In this episode of Sunday Uncensored, we discuss the controversial topic of transgender students in public school, and whether or not they should be allowed to attend public school. We also discuss the growing number of conservative parents who are raising their kids the same way as their liberal friends.
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00:01:09.000During the main show, Katie, you mentioned that your liberal friends have no kids and your conservative friends have 12.
00:01:15.000I know, I know, I'm taking the extreme ends.
00:01:17.000But no, I really do have friends with 12 kids.
00:01:19.000Yeah, we've talked about this quite a bit.
00:01:22.000In the 2000s, there was a study that said liberals were having, I think, 1.5 kids and conservatives are having 2.03 kids.
00:01:31.000Now, we see the Pew research from a few years ago showing that while Gen Z is almost identical to Millennials politically, in some areas they actually tick slightly more conservative.
00:01:42.000And I think that's probably because... You're now seeing the first wave of conservatives that are very serious about training of their kids.
00:01:49.000If you have, if liberals have a hundred kids and conservatives have a hundred and fifty kids, And then indoctrination stuff is influential.
00:01:58.000You'll end up with 110 liberal adults and 140 conservative adults.
00:02:05.000Like, there will be some pull in the other direction, we can expect, if we expect that.
00:02:09.000But conservatives will have an edge just because they're making more people.
00:02:13.000Yeah, well, and I will say that something has happened among conservative parents, even in the last 10 years, which is where like, they were like, well, it's okay, like, I'm going to be able to now.
00:02:24.000And now conservative parents are like, it's war.
00:02:28.000So like we there really has been, you know, a red pill.
00:02:31.000I mean, even among kind of non-political adult.
00:02:35.000The culture has gone that crazy that it has radicalized a lot of ordinary parents to say, I'm going to get very, very serious about either homeschooling, pulling them out, or just, you know, moving, leaving the state.
00:02:46.000I mean, like, there has been an exodus from, I say, like, not through the Red Sea, but to the Red States.
00:03:04.000I don't want to move on from the subject, but put a pin in that.
00:03:07.000There was a story a guy wrote that his daughter was trans, that the school kept telling her she was a boy, changed her pronouns, cut her hair, she was depressed, she attempted suicide, and so he moved her out of the state to a rural area, and within a few months she was totally better.
00:03:24.000One of the stories, a similar one, was a guy saying that when his school came to him and said that his daughter was trans, he immediately agreed completely and was like, really?
00:03:34.000He's like, okay, let me know what I need to do.
00:03:36.000We're gonna make sure we affirm her and keep her safe.
00:03:39.000And then, a couple weeks later, he went to the school and said, job's transferring me.
00:04:03.000But if you want to... Oh, yeah, I was just gonna ask, because you mentioned before that you encourage people to have people who are slightly ahead of them in parenting.
00:04:18.000We actually chose our house because it was a couple of houses down from a mom that I admired and she had kids that were a little older than my kids.
00:04:23.000And I thought, I just want to watch her.
00:04:24.000I mean, that was one of the reasons why we chose our house.
00:04:27.000So go to church, find the people, right?
00:04:31.000Like my husband and I both came from divorced homes and we didn't know what it looked like to work through problems and have healthy disagreements and be faithful to one another.
00:05:19.000Don't listen to relationship advice from people that have not built, maintained thriving marriages and have kids that you admire.
00:05:26.000It's crazy to me that people have been able to make a career, single guys and women.
00:05:30.000Esther Peral, the divorced therapist, she's one of the top podcasts that people go to.
00:05:36.000And you want to be like, not that your heart is not in the right place, but if you don't have the outcome that I'm looking for, why would I take your instruction manual?
00:05:42.000To be fair, I often look to the people who lost their sporting events for the best advice, you know, instead of going to the people who are currently winning.
00:05:49.000You know, losing love, it does wake you up to what not to do.
00:05:55.000You know, I think it's actually really simple.
00:05:57.000I think that human pair bonding typically occurs in younger ages than we actually expect.
00:06:05.000And so this is like high school age into college is when you are high school sweetheart, you date, you're older, then you get married.
00:06:13.000And what happens is if you are 18 and you are in a relationship, That is a tiny portion of your life.
00:06:23.000And if you remain in that relationship and get married by the time you're in your 30s, half your life is built with and around this person.
00:06:35.000What's happening now is they're saying, fuck around, do whatever the fuck you want.
00:06:39.000And now you've got 30 year old women being like, I can't find a husband or someone to be with me and men as well.
00:06:44.000And it's like, well, yeah, your whole life is this track.
