Adin Live - February 15, 2024
Adin Ross Speaks on His Recent Relationship..
Episode Stats
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1 hour and 21 minutes
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209.22636
Hate Speech Sentences
120
Summary
In this episode, we have our first guest on the show, our therapist, and the one and only . We talk about our recent experience with online dating, how we met, and how we ended up in a relationship.
Transcript
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how you doing hey how you doing yeah yeah yeah of course of course hi everyone hello
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so um so uh you are a legit therapist right i'm a legit therapist how long are you doing uh
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therapy for um i've had my practice for close to four years oh wow nice that's great okay cool
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all right so you told me downstairs that we're gonna really like do some like exercises and
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stuff i'm a little nervous for that i'm gonna make you think okay all right that's fine we're gonna
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tell all our business out like we don't even care yeah we don't even care at this point they already
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know it too yeah they know everything i don't even care i'm just about to pour it out like i don't
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what does privacy mean in your life there's none i swear to god that's no i get no privacy they find
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out what i eat they find out who i um sorry i have intercourse with yeah they find out who i i see
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they find out like where i'm at they know everything they're weird as oh god they know
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literally everything oh god and they bully us too and they bully us i get bullied every day
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no like seriously i overthink i'm really insecure like i swear to god they own me like actually
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oh they own all of us we just get bitched and bullied and hold and and then we don't do
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all of us oh yeah i've had 30 ars pointed at me like it's no real guns with one of his
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girlfriends and whatever happened i was like yeah she was like shining in her head too because
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she was moving weird so we need to find a different dating pool for you guys well yeah i want to
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talk about our recent you start no you start come on rock your scissors ladies first lol she's
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who's more feminine be honest you you i'm sorry look at his hair come on it don't matter look
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at your hair she looks like an auntie don't be here huh of course he gets your vaseline
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all right come on okay you hey no the rock by virtue of the vaseline hey you know what you're
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going to use the bra but it's you now yeah come on no no no we got a rock paper all right rock
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paper scissors says okay what is that a jewish tunnel like what the hell come on rock paper
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scissors shoot got you one it's one-on-one the last one i want you one no you didn't win
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what i want you want stop me what is that i got paper boy who do paper like that bro come on bro
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all right rock paper scissors shoot okay got you all right fuck it i'll get ready to it if you miss any
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details i'm going to remind you all right so i was seriously talking to a girl for about a couple months
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and um see my chat wants me to fold they want me to talk to her again give her a chance but i'm
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going to literally just explain to you talking to her seriously for a couple months her and i would
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do stuff together you know content together we would also hang out so you worked together we
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worked together but at the same time we also i thought it was serious and like i thought we were
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like you know so um come to find out we're talking and stuff um she tells me she's with her mom
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like drinking with her mom out at a bar she really didn't tell me that she was in another state
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she fucked and i don't think i don't know if they had sex i don't think they did
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they had sex and she got 30 with him on stream like he's from new york so he she was like dancing
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why are you trolling and the fact oh god i can't wait the fact that she went to a dance from him
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and then she did the dance around us was already i already found that disrespectful i just didn't
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say nothing you know i don't want to add my input so like i already seen like little signs and stuff
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but yeah you continue lol you're doing too much i'm just telling you well not lol how did you feel
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when you found out yeah i mean i mean it sucked i was like damn what the i was like really thrown
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off if you could name like one two three feelings sad mad hurt betrayed frustrated betrayed
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you're good at the naming the feeling i like that that's a good skill to have i just feel like
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everyone in my life does not like me for me there's like a reason or motive behind it that's
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why like so i like i'm like honestly like that's when did you start feeling that way a couple years
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after he broke up when you got famous when did you get famous pardon my ignorance 2021 2020 at the end
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of it i'll say i would just say everyone past 2021 that is in my life is with me for a reason
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straight up 2021 20 what would you say chat 2021 yeah 2021 they're saying well and what is that reason
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as far as you understand money and followers that's hard no yeah it's just hard to find like a genuine
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bond in relationship with people but i met him way before him and i've had follow-up stuff over weird
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shit because he's a weirdo no you're a weirdo no i didn't put though he actually it was a girl i was
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actually with him before everything you know what i'm saying this girl that we're talking about no no
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a different girl a different girl and uh basically like i'm gonna lie i did her dirty she was a good
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girl i did her dirty i won't lie you left her in the desk um i did i i got famous and i'll be honest
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no no no i will be honest i broke up with her to pursue content with other girls i know it sounds
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i did her dirty i feel bad about that i apologize for it i'm sorry yeah well i don't envy that part
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of your job it seems like the lines between what's personal and what's work maybe get a little
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blurred yeah yeah that must be hard but focusing on currently what's going on that's my current
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situation with what i got going on right now okay and so what's the status are you talking to her
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no i blocked her on everything okay it's crazy and she's a streamer too so she's going live and she's
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like call me call me like you know so it's just like it's a lot going on right now so i don't know
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i didn't know what to tell them so that's why you're like you know that's what we need you're not
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because my chat chat like i'm gonna just ask y'all real quick pretend she's not here for a second
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like i was saying like do i unblock her yes or no a lot of them were saying yes they wanted me to
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pursue conversation but it's like i believe in flags i believe in like i believe in like
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you like i don't really believe in second chances anymore i'm at a point in my life where it's like
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i need to some find some type of self-respect and love for myself that if you keep offering someone
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second chances and they i don't know i just i don't really know if i believe in that well i think
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when you're considering a second chance i'd ask you know what has changed like has she showed up in a
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different way that would make you consider a second chance or is it just like oh let's unblock
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her and see what happens when nothing has really changed yeah true i just i always see the good in
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people as well i only want to see the good in people i don't ever want to see the bad in people
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you know yeah that's good but not every good person has to be your girlfriend or girl yeah
