Adin Live - January 18, 2023
Andrew Tate Answers Questions From Adin Ross
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Summary
On this episode of the podcast, Aiden and Andrew discuss the importance of innocence in sex and why it's one of the most important things a woman can have in a relationship. They also discuss Aiden's recent encounter with Steven Seagal and how it made him realize he was famous.
Transcript
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Andrew, there's a couple of questions I want to ask you.
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What would you do if you had to start over today?
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Do I start over as me or do I start over as me or do I start over as Joe Schmo?
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I think that that's going to continue to be the case up into the future.
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I think that things have now changed and if you can manage to get attention, you can somehow monetize it.
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If I wasn't the kind of person who was good at garnering attention or didn't want to get attention,
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then I would find somebody who is good at getting attention and I would align myself with them.
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And then I would either find a way to increase their monetization.
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Obviously being useful to them is one thing, but in my experience, outside of, of course, me,
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everybody else who's good at getting attention is fucking lazy and they don't want to do anything else.
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So I would let them be the face and I would be the blood and guts underneath and that's how I make a bunch of money.
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And you'll often see in the best business relationships, there's the face of the business,
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but the true business behind it are a bunch of people you don't know.
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So if I was Joe Schmo, I'd find somebody who was the face and got a lot of attention
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and I'd sit down with them somehow and say, look, here's how you'd make this.
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And they'd sit and go, yeah, maybe, but I'm busy.
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At what point, Andrew, did you realize that you were famous?
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One of the times it hit me in regards to how famous I was is when I was with Steven Seagal
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But two weeks ago, you knew you were more famous.
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I'm saying one of the times it occurred to me how famous I was.
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And by the way, Steven Seagal is a fucking hero.
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Anyway, he was saying, bro, I'd love you to take a picture of my son.
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I said, I heard they're talking about me in school.
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He goes, yeah, we did a whole class on you and your effect on culture, et cetera, et cetera.
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He said, Ulaanbaatar, which is the capital of Mongolia.
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So in Mongolia, in school, they're doing classes on me.
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Do you know how many partners you've had in all or is that too personal for you?
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I do know, but I don't think it's that important.
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I think as a man, sexual experience is very important.
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I think as a woman that the number one thing that men value in women is innocence.
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As a man, when you find a woman, if you were to build your ideal woman from the ground up,
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you want to be able to give her experiences and show her things.
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In every room, not just sexually, in everything else, you want to be the first person to take
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her first class, first person to put her in a five-star hotel, first person to take
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You want to be the guy to show her the world, right?
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So you like the idea of a woman with less experience so you can show her things.
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I think for a man like you said, we want innocent women.
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But if a woman, if you just ask a woman, she's going to want a man that has never had sex.
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They were asking virgin women if they want a virgin man.
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They want a man to guide them through the process.
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And that's why, even in very subtle ways, the reason women love scars on men, something
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So when I say it's not important, I take that back.
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As a man, sexual experience and sexual, the fact that you've been around the block to
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But also, I'm not going to say a number because a lot of dudes lie about the number, etc., etc.
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But I don't think that number is that important.
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And I also think the number of girls who's not just the sex is important.
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You need to have a whole bunch of girls who you've just slept with.
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You need to let that one chick who fucking did some shit, got away with some slice shit so
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no other bitch can finesse you, and you get to a point in life, and truthfully, as a
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man, you hit your peak in your late 30s, mid-40s, mid-40s.
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That's when you're most attractive to women, when you're a lot older.
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Every man's had their heart broken, but you have to...
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Any man who hasn't had their heart broken is lying.
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And there's people who have their heart broken and let it destroy them, and there's
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the men who have their heart broken, can't sleep, so they're in the gym three times a
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If you walk into the gym right now and find the fucking guy's training hardest, he's
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You're right, because when I broke up my girl, you know, I hit the gym too.
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I think that all life paths, to a degree, are semi-similar.
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Some are successful and some aren't, and blah, blah, blah.
