The Joe Rogan Experience - September 02, 2014


Joe Rogan Experience #543 - Sam Harris


Episode Stats

Length

2 hours and 59 minutes

Words per Minute

162.32935

Word Count

29,130

Sentence Count

1,993

Misogynist Sentences

12

Hate Speech Sentences

38


Summary

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00:06:36.000 Sam Harris is here.
00:06:37.000 Why fuck around?
00:06:38.000 Cue the music, Jamie.
00:06:49.000 My friend, Sam Harris, author, awesome dude, martial artist, and author of Waking Up, A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion.
00:06:59.000 I told you I first found out about you from my friend Joe Silva, who's the matchmaker for the UFC, who gave me your book.
00:07:05.000 He gave me Letters to a Christian Nation many, many years ago.
00:07:09.000 When did you publish that?
00:07:11.000 2008?
00:07:12.000 2006. 2006?
00:07:13.000 Yeah, he gave it to me around then.
00:07:15.000 He's like, gotta read this.
00:07:16.000 It's awesome.
00:07:17.000 And I did.
00:07:17.000 And look, we're pals.
00:07:18.000 Cool.
00:07:19.000 Here we go.
00:07:19.000 Yeah, that's great.
00:07:20.000 And your new book, Waking Up, A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion.
00:07:24.000 Well, that's impossible.
00:07:25.000 So your book is nonsense because you need God in your life.
00:07:29.000 I'm running into that.
00:07:29.000 Well, no, actually, I'm running to the other side of that where spirituality makes no sense unless you believe in religion.
00:07:36.000 There's no such thing as a spirit.
00:07:37.000 So, you know, why would you want to endorse something called spirituality?
00:07:42.000 That's a kind of a – that's fair, isn't it?
00:07:46.000 Like, what is a spirit?
00:07:47.000 I mean, don't you have to have faith in something to sort of – just the idea of a spirit?
00:07:54.000 If you're going to talk about spirituality or a spirit, like, what are you really talking about?
00:08:00.000 Yeah, well, I'm definitely not talking about a spirit or a soul or anything that can float off the brain at death.
00:08:06.000 I think spirituality is one of these words that we just have to reclaim because there's really not an English equivalent for this area of inquiry.
00:08:15.000 If you want to take seriously the...
00:08:18.000 One question.
00:08:19.000 Can I pull these off?
00:08:20.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:08:22.000 Cool.
00:08:23.000 You have what?
00:08:23.000 I'm just getting like this kind of distorted sound.
00:08:26.000 Oh, really?
00:08:26.000 Yeah.
00:08:26.000 Could be my brain, could be the...
00:08:28.000 But it's a lot better with these off.
00:08:29.000 Maybe God talking in your ear.
00:08:31.000 You're...
00:08:32.000 You're blocking them out.
00:08:34.000 If God needs these, we know his powers are limited.
00:08:38.000 I'll take these off too.
00:08:39.000 We'll leave it up to Jamie to find out whether or not...
00:08:42.000 There we go.
00:08:43.000 Cool.
00:08:44.000 It's not nearly as loud.
00:08:45.000 So this is a big hang-up for atheists and secularists and skeptics.
00:08:51.000 This idea that spirituality is a word...
00:08:54.000 That means magic and superstition by definition and by its etymology, because it goes back to the Latin spiritus, which comes from the Greek pneuma, meaning breath, and it's this idea that the spirit is, you're asserting some kind of dualism,
00:09:10.000 the spirit that's internal to the body that is not produced by the body, that can leave the body at death.
00:09:16.000 And it's true that most people, most of the time, Have some quasi-mystical, spooky association with the concept of spirituality.
00:09:26.000 And it's obviously linked up with all the stuff that people believe about crystals and angels and all the other stuff that I don't want to be entangled with.
00:09:33.000 But I just think there's no word for...
00:09:38.000 If you're going to take seriously the project of becoming like Jesus, whoever he was, or becoming someone who could actually love his neighbor as his self, or...
00:09:48.000 Becoming like the Buddha or just exploring the furthest reaches of positive human experience through meditation or psychedelics or some other methodology that really perturbs consciousness.
00:10:03.000 There's no word for that endeavor, and to call it positive psychology or happiness or well-being, most people think they know what you mean when you use words like happiness and well-being and love, and yet they have no idea how rarefied things can get if you take the right drug,
00:10:22.000 if you spend three months in silence doing nothing but meditate.
00:10:28.000 There are many layers to this thing, and so I've tried to reclaim the term spirituality.
00:10:34.000 Some guy I was talking to recently on a podcast drew an analogy to the word evil, which is another word that people are uncomfortable with, because once we understand things like psychopathy and other ways in which the human mind can malfunction, It seems that there's no rational basis to be talking about evil,
00:10:51.000 but I think we need the word evil.
00:10:53.000 I think we need to reclaim the word evil for a secular, rational conversation because we need a big word for really the worst of human impulses.
00:11:04.000 Evil and good, they don't seem to be dependent upon a religious belief.
00:11:10.000 I think evil is just what affects a gang of people in a negative way, or one individual.
00:11:16.000 You know, poison and water supply.
00:11:17.000 Obviously, that's an evil deed.
00:11:19.000 You're going to kill a bunch of people.
00:11:20.000 You're going to cause a bunch of pain.
00:11:22.000 That seems to make at least some sense without religion, as does good, like good and evil.
00:11:28.000 Yeah.
00:11:28.000 Actually, for evil, the confidence in the use of the term evil has definitely eroded among secular scientist types.
00:11:37.000 Just picture it.
00:11:38.000 Once you understand what we're calling evil at the level of the brain, once you find a gene for a dopamine receptor that correlates with psychopathy...
00:11:50.000 Or a deficit of such a receptor.
00:11:54.000 Then you begin to say, well, this is all just, we're talking about biology, we're talking about bad luck, we're talking about illness, and then what does evil name in that case?
00:12:08.000 Right.
00:12:10.000 Is it psychopathy?
00:12:17.000 Let's talk about Israel and Gaza.
00:12:19.000 Say if you are in Gaza and a bomb has hit your apartment building and killed your family and you've made it your goal to kill as many Jews before they take you out.
00:12:30.000 Is that psychopathy?
00:12:32.000 Is that evil?
00:12:33.000 What is that kind of retribution?
00:12:37.000 Yeah, that's definitely a gray area.
00:12:39.000 I think with evil, we want to reserve it for those situations in which...
00:12:45.000 Unprovoked?
00:12:46.000 Yeah, there's no story the person can tell that would seem to justify this to a rational person.
00:12:52.000 You can't think, well, if I were in that person's shoes, I would be doing the same thing.
00:12:56.000 You think this is a twisted kind of sadism.
00:13:00.000 This person is taking pleasure in causing suffering to other human beings.
00:13:12.000 I think we're good to go.
00:13:30.000 Is Uday Hussein, Saddam Hussein's eldest son.
00:13:33.000 I mean, this guy was just as pure a psychopath as you're ever going to find.
00:13:38.000 This is someone who, when he would see a wedding in progress in Baghdad, he and his thugs would descend and rape the bride and sometimes torture and kill the bride.
00:13:48.000 Feeder to dogs.
00:13:50.000 Yeah, I hadn't heard that.
00:13:51.000 So when you hear that, that's not the same thing as hearing that somebody's house got bombed and their family died and then they become committed to harming their aggressors or people like their aggressors.
00:14:03.000 Right.
00:14:04.000 So...
00:14:06.000 But yeah, so anyway, just to back up and end that point, I feel like I'm embarrassed, frankly, by the term spirituality, too.
00:14:15.000 I think it's just not a great word given its history, and yet the only similar words that do a similar job are even spooky or something like mysticism, which is just even more I use the word contemplative to name any practice that would be designed to discover what consciousness is like,
00:14:42.000 independent of just thinking about it.
00:14:45.000 Yeah, I think we need a new word, right?
00:14:47.000 We need a new word for being a positive person.
00:14:48.000 But the thing is, quoting new words is also a dead end to me.
00:14:51.000 I hate neologisms.
00:14:52.000 I hate it when some author comes forward with his word that no one's ever heard of and he's hoping to foist it on the rest of humanity.
00:14:59.000 Here's a new noun that you all have to...
00:15:03.000 We're good to go.
00:15:19.000 Yeah.
00:15:38.000 We're good to go.
00:15:55.000 This is really, in my view, a completion of the project I started with The End of Faith where I started by just noticing how divisive and unnecessary and ultimately dangerous our incompatible religious ideas are and how we need to have a secular conversation about the problem there.
00:16:17.000 First, I started talking about just how there's, by definition, a zero-sum conflict between science and religion because there's a zero-sum conflict between believing things for good reasons and believing things for bad reasons.
00:16:32.000 And the people who are satisfied with bad reasons and willing to defend their bad reasons with violence or even with policy are hostile to the project of science.
00:16:43.000 So once you've criticized that problem and notice that these books can't possibly be infallible given all that we know through science and notice that they can't possibly be infallible given that they're all mutually contradictory, so Christians and Muslims can't both be right,
00:17:00.000 Then you have to grapple with the fact that there's all these good things that people think they're getting out of religion and they want to find some other way to get those things.
00:17:07.000 And the first on the list is ethics and morality.
00:17:10.000 And so the moral landscape was my argument that we can have a strong conception of ethics without believing any bullshit.
00:17:16.000 And this is my effort to open up a conversation on the topic of spirituality, which is the center of spirituality for me is the phenomenon of self-transcendence, just the fact that it's possible to lose your sense of self,
00:17:32.000 lose your sense of being an ego, lose your sense that you're a rider on the horse of consciousness riding around inside your head, not exactly I think?
00:18:04.000 And most people most of the time feel that they're in their heads and that they're a subject and they're a thinker of thoughts and that there's a thinker in addition to the thoughts themselves.
00:18:15.000 They don't feel that there's thoughts arising in consciousness, but most people feel that They are the thinker that is authoring these thoughts.
00:18:22.000 And this actually goes right to the issue of free will as well, because the feeling of having free will is the other side of the coin of the feeling of being a self, being a thinker, being an author of actions and intentions.
00:18:37.000 So I'm arguing that it's possible to cut through that illusion and that there are good reasons to believe that it's an illusion based on just the underlying neurology and what we know about causality and what we know about the brain.
00:18:51.000 But you can actually penetrate this illusion subjectively and that the spirituality is the act of cutting through it subjectively and no longer feeling that you're an ego riding around inside a bag of skin.
00:19:04.000 And that one's life improves in many obvious ways once one is able to cut through that illusion.
00:19:14.000 And so this is kind of a sustained argument for...
00:19:33.000 It's a very complex situation as well, isn't it?
00:19:36.000 When you talk about the concept of self and that the consciousness is inside the body.
00:19:42.000 Because it's also dependent upon how the body feels.
00:19:46.000 Like, the body feels bad, the consciousness is affected.
00:19:49.000 Your thought process is affected when you're sick.
00:19:52.000 Your thought process is affected if you're stressed out, if you're angry, if you're not getting exercise, if you're not getting good nutrition, if you're, you know, any...
00:20:00.000 The sense of non-wellness in the body is reflected on the way the person thinks.
00:20:05.000 It makes it more difficult to think with clarity.
00:20:08.000 So it's not as simple as like we're riding in this thing, but this thing also affects the way, you know, you, when you think of you, who you are.
00:20:17.000 I mean, I'm vastly different.
00:20:19.000 Pre- and post-workout.
00:20:20.000 I'm a different person.
00:20:21.000 If you presented me with the same situations, the same dilemmas and problems pre- and post-workout, I'd probably have a pretty different reaction to them.
00:20:32.000 Yeah, and it's not even just...
00:20:34.000 All the variables aren't even within your own body.
00:20:36.000 You're different in different relationships and different situations.
00:20:39.000 You walk into a restaurant and you're talking to the host and just the...
00:20:44.000 The frame around that interaction, your expectation that you're in a restaurant talking to someone who wants to seat you, that changes just the way you approach human interaction.
00:20:55.000 And if you had a different frame, things would be different.
00:21:00.000 And it's almost true to say that different selves are called forth in those different situations, where you just can't be the same self with certain people.
00:21:10.000 You can't even access it.
00:21:11.000 There are certain people who...
00:21:15.000 Yeah.
00:21:34.000 I'm not aware of being on, but I just keep falling into this thing.
00:21:38.000 There are other people where I'm profoundly awkward with these people.
00:21:42.000 If you put me in front of someone whose awkwardness is just tuned up a few notches beyond mine, I become the Asperger's guy with him.
00:21:54.000 It's odd, but there's kind of a resonance that gets set up.
00:21:59.000 It's based on conscious and unconscious mechanisms, obviously, that we have certain variables.
00:22:08.000 It's not to say you can't influence these things.
00:22:10.000 You can go into a situation with a conscious thought that you're going to somehow transform it, and that will have whatever effect it has.
00:22:16.000 And the mind is complicated.
00:22:19.000 It's very complicated, and a lot of it is dependent, our own consciousness is dependent upon interacting with other consciousness, which is one of the reasons why solitary confinement is such a horrible torture to people.
00:22:31.000 Like when you separate a person's mind indefinitely from any other mind, from any other interactions, it freaks people out.
00:22:38.000 I was reading about this...
00:22:39.000 Are you in danger of forgetting this?
00:22:42.000 No, go ahead.
00:22:42.000 It's interesting you raised the point of solitary confinement because the experience that has got me to write this book is very much like solitary confinement.
00:22:51.000 I went on meditation retreats, mostly in my 20s, I think?
00:23:13.000 And you're there on your own volition, but this is many people's worst nightmare, and it would have been, at one point in my life, it would have been my worst nightmare.
00:23:21.000 I went on a, it's actually where I start the book, I went on an Outward Bound when I was 16, which is a wilderness program in the mountains of Colorado, and it was this 23-day Well, uh, course, which culminated in, in this ritual they called a solo where they put us,
00:23:39.000 they parked us all next on the, on the outskirts of a mountain lake, uh, for three days and three nights and they, there was no food.
00:23:47.000 So we fasted and they were just told to just contemplate the universe.
00:23:50.000 And we were given nothing.
00:23:51.000 There were no books.
00:23:52.000 You know, all you could do was write in a journal.
00:23:54.000 And this was the first time in my life where I was actually in solitude.
00:23:59.000 This was the first time in my life where I had no one to talk to or nothing to read or nothing to distract myself with.
00:24:04.000 So I'm in a tent.
00:24:06.000 I've got a tent and a sleeping bag and a blank journal and the most beautiful landscape possible.
00:24:12.000 We're at almost 11,000 feet in the Sangre de Cristos Mountains.
00:24:17.000 So you've just got the perfect stars every night and this pristine mountain lake.
00:24:23.000 And I was as miserable as I've ever been in my life.
00:24:26.000 Really?
00:24:26.000 I was just crushed by loneliness and boredom.
00:24:30.000 I mean, just that my mind was completely out of control.
00:24:32.000 And all I did, my journal reads like just the, you know, the...
00:24:38.000 The Unabomber's manifesto is a far more balanced expression of man's subjectivity than what I was up to at 16 on this solo.
00:24:49.000 I was just making lists of the foods I wanted to eat.
00:24:52.000 I was just craving every – I was making lists.
00:24:55.000 It was just – It was insanity.
00:24:57.000 And then when I came off of this after three days and learned that some of the other people on the course loved it and just felt completely transformed by having three days with nothing to do, I just had no idea what to make of this.
00:25:12.000 How could that have not been anything but a torture for these people?
00:25:17.000 And so then I was 16 there, and it took me a few more years to see a kind of path forward and become interested in these things.
00:25:27.000 But I eventually went on to spend almost two years on silent retreats in my 20s.
00:25:35.000 In circumstances of isolation and sensory deprivation, far worse than that mountain solo, because I wasn't in an especially beautiful place.
00:25:49.000 Your life is entirely dependent upon your mind.
00:25:57.000 Now, it's not to say that external circumstances don't matter, but I mean, there are people who can be genuinely happy and at peace in terrible circumstances, objectively terrible circumstances, and there are people who have everything who are miserable.
00:26:11.000 And so the fact that the delta is that big and can be that uncoupled from external circumstances...
00:26:20.000 It shows you that you are almost entirely dependent on the character of your thoughts, really.
00:26:29.000 The mechanism, which I go into at great length in the book, is that the difference is really the difference between being lost in thought and recognizing thoughts for what they are.
00:26:40.000 Most people are thinking every moment of their lives And aren't aware of it.
00:26:44.000 They may have an abstract idea that they're thinking every moment of their lives, but they're not aware of the automaticity and the relentlessness of this conversation they're having with themselves.
00:26:58.000 To be identified with the next thought that arises in consciousness is to be its mere prisoner.
00:27:04.000 You are then identical to whatever subjective state, emotional state, mood state it dictates.
00:27:13.000 So if it's a self-critical thought or a fearful thought or a hateful thought, That is the character of your consciousness in that moment.
00:27:21.000 And until you can break that spell, until you can see thoughts as thoughts just arising and passing away in consciousness, you see no alternative.
00:27:30.000 There's just no basis for an alternative.
00:27:32.000 And then you're as miserable as your thoughts demand.
00:27:34.000 Was part of what was really fucking with you when you were 16 years old the fact that you were 16?
00:27:40.000 That's how old you were when you were up there on the mountain?
00:27:43.000 Yeah.
00:27:43.000 Because you have so few...
00:27:54.000 I think?
00:28:06.000 I'm so filled with things that I have to do on a regular basis.
00:28:11.000 I'm so filled with responsibilities.
00:28:13.000 If I knew that I was going to do that, I probably would find some pretty deep enjoyment in it.
00:28:16.000 Because I have so many life experiences to draw on, so many thoughts in my mind that would probably benefit from having that time just with nothing coming in but nature.
00:28:27.000 Yeah.
00:28:28.000 Being 16 might have had a little to do with it because...
00:28:31.000 Almost everyone else on the course was maybe a decade older, and they had a better time.
00:28:37.000 But no, I think there are 16-year-olds who would have had a fine time, and there are definitely 20-year-olds and 30-year-olds and 40-year-olds who would be miserable in that circumstance, because I see them on meditation retreats.
00:28:50.000 And on my own retreats, I've experienced...
00:28:55.000 You know, deep feelings of loneliness and sadness.
00:28:58.000 It's hard to leave everyone you love for three months.
00:29:02.000 At whatever age, 25, I guess I was 30 the last time I sat.
00:29:07.000 I was exactly 30 the last time I sat a three-month retreat.
00:29:11.000 But you're unplugging from your life.
00:29:13.000 You're saying goodbye to everyone you know.
00:29:16.000 For all you know, someone's going to die while you're on retreat.
00:29:19.000 And so there's this real discontinuity with every project and every aspiration and everything you have going on.
00:29:27.000 And also, most of the people in your life can't believe you're doing this.
00:29:31.000 There's not much support.
00:29:33.000 It's just totally inscrutable to people that you would decide to do this.
00:29:36.000 And then you essentially lock yourself in a closet.
00:29:40.000 I mean, you essentially lock yourself in a room as big as these two tables, and then you're just left with your thoughts.
00:29:48.000 And the problem is that just thinking itself, even thinking happy thoughts...
00:29:54.000 Is stressful.
00:29:56.000 When you really start paying attention to it, the sheer automaticity of it, just to not be able to stop the conversation.
00:30:05.000 And you just can't stop talking to yourself for a second.
