In this episode, we have our first guest, Aiden, a muralist from Tulsa, Okla. We talk about our favorite types in men, and what it's like to be in a relationship with a black person.
00:28:31.000seems so familiar. Yeah, cause I FaceTimed you before. Where at? Uh, Prime. Oh, yeah, you know. Well, you know Prime. Yeah, I remember in Atlanta. It was like a few years ago. Oh, he FaceTimed you when you were with me. Yeah. Well, I'm trying to think. What did we say on the call? I remember you, though. It wasn't nothing crazy. You just said what's up. Yeah, you said hey, Benzy. Yeah. That was it. I remember you. That was a few years back, though. Yeah. How you been? Oh, been good. You haven't met before. Wait, so why
00:29:00.940you in Tulsa? Cause I moved here. You like it here? Yeah. Okay. What'd you do for fun? Garden. You garden? Yes. You like grow shit? Yes. What'd you grow? I started growing potatoes. Really? Yeah. Are they good? I haven't. They not in season yet. Like, I'm testing out different stuff. Hmm. Hmm. You smoke weed? Yes, I do. I can tell. I just. The fuck are they talking about? I don't know. How long? You know. These are my partners. Yeah. Yeah. You know them longer
00:29:30.660than me, so I don't know. How long you know Zeke and Beeloo? Uh, yes. Hmm. Hey, cool. Yeah, they are
00:29:36.380good people. We just cool, though. Benzy, we just cool. Damn. Yeah, what you want me to do? Say, say,
00:29:41.560spectacular? Yeah. Hell yeah. I got your necklace on. Yeah. Come on, man. I'll quit playing. Oh, I don't be feeling like
00:29:49.120y'all need that, though. Nah, we shit. Y'all just, I mean. It's not about us, though. I'll tell you that much. Yeah, it's about later. Yeah, for sure. Yeah, my first
00:29:56.660time in Oklahoma, you know, just feeling the vibe. I don't think it's your first time here. Yeah, for
00:30:01.520real. It is. My first. For real? My first time here. That's his first time. You got to show him,
00:30:05.440like, some good hospitality. Hospitality. You know what I mean? You got to show him, like,
00:30:11.260y'all know. Why you making the potatoes? For real. Like, you keep, you keep, you keep glossing them
00:30:15.460lips up. Because, like, I'm not gonna lie. I was downstairs drinking, and, um, my lips was dry. Can I show you
00:30:20.640in that mode? You actually bake, you actually bake potatoes? You brought one with you? No. What'd
00:30:27.200you eat? Well, I'm downstairs making salmon for everybody. You make food? You cook? Don't
00:30:34.040you cook for yourself? Fuck no. I have a chef. That must be nice. Nah, I mean, it's the same
00:30:40.500shit. Okay, so, regular people still gotta cook. I am regular people. No, you're not. Yes, I am. No,
00:30:48.620you're not. Yes, I am. No, you're not. How am I not? Come on, man. You gotta show him. Be honest,
00:30:53.100the only way up with people getting somebody to cook for them is family or their mom, maybe even
00:30:58.100their dad, auntie, grandma. Like, they not on payroll. Oh, I get what you're saying, but my chef
00:31:05.900likes me as a friend, though, no? That's cool, but it's the his job, because, like, be honest,
00:31:11.280he cook you some shit, and he be like, you be like, I want some eggs with some pancakes,
00:31:15.700and then 20 minutes later, while he in the middle of cooking it, you be like, I want fucking
00:31:19.820french toast, and I want it with vanilla. Facts. So, bitch, why is you wasting groceries? How
00:31:25.240you know my order? Because, like, you sit like a very basic person. I am very basic, but I'm
00:31:31.320very picky what I like. You sure? Yeah. You know what I'm saying? I'm picky when it comes
00:31:35.740to food. Yeah? What's your favorite food? I don't really have a favorite food. I just
00:31:39.340like food cooked a certain way. Like, I want to enjoy different cuisines. Like, you gotta
00:31:43.980understand, like, if you don't get to experience life or go different places, you'll never get
00:31:50.800to try, like, different flavors of foods. Makes sense. So, like, right now, I'm cooking
00:31:55.560something with these basic-ass ingredients Zai's got downstairs. Oh, my God. Like, he only
00:32:01.320got, like, 10 seasonings. Like, it's frustrating, because I want to, like, you know, everybody
00:32:05.960want to taste the song, and I'm like, I'm not doing nothing, and I'm just, like, trying
00:32:11.000to have fun. Wait, what is this? What's that? I like your art. Um, it's, like, an awning
00:32:16.840mask. Oh, nice. More, more, like, Japanese thing. Are you into, like, anime? Mm-hmm. What's
00:32:21.880your favorite anime? It's a couple of them. Like, what's your two favorite anime? I kind
00:32:28.300of like Cowboy Bebop and Fullmetal Alchemist. That's me, personally, just because, like, a
00:32:33.740lot of their animation is done. Like... I like Naruto. Ain't nothing wrong with that. That's,
00:32:39.040like, one of the OG. Like, I feel like, out of all the OG animes, everybody gonna, you know,
00:32:44.680like, one or two. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. What you think? Death Note? Or, not Death Note. Sorry. Uh...
00:32:53.360What you thinking? I think, I think we should do, like, an outfit of the day, though. Like...
00:32:57.840Oh, okay. What you wearing? Some simple. Okay. You want me to do mine first? I mean, if you
00:33:05.040want to. Very, very simple. I got gallery and chrome. Oh. Chrome on my body. I ain't gonna hold
00:33:10.920this. They sound very regular. Like, what is it extravagant about it? Not at all. You know,
00:33:17.500I don't shop for clothes, though. Like, I wear the same clothes. Yeah, do you at least wash them?
00:33:21.240Yeah, of course. Yeah? Yeah. Well, I don't personally wash them. Well, if somebody washes
00:33:25.400them, like, are they clean? Yeah. Oh, okay. So, like, why are you trying to talk to, like,
00:33:30.960colored women? Uh, Zeke's idea. What happened? What happened? What happened? Zeke's...
00:33:40.780No. It is trying for me, bro. No, she just asked, like, whose idea was this date. It was
00:33:46.280yours. But I'm having a good time. Are you not? Yeah, I'm having fun. Can we get to some
00:33:50.840fun questions? What's up? How many boyfriends have you had? I don't know. I don't care.
00:33:56.000Okay. Good shit. Um, when was the last time you were in, like, a relationship? I feel like
00:34:00.840I'm kind of in one now without being in one. Like, ooh. I ain't none of your business.
00:34:07.720True. But, like, damn. So, there's no... I mean, the way I live my life isn't very traditional
00:34:15.120to other people. Like, you gotta understand, when you're trying to enjoy life and then build
00:34:19.940genuine connections with people, you're allowed to continue to live in your life. Like,
00:34:24.000if you want to drive with people or you want to experience different worlds, that's on you.
00:34:27.460But does he know that? Yes. Oh, so you guys are both open right now? Yeah, I don't hide
00:34:31.840nothing. Like, I get it. Everybody want to be traditional. That's cool. But you only get
00:34:35.660so much of life. Like, how many times you gonna give a person 17 times to play in your