Vinnie Shorman is a hypnotherapist who has worked with world champion kickboxer Joe Schilling, world champion MMA fighter Conor Mcgregor, and world record holder for Muay Thai, Conor Gracie. In this episode, Vinnie and Joe talk about the benefits of hypnosis and how it can change your life. Vinnie talks about his experience with a hypnosis session with Joe and gives some tips on how you can get into a state where you can go under hypnosis to help you achieve your goals and achieve your dreams. Vinnie also talks about what it takes to be a good coach and how to get the best out of your clients and how he has been able to help many of his clients achieve their dreams and goals through hypnosis. If you're interested in learning more about hypnosis, you can find Vinnie on his website here. I'm looking forward to seeing you in the next episode of Hypnosis Therapy Live! -Vinnie's YouTube channel: Vinnie's Hypnosis Class: Hypnosis is a natural state of mind and it's one of the most effective ways to get yourself into a better place mentally and physically. Thanks to Vinny for coming on the show and for being a part of the hypnosis community! -Jon and Vinny's team. - Jon & Vinny Shorman's YouTube Channel: Jon talks about how hypnosis can help you improve your life and get you into a new place you want to be in the best state of your mind and body and how important it is in your day to day. Thank you for listening and supporting the podcast. You are amazing! Love ya! -Jon & Jon - -JONNYANTHROSA -ROBERT AND JOE SCHILLER - JONATHAN MCCARTAN - JOSH MILLER -JOSH & JOSH WELCOME TO THE PODCAST - JORDY MCCARTHORNELLY -JORDER & KEVIN CHEESE - JAMES MCDEROY - JACOB SONGSORCHETTER - JOSEPH RYANNA HAYESPECIAL - JAVY SON & KELLY LYNN ECHELAN JOSH CHANEY - JODY OCHTERMAN AND JOSH SONNIE MICKOCHEZ
00:00:31.000World champion kickboxer, Bellator fighter, a guy who's been in here before.
00:00:36.000And he told me about you, and you and I went back and forth on Twitter and email, and then we finally got together today and did a hypnosis session.
00:00:44.000And I'm here to tell you, hypnosis is real.
00:01:06.000You know it seems like it seemed like five No, it was longer than that.
00:01:10.000Yeah It was like I remember the beginning part and then all sudden it was over I was like whoa and there was some weird Dream state stuff going on in the middle where you were talking about some things, but I was thinking about other shit But when I was thinking about shit,
00:01:26.000I was like, wow, I'm in a weird state of mind right now while I'm thinking about these other things.
00:01:30.000I better get back on track about what Vinny's talking about.
00:01:33.000You know, I think it's funny because everything that I do with my clients and you've experienced, I've experienced, and you put it right, it is weird.
00:01:58.000And we all know that these are weird places that your brain can go to.
00:02:03.000Weird frequencies or weird vibrations or whatever you would call it.
00:02:08.000To be able to manipulate it like that, to be able to put someone into a state like that, or help them, assist them getting into a state like that, that's a very unique skill.
00:02:21.000Yeah, I mean, all hypnosis is self-hypnosis anyway.
00:02:33.000Like we said, I was talking earlier, like, you know, you're driving and all of a sudden you end up there and you think, shit, how did I get there?
00:02:40.000I don't do that because I'm rubbish at driving.
00:02:42.000But, you know, other things where you just...
00:03:12.000Sorry to break anyone's hearts out there that loves Superman.
00:03:15.000But, you know, it's just a part and parcel of using your imagination to get you to a place where you want to change.
00:03:23.000But that state that you achieve when you hypnotize someone, when you put someone in this really relaxed place and you have them focus on very specific things and you get them to this weird state where your mind drifts off into that dreamland,
00:03:42.000that's very different than a movie or very different than driving home in your car.
00:04:11.000I don't class myself as a hypnotist, although hypnotherapy is part and parcel of what I do.
00:04:15.000I class myself as a mind coach because there's different facets to it, there's different ways of leading people into various things and considerations about what they say, especially using language, when it's out of sync sort of thing, doesn't make sense.
00:04:29.000And then you might have to make sense of it and then unconsciously, your unconscious mind deciphers it and gets you the best results really.
00:04:37.000Well, it's fascinating to me because for the longest time, mind coaches were sort of unheard of in combat sports.
00:04:44.000It was almost like it was a scarlet letter or a mark against you because you were so weak that you needed someone to figure out how to hypnotize you or how to talk you into being strong.
00:05:01.000You should just be a fucking man and get out there and do it.
00:05:04.000That was the attitude that a lot of people had.
00:05:07.000Yeah, in England, they say, don't be so fucking soft.
00:05:25.000Who are very very skilled get beat by their own self You've seen that you know their own minds and then it's it can be a very It can be very hard for people well the reason why I was gonna bring that up because I think that fighting in particular is probably the most difficult of all Chosen endeavors.
00:05:47.000Outside of being a soldier, it's the most difficult of all chosen endeavors as far as chosen goals that you're trying to accomplish.
00:05:58.000What you're trying to accomplish is you're trying to use your body, use your bones and your muscle to defeat other people who are also using their bones and muscle.
00:06:08.000And the techniques are all readily available.
00:06:13.000Secrets, if you have really good coaches, you can get some tips, but essentially everybody knows how to punch, everybody knows how to kick, and you're just trying to figure out how to maximize your possibilities, maximize your potential for victory.