00:30:09.000 Now, eventually you can.
00:30:11.000 Eventually you become concentrated on, in this case, the practice I was doing is called Vipassana, which is mindfulness meditation.
00:30:19.000 And The practice there is just to become very keenly aware of, you start with the breath as an object of meditation, but once you get a little concentration, you open it up to everything.
00:30:30.000 So sounds and sensations and even thoughts themselves become objects of meditation where you're just noticing whatever arises in consciousness.
00:30:39.000 But the difference between noticing a thought arise and pass away and being lost in thought is huge.
00:30:45.000 It's the all-important difference.
00:30:47.000 And it takes some real concentration to see a thought arise and pass away.
00:30:54.000 Because without the concentration, all of a sudden the thought's just you.
00:30:57.000 It just comes up from behind in a way.
00:31:00.000 And you feel identical.
00:31:05.000 In a strange way, you feel identical to To this sentence in your head.
00:31:11.000 Thoughts are just sentences and images.
00:31:14.000 When you actually look at what a thought is, it's very hard to see how it could ever define your subjectivity in the first place.
00:31:20.000 It's just like, your thoughts are no more substantial than the sound of my voice.
00:31:25.000 You're just hearing the sound of my voice as a kind of appearance in consciousness right now.
00:31:29.000 And it's not defining you.
00:31:32.000 You don't feel identical to it.
00:31:33.000 It doesn't have a real implication so much for how you feel.
00:31:43.000 It's easy to see, or in this case hear, that it is just an appearance in consciousness.
00:31:49.000 It comes and it goes, it starts and it stops, and it's all sort of in plain view.
00:31:54.000 But with your own thoughts, with your own voice, It sneaks up on you in a way that is, and even to use the word you in this case is a little misleading, but it colors consciousness and trims it down in such a way that it just feels like you.
00:32:13.000 The feeling of being a self, the feeling that we call I, the feeling of being an ego in the head, Is what it feels like to be thinking without knowing that you're thinking.
00:32:26.000 It's the feeling of this next thought capturing consciousness.
00:32:31.000 So when you say that, thoughts, you are identical to thoughts.
00:32:34.000 So if you're thinking something really fucked up, like I'm fat, I'm a loser, I'm always going to be a loser, like that is identical to who you are because you are sort of framing yourself in this thought.
00:32:45.000 These thoughts that you're carrying around in your mind, they are what's...
00:32:49.000 Occupying your consciousness.
00:32:50.000 If those thoughts are in the forefront of your consciousness, if they identify you, you are that.
00:32:56.000 You are those thoughts and you are identical to that idea.
00:32:59.000 Yeah, and they're driving behavior, and they're driving emotion, and they're driving each subsequent train of thought.
00:33:05.000 So it's determining the future expressions of your consciousness and your body as well.
00:33:13.000 And again, I'm not separating the mind from the body here.
00:33:17.000 We could talk about this in terms of events in the brain as well, but it's much easier to talk about it in terms of our first-person experience as thoughts and moods.
00:33:27.000 Emotions, etc.
00:33:28.000 But, you know, for the purpose of this argument, you know, there's no doubt that the brain is doing this.
00:33:34.000 It's just, we're not, you know, that side of the story, there's much less to say about that side of the story at the moment.
00:33:41.000 The brain is doing it, but your, whatever it is, your personality, your consciousness, your center...
00:33:56.000 Yeah.
00:33:59.000 Yeah.
00:34:00.000 Yeah.
00:34:04.000 Like myself, we spent a lot of time meditating, especially a lot of time in isolation tanks.
00:34:09.000 It's still difficult every now and then if something's bothering you to just get it out of your head.
00:34:15.000 Especially for me, one of my main issues is my work.
00:34:21.000 Like stand-up comedy, for instance.
00:34:24.000 If I have a show and I fuck a bit up, if it goes wrong...
00:34:29.000 If I have two shows in a night and I fuck a bit up on the first show, I'm okay.
00:34:32.000 If I could redo it on the second show, we're good.
00:34:35.000 But if I fuck it up on the second show, goddammit, now I have to think about that thing all night.
00:34:41.000 And I'll try to let it go.
00:34:42.000 I'll try to get it out of my head, but...
00:34:45.000 I rationalize it by saying the only reason why I've gotten so good is because of this crazy obsession that I have with getting it correct and that when things go awry or when I go down a bad path, it doesn't quite pan out and then I have to sort of restart the whole conversation on stage.
00:35:02.000 Mm-hmm.
00:35:03.000 That uncomfortable moment and then the subsequent uncomfortable recollection of that moment is the very motivation that's led me to be a good stand-up in the first place.
00:35:13.000 So I kind of rationalize it.
00:35:15.000 But fuck, man, when I'm eating dinner after a show and I just flub one word that fucks up a joke, I'll be in the middle of eating pancakes going, shit!
00:35:23.000 I can't get it out of my head.
00:35:24.000 It doesn't matter.
00:35:25.000 I have a wonderful wife and a beautiful family and great friends and a fantastic job and just a dream life.
00:35:34.000 It doesn't matter.
00:35:35.000 I flubbed a word.
00:35:35.000 You fucking idiot!
00:35:37.000 You know, like, why I'm cutting into my food.
00:35:38.000 Ah!
00:35:39.000 Ah!
00:35:39.000 Yeah.
00:35:39.000 Well, that's an interesting moment because there's a moment before the thought has arisen, right, where you have not yet remembered the flopped line.
00:35:50.000 So you're just cutting into your dinner.
00:35:51.000 And then it's an image or part image, part sentence, something.
00:35:57.000 There's some expression of thought that arises in consciousness.
00:36:02.000 And you do not witness it arise.
00:36:08.000 It's a difference between watching a movie and being totally lost in the movie, forgetting that you're sitting in a room with a bunch of other people looking at light on a wall.
00:36:17.000 You're totally captured by the movie.
00:36:19.000 There's a difference between that and actually just seeing the screen, the light on the wall, hearing the sound of the projector, seeing the artifice.
00:36:28.000 And it's possible to see thoughts just as essentially like a play of light on the wall.
00:36:34.000 You see it before it captures you.
00:36:37.000 And the difference is total.
00:36:40.000 And it is kind of like...
00:36:42.000 It's almost like playing a video game where you can now not get killed in the same spot over and over again.
00:36:50.000 It's like not losing in the same boss fight over and over again, yet we lose in that same fight a thousand times a day.
00:36:58.000 But when you can actually see thoughts for what they are, so the next time you flub a line and the next time you recall it, It's possible, and again, it takes a certain degree of concentration to be able to do this, but concentration becomes kind of a native capacity at a certain point.
00:37:15.000 It's like jujitsu or anything else.
00:37:16.000 I mean, you have certain skills, and you don't really lose them.
00:37:21.000 Then you can just see it, and it just comes, and it goes.
00:37:25.000 And it doesn't have...
00:37:27.000 And in its going, it's really gone.
00:37:29.000 And it doesn't have the same emotional necessity.
00:37:32.000 It doesn't trigger the same mental state.
00:37:35.000 Now, that's not to say that these negative mental states haven't had the benefit that you ascribe to them.
00:37:45.000 So, yeah, it could be that you're as good as you are because you were motivated...
00:37:49.000 To not embarrass yourself ever again because it felt so terrible, right?
00:37:52.000 So you hated this experience of flubbing a line.
00:37:54.000 You hated the memory and the reliving of it the next day.
00:37:59.000 You hated what it did to your time with your family.
00:38:02.000 And so you thought, the next tour, I'm going to get up earlier.
00:38:06.000 I'm going to work harder, etc.
00:38:09.000 So yeah, that's all part of the clockwork that's causing you to hone your craft.
00:38:15.000 But I would argue that a little mental suffering goes a long way.
00:38:20.000 I think nine times out of ten, or 99 times out of 100, we suffer unnecessarily, and no good comes from it.
00:38:28.000 It's not actually making us better people.
00:38:30.000 It's making us more neurotic people.
00:38:31.000 We're more worried.
00:38:32.000 We're worse husbands.
00:38:34.000 We're worse fathers.
00:38:35.000 And it's time to break that spell.
00:38:39.000 And then you can selectively be as uptight and neurotic as you want, but it gives you a kind of freedom to pick your priorities in a way, rather than be captured by just whatever the next thought happens to be.
00:38:56.000 I've also found, for me personally, that discipline and diligence are the best mitigating factors for dealing with neurotic thoughts.
00:39:06.000 Like if I have an issue, one of the big issues, if I've ever had anything go wrong, was that I didn't work hard enough.
00:39:14.000 So if I know for a fact that I worked as hard as I could, like back when I was competing, that was a huge issue.
00:39:21.000 And it also mitigated nervousness.
00:39:23.000 Because, look, whenever you're involved in a competition as terrifying as a full-contact martial arts tournament where concussions are not just likely, but someone, and there's 100 people fighting in this tournament, someone's going to sleep.
00:39:38.000 Someone's going to get knocked out.
00:39:39.000 Is it going to be you?
00:39:40.000 Is someone going to get their nose broken?
00:39:41.000 Someone's going to get hit?
00:39:43.000 A lot of people are, probably.
00:39:45.000 If I trained really hard, if I know I did everything that I could, I ate right, I slept right, I put in all the practice, I worked on all my weaknesses, I didn't neglect my strengths, I was much less nervous.
00:39:59.000 Much less nervous and much better at dealing with losses.
00:40:03.000 Whereas losses, I think losses for...
00:40:09.000 I think?
00:40:22.000 So Fabricio's gone on, and he'll be fighting Cain Velasquez for the heavyweight title now in October in Mexico.
00:40:30.000 October or November?
00:40:31.000 November.
00:40:31.000 I believe it's November.
00:40:32.000 One of those.
00:40:34.000 He's fighting Cain Velasquez for the title.
00:40:37.000 Huge fight.
00:40:37.000 It could have been Travis Brown.
00:40:39.000 Travis Brown lost the fight by decision.
00:40:41.000 He lost, without a doubt, but it wasn't embarrassing.
00:40:47.000 He didn't get knocked out in the first round.
00:40:49.000 He didn't get submitted really quickly, but he did lose the fight, and it was apparently devastating to him.
00:40:55.000 I mean, he's talked in great depth about lying in bed in the fetal position crying.
00:41:00.000 I mean, he's this fucking 250-pound gladiator, and he's curled up in the fetal position crying.
00:41:06.000 Well, the truth is, the ego is always curled up in the fetal position crying.
00:41:11.000 We all have that part of ourselves.
00:41:15.000 And that's what is so excruciating about the self.
00:41:20.000 The self really is the center of the center of our problem.
00:41:25.000 Are really going well.
00:41:28.000 We are consoled by how well they're going, but we know it's vulnerable to change.
00:41:34.000 You're only as good as your last appearance, in some sense.
00:41:36.000 I mean, I could do something incredibly embarrassing in the middle of this podcast, and that will be the thing I'm thinking about tonight.
00:41:44.000 And I'm thinking, you know, God, I can't believe I fucked that up so bad in Joe's podcast.
00:41:49.000 And that, you're always vulnerable to that.
00:41:53.000 As long as you're in the center of this thing, vulnerable to what other people think about you, and captive of your...
00:42:04.000 Really crazy rehearsal of experience.
00:42:06.000 When something like this happens to you, just think of how many times you repeat it to yourself.
00:42:12.000 It's like you tell yourself the same story 15 times a minute for hours, and it doesn't strike you as insane, but it actually is insane.
00:42:23.000 If your thoughts could be broadcast on a monitor for other people to hear, And they could hear you repeat yourself over and over and over again.
00:42:33.000 It would seem starkly crazy, and yet it seems normal.
00:42:37.000 It's kind of like the dream state where you go to sleep, and you're in your bed, and everything's obeying the laws of physics, and then in the next conscious moment, you are at a party somewhere, talking to someone who you know is dead,
00:42:53.000 and saying, oh, I can't believe you're alive now.
00:42:56.000 And then, you know, there's a gorilla in the room, and none of this strikes you as crazy.
00:43:02.000 I mean, the craziest thing about dreams is that the mind seems to just accept them, accept these changes, one after the other, without any sense that there should be continuity.
00:43:14.000 And this is due, there's no question that this is due to...
00:43:18.000 The diminished activity of the frontal lobes during REM sleep.
00:43:21.000 Our truth, our reality testing hardware has come largely offline during dreams.
00:43:26.000 But there's something analogous happening when we're just thinking in the waking state because thoughts don't make much sense.
00:43:37.000 We don't notice how crazy the repetition is, and we would notice it if we were talking to each other.
00:43:42.000 If I was telling you the same thing 15 times in a row, Without honoring your expectation that I might move on to another topic, you would notice and I would notice, right?
00:43:54.000 And the other thing that's crazy about thoughts is that much of our thinking, certainly our linguistic thoughts, It's structured as though it were a conversation, and we play both sides of the conversation.
00:44:10.000 So I'll sit down here, and I came in, I sat down, and I brought you a book, and I wanted to sign the book, and I see this pen over here, and I think, oh good, there's a pen over there.
00:44:24.000 Now, I can see that there's a pen over there.
00:44:27.000 So why do I have to say there's a pen over there?
00:44:30.000 Who am I telling?
00:44:31.000 Is there someone in me who can't see that there's a pen over there?
00:44:34.000 So there's a conversation that starts, and I'm both sides of it.
00:44:37.000 That doesn't make any sense, right?
00:44:39.000 And yet, our subjectivity is continually just, it is discursive in that way, and there's just voices talking to each other.
00:44:52.000 Not only are there not two of us in there, there's not even one of us in there.
00:44:57.000 The thinker isn't there, but we seem to have two of them.
00:45:00.000 It's like we're constantly talking to mommy and daddy.
00:45:04.000 In fact, that could be the way this conversation gets internalized because I can see it in my kids now.
00:45:12.000 I'll listen to my daughter playing by herself And she's talking to herself out loud in the way that, you know, you'd have to be sort of crazy to do as an adult, but as a kid, you're just, you know, you're just talking out loud.
00:45:24.000 And eventually, we all learn to internalize that conversation.
00:45:29.000 And when you don't, when people who can't internalize it, well, they're the crazy ones.
00:45:33.000 You know, the person who's walking down the street...
00:45:35.000 Just saying, oh good, there's a pen over there.
00:45:38.000 God, we're late.
00:45:40.000 God, Joe's going to really be pissed.
00:45:43.000 I can't believe I should have checked the traffic before I left.
00:45:46.000 These are the kinds of thoughts I could think silently in the space of my mind, and it wouldn't be starkly crazy, but to verbalize them, then you're a madman.
00:45:56.000 And that difference between letting them out and just knowing to keep your mouth shut It captures a large part of the difference between being a proper lunatic and a normal person.
00:46:11.000 But what I argue in this book is that normal isn't good enough.
00:46:16.000 The normal state of consciousness wherein you are just chased out of bed every morning by your thoughts and you think, think, think, think, think every waking moment until you fall helplessly asleep at night That's not necessarily a happy place to be,
00:46:33.000 and it's not the only alternative.
00:46:37.000 The goal is not to have a mind without thoughts.
00:46:41.000 We need thoughts, and everything we do as human beings For the most part, it requires thought to get off the ground.
00:46:50.000 So our relationships are based on thoughts and every public institution and science.
00:46:56.000 This conversation we have with ourselves and with others is based on language and concepts that are mediated by language.
00:47:10.000 So you need thought, but the difference is between thinking and knowing that you're thinking, really knowing that you're thinking in the moment of thoughts arising, Or being lost in thought.
00:47:25.000 And then when you're lost in thought, it doesn't really matter what the content is.
00:47:30.000 You're still confused about who and what you are.
00:47:34.000 I mean, you could be thinking about the most profound things in science or in ethics or whatever it is.
00:47:41.000 But if you're just thinking without knowing that you're thinking, there is a kind of delusion there.
00:47:46.000 It is analogous to the dream state, in a way, where you're just It's not clear to you what's going on.
00:47:53.000 You think you're the thinker of the thoughts.
00:47:56.000 You think you're authoring your thoughts in a way that you're not.
00:47:59.000 Because thoughts just arise.
00:48:01.000 We don't actually author them.
00:48:03.000 Isn't it fascinating that even in higher education, there's very little emphasis whatsoever on controlling thoughts.
00:48:10.000 On managing thoughts, on managing your consciousness, on figuring out how to best analyze and approach your own thinking process because if you really think about it like what we were talking about earlier about getting obsessed about something, about something like getting into your mind and rolling over you,
00:48:29.000 like that kind of process and that kind of runaway thought process can actually really negatively affect your life.
00:48:38.000 Oh, yeah.
00:48:42.000 Oh, yeah.
00:48:54.000 Who you become, how you evolve, how you transform as a person, a developing person.
00:49:00.000 And yet, it's not really taught.
00:49:02.000 Is it because the people that are involved in higher education aren't aware of it?
00:49:07.000 They don't know it?
00:49:08.000 It's not a common thinking process?
00:49:10.000 It's not a common thinking thought management process?
00:49:13.000 I mean, what is it that leads I mean, someone like you, who's had a higher education, goes on, writes a book like this, then it becomes a part of whoever's reading it, a part of their mindset.
00:49:26.000 But if they don't have that, if they don't have that book, I mean, they literally have to be introduced into someone outside of the realm of high school, college, even master's, PhD.
00:49:36.000 Very few people that go through that entire process are involved in a comprehensive analysis of how to think.
00:49:43.000 Yeah, well, mindfulness is actually increasingly current now, and it's a bit of a, in some sense, a fad, but I think it's probably an enduring one because it's so useful.
00:49:57.000 So mindfulness is now more and more being taught in schools, and actually my wife has even taught it in a public school.
00:50:05.000 Really?
00:50:06.000 That's amazing.
00:50:07.000 Yeah, it was amazing to see, too.
00:50:09.000 You have this...
00:50:10.000 Just picture a group of...
00:50:11.000 It was in a kind of lower economic public school.
00:50:16.000 I think there were probably 30 kids in the class.
00:50:18.000 And you picture 36-year-olds sitting in a circle.
00:50:23.000 And on the first day, it was just the chaos of 36-year-olds.
00:50:27.000 And by the fourth week, she was teaching one class a week...
00:50:31.000 They were sitting for 15 minutes in silence, no screwing around, no problem.
00:50:38.000 Unbelievable.
00:50:39.000 And the stuff they were reporting back in terms of their experience was amazing.
00:50:47.000 And the great thing about mindfulness is there's nothing spooky about it.
00:50:50.000 You don't have to develop any kind of affection for Buddhism or beliefs in the supernatural or a notion of karma.
00:50:58.000 I mean, nothing.
00:50:58.000 All it is, and there's nothing, there's no thing that you're strategically adding to your experience by way of meditating.
00:51:06.000 So you don't have a mantra and there's nothing to explain.
00:51:09.000 All you have to do is pay attention.
00:51:15.000 We're good to go.
00:51:30.000 It makes perfect sense because if you want to know what it's like to be you, if you want to have a very clear look at the nature of your own consciousness, it just makes sense to pay attention.
00:51:39.000 And all you're doing is paying attention.
00:51:40.000 And there's no conceptual overlay that you're applying that's monkeying with your experience to try to change it.
00:51:49.000 So the goal in that case isn't even...
00:51:52.000 You're not even trying to have a better experience, although you can covertly hope to have a better experience and sort of corrupt the process that way.
00:51:59.000 But...
00:51:59.000 You're really just trying to witness just exactly what the character of your experience is in each moment.
00:52:07.000 So you're just noticing unpleasant experience without pushing it away and noticing pleasant experience without trying to grab at it.
00:52:14.000 And it just so happens that once you develop that kind of dispassionate attention to experience...
