In this episode, we talk about how to deal with people telling you what to do in a relationship and how to get out of a situation where one person is telling you how to do something and the other person is just telling you not to do it. We also talk about when someone tells you what they want you to do and what you should do, and how you should react to it. We hope you enjoy this episode and that it makes you think about how much control you have over your relationships and how important it is to have someone in your life who gives you the authority to do what you need to do to be the best person you can be. We hope that you enjoy it and that you can relate to what we talked about in this episode. We love y'all and we'll see you in the next one! Timestamps: 1:00:00 - What do you tell your significant other about you? 4:30 - How do you deal with your ex? 6:20 - How much control do you have in your relationship? 7:00- How does your ex tell you what you can do? 8:15 - How should you handle a situation like that? 9:00 11:40 - How can you handle someone else's opinion of you in your relationships? 12:30- How do I deal with a partner? 13:20 14:30 15: What do I do with a woman who tells me what I should do with my love life? 16: How should I treat a woman? 17:10 - How old people? 18: How old do I treat my exes? 19:10 21:40 22:00 | How old is my ex's perspective on me? 25:30 | How I can I handle a woman I like it? 26:40 | Should I be a better person? 27:10 | How much money should I pay my ex?' 28: How much do I get? 29:00 + 30:00 Do you have a better perspective on a relationship with someone else? 35:00 Is there a difference between a woman that s older than I'm a better guy? ? 32: How can I be more than I know a girl that s a better woman than I like a girl? 31:10 + 32:00 // 33:00
00:00:41.000So if you're in that situation right now where you're in a relationship and the person you're with tells you what to do, and you go, fuck, man, I'm that bitch.
00:01:44.000So that was like a real moment of, for me, you know, there's moments when you have in relationships where you go, fuck, I can't be this guy.
00:01:52.000I can't just let someone tell me what to do and someone trying to change me.
00:01:57.000Like, she was a very smart girl and she was older than me.
00:02:01.000Like, she was 25 and I was 21. And I remember, you know, she was just smarter than me.
00:02:07.000Certainly at the time, more worldly than me.
00:02:10.000And, uh, I just fucking listened to her.
00:03:49.000It was a weird relationship in that respect.
00:03:51.000And when you see those relationships, the problem is, I don't want to generalize, but oftentimes in relationships, the dynamic that the relationship begins with is the dynamic the relationship sticks with.
00:04:04.000And if you get stuck in a relationship where one person is telling you what to do, it very rarely goes back the other way.
00:04:11.000And then you tell them what to do and then they listen.
00:04:23.000I don't know why, but with her, like, early on, she assumed the role of the one who was, like, dictating what was okay and not okay, what kind of music I should like, how I should dress.
00:06:01.000When you're posturing and you're pretending to be someone other than you are, you're giving yourself some sort of weird comfort or trying to, but it's like sucking your thumb.
00:08:08.000They're so goddamn distracting that I think it's maybe this is just the theory not even biologically why women mature In general, faster than men.
00:08:18.000It might just be the lack of the struggle with that male ego.
00:09:04.000Do you think the daddy thing, there's something there when girls are like, fuck me harder, daddy, when it's the whole daddy thing, do you think there's something to it?
00:10:00.000Do you do that while you're fucking her?
00:10:01.000Yeah, just to see- Are you late for school?
00:10:04.000I mean like I'm going to try to go down that path if she brings it up I'll see if she plays along if she plays along it's like fun It's like trying to learn more about this person that I'm fucking You know it's even more disturbing saying are you late for school because that means morning sex like the dad doesn't even have the excuse of being drunk The guy just waves out past his coffee and fucks his daughter.
00:22:41.000Well, there are things that, okay, one thing I can say is I was ROCK HARD, he says in all caps, for like three days on this stuff, which is almost kind of annoying.
00:22:51.000Imagine having a hard-on when you have to do day-to-day tasks, tucking your boner into your pants and hoping it doesn't just pop out unexpectedly.
00:26:35.000When they didn't have any data, no internet, no encyclopedias, no fucking medical books to call upon, those fucking people, there's a lot of guessing going on.
00:28:40.000Is it possible in this day and age, 21st century, there's still men out there that honestly believe that powdered horn of an animal that has been butchered sometimes, blah, blah.
00:28:50.000It's had its horns removed by a chainsaw could still be effective cure for erectile dysfunction.
00:28:58.000Shouldn't the medical companies that are marketing meds, which are supposed to be temporary cures for this problem, be targeting the men, mainly Oriental, Asian, racist, I am sure, who are directly responsible for the death of so many rhino?
00:29:43.000There's not that many people chopping off rhino horns.
00:29:45.000If you compare them to the idiots that we have here in America, just by capita, you know, the number of people that are scarfing up rhino horn in Asia versus the number of people here that are chewing on bath salts.
