Happy Birthday Papa Ross... (Full Stream with Adin & Papa Ross)
Episode Stats
Length
1 hour and 4 minutes
Words per Minute
208.39044
Summary
Aiden's Dad comes in to the house for his birthday and we talk about gambling and a lot of other stuff. Aiden calls his dad in and talks about how he's been working 24/7 and how much money he's making.
Transcript
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Not only did you come to the house, but like you spent real time with me.
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It's his birthday. You guys gotta go crazy, alright?
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It's gonna be a chill stream, though. We'll do some TTS, though.
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Delph, you haven't even seen... Bro, chill out, bro.
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My computer is so laggy. Is my stream lagging, chat?
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Hey, anyone talk about falling off, try pulling 10 viewers on Twitch.
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Hey, calm the fuck down, man. Calm the fuck down, man.
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Bro, let me tell you guys something right now, bro.
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We can talk about it a little bit before he gets in here.
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My dad's coming in right now, so before he comes in...
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I've been tired 24-7 just fucking doing hella shit, bro.
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Someone said Pammy's getting smashed by Aiden's dad.
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Bro, it doesn't matter if he's a blue heart, you idiots, bro.
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When he walks in, he's gonna be like, what the fuck?
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The good news is next time I go to Cabo, I'm bringing Bulu and Zia's in.
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But, uh, guys, you guys gotta understand, you know, at this point, I'm gonna only be gambling a few times a month.
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I just really wanna get back home and just get this shit all set up.
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Like, I literally wanna just play scary games once a week.
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I'm kinda glad, like, you know, I could just sit here with a fuckin' blurry facecam and pull 50k out of an OD.
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Like, I don't really care about viewers anymore, cause it's like, I just want people who are gonna fuck with me doing anything,
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aren't gonna fuck with me doing anything, you know what I mean?
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So, anyone talking shit, fell off, Aiden, what happened to your viewers?
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Twitch viewers are down, but, again, guys, I'm not paying attention to viewers.
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For anyone that ever talks shit about somebody, just understand that it's your fucking, stay in your lane, bro.
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So, oh, here I'm at, I hear my dad, I hear my dad.
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Aiden, it's changing a message or the opposite.
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Once I get back to LA, I bought this crazy-ass laptop, too.
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So when I go travel and shit, I can just bring it and I can just game on it, too.
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I don't want to set everything up and then go live at 11.30 p.m.
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What time is it for you motherfuckers in the chat?
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Because it's a good practice for the person I'm actually fighting in, uh, next year.
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She's gonna be like, what the fuck does that mean?
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A lot of you guys put your fingers in your assholes and smell it.
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A lot of you guys fucking do really weird shit, bro.
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I'm living proof that you guys can just do weird shit on camera and doesn't...
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Basically, I'm just here to teach you that you should never care about what anybody thinks.
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57,000 people are watching me put a foot in my mouth.
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First of all, I want to spam happy birthday, Dad, bro, in the chat, man.
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So, you know, I already told you your next birthday is going to be crazy.
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I'm going to get you something even more crazy.
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My friend who built that big building in Miami.
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And I think next year, the same time around my birthday next year, they're going to come
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Probably about 2.5 million, which is great, though, because we could be going along the
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Like, this is the only person who, like, truly believed in me from the beginning.
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You always let me stay home from school when the new game came out.
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You just always believed in my shit for video games.
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Like, usually, like, every other parent would just call you crazy.
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Why did you kind of believe in me from the beginning?
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I mean, I had my moments of, like, doubt, which were just, like, you know, very fleeting.
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But the way you spoke about it was as if you read a book and you were telling me all about the book you read.
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Like, that is how you described your future in streaming to me.
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And so, it just struck me as what choice did I have but to, you know, but to support you in doing that.
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And it drove me a little crazy at the beginning with the yelling and the screaming and the neighbors I had to fight with.
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But I didn't tell you half the stories of some of the fights I got into in the neighborhood.
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Oh, just from the yelling and the, you know, the whole house would shake sometimes and the windows would shake.
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And I don't think you had very good windows on that list.
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So, you know, my neighbors threatened to call the cops a lot.
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One time I had to deal with the sheriff one time.
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That sound is not the sound of a man beating his wife.
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That is the sound of a happy, young, 16-year-old boy who's streaming.
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And then when we first moved into this place, I forgot what happened.
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Something tipped me off that all the neighbors were going to come after me with pitchforks and, like.
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I remember that you had to board everything up and all that stuff.
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Like, the neighbors wanted to give me, like, a welcome mask or something like that.
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But anyway, all that aside, you know, I've been in business a long time.
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Thank you, Aiden's dad, for raising such a good son.
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I'm going to mute the TTS, but that's going to be later on, like, where we can put on text
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I think it's just, it's crazy, like, to see, like, how everything planned out.
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Like you said, I really didn't know I was going to make it, and I made videos to myself, and
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I explained it, and I broke it down to kind of how I was going to make it.
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But the wild thing to me is just, like, you were the one person who just, like, okay,
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let's, my dad at that time, you know, like, I remember you had to try, like, different
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Yeah, that was, right when you were about to take off is when I hit a real rough patch.