00:52:21.000 Then certain very pleasant experiences start to come along because so much of what's unpleasant about our minds is our resistance to pain and our grasping at pleasure and our struggle with experience.
00:52:36.000 So just paying attention, really just openly and without any agenda, for the period of time you can do that, you really have surrendered the struggle.
00:52:47.000 And a tremendous relief just comes with that process.
00:52:51.000 So yeah, it's becoming something that they are teaching in schools at various ages, and I think the one downside to the way mindfulness is being marketed at this point is that it's It's really being thought of as almost an esoteric version of an executive stress ball where it's a tool to optimize performance and it's the kind of thing that a CEO wants to have
00:53:21.000 in his toolkit.
00:53:23.000 And all that's true.
00:53:24.000 It is a tool to optimize performance.
00:53:28.000 It's much more like, and it's traditionally intended to be much more like the Large Hadron Collider, which is to say a real tool for discovering something fundamental, in this case about the nature of the mind and the purpose of mindfulness.
00:53:43.000 Is to discover that this self we think we have is an illusion and that the real breakthrough is not just a little less stress or a little more concentration or an ability to direct your mind where you want it to go.
00:54:04.000 So if you want to stay on a diet but you're tempted by the chocolate chip cookie You can just get back on your diet without eating the cookie.
00:54:11.000 I mean, that's one way in which you could use mindfulness, but that's not really the center of the bullseye.
00:54:16.000 The center of the bullseye is to cut through this illusion that we're all riding around in our heads as a ghost in the machine.
00:54:26.000 So we're not riding around in our heads?
00:54:27.000 No.
00:54:28.000 What are we doing?
00:54:29.000 Well, there's just...
00:54:29.000 I mean, you have a head, but the sense that there is a...
00:54:37.000 Well, interestingly, it's another way to talk about this.
00:54:41.000 I don't know if you've ever heard of this writer, Douglas Harding.
00:54:44.000 He was a British architect who wrote a book called On Having No Head, which...
00:54:51.000 So he's actually summarized the insight As a state of headlessness, and it actually does sort of capture the flavor of it in a way.
00:54:59.000 He kept advocating that people just look for their heads.
00:55:03.000 So you're walking around, and you know you have a head, but you actually don't see your head.
00:55:07.000 I mean, you and I are talking now.
00:55:09.000 The only head you see is my head, right?
00:55:12.000 So you see the world, and my head is in the middle of it.
00:55:15.000 But your head isn't showing up for you.
00:55:36.000 That feeling drops away.
00:55:38.000 You actually no longer feel like you're behind your eyes looking across space at me.
00:55:44.000 You just feel like there's just this space in which my head is appearing.
00:55:51.000 It's almost like you've been decapitated.
00:55:53.000 Imagine being without a head.
00:55:58.000 So anyway, this is Douglas Harding's metaphor for this insight into selflessness, but it does sort of capture the flavor of it.
00:56:07.000 It gets your attention moving in the right direction, because if you look for the center of experience, and this feeling of being a self behind the eyes is this feeling of there being a center to experience.
00:56:19.000 It's not just that It's not that we feel identical to experience.
00:56:23.000 We feel like we are having an experience.
00:56:25.000 We feel like we are appropriating the experience, and we're doing it from a point behind our eyes.
00:56:31.000 We're doing it from this sense of being a subject.
00:56:34.000 But if you look for the subject, That sense of a center can drop out.
00:56:39.000 And then there's just experience.
00:56:41.000 And that's very much like the kind of flow states or the unified full immersion experiences that people have when you're paying attention to something so closely that you lose yourself in it.
00:56:58.000 Whether it's surfing or martial arts or sex or whatever it is.
00:57:03.000 There can be these experiences where For a moment, there's no distance between...
00:57:09.000 You're no longer looking over your own shoulder having the experience.
00:57:13.000 You're no longer trying to surf.
00:57:14.000 You're no longer thinking about how good the wave is or whether you're really on it.
00:57:18.000 There's just a moment where there's just pure flow and there's a unified field of experience.
00:57:24.000 And people get really addicted to those.
00:57:26.000 Those are peak experiences for people.
00:57:28.000 And then that's why a person would surf or...
00:57:31.000 Do anything else which is giving them access to this state of consciousness where the self drops away and there's just experience.
00:57:40.000 But the thing is you can have that at any moment you remember to look for it once you know how to meditate.
00:57:46.000 That is the nature of consciousness.
00:57:48.000 You don't have to be on a wave in a wetsuit.
00:57:50.000 You can just notice it You know, just in the middle of a conversation.
00:57:56.000 And that's really the subject of this book.
00:58:02.000 That flow state's very different when you get great at something, whether it's martial arts or you feel it in stand-up comedy as well.
00:58:12.000 It's a very similar state where I describe it on stage as being a passenger situation.
00:58:17.000 You feel like you're a passenger on the ride.
00:58:19.000 I know the words are coming out of my mouth.
00:58:21.000 I know the timing.
00:58:22.000 But it's because I know the material so well and I'm so comfortable on stage and I put in so much time that I can reach that flow state.
00:58:29.000 And the same thing can be said for jujitsu or for kickboxing, sparring or anything like that.
00:58:35.000 When you're locked in, when you know you've done it so many times, you're completely comfortable with the movements.
00:58:44.000 You've done all the training.
00:58:46.000 You put in all the work and the hours to get to that point.
00:58:50.000 It's not as simple as, like, you could be a white belt who meditates and reach a flow state.
00:58:54.000 You can't.
00:58:55.000 Oh, yeah, no.
00:58:56.000 This isn't going to help you in jiu-jitsu.
00:58:58.000 I mean, you're still going to be a white belt on the mat, even if you can drop your sense of self.
00:59:01.000 There'll be no flow state.
00:59:02.000 You're going to get strangled.
00:59:04.000 No, I mean, there can be a flow state while getting strangled.
00:59:07.000 That's masochism, yeah.
00:59:08.000 But you're still going to not know what to do.
00:59:10.000 Oh, yeah, no doubt.
00:59:11.000 So it can't be a flow state.
00:59:13.000 You'll be acting and reacting instead of just in the zone.
00:59:17.000 Well, no, you can be...
00:59:18.000 No, it's just the zone can be found anywhere.
00:59:21.000 It's just people tend to only find it...
00:59:24.000 When there is this mastery component and there's no more error correction.
00:59:29.000 So the problem that we all have when we're tuning up a skill is that we're constantly making mistakes and becoming incrementally more aware of the kinds of mistakes we're making and correcting for them and getting better at correcting for them.
00:59:42.000 And there's all the self-talk of what we should have done, what we should do, what we're hoping to do in the next moment.
00:59:49.000 And flow states come when you get good enough, for the most part, so that all of that goes away.
00:59:57.000 So that when you're playing golf...
00:59:59.000 There are no more thoughts in your backswing.
01:00:02.000 You take the club away and you're not thinking 15 different things as you're trying to hit the little white ball.
01:00:08.000 You're just hitting the little white ball because you've just grooved your swing so much that you just have no issue hitting the little white ball.
01:00:14.000 And so jujitsu has its analogous component where you're not still trying to remember what you should be doing when somebody is in the middle of passing your guard.
01:00:25.000 It's like you're just part of the whole motion that is...
01:00:29.000 You're not having to make these conscious calculations.
01:00:32.000 You're just moving.
01:00:34.000 And...
01:00:37.000 But you could be just as surrendered to the present moment and free of self-talk, free of neurotic expectations about what's going to happen in the next instant or what you wish didn't happen a moment ago.
01:00:56.000 And still be a total spaz on the mat.
01:00:59.000 I mean, you could just...
01:00:59.000 This would just be...
01:01:01.000 It wouldn't help your jiu-jitsu.
01:01:02.000 It just would help your state of consciousness.
01:01:05.000 You know, you can just drop your problem while realizing that you don't know what to do when the guy's passing your guard.
01:01:12.000 But it's...
01:01:15.000 But people find these experiences really addictive and not addictive in a biological sense, but they're just really captivating and they orient their lives around having these experiences.
01:01:29.000 And the really dangerous thing is that people traditionally have found these experiences in the context of religion and in the context of incredibly divisive beliefs about I think?
01:02:03.000 They seem to be the only explanation for the meaning of these experiences.
01:02:07.000 That's fascinating.
01:02:08.000 If you're a Christian and you feel absolute rapture and self-transcendence while praying to Jesus, well, of course, that's going to be a data point, if not the only needed data point, in favor of the story that Jesus is the Son of God and he's taking an interest in your soul.
01:02:25.000 And if you're a jihadist feeling that, just as you get off the bus in Syria and you meet your recruiters at ISIS, it's going to prove to you that this is, of course, this is Allah's will and you're fighting the one true cosmic battle against the evil infidels.
01:02:45.000 There's no question that these guys feel these very positive states of mind.
01:02:49.000 They're not all running around depressed.
01:02:52.000 Out there.
01:02:53.000 They're having peak experiences.
01:02:55.000 And then there are people who have peak experiences at Burning Man, you know, and have a totally different interpretation of their significance.
01:03:02.000 And what I'm arguing is that the only thing peak experiences prove is that...
01:03:09.000 They can't prove that all of these incompatible doctrines are true because they can't all be true.
01:03:15.000 The jihadist and the fundamentalist Christian can't both be right.
01:03:20.000 And not only are they not the only people who have these experiences, there are Hindus who have experiences that are identical but are in the context of a totally different doctrine, and atheists like myself have these experiences.
01:03:35.000 These experiences can't prove that any of these doctrines, these provincial doctrines, are true.
01:03:42.000 What they prove is that the human mind is susceptible to altered states of consciousness, and some of which are really compelling and worth having, and yet we just have to understand them in a secular and universal sense, in a non-sectarian sense.
01:03:58.000 Is that what's going on when Pentecostals speak in tongues?
01:04:00.000 When they hit that...
01:04:01.000 What is that called?
01:04:02.000 Glossolalia?
01:04:03.000 When they start...
01:04:03.000 Like you reach this...
01:04:06.000 You know what I mean?
01:04:07.000 You reach this state of mind where you're able to communicate this bizarre, nonsensical language free of ridicule.
01:04:15.000 You're not worrying about how goofy you're sounding.
01:04:17.000 Yeah.
01:04:17.000 Well, I think to some degree it is a kind of surrender of...
01:04:23.000 Certainly one's dignity.
01:04:26.000 No, I mean, clearly it's got to feel pretty good, and you're getting rid of certain hang-ups.
01:04:33.000 It's like, you know, dancing wildly at a rave, you know?
01:04:36.000 It's like you're no longer uptight because you're willing to...
01:04:40.000 Writhe around on the floor with your aunts and uncles.
01:04:42.000 And you're on ecstasy.
01:04:43.000 No, but in this case, you're a Pentecostal.
01:04:46.000 Oh.
01:04:48.000 Yeah.
01:04:48.000 The state that you achieve that allows you to...
01:04:51.000 When you see those people do that, I saw a guy do it in real life.
01:04:57.000 Yeah, I've never seen it, so I don't know what...
01:04:59.000 On Fear Factor.
01:05:00.000 A guy was...
01:05:01.000 He actually won the event.
01:05:06.000 But it's so hilarious.
01:05:08.000 The event was so ridiculous.
01:05:10.000 Some of the Fear Factor events were completely ridiculous.
01:05:12.000 And this one particular event was uniquely ridiculous.
01:05:15.000 Because it had absolutely nothing to do with your ability to overcome something...
01:05:20.000 Or your ability to even figure your way out through something.
01:05:25.000 You were attached to a harness...
01:05:28.000 And the harness was attached to a cable that attached you to a wire so that you actually didn't fall off this cliff.
01:05:37.000 But you were on a 4x4, and you drove the 4x4 off the cliff.
01:05:41.000 So you just drove.
01:05:42.000 You hit the gas, and you were yanked up, and the 4x4 fell, and whoever's 4x4 went the furthest won that winning.
01:05:49.000 Oh, so full commitment, yeah.
01:05:50.000 Yeah, it's full commitment, but...
01:05:53.000 There's no skill involved.
01:05:54.000 You're just hitting the gas and going off a cliff at the same point on the cliff as everyone else.
01:06:00.000 And this one guy won.
01:06:01.000 And he was convinced that this was the will of God.
01:06:03.000 And he was...
01:06:04.000 He started doing this thing.
01:06:07.000 And I was standing next to him watching this.
01:06:09.000 I was like, this is so strange.
01:06:12.000 It was weird to watch someone...
01:06:15.000 First of all, if you are speaking in tongues, what a shitty language it is, because you keep repeating the same noise over and over again.
01:06:21.000 Well, it has none of the structure of a language.
01:06:23.000 People have analyzed it, and it's clearly bullshit.
01:06:26.000 It sounds like bullshit.
01:06:28.000 It would be interesting if it weren't.
01:06:31.000 It's possible that somebody could produce a performance like this where it would have linguistic structure and then people would just be spinning out trying to figure out how this is...
01:06:43.000 How is this possible?
01:06:45.000 But no, it's just gibberish.
01:06:46.000 But it's a similar gibberish.
01:06:47.000 That's what made me wonder how weird this is.
01:06:51.000 Because this gibberish...
01:06:53.000 Maybe it's repeating because these Pentecostals hang out with each other.
01:06:57.000 Maybe it's like an accent sort of thing.
01:07:00.000 Like one person...
01:07:01.000 Develops a Boston accent, although people around them have that Boston accent.
01:07:04.000 But when I watched this guy, and then I watched Robert Tilden, who's one of my favorite bullshit artists that's on late night religious television.
01:07:13.000 He's one of those guys that Jesus wants you to see.
01:07:16.000 He actually said this one time.
01:07:17.000 He goes, every time you write a check to me, Satan gets a black eye.
01:07:22.000 That's great.
01:07:24.000 I fucking love that quote.
01:07:26.000 But he does the same thing.
01:07:28.000 He goes...
01:07:29.000 It's the same...
01:07:31.000 Like that kind of sound.
01:07:34.000 Well, they're teaching it to each other.
01:07:36.000 It's a kind of performance and they've all gone to school on each other's performances.
01:07:43.000 But I'm not insinuating in any way that it's actually divine, but I'm...
01:07:47.000 I was just weirded out by the similarities in their bullshit language and his bullshit language.
01:07:53.000 I don't know if this guy's a Robert Tilden fan, but he was doing that same...
01:07:57.000 It's weird.
01:08:01.000 The gibberish is similar.
01:08:03.000 Is it like...
01:08:05.000 Just they're not that creative.
01:08:07.000 Yeah, there's not that many ways to make nonsense sounds quickly.
01:08:12.000 I mean, there's probably some constraints.
01:08:14.000 And it would be interesting to see if your native Chinese speakers would produce the same phonemes.
01:08:21.000 They might have different...
01:08:22.000 I would expect it would be different.
01:08:24.000 That would be interesting, like, to teach...
01:08:26.000 Because Christianity has spread to a lot of other countries, even Asian countries.
01:08:31.000 If you can get Pentecostals...
01:08:33.000 In Korea, yeah.
01:08:35.000 And see if they, you know, if they have some sort of Asian twist to it.
01:08:39.000 We'll fund that study.
01:08:40.000 Let's write a check right here.
01:08:42.000 The only way to do it is to, you know, it would be so unethical because you get these poor people believing that they're really talking in tongues just so you can listen to their lingo.
01:08:51.000 Yeah, well...
01:08:52.000 It's interesting to know where the line between self-deception and conscious fraud is placed.
01:09:00.000 It's like those fake martial arts videos we watched last time I was here, you know, the guys who were taking those dives with their Aikido master.
01:09:08.000 It's just hard to see.
01:09:11.000 It's hard to see that it's a conscious fraud entirely.
01:09:16.000 Because people have too much time invested.
01:09:18.000 And obviously the guy who invites someone from another school to come punch him in the face, that guy was believing his own bullshit.
01:09:25.000 I mean, he thought at a certain point he must have been convinced that he had this power.
01:09:29.000 Because for a decade or more he sees people flop around at the mere hint of a...
01:09:35.000 A touch.
01:09:36.000 That kind of brings us back to what we were talking about earlier, in that when you're around certain people, you're a different person.
01:09:45.000 In that when these guys are around all these people that really believe that they have some divine ability to control other people's bodies with air.
01:09:55.000 Like, there's something about doing that over and over again and reinforcing that belief.
01:10:00.000 That it seems to be like they are a master when they're around those people.
01:10:05.000 But then when you put them around someone who knows nothing about them and treats them just as an opponent in a martial arts contest and head kicks them, like all of a sudden...
01:10:16.000 It's gone.
01:10:17.000 Where's my power?
01:10:18.000 Who am I? I'm not a magician.
01:10:21.000 I'm not a wizard anymore.
01:10:22.000 Now I'm just a guy getting the fuck beat out of me by some other martial artist and this is a terrible, terrible scenario I found myself in.
01:10:29.000 That's what's so great about real martial arts.
01:10:32.000 It's like science in that you're running an experiment that is as close to a real experiment as you can run without anyone getting killed.
01:10:42.000 And you're seeing what works.
01:10:44.000 And that's what the UFC was in the beginning.
01:10:46.000 The UFC was just this absolutely enthralling science experiment because no one knew what was going to happen.
01:10:54.000 What's going to happen when you throw a boxer in with a karate legend, with a sumo wrestler, and just no rounds, and just let the clock run?
01:11:04.000 It's just...
01:11:05.000 So, obviously, now I'm telling you your own business, but now everyone has gone to school on everyone else's style and everyone knows enough jujitsu on the ground to be able to nullify the advantage of jujitsu.
01:11:20.000 And so now everyone has kind of converged on...
01:11:23.000 The common universal toolkit combatively that you want.
01:11:28.000 And so you're not getting these...
01:11:30.000 The experiment has basically played out.
01:11:33.000 Now everyone's going in with the same expectation that when you're standing up, you want to be able to kick and punch like a kickboxer or like a Muay Thai fighter or somebody who really knows how to kick and punch.
01:11:44.000 And when you're vertically grappling, you really do want to be like Randy Couture or somebody who's got real clinch and pummeling skills and Greco skills.
01:11:56.000 And then when you go to the ground, you want BJJ or Sambo or something that gives you those skills on the ground.
01:12:02.000 And so there's not that many surprises left in store.
01:12:06.000 Yeah.
01:12:08.000 I could be wrong.
01:12:09.000 Maybe there's some total surprises.
01:12:10.000 There's variables, which is interesting because martial arts in many ways really is a scientific endeavor because so much of it involves leverage and force and physics, but also the introduction of new variables that haven't been practiced.
01:12:28.000 And when you introduce new variables, like new kicking techniques especially.
01:12:32.000 Like a wheel kick or something?
01:12:34.000 Yeah, wheel kicks.
01:12:35.000 Or even traditional kicking techniques that had been discarded.
01:12:38.000 Like when Anderson Silva front kicked Vitor Belfort in the face and knocked him out.
01:12:41.000 Everybody was like, holy shit.
01:12:43.000 Like, who the fuck's had that coming?
01:12:45.000 He took two of the highest level guys ever, you know, and he introduces the original technique.
01:12:50.000 That is the number one technique you teach.
01:12:52.000 When I used to teach white belts, the first kick I would teach them is a front kick.
01:12:56.000 Because it's easy to learn.
01:12:57.000 You pick your knee up, you extend your foot forward, and I would teach them to do it at knee level.
01:13:01.000 And then eventually you go to chest level, and then the rare front kick to the face.
01:13:05.000 But nobody ever used it in a UFC bout, but now it's incredibly common.
01:13:10.000 It's like one of the main...
01:13:11.000 You know, Travis Brown, the guy we were talking about earlier, knocked out Alistair Overeem.
01:13:15.000 Front kick to the face.
01:13:16.000 And for years, we had none.
