In this episode of The Empower Hour, we are joined by our good friend, Heather, who shares her story of how she and her husband have been affected by the government's anti-vaccination campaign. She also shares how she has managed to stay strong in the face of the fear and panic that many are experiencing and how she is fighting back.
00:01:12.140But I get the pleasure of introducing our guest tonight.
00:01:16.480But first, I have a couple of updates that, because I'm not doing the weekly news update every week right now at the end of the show,
00:01:25.160I couldn't set aside a matter that has come up.
00:01:30.760It began back in December, on December 4th, when I received a letter from a law firm.
00:01:37.520And some of you who have been following us for some time would recall an individual by the name of Tyson Cook,
00:01:46.340a.k.a. Drag Queen Frida Wells in Kelowna, B.C.
00:01:50.540And two years ago, our chapter leader in Kelowna had found out that Tyson Cook is a drag queen indeed and was performing at libraries.
00:02:01.100And the chapter decided, you know what, it's not appropriate as people across Canada and around the world for drag queens to be focused on and entertaining children and reading to them.
00:02:12.480These are adult performers with adult sexual proclivities, and, you know, we want to protect our children.
00:02:22.500And many have compared it to you wouldn't have any other adult performer coming in and finding that was morally okay to be reading to children and entertaining them.
00:02:33.060So we created a petition to bring awareness.
00:02:35.800But as we did a little bit of research, we discovered that there was more information about this individual that caused concern as to the suitability of being around children.
00:02:49.040And I'm just going to share my screen right now, and I'm going to be appealing to all of our members and those who are viewing this to help us out because we're going to move forward with this legal action.
00:03:01.160And I think that Mr. Cook has waited nearly two years in order to take this step.
00:03:08.600I'm a little curious as to why he waited two years, but he is claiming that we've made defamatory, how did his lawyer state it here in the letter, they're harassing, disparaging and defamatory to our client that are aimed at damaging our client's reputation and interfering with our client's business and employment,
00:03:27.780which is false information, and we have evidence of that, but it will all come out, then including January 25th, 2023, damaging, serious and incorrect statements and allegations respecting our client contain false, obviously false and defamatory content.
00:03:45.860Now, I'm just going to do a review of the page.
00:03:48.060We have retained a lawyer, and I'm going to see if maybe even next week on the weekly news update that he would join me, and we'd have a conversation about this.
00:03:57.200So this is Tyson Cook, a.k.a. drag queen Frida Wells, and I haven't really spoken about this individual in a couple of years, so I'm not sure what they're referring to.
00:04:09.360I mean, they're dating it back to January of 2023.
00:04:13.020When we went to look into this person, he had videos, which you can see a snippet here.
00:04:20.580I'm not going to play it tonight, but I'll possibly play it next week, but it will be with a warning.
00:04:25.500He, in his spare time, was making videos where he's murdering people and then chopping them up, putting them in a grinder, eating them, feeding them to his pig.
00:04:38.040And we found out that he's an actual education assistant with small children in the Kelowna School District.
00:04:46.520He also works for Autism BC, and so we have a duty to make this information available to the public.
00:05:18.660If you search Tyson Cook on our website, you'll find this information.
00:05:23.320And then these were clips from his social media platform that was open to the public.
00:05:28.620That means even including the children that he goes and entertains and then follows him.
00:05:35.700And the school district superintendent, Kevin Cardell, instead of dismissing him, they ended up giving him a free pass, saying that his videos are his own creative design, and that his social media just put it on private and we're all good.
00:05:50.940I find that problematic, because at the same time this was happening, there was another education assistant here in the Lower Mainland and in the Coquitlam area, and she was acting in her spare time as a porn star.
00:06:11.200But Mr. Tyson Cook has maintained his position.
00:06:14.500I've had been personally reported that he has the union backing him, and that now they've decided to come after action for Canada, and for me bringing this to the awareness of the public and having a petition that garnered, oh, nearly 19,000 signatures, asking the school district and the school board in Kelowna to reassess this individual's suitability.