00:06:29.000How to not get in your own way not how to not trip over your own fears and anxiety and That's where this mind coach thing comes into play and that's where I think it's applicable not just For fighting but also for just life in general because I think that for a lot of people their success or failure of A big part of it is predicated on how they view life and how they view themselves and how they approach each
00:07:00.000thing, each obstacle, each goal, each endeavor that they're attempting to solve or to give their own expression to.
00:07:14.000If it works on fighting, it'll probably work on anything.
00:07:18.000And if you can get someone to a better place mentally, where they can become a more effective fighter and stay out of their own way, in terms of their anxiety and their fears...
00:08:05.000You have to, fighting's hard as you know, of course, but fighting yourself as well as an opponent, as well as trying to listen to your corner, as well as hearing people scream your name or other people screaming for the other person to kick your ass, it's difficult.
00:08:19.000You have to kind of go within, you know, and control everything that you're doing and try and impose what you've got to do on the other person.
00:08:28.000Yeah, doubts and fear, they're extra weights that you carry into the ring.
00:08:35.000And in life, I mean, and again, it's analogous to life.
00:08:39.000Doubts and fears on top of the reality of the difficulty of what you're trying to do, whatever you're trying to do.
00:08:45.000Those doubts and fears, they're like, it's like a heavy weight vest that you're carrying on top of the burden of whatever you're trying to accomplish in the first place.
00:08:54.000And for fighters, it can be just smothering.
00:08:57.000I mean, we've had many instances of guys backstage that either didn't fight or almost didn't fight because they were having anxiety attacks, because they were freaking out, because the moment was finally there.
00:09:10.000And their mind was just running away from them.
00:09:14.000Their mind was trying to figure out a way out of this.
00:09:16.000Like, we can figure out a way out of this.
00:09:18.000All we have to do is just go crazy here, and the doctor will come over, and how about you have a few heart palpitations and fall down, you can't breathe, and then the doctor's going to rescue you.
00:11:01.000I'm the guy who, you know, got in that car accident.
00:11:03.000I'm the guy who showed up late and got fired from my job.
00:11:07.000And you become, instead of a human being who has a lifelong, just a giant string of experiences, a lot of them that you've learned from and that you're better because of, instead you have the sting, like the emotional sting of those failures that just haunt people.
00:11:36.000Being bullied, like, defined them during their formative state.
00:11:40.000And, you know, I've known a lot of fighters who, they've carried chips on their shoulders deep into their 40s from being bullied when they were in high school.
00:11:49.000A funny story, when I lived in a place in England called Macclesfield, and it's on a big hill where I used to live, and I seen the guy who used to live next door to me, his mum used to live next door to me, he used to live there as well, he was 60, something like that, and I seen him at the top of the road, and he was stood at the top of the road, and he was looking down the bottom of the road like this,
00:12:06.000and he was looking again, and he was just stood there, and I said, what are you doing?
00:12:10.000And he went, there's two guys down there, they used to bully me at school and waiting for them to go, 60!
00:12:28.000It's a long time, you know, for him to, you know, and it's a small town, Macclesfield, where he used to live, so he's probably bumped into them.
00:12:34.000He's probably avoided them in the store or shops or whatever.
00:12:37.000So for 42, 43 years, this guy's been haunted.
00:12:48.000It is sad, but it also seems to be bizarrely and cruelly a part of human nature, a part of animal nature.
00:12:54.000So if the animals fuck with other animals, they try to find the pecking order.
00:12:58.000And it motivates the weak ones to be strong.
00:13:02.000It motivates people to stand up for themselves.
00:13:05.000And that's where, I mean, the bullying is a horrible thing, but bullying is also the reason why a lot of great fighters exist.
00:13:11.000Guys like George St. Pierre, I mean, he's pretty open about it.
00:13:14.000Like, the reason why he became a great fighter, because he was tired of people fucking with him.
00:13:18.000And he might not have ever become the guy who he became if it wasn't for that pressure.
00:13:24.000If it wasn't for those obstacles that were thrown in front of his face, you know, and that's...
00:13:31.000It's unfortunate that it happens, but objectively, if you step back and look at just life itself, it seems to be an inexorable part of our existence on this planet.
00:13:43.000There's a pull and a push, and if there's no one pushing, there's no pulling.
00:15:21.000I don't really, I don't play that game.
00:15:25.000I just give them, you know, well, really?
00:15:26.000You know, and I just, I'm kind of, they can be kind of tough with it, but, you know, if you want them to change, if they don't want to change, nothing you can do.
00:15:34.000You know, I don't want to, I don't have these dragged out long, you know, therapy sessions of, and then this, and this, and this happened, and that happened.
00:15:43.000I try and get right to it, right to the core of it.
00:15:48.000That's because of the way I was trained.
00:15:49.000I was trained by a guy called Colin Mackay, who's absolutely like Yoda, you know, my teacher.
00:15:54.000And I was trained that way, and he has good success.
00:15:59.000And how did you get involved with him?
00:16:19.000And I went to a seminar, Keith Meyer, loved it, felt great, didn't know why, just really started reading books, everything, Dr. Wayne Dyer and all sorts of things like that.
00:16:28.000And then I got hold of, wanted to do a course with a company, and the company was good.
00:16:36.000But I found out about Colin, and that was it.
00:16:40.000Since then, he's become my friend, and we're like, he's just smart.