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I was in between jobs, and I remember there was this new high-speed internet that came
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to our town that you wanted to try it, and it was, like, they wanted you to pay $600 up
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Do you remember, like, literally in eighth, ninth grade I wanted to stream?
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Like, I wanted to stream it as a freshman in high school.
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So senior year comes along, the high-speed internet, you're, obviously, your pockets are hurting
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right now because you're going in and out of jobs.
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They all declined until, like, the last one finally worked.
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We got the internet, like, a month, like, later, and then I just took it so seriously.
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I literally was like, all right, I'm doing this.
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You know, I got a job, and I got, like, some other equipments and stuff, and you just helped
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me pay for the internet, and then I just really took over.
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I found a way to do it with shitty quality, and then we slowly upgraded it, and then it
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slowly upgraded, and then I could make decent content.
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Then I would pull 12-hour streams, and we would constantly have internet problems, and
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just back and forth, and we would lose pieces and all this crazy stuff.
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Yeah, the place we were at, just powers would go out.
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We'd have to get an internet guy over all the time.
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I had, like, six different modems I had to keep swapping out.
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The point is, there's no excuse you guys can make when you're coming up.
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I was, I had one gigabyte of upload speed, one megabyte of upload speed, MGS of upload
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But, um, I was so dedicated back then, and, um, it was crazy.
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I remember there was a time where I drove you three and a half hours to Los Angeles.
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We got a soda, and we drove three and a half hours, eight hours in the car.
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Just, uh, just so you could have that game early, right?
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NBA 2K 15 early, a few days early, because we, LA obviously gets copies first.
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You know, we were in a town that's obviously not LA, a few hours away.
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Three hour drive back and forth to, just to get me my game early.
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I was drinking the same Kool-Aid you were drinking.
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I mean, I was, you know, you had me believing, and, uh, so I was, I was behind you 100%.
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But I, I also have to admit, I never dreamt that you'd reach this level this fast.
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And, um, you know, it's just, it's crazy to me, like, how, how fucking, like, quick it
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It seems like yesterday, I was asking if you were doing, you got all your homework done.
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But it just, I don't know, like, it's just, I don't know.
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So you're going to use your powers for good, evil, fun, bad, you know?
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I know you're going to use your powers for good.
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There's a lot of people's lives that obviously are intact with mine.
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You know, now people hate me and people try to, like, discourage me and stuff.
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So some people watch you because they enjoy hating you.
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I think people watch me because they're so miserable with their lives, right?
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For example, like, people would probably hate on this because they don't even have, like,
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Instead of maybe just, like, being like, damn, like, look how, like, you know, like, appreciative
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Like, I guarantee a lot of people in this chat are just so miserable with their lives.
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And, you know, they just don't know what to do, but they take it out on me, if that
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Well, have you, has any of these miserable lives people ever, like, turned around and,
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Like, I've one time taken, you know, I've one time slid in people's DMs and I would
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be like, you know, like, hey, you know, why are you saying, you know, that type of thing
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And they were like, oh my God, I just want to get a reaction out of you.
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Like, the people that love me and that are always, you know, just spreading positivity
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towards my streams and stuff, they're good people, you know, because they don't have
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It's like, I don't, I'm not looked at as a human being by a lot of people.
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I'm looked at kind of like as like a robot now.
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Like, I'm looked at as somebody, when he's not streaming, let's yell at him, let's throw
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fucking tomatoes at him and stuff and all this stuff, you know.
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But my biggest thing is, is I'm not just a streamer at this point.
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I want to, I want to find a way to kind of pave a wave and get into other industries and
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You already know I want to get into boxing, just all sorts of stuff.
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I have this vision of you and I don't know if I'm wrong or right because wishful thinking
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that you also can pave the way for other people that have talent to, you know, get on the same
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path and you save them years in time to get on that path.
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100% and it just, all it takes is there's so many people out there with talent.
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For example, I really want you to start streaming and doing your stuff.
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Like, just like, is that an earthquake or is that your foot?
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Like, I just, I think there's a way to find unrecognizable talent.
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Like, you know, I want to find a way to do that and just put people on and help people
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I think that I've changed a lot of people's lives and I just want to continue to do that.
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And, uh, it's just awesome when, you know, when people have this power, a lot of people
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do bad things with it, but I'm the one that, you know, I want to do nothing but good things
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I think the more people that you're able to bring into the limelight and to launch their
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own careers, I think the more momentum it'll pick.
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It's like a snowball going down a hill and you know what I'm talking about?
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When you roll a snowball down a hill, it gets bigger and bigger and bigger.
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Yeah, before, before you know, you have a giant wake and like, like, this is your army almost.
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But, but what, how come everybody who watches me doesn't like me?
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There's never one black and white answer for any specific question.
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You know, there's always, it's always a mixture.
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So I, I, I've got to say it could be a little bit of envy.
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Could be, like you said before, people just trying to have fun and break your balls and
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Um, and then it could be some people just thrive on negativity.
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I just, I just sometimes wish I was kind of like, I hate saying this cause it sounds
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so ungrateful, but sometimes I wish I was kind of like smaller so I could appreciate
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I was so sophisticated on numbers and growth when I was just really like a year ago having
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so fun in that little apartment playing my video game.