01:13:19.000 Terry Edom, when he first knocked out, or Edson Barboza, when he first knocked out Terry Edom with a wheel kick to the head.
01:13:25.000 That was in 2001. I want to say 12 or 13. So there had been no wheel kick knockouts for the decade plus of the UFC. Now, do you think that...
01:13:36.000 Two decades, in fact.
01:13:37.000 Do you think that's somewhat an artifact of everyone's expectations being so trained now that given all of the fights that have happened and how...
01:13:49.000 All these traditional techniques have been discarded that now no one is expecting anything like a traditional kick so that it's almost like you threw a wheel kick in a boxing match where you've got two boxers and one has absolutely no expectation that kicks are even going to be involved and all of a sudden you wheel kick them.
01:14:08.000 Is it just the sheer novelty or is there something else going on that once you have...
01:14:16.000 All of the other skills that are the real foundation for being a good MMA fighter, then you can experiment with goofy traditional moves that wouldn't have worked if you were a pure traditional martial artist.
01:14:30.000 Mary, do you think if you brought in just a pure traditionalist who was like one of the guys who showed up at UFC 1, Right.
01:14:50.000 Right.
01:14:56.000 I think it's pattern recognition, and not very many people who are martial artists in the sense of mixed martial artists fighting in the UFC can actually do those techniques.
01:15:08.000 I've worked out with high-level guys, like guys who are fighting for titles, guys who are top ten ranked, and I've worked out with them, showing them martial arts techniques like taekwondo techniques, and they don't know how to do them.
01:15:22.000 And it's amazing.
01:15:23.000 So you're talking about high-level MMA guys who don't have a background, a kicking background.
01:15:27.000 Don't have a Taekwondo-based background.
01:15:29.000 Right.
01:15:29.000 Or Shotokan.
01:15:30.000 There's a few kicking disciplines that incorporate wheel kicks and a lot of high kicks, like axe kicks and things along those lines.
01:15:39.000 And they literally don't know the effectiveness of these techniques because they don't do them.
01:15:45.000 So what they do is a lot of Muay Thai, leg kicks, knees to the body, elbows in close, get the takedown, ground and pound, submissions.
01:15:51.000 Things that you see much more common.
01:15:54.000 And when I've tried to teach them these specific techniques, it's amazing how incompetent they are at them.
01:15:59.000 They haven't even tried to learn wheel kicks.
01:16:02.000 Right.
01:16:02.000 So when I'm teaching them wheel kicks, you know, they're like, their body's all awkward, they're throwing it weird.
01:16:06.000 They don't have, like, the fluidity that you need like an Edson Barboza has, where, you know, he's standing there and then, boom, and he throws it.
01:16:13.000 If you're not used to sparring with a guy like that, you don't know that that can come at you like that, you're used to a certain distance as well.
01:16:19.000 The distance between where a person could land a leg kick and a person could land a wheel kick is a little bit different.
01:16:26.000 Yeah, so you don't know you're in range.
01:16:30.000 Some kicks like spinning back kicks are a little bit easier than a wheel kick.
01:16:33.000 The wheel kick requires a lot of flexibility.
01:16:35.000 So you might anticipate a spinning back kick and then the kick comes up high and you only have a millisecond.
01:16:41.000 You have the reaction time and action time are two very different things.
01:16:44.000 That's why sucker punches work.
01:16:46.000 The reason why a sucker punch works is a punch The action time is like a hundredth of a second, but reaction time is like a tenth of a second.
01:16:54.000 That's a big gap.
01:16:55.000 So the amount of time that it takes for someone to punch you in the face and the amount of time it takes to go, oh, this fucking guy's going to punch me in the face.
01:17:01.000 Oh, shit, I got a duck.
01:17:02.000 You don't have time.
01:17:04.000 Crack, you get hit.
01:17:04.000 And that's why soccer punches work.
01:17:07.000 And that's why actually this opens up to, I don't know if we want to go recklessly in this direction, but this opens up into the ethics of uses of violence and just kind of use of force philosophy.
01:17:18.000 And you have something like, you know, what's been going on in Ferguson, you know, around this shooting.
01:17:24.000 People have erroneous assumptions about how violence unfolds.
01:17:28.000 As you're saying, if you're deciding to block or to defend yourself once a guy has thrown his sucker punch, you are nine times out of ten too late.
01:17:37.000 You need a distance at that moment.
01:17:41.000 You need awareness.
01:17:42.000 Awareness of possibility.
01:17:44.000 And I'm not making any claims about knowing what happened in Ferguson with the shooting.
01:17:50.000 I mean, it could be every inch the homicide that many people seem to think it was.
01:17:54.000 But the reality is that cops are having to work in a universe where they do a traffic stop and someone pulls out a gun and shoots them in the face, right?
01:18:07.000 But that is a possibility no matter what you look like, no matter what kind of car you're driving.
01:18:12.000 And so you see the cops are incredibly on edge.
01:18:15.000 You see them unbuckling the strap on their holster as they just walk up to give you a ticket.
01:18:21.000 But it's because they don't have the luxury of time.
01:18:26.000 They can't wait to see you produce a gun and then they say, okay, now my lethal force option is beyond reproach.
01:18:32.000 And so, I mean, the only mode to be in with a cop, no matter how much of an asshole he might be, is to be compliant, and then you sue him later.
01:18:42.000 In the middle of negotiating with a cop, the...
01:18:49.000 No matter how unjustified the arrest may seem, that's not the time to be telling him he's an asshole or talking about how you are such a good guy and this is a violation of your civil rights.
01:19:04.000 You do what he says and then sue the cops later.
01:19:08.000 The filter he is seeing everything through is...
01:19:14.000 The sheer fact that a cop has a gun on his belt makes any contact a potential lethal encounter for him.
01:19:22.000 So you just go hands on a cop.
01:19:24.000 You push a cop.
01:19:25.000 He doesn't know that you're not going for the gun on his belt.
01:19:28.000 He doesn't know that you're going to not push him into...
01:19:34.000 It's all deadly from a cop's point of view.
01:19:39.000 Very few people understand that.
01:19:41.000 I had a friend who was stopped by a cop.
01:19:44.000 This is a middle-aged Jewish guy who's in his mind the least dangerous person on earth.
01:19:51.000 Why on earth is a cop stopping him?
01:19:53.000 And my friend said something to the cop, and the cop unlatched the top restraint on his gun.
01:20:01.000 And my friend said, what, you're going to pull out your gun on me?
01:20:04.000 And the cop said, what does a bad guy look like?
01:20:08.000 And that just sort of cut through it for my friend.
01:20:11.000 My friend knew he was not a bad guy, but there's no way for the cop to know that he's not a bad guy.
01:20:17.000 And people are just not aware of that, and they're interacting with cops, and it's dangerous for everybody.
01:20:23.000 Yeah, the naivete of someone who is a good guy, who doesn't know bad people and doesn't know what people...
01:20:30.000 I mean, just go on YouTube and watch Assault on Police Officer.
01:20:34.000 Just YouTube Assault on Police Officer.
01:20:36.000 There's a hundred videos that you can watch where people sucker punch cops.
01:20:41.000 There's this horrific video of this guy getting pulled over, and he's with his son, and it's on a dash cam of the police car.
01:20:50.000 The lady pulls him over, And she asks him for his license and registration.
01:20:54.000 The guy gets out of the car.
01:20:55.000 He's giving her his stuff.
01:20:57.000 And she's like, sir, I need you to turn around and lean your body up against him.
01:21:02.000 I'm going to handcuff you.
01:21:03.000 And he's like, why are you going to do that?
01:21:05.000 Bang!
01:21:05.000 He punches her in the face.
01:21:07.000 And before you know it, she's unconscious on the ground.
01:21:09.000 He's beating on her.
01:21:10.000 His son is screaming for him to stop, or his daughter was screaming at him.
01:21:15.000 I forget which one it was.
01:21:16.000 Uh-huh.
01:21:17.000 For him to stop beating this cop up, but he's beating the fuck out of her, and she's unconscious, and he takes her gun, and I don't know how it ended.
01:21:23.000 I shut it off, but there's a lot of those.
01:21:26.000 You can't assume that someone's a good person.
01:21:29.000 You don't know who they are.
01:21:30.000 You don't know anything about them.
01:21:32.000 And also the psychology of being a police officer.
01:21:36.000 The PTSD involved in day-to-day interaction with criminals, day-to-day interaction with people lying to you, day-to-day interaction with danger, violence, car accidents, death, Over and over and over and over again.
01:21:48.000 You've got to be on edge all the time.
01:21:50.000 And then thinking, is this the day where they get me?
01:21:53.000 Is this the day, am I going to be the guy who gets his gun taken away?
01:21:56.000 Am I going to be the guy who gets shot like this guy I saw in a video?
01:22:00.000 There's so many instances that a cop has to think about when you have that job.
01:22:04.000 I saw it argued, someone made this really irresponsible, ignorant Twitter post about how being a cop isn't dangerous because look how many cops die as opposed to look how many X amount of firemen or whatever job it was die.
01:22:22.000 That cops actually are less likely to die than many industrial workers.
01:22:27.000 But that's because they have protocol.
01:22:29.000 That's because they think ahead.
01:22:31.000 That's because so many cops have been killed that they have all these standards and practices in place to make sure that it doesn't happen.
01:22:39.000 That's why when a cop approaches a car, he does have his hand on his gun.
01:22:43.000 That's why he does say, keep your hand on the wheel.
01:22:45.000 That's why he does say, keep your hands where I can see them.
01:22:48.000 License and registration, please.
01:22:50.000 Like, they have to be aware.
01:22:51.000 Because if cops just treated it like, hey, cops never die.
01:22:55.000 Like, I saw this Twitter post.
01:22:57.000 It says, like, one-tenth of one percent of cops die.
01:23:00.000 Like, I don't have to worry about that shit.
01:23:02.000 Hey, man, where you going?
01:23:03.000 Boom!
01:23:03.000 You're shot in the face.
01:23:04.000 You know, it's that...
01:23:06.000 The statistics are often inaccurate when it comes to dealing with something where someone is...
01:23:12.000 There's many practices that are in place to protect someone from inevitable variables that a cop is going to face.
01:23:22.000 Yeah.
01:23:22.000 They also have much less training than you would expect, especially with like hand-to-hand skills.
01:23:27.000 I mean, you have so much more training than even, you know, elite SWAT operators in terms of your hand-to-hand skills.
01:23:35.000 And so it's...
01:23:39.000 The public has an expectation that the only justification for producing a gun, if you're a cop or if you're anyone, is if the other person has a gun or some similarly lethal weapon.
01:23:52.000 I think some people think that a knife isn't lethal enough to justify the use of a gun, right?
01:23:57.000 But the fact is cops are not superheroes, and they can't handle a person who is bigger than them, stronger than them, younger than them, and more aggressive than them who gets the jump on them.
01:24:09.000 I mean, it's just, you know, that's a tall order even for a black belt in jiu-jitsu.
01:24:14.000 You know, it's not...
01:24:15.000 And so their tool belt is there for a reason.
01:24:20.000 They need tasers and they need guns and they need force of numbers in order to even do the job against somebody who doesn't have a gun themselves.
01:24:30.000 And so it's a hard job and I've got huge respect for cops.
01:24:38.000 All the while knowing that there are undoubtedly some bad cops who are just psychopaths and sadists and shouldn't be in the job.
01:24:45.000 And there are a lot of cops who are, frankly, not as trained as they should be, even with guns.
01:24:53.000 Most of them.
01:24:53.000 Yeah, they're not as trained with guns as they should be, and they're not as trained hand-to-hand as they should be.
01:24:58.000 And that's just doing them a disservice, and it's doing the public a disservice.
01:25:05.000 Yeah.
01:25:06.000 Still, even if you're well-trained, as a cop, you are moving into situations which it's just untenable to give this stranger the benefit of the doubt.
01:25:21.000 You look like someone who's escalating force too early, if you're a cop, who's just taking...
01:25:34.000 Totally rational steps to stay safe in a situation where there's just basic uncertainty as to what you're dealing with.
01:25:41.000 I think we're requiring so much of someone who becomes a police officer that it's almost a job that no one can be qualified to do.
01:25:49.000 You're requiring psychology, you're requiring the physical ability to defend themselves, Against a wide variety of people where you have zero idea of what their background is.
01:26:00.000 You know, you see some young guy and he looks reasonably athletic.
01:26:03.000 You have no idea what he can do to you.
01:26:05.000 He might be a cigarette smoker with no martial arts experience whatsoever, or he might be a Muay Thai champion.
01:26:10.000 And if you're within range of him, all of a sudden, boom, you're unconscious.
01:26:14.000 You have no idea what happened.
01:26:15.000 He punched you in the face so fast.
01:26:16.000 You have no idea.
01:26:18.000 The other thing about when people start talking about cops and violence and danger, most people have never been involved in a physical altercation with a trained martial artist.
01:26:31.000 They have no idea how vulnerable they really are.
01:26:33.000 They're walking around.
01:26:34.000 I've seen people get in arguments before and get crazy with people and start fights and then watch the fight take place and it boggles my mind.
01:26:43.000 I'm like, why was this guy so confident to get into a physical altercation when he has no idea what to do?
01:26:48.000 With a guy with cauliflower ear, that's usually a tip block.
01:26:51.000 A guy's got tats like you and he's got cauliflower ear and you've still got somebody mouthing off to him.
01:26:57.000 It happens.
01:26:58.000 It happens all the time.
01:26:59.000 And I think some people think they're going to bluff their way out of it.
01:27:03.000 I think there's so much ignorance and ego involved in the average person when it comes to physical altercations.
01:27:09.000 I think it would do a lot of people good just to realize how vulnerable they are.
01:27:14.000 When I was a black belt in Taekwondo, when I was a national-level competitor, I'd won multiple tournaments, and then I started doing jiu-jitsu, I got mauled.
01:27:26.000 I mean, mauled.
01:27:27.000 Not mauled like...
01:27:30.000 Like, well, you know, I kind of held them off for a little while, but eventually they got me.
01:27:33.000 No!
01:27:35.000 Instantaneously destroyed.
01:27:36.000 It was just like wrestling with a five-year-old.
01:27:38.000 From the five-year-old's point of view, there is absolutely nothing to do.
01:27:46.000 And that's what I felt like the first time I got on the mat with a...
01:27:50.000 I thought I would have some sense of just how to stop the problem from engulfing me.
01:27:59.000 It's totally hopeless, and it's hopeless in a way that...
01:28:02.000 That's why I wrote that blog post originally, The Pleasures of Drowning.
01:28:06.000 It's like drowning, because when you're...
01:28:09.000 Drowning doesn't make much sense.
01:28:11.000 You're moving...
01:28:13.000 You get in the water, and you're moving your arms and legs like you've seen people swim.
01:28:18.000 It's like, how could there be that much to it?
01:28:20.000 And in fact, once you know how to tread water, there isn't much to staying afloat.
01:28:24.000 But if you don't know how to tread water, you don't know how to swim, all that moving of your arms and legs is just completely ineffectual.
01:28:32.000 And you could be making 100% effort, and you're still going straight to the bottom.
01:28:37.000 And in jiu-jitsu, it's just so...
01:28:41.000 It's so surprising to feel like you have some skills, because you've done, you've trained for years in some stand-up art and you did a little, you know, you took some Krav Maga classes and you did some stuff on the ground and you have a basic feeling that, you know, you know, I would poke him in the eyes if it really got bad on the ground.
01:28:58.000 And then you get on the mat with somebody who really has a deep jiu-jitsu game, and it's like wrestling a Martian.
01:29:05.000 Well, there's also levels.
01:29:07.000 I'm a black belt, but there's guys who I roll with that can treat me like I'm a blue belt.
01:29:11.000 That's the reality of the situation.
01:29:13.000 If I'm rolling with Jacare, I'm going to get strangled.
01:29:16.000 And I've been doing it for 20 years.
01:29:19.000 It doesn't matter.
01:29:20.000 So how long do you think you could hold off...
01:29:24.000 The tap with the best person.
01:29:26.000 If you're down with Marcelo Garcia or somebody who...
01:29:29.000 A couple minutes at the most.
01:29:31.000 And I have to be on full defense.
01:29:34.000 That's the difference.
01:29:35.000 If I'm rolling with a guy who's a purple belt, I go offense.
01:29:38.000 If I'm rolling with someone who is below me or my level, I'm always defensively aware, but I'm going full offense.
01:29:46.000 Or if I'm rolling with a guy like a Marcelo Garcia, it's all defense.
01:29:50.000 It's all like...
01:29:52.000 It's all like trying to hold someone off.
01:29:55.000 If you knew that you were going to be working against a guy like Marcelo Garcia and you had months to prepare, I would just bench press and do everything about pushing away.
01:30:04.000 Everything is pushing away.
01:30:06.000 Reps and pushing away.
01:30:07.000 But eventually you're going to fuck up.
01:30:09.000 It's like...
01:30:11.000 A good analogy also is debating.
01:30:14.000 Because if you debate the average person who has an illogical standpoint on something, like I've watched you debate many people when it comes to religion and things along those lines, and when you have the tools in place, those tools being logic, reason,
01:30:29.000 and Defined arguments about different variables.
01:30:33.000 And then the other person doesn't.
01:30:35.000 And they have emotions and religious ideology on their side and just overconfidence.
01:30:42.000 It's just having this ridiculous idea that they're right and they're going to win.
01:30:47.000 And they go in there and they just get tied up so quickly.
01:30:51.000 Their arguments get destroyed.
01:30:53.000 And you see them...
01:30:55.000 They get flustered and you see their words come out all clunky and their heartbeat raises.
01:31:01.000 There's one debate that you did with, I don't remember the gentleman's name, but he was a rabbi.
01:31:07.000 Probably David Wolpe.
01:31:09.000 Yes.
01:31:09.000 And he got so dramatic in the way he was talking, which made it more ridiculous because you have this very calm, very flat way of expressing yourself.
01:31:22.000 Which makes anyone who's super emotional and super dramatic seem preposterous.
01:31:28.000 You seem more ridiculous because you're all, and what God has said to us and the Word of God and all this.
01:31:35.000 And then you're like, well, that's not exactly the fact.
01:31:38.000 The reality is this and this and that.
01:31:40.000 This is what we know about neuroscience.
01:31:41.000 This we know about life.
01:31:42.000 Just because of that doesn't mean this.
01:31:47.000 They're drowning.
01:31:48.000 Except they don't necessarily know they're drowning.
01:31:51.000 And the crucial difference and one reason why jujitsu is so satisfying is that there's no tap out in a debate.
01:31:59.000 They're never forced to acknowledge that they lost the point.
01:32:02.000 That's so true.
01:32:03.000 No matter how obvious it becomes to the audience or to you.
01:32:07.000 Actually, there's one thing that's kind of insidious about debates, which is actually terrible in politics.
01:32:13.000 I hate it when I see this in political debates.
01:32:15.000 Where laughter is a surrogate for tap-out.
01:32:21.000 And so if you can get a big laugh in a debate, no matter how terrible your platform is as a politician, no matter how wrong you are on the facts, if you can get a big laugh line, you know, you are no Jack Kennedy, that's all that anyone cares about.
01:32:37.000 It's like the stand-up comic wins the debate.
01:32:42.000 Certainly politically, and it's even true in other contexts.
01:32:48.000 Politically, it's everything, right?
01:32:50.000 That Jack Kennedy line was from what?
01:32:51.000 What was that, 88 or something like that?
01:32:53.000 When was that?
01:32:54.000 What year was that?
01:32:56.000 That's Dan Quayle, right?
01:32:57.000 I need Google for these questions.
01:33:00.000 Who was the senator he was debating?
01:33:01.000 Lloyd Benson.
01:33:03.000 Yes.
01:33:04.000 Yeah, I knew Jack.
01:33:05.000 And he set him up, man.
01:33:07.000 It was like, jab, jab, overhand.
01:33:09.000 Boom!
01:33:10.000 I knew Jack Kennedy.
01:33:12.000 Jack Kennedy was a friend.
01:33:13.000 You are no Jack Kennedy.
01:33:15.000 And the whole audience was like, oh, shit.
01:33:17.000 You compared yourself to a dead guy who was like the greatest president ever, who was shot in this national scandal.
01:33:24.000 I mean, all the build-up to it.
01:33:27.000 I mean, it wasn't even like he was comparing himself to Theodore Roosevelt or someone else who was dead.
01:33:32.000 Jack Kennedy, fuck, man.