00:17:09.000There's so many factors involved in being a successful fighter.
00:17:14.000And you are involved in probably like the most concentrated form of dealing with anxiety and problem solving and the ability to see results.
00:17:35.000Well, if you think about it, like a person, like, say, if a guy was a banker or, you know, an insurance salesman or something like that, and they had a bunch of issues that are keeping them back from being successful at their chosen endeavor, you know, their failure, pro or con,
00:17:57.000Like the intensity of a guy going into battle like yourself, about to go and trying to find coughs and reasons why someone's going to step in and rescue you from what is ultimately your entire focus for the last six to eight weeks.
00:18:09.000You've been ready for this one moment and the moment's here and you're ready to get the fuck out of there.
00:18:31.000And then just to see this different...
00:18:33.000I think of it like this, like making a really nice wedding cake, and then when you're going to show it to the people that are going to the wedding, just fucking squash it.
00:18:42.000That's always felt like to me, just like, just destroyed their own...
00:18:46.000Creation, all the stuff that they've done in the gym.
00:18:48.000Maybe a better analogy is you wheel that wedding cake out and it melts instantly under the hot lights of the stage.
00:19:22.000You have to consider everything about yourself, you know, going on that stage, going into that lion's den, so to speak, and, you know, the gladiatorial sort of archetype of it all.
00:19:32.000But it is difficult, but there is techniques that work really, really well.
00:19:38.000Techniques that work really well to get the person out of these negative states of mind these negative patterns to get them to get them because what can happen is you can go away with the train of thought so it magnifies and goes on and on gets bigger and bigger and bigger and the self-taught gets really intense so it trips you up completely and then can overthrow you to make you but you know a minimum of what you can actually achieve you know what I mean And you've recently started working with my friend Ian McCall as well.
00:21:59.000Yeah, and for folks who don't know, Vinny used to do commentary for It's Showtime, which is one of the bigger kickboxing events in the world before it was bought out by Glory.
00:22:08.000And now Glory is struggling a bit in the United States, unfortunately.
00:23:22.000I asked him, I met Joe, it was kind of, I don't know, I'll be honest with you, Joe had a bit of a chip on his shoulder, he was a bit angry and stuff, you know what I mean?
00:23:32.000He won't mind me telling you this because he said I can, so he beat me up.
00:23:36.000And he, yeah, he was a bit like that and I seen him at K1 because I did K1 in Los Angeles a while ago.
00:23:43.000I was talking to him and I said, you're miles better than what you come across on the internet.
00:23:47.000You're a much better person than what you act.
00:24:32.000And Joe didn't want to get injured because he was going to fight, I think it was Robert something or other he was fought on glory, and then he was going to fight on Bellator against Melvin Manhoff.
00:25:06.000I'm not saying it's going to work for everything, you know, like, oh, good, you know, it's like your bullets and stuff like that, you know what I mean?
00:25:10.000But it was just, it was that, getting his mindset into that, into that sort of, the way of thinking.
00:25:34.000There was one instance, Liam Harrison was fighting a tie called Anuak-Kyal-Samlit, and he'd fought him before and got stopped in Jamaica when John Wayne Parr fought against Borkau-Paw-Pamuk.
00:25:45.000And Liam had been stopped in, I think it was a fourth round with low kicks.
00:25:49.000So we did a hypnosis to make him called...
00:25:54.000Hypnosis and the trigger word was Warrior.
00:25:56.000You know, he kept this word, because Liam's...
00:25:58.000Have you ever seen Liam Harrison fight?
00:26:01.000I know, along with Jordan Watson and Andy House and all them from Bad Company in England.
00:26:04.000And what we did was, we did this hypnosis, and when I was commentating on the show, because he was fighting Aniwat, in round four, and this just freaked me out, really, to be honest, he looked at me, and he looked me straight in the eye, and he went, warrior.
00:27:31.000There's one fight where he fought Harold Brazier when he moved up to Light Welterweight, do you remember?
00:27:36.000And he slipped, I'm trying to do it, I can't do it by the way, but he slipped, slipped and he just stepped around him and patted him on the arse and I'm like, come on now.
00:27:58.000But he was one of those guys that, for whatever reason, people have kind of forgotten about him.
00:28:04.000Meldrick Taylor, a lot of people have forgotten about Meldrick Taylor.
00:28:06.000Meldrick Taylor, when Meldrick Taylor, I shouldn't say this, when Meldrick Taylor lost to Crisano Espana in, I think he fought in Ireland or somewhere, oh no, it was on the Razor Ruddock and Lennox Lewis bill.
00:30:59.000Yeah, if you listen to that at the end of it, they said, Nigel Benn says, the first person I'd like to thank is Paul McKenna for hypnotizing me and making me believe in myself.
00:31:07.000And I met Nigel Benn about two months ago.
00:31:10.000He said that after the McClellan fight?
00:32:14.000That was a big issue because Gerald McLevin was huge and he was cutting a lot of weight to get down to that weight class and that was back when, you know, people weren't doing it well.
00:32:23.000They weren't rehydrating with IVs and particularly in boxing, the weight cutting mentality in wrestling is a totally different mentality because you could wrestle dehydrated and although your performance will probably suffer, You are not as concerned about head trauma and the head trauma that these guys get when they're dehydrated is very very dangerous because the bleeding on the brain is just way more devastating.