00:06:48.000His whole life is this track, and they are incongruous.
00:06:50.000So this is cornerstone versus capstone marriage, okay?
00:06:53.000So we used to have cornerstone marriages, where you would meet when you were 18, date for a while, get married when you're 20, 22, 24, and it was the cornerstone of your life.
00:07:02.000And then you would build around that cornerstone together.
00:07:05.000You'd form a foundation together, and you would build your home together.
00:07:31.000And if you are going to hit all the body counts, with the good dad that he was debating against, he was talking about sort of the chemicals.
00:07:40.000That's the kind of guy that you should follow.
00:07:42.000And what he was talking about is you can't mess around, especially with sex, without it chemically impacting you, right?
00:07:50.000You can't hug for more than 20 seconds without increasing oxytocin levels in your body.
00:07:54.000That is a chemical response that is conditioning you that is going to develop pathways for future behavior.
00:08:00.000So if you are doing that, especially with sex, which disproportionately it affects women more, right, that oxytocin Both men and women have the oxytocin release.
00:08:22.000But they have to kill a big part of themselves to do that.
00:08:24.000So you really are messing with your chemical wiring and your emotional wiring if you think that you're going to And they're like, well, test drive the car, right?
00:08:33.000That was their big analogy, test drive the car.
00:08:35.000No, like, the more you hook up and the more you shack up, the less likely that marriage, that relationship is to lead to marriage, the more likely it is to break up if it leads to marriage.
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00:10:32.000And then she's going to be sitting in this sterile room, staring at a dark blue wall, just thinking nothing, alone, fading out of existence.
00:10:40.000The thing about marriage and children is it is high investment in the short term.
00:11:00.000What if those kids become Hollywood movie stars?
00:11:02.000Well, what if your kids are just awesome teenagers like mine who are, you know, soccer stars and raising chickens and, you know, drawing- Raising chickens!
00:11:53.000It was like two miles of cars not moving.
00:11:54.000It's crazy because it's a rural back road.
00:11:56.000Anyway, though, as we were sitting there in traffic, not moving for 10 minutes, I looked to my right and there were just chickens along the side of the road.
00:12:03.000And it was because the person who lived there just opens the door and lets the chickens go do their thing.
00:12:30.000They had an episode on, and I listened to it a long time ago, talking about parenting and saying their different styles.
00:12:35.000But one of the things I found most interesting was someone who's on made the observation that And I think this applies to you because you are writing a parenting book that parenting books exist in the modern culture because we left a culture where you were around younger children.
00:12:50.000You were around, first because of birth control, right?
00:13:08.000And so you don't have the aunts around you, the grandmas, the cousins, all of that.
00:13:10.000And I mean, you listen to people who maybe had one or two siblings when they were growing up.
00:13:14.000I think most of us grew up in the era where there was like two parents, sorry, two kids.
00:13:19.000A lot of people don't hold babies and they're not around babies a lot anymore.
00:13:22.000And so then you have babies and you're like, I don't really know how I know multiple men who have told me the first diaper they ever changed was their own child's diaper.
00:13:30.000They had never interacted with an infant like that before.
00:13:33.000They'd never been caring for one like that.
00:13:34.000I don't even like holding other people's babies.
00:13:36.000Because you think you're going to drop them?
00:15:59.000I think at this point, conservative means fact-based and liberal means cult-based.
00:16:04.000That's just, because they're like, you know, far right, Tim Pugh.
00:16:07.000I'm like, the headlines, someone mentioned this earlier in the Super Chat, that media-biased fact check, it's a website, calls us like far right, almost extreme right.
00:16:16.000And if you look at our headlines to articles, it's like, you know, impeachment inquiry opened it to Joe Biden.
00:16:22.000And then you look at the Daily Mail and it's like, Hunter Biden smokes crack, buys gun, caught lying.
00:16:29.000I'll spice up my headlines, Tim, I promise.
00:16:34.000Actually, I would say a lot of the outlets have slowly stopped doing that because it's this weird thing that doesn't work anymore, accusing someone of being far right.
00:16:39.000But they will call TimCast IRL a conservative or a right-wing podcast.
00:16:45.000And I'm just like, that just proves they've never seen it.
00:18:26.000And so you'll often find the headline of the Daily Mail, not always, because sometimes it's like Kanye or something, Typically, what's the big trend on Google Trends?
00:18:43.000So if they say, there's no evidence of an impeachment, and we say, here's a big list of evidence that literally exists and has nothing to do... You can come on this show and be like, I love Joe Biden, and he did all of those things.