00:06:40.080Now, I also took further steps in contacting the RCMP and another person that specializes in individuals such as this and profiling them and asking if this person, if there is a greater risk of this individual being around children.
00:07:02.480So all of that information will come out if Mr. Cook decides to continue to pursue this action against myself and Action for Canada.
00:07:12.300So I've not made any defamatory statements.
00:07:15.180I haven't provided any, or sorry, on behalf of Action for Canada, we haven't provided any misinformation on this individual.
00:07:23.140It is all from his own website, his own YouTube channel that he's very proud of, and his own social media platform.
00:07:33.660More of that will be coming out, and when I do the weekly news update, I'll dive a little further into that.
00:07:38.980And so I have an appeal that if you could go to Action for Canada's website, actionforcanada.com, and go to and just select the Donate button, if you scroll down the page a little, you will see that you can donate specifically to our legal fund.
00:07:55.320And we're on the front line, as you know, with Rocco, our case is one of the only ones still left going forward in Canada against the COVID-19.
00:08:06.260And then we're also pursuing legal action against the government for allowing terrorists into the country.
00:08:13.380When we're ready to launch that, I'll be giving you more information on that.
00:08:17.020And so all those preparations are being proceeded with.
00:08:20.460And then as well, now we're faced with this situation.
00:08:23.420And so I've always thought it's a very good idea to have a legal fund that was prepared for these kind of situations.
00:08:32.280And so we can't do this work without you.
00:08:34.800So would you please, like I say, donate, click on our legal fund and give whatever you can, $10, $20, $50, $100, $1,000, whatever you can to help us with this battle.
00:08:46.420As I said, Tyson Cook apparently, reportedly has the union's members' funds in order to fight these type of battles.
00:08:54.900It's just, I know that down in the United States, there was a woman who was saying that unions should be made illegal because they have been taken over by Marxist entities promoting socialist agendas.
00:09:08.580And such as this individual, who is obviously to me in the wrong, I haven't, if they think that it's defamatory or libelous, well, prove me wrong.
00:09:18.320I've literally only posted what Tyson Cook has produced himself, what others feel about that, or the conclusions that they want to come to, or their opinions are their own.
00:09:29.540I'm just under a duty to report the facts and bring this to the attention of the public.
00:09:37.660Please help and please send the donate page to others, explain to them what we're doing, and I so appreciate your assistance with that.
00:09:47.560Okay, so tonight I am super pleased to have Dr. Wendy Hoffman on tonight's Empower Hour.
00:09:55.480And Dr. Hoffman is a wife, a mother, a dedicated transformational consultant and clinical counselor with a PhD in counseling and an additional certifications, including life coaching.
00:10:09.760Dr. Hoffman is a gifted and passionate speaker who has presented seminars and study days on mental health and faith in various nations in the world.
00:10:18.520Dr. Hoffman integrates her deep faith in God with evidence-based therapeutic techniques, which address a broad spectrum of mental health issues.
00:10:28.280And she believes true healing comes through the transformative power of God's grace, combined with practical tools and compassionate care.
00:10:35.980Her private practice, Veritas Counseling Center, is located in Ontario, and she is also an adjunct professor who has taught counseling courses at all levels.
00:10:48.520So will you please help me welcome Dr. Wendy Hoffman to the Empower Hour?
00:11:48.200So it's kind of been this mass psychosis.
00:11:50.440And as mentioned, I said, cognitive dissonance paralyzed the hearts and minds of the majority of the population, and self-preservation kicked in, manifesting itself in complacency, denialism, and even apathy.
00:12:07.480And at Action for Canada, of course, we're all about mobilizing Canadians.
00:12:11.900And if they're paralyzed, they're not going to be able to be very active.
00:12:16.920And so I thought it was a great time to bring you on.
00:12:39.100We've gone through a lot of uncertain days and certainties in the last five years.