00:32:48.000Apparently all the deaths that have ever occurred or almost all the deaths that ever occurred in boxing have occurred outside of the heavyweight division.
00:32:55.000And the reason being that those are the guys that are cutting the weight.
00:33:12.000I'm not doing a good job of remembering it.
00:33:13.000But it was a rare instance of a heavyweight being like really badly concussed in a fight and having bleeding on the brain and having to get an operation.
00:33:55.000And all of the documentaries have missed that out because I watched it and I thought, I remember because I just, you know, something sticks in your head.
00:34:03.000I just thought, he's not mentioned that.
00:34:05.000They never mentioned how he was, and probably they sparred really hard and all that.
00:34:20.000Yeah, they couldn't have no rap music, any swearing as well.
00:34:22.000And he believed in, like, when Lennox Lewis fought Oliver McCall, he made Oliver McCall wear white boxing boots because he thought that he made him move quicker.
00:35:02.000And then there's some sort of animosity between the two of them.
00:35:06.000They leave, they come back, and you see a lot of that, and it really trips a lot of fighters up, those contentious relationships they have with their trainers.
00:35:13.000I think a lot of the times, though, with fighters, sometimes it may take the position of a father figure, you know, or an elder brother, or, you know, especially a father figure, because a lot of, like, have come for him.
00:35:25.000You know, not the best start in life, you know what I mean?
00:35:28.000A lot of them come from a place with no father.
00:35:38.000I just think it's part and parcel of it, really.
00:35:41.000It is, and I think that's why a guy like Emmanuel Stewart was so successful.
00:35:45.000Not just because of his deep knowledge of boxing and his understanding of technique, which all were certainly there, but also just because he was such a great guy.
00:35:53.000When Thomas Hearns fought Sugar Ray Leonard, I remember reading that Emanuel Stewart and Tommy Hearns locked themselves away for two weeks and just cried.
00:36:42.000When Steve Collins fought Chris Eubank, he came in with earphones in and knelt in the ring.
00:36:48.000And it played with Eubank's head because Nigel Benn had used a hypnotherapist, Paul McKenna, to go through all that to beat Gerald McClellan.
00:36:55.000And then Eubank, because he'd injured Michael Watson so badly...
00:37:00.000That he had this in his head that if Steve Collins is like this, he won't know when he's hurt because he'll get in such a state, he won't know when he's beat.
00:37:54.000That one thing that he did, that speech where he described what it was like to walk into the ring and what he felt like and how he had all these doubts until he got into the ring.
00:38:04.000And then when he got into the ring, he was a god.
00:40:43.000Back in his day, when he left Blend and Ingle, they had a really close relationship from Severn and, you know, an old Irish guy, and he's got loads of stories and, you know, metaphors and blah, blah, blah.
00:40:52.000And when he left Winkerbank, which is in Sheffield, it's not far from me, really, he wasn't the same.
00:41:33.000But again, it comes back to what you do and what your focus is, where it is really about mental states.
00:41:39.000That mental state of wanting to please the father, wanting to please this mentor, wanting to this person that you love and care so much about their opinion and their idea of you, that it becomes a significant motivating factor.
00:41:55.000And that tapping into these factors, tapping into whatever it is that allows you to achieve that amazing state of success.
00:43:48.000I like people getting out of darkness.
00:43:50.000I know what it's like to be there, you know what I mean?
00:43:52.000And it's nothing more of a relief than not being there, you know what I'm saying?
00:43:56.000Just point in the right direction, see people just glow, and they think, you know, and they get that eureka moment, the light bulb moment, where they've done something wicked, or they've done something they didn't think they could do.
00:44:49.000You know, I think, I don't know if you agree with this, but I think when a coach has been a fighter, there's a transition from him being still a fighter to a coach, you know?
00:44:59.000I've got a friend called Frankie Hudders who's got a really good gym in Withenshaw, in Manchester, and I see that with him.
00:45:55.000I mean, you know, certain, not all of them, but certain amounts of it has to be about them because they're the ones that's taking the risk.
00:46:03.000They're the ones that are going to get in the beats, aren't they?
00:46:44.000So, you know, we're going to be doing that in 2016. Colin's got a thing now, so if anyone wants to know about it, they can get me on my website, VinnieShulman.com, or Facebook or whatever, the hypnosis page.
00:46:57.000And we can tell them about it's got a new sort of...
00:47:01.000A series of videos where you can go step by step to learn to be a mind coach.
00:47:05.000My long-term goal is just to keep improving, keep getting better myself, because I love it, reading all the time.
00:47:12.000I'm quite boring, really, going on about it to people.
00:47:16.000My long-term goal is, well, look how well Mike Dolce has done.
00:47:20.000With his diet, you know, and I'd like to be that.
00:47:23.000I'd like to get that to be the man to go to, the go-to guy.
00:47:29.000And I have other people that have the same passion, you know, regardless of if it's fighting or not.
00:47:34.000Just people that just want to achieve or at least get something a little bit further, if not really far.
00:47:41.000How many people do you work with that are not fighters?
00:47:57.000And people come to me, it's always the same thing.
00:48:00.000They come in, because I work from home.
00:48:03.000I want to work on Skype or FaceTime, and they always talk about what they don't want.
00:48:07.000That's the first thing out of everyone's mouth, to talk about what they don't want.
00:48:10.000And when you ask them what they do want, they still talk about what they don't want.