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Um, when I had a big company at one time and I had 50 employees and things were going
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along great and five years passed, I lost all my employees, all my partners and I was
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And every day I came into work considering I was just going to shut the office down, but
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I stuck it out and stuck it out and I built it from zero back up to a big company again.
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So you could constantly be rebuilding other things and you know, so you'd be that small
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fish in the big pond, not always the big fish in the little pond.
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So, you know, I, I, I think that's a way to have that best of both worlds.
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So, um, what would you say is the next big challenge for you out there where you would
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feel like you're starting from, you know, scratch again?
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I think boxing is, I think just getting into like reworking my, my physique, my body, you
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know, getting into healthy, because health is number one, you know?
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So I think just even whether it's boxing or not, whether it's boxing shit is real or
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not, me just getting my body right in general, it's just like that right there is just going
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to make me healthier and more happy, you know, just waking up knowing I'm, you know, I have
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muscles and I have a cardio and I'm in shape and stuff.
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I don't know if you, any of your people read any Eastern philosophy teachings, but there's
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There's your intellect, there's your emotional, and there's your physical.
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And if all three are doing, are doing work at one time, that's how you really, you know,
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So it's mental, you know, emotional and physical.
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And you apply all three with boxing would be perfect.
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But another thing is that is like, like now it's, I like the way you're saying.
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But, but now I'm so mentally drained because I'm constantly like, like my life, it's not
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like I'm, I'm not living my life for me anymore.
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I'm like, I'm like living my life for other people, like completely.
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I'd love to be able to talk to mom, call her up.
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I'd love to be able to talk to my aunts, grandmothers, all that stuff.
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But I, I'm so mentally out of it now, you know, with everything going on that like, I want
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Listen, I don't know, because you're not, I've been giving you this advice since day
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You have to find a place where you go where you can recharge yourself this way.
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You know, when you get back into the streaming, whether it's the next day or two days later,
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And your mind has had a chance to meditate and just decompress.
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You're, you're, you're burning the candle at both ends.
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You're burning it here, here, and you're lighting the candle in the middle.
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Hey, dad, what do you, what do you say to kids that want to follow their dreams and
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passion, but they're, maybe they're, their parents aren't like you where you're so like
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These are the vibes that you gave me that there wasn't, there was going to be no stopping
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So it's like, why should I make your life harder?
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You know, it'd be a drag when I knew there was no stopping you.
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There's nothing, to me anyway, there's nothing more wonderful in business and in life than
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meeting people that are extremely devoted to whatever it is they're devoted to, whether
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it's religion, whether it's reading, whether it's streaming, whatever it is, there's nothing
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So for these young people that are having difficulties with their teachers or with their parents,
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not saying, not, not, not saying this is an open path for you, they just got to make it
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so clear that there's nothing that's going to stop them.
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So they could either join you and help you or just get the hell out of my way kind of an
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But I realize when you're dealing with younger people, with parents, they have to be respectful
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So find a way to be firm, but respectful, but so devoted.
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Like Aiden, I've never met a more devoted man than you to, to, to your business, to your
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It didn't matter if there was, if the roof flew off the house and there was no electricity,
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you know, you would pedal a bicycle and hook it up to the wires and make that generate
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So definitely number one is devotion and sincerity and, and, and, and results, um, to
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be able to show tangible results because a journey of a thousand miles starts with one
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So you put enough small little steps together and eventually you'll, you know, you'll, you'll,
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So they've got to be able to not only be devoted, but to be able to demonstrate that
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You genuinely believe that anybody in this chat right now can do it.
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I believe that a high percentage of the people in this chat that are extremely devoted and
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amped up to do this can, can find some success.
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Thing is too, not to be too afraid of how am I going to find exactly what my niche is
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Everyone's going to find their own exactly purpose.
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So how come it comes to some people sooner like myself?
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Like when I was highly successful in business at times, I never felt like it was all because
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And I met this one person that led me to this, that led me to that.
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And before you knew it, everything opened up for me.
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And then there were times, no matter how hard I tried, it didn't make a difference.
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So timing has a lot to do with everything in life.
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I mean, I can't remember a single day, even when you were sick with fever, that you
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I would be sick and I would still stream and stuff.
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So remember I wanted to skip my own high school graduation to stream?
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You knew certain times that you had to just put it down.
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You know, your mother was going to show me your graduation.
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So could you give me a specific example of a kid out here that has great talent, great
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potential, but has a specific problem with, you know, a door being shut to him by his
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parents or like, let's just say as a streamer, I know how many of you guys, how many of you
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guys have parents that just, you know, don't really believe in you.
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I mean, a lot, I feel like a lot of, you know, I feel like a lot of people, you know, they
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So it's like, what I can say is just see like me, like a lot of parents just don't
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believe in it because maybe they were born in a generation where electronics weren't
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like, there's no social media, but I'm telling you like this shit, like remember how pressured
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I was to go to college by, you know, certain people in my life at that time, you know who
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Like, it's just like, I feel like that's wrong for even teachers to just kind of like press
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And not necessarily, if you want to be a doctor or a lawyer, that's perfectly fine.