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but that's the current situation on that i feel like it happened too early like you know they just
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started talking for a couple months and that shit was just that's why i said as a woman i was like
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damn that shit happened way too early like already lying like they not even like fully fully like
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you know well it's best not to lie yeah exactly especially at the beginning you're supposed to
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be truthful like what makes lying towards the end better well not necessarily but like you know if
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it's like some petty lie you'll be like oh you know i know her i'll know her you know for years
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i guess you're right it is different if i had more time under my belt with her yeah because you
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didn't you know her care then yeah like i wish no ill intent on anybody her or anyone that's ever
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done me wrong um but okay so what is your thoughts and you're a girl too the whole girl's girl guy
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situation i mean i just i have more questions before i can share my thoughts i guess i'm wondering like
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you know you said you were talking but like was there a serious conversation about the expectations
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you had from each other i think so i think there were moments where i've spoken her about hey
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dating or in the future and stuff serious i think so okay so you felt it should have been clear that
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what she was doing was unacceptable i mean yeah let me ask you a question right let's say do you have a
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boyfriend i have a husband oh all right let's just confirm what are you talking about you're good
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you're good go ahead i want to ask you guys you you okay be honest let's just say you were talking
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to somebody right yes siri i mean i'm taking it serious yeah and they just tell you yo i'm out
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with a family member whatever and then it turns out they're really in another state with somebody
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else no no good no oh okay i'm gonna see red buddy i ain't gonna lie like what is the reason for the
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lie yeah i didn't really understand that it just makes you think they're trying to like focus somebody
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else honestly what happened honestly i didn't even like want to talk i just didn't know what to say
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like i mean at that point i was like what do you what do you say to that okay right so i i don't
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think you can like go and consider a second chance or poll people about whether they want to
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they want you to unblock her um if you haven't had a conversation with her first yeah i i just yeah
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i don't know i just i don't know it sounds like you're pretty i i i'm getting a sense you're very
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convinced of what you want to do yeah i know but they were saying to fold and talk to her i mean that's
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for the content that's for the content do they just want to see that is that what they want or
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like do they care about me like i'm like i don't know good question let's ask them why do you guys
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want um yeah yeah why do y'all actually want me to be honest is it is it the content i mean because
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they they seen my girlfriend throw like bags and so they want they want to oh i'm gonna pull those
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clips up oh god on my life i am relax okay so yeah they're saying the content the content what's
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that mean though entertainment entertainment what are the movies yeah go to the movies
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oh they're weird oh god they're so weird we we the movie for them oh god like they just want us to
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like nah we're more than a movie to them i swear to god they look they look they don't even think
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i'm a human being i swear no they look at me like i'm a puppet i swear god like i'm a ventriloquist
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not even trolling you yeah yeah yeah when he said take out the ass like a ventriloquist
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yeah i started saying that now lol oh hell no look you are here it is anyways um you could read
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those they go fast yeah you just kind of spot dry on one and track it okay
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yeah okay so oh yeah no i'm not gonna let you oh yeah so well thank you my situation is different
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i've been with this well i have been with this girl for like almost two years you know and um
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we had like some really bad fallouts even on live off live like you know it just it was i want to say
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toxic i wouldn't say like you know we learned each other you know we was like oh god you guys are
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toxic off him no no i'll say like we was learning each other they were in a physical world physical
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hey bro she she would throw stuff at him bro that's like heavy stuff like i'm talking like
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bags full of pounds bro what the hell come all my life don't just you're in a real session she
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actually like a certified therapist i know but like it's well like i appreciate you heard this
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before like you know like not physical but like it gets like a little intense you know and um
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but yeah but angela after that point we was doing like good for a while and stuff and then i went to
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um australia and um did you make me go to a brothel i didn't make i didn't want to go
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i actually didn't go to the brothel which is funny yeah basically i got dragged out because i don't know
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anything in australia so there's no we're gonna go have my boy my boys and then they went to a
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brothel but i didn't know it though they just just like like the leader was uh i ain't gonna say his
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name oh don't snitch on him he's from the kick team though and he don't don't don't don't don't
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don't snitch on him i'm not i'll just switch with it come on come on friends they went to a sex
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problem yeah okay but i didn't know though they we got dragged there fine come on friends went to a
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sex problem in australia okay they didn't know honestly i'll vouch he didn't know what it was
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yeah let me be honest i don't even know what it was yeah so my location is on so why would i just go
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there with you when they when they came back and told me what the brothel i was like what the
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what happened once you got there though nothing like i was sitting on the couch i was like what the
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i realized what it was i was like holy the ggs like because my location on so you know like she's
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gonna see where i'm at and she instantly knew what it was and i was like and she just takes you
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like you're in a brothel i'm like what is a brothel i'm like what is this and then i realized what it
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was when i was like fully in there and then yeah and then what and then we got in a huge argument you
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know i tried to let my boys talk to her i talked to her a little bit like i was just vouching straight
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up i was like yo like i'm gonna be honest nothing happened yeah i was on the couch the whole time so
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and then uh that was really the downfall of it so after that it's just been like we've been like
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on and off and like they're on and off and then he moved to miami she's in la she's staying at his
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current house right now yeah um they share how long ago was the brothel situation december december
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we went to our show yeah so that was like fresh and then um so we started to pick back pick things
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back up you know we got back together in a way you know well she you know i was kind of committed
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to her she was committed to me and then i came down here and um i met this girl named brie you know
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and um she drugged me you know she drugged me and she she and things happened so they went they
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went on a boat tonight one night no uh they went on a boat and then he got with brie right and then
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um because she already knew everything now so i could just say oh yeah so she got brie and then