00:48:13.000So you have to change the direction of the thought pattern because they're just so focused on, say, it's that rock, and the rock, the rock, the rock, and you have to just move them to where they want to go, and then say, now what do you want?
00:48:24.000Instead of focusing on that, now where do you want to go?
00:49:09.000That's why it's so exciting because everyone's different and they have this sort of, you know, this thing that keeps them back or whatever.
00:50:11.000So it is about the environment, the environment around them.
00:50:15.000Yes, it is ecological, sort of, in some ways.
00:50:18.000Yeah, and it's also, many times, whatever's holding them back is also what led them to be in that relationship, that toxic relationship in the first place.
00:50:52.000You have to go and ask permission and see if it's okay and would it be all right.
00:50:58.000I mean, these are people that aren't even married.
00:51:01.000But because you travel, and I travel, because I commentate on Infusion and Yokau and stuff, if you had a girlfriend, mine soon's going to be my wife getting married in August, if you had that sort of where you're going, who you're with, blah, blah, blah, you're never going to,
00:51:23.000You know, it's brutal for the man, it's brutal for the woman, it's brutal for the woman that's asking the man, where you going, what are you doing?
00:51:30.000It's a terrible mind state for her to be in, too.
00:51:34.000It's more about them than it is about, you know, it's more about them, what they're going through, their insecurities.
00:52:33.000You know, if you've not, you know, you let someone overstep the boundary and go further back and then you end up not being you.
00:52:40.000It is, and it's also patterns that people fall into because life is very confusing and because life is very stressful and there's a lot going on.
00:52:50.000So they fall into these patterns of making these same mistakes over and over again from one relationship to the next because there's comfort in those patterns.
00:52:58.000And you recognize it early on because there aren't any real issues.
00:53:03.000We've only known each other for a short amount of time.
00:53:05.000You already fucking screaming at me for nothing?
00:53:39.000You know, both parties can drown, because you just can't get out of them, and you're constantly involved in conflict, or the worst is conflict and resolution, conflict and resolution, conflict and resolution, and they get trapped in this high of making up,
00:53:55.000of fighting and then making up, fighting and making up.
00:54:07.000You know, regardless how rich you are.
00:54:09.000I went to a seminar by a lady called Dolores Askoff Nowieski, who's part of the thing called the Servants of Light, which is an esoterical belief school.
00:54:28.000But some of the things that she said, you know, some of the things in the seminar she said are very relevant.
00:54:33.000You know, she was talking about, tell a story about time, saying that when she was in, she lived in Jersey, which is just at the top of England.
00:54:41.000And when in 1940-something or other, the Germans were coming to invade and she had to evacuate.
00:54:48.000So my dad said, well, look, you know, you're not going to...
00:54:50.000I'm not going to be able to buy anything for your birthday.
00:54:52.000We're going to have to use all the money to be evacuated because it's going to go and live in Heswall, which is near me in Liverpool.
00:54:57.000And he said, well, what I'll do is I'll give you a...
00:55:00.000A book with paper, and I'll give you time.
00:55:01.000So every time you write a cheque, you want to be with me in that time.
00:55:06.000And he honoured that time all the time.
00:55:07.000So it made me think about how important time is.
00:55:30.000It's also very difficult to stop and take account of what's going on in your life and try to figure out whether or not it's serving you to the best of its ability.
00:55:41.000If time is serving you, or if you are serving your own life, if your focus and what you're doing, your actions are serving Your own existence to the best of your ability or whether or not you're trapped in momentum.
00:55:53.000Because that's often the case of people.
00:55:55.000Being trapped in momentum could rob you of your life and you won't even realize it until it's too late.
00:56:15.000But it's also really hard to figure out if you're trapped in an environment where the people around you haven't figured it out and they're stuck in some patterns, maybe alcoholism and cigarettes and all the bullshit that's involved with whatever they've got going on in their life.
00:56:29.000Crime or drama or whatever the fuck it is.
00:56:54.000Yeah, that like is one that drives me crazy.
00:56:57.000Like, if I catch myself saying like, like, if you like, I don't know, like, there's maybe like a way to like, oh, shut the fuck up.
00:57:05.000You know, if I catch myself over liking or overing you knowing, you know, there's like, you know, it's like, the worst is, you know what I'm saying?
01:00:05.000Catch weight for MMA, it's usually because someone got a last-minute fight, or short-notice fight, and they don't want to cut all the weight.
01:00:14.000Like, say if a guy fights at 155, like a Gleason Tebow, he fights at 155, but he really walks around about 185, and he cuts a lot of fucking weight, and so he has a process to cut that weight, and it's pretty scientific.
01:00:27.000They've got to kind of stay with that process, and if they don't, Like Benson Henderson when he fought Brendan Thatch.
01:00:33.000Benson Henderson, former UFC lightweight champion, took a fight at 170 because it was a short-notice fight.
01:00:38.000Stepped in and fought at 170. And the reason why he fought at 170 is because this way he wouldn't have to cut the weight and he really wouldn't be able to take a short-notice fight at 155. It's just too hard to lose the weight.
01:00:50.000They have to do it over a long period of time, otherwise they're significantly weakened.
01:00:55.000You know, they get down to a certain, you know, 10, 15 pounds away, and then they dehydrate themselves down.
01:01:00.000I didn't get why, you know, when Cotto fought Daniel Geel a couple of weeks ago?