01:33:34.000 It was just checkmate.
01:33:36.000 Like, he could never have come back from that.
01:33:38.000 Yeah.
01:33:39.000 But it's true.
01:33:40.000 I mean, in that case...
01:33:40.000 Oh, here it is right here.
01:33:41.000 Yeah.
01:33:41.000 In that case, we were, you know, I was certainly on the side of, you know, certainly against quail there.
01:33:47.000 Yeah.
01:33:47.000 But you see it happen in cases where it's, you know, the...
01:33:53.000 The losing party, the party who's on the wrong end of the laugh, is really the one who was making the most sense in the debate.
01:34:00.000 You just know that that debate was a disaster.
01:34:04.000 Especially if the audience is stacked.
01:34:06.000 You've got a bunch of religious people in the audience who say, yeah, why don't you tell that to God when you see him at the pearly gates?
01:34:13.000 Yeah, that can definitely...
01:34:16.000 Well, it's also, you know, people are looking, they're looking for a result, and they can decide that that result is correct, you know, through sheer force of will and through cognitive dissonance, all the people in the audience refusing to recognize the actual thing that's being debated, but rather not a point that they get to express themselves.
01:34:34.000 I agree with him.
01:34:35.000 Jesus doesn't want us to let queers marry each other.
01:34:39.000 And they just hoot and holler and all that loud noise in that one room.
01:34:45.000 Well, what's crucial about laughter, it's really only laughter and applause are the only moments where you know, as a member of the audience, that everyone's on the same page.
01:34:57.000 Because that's the moment when everyone helplessly breaks into a laugh.
01:35:01.000 I mean, this is...
01:35:02.000 You as a comic, this is your...
01:35:10.000 I don't put a lot of laugh lines in my lectures, but I recognize that if you go long enough without having a laugh line in a lecture, you sort of lose the sense that everyone is with you,
01:35:26.000 because it's just silence.
01:35:27.000 So I'm talking for 20 minutes, and I'm hoping people are with it.
01:35:31.000 I'm hoping they're finding this interesting.
01:35:32.000 I'm hoping there's I'm making sense.
01:35:35.000 But it's only the next time they laugh that truly reassures me that for that moment I have the entire room.
01:35:42.000 So it's interesting.
01:35:45.000 Yeah, public speaking is a very unique art form.
01:35:50.000 Public speaking in terms of lectures, when you see people give public talks about a book that they have, the ability to hold people's attention It's like there has to be something that you're doing, some dramatic moment.
01:36:05.000 Either you have to have a certain amount of charisma or you have to have a certain sense of humor.
01:36:09.000 You have to have something to be able to sort of glue the whole thing together.
01:36:16.000 It's hard to listen to someone, like lectures that boring professors give.
01:36:21.000 I remember being in class, listening to some of those lectures and 10-15 minutes in, I'm checked out.
01:36:28.000 I mean, I'm fucking thinking about my laundry.
01:36:30.000 And I'm sort of paying attention because I have to, but I'm bored as fuck.
01:36:34.000 But if the guy was humorous...
01:36:36.000 I remember I saw a debate once between a member of the Moral Majority.
01:36:41.000 Do you remember the Moral Majority?
01:36:42.000 And Barney Frank, who wasn't openly gay back then.
01:36:46.000 This was when I was in high school.
01:36:47.000 And Barney Frank was humorous and he was so good at – he knew how to publicly speak.
01:36:55.000 And it was in a small auditorium in Newton South High School in like 1984 or something like that.
01:37:00.000 And Barney, he was mocking this guy with an American flag on his lapel and what he was trying to...
01:37:06.000 He was essentially setting up what this guy was trying to project to you.
01:37:11.000 Like, this is who he really is.
01:37:13.000 This is what he's trying to protect.
01:37:14.000 Like, he's wearing a superhero outfit.
01:37:16.000 Like, oh, he's so concerned about the morality of America.
01:37:20.000 But what he doesn't understand is this, and I think that you people are smart enough to realize that.
01:37:24.000 And he was funny.
01:37:26.000 And I remember listening to one guy talk, and it was sanctimonious and fucking boring.
01:37:32.000 It didn't know how to talk very well.
01:37:35.000 And the other guy, even though it was just two people's opinions, it was more pleasant to listen to, it was more entertaining, so he was better at it.
01:37:43.000 He won because of that.
01:37:45.000 Yeah, the days of being able to get far without being able to speak well in public are behind us, I think.
01:37:55.000 And it's interesting.
01:37:57.000 This is something that I discovered a few years ago.
01:38:00.000 I actually blogged about this.
01:38:03.000 But Jefferson had a morbid fear of public speaking and gave exactly two speeches, two State of the Unions in his two terms as president and just read them in a kind of crushed monotone because he was so terrified.
01:38:21.000 And that was it.
01:38:23.000 I wish we could have heard those.
01:38:25.000 Yeah, but I'm sure they were terrible.
01:38:27.000 They were barely...
01:38:28.000 For people at the time, reported that you could barely hear what he was saying.
01:38:31.000 Supporters of his?
01:38:32.000 Yeah, and he would just walk like a condemned man to the scaffold when he had to give these speeches.
01:38:38.000 And he avoided it because he was so uncomfortable doing it, but he could avoid it.
01:38:42.000 Can you imagine being the President of the United States now and not feeling comfortable getting up?
01:38:46.000 It's impossible.
01:38:47.000 Yeah.
01:38:48.000 Well, fully on the force of his writing, he had the influence he had.
01:38:52.000 Isn't it fascinating, too, that you need not just to be able to speak well publicly, but you need to have a certain style of communication where you address large numbers of people.
01:39:01.000 It's completely unnatural.
01:39:03.000 Right.
01:39:10.000 You know, if someone was talking to you in your home in that same way, you would think they're absolutely insane.
01:39:15.000 Like, if you had someone over your house, and you're having a conversation with them, and they spoke the way Obama speaks when he's addressing the nation, he would go, well, I got a fucking crazy person in my house.
01:39:24.000 Like, even if they were just addressing your family.
01:39:25.000 If it was just one person standing at the table, and you said, hey, Barack, would you, you know, give us thanks for this meal that we're about to have?
01:39:35.000 He gave this...
01:39:38.000 The way he's communicating with these long pauses and weird affectations of his voice, he'd be like, who is this fucking guy?
01:39:47.000 He's not as bad.
01:39:48.000 Where it really gets crazy for me is when it becomes a full oratorical performance.
01:39:54.000 I mean, someone like Martin Luther King Jr. or a...
01:39:58.000 A preacher, somebody who's just going for it in the stentorian way of just, it's going to be big, and it's going to be dramatic, and I'm going to make you cry.
01:40:07.000 Now, obviously, it's incredibly effective.
01:40:09.000 To see MLK's speeches, something very powerful is going on there, and he's standing in front of whatever it was, 400,000 people.
01:40:20.000 So it's a big moment, and it wouldn't be the same if he was just conversational, but it begins to look kind of Hitlerian.
01:40:32.000 I mean, Hitler was the ultimate example of this.
01:40:34.000 To look at Hitler and give his speech, I don't know how anyone thought the guy was sane.
01:40:41.000 It's so far from the norms of human conversation that it just seems pathological to me.
01:40:51.000 I don't know German.
01:40:53.000 When I watch him speak, I'm reading the subtitles and I'm getting his vibe, and I'm not getting exactly what a German would have gotten.
01:41:03.000 I don't...
01:41:03.000 It's just...
01:41:05.000 I'm not comfortable...
01:41:07.000 There's something...
01:41:08.000 There's a dishonesty to the performance there that I feel...
01:41:14.000 No matter how...
01:41:16.000 No matter what the content...
01:41:18.000 When the performance variable becomes...
01:41:22.000 I frankly get this even with people like MLK, where it's...
01:41:26.000 I mean, I recognize that the words are beautiful.
01:41:29.000 I recognize that he's delivering it well.
01:41:32.000 But...
01:41:33.000 There's a subtle dishonesty to the communication because it is a performance.
01:41:39.000 As a speaker, I try to speak, and this is one reason why I would never be a great speaker, but I try to be as conversational as possible because internally, to inhabit it, I'm only comfortable feeling like I'm...
01:41:58.000 I'm actually talking to a person.
01:42:00.000 So if it's just you or if it's a thousand people, maybe that situation is going to dictate subtle changes in the way I speak, but it's going to be pretty close in terms of how I speak.
01:42:15.000 The moment I start to ape Pericles, I begin to feel dishonest.
01:42:24.000 It's weird because it's so effective.
01:42:26.000 You know, Jay Leno, when he would practice his monologue for The Tonight Show, he would go to the Comedy and Magic Club every Sunday night.
01:42:34.000 And it was like a regular show he would do there.
01:42:37.000 And on Sunday night, when he would go to the Comedy and Magic Club and read these bits that he would try out for the week's monologue, he would do them dead, like monotone.
01:42:46.000 And the reason why he did it, he goes, I didn't want to add any extra pizzazz to the jokes to sell them.
01:42:51.000 He goes, I just want to know whether they stood on their own.
01:42:54.000 And that was how he found out whether or not it was an actual funny idea or whether or not it was just his master showmanship ability that was getting it across.
01:43:03.000 And I think that's what you get when you get a Hitler or a Martin Luther King.
01:43:07.000 It's like it's not just their words.
01:43:09.000 It's just there's an energy behind them that's captivating that...
01:43:13.000 It can be, in terms of a guy like Martin Luther King, it can enhance the speech to the point where I Have a Dream is one of the greatest speeches in human history.
01:43:22.000 And one of the reasons why it's such a great speech is not just because he said it, but imagine if the same speech was read by Noam Chomsky.
01:43:28.000 You'd fucking fall asleep halfway into it.
01:43:30.000 There's no question something would be lost, but part of it is...
01:43:36.000 I know part of it is the context.
01:43:38.000 Just being in front of an audience that large and a live audience.
01:43:42.000 And just the necessity of having to have your...
01:43:44.000 Even though you're miked, there's the sense that your voice needs to carry.
01:43:49.000 Even though it's being aided by a mic, it's appropriate to be belting it out over the heads of the audience.
01:43:54.000 Whereas if you were just in a room with ten people...
01:43:57.000 You know, blasting I Have a Dream that loud, you'd be carted off.
01:44:04.000 Or if you were right here, just you and I in a podcast.
01:44:07.000 Getting that loud.
01:44:09.000 It's time for a rear naked choke.
01:44:11.000 That guy's nuts.
01:44:12.000 Call the cops.
01:44:13.000 Kinison, who started out as a reverend, used to break out into it on stage sometimes as a part of his performance.
01:44:20.000 He would say, they asked me, Sam, have you had to do it?
01:44:25.000 If you had to go back, if you had to teach the Word of God, could you do it?
01:44:30.000 Do you have it in you?
01:44:31.000 Is the Holy Spirit alive?
01:44:33.000 And he would go into this thing, and it was so compelling.
01:44:36.000 Just like, whatever it is about human beings, when we see someone who speaks with this dynamic power, this passion, this ability to project words, it's so...
01:44:45.000 It's so impressive.
01:44:47.000 It's just because most of us can't do it.
01:44:49.000 That's part of it, I think.
01:44:50.000 And part of it is there's just something about us that, like, the reason why you can get hypnotized by a fucking watch swinging in front of your face is something about certain actions that are hypnotic, certain patterns of speaking that are hypnotic, oddly captivating, oddly influential.
01:45:06.000 Yeah, yeah.
01:45:08.000 Even just eye contact, this is something I write about briefly in the book.
01:45:12.000 It's one thing you get in the spiritual world with gurus of various flavors is you get this commitment to really intense eye contact.
01:45:22.000 Tom Cruise.
01:45:22.000 I was going to say about Tom Cruise when he talks to you.
01:45:25.000 He's like, interesting, Sam.
01:45:26.000 That's amazing.
01:45:27.000 It is a Scientology thing, yeah.
01:45:29.000 He just locks up on you, and you just want to believe him.
01:45:32.000 Yeah.
01:45:33.000 But no, it's incredibly intrusive, but there's every version of it.
01:45:38.000 There are people who are just...
01:45:40.000 Non-neurotic.
01:45:41.000 They don't feel any impulse to look away.
01:45:44.000 They're not uncomfortable making silent eye contact with somebody.
01:45:48.000 They're not constantly throwing their words into the space because they're uncomfortable, and yet they're just available, and they're just looking at you, and their attention is free.
01:45:58.000 Because they're not busy.
01:46:00.000 They're not worried about what you're thinking about them.
01:46:04.000 So they're just present.
01:46:06.000 And these people can tend to make highly unusually intense eye contact, which is to say completely unbroken eye contact.
01:46:17.000 And then there are psychopaths who do it, and it's a real power game where it's just – they're not – They're running something, they have a very different agenda, but they're also comfortable, you know, I fucking you and just doing it from a place of aggression.
01:46:36.000 But it's a, it was interesting, when I got into meditation and early on, you know, I was 20, 21, and I got really into meditation and this is a period where I was doing a lot of psychedelics and one of the experiences you've probably had on psychedelics is the amazing experience of just looking into somebody's eyes on acid or mushrooms and just having that just open a kind of an inner landscape of profundity or seeming profundity where you can
01:47:07.000 just be staring into somebody's eyes silently for an eternity or what seems like an eternity and What often happens to people is that after having experiences like this, then looking into people's eyes can become a way of activating that state of mind.
01:47:25.000 Being committed to looking into people's eyes and never looking away can be a way of introducing that liquid psychedelic experience interpersonally.
01:47:37.000 I was sort of into that for a while, and so I was kind of walking through life, you know, like as Tom Cruise does.
01:47:47.000 To have people in the eye, try to trip.
01:47:49.000 Yeah, just like, yeah, exactly.
01:47:51.000 Just never, just like, oh, I'm just going to go with it, you know, let's see where this goes, and I'm just never going to look away from anyone ever again.
01:47:57.000 And you get, you start having, I mean, it's intrusive, and I stopped doing it, but...
01:48:18.000 I think?
01:48:22.000 And it's just eye lock for as long as you're going to stay.
01:48:26.000 They're never going to look away.
01:48:27.000 And so whether it's a barista at Starbucks or whether it's just somebody who is 50 feet across the room at a party, you make eye contact, they're not going to be the first one to look away.
01:48:38.000 And so you get into these really weird encounters.
01:48:40.000 And I remember this one party I went to.
01:48:43.000 Where I was sitting on a couch, and I looked across the room, and there was this guy looking at me, and there was probably 40 feet between us.
01:48:53.000 And he looked at me, and I looked at him, and then it was just like War of the Warlocks.
01:48:59.000 Neither of us were going to look away, right?
01:49:03.000 And I was doing a lot of meditation, and I was probably...
01:49:09.000 Taking acid once a month.
01:49:10.000 So I was pretty tuned up for this kind of game.
01:49:14.000 I had no problem making eye contact with some strange guy 40 feet away.
01:49:21.000 And after a certain point, he jumped up and kind of raced over to me.
01:49:25.000 And we had a problem.
01:49:27.000 He's like, what the fuck are you doing?
01:49:29.000 So what I was doing was so intrusive.
01:49:33.000 But he had his own game going because he didn't look away, right?
01:49:38.000 Right.
01:49:38.000 He was available for it.
01:49:39.000 But in any case, when you walk through life like this, you discover that there are a lot of people doing this for whatever reason.
01:49:49.000 And you definitely have unusual encounters with strangers.
01:49:53.000 I had one on a train once when I was a kid.
01:49:56.000 I was probably like 16 or 17 years old in Boston and it was some guy and we were sitting across from each other and we looked at each other and he looked at me and he gave me like a little extra look to get me to look away, like a little extra look.
01:50:11.000 And I didn't, and I was like, what's going on here?
01:50:13.000 And for whatever reason, it wasn't like a conscious practice.
01:50:17.000 I just decided I wasn't going to look away.
01:50:20.000 With an act of defiance, being a teenager.
01:50:22.000 And he progressively got more and more angry, and then my level of stress raised up to the point where I'm like, am I going to have to fight this old motherfucker?
01:50:29.000 We're going to have to go at it because we're staring at each other.
01:50:33.000 And then finally something happened.
01:50:34.000 One of us broke, but we didn't have a confrontation.
01:50:36.000 But I remember the intensity of this lock.
01:50:40.000 With me and this guy looking at each other, and he's fucking looking like, what the fuck are you looking at?
01:50:45.000 I don't remember how it resolved, but it did.
01:50:47.000 There was no communication.
01:50:49.000 There was nothing.
01:50:50.000 But I remember very specifically thinking, like, this is so weird.
01:50:55.000 There's obviously some aggression being displayed here.
01:50:57.000 We're looking at each other in the eyes, and this guy just don't want to turn away, and I've decided I'm not going to turn away for whatever reason.
01:51:03.000 And here it's like a moment that I remember to this day, you know, 30 years later?
01:51:08.000 Thirty years later, it's still in my head?
01:51:10.000 For no reason at all.
01:51:11.000 Just me and this fucking guy looking at each other on the train.
01:51:16.000 Well, it is a very primal thing.
01:51:18.000 It's a biological transgression.
01:51:22.000 We are primates.
01:51:23.000 You do this to a macaque or any monkey or ape, and they're not into it.
01:51:31.000 You're walking in...
01:51:32.000 I remember I was in Nepal a lot, and there are these...
01:51:40.000 I think?
01:52:03.000 It's interesting to be with someone who...
01:52:05.000 I mean, I study with a lot of great meditation masters who spent years on retreat, some of them decades on retreat, doing nothing but meditate, some of them spending years meditating just on compassion.
01:52:18.000 And when you're with someone like that...
01:52:22.000 Then it's a very different vibe, obviously, and what you're getting from that kind of eye contact is just a fundamental freedom from...
01:52:37.000 Kind of the neurotic self-program that everyone's running.
01:52:40.000 I mean, you can meet someone who you feel like is just, they don't have a problem.
01:52:46.000 They're not, they wish you nothing but well, and they're not, they don't want anything from you.
01:52:53.000 They're not worried about what you think of them.
01:52:57.000 Their attention is free enough to just see what you need and what you want, and it's a very freeing thing.
01:53:09.000 I think it's something to recognize in someone as being possible.
01:53:12.000 To see someone who's just dropped down to a level of non-neurosis that you recognize you just haven't experienced in yourself.
01:53:24.000 There are surrogates for this and there are artifacts which are confusing to people because Obviously, in any situation like this, there are power dynamics where when you're the guy on stage or you're the guy in the powerful role or you're the celebrity or whatever it is,
01:53:40.000 you're kind of free to be non-neurotic when everyone else is dancing around being neurotic.
01:53:47.000 When someone's busy trying to not spaz meeting Joe Rogan, You often are just free just to be a nice guy who is...
01:53:58.000 I don't know if this is true of you, and maybe it's not true all the time, but you can be sort of empowered by a role, and it's kind of liberating, and then you can find yourself in another context.
01:54:09.000 This goes to the first point we made about different states of self.
01:54:12.000 You can find yourself in another context where you're just trying...
01:54:14.000 You're not Joe Rogan, the celebrity, or you're not the guy who's on stage.
01:54:19.000 You're just someone trying to get something done with somebody else who's not taking you seriously, and you can feel all of your sort of normal level of neurosis kick in because you're not empowered in that situation.
01:54:28.000 There's nothing about the frame around the situation that is making you the center of attention or making anyone defer to what you're saying.
01:54:37.000 And so contexts can...
01:54:40.000 I mean, you can prop up a totally fake guru who has no skills at all, who's just...
01:54:47.000 I mean, this experiment has been done.
01:54:49.000 I think James Randi just created a fake guru.
01:54:54.000 I think it was in Australia or New Zealand.
01:54:56.000 He got some suitably mysterious-looking Latin guy and called him the amazing whatever.
01:55:05.000 We're good to go.
01:55:26.000 Everybody's life in that room to some degree.
01:55:28.000 And there was actually a documentary, this Kumari.