00:12:44.620And it has, as you said, paralyzed many people.
00:12:47.520And their resistance has either lowered or it's almost non-existent.
00:12:52.740And so tonight, I'm believing that we're going to have some major keys in how to build resistance.
00:12:59.260So we're going to look at different things.
00:13:00.780So we're going to start with looking at how to build it, what is it, and then go from there.
00:13:05.740And I believe that at the end of this, people will be very encouraged to realize that they can actually build their resistance, their resilience.
00:13:12.940You know, today, I had something major happen to me.
00:13:16.040I was looking at my presentation and, you know, tweaking it and changing it.
00:14:23.840On that, just before you get into the presentation, we've got a lot of people on a lot of different platforms right now that are watching the show.
00:14:32.560And I just want to encourage you, if you actually want to ask any questions, Dr. Hoffman will be available after the presentation.
00:14:39.580But you do need to sign up and register on the Zoom to be able to use the Q&A.
00:14:59.360I have a nice cup of tea from Kelly, Charles Zach's wife, and I've got that to warm me up.
00:15:05.440So I hope you've grabbed a cup of tea and hope you're really comfortable and that we have a good time together tonight.
00:15:10.580Time restraints me from digging in deeply into this topic and in certain things like, you know, childhood trauma and environmental protective factors and emotional, physical and cognitive factors.
00:15:26.520But we are going to handle enough tonight that you should be able to have a good understanding of it and be able to build on your resilience.
00:15:35.580So the first two things that we're going to look at tonight are the basic or the main aspects of resilience.
00:15:44.580So we're going to define it and we're going to see how we can build it.
00:15:50.120So let's start off with our definition of resilience.
00:15:53.540It's the capacity to withstand or to recover quickly from difficulties, the ability to keep going in the midst of hardships.
00:16:03.580Now, resilience is really the ability to bounce back after having hardships or difficulties or uncertain times.
00:16:14.940It just helps you to go through it and you get skills and you and you have lessons through these difficult times that you can use and you can transfer them to other situations that you're going through.
00:16:26.620Nietzsche famously remarked, what doesn't kill you will make you stronger.
00:16:30.040We've heard that countless times and there's some definitely some truth in that.
00:16:36.740Tanya really gave us a great bird's eye view into what she's going through and we deeply respect her for the work she does for us, for Canada.
00:16:50.460We have in our educational system, we have outcomes of mass immigration.
00:16:56.680We have the overcrowding, the cultural barriers.
00:16:59.720We have the rising prices of food and gasoline.
00:17:02.980We were in the States a little while ago and it was great to be able to go so far on a tank of gas and then come home and it's like empty before we know it.
00:17:48.280But I'd like to think you could thrive and even overcome and that you'd be personally strengthened by the challenges and the problems you've had in your life.
00:17:58.980It was interesting going through that experience today because you know how one thought gives you another thought.
00:18:04.560And I was remembering that I was singing at a banquet and there was over 300 people.
00:20:25.480I hope you can read them all on the right-hand side.
00:20:27.640They are goal-setting, self-worth, learning ability, cognitive ability, connecting, problem-solving, acceptance, self-regulations, coping, ability to learn social skills.
00:20:40.960So all of these things are really important because they all are impacted by resilience.
00:20:48.540The ability to be able to do these things is absolutely connected to resilience.
00:20:55.820And maybe you take a look at that and maybe you want to do a screenshot of that and decide where you're needing to increase your resilience in order to be able to do these better.
00:21:07.260I have this guy here and it's a beautiful picture, but it just sometimes feels like life is an uphill battle.
00:21:17.080Now, when you look at this photo, you could either see it this way, that he's trying to keep everything from falling on his head and for him to be falling down the mountain with the big rock, the big boulder.
00:21:31.400Or you could see it as he is trying to push it onwards.
00:21:35.760And that outlook will really help you in building resilience because you would want to be pushing it forward, not having it land on top of you.