00:30:00.000There's probably way more bath salt people here than rhino horn people there.
00:30:04.000Like, that's a totally racist thing to say, sir, for someone who's so concerned with the health and welfare of these rhino-si.
00:30:58.000They don't know what the fuck's in there, probably.
00:31:01.000You know, when we had some of the earlier versions of AlphaBrain, we would run these random tests on them, and we'd find out that there would be B12 in it or something like that, or creatine.
00:32:03.000I just want to know the guys that sell these that come into the gas stations, like what those guys, like the salesmen, the boner pills, like number 11. Definitely sunglasses on all the time.
00:32:27.000I'm just looking down the whole article right now, but it says, contrary to the popular myth in the West, rhino horn was never traditionally viewed as an aphrodisiac.
00:37:53.000Yeah, so it was like a brick that looked like maybe like a pack of gum or something like that and you pull it apart and then you bite into the brick and pull off chunks of tobacco and chew on it and I almost threw up once.
00:38:05.000Maybe I did throw up, but I was like, alright, this is stupid.
00:38:08.000But I got into it because of Tom Sawyer and Huckleberry Finn.
00:38:11.000Yeah, I never got into smoking cigars because I wanted to inhale it so much.
00:38:16.000Yeah, but you get high as fuck off these things.
00:38:19.000Tobacco has some sort of psychoactive properties to it, for sure.
00:38:23.000And I think that they use it in a lot of ayahuasca rituals, where they light tobacco smoke and they blow it in your face while you're tripping.
00:38:33.000And both Aubrey and Amber Lyon, when they did it, were talking about that.
00:38:40.000I've smoked cigars before and got some really good ideas, where I was like, ooh, my brain is flying.
00:38:46.000You'd probably really like cigarettes.
00:38:58.000I found that thing a couple weeks ago that I didn't want to bring up because I wasn't sure if it was real, but it said that cigarettes are like proven.
00:39:04.000There was some study that was proven to give some sort of benefit for creativity.
00:43:30.000Fascinating guy because that guy lived in the dark ages of information as far as the modern world and the world of photography and the ability to document things.
00:43:40.000So to get a guy like this on a YouTube video...
00:43:55.000Well, they used to say it would when I first took to it, but I took to it some 70 years ago, so it doesn't seem to have had a very great effect so far.
00:44:07.000In fact, you know, on one occasion, it saved my life.
00:45:00.000This seems like one of those stories that everyone was like, oh, is that true?
00:45:04.000But there was no internet back then, so we all just believed this guy.
00:45:07.000Like, there probably was not even a plane accident, you know?
00:45:09.000And he probably made this shit up just because he's old and he's got a British accent or whatever.
00:45:13.000Like, if liars got together and, you know, they had, like, liar conventions, like, the years that the internet came out, they'd be like, boys, we got some problems.
00:46:21.000Also, you have to think of, when you're watching a guy like Bertrand Russell, when was that filmed, did it say?
00:46:31.000If he was talking about how it saved his life, that had to be before they made that shitty-ass, old, grainy movie, which was in black and white.
00:46:38.000So it was probably a long fucking time ago when planes were made out of fucking gum wrappers.
00:47:03.000Pipe is definitely a different animal.
00:47:05.000My grandfather used to smoke, and he used to have those big, back in the day, they used to have those big lighters that would sit on your desk, and it was just like, huge ones.
00:47:13.000It had like a cloth wrap around the bottom of it.
00:48:02.000I think how that whole thing started is because you used to say he's your brother from another mother and some idiot was like, oh, they're brothers.
00:53:36.000You can see the Ackley, or however you say his last name, Hall of African Mammals in the American Museum of Natural History in Manhattan's Upper West Side.
00:54:11.000And they were talking about how the buffalo were decimated and how they were shipping these truckloads or trains, you know, train carriages filled with buffalo meat back to the East Coast.
00:55:33.000His take on what happened with the buffalo is essentially, I might butcher this, but that when the first Europeans came to North America, they didn't find evidence of buffalo.
00:55:50.000They talked about all these different animals that we know exist here, but they didn't really talk about buffalo.
00:55:55.000He believes with the sheer numbers of buffalo that existed 100 years later, it seems highly improbable that they wouldn't talk about them.
00:56:05.000And his take is that what happened was when Europeans started showing up in America, they brought with them a lot of diseases.
00:56:13.000And those diseases that they gave these people, first of all, there's a common myth, apparently, that they gave them syphilis in the form of scabs in blankets.
00:56:25.000They put scabs in blankets and gave them to the Native Americans.
00:56:32.000Not only that, they didn't know about bacteria then.
00:56:36.000They didn't know that that's how it was spread.
00:56:39.000They didn't know that you would give someone a scab and that the actual tissue from the scab would cause the disease.