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But I think if you take the average man in the Western world, there's one or two or maybe
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You can be born with rich parents and be a little bit...
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You fall in love with that bitch in school who wants the jock and not you, or the older
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And then you get your girl and she breaks your heart.
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But it's just how those events affect you and how you internalize them and how you
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I would say most men go through similar obstacles and different types of life experiences.
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I think we have, yeah, I think we have similar building blocks and similar pieces of Lego
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I think that I don't think, although I think we're getting into a position that's worse
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than ever, I think throughout all of human history, every single man that's ever been alive
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has been living through a period in which he feels like the world is ending.
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I'm sure the people who were alive during World War II felt like the world was ending.
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I'm sure about the people who were fighting off the Mongol hordes felt the world was ending.
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I'm sure that in the 1700s when it became legal to not wear a suit when you go outside,
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they probably thought this was massively detrimental to society and the world is ending.
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Yeah, we've always felt like the world is ending.
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And I think that basically the best thing you can do is procreate and try and create people
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who replicate yourself and your values to the best of your ability.
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So my end goal is to have 20 sons with my name who think like me.
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But it's my sons that are going to carry my name and carry my legacy.
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Everything I say, all the things I've just said, which they're going to attack me for
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and call me a misogynist for and say I'm hateful for, actually come from a place of love.
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It comes from a place of love because I think that women are happier if they act in a certain
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way, which is true to their national biological imperatives and true to God.
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I think that men treat women who act true to God better.
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I think as a whole, all of it, the whole world becomes a better place and it's all based
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I truly and utterly believe in love between a man and a woman.
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But I'm not going to love a girl who can't keep her legs closed.
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Because mother love their sons unconditionally, right?
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Women can be unconditionally loved by society as a whole.
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No matter how bad it is, a thing women do, if she's pretty, bro, a woman could go and
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But if she was smoking hot and her mugshot came up, it would be all over Twitter.
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Second you stop being useful as a man, you'll see how cruel this world is.
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When nobody looks at you and goes, this man has a utility.
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Second you become a useless man, you'll see how cold and heartless this world is because
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nobody gives a solitary fuck about men who can't fix problems.
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Even your woman, to a degree, is going to love you.
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But a woman's love is still based on your ability to fix her problems, to a degree.
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If a woman comes to you and goes, I have this issue, and you go, can't fix it.
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If that happens over and over and over and over again, she will fall out of love with you.
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Whereas, I'll be honest, in my relationships, I don't go to women to solve my problems.
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But I don't go, oh shit, I have this big fucking problem at work.
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Men love women because we're idealistic in the idea of love.
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Females are actually very, very realistic with their love.
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You can say, listen, your ex-girlfriend just died.
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Even if you hadn't seen her for 15 years, you can be like, ah, I loved her.
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You find a fucking chick and say, your ex-boyfriend died.
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Bro, there's been times even I have felt guilt.
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There's been times I met a chick and da-da-da and we end up together, whatever, whatever.
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And she's around my house and she's like, hey, look.
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I'm just saying there's a degree of heartlessness that women do possess.
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People pretend they don't, but they really do have it.
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The idea of a rich 22-year-old before the internet was non-existent.
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Before the internet, and you were born poor or in a normal family.
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Did you ever meet a 20-year-old who made hundreds of thousands of dollars?
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People are getting richer, younger than ever before.
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So, and like I said, we live in an attention economy.
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The problem with it is, I will say it's a job because it is a commitment.
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The actual true problem with streaming is that I don't think you learn anything from it.
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The world before this garbage, any job you were involved in, there was a degree of learning, right?
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If you make a bunch of money streaming, and let's imagine streaming disappeared overnight, right?
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What could you take all the skills, all the lessons you've learned, all the talents you now have,
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and apply your streaming skills to and make more money?
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Negotiating and managing and becoming an arguer and...
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Absolutely not, because you're streaming on the fucking internet.
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You don't understand anything about true negotiation between men.
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You don't understand anything about the true negotiation.
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In this very fortunate bubble of super unique, ideal dream jobs that every person on the planet would love to have.