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But it's like, if you're somebody who just wants to be a kid and follow their dreams
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and follow their craft, then I just feel like then you should have a, you know, a say in
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And I also remember something else, Aiden, too.
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You not only were devoted, but you busted your ass waiting tables at that place.
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Just so that you could do it with your own two hands.
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Even when I did have the money, you're like, no, dad, I want to do this on my own.
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So you really had a lot of the elements that set yourself up to deserve to have the success
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Now, I will, I have to admit, in high school, I did used to steal money in your drawer.
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I needed some gas money and stuff when I was a little broke.
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You know, now you never have to worry about rent ever again.
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But I did used to, you know, steal some money in your drawer.
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I mean, listen, money's wonderful and it's fun.
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And at my age, it's wonderful not to have to be waking up at 6 o'clock in the morning
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and mapping out my day just so I can make sure all the bills are going to get paid for the month.
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You and mom never have to worry about money ever again.
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And I think that's why I think I stress so hard about my life.
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Because it's like, I don't want to make a bunch of money for me.
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Because I can live off of a couple thousand dollars a month.
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I want to just make a bunch of money to pay off your guys' house completely.
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I want to make enough money to put you in the nicest car.
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You get more pleasure out of buying stuff for people you love rather than yourself.
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I was like, Dad, I shouldn't have gotten this car.
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And it's just like, you know, I just know that if I would have gotten you something like that car or something,
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Unless you actually learn that lesson the way you learned it up front like that,
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And as a parent, it's a frustrating thing because, you know,
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But unfortunately, you're going to have to make certain mistakes yourself so that you feel it emotionally
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so that, you know, you're very certain about how you want to be a man and move forward in life.
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That was a good thing that you did to do that, even though.
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Now all I want to do is just stack money and just take care of you guys, you know.
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I mean, obviously, Chad, I care about you guys.
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But it's like, you know, besides my Twitch, besides, you know, my community,
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it's like, this is all I have besides you, you know, my family and stuff.
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I don't know if you know this, but from, you know, I mean, I was around in the 60s.
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Back in the 60s, people wanted to form utopias where people all live together
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Well, that's what I think, I feel like that's what the world, I think, I feel like the world is dystopia.
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The world is just like a bunch of, obviously, Pammy too, Chad.
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I feel like the world is dystopia, meaning everybody's suffering.
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I feel like everybody's sad and hurting inside.
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For example, my streaming and YouTube and just everything I do is my fix.
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And, you know, I feel like everybody, their purpose is their fix.
00:29:33.260
I feel like, you know, being brought into this life, you're kind of just like,
00:29:37.100
you're kind of just like brought into like suffering.
00:29:44.180
Aiden, to be able to recognize that, but yet still enjoy life, that's the keys to the kingdom of life.
00:30:01.180
And I think you have, and you have so many opportunities to give in this world and to
00:30:08.520
There's a million different ways you can change lives.
00:30:11.600
I mean, think about when you've been at your most desperate moment, what you would have
00:30:14.160
given for somebody like yourself to come along and say, hey, I got you.
00:30:20.300
Not out of ego, but out of something much bigger and more wonderful than ego.
00:30:31.220
It's like a little, it's like a little group thingy I have with people.
00:31:12.820
Okay, so what I was saying was, um, those laptops.
00:31:16.680
There's like a kid who I saw who's in a wheelchair.
00:31:20.540
And he's, uh, mentally, I mean, not mentally, he's just physically handicapped.
00:31:25.460
Like, I'm going to give one of those laptops to him.
00:31:27.120
Just like me being that kid, I'm like, I don't even know, you know, he wants to be a streamer.
00:31:33.560
Like, I'm actually going to change this kid's life by giving him a powerful laptop for free.
00:31:39.240
And that's, to me, it's, that's not a lot for me.
00:31:44.700
It's small and easy for me to do, but for that kid, that's life-changing for him.
00:31:49.940
Isn't that crazy that I could, I could give somebody something that could change their life?
00:31:55.800
So why don't more people with millions and billions of dollars do that?
00:32:01.440
I'm not as rich as them, and I want to do that stuff.
00:32:08.100
They start off wanting to, but then they lose their way.
00:32:11.540
Like, every day you wake up, and you've got to remember the path that you want to be on.
00:32:16.020
You know how easy it is to get lost from, you know, the picture that you have in your mind today?
00:32:31.140
And look, nobody's entitled to give away their own money.
00:32:33.600
But it's like, you have somebody that's like, I don't know.
00:32:37.800
I don't want to say specific people, but billionaires, right?
00:32:45.320
But they won't even, like, help change lives, right?
00:32:51.300
Well, I mean, there's so many different philosophies on that, too.
00:32:53.260
The richer people are, the more afraid they are of becoming poor.
00:32:59.800
Some of the most wealthy people in the world I've gone out to, like, dinner or lunch with.
00:33:03.920
And they're splitting that tab down the middle.
00:33:09.240
I'll always pay for, like, I'll always help you.
00:33:19.700
But some people just really treat money like it's their.