00:56:45.000The knowledge of how diseases were spread was not that sophisticated back then.
00:56:49.000As far as what I read, But what he's saying is that when the Europeans came here and they introduced these new diseases that they had, that the natives didn't have any immune systems for, it fucking devastated the population.
00:57:02.000And he said that that is responsible for as many deaths as anything else to the Native Americans that lived here.
00:57:08.000Fucking completely wiped out by European diseases.
00:57:12.000When that happened, the Native Americans were responsible for keeping the buffalo populations in check and had been doing so pretty efficiently ever since that the horse was brought to North America.
00:57:24.000Because before the Europeans came here, Native Americans didn't have horses.
00:57:30.000So, the horses that, you know, we depict the Wild West, the Native Americans riding around the horse, how they've always been, no.
00:57:37.000No, they were always like, you know, like really nomadic people that live in Brazil or something like that, in the rainforest or Ecuador or something like that.
00:57:47.000So they got the horses from the North Americans, but they also got the diseases.
00:57:51.000And while they had the horses, they were on the way to, in his words, extirpating the buffalo from their domain, which means local extinction.
00:58:01.000So they were already doing such an efficient job of killing the buffalo from horses.
00:58:05.000Because they'd run up on horses and just fucking arrow the shit out of these buffalo.
00:59:54.000There was a missionary or someone that was there at the time of Columbus that detailed the horrors of what they did to the Native American people that they found to try to get these people to give them gold.
01:03:28.000What do you think about Gene Simmons and that whole controversy about him calling out N.W.A., saying they shouldn't be allowed in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame because it's not rock and roll?
01:03:40.000Well, Kiss wasn't in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame forever.
01:03:43.000So if I was him, I'd be like, fuck the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame.
01:03:45.000The Rock and Roll of Fame is more of like a pop music, popular music Hall of Fame.
01:07:07.000The bear got on top of him and swatted his back and broke it.
01:07:12.000He said he broke his back with one swipe.
01:07:17.000He also talked about this cabin that they had in the woods where this bear broke into the cabin, pulled the wall apart, pulled the door frame and the door off the wall with these nine-inch spike nails all around it.
01:07:28.000Then there was a stove inside that smelled like food.
01:07:31.000He crushed the stove to the ground like you would stomp on a soda can just to ooze out whatever fat and grease was inside the stove.
01:09:02.000And they let all these things loose all throughout New Zealand, but they don't have any mountain lions, they don't have any bobcats, they don't have wolves, they don't have coyotes, they don't have anything that kills these things.
01:09:11.000So they have to send people out there to kill them.
01:09:14.000Like, people are just killing them constantly.
01:09:15.000And when some of the populations of some of the animals get too high, they have to fly over them and fucking gun them down from the sky.
01:09:22.000They're having this problem right now with Cat Island, which is that island of cats off of Japan.
01:09:35.000Yeah, it probably smells like ammonia piss.
01:09:37.000You know, did you see what's going on with Fukushima?
01:09:41.000Fukushima has a problem with radioactive wild boars.
01:09:46.000There's like hundreds of radioactive wild boars that have taken over that area because you know the people aren't really there anymore and They're running rampant and they have a problem with them.
01:09:57.000They have radioactive wild pigs Look at this fucking thing Thousands of oh I said hundreds thousands of radioactive boars are overrunning farmland in Fukushima But look at the photos of them.
01:10:09.000They have some photos of these fucking boars and Um, maybe a different article.
01:10:21.000It's probably all the photos are probably stock.
01:10:23.000But there was one video of this guy who had, like, a radioactive suit on, like he was some sort of a scientist, and these boars were chasing him.
01:13:56.000Well, not really, because, see, like, God says be fruitful and multiply, but he doesn't say anything about taking fertility drugs in order to make that happen.
01:14:06.000You know, and if it's God's plan, is it all God's plan when a scientist steps in?
01:14:10.000Is it God's plan because the scientist is here?
01:15:06.000Brian just, a light bulb went off above his head, literally.
01:15:10.000They don't eat and their apartments are squeaky clean.
01:15:12.000All they do is clean their apartments.
01:15:14.000I was just thinking how realistic would it be, you know, like Jesus on the cross, if it was realistic, if it was just shit and piss everywhere on the bottom of the cross.
01:15:22.000Yeah, there'd probably definitely be some, I would imagine, if they fed him before they strung him up there.
01:15:28.000It's interesting, too, because they always show the crucifixion marks through the hands, but apparently that's not capable of supporting your body.
01:16:08.000He's got an awesome podcast, History on Fire.
01:16:10.000In the opening podcast, he has a pilot, like episode 00, and then he has episode 1. And in episode 1, he tells a story that he told on this podcast about this...
01:16:22.000I believe it was the Romans had hung up...
