Adin Ross & His Dad Talk about PamiBaby...
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Summary
In this episode of the podcast, we talk about the things that stand out to us the most about people that are not hurting for money. We also talk about some of our favorite memories of growing up in the 70s and 80s.
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everyone's everyone's talking about um you know pammy which is which is funny you say that because
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it's like and you have no problem sharing the stage with these people no problem at all because
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everybody can eat you know what i mean everybody can eat you know there's no such thing as getting
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gritty you told me this one story i love this story i literally think about it all the time
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it's a story where uh you're probably gonna i want you to explain it once you kind of know
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it's like the story where there's a bunch of that are starving and then they're on a dinner table
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or what is it you told me this story when i was really young and i always think about it
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it's a story where there's a bunch of people at a dinner table and everybody's eating their food
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really fast and this one they're looking for a king in the town oh yes yes do you tell the story
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from the from the top i can remember it okay um it may not hit as hard as when i originally told it
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because i vaguely remember it but somewhere in india there was a uh a very wealthy king and he was
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looking for a princess or a queen or something like that so he had he had uh 20 or 30 of the most
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beautiful um you know royalty uh descendants of royalty come and spend the night at the at the at
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his castle and he was looking for the right one and there were all different tables set up and they
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were able to go to whatever table they want take whatever food they want take whatever jewels they
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want and so most of them 99 of them you know were stuffing diamond necklaces in their pockets and
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things like that they're all just taking everything they were all just taking and then there was this
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one beautiful very you know reserved calm sweet young princess who just sat there and didn't do do
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anything didn't take anything didn't you know just just kind of sat there very quietly and he came
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over to her and said something to her like well how come you're not you know everybody was invited
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here to take advantage of the night and whatever they felt was beautiful was to take it for themselves
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and and basically what she had said was well there's really nothing that i want that's material there's
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nothing here that i'm that i that that i want something here that appeals to me she she was really
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looking for love and not material things so she really really stood out because the majority of the
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people you know just wanted to they figured they weren't going to get chosen anyway and so they
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had that kind of an attitude to just take take take right whereas this person was really mesmerized and
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deeply thinking about what she really wanted which was to find love right and that's what it stands out
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it really stands out from the rest rest it's not hard to spot no and everyone's everyone's talking
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about um you know pammy which is which is funny you say that because it's like you know i one time
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once i'm a huge on gambling like 150 000 and what someone's reaction to be when i yo i want 150k
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yeah i have 20 of it you know so pammy walks in she's like okay that's cool like that just shows
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like she doesn't give a fuck like and and and that's what it is it's like when it comes down to it
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like i want people to understand that um you know what that story is talking about is like
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don't get caught up in the riches and all that materialistic stuff because it's just
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you know there's there's really nothing there there's nothing there it's emptiness yeah the
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glitter of the gold is just a distraction yeah and again we're having a conversation two people
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that are not hurting for money um that's why that's that's that's that's why i wish we had
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somebody in here who is like like dead broke oh but but we've been there before i i remember that
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i've been wealthy and i've been broke maybe five times in my life do you remember that one time you
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were so broke we had this little trailer home people think that i come from money i really i
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do but i had money we have but it's gone it's gone away so you remember we were in this little
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trailer home i think like a two-bedroom oh it was like a dollhouse it was a 600 a month rent yes
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by the way it's one of my favorite houses oh it was all with the best memories yes we had the best
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memories so you're supposed to dab me up like that yeah thank you
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dad do you remember you bought like the 600 car and i used to have to kick it to get to school in the
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morning to start it up so funny this car wouldn't start it was a 500 car because my car blew up is
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all i could afford is a 500 car and often in the morning we get in the car and i'd just be praying
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it would start so i could get him to school and finally we figured out if he kicked underneath the
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dashboard somehow the wires would fix and it would start up so we i'd be half asleep drinking my coffee
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i'd go to start it wouldn't start and his foot would just automatically kick and then it would start
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and we wouldn't even look at each other it became so kind i know we just knew we just knew
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all right it's time to get to school i remember i remember i would you would wake me up like five