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There's not a man alive who doesn't want to be an actor.
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Not a man alive who doesn't want to be a streamer.
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My point is that, let's say you go and get a normal job, a sales job, and then you lose that job.
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I learned how to do sales meetings without being scared.
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But also, I think that a lot of streamers now are marketing themselves just purely through...
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They don't even know exactly what they're doing?
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Well, they're just doing shit for shock factor, but it's not...
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I know what I say is shocking, but I like to believe...
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I know I believe what I say, and I also like to believe it has a relatively positive effect on the world.
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There are streamers and kids out there which are doing shit which is not good for anybody or even themselves, just for shock factor.
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The best men, or the people who are best at being men, have gone through some shit.
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And when you stream, you don't really go through very much.
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Working high-level security has been through some shit, bro.
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Well, I'm smoking a cigar right now, but I know what a cigar is.
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The reason I am anti-vaping is because nobody knows what's even in a fucking thing.
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And it's produced so cheaply somewhere in the Far East by people who don't give a single
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solitary shit about human rights of their own people, let alone the people of the West.
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For pennies, please explain to me what chemical combination can taste like...
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Bro, what chemicals need to be put together to taste like pineapple ice?
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No, what scares me about vape is how accurate the flavors are.
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When it says pineapple ice, and you taste it, you're like, wow, it does taste like pineapple
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And you taste it, and you're like, it tastes exactly like it's supposed to.
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Wait, how the fuck do you make chemicals taste like cherry bomb?
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Wait, this costs 79 cents from some factory in fucking Indonesia.
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They have not considered how this damages my body to make it taste like this.
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So, Andrew, I gave my friend $10,000 to stop smoking for a month.
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Yeah, I just wanted to help him because vaping is a crippling addiction.
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Let me tell you something about helping people.
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You can't help anyone who doesn't want to help themselves.
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People try and come to me all the time and say, oh, I need help.
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They want to try and externalize all of the willpower because they have none of it themselves.
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You can't help people who don't want to help themselves.
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People say this kind of shit all the time, like with motivation.
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If you don't have motivation to go and be strong, then stay weak and fuck off.
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Like, so, you can't, you can, there's an age-old adage, you can take, you can drag a horse to
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People, I really believe the universe is ultimately giving.
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I've never seen anybody or any experience in my life where somebody has dedicated their
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all and tried their very best for something and not had it.
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I've never seen somebody, maybe correct me, right?
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I've never seen somebody who eats right, trains twice a day like an animal, never misses
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a gym session, diet on point, does everything they're supposed to do, and not be stronger.
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So, when you meet a guy, I just can't get in shape because you're not trying.
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If you don't have motivation to be better, then stay fucking, then stay a loser.
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And what's very interesting about the world is that there are no winners without losers.
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I put myself through absolute hell to be everything I've ever wanted to be.
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So, if someone wants to come along and say, I'm not prepared to go through what you've
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been through, Andrew, but I still want all the benefits, my answer to that is no.
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The reason I'm anti-weed, by the way, just I'll state this here on camera.
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I've never, I know like caffeine and nicotine are drugs.
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And I'll state here, if I was to try drugs, it would definitely not be weed.
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Because weed's the one I don't truly understand.
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Now, I'm, of course, uneducated on the subject because I've never tried one.
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But I don't see the point in doing a drug that makes you calm down.
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I can just work my ass off and go to the gym and get tired and go to bed.
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If I was to take a drug, I want to at least get one that makes me superhuman.
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If you ever decide to do meth, we can do it together.
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But if I was to ever do drugs, I want to be like those crackheads which are bulletproof.
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To me, of all drugs, it looks like the least appealing.
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Well, let me defend because I used to smoke weed for two years straight.
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When you smoke weed, it depends how you use it.
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You can use it as a spiritual tool, as spiritual guidance.
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When you smoke weed and you're in your thoughts and you're thinking, you can find the best
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Do you know what the ultimate baseline for spirituality is as a man?