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after they after he got his nut off he basically texted i want to have kids with you uh the girl's
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name is wait it wasn't the same that she posted her story jane that oh yeah to jane which is
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i feel bad hey like hey like i want to have kids with you like i want a family one day you're my
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girl like all that and then and then and then basically she found out because the brie girl
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told jane hey i ended up fucking your man on the boat all right no and then and then and then
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basically what happened was um jane and cuffum were going at it on stream and cuffum was like hey
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look i was just going through my and you know i cheated on you just because of my grandma my brother
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you know um that was his excuse my grandma died yeah yeah i'm so sorry for your loss yeah
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when did you pass uh like two years ago wait i'm not laughing no i'm not laughing no but come on
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this no wait wait i thought she recently did no i'm on my lap r.i.p no no no she didn't no but cuffum
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that you so you remember she was special to you wait yeah she's really sure she was my rock in my life
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you know wait that okay i feel you i'm sorry for your loss i'm sure she's in heaven looking down on you
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being your guardian angel that's great cuffum what so you met your so your grandma passed before you
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met jane yeah so you as i said my grandma and my cousin my cousin died recently though okay okay okay
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so basically the passing of his family members is what he blamed for cheating i mean no that's not
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really i mean like it was really i didn't really cheat like i i was just like i was just like testing
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my manhood you know like i'm only 20 years old i'm gonna be honest i only got three bodies you know i was
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just a little by curious you know i just wanted to see how a different race felt uh i don't know
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he fucked a white girl okay my girlfriend is asian his girlfriend's chinese asian he's malaysian so um
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you know i just you know i just felt curious as a man you know i'm young so i'm gonna make mistakes
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and but i really fucked up in that and i'm trying to like you know show me like yeah like like you know
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nobody else mean nothing you know i wouldn't like you know like you know like try to get back
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okay we're almost there so you were he was fighting to get back with her i was on the phone too
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yeah he told me that she lied about shit during the relationship i won't air out because that's
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not aired out yeah i won't do that to you yeah unless you air out some shit about me on my life
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i'm gonna grab that and you know what i'm talking about too um so they were trying to fix it so we
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were just recently in vegas and i don't know why she's so retarded she went on ig live when she was
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in his vegas hotel and we tried to sneak from me yeah he flew the girl out but you flew out jane
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you did it's leaked the community finds out everything chat did y'all not know what they knew
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what a couple of my life they knew yes i like the accountability part of it where you were like
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i made a mistake yeah i told her i don't seem like to be understanding the reason why you made
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the mistake and you regret it yeah nothing like that what now that's that's why i'm like stuck
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at you know i don't know like what to like you know because like that was like the first mistake
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i ever made being with her that long you know so it was just like you know the first thing ever
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the last thing ever but okay can i ask you a question you're my brother and i'm gonna ask
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why did you cheat bro i didn't i didn't like i didn't like cheat bro it was just more like uh
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like it didn't mean nothing to me like it was just yeah but it's still cheating i'm gonna explain why
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and i'm gonna get you to admit it no yeah i saw a video of her licking your face so i could tell you
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guys were laid up together right so what i'm trying to ask is that wasn't me but all right oh wasn't
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no it wasn't what who else is black with buck teeth and crooked eyes with dreads anyways um
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why i want to know because i don't cheat and i never cheated so i want to know why you cheated
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i don't know what it's like to cheat because bro we was like really like own and off bro so it
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wasn't even like cheating it was just like was she with other guys or no no that's that's the thing
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about it she was just she was loyal to me is it hard to say that you cheated or do you truly believe
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that you didn't yeah it's kind of hard to say but i don't i don't like think like i feel like
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cheating is like yeah i feel like cheating is like an emotional connection okay i agree with that
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that's one part of it right i think i think it comes back to the communication you're having with
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the person you're dating and are you on the same page yeah that's what it was i think it was on the
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same page and not to do anything and then you know chat tell me if i'm tripping okay but and you
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tell me if i'm tripping too if you're in a long-time relationship with someone you guys have
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love and all this stuff and let's just say like and i'm not i've never done this but like let's
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say you go to like let's say you go fuck like a prostitute for money and i want to get a quick
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nut off or whatever like 100 bucks boom you get your little nut off or whatever um i wouldn't
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really say that's cheating would you what are the rules of a relationship yeah yeah i guess you're
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right it just matters i mean and also like why wouldn't your partner be able to give you that
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okay okay so there's a sense of urgency i get that no but that's not it's not like that every
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time i'll be honest if a girl cheats on me yeah that's it that's a no that's a no no well i think
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it's different you know it you're pointing no by virtue of the fact what no no if a girl
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cheats emotion okay what i'm going to say is that i like that idea of like if my partner did that to
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me would i find it offensive and if so then let me not do it i like that standard as like a way to
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check in with ourselves yeah um but what were you saying would make it different i'm saying if a guy
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cheats we just think with our horniness and our penis like right no you're not thinking it's more
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like the feeling yeah we want to get our nut off yeah yeah but after my nut i don't know i don't want
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to talk to the girl or touch her i regret it yeah damn like i feel like shit yeah but i'm saying like
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for girls it's different like you guys are emotional you know what i'm saying
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no it's true no come on men are emotional too no we are but to our woman we love i'm not emotional
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to a random girl yeah yeah yeah i don't care about random girls but a girl i love and that is my home
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i'm gonna be emotional towards for sure yeah um for girls you guys are so emotional in general as it
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is i just feel like it's a lot different you know especially women can have yeah sex and not be
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emotionally attached really yes if y'all get like some good dick like it's ggs i'm gonna break my
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heart like it was really like i'm like damn like like like he gave her some good like then she want
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to go back for more and more and more and it's like they're gonna fall in love you know ggs so
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that's why girls can't do it like you know so that's why i feel like you know it's a bad thing
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because like i mean i mean if you really think about it being the one that has multiple wives you