01:16:28.000Some insane, like a hundred miles of bodies?
01:16:37.000The whole marching, the whole pathway, the whole road to wherever it was, a hundred miles or whatever the fuck it was, was just like every...
01:16:44.000X amount of meters, they had a body that was crucified.
01:17:38.000But anyway, the article is about a guy.
01:17:40.000She retweeted something from, I think it was from The Guardian, where a guy wrote what it feels like to be on the drone kill list, and that he made his way into Europe specifically because he was worried that they were going to kill him with a drone, and that he used to hide and sleep under trees so that his family,
01:22:50.000He said that the keyboard itself was so good that it actually upped his words per minute faster than his average was, which I was like, what?
01:23:59.000You used to be able to carry an extra battery.
01:24:01.000Throw it in your laptop bag, and your laptop was running out of battery, close it, pop that bitch out, pop the new one, and you're back in action!
01:25:05.000It took me a long time to get used to the iPhone.
01:25:07.000But the iPhone's benefits of touching the screen, you know, having the full screen real estate for videos and photographs and email, it's so worth it.
01:25:16.000Because I know that BlackBerry came out with a new one with a giant-ass screen and then the thing slides out the bottom and then you have a keyboard.
01:27:23.000I mean, you could have a nice little, even if you just put in your warm-up or your workout playlist and just have those rock songs with a couple of hip-hop songs.
01:27:29.000That would be good to play for 30 minutes while someone's warming up instead of...
01:27:34.000Anything random, Love Shack or B-50 Tuesday.
01:29:51.000What that one was that I just said was one that just showed up at the front of Shazam and I mistakenly thought it was the last one that I Shazammed.
01:33:51.000But looking past that, and just trying to examine him as a human being, what a complex and weird human being he is, he's pretty fascinating.
01:34:02.000And I don't think he's victimizing anybody else, at least as far as I know, so I don't...
01:37:38.000So, like, at a certain point in time, I mean, it's not, they're not genetically related, which is always the big concern, right?
01:37:44.000The big concern was that your genes would be, if you had sex with someone who was your actual daughter, your genes would be all fucked up, and you'd, uh, look, she's kissing him on the cheek.
01:38:47.000No, I was going to say, wasn't it jokingly hinted at for a long time before they actually came out and said like, I don't know, but Ted Nugent did that.
01:38:54.000Ted Nugent adopted a girl, so like, but Google that.
01:38:58.000There was like some crazy controversy.
01:39:02.000That might not be a bad deal, checking out some of these orphanage websites and just finding the 17-year-old ones.
01:40:25.000And if it started when she was 12 or something like that, then he could have like totally fucking brainwashed her to the point where now she just thinks she has to be with him or something.
01:40:33.000And there was Mia Frau's other daughter was saying that he did something to her too, but Woody Allen was saying that, what it'll be, Us Magazine all the time?
01:42:02.000He just kept hitting three-pointers or something?
01:42:03.000He had a really good streak of like ten games where he played extremely well and they needed some hype to avoid and he was playing into the hype and it worked out.
01:42:39.000Crazy spiky hair, but like I said, he's playing in Charlotte, which is a smaller market, so there's less people talking about it.
01:42:44.000When he was playing in L.A., which he did a couple years ago, after the whole thing happened, which was part of getting the Asian market into playing in the NBA and liking the Lakers, there's a lot of Asian people in L.A. that they could get money off of.
01:42:55.000So he was in New York, he went to L.A., he played in Houston for a little while, but now he's stuck in Charlotte, which is why you don't hear about him.
01:45:11.000Like, if they could figure out a way to make that, like, put some sort of a inside fan that makes that thing hover and move around, that looks like a UFO. They sell one, that's like that one that they sell kind of like at Best Buy or Amazon,
01:45:27.000It's the same idea where it just records like a 360 thing, but you can't really do anything with a video other than the VR. Yeah, there's a lot of trouble right now going into it.
01:45:37.000When we brought this up the other day, a lot of people were asking us, hey, you guys should do it.
01:45:40.000It'd be totally awesome, which it would be cool for us, but there's a lot of hurdles to get to.
01:45:45.000We said, remember when people were going, how come everything isn't on 3D TV? What about 3D TV? Why aren't you doing your show on 3D TV? Now, try to find a 3D TV. Nobody has one.
01:45:53.000He hasn't killed the 3D broadcasting, which they probably only did twice.
01:46:11.000I mean, it was based on, like, we thought, oh my god, any day now we're going to be in virtual reality.
01:46:16.000And it never took place because the computing power and the graphics and everything just wasn't ready.
01:46:20.000But now that it is ready, like that NVIDIA demonstration that they did with all the crazy shit that you can do with virtual reality and those Oculus Rift goggles, what is that, dude?