01:04:49.000That's one of the most exciting things about MMA today is that you're seeing these guys like these Yair Rodriguez's, these young kids that are coming up 23 years of age that have so many fucking tools!
01:05:00.000It's like you compare them to young people coming up 10-15 years ago.
01:09:53.000They're just consummate professionals.
01:09:55.000Well, that's another Emanuel Stewart success story.
01:09:58.000Emanuel Stewart figured out how to get him to box right, and probably engineered that whole style that he's developed, too, this just pop-and-grab style.
01:10:07.000Well, none of Manuel's stewards were left hookers, were they?
01:10:11.000They were all long jab, right hands, you know, like Hearns.
01:10:14.000They wasn't really, like, big left hookers.
01:10:45.000It really is an art, but it's also an art with a very short amount of Time you could pursue it and a very limited number of times you can get hit.
01:11:00.000That's one thing that used to disturb me most about MMA gyms, maybe say 10, 15 years ago.
01:11:05.000These guys really didn't have, I shouldn't say these guys, some gyms really didn't have the best, most technical striking coaches that had a deep knowledge and understanding of striking.
01:11:17.000So these guys would be beating the fuck out of each other.
01:11:20.000Just like throwing bombs at each other in the gym.
01:11:24.000You would watch it and they weren't Working on technique they weren't working.
01:11:28.000They weren't sparring to get better at the art of hitting and not getting hit They were just wailing on each other and you know that was toughening them up in quotes air quotes and then they would go into the gym and or go into the ring and fight and they were carrying all the damage that they were accumulating in these sparring sessions and a lot of these guys now are kind of speaking up like Jamie Varner who's a former WEC champion and Top lightweight contender in the UFC just recently retired and he's talking about the amount of sparring
01:12:00.000Also, he was sparring with much larger guys.
01:12:02.000He was sparring with Ryan Bader, who fights at 205, and he's fighting at 55. And Ryan Bader's world class at 205, so he's fighting a guy 50 fucking pounds heavier than him.
01:13:01.000Andy Hoog or Mike Bernardo, they were very good, but they're probably not as good as Badr Hari, right?
01:13:07.000But the difference between, say, fighters from UFC 1 and fighters of today, I mean, you're talking about a massive evolution, like generations of evolution, like a thousand years of growth.
01:14:37.000Yeah, Remco got him in a headlock and took him to the ground and just blasted his brains out with elbows.
01:14:43.000I mean, he elbowed him like four or five times while he was unconscious.
01:14:47.000That was an important fight for people to realize that ninjutsu's bullshit.
01:14:54.000A lot of people really believed they were going to do karate chops on people.
01:15:04.000That's also one of the reasons why performance enhancing drugs are so prevalent in MMA is because there's so many different things you have to work on.
01:15:11.000Like, if you're a boxer, okay, what do you have to do?
01:15:13.000Well, if you do your road work, and then you're going to do your boxing work.
01:15:17.000You know, you do your sparring or your pad work.
01:15:37.000A different stance because you're worried about being taken down, so you have to work on your sprawl, you have to work on your takedown defense, underhooks, wizards, step away from the cage, how to get back up, then you have to work on your jujitsu, you have to work on sweeps, you have to work on actual submissions, and you have to figure out,
01:16:51.000Yeah, and that's one of the reasons why MMA has become so popular is because it's so difficult to go from that to like Floyd Mayweather versus Pacquiao, where it's like not much happens.
01:17:02.000There's like a lot of movement, which I loved.
01:17:05.000But the reality of the variables, like the different variables that exist in MMA, where a guy can take you down, a guy can kick your legs, a guy can do so many different things to you.
01:17:14.000You can't just stand in front of him and shoulder roll and box and then clinch.
01:18:28.000Because you can get, you know, they can be in shape, they can, you know, the strength and conditioning, the right diet, and then if their heads are not right, their body doesn't perform.
01:18:38.000Now, what about applying that to kids?
01:18:41.000What about applying that to kids in school?
01:18:45.000I mean, especially in high school or in college where you're about to go out into the world and so much of your success or failure is predicated on your attitude, your mindset, and how your brain is organized.
01:20:29.000What we did was we did hackalow first to kind of lead you into a hypnotic state.
01:20:36.000You see these things on these rapid inductions and I went on a course of rapid inductions where What is that?
01:20:45.000Rapid inductions, they call it snap inductions, what they do is, it's like you put, it's like a shock, so you shock the cysts, you shock them, and then you go sleep, or whatever, and it puts them under very quickly.
01:20:58.000You see it, you can see it on YouTube and all sorts, so I don't, I can do them.
01:21:03.000They're very showy techniques as well, but I don't really dig them.
01:21:50.000I've done it when I've been in therapy with the client already because I'm talking hypnotic language and do various things and stuff and just maneuver them into that state.
01:23:15.000Dozens and dozens of times and he would hypnotize giant and he knew when people were under and when they were bullshitting He would get guys who would look at them and you go.
01:23:23.000This is not working You're faking it come on and he would take them off the stage He knew when people were under he knew when they weren't but he could get a whole group of people and Maybe, like, bring ten people on stage and by the time he's done hypnotizing them, six or seven of them would be totally under.
01:23:38.000And he'd have them doing all kinds of ridiculous things, like they thought they were having sex, they'd cum in their pants.
01:24:39.000So you half go along with it anyway, you know, and it helps if the client's got an issue, they want to change, then they're more likely to change if they want to change with you, you know?