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never heard of a wife having multiple husbands yeah i'll think about that i'm gonna let that
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happen yeah no that's never happening fact men supposed to have multiple wives but and then the
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wife supposed to be like give her everything to the man you know that's how it's supposed to be
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like that's why that's why i used to believe in but like obviously you know where i'm at in america
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who taught you that wait it's a country that does that which country is it is it dubai right
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dubai i think so dubai it's not one country no it's dubai isn't it well it's it's like cultural
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and religious oh it is see yeah oh they're saying africa cup them hello i guess africa
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regardless staying back on topic because obviously we're just yeah yeah but cheating journal is no
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good we all know that um have you ever been cheated on yes actually by who an ex-boyfriend
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oh no so what happened no fun long distance uh how'd you find out the truth always comes out
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always that is one thing i will say always that is true always we're inherently like not good liars
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and the thing is that like even if you keep it quiet so now it's even easier right we have all
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of these profiles and there's so much that is like public you can see so much yeah you know even like
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taking social media out of the conversation we communicate so much even with our silence
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that's true so like all of a sudden you cheated and then you meet up with your partner and you're
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like a little nervous because you know yeah oh and then you're giving off a vibe oh yeah and they're
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like what's wrong is that how she knew when you cheated nothing so we it's very hard to be
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like an actual good liar that is true i'm a terrible liar i got caught like i was doing some
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things like i was doing things i never did like i got i was waking up next to her like i did like 50
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push-ups before i went what the fuck i was doing like crazy shit i was like fucking like i was
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shouting like four times a day like usually i only shout one time a week but like it was just why to get
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the penis yeah i was trying to like make sure she couldn't tell that's the anxiety like yeah so it was
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just so much shit she just did why would you do that no shit you're gonna give it away while doing
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that it was just scrubbing your dick four times a day bro you just nervous bro like you know you
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just nervous yeah anyways all right you didn't need to do that crazy stuff for her to know i saw
00:21:36.420
you know a little thing like a little smile yeah when you were talking oh yeah no she she knew bro
00:21:42.160
oh my gosh she's like she's a hawk like she she literally stalks me yeah she yeah nah nah she she's
00:21:46.640
a hawk she's she's everything i know she does because she's always calling him and texting about
00:21:49.860
little things yeah that's crazy bro she's in community too great let me show her this truth
00:21:54.600
always comes out yeah i'll show this clip real quick i didn't fucking do the update bro oh yeah
00:22:00.360
by the way me and jane broke up tell them tell them yes they were toxic oh so that's not toxic is
00:22:10.700
that toxic no i don't like that why don't you like the term toxic i mean you were asking her to talk
00:22:17.380
about something that must feel very embarrassing yeah that's what it was that's what i'm saying it
00:22:20.940
wasn't really toxic but i pushed her emotions but i feel like physical physical violence never allowed
00:22:26.320
but i will say one thing can i be honest with you and you guys can call me crazy if my girl let's say
00:22:31.160
i had a girl that i was married to with children bro and if she ever cheated on me my own house with
00:22:36.160
my kids under my roof i think i really might spaz and kill her no no no sorry oh my god no it'll be a
00:22:43.000
hard it'll be like a bro i ain't gonna lie bro like you it'll break you you cannot blame like
00:22:46.580
bro think about it bro like i don't oh yeah that was a little too far not like legitly killer you
00:22:51.620
know what i mean though yeah i'd be pissed yeah you'll yeah you'll do it you'll just do a dirty
00:22:55.140
like you ain't even remember you just said she's the mother of your kids right yeah so it's a lot
00:23:00.000
different too it gets tough and you have to think about your kids because it's gonna mess the kids up
00:23:04.680
a little bit you know a lot of it actually depending on how the kid handles it yeah i just don't i don't
00:23:09.160
know uh yeah i feel yeah but okay so it's hard to think about that about being cheated on yeah
00:23:15.240
how painful it would be and you just went through that yeah how do you move on
00:23:18.460
bro you don't understand bro i don't even think like i could i don't even i don't think i can i'm
00:23:25.120
capable of having like a true love like because i think there's always gonna be someone that has an
00:23:29.480
intention with me or like somebody's gonna have to always someone's always be with me for the wrong
00:23:34.160
reason oh yeah for sure oh i don't want to think that that seems the saddest you see okay i mean i
00:23:40.640
get the challenge i can see how it must be really difficult to know to to know if it's genuine or
00:23:48.400
not i think that's what you're saying how do i know if they're how how do you know that is that is
00:23:53.000
true i know he's been around i don't think nobody could really help him like to give him advice on
00:23:57.220
that bro he has been around now i've talked to like drake a couple times about yeah he gives pretty
00:24:01.660
like yo i'm like a lot though dude you've been around it for what four years now yeah i've seen
00:24:06.680
every girl lol so like what do you think is the common similarity to every girl um i just think
00:24:14.160
they just see how like how nice you is like damn you just be bro you just be like giving out stuff
00:24:21.740
like and you just be like yeah like you know they see so you said you know they're gonna be
00:24:26.700
interested in money yeah and what else followers yeah lifestyle whatever whatever when you meet a
00:24:32.620
girl how what percentage of the conversation and your image and what they see from you has to do with
00:24:39.600
how much money and how many followers you have well i'm not too fond of it but like if i like let's
00:24:43.420
just say like i slide a regular girl's dm so i'm not saying a regular girl is like it's a bad thing
00:24:48.720
like yeah like a girl that has like she's either in college less than how many followers what's the
00:24:53.640
metric let's let's put it okay a regular girl to me is a girl that's in college or a girl that works
00:24:58.080
at a regular job has a regular life right no off no internet no internet at all yeah which probably
00:25:05.260
we're gonna get into that um but uh i dm them right like i also quickly want to show my lifestyle
00:25:10.360
show my nice stuff my luxurious stuff um not even like intentionally try to flex just do it just
00:25:17.820
because that's how i am as a like that's what i like that's how i live and then i'll so i'll be so
00:25:22.120
quick to be like all right i'll pay for like your apartment for the year you come you know like i don't
00:25:25.860
mind doing that or like buy you a car like that's you know what i mean but like what's the motivation
00:25:30.540
to do that fulfilling void okay and then i mean if you do that and you start putting that out there
00:25:40.560
that image of yourself that version that part of who you are then you know you're attracting the
00:25:46.780
person who wants that over everything else yeah so like the first interaction is based on that and
00:25:53.000
then it'll be really hard for you to know if they're interested in the other parts of you
00:25:56.000
she's right so how do i find true love so don't pay for their apartment forget that let's just say
00:26:02.660
i don't do that or like don't start with that is that you can i even follow you do with your
00:26:07.120
friends facts i even do what are they saying i even do with my friends i'll do my friends too
00:26:11.600
like i will cripple my friends i i'm not gonna lie i've crippled him too if you do that you're
00:26:15.880
telling them i crippled you before like you for your money okay i cripple my friends all the time i
00:26:20.620
baby them all the time like they should be more on their shit they should be working harder they
00:26:23.320
should be doing more and i kind of cripple them by giving them opportunities that they really
00:26:28.400
don't deserve truly well i like that word opportunities it's something cool to share
00:26:32.940
with the people you love opportunity the greatest thing yeah but that's different than handing out
00:26:37.140
money and shit but okay i've given my close friends opportunities jobs etc but some of them just are
00:26:45.100
spoiled i guess you could say because of just how generous i am and how much i love to give to my
00:26:50.080
people yeah and they kind of will take advantage of that and like i don't yeah but like i don't want
00:26:54.860
they shouldn't be taking advantage they should just be like okay i'm that's cool i got aid in to
00:26:59.200
throw me this you know this extra like shortcut and they should just be wanting it like more i don't
00:27:05.620
know yeah they they've been around they know they know what's up like they yeah it's addictive and
00:27:10.400
it's nice let's be clear i just love it money is important and it's really nice to have like i'll
00:27:14.920
tell you what i could buy myself a really nice car a really nice watch or like a really nice
00:27:18.740
something that's for me i get bored of it i don't like it in like a day but i can go do some
00:27:23.600