00:18:56.000Well, and there are stories that we talk about that are big and meaningful, like Owen Troyer, right?
00:19:01.000We were talking about him and what he's experiencing, the fact that he's getting charged with convicted of trespassing but going to jail because of his speech, and the mainstream media is not talking about that.
00:19:12.000That was a huge story for the day that all of the leftists and liberals were talking about.
00:19:16.000I feel like it was a big story, but just from my perspective in the writer's room, it's not something that CNN is talking about as much.
00:19:23.000NBC was covering it a little bit more.
00:19:24.000We're talking about things that are meaningful and powerful.
00:19:26.000Oh, right, but the liberal journosphere was obsessed with the story.
00:19:30.000Right, but the journosphere doesn't always reach mainstream Americans.
00:19:33.000But my point is that if liberal journalists like Ryan Reilly are going on Twitter and saying, Owen Schroer, Owen Schroer, and they won't shut up about it, and I say, let's talk about that, That is my point.
00:19:45.000We do not just cover stories that are something conservatives are talking about.
00:19:50.000This is big political news and cultural news and we talk about it.
00:19:54.000But the point I'm bringing up is, if you tell the truth, conservative.
00:20:00.000So I say, Joe Biggs did not commit a crime that warrants two decades in prison.
00:20:04.000I think he deserves some jail time for tearing down a fence and going in the building.
00:20:29.000That doesn't mean that he is a criminal.
00:20:31.000He's corrupt, but it doesn't mean that he's a criminal.
00:20:33.000But I do want to stress, not to get too far off the beaten, too far away from the subject is, Yeah, I think we're two generations away from this current iteration of liberalism ceasing to exist.
00:20:45.000And people keep saying, that's not true, Tim, they're indoctrinated kids.
00:21:21.000You know, we talk a lot about how you can teach what you know, but you replicate what you are.
00:21:25.000And so if you want your kids to be knowledgeable, to be able to stand firm, to be able to push back, to be able to sort fact from fiction, you'd better be able to do that, right?
00:21:34.000You need to be an expert enough on the topics that need to be conserved.
00:21:38.000Like we didn't call it raising anti-woke kids or anti-left kids.
00:21:41.000We said raising conservative kids because there are specific things that are under attack right now that need to be conserved.
00:22:59.000So my question was, so what are your thoughts on what the state of the nation is going to be between November 2024 and January 20th, 2025?
00:23:10.000And as a result of like what happened last time, Do you think we need to kind of, like, revamp that period of time where- or give it more time so that people can do their legal processes or maybe even shorten it so that they can't?
00:23:45.000Where there is not chaos following the results of the 2024 election.
00:23:48.000If Biden wins, if Trump wins, I think Biden drops out.
00:23:53.000I am of the strong position right now, I believe that Biden will drop out.
00:23:57.000And I do have a piece of me being like, man, I don't know for sure, but I just cannot, two things I can't see.
00:24:04.000I can't see Biden actually running, because if he does, it's a sure shot to losing, period, end of story.
00:24:10.000If he does remain in, this overlaps the other scenario in that they pull Trump's name off the ballot, there's some fuckery, and then... But let's just say, right now, the election's totally normal.
00:26:22.000I can't see anything playing out without someone throwing a brick through a window and just having the domino effect of everything burning down to the ground after that.
00:26:35.000Here's what I would do, and I don't want to give anyone advice because you've got to be responsible for your own safety because your circumstances are unique, but if it were me, I would not be in a city, and I just have some emergency supplies.
00:26:49.000Because worst case scenario is that there's chaos outside your house, and if you know your neighbors, you guys will be ready for it, and it won't happen.
00:26:55.000But I do think it's fair to say it's not going to be immediately after the election is called, like the early morning hours.
00:27:02.000It could be two months later, like we saw with January 6th.
00:27:08.000I mean, look, look, in 2020, the Democrats envisioned a scenario where West Coast states would be pressured to secede from the Union if Trump wins.
00:27:40.000I wanted to ask you this yesterday, because you were talking about people, you know, plugging into the metaverse and then just being fed bugs.
00:27:46.000But what were your thoughts about the holodeck on Star Trek?
00:27:51.000And, you know, and its parallels too, so I'm plugging into it.
00:27:54.000Because even, like, Picard at times would, like, you know, escape into, like, one of his Sherlock Holmes, you know, things.
00:28:00.000And I mean, what are your thoughts on those parallels?
00:28:24.000But like, you walk into a room, you say, computer, Sherlock Holmes, and all of a sudden you are Sherlock Holmes.