01:55:30.000 I don't know if you saw this.
01:55:31.000 Hilarious.
01:55:31.000 Is that on the same guy?
01:55:33.000 No, different guy, but same thought experiment.
01:55:35.000 I need to see that.
01:55:36.000 What is it called again?
01:55:37.000 Kumari?
01:55:37.000 Kumari.
01:55:38.000 Yeah, well worth seeing.
01:55:39.000 I keep hearing great things about it.
01:55:41.000 It's one of those things that's always on my to-do list that I never get around to.
01:55:45.000 Hilarious.
01:55:45.000 The guy does a great job because he's Indian and he speaks perfect English.
01:55:49.000 He just lays it down.
01:55:51.000 English?
01:55:51.000 Yeah.
01:55:52.000 It's awesome.
01:55:53.000 Well, there's also the sexual attraction thing, the eye contact, that context, whereas you can't make eye contact with a woman like that and just lock eyes with her without her thinking you want to have sex with her, or she locks eyes with you without her thinking that you want to have sex,
01:56:09.000 or, you know, the opposite.
01:56:12.000 It's only in a gay sense with two men, you know?
01:56:17.000 The thing about looking at someone, it's almost like you're giving them the green light.
01:56:22.000 Like, I'm interested in you.
01:56:23.000 I'm looking at you.
01:56:24.000 I'm interested in you.
01:56:25.000 Or I'm threatening you.
01:56:27.000 Or I'm challenging your position of dominance.
01:56:30.000 Or whatever the fuck it is when you're locking eyes.
01:56:32.000 It's very different when it's intersexual.
01:56:34.000 When it's male to female.
01:56:36.000 Right.
01:56:36.000 Well, it can be just as intrusive.
01:56:38.000 Yes.
01:56:39.000 More so.
01:56:40.000 Especially male to woman.
01:56:43.000 Because if a guy is locking eyes with another guy, it's weird.
01:56:47.000 But it's not like, oh, God, this guy's going to fuck me.
01:56:52.000 Although, between two guys, you get that monkey dance of, you know, what are you looking at, what are you looking at, and then it becomes, do we have to fight?
01:56:59.000 Whereas with a man to woman, it's just, it's intrusive.
01:57:03.000 The guy is not picking up whatever cues of disinterest or, you know, boundary setting are there, and he's just staring, and that's just, you know, it's just uncomfortable, given that, you know, women are the targets of Of sexual violence and just,
01:57:20.000 you know, harassment.
01:57:23.000 Free will.
01:57:24.000 This is something we have to get to because we only have an hour left.
01:57:30.000 This is something that is perplexing, confusing, hotly debated.
01:57:36.000 Is there free will?
01:57:37.000 And you would probably say no.
01:57:40.000 Yeah, I have said no, much to the consternation of certain people, philosophers like Dan Dennett, who I collided with on this issue, even though it didn't have to be as unpleasant as it turned out to be.
01:57:56.000 Why was it unpleasant?
01:57:57.000 Was he angry at you?
01:57:58.000 Well, yeah, I mean, what happened is, I wrote this very short book, Free Will, which was actually, there was a short section in my book, The Moral Landscape, in which I laid out my argument against free will, and it got so much attention,
01:58:14.000 and people found it so interesting and disturbing, and it was clearly just one, it might have been only ten pages in the book, but It was something that just people wanted more of.
01:58:25.000 And so what I did is I took those 10 pages and I blew them up into a hundred page, but still a very short book that you could read in an hour, an hour and a half, and published it as free will.
01:58:36.000 And then Dan Dennett, who is a very well-known and very smart philosopher, who's a colleague and friend of mine and, you know, We're good to go.
01:58:50.000 We're good to go.
01:59:19.000 I think?
01:59:23.000 I think?
01:59:29.000 Rather than fully engage his view in my book, the truth is I think his view on free will, which is called compatibilism, is the argument that free will is compatible with determinism.
01:59:45.000 It's that you don't have to, even if we're in a universe where all causality is just kind of running like clockwork, including every influence on the human brain and everything that's giving rise to thoughts and decisions and behavior,
02:00:00.000 if it's all just a machine that's kind of running out from the Big Bang to the...
02:00:04.000 The heat death of the universe.
02:00:07.000 Free will is compatible with that determinism.
02:00:11.000 And so then he has fleshed out his compatibilism.
02:00:16.000 He's not the only compatibilist, but he's the most famous at this point.
02:00:19.000 He's fleshed out his compatibilism in a couple of books.
02:00:22.000 Now, I think compatibilism is actually just changing the subject.
02:00:26.000 It's redefining free will as something that doesn't actually track what people think they have.
02:00:32.000 And in my view, he's just not grappling with the illusion that can be penetrated here and should be penetrated here.
02:00:39.000 So I didn't really want to engage his...
02:00:42.000 I mentioned his books.
02:00:44.000 I mentioned them only to kind of put them on the shelf as, you know, this is not...
02:00:47.000 This doesn't really get at the issue.
02:00:50.000 And...
02:00:50.000 This, you know, pissed him off, frankly.
02:00:52.000 And he thought he was being, you know, in his defense, I think he thought he was being very diplomatic and measured and responsible in how he engaged me.
02:01:06.000 And what he did is he wrote a review of free—I think he waited like a year, but then he wrote a review of the book— Which I published on my website, but it was a very hard-hitting, but in my view, misguided and confused review of my book.
02:01:25.000 And so then I responded, and he didn't like my response, and that's kind of where we left it.
02:01:29.000 But it was kind of a very long review that...
02:01:32.000 That made a lot of noise to not much effect in my view.
02:01:36.000 And then I responded with a very long review where I hit back probably a little too hard.
02:01:43.000 And it's one of those problems you get into when you're just writing rather than having a conversation.
02:01:48.000 So what I urged him to do, and this is the reason why my review came off as so frustrated, and people can find all this on my blog.
02:01:55.000 My review, I published his...
02:01:58.000 His review on my blog, and I forget what the title was there, but you can easily find it on my blog.
02:02:03.000 And then my review was called The Marionette's Lament, and that was my response to his review of Free Will.
02:02:11.000 But the problem was, I told him, I said, Dan, we should just have a public conversation about this.
02:02:17.000 It's only in conversation.
02:02:20.000 I think?
02:02:36.000 And you're having these mutual 3,000 or 10,000 word volleys where I'm just going to lay it out.
02:02:42.000 What's totally wrong with your worldview?
02:02:45.000 And in the course of doing that, I'm going to make 15 huge mistakes that you could have corrected in real time, but now I'm committed to them because I wrote a page on each.
02:02:56.000 And then we just go back and forth.
02:02:58.000 So I really urged him to have a debate with me or a conversation.
02:03:04.000 He didn't want to do that, and then he wrote this review, and I said, okay.
02:03:13.000 He showed me the review before he was going to publish it.
02:03:17.000 He was going to publish it on a website that was far more obscure than my blog, which he did, but I co-published it on my blog.
02:03:26.000 But I said, before you publish this, just let me make this a conversation.
02:03:29.000 Let me take this text and interrupt you.
02:03:32.000 You can say anything you want to say, but let me just build in some mechanism where you can correct.
02:03:38.000 There are ten places here where you're misunderstanding me, and so let me turn this into a conversation.
02:03:43.000 And it was no go there, and so then he just finally published it, and I said, okay, well, fine.
02:03:50.000 So in any case, people can witness the collision there on my blog, but the basic case against free will is this.
02:03:58.000 It's twofold.
02:03:59.000 One is that And again, it's the obverse of this sense of self.
02:04:04.000 It's the other side of the coin, where you feel like you're a thinker of thoughts.
02:04:08.000 You feel like you're the author of intentions.
02:04:10.000 You feel like you are a subject.
02:04:13.000 And commensurate with that feeling is the sense that...
02:04:19.000 You are in a position to do what it is you do, to decide to do...
02:04:25.000 I can decide to lift my left hand or I can decide to lift my right hand, and I can deliberate between the two, and I can have reasons for one or reasons for the other.
02:04:32.000 And I'm in the driver's seat.
02:04:35.000 I really am.
02:04:37.000 And so that's where everyone's starting.
02:04:40.000 The problem with that is...
02:04:44.000 Objectively, we know that everything that you're consciously aware of, all your thoughts and your intentions and your impulses and your impulses to resist those impulses, whatever's coming up for you, we know that's all preceded by events in your nervous system of which you're not aware and which you didn't create.
02:05:05.000 And the state of your brain in this moment, in every sense, Is the product of variables that you are not responsible for.
02:05:14.000 You didn't pick your parents.
02:05:15.000 You didn't pick your genes.
02:05:17.000 You didn't sculpt your genes.
02:05:19.000 You didn't pick the environment in which your genome was going to be expressed.
02:05:24.000 You didn't pick the way that your interaction with the world and other people sculpted the microstructure of your brain so as to give you the brain you have.
02:05:34.000 You didn't pick the number of receptors you have of every type at every synapse.
02:05:39.000 You didn't pick all the charges that are currently in place in your brain at this moment.
02:05:45.000 You haven't created your neurophysiology, and yet your neurophysiology is going to give rise to every next thought and intention That shows up for you.
02:05:56.000 And we know that if you do an experiment, like you put someone in a neuroimaging device, whether it's EEG or whether it's an fMRI, and you image their neural activity in real time,
02:06:12.000 and you have a very simple choice between pushing the left button or pushing the right button, we can predict Before the person is aware of having committed to right or left, whether they're going to go right or left.
02:06:26.000 And we know that that ability to predict is only going to become more fine-grained.
02:06:30.000 So that if you take away...
02:06:33.000 And again, someone like Dan Dennett has a story about why this doesn't matter.
02:06:37.000 And the truth is, it actually doesn't matter.
02:06:40.000 Because even if we couldn't predict...
02:06:42.000 It matters in the sense that it's very persuasive to people that...
02:06:47.000 If I can predict what you're going to do before you're aware of what you're going to do, well then the basis for free will seems to go out the window.
02:06:56.000 Okay.
02:06:56.000 Two things.
02:06:57.000 One, how can you...
02:06:58.000 So for instance, just notice this moment.
02:07:01.000 So let's say I had written down on a piece of paper the next sentence you're going to speak, right?
02:07:07.000 So I had verbatim what's going to come out of your mouth now.
02:07:10.000 And you just, so you know, you start your side of the conversation and I just hold up this pad and you see that I have everything that is just now occurring to you to say, that would be pretty persuasive to you that you're not running a free will program over there.
02:07:26.000 Right.
02:07:27.000 Right?
02:07:28.000 And so that's the intuition that I'm trying to get at.
02:07:30.000 So that if we can predict what you're going to think before you think it, where is your free will?
02:07:36.000 Right.
02:07:36.000 Because you're thinking it is the basis of your sense of free will in the first place.
02:07:43.000 You feel like you're authoring this next thought.
02:07:48.000 You feel like it's—but if I could show you that we knew what you were going to do before you did it, that would erode this sense that you're free to do otherwise.
02:07:57.000 In what sense could you have done otherwise if I can hold up this piece of paper and show you that you were committed to saying what you were— Isn't this sort of a dishonest argument, though?
02:08:07.000 Because you can't do that.
02:08:08.000 Well, no, but we can do it in a very simple paradigm.
02:08:38.000 Right.
02:08:39.000 How do you know when a person has decided?
02:08:41.000 Yeah, well, good question.
02:08:42.000 And it's a little difficult to operationalize or design an experiment around, but what they've done is they created a clock which made it, and this has been done in a few different ways, but in each one of these experiments, they essentially created a clock that made it very easy for someone to discriminate time.
02:09:01.000 So it wasn't just like watching an ordinary clock, but it could be, let's say, A bunch of letters and numbers streaming in front of you.
02:09:09.000 You're being presented with a bunch of different letters and numbers.
02:09:14.000 I'm asking you.
02:09:15.000 You're free to decide.
02:09:16.000 You can take as long as you want.
02:09:17.000 You're going to choose left or right, and I'm not forcing you to go at any particular time.
02:09:22.000 You're just watching the letters and numbers.
02:09:25.000 Your only job is to tell me what letter or number was present The moment you decided, right?
02:09:34.000 So you're watching K and X and 4 and 7, and so all these different numbers and letters that are easily discriminated appearing on a screen, and you're just waiting to decide, and you're thinking, oh, maybe I'll go left, maybe I'll go right, I'm free to do whatever I want, and I'm just going to wait this out a little bit,
02:09:50.000 but all right, I'm going to go right.
02:09:52.000 And the moment you feel that you're committed, you just recall what number of letter you were looking at, And then you tell the experimenter afterward, I was looking at K. K was on the screen when I was committed.
02:10:04.000 Now, you might think this is not so compelling when the time interval is very brief.
02:10:09.000 In some of these experiments, the distance was like half a second, right?
02:10:14.000 But with this recent fMRI experiment, the distance stretched out to like five seconds.
02:10:20.000 You know, five to seven seconds so that the activity that was inclining a person to go right as opposed to left was building up subconsciously for that long so that at a certain point the person said, all right,
02:10:35.000 I've decided, but the data show that we could have predicted that with great accuracy five to seven seconds earlier.
02:10:44.000 See, but that's relying on a person being honest about when they decided.
02:10:49.000 It seems rather crude.
02:10:52.000 And it also seems to conflict with what we were talking about earlier, which is the idea of controlling your thoughts.
02:10:58.000 The idea of getting to a point in your mind where you are essentially in control of which way your brain goes.
02:11:08.000 Whether you adhere to one pattern of thinking or another.
02:11:12.000 And if you're talking about something as crude as lifting a left hand or a right hand deciding when to do so based on whatever idea that pops into your head, that seems like an incredibly crude way to argue that there's no free will.
02:11:27.000 Well, again, let me just be clear about this.
02:11:30.000 It's a very interesting experiment.
02:11:31.000 I agree it's crude, except I think that with this time interval, it becomes – there's less of a concern that the person's judgment about when they decide it will be off by enough so as to make it an invalid experiment.
02:11:45.000 But – I don't think it's enough, I mean, to satisfy me.
02:11:48.000 But let me just tell you, nothing hinges on this, because even if the decision, the neural activity in the brain that gave you the decision, and your subjective feeling of having decided,
02:12:03.000 even if those were coincident, even if there was no time lag, right?
02:12:06.000 It still is coming out of nowhere, in a sense, for you subjectively.
02:12:13.000 You're still not in control of it.
02:12:14.000 And it's still being caused by events that you didn't cause.
02:12:19.000 So again, you didn't pick your genes.
02:12:20.000 Genetics and events, life events.
02:12:21.000 You didn't pick how...
02:12:23.000 And the real illusion here...
02:12:27.000 What most people think is that there's a very...
02:12:31.000 A very strong, subjective case for free will.
02:12:33.000 We all know we have it.
02:12:34.000 We all feel it.
02:12:35.000 We're all living it.
02:12:36.000 And yet it's very difficult to map on to third-person reality.
02:12:41.000 It's very difficult to map on to the physical world.
02:12:44.000 That is not the situation, from my point of view.
02:12:47.000 I think it is very difficult to map on to—it's, in fact, impossible to map on to the I think?
02:13:19.000 But the feeling is that, and this is a feeling that I think Dan Dennett has, there's this very compelling subjective sense of free will that we somehow have to make room for.
02:13:31.000 And I'm saying we don't have to make room for it because if you look closely enough, you don't actually even feel it.
02:13:36.000 You don't even feel that you have the freedom that you think you feel.
02:13:40.000 Because if you just look at how thoughts arise, if I just pay attention to how I get to the end of this sentence, I don't know how I get to the end of the sentence.
02:13:50.000 In the cases where I fail to get to the end of the sentence, where I miss a word, where I speak in a way that's not grammatically correct, each one of those hiccups is a mystery to me, subjectively, and no doubt it's caused by some events in my brain that could be understood if we were scanning my brain.
02:14:12.000 But subjectively, It's always a surprise.
02:14:16.000 But successfully finding the word you're looking for is also, in some sense, a surprise.
02:14:21.000 It's also something that you're not actually authoring.
02:14:24.000 And when you look at why you choose one word over another, you say something like...
02:14:34.000 You know, there's a consistency between this story and that story.
02:14:39.000 And then you say, well, why did I choose the word consistency?
02:14:42.000 You know, there are other synonyms, there are other words that mean consistency that I could have used.
02:14:46.000 I could have said, there's a harmony between this story and that story.
02:14:51.000 That is subjectively mysterious and was determined by events in your brain that you are not responsible for.
02:14:59.000 And so if I, a very simple experiment, if I say to you, what are you going to think of next?
02:15:03.000 So your next thought.
02:15:05.000 So I'm going to ask you to think of a city.
02:15:11.000 Any city?
02:15:12.000 Chicago.
02:15:13.000 Okay.
02:15:13.000 So you thought of Chicago.
02:15:16.000 Now, perhaps, were there other cities that kind of percolated there that were vying for inclusion and then you decided on Chicago?
02:15:23.000 Yeah, it could be.
02:15:24.000 But were you consciously aware of making...
02:15:26.000 Oh, I just picked one.
02:15:26.000 I just randomly picked one.
02:15:28.000 Okay.
02:15:28.000 So Chicago.
02:15:29.000 Now, of all the cities you know the name of, right, you picked Chicago.
02:15:33.000 Now, there's a bunch of cities that you don't know the names of, so you couldn't have picked them, right?
02:15:38.000 So you were not free to pick them.
02:15:41.000 But then there's probably hundreds of cities whose names you recognize and which you could have potentially.
02:15:47.000 You could have said Budapest.
02:15:49.000 You could have said Cairo.
02:15:50.000 You could have said Paris.
02:15:51.000 But those cities didn't occur to you for whatever reason.
02:15:55.000 So the question is, and this is as free a choice as I think you're ever going to make.
02:16:01.000 The question is, were you free to think what didn't occur to you, to think?
02:16:08.000 We're good to go.
02:16:25.000 Paris was not in the cards for you.
02:16:27.000 Based on the state of your brain, based on the inputs that had happened earlier today, based on whatever variables could control how this experiment was going to run, you thought Chicago, and you didn't think Paris.
02:16:40.000 Now, in a deterministic universe, You were not free to think Paris.
02:16:47.000 And if we add randomness, it doesn't give you the freedom of will that you think you have.
02:16:57.000 Because the freedom of will people think they have is they are free...
02:17:03.000 To have done otherwise.
02:17:04.000 They could have done otherwise.
02:17:07.000 So what does it mean to say you could have said Paris?
02:17:11.000 You said Chicago.
02:17:12.000 We can't take that back.
02:17:13.000 But your belief in free will entails the belief that if we rewind the movie of our lives right now, if we just go back in this conversation a few minutes and Sam says, think of a city, Leaving everything else the same.
02:17:31.000 If the universe is exactly in the same state, I could have said Paris.
02:17:35.000 And there's no reason scientifically to think that you could have.
02:17:39.000 Because that would mean the universe would have had to have been in a different state.
02:17:42.000 But are we not getting trapped in minutiae here?
02:17:45.000 Because is it not a combination of determinism and randomness?
02:17:48.000 Because of course there's determinism.
02:17:50.000 Of course there's certain events that have taken place in my life that I can't change.
02:17:54.000 Of course there's genes.
02:17:55.000 There's life experiences.
02:17:57.000 I have experience in Chicago.
02:17:59.000 It's a city I love, so it comes up to my mind pretty quickly.
02:18:02.000 But it's also randomness because I just...
02:18:05.000 Chicago.
02:18:06.000 I just picked a name.
02:18:07.000 But that doesn't apply to my life.