crazy life-changing shit for one of my friends or close family members or etc like someone that
00:27:28.640
like even like a someone in need and it'll it'll make me feel like i have the greatest feeling in
00:27:33.220
my heart like it'll be like oh my god this is amazing like it sounds like your love language
00:27:36.680
is gift giving that's my that's my love language yeah yeah yeah but it doesn't have to so so if you
00:27:42.320
think about the love languages the people whose love language is gift giving has more to do with
00:27:47.380
like the kick you get out of just thinking of someone what they would like and being like very
00:27:53.080
generous it doesn't have to be tied to money yeah true i guess so maybe that's a challenge for you
00:27:57.620
to take on like how can i give gifts give gifts without money special things that maybe are like
00:28:03.000
experiences and aren't as related to money yeah thinking like what is that yeah i guess you're
00:28:08.380
right maybe like a nice card yeah yeah like writing someone a thoughtful card chat would you guys rather
00:28:13.980
chat would you guys rather me write you a thoughtful card or uh give you guys a lamborghini
00:28:18.340
those are not the only two options come on have your have your um fans followers what do you call
00:28:26.680
them uh i call them my my community my chat my supporters your community have them give you
00:28:30.760
ideas of what you can do they're actually really helpful yeah but they tell me straight up like
00:28:34.440
hey and i'm gonna be honest now i feel like it's your time to grind as your time to you know
00:28:38.400
stream as much as you possibly can and i don't think you need to pick one or the other i don't
00:28:42.440
think it has to be like all grind and stream no or love that's true i guess yeah you've been quiet
00:28:48.900
i have to go to the bathroom i have to use the restroom y'all all right i'll tell you one thing
00:28:53.100
so you know the thing about the um you know that we said about the friend thing and stuff i was
00:28:57.200
i'm his friend you know i will say i i i didn't like you know since 2020 since i met him i haven't
00:29:03.200
really did nothing for like myself like on my channel personally but i feel like i still like was
00:29:07.940
there with him you know like you know you know uh contributing to the team in a way you know stuff
00:29:12.680
like that so that's why i'd be confused i don't know it might just be me but i was like i'm like
00:29:16.740
what the fuck i'm like when people like random people like oh you got a handout i'm like i was
00:29:22.620
there in them calls eight hours real quick real quick sorry jesus mad because he's saying we talk
00:29:26.880
shit about him on stream about right now he's saying you guys talk shit about my stream on my
00:29:32.480
stream do we talk shit do we even talk about a stream no see that's another friend that's not that's
00:29:37.240
the friend i need to be here like he's really mad because he's saying i was i y'all are talking
00:29:41.920
when did i talk shit wait y'all give me the clip told me when i when we called him or no
00:29:46.180
when we called him oh oh when you called him you said fuck this quill shit yeah yeah you did
00:29:51.320
no i mean we were just trolling i was just trolling him bro only the drake future sleeping thing oh
00:29:56.460
that's what we pulled up we pulled up the jake future all right i'll leave y'all talking about that
00:29:59.060
but he's pissed oh i don't know yeah just just just call jesus stop being soft bro just call him right
00:30:03.200
while you're in the bathroom no he's just stop being soft but yeah so often tell me so yeah hard
00:30:08.980
when people are painting you as like yeah like writing along yeah but like i feel like like in
00:30:14.760
the way like obviously like i didn't do it on my like i i have i wasn't going live on my channel
00:30:19.180
where i wasn't dropping like youtube videos like on my you know on my channel but like i was still
00:30:23.440
like there like contributing to the team in a way if you get what i'm saying so when people be like
00:30:28.600
oh hand out hand out i'm like i didn't just met him when he got rich like we used to we used to do
00:30:33.500
wagers and sometimes he used to say like i didn't want to air none out but because you know he got
00:30:37.960
it now so he used to be like yo cuff i gotta do something bro like is it cool if i see you 100
00:30:42.040
instead of 250 shit like there's no stuff like that people don't know that though so they just like
00:30:45.840
i don't know like it it really like mentally like detroit like draining people like oh hand out hand
00:30:51.420
i'm like bro we both don't question your value but you know you've given something yes like i know
00:30:57.100
like now i don't like to mention it but like when it's just like so many people like you know
00:31:00.220
i was gonna have new supporters that come along and stuff so they like supporters don't know him
00:31:04.600
when he got like you know big and famous so like they don't understand like the grit and the grind
00:31:09.180
that i really did do which i will say like i've been saying i haven't did it on my channel personally
00:31:13.620
but i contributed to the team you know well it sounds like your channel is important to you
00:31:18.240
what's getting in the way of you well that's why i grind into that yeah that is which that's why
00:31:23.340
um glad he i'm glad him in the community be on like you know all of our ass yeah they're on our
00:31:28.520
they're on us which is great like they will straight keep you honest bro i'll be honest with
00:31:33.140
you when i went to australia they bullied me because of like oh yeah they bullied us and like
00:31:37.780
i had a crazy month after that and then like honestly i just feel like since then i've just been
00:31:42.240
having a different mindset i would say i slowed down in terms of consistency i was going to have like
00:31:47.180
every day for like a whole month but it was just so it was really hard to keep up with but
00:31:50.800
because i'm not like people usually are like on straight drugs that do that like
00:31:54.420
yeah i don't know cocaine like we're not i don't do that shit like i've been working out like actually
00:31:58.300
locked in but uh anyways i've just been putting out you know in my opinion chat's gonna just dick
00:32:04.720
suck and be weird i think i've been putting out great content recently and i've been having a lot
00:32:09.440
of fun with it since i got back in australia um but they they they push us but i think sometimes
00:32:15.800
it's a little bit od yeah um like it gets a little weird like we all don't go live like
00:32:21.060
one of our family members would be in the community oh yeah no no no it's insane if i don't go live
00:32:25.580
they riot and that's you know and they'll just go crazy it's crazy oh you're laughing but uh it's it's
00:32:31.220
it's it's fucked yeah i know like same thing as if eight of them yeah that's the thing that's the
00:32:35.860
thing it's so bad for my mental and like i don't know how i manage it that's why i'm so desensitized
00:32:41.300
like bro you're gonna like i'll like i'm desensitized like i don't know what's like
00:32:46.840
like i i'll laugh at shit that i should not be laughing at because my brain is so fucked up from
00:32:50.580
them what if you didn't read the comments while you're streaming impossible we're live streamers
00:32:57.040
so we have to cater to them you know they're gonna put us in this category that we like stay away from
00:33:01.160
like they just be spending like ebooks or kekwas yeah yeah we don't want that yeah something else
00:33:06.620
i'm not gonna blame them fully though like the chat is who the streamer is yeah and i made them
00:33:13.020
this way yeah you know i got to develop them i never thought of that yeah i i mean that just
00:33:17.780
means that i'm a fucked up guy if i know you're racist i just think i just think it's important
00:33:22.540
that you were you need to i think what can help you get through it is to like ground yourself getting
00:33:28.080
really clear about what your value is and what you're doing like for you for example what is the
00:33:32.700
work that you're doing how do you quantify and value what you're doing with aiden so that when
00:33:38.420
someone comes and says you know you're just going along for the ride or whatever it is they tell you
00:33:42.640
you can hear them but really know what your value is and honestly that's why cheeser should be here
00:33:49.060
as well yeah if you got another streamer who's honestly he's in our group basically he's in the
00:33:56.200
same limit as him they just they have so much potential with my resources i give them i help them
00:34:01.300
out with like i said i give completely but my resources they could use they have so much
00:34:05.040
potential to be bigger get more money and do things that are more fulfilling for them and
00:34:08.760
their communities right which is the ar lowest community that we all share right which is great
00:34:12.540
by the way chat w's in the fucking chat we love you guys but but they genuinely like can go harder
00:34:17.340
and i just think they're in like a crippling position that they get paid just basically to do
00:34:22.360
bare minimum and i was that way for a while too but i you're supposed to like kind of take what
00:34:27.320
you're being paid or take what what you're kind of making and just put and put it more into this
00:34:31.660
so like you get more out of it if that makes sense which they can do right i think maybe you
00:34:35.480
need to get a little uncomfortable yeah that's it like when you once once you know it can either
00:34:40.500
come from like being uncomfortable by what people are telling you or just deciding like this is
00:34:44.640
feeling like something's missing yeah and now what i will say in the last year i've been i've been
00:34:50.820
trying more even cheeser he's been doing like actual like content like stuff now like we haven't
00:34:55.220
been trying more like i i used to go to like street takeovers i used to be in my house i didn't even
00:35:00.180
like leaving my house like i used to sit but lately you guys have not been no like i'll say cheeser
00:35:04.740
been doing like some good what what has he done lately i mean like at least planned content you know
00:35:08.540
it's like he's showing like he's trying you know in a way you get what i'm saying like if it like
00:35:13.640
if it doesn't hit it just doesn't hit you know you gotta just find that no no i was i was actually
00:35:17.300
proud of him to do the iro today yeah but i i i think that like you guys could just be so much
00:35:24.560
bigger and better and so what i was saying was like if there's a night like where i can't go live
00:35:29.480
and they don't go live it kind of pisses me off because it's like yo like if i'm not going live
00:35:36.980
tonight one of you got to kind of step in and do it for the community because they sacrifice and do