01:24:56.000They don't mind looking daft, so that's cool.
01:24:58.000But what I did with you is we did the magnet as well, which was just...
01:25:06.000I just stood away because we did the peripheral vision and we just imagined that there was a magnet that could take negative energy from your body.
01:25:13.000And what that does is you use your own imagination to take the negative energy out.
01:25:21.000Because obviously there's no magnet and your mind thinking that negative energy is being pulled out of your body, is that just an adjustment of your attitude or an adjustment of your perceptions?
01:25:38.000Is that related at all to what Frank Santos used to do by getting an entire group of people to think that they were doing wacky shit in front of an audience?
01:25:46.000Because it's the installation of what?
01:25:49.000It's the installation that's different.
01:25:52.000You know, there was no magnet, as you said.
01:28:33.000Comedian guy, and he's very posh, very, very, very intelligent guy, member of Mensa, but super smart.
01:28:40.000And they, he got this certain guy, they did a lot of elimination techniques, you know, to see he was more susceptible, and they used a certain guy to go and shoot Stephen Fry, you know, not with a real gun, obviously, but just whether, I don't know.
01:29:28.000I mean, if you find a guy who's not, maybe never killed anybody, but maybe he's done a few fucked up things, and you can talk that guy into doing something like that through hypnosis.
01:30:03.000It was captured on CCTV. Oh, so he was a thief.
01:30:06.000Yes, and there was one where Derren Brown paid with paper.
01:30:09.000So what he did is he gets paper, which is the same as dollar bills, just blank paper.
01:30:15.000And there's a confusion technique, so he said, don't quote me on the script, but he said, I've just moved into the town, or I've just got off the train, and I don't know whether to go that way or that way, because my friend said, yeah, I have to get the terrain, but I don't know whether to go that way or that way, or that way.
01:32:12.000And then they had like a little meeting.
01:32:13.000They explained when you're working the cash register, you have to be careful of people that start asking you for weird things.
01:32:20.000Asking you to, you know, because they start twisting your brain and confusing you and your memory gets all fucked up and you're trying to memorize what they're asking for.
01:32:28.000And before you know it, you've given someone $30 for $20.
01:33:21.000Yeah, that's a weird hustle, that hustle of trying to confuse people.
01:33:26.000But there must be patterns that they try to tap into in the way people recognize money or the way people count things that they try to disrupt and cause confusion.
01:33:38.000Numbers, words, especially words, you can confuse people and send them off guard.
01:33:45.000We did a thing when we did the masters with neuro-linguistic programming, we did a thing called quantum linguistics, which is really interesting, it's really cool, makes you laugh, it just doesn't make no sense.
01:33:55.000One of the best language patterns I was saying, I always, when I was younger, I was always self-sabotaging, I said, I always self-sabotage, and a guy called Chris Bannocks, who I did my masters with, And I said, imagine there's a wasp's nest and I've got a stick.
01:34:12.000Don't go near it because you'll get stung.
01:34:14.000But because I was young, I always thought, fuck it anyway, I'll get stung and just see what happens.
01:35:01.000But it's like, in that situation where it's not like dropped on you, you know, you don't knock on top on the shoulder and say, hey, we'll never pretend to do it.
01:35:08.000In the cliche therapy thing, and the paratherapy situation, when it's glided in with language, it works so smoothly.
01:36:05.000He was like, they're going to do some ceremony and his wife will no longer be influenced by outside pressure or, you know, outside thoughts or anybody's criticisms or negativity.
01:36:18.000She no longer, they would no longer affect her.
01:37:02.000I went to it a couple of times, years and years ago, and it creeped me out a bit.
01:37:08.000But I'm not so I don't know if it whatever floats your boat if it's not causing you any but I haven't seen that going clear so I will do so I don't know about anything I say I agree with that as well if it's not hurting you and what do I give a fuck I agree with that as well until you start watching these documentaries you go well clearly it's hurting some people it's definitely hurting people it's breaking up families it's it's really fucked up the way they attack some people that That dissent or that leave or...
01:37:35.000I mean, if the people that are on the show, the documentary that are telling...
01:37:40.000If they're telling the truth, and that's debatable, you know, only they know and the people that they're talking about know.
01:37:45.000There's some mind control going on there.
01:37:47.000There's some absolute definite mind control going on there.
01:37:51.000And I wonder, is that related in any way to hypnosis?
01:37:55.000The ability that these people have to manipulate these folks into...
01:38:08.000So it's always going to be a lot easier, you know?
01:38:12.000So it's always going to be susceptible people.
01:38:16.000There is always going to be susceptible people.
01:38:18.000But is cult, like when you see a Jim Jones speech, or when someone is giving some sort of a cultish speech, is that similar in some ways to hypnosis?
01:41:09.000Really clear about it saying these are just techniques.
01:41:12.000I am not really Seeing anything that other people can't see.
01:41:16.000I don't have any special ability But the people that do claim that like I don't know how it is in England But in California in particular you'll drive down the street and you'll see four or five of these fucking psychic readings Chiropractors and that.
01:41:30.000There's loads of chiropractors as well.
01:42:11.000Well, there's this one guy that used to work with a lot of fighters and he was what they call a zone healer.
01:42:15.000And his idea was that he was like sort of tricking your body into healing because he was sort of using the placebo effect telling you that he was healing you by popping your neck or moving your body in a certain way.