00:33:23.280
As a matter of fact, I know people in my life who come from extraordinarily wealthy families and their parents pass and they're left hundreds of millions of dollars and brothers and sisters fight and, you know, never speak to each other again over a refrigerator.
00:33:42.660
And that's how sick the human condition can actually be sometimes.
00:33:50.620
There's millionaires, billionaires with holes in their hearts, meaning they're unfulfilled and they're miserable because they don't have a true family or a true love.
00:33:58.920
Well, and you once told me, I think it was you who told me that 90% of people that win the lottery a year later wish they never won the lottery.
00:34:06.880
There's a documentary I watched after you told me that on HBO.
00:34:10.560
Dad, I saw like five people say you should write a book.
00:34:17.640
I would like to really start diving into it deeper.
00:34:21.720
Yeah, but the reason for that is, is because money, the way I look at money, money is like a scalpel, okay?
00:34:29.320
In a doctor's hand, a scalpel is a tool that can save lives.
00:34:33.080
In a lunatic's hand, it's a weapon that can kill somebody.
00:34:37.460
So, you know, I think money in the right hands is a beautiful thing.
00:34:42.400
I think, you know, well, you know how I feel about you.
00:34:45.320
And I think you're doing all the right things with it.
00:34:49.380
If you could make everybody wealthy, you would.
00:34:59.060
I mean, I want to move on to something a little bit different.
00:35:11.780
You are one of the only like five people who actually treat me like Aiden.
00:35:23.640
Because a lot of people don't even treat me like I'm human.
00:35:32.460
But it's just, you're the only person who just like, one of the only people who just will never.
00:35:37.120
Like if I do something stupid, you're not going to be like, oh, oh, it's okay.
00:35:40.560
Like you're going to be like, you're going to call me my bullshit.
00:35:42.280
You're going to be like, no, that was stupid as fuck.
00:35:44.740
I don't care like about who you are, where you are.
00:35:47.780
Like I've had, I've done something to somebody.
00:35:49.780
And like, I wanted to get a reaction out of them where they're like, and you can't fucking do that.
00:35:55.800
Like, it's just crazy that like you're one of the only people.
00:36:01.680
But you're one of the only people who just treat me like myself.
00:36:04.740
Because I can't live any other way and neither can you.
00:36:07.100
Like I am not interested in superficial relationships, especially with my own son.
00:36:13.320
I'd rather you go back to ground zero and let me go out there and bust my ass to support the family.
00:36:19.280
But, you know, and maintain our real relationship than have all the money in the world and have a faith relief.
00:36:29.400
Now that you have money to spend on basically whatever you want, that's not making you any happier, right?
00:36:37.300
And, you know, it's like I'm going to let you finish.
00:36:40.340
But it's just like at the same time, more money, there is a lot of problems.
00:36:44.320
Like it's more, it developed more problems in my life.
00:36:50.400
That people, you give them one inch, they take a whole mile.
00:37:11.740
Now that I've gotten a little bit older and I have wisdom on my side a little bit, I couldn't see myself being that way.
00:37:18.100
Like I would rather be taken advantage of 20 times over than take advantage of one person in this lifetime.
00:37:27.960
I remember when my mother was really hurting and my father stopped supporting her.
00:37:32.860
One Christmas, I went, I snuck over to her apartment and I took a thousand, I took a $20, $100 bills and I clipped them all to her Christmas tree.
00:37:40.880
And then I left and I went back to my office and she called me and she just like screamed and freaked out.
00:37:50.140
I'm like, Ma, you know how easy it is to be there for somebody financially when you have it?
00:37:56.980
You know, so please don't make a big deal out of it.
00:38:02.260
And the beautiful thing about money is you could always go out and make more of it.
00:38:12.420
So, I'm glad you're recognizing some of these important lessons in life.
00:38:20.940
I just feel like, okay, you know in Grand Theft Auto, when you do a cheat code and you get all the money?
00:38:27.660
And I don't want to sound like I'm ungrateful, but I'm trying to teach people that money is not everything.
00:38:32.640
But like when you do the Grand Theft Auto money glitch and you get all that money, what do you do?
00:38:43.260
There are some very, very famous wealthy people in business.
00:38:47.760
And they actually are humble enough to admit that when they're in meetings, they don't feel like they belong there.
00:38:56.340
That they somehow got lucky and made it and they just don't feel worthy.
00:39:01.840
It's a very, very common thing, especially when it happens quickly financially.
00:39:08.180
Someone said money isn't everything when you have money, but when you don't have money.
00:39:14.160
You and I are having this conversation and the people that are busting their ass just to keep their lights on.
00:39:19.060
They're looking at our conversations like, well, it's easy for you guys to talk that way because you have money.
00:39:23.700
Yeah, I feel like it's ignorant to not include the other side.
00:39:27.260
Like I feel like it's just really ignorant of me to not actually like say, hey guys, like for anyone that's actually, you know, living in, you know.
00:39:34.260
Yeah, like, you know, just kind of like having like a really hard knock life, you know, it's ignorant to not say that you have a completely different definition of life.
00:39:48.020
And I guarantee they would die to be, you know, they would kill to be in my position.