00:35:41.060
so much for us and have you ever told them yes many times i'm like yo guys like i'm not gonna lie
00:35:46.020
if i'm not going live tonight one of you spark go live and just the community won't bitch they'll
00:35:50.840
be happy they'll be like all right and you're not gonna lie whatever cool it's okay we'll watch
00:35:54.960
cheeser or cuff him or convi tonight convi does it a lot which i respect con for a lot because i've
00:35:58.880
told convi and ever since i told convi he he does it almost every time like yo convi i'm not gonna
00:36:02.920
lie tonight he's like i got you like i'll do it bro you remember that one time though when i used to
00:36:06.380
go live after you yes live every day yes you was mad at that though you can't lie to you that was back in
00:36:11.640
2021 yeah but yeah you know why because we weren't talking we weren't close so i looked at it
00:36:16.100
still like no no i was mad at you at that time though in a way it was weird that was when we
00:36:21.000
weren't talking i know but i was like but like we were kind of beefing at that point yeah but it was
00:36:25.080
still like contributing to because you were flirting with stacy no it wasn't yes it was yes it was
00:36:29.460
and i was there what the fuck i was there to help her bro i helped you out
00:36:34.700
wait don't say i was flirting with stacy that's weird don't say that you just said i was flirting
00:36:41.620
with stacy what the fuck like come on you know why you weren't you weren't you weren't yeah you
00:36:46.080
can't be saying that weird so they don't think it's weird oh don't be saying that dude oh yeah but
00:36:52.700
all right so look obviously now i want you guys to be going live yeah right back then i was just upset
00:36:58.020
when you were doing that because we weren't talking i don't think we talked for like two
00:37:00.580
months and you were just going live as soon as i'd end secondly yeah right and it was just like what
00:37:04.660
the fuck come like that's not genuine like we're not even talking right now i looked at it as weird
00:37:08.120
but bro i fucking love you you're my brother at the end of the day and like i always wanted to go
00:37:12.000
live i'm just saying on nights i don't go live i would just appreciate if they would kind of step in
00:37:16.220
and do that's true that is true you say that but it doesn't happen no i ain't live but look
00:37:22.040
i'll give you an example three times i throw tomatoes at us if you're not live i'll give you an example
00:37:26.080
but that's when you have to again come back to connecting with the value you bring forth you
00:37:31.380
know that you do important stuff here but i'll give you an example yeah like him coming tonight
00:37:36.840
and be on my stream i count that as yo chat y'all can vouch him coming on my stream we're going to
00:37:41.960
do something afterwards as well you know some irl shit like that's that counts because he's coming
00:37:46.820
and he's making like you're you're coming and you're fucking with me and this counts honestly
00:37:50.420
but uh but all right bro this is that's that's what i'm saying that's what i feel like i've been
00:38:03.620
doing all these years it's just i haven't been doing nothing on my channel like i know i've been
00:38:07.180
lazy like solo like basically you know what i'm saying so so start streaming the gym workout start
00:38:12.160
streaming basketball bro i'll play basketball with you every day you stream it yeah we're gonna
00:38:16.860
play basketball we're gonna play it every day yeah we play every day now yeah we're gonna get it
00:38:21.140
yeah i'm gonna stream it look the same facts talk about the curse all right i have a weird curse to
00:38:28.160
me every girl that i've associated with including yeah literally every girl after i'm kind of done
00:38:35.380
with them they make an only fans i'm not joking so like it's it's a curse he's really not it's not
00:38:42.120
a curse it makes sense why they got close to fame they liked it and it's the easiest channel to
00:38:47.200
continue down that path on their own without you like i'll be honest his the recent girl he's like
00:38:52.500
the recent recent girl you know the one he talked to you about um so while she was with them she was
00:38:56.820
wearing like baggy clothes she was just dressed like a guy but now since she kind of knows she fucked up
00:39:02.400
she's back in them little tight shorts and shit like you know it's just that shit is weird she
00:39:06.480
didn't make her only fans but she's like she's like bringing that that that energy so yeah i find
00:39:11.320
i find it weird too like i've seen it you know i've seen everything he's so weird but what do you
00:39:16.640
make of the curse yeah i just maybe wrong people choosing yeah so do you have a criteria for the girls
00:39:24.760
you date yeah what is it i'll be honest it's super hard to be my girlfriend like it comes with a lot
00:39:30.240
but you gotta be mentally strong because of them yeah um you gotta be mentally strong because i'm a
00:39:35.420
streamer at the end of the day i'm going seven eight hours pretty much every day like you know
00:39:40.760
what i mean like it's it's a lot it comes a lot um it's it's a lot to be honest what looks what
00:39:48.680
else what's in the criteria i mean yeah i like girls that look good yeah okay one thing he's not
00:39:54.820
gonna say but he really like when a girl like cook and clean or like yeah hell yeah like clean up
00:39:59.440
hell yeah cook and clean for sure i'm very traditional because you know he like because
00:40:02.880
you know he's the man of the house obviously he gonna pay all the bills that they don't gotta
00:40:06.040
worry about nothing you know what i'm saying so like if a girl like lazy when she has everybody
00:40:09.940
worries about something though yeah i like all right i know this sounds so fucked up but i like
00:40:14.720
a girl to kind of like be there when i end wake up to she'll cook me food she'll clean she'll like
00:40:21.560
clean my setup um let's see and then if i ever like she kind of just like stays home i like that i don't
00:40:28.060
know okay and what would you admire in her like when you think of this girl and you're like you
00:40:32.840
know i love her or what i like the most is what qualities would she have being a traditional house
00:40:39.860
wife yeah okay that's what i want that's the most attractive thing to me i mean they had a 10 million
00:40:45.080
but if she hasn't met you and you haven't paid for all this stuff then i gotta get her what is she
00:40:49.440
doing before is she someone else's housewife no i guess you're right yeah i kind of take them
00:40:55.940
away from that i make them live for me damn which is so fucked up it's wrong a lot of sacrifice it's a
00:41:00.720
lot and it's wrong because at the end of the day everyone's got to live their own lives be
00:41:04.040
independent but i admit that and i know that but uh that's what i want it's fucked up i think that's
00:41:10.480
what every guy wants i don't think it's fucked up i think you can get there but i think you need to be
00:41:14.200
you need to think about the process of creating that with someone yeah as opposed to like you
00:41:21.500
know taking someone out of their lives and putting them into yours entirely yeah but i have like rules
00:41:25.820
that like a regular boyfriend i would say have the jacket like vouch probably and maybe you can't do
00:41:29.280
what you can like like for example like i don't want my girl going out um like no no no no no not
00:41:35.120
just going out in general going out to like clubs without me there okay like i'm cool or like you
00:41:40.420
know what i mean like i don't it's not i don't trust her i just don't trust guys i don't trust
00:41:43.960
weird men that could just do weird shit you know what i mean like i just maybe maybe it's an
00:41:49.360
insecurity thing i don't know if it is or not but i just i trust her i just don't really trust
00:41:54.140
weird guys at clubs because i hear about what happens all the time especially in miami
00:41:57.900
fair enough yeah but but she can go out i'll go out with her i don't mind going out with her
00:42:02.480
every time i don't care okay what else about her what's in that criteria um told you like
00:42:07.980
traditional housewife uh i like to be someone you want somebody who values like home life
00:42:14.320
home life for sure yeah because i'm looking for a wife and to have kids with okay i don't want a
00:42:18.700
girl that's going to be going out without me i don't want to go doing shit you know what i mean
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like i don't want certain shit i'm also i love privacy especially because them they made me love
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the private shit um the few times that you get it i don't really get it so like i don't really want
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to be on camera a lot like as much as possible because it's like they're laughing they know oh
00:42:41.060
they know um 24 7 yeah oh they know it's called from they know yeah they be tracking jets and
00:42:47.460
shit like they know let me tell you where that is i flew private from just like two days ago from
00:42:53.760
are you the plane tracker what do you mean the guy who's tracking the jets no did you hear there's a
00:42:59.680
person in florida who's tracking like taylor swift's plane oh he was probably in the community
00:43:03.940
i'll check this shit out no it's not me oh no check this shit out right so i'm sitting here on
00:43:11.940
a plane with cuffum we're just sitting there there is somebody in my community live tracking
00:43:16.300
oh don't worry oh don't worry it's gonna land in two hours and it shows the live shit on a private
00:43:21.740
plane yeah they be like how bro i never knew you could do that right like bro but uh yeah i don't i
00:43:32.840
don't know they they find out everything every little inch of me they will find it every time
00:43:38.680
um which at the end of the day i'm really blessed and grateful to have that because like they fuck
00:43:43.740
with me that hard and like it makes me really like be like oh shit like i fuck with you guys too like
00:43:47.420
that's amazing i'm grateful but sometimes i would just like a little bit of privacy so a girl that's
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that really you know values privacy you know yeah yeah they said i should call jane call her
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should i call her call her let's just see what she's saying all right let's just i'm just talking
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to her briefly now hold on hold on what are you gonna say plan for it before you i mean i want to
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just say that i spoke to it i got help you know i spoke to a therapist you know i think i'm a better