00:28:29.000The thing about that is, let's be real.
00:28:33.000It's a publicly accessible room on a ship full of your peers and colleagues.
00:28:39.000People wouldn't do all that crazy of stuff with it.
00:28:42.000Now, in their homes back on Earth, It would be the most fucked up psychotic porn machine ever devised.
00:28:50.000Dude, that should be an episode of Star Trek where, like, Riker's like, yo, you see the shit that Picard was doing in the fuckin' holodeck at his house?
00:28:56.000No, no, it's gotta be like, that's a parody we could do, where it's like, no one's gonna go on, like, let's say you're on a military ship, and they have a video game console or computer with a big screen that anyone can look at, no one's gonna blast porn on it unless they're doing it as a gag where they're, like, trying to prank and be like, ah, look what we just pulled up.
00:29:15.000So you could do a bit where it's like, yeah, I'm gonna pick up Picard for the meeting we got and he shows up and he's like, Jean-Luc, are you in here?
00:29:23.000And then he walks in and then he's like, he must be playing holodeck and he opens it and there's just like lizard people banging Sasquatch.
00:29:31.000They prank him on his birthday, they put a virus in the deck and he's like, Holodeck.
00:29:35.000Computer, take me to the front lines of the Battle of- and then he's in a brothel and he's like, no I said slow down, computer, slow down!
00:29:41.000The virus would be him being like, play porn scenario 14.
00:29:46.000And then he sees a beautiful woman and he's like, perfect.
00:29:49.000And then all of a sudden the woman turns into Sasquatch and he's like, no, no!
00:31:43.000It's more for Tim on Trash House Records.
00:31:46.000So imagine a year and a half from now, you know, Trump's president, Vivek's vice president, and Cass Cafe is going, your stage is up and running, and you're running a show like The Voice.
00:32:02.000Brett's your host, like Ryan Seacrest, and Ian, Phil, and Carter are your judges.
00:32:58.000I think it's cool that like there are many branches of this company that span lots of cultural interests that you could be hearing something that's attached to this podcast, but it could just be a song that you like.
00:33:09.000It doesn't have to be because you like this candidate or because whatever.
00:33:40.000Yeah, it's just, they make karaoke contests.
00:33:43.000Yeah, where you, like, come out of obscurity.
00:33:45.000What was it, Pandesh, was that your question?
00:33:47.000That you would suggest we would do something of this sort?
00:33:50.000Well, I mean, because if anything, you guys would be able to push out actual, like, rock and alternative people actually playing music instead of all this friggin' auto-tune crap.
00:34:00.000I would end up being like Simon Cowell.
00:34:01.000I would really criticize... I would have to be honest.
00:34:04.000And if they're not... We just have three Simon Cowells back to back to back.
00:34:13.000It's taking existing pop culture music, having someone sing it, and profiting off of it.
00:34:17.000I wouldn't want to do something like that.
00:34:18.000Well, no, you'd have them do their actual music instead.
00:34:21.000But then it's just like... But then we might as well just sign bands that are good and just have them do shows.
00:34:28.000You'll have us as members be able to vote for people that we think would actually help you because you'll be signing them, but we'll be like, oh yeah, that person's music or that band's music.
00:34:39.000I think doing anything like The Voice would tarnish the credibility of the bands that were involved in it.
00:35:29.000The only reason we didn't is because we thought we were gonna be at Freedomistan by now, but we're just not because government takes forever.
00:37:16.000In my hometown in New York we have a little project going on.
00:37:20.000We're really really close to launching for cultural projects and we're trying to get our community more involved.
00:37:27.000I'm doing things on my own along with three other people.
00:37:30.000What are some resources that are available to kind of get ourselves out there fast hitting the ground and more involved into the community to bring more people together?
00:37:48.000You know, what I love about what you're doing, though, is and really there were some clues in what you were saying that, again, women just tend to connect.
00:39:27.000I think it's cool that you're- To get to his question, sorry.
00:39:30.000I was going to say, I think if you want to grow, I think to your point, the best thing to do would be to have, in my opinion, events with people in your area that celebrate whatever you're interested in or that have your values and then you just invite other people to them.
00:39:45.000I mean, this is a typical sorority recruitment tactic where you're saying, please bring someone to this event that we're having.
00:39:51.000Everyone has to bring someone, but it's a way to quickly show people kind of your values, have them at an event, and then also have them connect with other people.
00:39:59.000I think that's one of the reasons our Discord is so successful is that people want to keep the conversation going among their friends, and it gives them a place to say, these are people to talk to with your values.