00:31:40.000So, we can always think of a positive even in a negative story, whether it is an alarming story or if it's just one of those minor mishaps of life.
00:39:10.060And these seven things are great descriptors of those who have resilience and are able to connect with others, connect with their own stress and situations, and contribute.
00:39:22.760One of the greatest things you can do if you're struggling yourself in a situation is to reach out and help someone else.
00:39:28.880If you notice, many people tend to isolate and not get involved and not be community-oriented when they struggle.
00:41:21.600Here's an incredible verse that I really love.
00:41:25.280And if you look at this, it's amazing how many things that we have to think about rather than all the sadness.
00:41:33.240We need to think about it, the sadness that's occurring, the situations that are occurring, problem solved.
00:41:38.220And then I like to say, put it on the shelf and think about other things, the honest things, the just things, the lovely things, enjoying your environment.
00:41:47.640So think about what you need to do about the negative things, the problem solving, the situations that arise.
00:41:53.600Again, put it on the shelf and move to other things.
00:41:58.080Scripture tells us to think on these things.
00:42:56.260And I love this photograph because it says so many different things to me.
00:43:00.440So if you were to look at the photograph right now and you're looking at the waves, imagine if you were standing, you know, more on the shoreline and looking out toward this.
00:43:12.960You might even grab your phone or camera and take a picture of it.
00:43:39.060Could you stand on that rock and be okay?
00:43:42.620So many thoughts would churn in your mind if you were in the middle of this water.
00:43:47.760It's very similar to when you're in the midst of a situation.
00:43:52.860We have such a different perspective on that when we're looking at our life, when we're right in the middle of it.
00:44:00.420So I urge you to step back a bit and come more to the shore and look at it as if it's out there rather than on top of you, rather than overpowering you, rather than taking you under in the toe.
00:44:14.700Just look at it as if you were looking at just a photograph.
00:45:36.900So I was writing down things so that they set in my head a little bit.
00:45:40.580And I know that a lot of our viewers, something that was in the chat, somebody had made a comment saying the last three years have been so difficult, right?
00:45:50.960There's loss of jobs, friendships, family, and not necessarily just relational, but deaths in families because of what we've been experiencing, what's been unleashed by the government.
00:46:03.920And that feeling of hopelessness and helplessness and for myself, I sort of had an advantage going into this so-called COVID-19 because I'd already been working since 2015 at addressing the policies that the government was pumping through and just going,
00:46:24.900Oh, my goodness, like, look at everybody, wake up, wake up and trying to ring the bells on all the issues of LGBTQ, the rise of Islam, them wanting to destroy our borders.
00:46:36.300And you've got to imagine, like, how do you work through this?
00:46:40.520How do you be on the front line of working on something like this and not giving up?
00:46:45.800And one of the key things you said was about community.
00:46:49.620And today, I've been in a conversation with a couple people, Pastor Dan Vashon is on in the background here.
00:46:57.320Dan and I spoke, I think, for nearly an hour this morning, because even for myself, lately, after nine and a half years of this, I'm like, I want to make sure going into 2025, Action for Canada is taking on the issues that are going to bring about the right change.
00:47:15.160How do we help Canadians and serve them?
00:47:17.740And for myself, the key has been in having really good people around you, because we're all going to have our low times.
00:47:27.400And so encouragement has been extremely important.
00:47:30.860And then telling me, I'm not crazy, right?
00:51:22.580And so my kids and I went over there and we painted and she, we helped to buy her some furniture and things that, that she had covered.
00:51:31.540And it was so uplifting, but it took her out of such a dark place knowing that she wasn't alone.
00:51:38.460So I want to encourage people, find somebody to invest in, in a way that you can, in some way, it just increased their quality of life.
00:51:50.520And usually it's spending the time to have a cup of tea with them or taking an elderly person for a drive because they never get out of the home, right?
00:52:02.360For 12 years, I was the president of Halt and Alive, which is a pro-life group.