00:44:14.680
man now i think i'm ready to go the man she want me to be we need a few more sessions
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yeah no i'm i'm rooting for you i'm rooting for you i can tell you're a good guy yeah
00:44:25.880
yeah he is a good guy right try he's good with kids too he's a really really really good kids
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and you're really bad don't you just leak something no way you leak that screen whatever
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that was what was it your pain for real you hit matt you leaked the message screen oh jesus oh you
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know what's gonna be the community great all right i'm just calling briefly i'm just telling you
00:44:51.360
now let's call it briefly hello hey uh i just want to talk to you real quick i'm on stream so i just
00:45:02.120
wanted to like just speak to you briefly hi oh yeah i'm i'm with a therapist right now i'm getting
00:45:12.800
help i know what's your thoughts oh yeah this is i want you to say hi to her hi hi how are you jane
00:45:25.760
i feel like i know a little bit about you already but we've never met um i would love to see a
00:45:34.120
therapist like off of stream like i like like where it was going okay cool and like what you were
00:45:41.980
telling them i'll give you my contact info i would actually love to take your contact off camera
00:45:49.760
cool cool you can find me on instagram else i don't know um do you have a question for us jane
00:45:58.340
something you want us to talk about since you were liking where this was headed
00:46:01.560
um i think you should talk about how like because i don't think he really like talked about it like
00:46:12.860
how he can separate his relationship with his online work i think that would be good yeah that's
00:46:20.700
hard for me too like how he can balance those two it's not balanceable with our community yeah i
00:46:26.000
swear to god it's not that's how they don't feel like that is a big it's impossible it's impossible
00:46:31.160
i'm sorry how supportive i've been with him with his work i feel like he makes it very impossible
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no it is it is i'm not even joking with our community it's impossible to hide anything yeah
00:46:42.560
so i tried to she don't get it i'm not even joking i don't get it i think one of the biggest
00:46:46.480
like aren't you guys in control what content you guys do lol no we get ran no they literally run us
00:46:57.480
yeah i know this chat i will i'm about y'all literally roll my they run me bro and they run you too
00:47:03.980
damn yes easy to say hard to do trust literally i'm telling you wrong
00:47:14.980
no but okay here here's a little tweak so you just called jane because they told you
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yeah yeah literally literally yeah yeah so they're running you i see what you're saying
00:47:25.720
it's crazy she just literally just yeah she saw it literally just it's true but so and and i get
00:47:35.440
that you're gonna continue to stream and everything but what if you before you got here decided i want
00:47:41.140
to talk to jane on your own yeah and then you're here and you're saying i want to talk to jane today
00:47:46.980
what do you guys do and they still give you your input but you do what you want to do man
00:47:50.600
it's hard because if we don't it doesn't work like that we're gonna just harass yeah it's bad
00:47:54.880
like bro if i say no like they already bro they already have all my addresses they know where i
00:48:00.880
live and shit like i'll be honest like i don't i don't really give a fuck i think in the back of
00:48:04.580
my head i'm like do i want to get swatted today all right i'm gonna just do what they want yeah i
00:48:08.060
don't feel like getting swatted so i just do what they want that's how i feel with my three-year-old
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yeah no yeah she runs me exactly yeah you get see you get you get it yeah see i told you jane it's not easy
00:48:19.500
i mean but isn't there some type of balance that should be given especially since like
00:48:26.360
what he wants like he said is a you know what he expects in a woman is a traditional
00:48:31.720
housewife cook clean and those are things that i love to do like for him out of like
00:48:39.460
the passion and love i have for him you know those are things that when she can vouch for yeah
00:48:45.340
that's true that's true that's true that i do from the bottom of my heart that only he knows
00:48:49.960
behind closed doors how come like with all the nothing things i allow because i don't prevent
00:48:58.840
him from doing things but i do as a woman still feel bothered by stuff you know and i feel like
00:49:05.100
what i get bothered by is really not unreasonable see what i tell her to do i tell her just don't
00:49:10.740
watch my stream like literally like just let my own line that's not no but it is guys i'll explain
00:49:16.220
why it's the solution guys job guys it's our we're entertainers at the end of the day let me explain
00:49:21.360
it don't watch the stream and you won't be upset that's what i say every day don't watch the stream
00:49:27.680
it's that simple don't watch the stream bro listen to this check this out movie actors do y'all
00:49:33.640
would you get upset like bro if cum was on set having sex or making out the girl that's like
00:49:38.540
yeah like bro come on bro it's the same shit literally what do you think is the thing that
00:49:43.260
you do that's upsetting to your relationships honestly if we're being honest like i trusted
00:49:49.420
him with his work you know and being in miami i supported it but then he went and did something
00:49:56.200
with someone that was supposed to be strictly for work so that's kind of my point you know
00:50:02.040
yeah um that was not a good excuse yeah yeah what the fuck was that excuse bro so that's where i
00:50:11.360
think you're better off owning up to a mistake yeah i definitely excuses yeah i know it bothers him
00:50:17.880
like what he did and like we've had our own conversations off camera and i do like actually
00:50:25.000
even with that happening i don't look at him like he's that person like as weird as it is to say
00:50:30.980
i don't think it's in his character to do something like that and you know like that's something that i
00:50:40.960
would like to look past but then in the future like for his work like i still want to be able to
00:50:49.540
support him without like with him like being able to give me the same reassurance with his job
00:50:55.900
i don't you know yeah so you want there to be some limits i just think and tell me if i'm wrong
00:51:03.180
and tell me tell me if i'm wrong jane this is aiden by the way hello i tell me tell me if i'm wrong
00:51:08.700
right like all right be honest i just feel like if you're a girl and you live under his roof and he
00:51:15.920
pays the bills and you know his job and you understand his job i feel like you should just
00:51:20.100
let him if he wants to fuck a girl on stream it shouldn't matter but he would never do that
00:51:23.280
are you serious yeah but i'm no no no sorry come on let's go back to that um all right a little
00:51:29.880
tip that i gave about holding yourself accountable to the same standard you're right you're right so
00:51:34.180
if you had a girl that was paying for whatever and would that just give her permission okay sure i
00:51:41.180
guess you're right that's wrong right so that's how it works if i was a woman who only wanted him for
00:51:48.640
who he was and his money then sure you can do whatever you want but what i want in him is
00:51:56.620
is him like you know like i love him as a person like he's my money and genuinely like if he
00:52:05.240
if he lost everything today i would be someone that he can always come to you know so i don't
00:52:11.580
look at him for his money i don't look at it like if he gave me a ultimatum and said i get to do
00:52:16.900
whatever i want but i get to do whatever i want on stream and then you can live the lifestyle you want
00:52:21.080
i would walk away okay yeah because she's a traditional girl she loves you for you yeah
00:52:26.640
no matter what it is he would give me it would feel right to walk away jane i like you yeah
00:52:33.760
i like you too yeah yeah she's yeah she's good i'll talk to you later though yeah yeah yeah all right
00:52:40.060
your turn all right so listen i'm gonna be honest your turn so you really want me to call that other
00:52:45.220
girl like bro i'll be honest like my mind is made up though like i'll be honest but me me like bro
00:52:51.260
like y'all like y'all like bro i'm gonna be honest why would you go against your instinct brother she
00:52:56.900
literally flew out and lied about where she was at and met up with her someone like bro like what
00:53:00.820
is the point i mean you could be it could be closure for what i'm already knowing with the closure
00:53:06.020
you didn't even talk to her about what's the point i mean it's whatever you feel like she said
00:53:11.080
there's no resolution to it though you know you know what i'm saying like there's no resolution
00:53:14.560
what's the resolution yeah what would be the point i mean i mean i like that you're making a
00:53:19.600
joyous face yeah no but like chat like real i catered you guys a lot but anyone that's saying
00:53:25.400
to call her what it what what what what is her like what is the sign like what do oh my god you
00:53:30.240
going against the army oh what are they saying yeah they're just all spamming what is that actually
00:53:35.180
some people said don't call okay yeah so you see like i'm gonna be honest because those are some
00:53:39.260
people that actually like have self-respect for themselves yeah thanks i feel it i feel that bro
00:53:44.140
see some people actually probably would fold and call yeah like in this situation that i'm in
00:53:49.220
yeah they really would they really would but i don't want to do that yeah oh yeah lico that's
00:53:55.440
facts you're right remember when i went to the airport to go stop the plane oh yeah i remember
00:54:01.720
that yeah yeah that was crazy yeah that's crazy did you yeah i did that girl yeah that's good
00:54:08.240
that's what you want to do bro you don't have to do it so yeah that was our situation so yeah i mean
00:54:14.640
in my situation i guess it's fixable or i'm trying to fix it yours is fixable that's your
00:54:19.260
yours you just done with i can tell like you're just like yeah i'm over it yeah you what's the
00:54:22.700
point you already got like you already know what you want type you know what's the point you just
00:54:26.720
looking for the next girl like trying to find your look for the next girl or no i'm not looking
00:54:31.380
anymore i don't really care it's just like whatever you just go in life if you find it i'll be
