything?
01:54:17.000 Mainly just email.
01:54:19.000 Don't give your email out.
01:54:20.000 I'm pretty low profile.
01:54:21.000 Don't do it.
01:54:21.000 I'll give you social media that people can go for.
01:54:24.000 What do you have?
01:54:26.000 I'll have to give it to you later.
01:54:27.000 Do you have a Twitter or Instagram?
01:54:28.000 I don't tweet or Instagram.
01:54:29.000 I just stay away from it.
01:54:30.000 Yeah, that's why I say it.
01:54:31.000 Good for you.
01:54:32.000 I function off email.
01:54:32.000 I can't deal with all the social media.
01:54:34.000 Good for you.
01:54:34.000 Thank you.
01:54:35.000 Thank you very much.
01:54:36.000 Bye.