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minutes before i'd have to even go to i would wake up put clothes on go under that little heater
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thermos thingy yes you'd make me breakfast and we would just go to school i'd have to kick the car
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that was hilarious easy but it's just like times like that were so good yes that's why like like i
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look back and obviously that's called nostalgia right yes you don't just when you only really
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remember the good yeah it was bad bad of course but all i remember is i used to come over to school
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every day play video games you didn't give a fuck you let me do my thing i do remember one time
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though i played so much video games you had me quit for like six months to get an ipod or something
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like that do you remember that vaguely i don't know if it was six whole months it was like three
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months yeah you just wanted me to take a break because i was going too crazy but you were really
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getting too nuts with it you would be up at five six o'clock in the morning and i was like 10
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playing the call of duty black ops one you i'm you'd how you buy me all the map packs and stuff
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i was crazy it's just so crazy like i've been playing video games my entire life i was born
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so much shit from people in the family they're like you're ruining this kid how could you let
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him do this and you know oh this is a take from family members and people that thought i was i was
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abusing i know you're talking about yeah and i'm like listen he's passionate about look at his big
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smile on his face how could just how could that be wrong you know yeah exactly damn i like i really
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you know i and i'm just saying this dad you are really one of a kind you're my best friend and
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not just that like you're you're you're you're a dad for probably people in this chat right now
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people like are some people don't even have dads and it's just like i appreciate you i love you
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i love you too and i don't want to cry right now but that's okay um just know like you're you're
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really that guy like um i wouldn't be where i'm at without you and uh well i love you so much that
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when you don't call me and two weeks go by i'm actually but i hate that but i'm happy because
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i'm saying to myself all right he doesn't need anything he must be having fun because he's not
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thinking of me which is okay and when you really love somebody really all you want for them is what
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they want for themselves so yeah i miss you a little bit but you know i think about you i'll look at your
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picture and i'll be like he must be doing great and then eventually you call me up and this was like
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the greatest birthday i've had in so long that you not only did you come to the house but like
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you spent real time with me and you invited me into your into your chat i didn't i didn't even
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want them telling you that i was going to come that's why i wasn't texting you like i didn't
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text you every birthday like i just wanted you to like not think i was coming you knew i was coming
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though right i knew there was no stopping you from coming i had to come that's why i stayed the
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extra day all my roommates went home back to la already but uh you know it's just it's crazy it's
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it's just really crazy take your time a little bit though and take a deep breath take a step back
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out of the picture a little bit and find something that you and pammy can do that's away from this not
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i mean i know this is your your life and they depend on you but i i know they'd want you to recharge
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even if it's one day a week one and a half days a week sometimes two days a week where you're just
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doing something for you too no electronics yeah whatever it is because when you do come back
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you're going to be 10 times the guy you were yeah if you didn't go away and you need that for
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your health i think i think i'm this june it's just been the most june and may have been my most
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mentally drained months just drained you're right i gotta find a pace it's not a it's not a it's not
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a sprint it's a marathon right so it's like yeah i'm in this i'm in this this this social media shit
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for a long time i gotta find my pace i gotta find my rhythm and i gotta i'm just so new to it you like
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it happens so fast so fast like it's so fast it's like actually like to the point where it's
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overwhelming and it's like it really makes you kind of like it's scary it's scary it really is
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shows you what's possible but i like what you just said slow and steady wins the race there's there's
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there's an old story the tortoise and the hare you know like the tortoise goes most slowly but nice and
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steady yeah and the hare speeds along and then like rest chills out and parties but that hare you know
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that that that tortoise will always win slow and steady wins the race and that's some advice that
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you'd want to give your people never give up slow and steady wins the race you know you know when
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it's time to fucking add fuel to the fire and when it's not yeah but aiden you got to take care of
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yourself so you can take care of your people and i'm hearing that message from you you're getting
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burnt you know and pammy seems to be wonderful i got to know her a little bit yeah she's awesome
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she's awesome you're very lucky yeah i am but uh but but back onto what i was saying is uh you know