00:40:31.000We're just going to be talking about cultural stuff like you guys do.
00:40:35.000Try to keep politics out of it a little bit in the beginning because we don't want to be pushed into a camp, but we're already collaborating with a bunch of local businesses because there's just a lot of people in my town, in my community.
00:40:50.000They have so much to talk about, but they feel like nobody's listening and it's just driving us to want to do this.
00:40:58.000I think it's cool that you're doing something.
00:41:04.000When I first started doing internet video, I would go to videos of people that I respected and wanted to emulate and look at all the comments.
00:41:10.000And then I'd open each of the commenters page and message them individually with my newest video with a message.
00:41:20.000And, and so I would do that like a thousand times a day or like, cause it's free.
00:41:25.000You can market yourself for free that way.
00:41:26.000And that'll get you from zero to like a thousand subscribers right off, you know, right away, meaning like 60 hours of work or 40 hours or whatever.
00:41:40.000But especially if you think it's for people in your town, like, if you have someone on who lives locally, have them send it to their five brothers or, you know, send it to a local newspaper or whatever you want to do.
00:41:51.000Like, there are ways to, especially if you're already in a physical community, to distribute there and grow from that.
00:41:59.000We definitely need to get on the next call.
00:42:02.000I'm looking forward to seeing the show, man.
00:42:04.000I wish I had a better answer for resources that you could use to help everything go faster, but I think the reality is you are digging through a tunnel made of pure stone.
00:42:14.000You're digging a mountain path like that dude who, what was it, his wife died because she couldn't get to the hospital?
00:43:25.000I mean, the thing is, DACA, they're gonna battle for DACA for the rest of eternity.
00:43:30.000It's gonna be something that we fight on for years and years and years.
00:43:35.000The thing about anchor babies, and I can say this because my brother is one, no I'm just kidding, well he kind of is, is that I don't believe in birthright citizenship.
00:43:43.000So the idea of an anchor baby doesn't seem valid, right?
00:43:48.000I don't think that we should have it be, I mean this was true, I can't remember his name, but one of the heads of a Mexican drug cartel So I don't think this ruling is the end of it.
00:43:56.000It's not like we're just like, and they're done with DACA now because it's such a point of contention among the two parties.
00:44:02.000If you have a child who is born in the US but their parents aren't here, there are different
00:44:07.000ways for them to get, their extended family, to get into the country.
00:44:11.000So I don't think this ruling is the end of it.
00:44:13.000It's not like we're just like, and they're done with DACA now because it's such a point
00:44:27.000It used to be that there was no real border and people walked back and forth, and being a citizen meant more to do with, did you have access to communal funds and voting and national defense and things like that.
00:44:37.000Now it means something different because we have people ripping us off, murdering us, smuggling drugs, and I'm not okay with loopholes.
00:44:46.000I just, I think we've got to have rules.
00:45:02.000We're getting to like, listen, back in the day, if a horde of a thousand people carrying flags tried to rush into your town or country, it was all military.
00:45:21.000I have a lot to learn about the subject, but I will say that the loophole of birthright citizenship is absolutely being exploited in big fertility right now.
00:45:28.000You've got these Chinese couples that are coming over, renting the wombs of largely Californian women because it's Wild West in terms of reproductive technologies there.
00:48:33.000Adoption is for kids whose parents could not or would not give them the life that they deserved.
00:48:39.000And so the goal is to place children with the parents that are best going to be able to meet their needs, both in terms of safety and development, kinship bonds, wherever it's best and appropriate.
00:48:51.000The child has to lose their first family to find their adoptive family.
00:48:56.000The mother has to lose a relationship with her child, either because she's not fit or because she feels like she can't offer the child the life that the baby deserves.
00:49:05.000And so adoption, as it's properly understood, is a child-centric institution.
00:49:09.000It is a just society's response to children who have lost their parents.
00:49:13.000It is not a means for adults to get kids.
00:49:37.000But when they talk about how having it all means being the boss and having a family, they center her adoption around what she wants to be fulfilled, not around helping the baby.
00:49:50.000They don't talk about the baby at all.
00:49:52.000It's just she's trying to get a baby because she wants one.
00:49:57.000I used to be the assistant director at the largest Chinese adoption agency in the world.
00:50:01.000I was responsible for compliance with international, state, and federal standards to make sure that the best interest of the child was upheld.
00:50:07.000The way that adoption is set up is to restore what has been lost.
00:50:12.000And so that's what adoption should be.
00:50:15.000But that does not negate the fact that the child has to lose something to then find that redemptive position.