00:52:06.300And of course, they just came up with this program of Inspire Hope during the lockdowns and it was for the seniors.
00:52:13.000But one of the outcomes, and they're still doing things, one of the outcomes was exactly what you said, and that's having tea with a senior.
00:52:19.760So you sign up for, to have tea with a senior and just talk with them and spend time with them.
00:52:25.200One of my clients was going through something with her best friend dying, Tanya, so terrible loss.
00:52:30.220That was 30 year friendship, sorry, 25 year friendship.
00:53:29.740But we would head down there and I would just roll her window down, park her so that she was on the side of the ocean watching the birds, etc.
00:53:37.780And she passed away a long time ago, but my Uncle Ed was like a father to me.
00:53:42.180And I would take him for a drive to the mountains and stop by the river and do those sort of things.
00:57:50.000It was difficult to have conversations with people.
00:57:52.260All of those things had to be broken down in my life, and God knew how in my life personally to do that.
00:57:58.880And Canada is being broken down right now to let go of the things that we have been conditioned to accept that were not good for us.
00:58:07.560And God loves us so much that He wants us to move away from that.
00:58:11.480And it's through difficult times that we are driven to our knees to finally look up.
00:58:18.000And so, that's what I mean about, yeah, you can be resilient and saying, I am thankful for these things, but I now have the power to also do something about it.
00:58:28.040And the key to me was when I'd gone through nearly 20 years, and then finally it was in the end where I actually went and saw somebody to seek some help.
00:58:38.000And going through that journey, because there was things discovered about my childhood that were overwhelming to me, and then I finally realized, fighting, fighting, fighting for solutions and answers, I thought, I will be a victim as long as I choose to be a victim.
00:58:51.260And that doesn't mean that we let go of who had victimized us, that means that we let go of their control over our situation, and then you've got your power back.
00:59:05.640If you were to tell a story, or someone was to tell a story, Tanya, about how they were victimized, and then write down all the key words of the emotional words, like, I was so upset, and I was this angry, and then telling it differently.
00:59:19.980Seriously, seriously, telling it differently, like, well, I need to take responsibility, because I shouldn't have, you know, been there with those friends, I should have chosen better, I can't blame those people for what they did to me, they're wrong to do that, however, I didn't need to be there, so I need to take responsibility for that.
00:59:38.580And that's very empowering, when we take responsibility for our stories, and let God work through that to make us stronger.
00:59:46.440So, in other words, we do not have to be a victim, ever.
00:59:51.260We are victimized, but never a victim.
00:59:55.940Yeah, I love that next layer about taking responsibility as well, because we can all look back and go, oh my goodness, if I hadn't made that decision, I would have, you know, avoided, you know, some hardship or some sadness.
01:00:12.700Okay, so Noel has asked a question, he says, what are some concrete ways that an individual with high resilience can be a resource for others that are wobbling?
01:00:23.480And there's a second part to a question, the question, how to respectfully signal that you are available as a resource.
01:02:08.220And I love to, one of my things that I say is courage is contagious, right?
01:02:13.760And that's something that, even in that, as we model moving forward, as we model addressing the really hard issues, it then makes it easier for somebody else to come along as well.
01:02:24.140And then they're no longer victim to the circumstances.
01:02:28.820And that's another way to break free from this as well.
01:02:31.780Okay, so, are technology distractions prevent us from being or practicing resilience?
01:02:58.940And this is capturing people, and especially our young people, who I think are finding this as an avenue of escape.
01:03:06.520And so, that's something that I would encourage people, that you're not resilient if you're relying on this, you know, as a source, not only of entertainment, but I think escapism.
01:03:17.960So, and you'll want to put a positive spin on it, though, and I agree with you 100%, but I want to change it for a second and say it this way.
01:03:24.900Oftentimes, God will help me to think of someone's name.
01:03:28.900And I will go to my cell phone, and I will send a text, thinking of you, remembering you in prayer.
01:03:37.420Countless times, they get back to me and say, oh, you know what?