02:18:09.000 And I think when you talk about free will, when most people talk about free will, They think about actions in terms of their life.
02:18:15.000 Like, if you have an opportunity to cheat on your taxes, but you think it's morally wrong, you don't want to go to jail, isn't it not free will to look at your tax form and make the decision to be correct?
02:18:26.000 Like, isn't that free will?
02:18:27.000 Isn't there not free will involved in choosing to control your thoughts, as we were discussing earlier?
02:18:32.000 Exactly.
02:18:32.000 Let me address that question.
02:18:34.000 So this can all seem very abstract and academic and of no use to anyone.
02:18:38.000 And what I argue in my book is that admitting that free will is an illusion Actually does have some important consequences.
02:19:08.000 So you look at your effort to be a better person.
02:19:10.000 So your effort not to cheat on your taxes or to cheat on your wife or to cheat on your diet.
02:19:14.000 Let's make it very simple.
02:19:15.000 You're on a diet and you've decided you're going to go carb-free for the next week, but then you come in here and someone's giving you some donuts and you're tempted to eat a donut, but then you have that moment, that tug of war with yourself and you say, no, no,
02:19:31.000 I've decided to go carb-free.
02:19:32.000 I'm going to toss these.
02:19:35.000 That back and forth.
02:19:50.000 The difference there, your ability to resist, your inability to resist, which part of you wins in that circumstance, is also being born of variables in your nervous system that you didn't author,
02:20:06.000 that you didn't control.
02:20:08.000 And if you could understand them perfectly, if you could see all the causality, You would see that you were not in control at that moment.
02:20:20.000 You had exactly as much willpower as you had in that moment and not Adam Moore.
02:20:29.000 What that doesn't mean, that doesn't mean that willpower is irrelevant.
02:20:34.000 That doesn't mean that training is irrelevant.
02:20:36.000 If I want a black belt in jiu-jitsu, I've got to train in jiu-jitsu.
02:20:41.000 I can't just sit back and see what happens, right?
02:20:43.000 I can't just wait to see if I get a black belt in jiu-jitsu.
02:20:45.000 But your decision to train, you're saying...
02:20:47.000 Absolutely.
02:20:48.000 It's part of the causality.
02:20:51.000 My decision to train will be the proximate cause of my going into a school and training.
02:20:56.000 My desire to get a black belt is going to be the proximate cause in each moment of my making it a priority to train, my making the effort to train, my...
02:21:08.000 Getting over injuries, my ignoring injuries when I otherwise would be cowed by them.
02:21:15.000 Your intentions and your efforts and your desires are just as causal and as important as you think they are.
02:21:26.000 You are driven by desire and effort does matter and training has an effect.
02:21:32.000 All of that's true.
02:21:33.000 But, and so you can't, where people get confused is they think that determinism is the same thing as fatalism, whereas just, you know, if everything's just going to happen as it happens, well, then I don't have to do anything.
02:21:43.000 You know, I'm just going to see if I get a black belt.
02:21:46.000 You know, I just not, I'm not going to, I'm not going to make any efforts because if I'm destined to get a black belt, you know, someone's going to give me one.
02:21:52.000 Right.
02:21:52.000 Right.
02:21:52.000 That makes no sense, right?
02:21:54.000 Right.
02:21:54.000 If I'm destined to learn Chinese, I'm just going to start speaking Chinese one day.
02:21:57.000 So how's that not a combination of, uh, I mean,
02:22:15.000 is that not free will, in some sense?
02:22:18.000 Isn't the only way to truly tell whether or not there is the ability to alter your events and your life and your behavior based entirely on your will, wouldn't you have to have someone live the exact same life with the exact same genetics, exact same life experiences, and confront the exact same circumstances and decide or find out whether or not they act randomly or whether or not you can determine it?
02:22:39.000 Well, that's the thing.
02:22:39.000 The thing is that So, the first part of your question, someone like Dan Dennett wants to say, that is all we mean by free will.
02:22:49.000 The only thing you need for free will is this effect of intention and training and willpower.
02:22:55.000 That's all anyone cares about anyway, so the rest of the stuff is irrelevant.
02:22:59.000 Determinism is irrelevant.
02:23:04.000 I don't think that's true for a few reasons, but the crucial piece is ethical.
02:23:10.000 So once you acknowledge that if someone was in exactly your situation, given the same genes and the same parents and the same environment, same life influences, same political circumstance, same micro-influences to his nervous system,
02:23:29.000 that person would make all the same choices you're making.
02:23:34.000 He'd have the exact same amount of willpower when he was confronted with a donut.
02:23:38.000 He'd fall off his diet the exact same number of times and in the same places.
02:23:41.000 The movie of your life, if replayed in your double on another planet that was exactly like this one, would play out exactly the same.
02:23:52.000 And if randomness intrudes to make it different, well then randomness doesn't give you free will.
02:23:57.000 Randomness just gives you randomness.
02:23:58.000 If I just told you that You're going to be exactly the same as your double, and we can completely predict your behavior a thousand years before you're even born, right?
02:24:10.000 Because we've run this experiment before, and we've tuned your genes and your world exactly.
02:24:13.000 You're just a computer simulation of your double, right?
02:24:15.000 You're just going to run out exactly the same way.
02:24:18.000 So you've got no free will, but we are going to throw in a little randomness to make you, you know...
02:24:23.000 You mean random events.
02:24:25.000 But random events in your nervous system.
02:24:27.000 Yeah, random events in the world and random events in your nervous system.
02:24:29.000 You can put the randomness wherever you want.
02:24:32.000 So it's going to change your life in various ways.
02:24:34.000 You're going to decide to eat the donut in one case and not in another, and then your joint history with your double is going to diverge.
02:24:44.000 But that's not free will.
02:24:46.000 If you knew that your decision to marry your wife, as opposed to somebody else, was born of someone having thrown the dice in a lab somewhere, you wouldn't ascribe that to free will.
02:25:01.000 That would be a bizarre thing to dictate your decision process.
02:25:07.000 So that's not what anyone means by free will.
02:25:09.000 So randomness doesn't give you the freedom you think you have.
02:25:12.000 Let me just say a bit about why this is important ethically.
02:25:17.000 When we perceive good and evil in the world, we look at people as agents who really are the authors of their actions.
02:25:24.000 We relate to people like they have free will.
02:25:28.000 And this seems to make ethical sense to us, and it's definitely the basis for our impulse for vengeance and retributive justice and the feeling that people really deserve to be punished.
02:25:40.000 Bad people deserve what they get.
02:25:45.000 I'm not arguing that punishment is never valid, and there may be a role for punishment that we want to retain in our justice system, but this idea of punishing people because they deserve it doesn't make a lot of sense.
02:25:57.000 And the way to see that is two ways to see that.
02:26:02.000 One is, you look at these cases where you have someone like Charles Whitman who got on the clock tower at the University of Texas in 1964, I think it was, or 66, And shot dozens of people.
02:26:15.000 I think he killed 14. He killed his mom and his wife first, and then he got on the clock tower and killed 14 people and injured like 30 people.
02:26:25.000 And this was just like pure evil, right?
02:26:27.000 So this guy, if anyone deserves to be punished, this guy does, and he was killed by the cops.
02:26:33.000 And he knew he was going to be killed by the cops, and he had written essentially a suicide note.
02:26:38.000 But you look at this behavior and you think, alright, that's as stark as evil as we ever see.
02:26:43.000 And this guy really is the cause of his actions.
02:26:45.000 But then you read his suicide note and he describes how he was overcome with rages that he found inexplicable and he did not know why he was killing his wife or his mom.
02:26:54.000 He loved them both, but he just felt like he had to do it.
02:26:58.000 And he recommended the doctors Do a post-mortem on his brain because he knows something's wrong with it and maybe they can find the reason why he did all these terrible things.
02:27:07.000 So they do an autopsy and they see that he's got a giant tumor in his hypothalamus pressing on the amygdala and that is certainly a plausible place to be driving some rages in somebody and to be undermining their impulse control.
02:27:22.000 And so most people look at the story of Charles Whitman and they think, alright, this is an unlucky guy who had a brain tumor.
02:27:30.000 Who was driven to act out on the basis of this brain tumor and that is not free will.
02:27:35.000 He was an unlucky puppet and a victim of biology.
02:27:44.000 The problem is a brain tumor really is just a special case of physical causality.
02:27:49.000 And what I'm arguing is that if we had a perfect understanding of the brain, if we could scan your brain at this moment and see every variable that influenced behavior as clearly and as compellingly, As a golf-ball-sized brain tumor,
02:28:06.000 we would see that your behavior and your thoughts and your innermost desires and your commitment to your diet and your love of jiu-jitsu and everything was just as determined as Charles Whitman's rages by a glioblastoma.
02:28:23.000 And it all begins to look like a brain tumor.
02:28:26.000 Your responsibility and the fact that you're a mensch and you're a kind guy as opposed to a vindictive one, all of those variables, again, that you inherited courtesy of genes and environment,
02:28:44.000 Which are the only influences we think you have, right?
02:28:47.000 The truth is, even if you add a soul, add an immortal Christian soul to the clockwork, you didn't create your soul.
02:28:55.000 You can't take credit for the fact that you don't have the soul of a psychopath.
02:29:00.000 So whatever you add is in some sense a gift.
02:29:04.000 You know, brain tumors, souls, genes, cosmic ray bombardment, any influence.
02:29:10.000 And if we could understand these influences clearly, it would all begin to look like Charles Whitman's brain tumor.
02:29:18.000 And if you add the rolling of dice, you know, you add some randomness to it, that doesn't give you freedom.
02:29:24.000 That just gives you randomness.
02:29:25.000 See, when I'm talking about randomness, I'm not...
02:29:28.000 When you were saying, like, random events in the mind, what I was saying is that the only way to truly determine whether or not someone has the choice to make a decision one way or another is to have them live the exact same life, meaning the exact same amount of randomness, the exact same events inside their mind, and see whether or not conscious decision-making has any part in what you do.
02:29:48.000 Like, the idea of free will is people are confronted with a scenario and they decide...
02:29:54.000 What do I do here?
02:29:55.000 It's based on a lot of variables.
02:29:57.000 It's based on life experience.
02:29:58.000 It's certainly based on genetics.
02:29:59.000 It's certainly based on the environment that you grew up in, the environment you find yourself in.
02:30:03.000 But is there not a choice there?
02:30:05.000 Is there not a choice?
02:30:07.000 There's something that's going on in your mind.
02:30:09.000 Where it's causing you to act in one way or another.
02:30:12.000 And in my opinion, the only way to know whether or not it is all determined by momentum and the momentum of the past, your genetics, is to have someone live the exact same life and see if they do the exact same thing, the exact same chemicals, the exact same diet, the exact same,
02:30:28.000 no randomness at all, and whether or not you decide to go one way or another.
02:30:32.000 Okay, but we know that every decision It has to be preceded by something.
02:30:39.000 If you're going to take a scientific view of these things, we know it's preceded by neurophysiology.
02:30:46.000 Can we measure consciousness, though?
02:30:48.000 If there is a consciousness, if there's a something in the mind.
02:30:51.000 What I'm arguing is that whether you think consciousness is arising out of the information processing of the brain, the mind is what the brain is doing, I don't know.
02:31:24.000 What you're going to do next.
02:31:25.000 And when you do it, you really don't know why you did it.
02:31:29.000 And if you have a story about why you did it, you don't know why.
02:31:33.000 You could take a thousand years to choose between your right hand and your left hand.
02:31:37.000 You could say, is it going to be left?
02:31:38.000 Is it going to be right?
02:31:39.000 No, no.
02:31:40.000 I used my right yesterday.
02:31:42.000 I'm going to go for left.
02:31:43.000 It doesn't matter how long you take, right?
02:31:46.000 You could take literally a thousand years, and you could write a million-page document about what it was like to deliberate over this.
02:31:55.000 But in the final moment where you decide, you know what, after all this, I'm going to go with the right.
02:32:01.000 There's an inherent mystery.
02:32:03.000 Subjectively speaking, you don't know what tipped the balance.
02:32:07.000 And the sense that you did is just this feeling of...
02:32:14.000 Again, it's the other side of this feeling of just being the thinker of your thoughts.
02:32:19.000 It's the feeling of self.
02:32:20.000 It's the feeling of I. It's the feeling of I. You're the one pushing the machine.
02:32:25.000 I understand what you're saying, but the choice of a left hand or a right hand is completely irrelevant.
02:32:30.000 There's no consequences one way or another.
02:32:31.000 So that's just the simplest case, but you can make it as big as you want, whether I shoot the intruder in my living room or not.
02:32:37.000 Or whether or not you stick to a diet, or whether or not you choose to be inspired, whether or not you choose to be kind.
02:32:42.000 Yeah, get a divorce.
02:32:42.000 Yeah, well, what are those things?
02:32:44.000 I mean, what is it that's causing those choices?
02:32:46.000 You're saying that it's all just genetics, life experience, random variables in the mind, that there is no self that makes a choice.
02:32:55.000 There is no self.
02:32:57.000 That the self, even though the self is comprised of all these random variables like genetics, life experiences, The environment that you surround yourself with, the people that are in your life that influence you, these variables are the funnel through which all decisions are made.
02:33:14.000 And there is no conscious choice.
02:33:15.000 There's no, today I'm going to be a better person.
02:33:18.000 You saying today I'm going to be a better person is based entirely on a bunch of things that are outside of your control.
02:33:23.000 Right, right.
02:33:24.000 And yet there's that experience...
02:33:26.000 It seems semantic to me.
02:33:27.000 Well, no, but there's that...
02:33:28.000 Well, here's why it's not semantic in the sense that it's semantic...
02:33:32.000 It may be semantic in how most people will live their lives most of the time.
02:33:36.000 So you can still...
02:33:37.000 If you want to lose weight, you still have to go on a diet.
02:33:39.000 Right.
02:33:39.000 And if you want to stay on the diet, you still can't eat the donut, right?
02:33:42.000 So you still have to have this...
02:33:57.000 We're good to go.
02:34:01.000 Here's where it changes.
02:34:03.000 So you think of an evil person like Uday Hussain, who we mentioned at the beginning.
02:34:10.000 The view of him as just pure evil, worthy of being destroyed, worthy if we could have locked him up, as worthy of punishment as anyone we could ever capture, and that it makes sense to hate him.
02:34:25.000 The logic of hatred erodes here because it doesn't make sense to hate Charles Whitman.
02:34:30.000 Charles Whitman was unlucky.
02:34:32.000 That poor bastard had a brain tumor that caused him to kill his wife, kill his mother, and kill a bunch of people and get killed himself.
02:34:40.000 A very unlucky person.
02:34:42.000 Uday Hussein was also unlucky.
02:34:45.000 And you can see this, if you just roll back the clock of his life, when you look at him as a 40-year-old, he's the scariest psychopath you've ever seen.
02:34:55.000 When you look at him as a 3-year-old, he was the little boy who was going to become Uday Hussein.
02:35:03.000 He was the little boy who, through no fault of his own, had Saddam Hussein as a father.
02:35:08.000 Imagine what that was like.
02:35:09.000 He has the genes he has.
02:35:11.000 He has the completely fucked up society that he has, and the honor culture, and the crazy brother.
02:35:18.000 And you have to acknowledge, given...
02:35:28.000 Whatever variables you want to include – genes, environment, souls – if you could trade places with him, you get the same genes, you get the same daddy, you get the same environment, you get the same soul, same ectoplasm, whatever you want to put into the box – You would become Uday Hussein.
02:35:47.000 There's nothing left, right?
02:35:49.000 And it's the sense that there's something left which is an illusion.
02:35:56.000 But what I'm arguing is that this actually can become the basis...
02:36:00.000 For compassion and for a wiser justice system.
02:36:03.000 And we have a justice system that's predicated on the notion of free will.
02:36:06.000 And we've locked up 13 year olds for their entire lives based on a sense that this evil little bastard really deserves what he gets.
02:36:15.000 Well, I think we've done that because we want to protect everyone else from this evil bastard.
02:36:20.000 I think the idea is not whether or not this person is free to make these choices.
02:36:24.000 It's whether or not they're a danger to society.
02:36:26.000 No, no, but the Supreme Court has actually said that our system is based on the notion of free will and that determinism is hostile to any notion of retributive justice.
02:36:35.000 So consciously, as a matter of jurisprudence, we think we are implementing a doctrine of free will.
02:36:42.000 Well then how do you indict people based on their responsibility for something?
02:36:46.000 It's exactly like what we would do if grizzly bears were walking around outside.
02:36:54.000 So if I walk outside in the parking lot after this podcast and I see a grizzly bear I can be afraid of it.
02:37:02.000 I can defend myself from it.
02:37:04.000 I can run from it.
02:37:05.000 I can shoot it if I have a gun.
02:37:07.000 I can decide to lock it up if there's no place safe to put it.
02:37:11.000 You can do all of those things without attributing free will to it.
02:37:15.000 I don't think a grizzly bear has free will.
02:37:16.000 Okay, so you can attribute no free will to a 13-year-old psychopath and still lock him up.
02:37:20.000 How does that change life?
02:37:22.000 Well, in the case of a 13-year-old, we know that a 13-year-old is not truly representative of who he's going to become as a 40-year-old.
02:37:29.000 And you can change most 13-year-olds, the book isn't written on their life.
02:37:35.000 Right, but who wants to be responsible for letting some 13-year-old who's killed a bunch of people...
02:37:39.000 Oh, yeah.
02:37:40.000 Out on the street, you put him back in some sort of an institution, you train him for five years, he goes out and he kills again.
02:37:46.000 Are you responsible for that now?
02:37:47.000 Did you have the free will to decide to let this kid free?
02:37:49.000 We do a lot worse than that, though.
02:37:51.000 We let people go who are obviously going to reoffend in the most shocking ways, and we do it because we're making room for people who are selling acid out of their dorm room.
02:38:04.000 Right, but that's a different argument, isn't it?
02:38:06.000 I mean, that's an argument of privatized prisons and...
02:38:09.000 Financial systems that have been co-opted by pharmaceutical companies and special interest groups like prison guard lobbyists.
02:38:17.000 There's a lot more going on there.
02:38:21.000 What's the basis for decision-making when it comes to keeping a society safe?
02:38:31.000 There's another way to see the problem here.
02:38:33.000 Imagine we had a cure for psychopathy.
02:38:36.000 Imagine we had a cure for evil.
02:38:37.000 So we completely understand human evil at the level of the brain.
02:38:41.000 Turns out, just by sheer luck, there's one neurotransmitter there.
02:38:46.000 Which is quite possible, right?
02:38:48.000 It's unlikely, but it's possible.
02:38:51.000 And let's just say there's just one kind of...
02:38:53.000 A drug or a shot that we give people.
02:38:55.000 It's just a pill.
02:38:56.000 It's just a nutrient.
02:38:57.000 You just put it in the food supply, right?
02:38:59.000 And we cure evil.
02:39:16.000 That wouldn't make any sense.
02:39:17.000 Now, that would be like withholding surgery from Charles Whitman when you knew that the brain tumor was the reason why he was going to be Charles Whitman, right?
02:39:25.000 So Charles Whitman, you discover the brain tumor pressing on the amygdala before he's going to go out and kill everyone, and you say, all right, we're just going to solve the problem here, right?
02:39:33.000 So there'd be no ethical basis to...
02:39:35.000 Before it, though.
02:39:36.000 But even after.
02:39:38.000 But afterwards, there's this concept of retribution where people want revenge with 30 people dead.