00:54:34.940
honest chat it's not happening for a minute i don't think it's not well i think what you're
00:54:38.120
gonna do before you look for the other girl is to prepare for how you want to look for the other
00:54:42.440
girl you want to know something you want to know something fucked up i was with this girl for a
00:54:45.960
long time i thought i was gonna marry and uh she told me that uh she had a plan to leave me after
00:54:52.660
she got her after i paid for her college like she told like somebody that hurt bro but i i was over
00:54:59.700
her i was over the relationship but that hurt when i found that out like two like a year or two
00:55:03.180
later that shit really hurt when was that i never told you it was well how many years ago because
00:55:08.820
i just know who i'll just say don't say the name out loud this person look oh wow yeah bro i was like
00:55:16.880
what the fuck i was like what the fuck yeah that that that me up daddy was crazy i won't lie that
00:55:25.500
fuck me up yeah people are gonna like your money for sure and the fame that you know thank you
00:55:34.040
jewish so that's like a plus but you really want to be paying attention to the other parts of you
00:55:40.580
that they like yeah i just gotta focus on myself right now i think and how um how would you
00:55:46.200
describe aiden apart from his like fame um what else makes him him oh that's what i'm saying like
00:55:56.080
um i feel like he just like even if he did have like stuff to give out he just still like would
00:56:01.100
try to give off stuff like he's just too nice like yeah he's just too nice he just like i don't know
00:56:06.140
like he just like let people know like he could do this so if somebody come around they gonna always
00:56:12.640
have back like oh you're gonna do this so like you're gonna do it like that's what you do you
00:56:16.900
know even if it's like on camera off camera like it don't matter like it's always like it's a
00:56:21.320
complete cycle so now when stuff like that happens now the day ones it's just like it's just hard
00:56:27.560
not everybody around him is a leech if you get what i'm saying like so it's just like yeah since
00:56:32.900
he's so generous everybody around him or everybody that's gonna be around him or come around him
00:56:37.600
is always gonna be like you know to the like to the outer public like always like trying to get
00:56:42.520
something so that's what i'll say but yeah he's a great guy though thanks god he's too nice
00:56:48.140
he was nice when we met in 2020 so i used to bitch him around but i uh i saved him from the streets
00:56:54.060
he was a uh no you were playing i saved you because he was losing every wage no no no i say i say i
00:56:59.720
had brawny it's okay you didn't you lost i had brawny it didn't matter i had brawny i got the viral
00:57:05.380
clip ha ha listen um i saved him from the streets he was scamming and oh my god selling drugs
00:57:12.460
um you know i saved them and shit well let's do some tts real quick so they can talk to us now
00:57:21.620
new tts oh my god they're about to be crazy bro taxis speech that's got to speak through the
00:57:28.540
speaker it's gonna be someone talking oh my god dude they're gonna be insane
00:57:40.180
but not playing oh there it is super mario tipped one dollar kafem is always grinding grinding his ass
00:57:51.660
what oh they're just mocking you for being grinding i guess i don't know lol
00:57:57.420
don't be weird chad all right ask some genuine questions or like um you know yeah genuine shit yeah
00:58:05.620
all right if we if we miss something out please remind us mm-hmm yeah
00:58:11.120
call her still yeah they just yeah see that's the peer pressure that's the peer pressure right there
00:58:18.740
and like nine times out of ten we'll fold but sometimes we'll stand our ground like you know
00:58:24.520
wait can you tell you the strategy why standing your ground can you diagnose me
00:58:28.240
i could but there's no need what is it when am i no i don't do that what am i i don't do that
00:58:35.320
there's a book called the dsm-5 and you have all the different mental health diagnosis on there
00:58:41.260
with the specific specific criteria you can go in there and auto diagnose yourself with
00:58:46.820
sfjis tipped one dollar you never explained why cuff and shnaggy were cut off for three plus months
00:58:53.380
the community deserves to know what happened i'll honestly i was i'm gonna be honest i was on lean
00:58:59.380
at that time so i was very emotional but you know i was going to you know i was going to some hard
00:59:02.980
shit oh yeah and y'all were kind of saying to doing too much and i asked you guys not to but i'll be
00:59:09.560
able to explain it in a month y'all ask me in a month i'll be able to tell y'all real shit like
00:59:12.800
oh i know yeah yeah for sure yeah yeah yeah i know i think i have bipolar syndrome or like some type of
00:59:20.740
like why what like what have you noticed that makes you think that not maybe not bipolar but like i have
00:59:28.160
how do i uh what other uh autism no i'm definitely a narcissist for sure um no no 100 i am i swear to
00:59:41.280
god i am i'm very narcissistic but i'm a nice narcissist how do you define narcissism
00:59:46.360
like what every everybody needs to be on the same shit i'm on like i do meet like everyone has to live
00:59:52.440
their life through me but it's not bad like because i really am good to people but like yeah
00:59:58.700
that generosity that coffin was talking about but honestly like i okay i feel like sometimes i feel
01:00:04.440
like i'm the main character i mean yeah you are but that's kind of your job i don't think you're
01:00:10.080
a narcissist but you play the job you play the role too much it changes how you actually are outside the
01:00:15.500
job i mean i think you're conditioned to be very in tune with like people's perception and having them
01:00:20.760
like on board with you that makes sense but i don't know that that would make you a narcissist
01:00:24.380
legal can you give me the link please yeah i get you um nah not ego check it's definitely not ego
01:00:33.240
i definitely have some type of pride and ego though everyone knows but i'm saying you're supposed to
01:00:39.220
have ego and pride every human being should because that's confidence at the end of the day if you have
01:00:43.720
ego and pride in yourself that's like without ego and pride i wouldn't be who i am today i always
01:00:48.480
believed in myself i always believed i was the best i always believed that i was better than
01:00:51.060
everyone i graduated high school with and i truly manifested that you know i think i'm doing better
01:00:55.480
than most and that's not bad i'm not shitting on them but i had to think that it all matters about
01:00:59.320
when you level up in life and with the confidence and the ego it matters what you do with it if you're
01:01:04.100
a good person after you get it i don't really see anything wrong with having an ego
01:01:07.480
uh copy from desktop scene okay one second uh what people see people are saying still saying
01:01:18.260
el ego but like i don't think that is wait hold on uh browser is this it right here
01:01:23.380
uh no that's the chat i don't think it's desktop scene uh let me see real quick i think it's game
01:01:30.480
uh what the fuck leak are you sure is the tts messed up i don't know ps5 maybe oh here it is
01:01:58.840
that's mean yeah that's so weird emma tipped one dollar what is her thoughts on you guys
01:02:19.180
what are your thoughts on us yeah that is that's a good question um that is a good question i am
01:02:26.080
positively impressed with our conversation i think that you guys are really willing to get like
01:02:34.400
vulnerable and be honest and real just because our community got us like that yeah okay whatever
01:02:40.040
reason i don't think that's easy to do i think you guys do hard stuff this is like hard work wait so
01:02:45.680
it's not normal to like be able to like air this all out on live no no it's not oh god it's not
01:02:50.520
normal i wouldn't say that it's not common i don't think it's common no it's definitely not
01:02:55.580
yeah yeah so there's admiration i'm impressed so can you please diagnose me i won't get offended
01:03:02.380
do you know what i am though what do you mean what are you i'm asking you like can you give me
01:03:07.860
a diagnosis mentally what difference would it make in your life if you had a mental diagnosis
01:03:12.240
what can you if you if you wanted to i mean if we spoke more okay
01:03:26.120
it's a dollar to donate let me see uh is this lebron yeah william tipped one dollar aiden you
01:03:35.700
just gotta let love find you don't force anything like paying or shit like that you'll know when
01:03:40.560
it comes i love that yeah it's true good comment that was worth more than one dollar for sure
01:03:47.180
we're good but neon tipped one dollars talk to her about the indian boy no point
01:03:55.920
i like it that i'm her talk to her what are you supposed to doctor do i call you doc no i'm not
01:04:03.620
a doctor yeah i have a phd you don't have like specific pronouns you know you don't do that i have
01:04:08.620
no i mean i have like lmft as my title for like licensed marriage and family therapist
01:04:14.100
my pronoun is just she her yeah that's good no you gotta always ask bro people take that
01:04:21.400
seriously nowadays like it's crazy sorry that really so do you have clients that do that
01:04:26.380
they want to be called specific pronouns i haven't had too many no but it is um common
01:04:38.180
oh there's mellow you're being corny oh my god mellow mellow can you just like be normal for
01:04:45.480
us brother you need therapy you need it you and brachio god i need therapy bro and korea white
01:04:51.160
and xavi i don't care and korea white yeah like korea white you stay out all day and you just make
01:05:01.820
now look at y'all spamming bro like why is y'all like that happened 30 minutes ago
01:05:17.480
oh snake hose landed you did yeah well he landed like 30 minutes tell him to pull up here
01:05:34.980
to sketch tipped one dollar therapist tell aiden he needs to meditate
01:05:43.840
does that work i need to meditate does that even work meditation it kind of does
01:05:48.600
it does well i think it depends on what type of meditation
01:05:51.520
i've left my body before like astral projection
01:05:55.180
the fuck is that how do you do that um you don't know what that is
01:06:02.020
they're gonna come into psychedelics or some shit
01:06:06.040
no oh you did that when uh you was at macaroon party
01:06:17.300
she quit it she's gonna be she's gonna be a real estate agent
01:06:57.680
they make me feel like oh god i've never done anything good
01:07:05.720
no like they literally know what i'm talking about
01:07:38.340
your friends get very involved in your relationships
01:08:00.600
but it's different than having like your friends