00:39:52.700
You know, but remember, like the saying goes, give a man a fish, he eats for a night, teach a man to fish and he'll eat for a lifetime.
00:39:59.980
So you have a venue through streaming for people that are passionate about it, for you to teach them and help them and bring them along so that they can have what's possible.
00:40:13.220
Because they, I'm sure 99% of these people want to take care of their dads and their moms and their families.
00:40:18.840
So you're going to, you have a way to help them do that.
00:40:21.820
And it'd be great if you could expand that in any way that you can.
00:40:25.800
So that not only is your audience, well not audience, what do they call your audience?
00:40:32.600
So they don't just have like a, you know, a one in a million chance of finding success.
00:40:37.880
They have a real probability, a high probability of finding success through your methods and through helping them.
00:40:44.980
Like this one kid that you said is handicapped and you're giving him a computer.
00:40:49.260
If he has some funny shtick he's doing, could you like, you know, three times a week just like visit him on your stream and give him 30 seconds of airtime?
00:40:58.020
And that'll give him his, that's why I love the E-Dates.
00:41:01.460
I love them and I feel like it was perfect because if somebody had, whoever's coming in, I'm streaming.
00:41:15.320
I'm live on Instagram and like for me to practice.
00:41:18.120
No, we're in the middle of a deep conversation I want to talk about.
00:41:22.420
Okay, how about talk to me after so you can do the fireworks, yeah?
00:41:41.860
We were talking about how, like, if you could give that young man, like, 30 seconds.
00:41:52.500
It gave kids a chance to just show, like, how entertaining they are.
00:41:56.420
And my community made them characters in, like, a show.
00:42:01.540
By the way, guys, Par Yit got unbanned finally.
00:42:07.140
He got banned for accidentally, like, somebody showed something.
00:42:12.640
But, um, and then you have people, like, Runt, and you have people, like, you know.
00:42:26.340
And I want to find a way to do that again in a different kind of way.
00:42:29.880
Like, now that I'm bigger and I have more opportunities to give out, how about I do something where I literally have fly these kids out and have them come to me on my stream or something like that.
00:42:40.340
Like, how about a stream where I get a sponsorship to sponsor a Tesla and I have these kids put a hand on the car.
00:42:51.860
I literally fly these kids out and they work their ass off to try to get a car for their parents.
00:43:06.940
Like, I love that guy because he is such a good person.
00:43:11.880
Like, chat, I'd be probably one of the first people to do it live like on a Twitch note.
00:43:16.000
So it's kind of like inspiration from Mr. Beast, you know, taking that, you know, that YouTube inspiration and applying it to live.
00:43:27.860
I like doing stuff that just benefits people, you know?
00:43:31.460
Like, your group, the guys you just mentioned, I don't know, give them 60 seconds each.
00:43:35.580
Like, I don't know, you have a stream where, okay, it's now time to do this.
00:43:38.620
And give eight of those guys 60 seconds to come on and be funny for 60 seconds.
00:43:50.940
And always make it so that there's opportunities there for the unknown to become known.
00:44:00.180
And you have no problem sharing the stage with these people.
00:44:08.040
You know, there's no such thing as getting greedy.
00:44:14.160
It's a story where you're probably going to know.
00:44:16.180
I want you to explain it once you kind of know.
00:44:18.160
It's like the story where there's a bunch of people that are starving.
00:44:23.440
You told me this story when I was really young.
00:44:26.800
It's a story where there's a bunch of people at a dinner table.
00:44:39.760
It may not hit as hard as when I originally told it.
00:44:44.520
But somewhere in India, there was a very wealthy king.
00:44:49.540
And he was looking for a princess or a queen or something like that.
00:44:53.360
And so he had 20 or 30 of the most beautiful, you know, royalty, descendants of royalty come
00:45:12.440
And they were able to go to whatever table they want, take whatever food they want, take whatever jewels they want.
00:45:17.360
And so most of them, 99% of them, you know, were stuffing diamond necklaces in their pockets and things like that.
00:45:27.280
And then there was this one beautiful, very reserved, calm, sweet, young princess who just sat there and didn't do anything, didn't take anything, didn't, you know, just kind of sat there very quietly.
00:45:42.660
And he came over to her and said something to her like, well, how come you're not, you know, everybody was invited here to take advantage of the night.
00:45:51.000
And whatever they felt was beautiful was, you know, to take it for themselves.
00:45:54.560
And basically what she had said was, well, there's really nothing that I want that's material.
00:46:03.820
She was really looking for love and not material things.
00:46:06.700
So she really, really stood out because the majority of the people, you know, just wanted to, they figured they weren't going to get chosen anyway.
00:46:14.680
And so they had that kind of an attitude to just take, take, take, whereas this person was really mesmerized and deeply thinking about what she really wanted, which was to find love.
00:46:31.420
No, and everyone's, everyone's talking about, you know, Pammy, which is, which is funny you say that because it's like, you know, I one time won something huge on gambling, like $150,000.
00:46:42.080
And what's someone's reaction going to be when I, yo, I want $150,000.
00:46:46.480
So Pammy walks in, she's like, okay, that's cool.