02:39:43.000 Okay, but you wouldn't have that on the grizzly bear.
02:39:46.000 So that's the difference.
02:39:47.000 I would.
02:39:48.000 If a grizzly bear killed 30 people, I don't want to kill that fucker.
02:39:50.000 It would be different.
02:39:51.000 I wouldn't want to give him a pill to make him a happy grizzly bear.
02:39:54.000 No, no.
02:39:54.000 But on some level, you understand that a grizzly bear can't help but be a grizzly bear.
02:39:57.000 Yes.
02:39:58.000 Yes.
02:39:59.000 Actually, people used to do this.
02:40:01.000 You could probably find this online.
02:40:03.000 There was a circus elephant in 1919 that ran amok and killed a bunch of people.
02:40:10.000 And the townspeople were so outraged and attributed so much evil to this elephant that they hung it from a railroad crane.
02:40:18.000 I mean, they lynched an elephant, right?
02:40:19.000 And they felt they were very satisfied with themselves.
02:40:21.000 This is justice.
02:40:22.000 But the reality is you have a mistreated circus elephant that went crazy and trampled some people.
02:40:28.000 And he was just being an elephant.
02:40:32.000 With someone like Charles Whitman, when you see that there's a brain tumor, you recognize, alright, he's just being a guy who's got a brain tumor in the wrong place, right?
02:40:40.000 And if we had a cure for it even after the fact, that would be the appropriate thing to do.
02:40:46.000 If we had a cure for evil, if we had a pill that just could make Uday Hussain a nice guy, We would just give him the pill.
02:40:53.000 Right, but then they're not responsible for their past actions because they're a totally different person now that they've received this pill?
02:40:58.000 Well, yeah, because evil is just the bad luck of having bad genes and bad neurochemistry.
02:41:04.000 Boy, that's a hard pill for people to swallow if their daughter was fed to the dogs of Uday Hussein.
02:41:10.000 That's a hard pill.
02:41:11.000 He's not responsible in any way for his actions in the past because he had some bad stuff going on in his childhood.
02:41:17.000 Again, look at his timeline.
02:41:19.000 The three-year-old who has Saddam as a father isn't responsible, right?
02:41:22.000 So just walk him forward day by day, month by month.
02:41:25.000 At what point does he become responsible?
02:41:27.000 Is he ever responsible?
02:41:28.000 Yeah, exactly.
02:41:29.000 At what point?
02:41:30.000 His 18th birthday?
02:41:31.000 Is that when you want to just bring down the hammer on him?
02:41:34.000 It's an interesting question.
02:41:36.000 And I think it sort of highlights the grey nature of reality itself.
02:41:39.000 Everybody wants everything to be black and white, yes and no, plus and minus, but it's not.
02:41:44.000 There's a lot of weird variables when it comes to being a human being.
02:41:49.000 I see what you're saying, but it's sort of a weird argument because these pills don't exist, the shot doesn't exist, to turn someone who's a psychopath into a good person.
02:41:59.000 Well, no, but that just proves, it's just the point of concept that it doesn't make sense to hold someone responsible for their genes any more than it does a brain tumor.
02:42:12.000 And if you can't, but once you start taking each of these causal factors off the table of responsibility, genes, parents, society, environment, cosmic rays, there's nothing left and you can even take the soul off of it.
02:42:29.000 You know, the soul, you didn't pick your soul.
02:42:32.000 Right.
02:42:32.000 Even if you think you have one.
02:42:33.000 You didn't pick it.
02:42:34.000 And that's the problem.
02:42:35.000 But again, it doesn't change.
02:42:37.000 The important things that it doesn't change are things like self-defense.
02:42:40.000 You want to defend yourself against Uday Hussain.
02:42:43.000 If you don't have a cure for psychopathy, you absolutely have to lock psychopaths up.
02:42:48.000 You can't let them run around harming people.
02:42:52.000 Or psychopaths have a certain...
02:42:55.000 Obviously, there are a lot of psychopaths out who actually haven't harmed people.
02:42:58.000 They're just making inappropriate eye contact.
02:43:02.000 But the difference is hatred and the kind of psychological suffering born of it doesn't make a lot of sense.
02:43:14.000 And a clear path to solutions Should they become available opens up.
02:43:21.000 There's something so clarifying about the Charles Whitman story once you hear about the brain tumor.
02:43:27.000 You just think, oh man, all right, well, it turns out this was not evil.
02:43:35.000 We're not talking about evil.
02:43:36.000 We're talking about a brain tumor.
02:43:39.000 What I'm saying is the more we understand the human mind, the level of the brain, the more that feeling is going to encroach on all of these questions.
02:43:47.000 But do we know enough about the human brain to really make that determination?
02:43:51.000 Because when we're talking about where does a thought come from, what is going on inside your mind, we can very crudely look at fMRIs and see areas of the brain that are receiving activity, but we don't necessarily know what is going on.
02:44:06.000 Like creativity, for example.
02:44:08.000 What makes a John Coltrane?
02:44:10.000 What makes a Richard Pryor?
02:44:12.000 I mean, is it just the sum of their life experiences, their genetics, their expression?
02:44:17.000 Or is it, when a thought comes to a mind, like, okay, in your case, when you're writing, and you're sitting in front of your computer, and, you know, I'm sure you probably have those moments where a concept or a sentence comes and it almost feels like it appears at a mid-air,
02:44:34.000 right?
02:44:35.000 Everything appears at a minute.
02:44:38.000 The other reason why I'm so committed to this is the subjective side of the illusion can be cut through.
02:44:52.000 Again, most people's starting point is we have this really robust feeling of free will and self-authorship and self-creation and self-determination and It's hard to make it square with Charles Whitman and Jeans and the rest of the neurochemical story.
02:45:09.000 But I know I've got it.
02:45:10.000 By God, I know I've got this thing.
02:45:12.000 I can feel it right now.
02:45:13.000 That can be cut through.
02:45:15.000 You can actually feel that when you say Chicago...
02:45:20.000 That's like me saying Chicago.
02:45:22.000 It's like me saying, okay, he's going to say Chicago now, and it's coming out of your mouth.
02:45:29.000 Yeah, but there's no consequence to these ideas, like picking the left hand or the right hand, picking Chicago.
02:45:33.000 It doesn't mean anything.
02:45:35.000 Well, that's because it's the simplest case that we can easily demonstrate, but you can raise the stakes as much as you want.
02:45:41.000 But it means a lot if I decide to drive drunk.
02:45:44.000 It means a lot.
02:45:46.000 But arguably you have less control.
02:45:48.000 If I ask you, you and I go out now and have a few drinks, and we're sitting around for a few hours wondering whether we're sober, you're in a worse position to judge.
02:46:00.000 To get intoxicated.
02:46:00.000 Yeah, it's like the way you live your life.
02:46:02.000 Okay, that's a bad example then.
02:46:03.000 What about speeding?
02:46:04.000 What if I'm at a red light and someone revs their car engine?
02:46:07.000 I'm like, oh yeah, bitch, come on, let's go, and we crash into someone.
02:46:10.000 But again, you've got more variables there that are driving you and influencing you, and you feel like you're being led around by the nose, by the environment a little bit more there.
02:46:19.000 In this case, I mean, there's no stakes, but this is as pure a moment of agency as you're ever going to get.
02:46:27.000 When I say, think now of a famous woman.
02:46:33.000 You're free to pick—think of a bunch, right?
02:46:36.000 Okay.
02:46:37.000 And pick anyone you want.
02:46:38.000 And take as long as you want and just— Go back and forth.
02:46:42.000 Okay, there you go.
02:46:43.000 Jennifer Lawrence.
02:46:45.000 I wonder why.
02:46:46.000 That is as pure—that's got to be as pure a demonstration of freedom of will as anything you're going to get in life.
02:46:52.000 Now, again, nothing turns on it, but that's pure and less constrained by, I don't know, am I sober enough to drive or should I speed or, you know, should I— Should I buy this thing or not?
02:47:03.000 Or am I going to have the donut?
02:47:04.000 I mean, there's nothing.
02:47:05.000 It's like there was nothing riding on it.
02:47:06.000 So you were totally free.
02:47:08.000 You had Jennifer Lawrence, but then you had Oprah Winfrey, and then you went back and forth.
02:47:12.000 Never had Oprah Winfrey.
02:47:13.000 Okay, so were you free to pick Oprah Winfrey?
02:47:16.000 You know who Oprah is.
02:47:17.000 Yeah.
02:47:17.000 Well, Jennifer Lawrence is in the news.
02:47:19.000 It's one of the reasons why I picked her.
02:47:20.000 Okay, but that's demonstrating a constraint that is driving you.
02:47:23.000 Right, but I thought about Ann Wolfe first, actually, who's a boxer.
02:47:27.000 And I decided it's just too obscure.
02:47:29.000 Right.
02:47:29.000 Yeah, so you would have been lost on me.
02:47:31.000 Yeah, I just think that I agree with you, without a doubt, that there most certainly are a bunch of factors involved in who a person is, and many of them are outside of your control.
02:47:44.000 But the point you're missing here is that I'm not asking you, I mean, you can grant all of the fact that there are those factors, but what I'm saying is that you can subjectively experience I see what you're saying.
02:48:11.000 Jennifer Lawrence just comes out of the ether.
02:48:14.000 Or the internet.
02:48:15.000 Yeah, and even if you deliberate, no matter how many times you go back and forth, the fact that you finally settle on her as opposed to somebody else is inexplicable.
02:48:24.000 Right.
02:48:25.000 Well, I was trying to be funny.
02:48:26.000 That's why I went with her.
02:48:27.000 Because naked pictures of her are all over the internet today.
02:48:29.000 I don't know if you're aware of that.
02:48:31.000 You have a loop?
02:48:32.000 I heard that it was like some Apple hacking thing.
02:48:37.000 Apparently it's not.
02:48:38.000 Apparently it may be.
02:48:40.000 That might be a factor, but apparently people have been collecting images off of people's computers.
02:48:45.000 So it's not just her.
02:48:46.000 It's a bunch of celebrities.
02:48:47.000 Yeah, a bunch of celebrities, yeah.
02:48:49.000 I see what you're saying, and I agree with you mostly.
02:48:53.000 I don't disagree with you really.
02:48:56.000 I'm just sort of bouncing it around inside my head.
02:48:59.000 So when I say, but what about this, but what about that, I'm doing that as much for myself as I am.
02:49:05.000 I'm not trying to disprove your point.
02:49:07.000 I think there's so many variables as to what makes a person.
02:49:12.000 To attribute anything to one thing, whether it's discipline or whether it's life experience, what makes a man great, what makes a woman fantastic, what makes someone creative.
02:49:25.000 I don't know.
02:49:25.000 I think to boil it down to simply chemicals in the mind and neurosynapses firing left or right, I don't know.
02:49:35.000 I think it's both.
02:49:37.000 I have a feeling that it's not just...
02:49:39.000 I don't think it's just determinism.
02:49:43.000 I think there's determinism, but there's also...
02:49:45.000 I mean, you could...
02:49:46.000 Your life changes based on whether or not you eat a salad.
02:49:49.000 You eat a salad or eat a bowl of pasta.
02:49:51.000 Eat a bowl of pasta.
02:49:52.000 You're just throwing in more neurochemistry there.
02:49:54.000 Yeah, without a doubt.
02:49:55.000 Yeah, no doubt.
02:49:56.000 But what is the decision to eat that salad?
02:49:58.000 Is the decision, like, I decided today I want to be a healthier, better person.
02:50:03.000 What's making me decide that?
02:50:04.000 Is it just neurochemistry?
02:50:05.000 I mean, is it just synapses?
02:50:07.000 Is it just my environment, my life experiences?
02:50:08.000 If that's the case, then human beings are fucking robots.
02:50:12.000 Well, yeah.
02:50:13.000 We are.
02:50:13.000 But most, certainly most scientists- Yeah, but the thing is, that doesn't take out any of the good stuff of life.
02:50:22.000 From my point of view, nothing important is lost here, and something ethical is gained.
02:50:29.000 So, for instance, the possibility of having compassion, even for evil people, loving your enemy, being like Jesus in that respect, which makes absolutely no sense until you actually see a basis for having compassion.
02:50:46.000 For someone like Uday Hussain, I feel like that opens up based on this consideration.
02:50:52.000 But nothing else changes.
02:50:53.000 You know, if Uday Hussain walked into the room, you know, I would put a bullet in him in self-defense as quickly as the next guy.
02:51:01.000 I mean, so it's just – that doesn't change.
02:51:04.000 But it is the difference between – Yes, someone like Uday Hussain is a malfunctioning robot.
02:51:12.000 He's a grizzly bear.
02:51:13.000 So in that sense, we really are just a product of our environments.
02:51:16.000 We really are just numbers.
02:51:18.000 We really are just a sea of variables.
02:51:21.000 But we're consciousness.
02:51:24.000 Subjectively speaking, we are consciousness and its contents.
02:51:27.000 Now, we know that there's a lot that's unconscious.
02:51:29.000 Consciousness is massively affected by those sea of variables and, in fact, cannot be detached from those sea of variables.
02:51:35.000 Yeah, and yet it's as beautiful as you ever want it to be and it's as profound as you want it to be.
02:51:40.000 It doesn't become less profound.
02:51:42.000 And the spooky stuff that people want to introduce doesn't actually amp up the profundity.
02:51:47.000 It makes it less profound.
02:51:49.000 Well, it actually makes us more responsible for engineering a healthy society because we have to be aware of all the variables that are involved in every single human being's developmental process.
02:52:01.000 And the more we can mitigate the negative ones, the better we can make our society.
02:52:06.000 And that doesn't really discount the idea of people being responsible for their actions or punishing people or removing people.
02:52:15.000 Not at all.
02:52:16.000 Exactly.
02:52:16.000 Because punishment has its effects.
02:52:20.000 But now we're free to see that we just want the punishments that have the effects we want.
02:52:26.000 We can get rid of retribution and vengeance.
02:52:29.000 And we can just think, okay, what kind of world do we want to live in?
02:52:31.000 And so maybe punishing people in certain ways can be justified totally on pragmatic lines because it has a certain effect.
02:52:39.000 It deters certain crimes.
02:52:40.000 It makes them better people, whatever.
02:52:43.000 Whatever those punishments are, let's say they exist.
02:52:46.000 Then you don't need a retributive story.
02:52:48.000 You just have a story of, you know, we want fewer carjackings, and we want the carjackers to be better people, so we're going to do X, Y, and Z and deter carjacking on the one hand and rehabilitate carjackings and carjackers on the other.
02:53:03.000 And another way that also highlights the really, truly unethical practices of privatized prisons, of things along those lines where you are purposely setting up laws in order to victimize people,
02:53:20.000 to make it so that, you know, like you're playing a game.
02:53:22.000 You make it so that there are pitfalls.
02:53:24.000 If they fall in those pits, ooh, look, I caught a beaver.
02:53:27.000 He fell into my trap.
02:53:27.000 The incentives are all Yes, the incentives.
02:53:54.000 Right.
02:54:11.000 Your reputation is built on winning.
02:54:15.000 It doesn't matter if he's innocent.
02:54:17.000 Exactly.
02:54:17.000 And that happens in a massive amount of cases.
02:54:21.000 In a massive amount of cases, they're well aware that it's possible they could be wrong, but their job is to prosecute.
02:54:28.000 The same can be said for a defense lawyer.
02:54:30.000 A defense lawyer could be aware that their client is probably lying, but they must defend that client to the best of their ability, including manipulating witnesses, including the way they communicate with these witnesses, to try to lead them down certain paths, to get them to say things that might be misconstrued by the jury.
02:54:48.000 All those things become more unethical if you look at this concept of determinism.
02:54:56.000 Yeah, yeah.
02:54:59.000 Aligned incentives are huge.
02:55:02.000 And that one is a classic case where what you'll get from defense attorneys is a very strenuous defense of...
02:55:11.000 Even the guilty need representation, and our adversarial system completely depends on my giving the best possible defense of Jeffrey Dahmer I can, even though I know that if I succeed, and I sure hope I succeed, he's going to go off and cannibalize more people.
02:55:27.000 I think there's an ethical problem with that, but it's set up by the problem on the other side where you have a prosecutorial system which is really not that concerned About locking up an innocent person for the rest of his life.
02:55:40.000 So it's in a sense the system itself is so inherently flawed that it almost should be tossed out and it should be where no one has an incentive whether that person is guilty or innocent.
02:55:52.000 I mean, that would be the most ethical way to represent it.
02:55:54.000 You should just want to get to the truth.
02:55:55.000 Yes.
02:55:56.000 And whatever system is going to track the truth best, I think, is the system we want.
02:56:00.000 Yeah, I mean, it's like you shouldn't be able to hire a Johnny Cochran.
02:56:02.000 You shouldn't be able to hire a Robert Shapiro.
02:56:04.000 They're too good at manipulating reality.
02:56:06.000 What you should do is you should have some sort of a system where you have people that have no dog in the fight.
02:56:12.000 And these people have no – there's no financial motive to make you guilty or innocent.
02:56:17.000 Like, the idea of a jury system is also equally flawed because you're picking all these people.
02:56:21.000 You sit down with them, how do you feel about capital punishment?
02:56:24.000 How do you feel about birth control?
02:56:26.000 How do you feel about this, that, the other thing?
02:56:28.000 You ask them all these questions and then you pick, the defense and the prosecution gets to pick from all these people based on their decisions.
02:56:37.000 The idea being that this is our likelihood for success if we go with these people.
02:56:42.000 And they have a whole algorithm based on what answers they're trying to get from these various people.
02:56:49.000 That's a really big hole in the system that's sort of highlighted by these ideas.
02:56:53.000 This idea that someone has that you can benefit financially from someone being innocent or guilty.
02:57:00.000 Yeah, and if we had a reliable lie detector, this whole problem would go away.
02:57:05.000 Well, it will be eventually, maybe.
02:57:07.000 You know, I know that I talked to you about this before.
02:57:10.000 One of your colleagues was on my Question Everything show.
02:57:12.000 Pamela Douglas, yeah.
02:57:13.000 Yeah, with the fMRI results of someone being arrested and prosecuted in India because they had functional knowledge of a crime scene.
02:57:21.000 Yeah, and that was a troubling case.
02:57:23.000 Yeah, very.
02:57:24.000 That seems premature.
02:57:24.000 We're running out of time here.
02:57:26.000 All right, man.
02:57:27.000 Thank you very much.
02:57:28.000 Yeah, pleasure.
02:57:29.000 You blew a bunch of people's minds and freaked a bunch of people out.
02:57:31.000 I'm sure people are going crazy, writing blogs, responding to you, and Twitter comments all over the internet.
02:57:37.000 And whoever that guy is that you had the issue with, tell them to fucking lighten up.
02:57:41.000 Sam Harris waking up a guy to spirituality, and that spirituality should be in quotes.
02:57:46.000 Yeah, spirit quotes.
02:57:47.000 Put scare quotes on it.
02:57:48.000 Without religion, and it's available now.
02:57:50.000 I got a copy of it right here.
02:57:51.000 Is it on audiobook as well?
02:57:53.000 Yes, it's available.
02:57:54.000 It's on sale next week, or a week early.
02:57:57.000 As an audiobook, too?
02:57:58.000 Are you reading it?
02:58:00.000 Yes.
02:58:00.000 Oh, great.
02:58:01.000 Excellent.
02:58:01.000 I love that.
02:58:01.000 I don't like it when some actor reads someone else's book, but they do that a lot of times.
02:58:05.000 But it's amazingly hard to do.
02:58:06.000 I don't know if you would be probably better at it than I am, but I found it incredibly hard to do.
02:58:11.000 It's really humbling to realize that people do this professionally with other people's books.
02:58:15.000 I mean, it's amazing.
02:58:15.000 What was hard about it?
02:58:17.000 It's just, you know, I find that I inadvertently have written tongue twisters into my...
02:58:23.000 There were a few sentences I literally had to change words because I couldn't get through them.
02:58:27.000 It was like a Cirque du Soleil act that I couldn't perform.
02:58:29.000 Really?
02:58:30.000 Just to read the sentence.
02:58:31.000 Well, that's interesting because, yeah, when you read something and it's in your mind, you have your mouth closed, you're not making any noises.
02:58:36.000 It's easy.
02:58:37.000 You put something in there where it's got the consonants in the wrong place.
02:58:41.000 And there was one time, it was like 20 takes...
02:58:44.000 And you've got people in a booth, and you've got a producer and an engineer listening to you, and it's just, all right, I'm going to rewrite this sentence.
02:58:52.000 Sorry, guys.
02:58:54.000 All right.
02:58:55.000 The book, Sam Harris, Waking Up.
02:58:58.000 Thanks.
02:58:58.000 Thank you very much, man.
02:58:59.000 Yeah, thank you.
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