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Get the living fuck kicked out of you and try your very, very best to actually survive.
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That will teach you more about yourself, about grit, about determination, about who you truly
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are, about your spirituality than any fucking stupid plan.
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The reality of spirituality is a man is survival in the face of uncertain odds.
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You want to find out about spirituality, walk into an MMA gym.
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That will teach you about spirituality, much more than some fucking drug.
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There's a reason all these people go and go, I want to do ayahuasca to learn about
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Do you know what the Native Americans used to do?
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They used to make this stuff called, I think it was, walk, right?
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They used to make this drink and you would drink it and you'd hallucinate and they said
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They also used to train and ride horses and exterminate each other and engage in battles
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I'm telling you, if they did nothing but stream and take that shit, they wouldn't have found
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I think the easiest way to find yourself is to become the ultimate version of yourself.
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But you're not going to do it because you don't really want to do it.
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Because I'm trying to better certain things right now in my life before I'm able to.
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But if you're trying to better certain things, that is ultimately becoming a better version of
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But it just, it takes years to become the best version of yourself.
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When I was 22, there's like, I know you're going to say you signed up a picture of me
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I'm saying about being the best possible version of yourself.
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I try my very best to be as professional as possible.
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I think I'm very close to the best possible version of myself.
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In fact, I think the last few years, when you get a bit older, if you've worked hard
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enough in your early years, you allow yourself the luxury of being slack.
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What's interesting is I'll now take a few days off here and there and consider myself
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lazy because I worked so hard when I was young.
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And I'm still working harder than even you are.
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When you're at dinner, when you're literally when I pulled up, you're just always on your
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Every time I've seen you, you're literally working.
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People seem to think that you conquer the world easily and you can if you outwork everybody,
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but there's endless work that needs to be done.
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I would say you beat the game and I think you're doing side missions.
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My question for you now, what is the best version of Aiden?
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And I would say hit the gym and be the best physical version of myself as possible.
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But that comes with experience and that comes with aging as well.
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The more experience in life, the more charm I go through.
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But you know the best way to build a strong mind as a man?
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It's hard to have a strong mind without a strong body.
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Listen, he doesn't feel like training every day.
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This is the point I said to you on our first ever stream.
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You're like, what's the fastest way to get a six pack?
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Why are you trying to find easy, short cut, bullshit solutions to everything?
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And the reason that you want a six pack is because it has value.
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And the reason it has value is because people know it's hard to get.
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If everybody knew you could get a six pack easily and quickly, then you'd have a fucking wall.
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The point is you have to do it when you don't feel like doing it.
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This is actually the bottom line of masculinity.
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The bottom line of masculinity, even not just in the gym, in nearly any realm of human endeavor,
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is as a man, good men or capable men do things they don't feel like doing anyway.
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And if you look at men, do you think the men in Ukraine and Russia right now feel like dying in a fucking ditch?
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Do you think the men who train every single day feel like training every single day?
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Do you think the CEO works his ass off 20 hours a day and doesn't see his children feel like doing it?
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You have to just do what you don't feel like doing.
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The men who only do what they feel like doing aren't competitive.
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I don't feel like working every day, but there's work to do.
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I think I've asked this, but who is your biggest inspiration?
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Of course, my father shaped me to be the man I am.
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I'm trying to think of somebody who's alive and inspires me.
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But I don't think you need, really, an external role model to that degree.
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I think every man intrinsically knows how to be the best version of themselves.
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Bro, if you were to play a video game and you had X amount of stat points and you could allocate them,
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And that's the beautiful thing about being a man.
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I'm not going to sit here and insult you and say you couldn't ever be anything you want to be,
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but I will tell you that, of course, and you will self-admit, you're not trying your very best.
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So being a top G is someone who tries the very best and becoming the best version of himself.
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It's a cool nickname that's stuck, but I think that every man out here should be waking up,
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genuinely looking in the mirror and saying, how do I become the best version of myself?
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I think that's the point of being alive as a man, is to become the best possible version of yourself.