01:42:27.000But he really wasn't doing anything other than shit a normal chiropractor does.
01:43:54.000Or are you selling them a fucking shitbox that's been taped together and it's going to fall apart the moment they get it out of the driveway?
01:45:18.000I was getting bored, and I wasn't giving them the attention I should do.
01:45:22.000So I decided to stop that, and then I had a regular job anyway.
01:45:26.000And then I just started to get mind coaching and word of mouth, like you got to know me through word of mouth and then it's just spread from there and it continues to do so.
01:46:15.000I mean, that's really what life is all about, finding something that you really enjoy, that you get that buzz off of, and pursuing that, and if you can make a living with that.
01:46:32.000I mean, the ability or the opportunity, rather, to have a conversation like this with a guy like you, sit down for hours, totally uninterrupted.
01:47:36.000I've seen, like I said, a rapid induction course, and the guy was just like, he was doing this hypnosis gun, and he was going to sleep, and this other guy was going...
01:47:44.000Right, but isn't that similar like that fucking, those bullshit kung fu guys?
01:48:46.000I've seen some videos of fake kung fu, and it's fucking amazing.
01:48:50.000Like, there's this one dude, and he was teaching this class, and he had this girl, and he was moving her back and forth and back and forth, like a comedy.
01:49:01.000Like, it was a comedy, but it was real.
01:49:04.000And he'd make her dance and shock her, and then she would fall to the ground, and she was...
01:49:10.000Have you seen the recent one there that guy gets his student, he's like a big bellied guy with his gi on, and then she does this, and he goes, give him an Oscar, that was a right performance.
01:49:22.000He just like flops on the deck and his arm flew in the air, that was proper funny.
01:49:26.000I mean, because I'm here at the moment in America with Jordan Watson, who's like a superstar in Muay Thai, and we were watching it, we were pissing ourselves off, and it was funny.
01:49:34.000Well, there's a lot of that out there, man.
01:49:36.000There's a lot of that fake kung fu stuff out there.
01:49:38.000Less and less now than there was in 1993 when the UFC came along.
01:49:43.000That's one of the things that the UFC has done that's amazing is eradicate a lot of the bullshit martial arts.
01:49:48.000There's a lot of fake practitioners out there.
01:49:52.000And, you know, Eddie Bravo has this hilarious story of this fake...
01:49:55.000Kung Fu teacher that he was taking lessons under.
01:51:40.000Yeah, they believe what he says, so they're just like, oh yeah, he can do this.
01:51:43.000But how is that different than a guy who thinks, like, I watched a guy who thought he was having sex with Madonna and he came in his pants, because Frank Santos put that in his head and he did that.
01:51:51.000I watched it, and the guy was like, he didn't know.
01:52:58.000I'm really fascinated by the full spectrum, for lack of a better term, of possibilities of suggestion that you can go from, you know, fake psychics and fake healers and like...
01:53:17.000My friend Brian and I were at the Comedy Store last night.
01:53:19.000Were you there when you saw the woman was trying to do the Reiki healing on us?
01:53:23.000It was hilarious because I knew I was going to talk to you today and I knew she was full of shit.
01:54:58.000Oh, take this and you'll definitely change.
01:55:00.000But what about fucking the real placebo effect?
01:55:03.000That's where it gets really weird because there are some placebos that they have introduced to people and they've told them it's a placebo.
01:55:11.000But the act of doing something, the act of taking something actually has a more beneficial effect than not doing anything.
01:55:21.000Again, the power of the mind, like the placebo effect is a real effect.
01:55:24.000You give someone something, you tell them this is medicine.
01:55:28.000This is going to fix whatever ails you.
01:55:30.000And it actually does work on a certain percentage, a statistically significant percentage of the people that actually works.
01:55:51.000You know, when he believes he can fly with the lucky feather, it comes out and all that, you know, the rest.
01:55:57.000Yeah, so I think it's all down to you, isn't it?
01:55:59.000It's all down to what you put into your intention and what you want to believe for yourself, you know?
01:56:03.000Isn't it weird that we have these minds that have such amazing potential, but there's no fucking real good guidebook that anybody's handed, and you're sort of supposed to figure it out on your own, or based on, if you're lucky, you have parents that have their shit together,
01:56:21.000Outline of how you should live your life or live by example.
01:56:24.000But we're not talking about like goldfish or swans or anything fucking simple.
01:56:30.000We're talking about human beings with complex languages and mathematics and culture and society and laws and money and all the weirdness that comes with being a person.
01:57:14.000I mean, that's one of the things that I appreciate most about being able to do this podcast is that I'm constantly and consistently inspired and curious.
01:57:52.000Yeah, I know, but, you know, I'm just like, you know, but nobody's coming in here and then Joe says so nice things, Ian McCall says nice things, and I get to do seminars and get to meet people, and I love it.
01:58:04.000But that's what life is all about really is finding something like that that you really enjoy doing and then pursuing it and then if you can God if you can make a living doing that what a what a great way to be, you know, yeah, I like people are like No, I like people like I don't take everyone on as a client because some people just think no,
01:58:59.000There's one guy saying, there was one guy recently, he's like, yeah, everyone in my team thinks I'm rubbish, I can't fight, and I can't talk to you now, my wife's in bed, and just like, yeah, all right.
01:59:10.000You know, just loads of things in this way.