01:03:41.160I was going through something at that very moment, and then I saw your text, and I just, I felt so hopeful.
01:12:01.180Please help us out by sharing our videos because it gets very discouraging if we can't get this good information into as many hands as possible.
01:12:10.240And so, in closing, Wendy, what are your final thoughts?
01:12:27.840Don't let the block or the obstacle stop you from doing what you know you can do and what God can help you to do and what your friends can support you with.
01:12:59.780Well, thank you, everybody, for joining us tonight.
01:13:02.780And so, next week, I'm going to be doing a weekly news update.
01:13:06.420As I've mentioned, I've got these massive, incredible projects that we're doing in the background.
01:13:11.740We've also made a huge change to Action for Canada.
01:13:14.240As far as our technology is concerned, again, I really want to encourage you to continue to donate to Action for Canada.
01:13:22.060We are one of the only organizations that I know of that have a strategy of war that are actually creating chapters where we're mobilizing citizens, providing them resources, having success in shutting down 15-minute cities, having success in Saskatchewan and overturning SOGI-123.
01:13:40.460Kim and Sondra are working hard in Alberta in overturning and getting rid of those nasty books within our schools.
01:13:47.760We have the ear of the education minister.
01:13:50.520We're also looking for other meetings that are creating change.
01:13:55.400I don't really sometimes want to make everything public right now because I don't like telling the other side what we're doing.
01:14:01.720And so, we really, really need your financial support.
01:14:06.160And a lot of people feel like things have eased up right now because most of the COVID disaster they feel is over.
01:14:14.380Down in the States, there's, you know, huge things happening.
01:14:17.500But it's a cycle that has come from the United Kingdom, the UK, and now that because they were way ahead of us in these tyrannical governments and getting these populist movement that's rising up there.
01:14:30.400The wave has come into America, and then we're a few years behind America when Trudeau came in.
01:14:35.720And so, we've got, you know, a few years of really hard work to do with a couple of very important elections.
01:14:41.840But, you know, elections come every four years.
01:14:44.320Maxime Bernier and I have talked about this because he so appreciates and he sees the vision of what Action for Canada is doing,
01:14:50.560that we're at this 24-7, you know, throughout the year for four years.
01:14:57.380An election is every four years, but we're working, you know, between those elections, between the provincial elections, between the municipal elections.
01:15:05.980And we need more people seeing what it is that Action for Canada is doing, why our strategy is so important, but we need your financial support in order to keep going.
01:15:15.880I'm going to be posting in the near future, on the donation page, just an overview of our financials.
01:15:23.020And the reason is I want you to, we're very transparent.
01:15:26.760We file with the government every year, so we've never been, you know, secretive about any of this.
01:15:35.220I want you to see that for an organization this large and the budget that we have, our team is working for peanuts, if I can put it that way,
01:15:46.380This is not about personal, us making money.
01:15:49.080We do have to survive and be able to buy groceries, and that's it.
01:15:51.880It's very thin in what we're doing because our investment is in Canadians.
01:15:56.460But if more Canadians, more business owners would understand that, we could be achieving even more as far as legal actions are concerned.
01:16:04.800And other, like we have this huge campaign across the nation of handing out our flyers on the 15-minute cities, on WinSexEd and SOGI, etc.
01:16:15.660These are truth bombs that we are now delivering door to door, that we're putting in people's postbox.
01:16:21.940And the reason it's really important is those are future people who are going to be voting in elections, and they're not learning any of this in the mainstream media.
01:16:32.200A lot of them, because we're so censored, don't know about Action for Canada, but there is nothing from stopping us from putting this information in their mailbox.
01:16:40.000So, it costs money to do the printing.
01:17:37.860We are not on our knees appealing to the Lord through troublesome times, but we have a peace and assurance, unlike anyone else, because of our trust in God.
01:22:20.240So I am just going to thank you so much.
01:22:24.200I'm going to say God bless you and God bless Canada.
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