00:46:48.680
Like, that just shows, like, she doesn't give a fuck.
00:46:52.400
It's like, when it comes down to it, like, I want people to understand that, you know, what that story is talking about is like, don't get caught up in the riches and all that materialistic stuff.
00:47:06.480
Cause it's just, you know, there's, there's really nothing there.
00:47:15.580
And again, we're having a conversation, two people that are not hurting for money.
00:47:20.160
That's why, that's, that's the, that's why I wish we had somebody in here who is like, like dead broke.
00:47:29.280
I've been wealthy and I've been broke maybe five times in my life.
00:47:32.720
Do you remember that one time you were so broke, we had this little trailer home.
00:47:40.660
So you remember we were in this little trailer home, I think like a two bedroom.
00:47:57.920
Dad, do you remember you bought like the $600 car and I used to have to kick it to get to
00:48:09.580
And often in the morning we'd get in the car and I'd just be praying it would start so
00:48:14.620
And finally we figured out if he kicked underneath the dashboard, somehow the wires would fix
00:48:24.360
And his foot would just automatically kick and then it would start.
00:48:32.820
I remember you would wake me up like five minutes before I'd have to even go to get.
00:48:36.620
I would wake up, put clothes on, go under that little heater thermos thingy.
00:48:41.000
You'd make me breakfast and we would just go to school.
00:48:46.080
But it's just like times like that were so good.
00:48:48.940
That's why I look back and obviously that's called nostalgia, right?
00:48:53.600
Nostalgia is when you only really remember the good.
00:48:58.680
But all I remember is I used to come home from school every day, play video games.
00:49:03.920
I do remember one time though I played so much video games.
00:49:06.260
You had me quit for like six months to get an iPod or something like that.
00:49:13.740
You just wanted me to take a break because I was going too crazy.
00:49:18.000
You would be up at five, six o'clock in the morning.
00:49:28.400
Like I've been playing video games my entire life.
00:49:37.880
And you know, oh, this shit I used to take from family members and people that thought
00:49:45.080
And I'm like, listen, he's passionate about it.
00:49:53.520
Like I really, you know, and I'm just saying this, Dad.
00:50:00.300
Like you're a dad for probably people in this chat right now.
00:50:20.040
Well, I love you so much that when you don't call me and two weeks go by, I'm actually happy.
00:50:27.260
But I'm happy because I'm saying to myself, all right, he doesn't need anything.
00:50:31.580
He must be having fun because he's not thinking of me, which is okay.
00:50:35.940
And when you really love somebody, really all you want for them is what they want for themselves.
00:50:44.180
I'll look at your picture and I'll be like, he must be doing great.
00:50:49.380
And this was like the greatest birthday I've had in so long that you, not only did you come to the house,
00:50:55.040
but like you spent real time with me and you invited me into your chat.
00:50:59.060
I didn't even want them telling you that I was going to come.
00:51:04.060
Like I just wanted you to like not think I was coming.
00:51:21.280
Take a step back out of the picture a little bit and find something that you and Pammy can do that's away from this.
00:51:27.200
I mean, I know this is your life and they depend on you.
00:51:31.820
Even if it's one day a week, one and a half days a week, sometimes two days a week where you're just doing something for you too, no electronics, whatever it is.
00:51:40.920
Because when you do come back, you're going to be ten times the guy you were if you didn't go away.
00:51:47.700
I think this June, it's just been the most, June and May have been my most mentally drained months.
00:51:58.100
So it's like, I'm in this social media shit for a long time.
00:52:11.100
It's like actually like to the point where it's overwhelming and it's like, it really makes you kind of like, it's scary.
00:52:23.640
There's an old story, the tortoise and the hare.
00:52:25.900
You know, like the tortoise goes most slowly, but nice and steady.
00:52:29.600
And the hare speeds along and then like rests and chills out and parties.
00:52:33.520
But that hare, you know, that tortoise will always win.
00:52:38.520
And that's some advice that you'd want to give your people.
00:52:44.480
You know, you know when it's time to fucking add fuel to the fire and when it's not.
00:52:48.520
But Aiden, you got to take care of yourself so you can take care of your people.
00:53:01.560
But back onto what I was saying is, you know, I just, again, I think that a lot of people
00:53:14.740
I don't know what to say to that other than I'd be happy to help anybody in any way that
00:53:19.080
That's why I think you should start this up too.
00:53:20.700
Even if you went live an hour a day and you answered people's questions and stuff.
00:53:26.460
Like, people, people, people actually really like you a lot.
00:53:31.180
I'm glad I have something to love for them, really.
00:53:33.540
I think that if you guys, if you were to start streaming, who would watch, bro?
00:53:36.600
I, I, I, like, I know everyone's been like, do it, do it, do it.
00:53:39.900
People would not only watch you, but it's like, they would come to you and you would
00:53:42.660
be like their dad and you'd be like a dad figure to them.
00:53:46.120
Like, that's, like, something that is, and that's, that's another thing that's, like,
00:53:52.920
So, like, you can really help these kids' lives and stuff.
00:53:58.500
And I know not everybody is lucky enough to have both parents or some people don't even
00:54:05.040
But, but, but there's always somebody that cares about them and, um, there's, there's.
00:54:10.780
Sorry, I just saw something sick in the comments.
00:54:12.400
There's just, there's just always a way to make it work, so.
00:54:22.760
I'm, I'm doing my own project with, uh, you know, Zia's in VLU.
00:54:25.720
But after that, when, when that's all done, let's do it.
00:54:35.740
Because, uh, I'd love to do something like that with you.
00:54:50.520
You can just talk about a message that pops up.
00:54:58.240
If it's anything crazy, I have to skip it, though, so.
00:55:02.220
Yeah, let's see what some of these haters want to say to me.
00:55:25.700
How do you manage to stay grounded throughout life?
00:55:39.880
I was kicked out of my house at 22 playing a game semi-pro and lived in my car.
00:55:45.140
I don't know what happened to the rest of it, but that's crazy.
00:55:48.220
How does one stay grounded through the vicissitudes of life?
00:55:51.920
Well, for me, it's just knowing what's the most important thing in the world to me,
00:55:57.360
and that's my family and loving my family and just keeping focused on that.
00:56:03.420
Papa Ross Aiden has been an inspiration for the past year,
00:56:06.480
and I've been tapped in with the YouTube life since I was a kid, 12.
00:56:10.340
I am 21, and it's a big dream, and for you to...
00:56:23.740
Did our dad expose you to wear dresses to Pammy?
00:56:29.320
Well, because I once said something like that, which I was kind of kidding around.
00:56:32.760
Hey, Aiden, I love your baseball caps, especially the Saints one.
00:57:24.320
I'm psyched that you're going to start getting your muscles rigged.
00:57:27.940
I'm a songwriter and I have a billboard hit for you, Ong.
00:57:33.900
I'm going to get them right and I'm going to beat your ass.
00:57:44.820
I don't need any assistance right now, but, you know, if I need something, then I'd obviously,
00:57:55.900
Aiden, if you want to change a life tonight, he'll drop everything to come work for you and
00:58:01.000
I wish I could help everybody out with this, but I can't.
00:58:04.980
There's so many people that want to work for me.
00:58:06.760
Man, how do you deal with being up and down in business?
00:58:09.200
I've been dealing with that with TGE family business and sometimes you want to just give
00:58:20.200
That's what my mother told me right before she died.
00:58:22.100
She said, happiness is found in the little moments you spend with your family.
00:58:24.760
Who do our kids look like the most, you or our wife?
00:58:28.040
I would love to see you 1v1 Mo Buckets in the ring.
00:58:36.240
I've been working with your son for over a year and you raised an amazing son.
00:58:40.400
This is my brother for life now and I have worked for so many people.
00:58:44.440
Can you tell us the story of Aiden's first time at the hotel?
00:58:55.120
My dad died 10 years ago ago this month and your dad reminds me of mine.
00:59:05.340
It's me, Lorix, our fellow midget friend who you promised a piece of.
00:59:24.140
Can you please be my dad, cuz I grew up without a dad.
00:59:27.960
I can't be your dad, but I could certainly help you in many ways that a dad could help you.
00:59:35.700
I'd be happy to advise you and be there for you, definitely.
00:59:54.920
You're going to blow up when you start working out?
01:00:04.600
I'm about to start to get a little afraid of you that you could beat me up.
01:00:18.940
Thanks again for the picture at the Floyd fight.
01:00:41.700
Hey, I love your content and love your personality.
01:00:46.960
How dope would it be if we created the next biggest server together?
01:00:52.420
Ong Aiden, we met twice in Inlet and I'm really hungry and wrote some hits for you.
01:01:02.580
I've been fighting cancer for almost two years now.
01:01:13.780
What kind of cancer do you have, if you don't mind my asking?
01:01:34.960
For real, one thing I go by is the money is never your...
01:01:57.240
Aiden, there are going to be ways where you can help a thousand people at once.
01:02:05.240
Open up an animal sanctuary for rejected animals.
01:02:08.060
You get people that can work there with the animals.
01:02:11.200
Eventually, you turn that animal sanctuary into a camp for...
01:02:16.060
And before you know it, you need a thousand employees to work there.
01:02:23.800
I want to build, like, maybe a school maybe one day, too.
01:02:28.380
I mean, there's just so many opportunities to grow it.
01:02:33.360
You know, you'll put up some money and other people will match it.
01:02:40.640
You just got to find out what it is that you exactly want to do.
01:02:42.700
Because it's nice to help one, two, three, five, ten people.
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But it would be nice to be able to help a thousand people.
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How many people are you think could be on here right now?
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Seriously, like, you're literally the best person in my life.
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And I'm going to make sure that, you know, you and Bob just have everything you guys have ever wanted.
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When I go to bed tonight, I'm going to hit the pillow.
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I'm going to fall asleep before my head hits the pillow.
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I'm at peace in my heart knowing that you're doing well.
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Not just financially, but you're making a difference in lives.
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Hey, thanks for letting me in on the stream tonight, guys.
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Thank God I was raised under that man's, you know.
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Everyone have a beautiful rest of your night, okay?