Ali Dawah - January 17, 2025
3 CHRISTIAN GIRLS REJECT JESUS AS GOD!! - BRAZILIAN LADIES REACT
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Jesus is the messiah? What does this mean for us as muslims and what does it mean for the christian belief system? What is the meaning of the trinity and what is the role of the holy trinity?
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he says i have many things to say unto you but you cannot bear them now for when he the spirit
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of truth shall come he shall guide you unto all truth he shall not speak of himself as he hears
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to speak and he says something very important at then he goes and he shall glorify me so jesus is
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saying he's gonna go someone else is gonna come but he keeps saying he keeps saying he he he he
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he doesn't say spirit he says he when the spirit of truth shall come now at the end he says something
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very interesting he says that spirit i mean that being he will glorify me now let me ask you a
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question is there any other religion put islam to a side that believes in mary believes in jesus
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believe in his miracles believes he's the uh he's uh the the the messiah he's the messiah and we
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believe he's going to come back there is no other religion except islam islam is the only religion
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that believes in jesus believes in his mother believe in his miracle believes is the messiah
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and believes he's going to kill the antichrist you know the antichrist
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exactly exactly so we believe jesus we believe if jesus comes today we will join his army
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brothers and sisters it is the winter season in the uk today in my house my boiler broke and the
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house was freezing cold my kids are wearing jackets i'm trying to find heating and as a father i'm trying
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to make sure my kids my wife are warm imagine people around the world i'm working with one of my
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brothers and sisters 100 donation policy charity who are helping syria lebanon and afghanistan people
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who are freezing to death intense brothers and sisters donate whatever you can because today's
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experience with me showed me subhanallah how vulnerable we are and just made me remember those
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people who are in need whatever you donate guys even if it is one pound help those people in those
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countries we believe our main belief is god is not a man christians believe a lot of christians
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believe that he is god jesus is god by the way i know you guys don't believe that a lot of christians
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will say to you you're not a christian if you don't believe the trinity you know the trinity
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trinity the father the son and the horse yeah if you don't believe this you're not a christian
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so in that belief system jesus is god they say jesus is god they say he's the son of god
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and he's god we say that doesn't make sense to be honest though sorry okay continue sorry i just
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want to add that point yeah yeah yeah yes no no i don't run yeah i trust him yeah yeah no no he's
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saying amen yes good so we are saying the name of like father is god yes the son yes why do you
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think this is wrong we believe we believe the one who deserves credit is the father so the father is
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the main source of power that's why he's here good perfect including the others so what that means is
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if he's here jesus is below him yes okay christians main christians believe that no the father the son
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and the holy spirit are equal they are equal the father is god the son is god the holy spirit is god
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they are all not three gods but one god so the quran came to say look god is not a man there is no one
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except god there is no other gods so islam has come to say there is one true god for example in the
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book of john chapter 17 verse 3 jesus is speaking he's saying oh so they may know you
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the one true god and jesus who you sent so he's saying so people can know the one true god and jesus
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who you sent so we say as muslims that's that's the statement of a muslim because the muslim says
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there is one god and there is prophets that were sent do you understand we agree you agree with that
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good so we we as muslims we have to believe in jesus so if we don't believe in jesus you cannot
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be a muslim we have to believe in you know mary yes maria we believe she's the most righteous woman
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there was four exactly so as muslims yes we muslims believe that yeah they came to prepare the people
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yes yeah so they came to teach the people and they were taught by jesus so when jesus good yes good okay
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good so there's there's a few things number one firstly we it's good that we're in track number
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one you don't believe jesus is god that's good perfect as muslims we believe in mary in our
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quran have you read the quran before quran is our holy book muslim bible okay so in the quran we have
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we have a whole chapter we have a whole chapter in the quran we have a whole chapter the name of the
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chapter is mary maria because she's a very righteous woman number one but what do you think what is her
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she is that she is a uh a righteous woman was chosen by god she had a miraculous birth
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yeah you know we believe that we must born by a miracle yes yes good what does what what what
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what what what what what what what what what what what what allah says in the quran the likeness of jesus
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is the like the likeness of adam just how adam uh god created adam with no mother and no father
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jesus was created with a mother adam had no mother and no father so what we're seeing is if we're going to use
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jesus having no father we believe he's a mighty messenger prophet but we say adam had no mother
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no father so we don't say one is better we say look god can create in different ways four ways god
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creates let me tell you first one he created adam no mother no father correct good we are created with
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mother and father human beings they're good um jesus was created with no father how was eve created
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we believe through the rib of adam so this is god's miracles ways of creating different ways
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so we say jesus like you said they were preparing for jesus's coming good but what does jesus say in
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the bible he says listen carefully he says i have many things to say unto you but you cannot bear them
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now for when he the spirit of truth shall come he shall guide you unto all truth he shall not speak of
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himself as he hears you to speak and he says something very important at the end he goes
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and he shall glorify me so jesus is saying he's gonna go someone else is gonna come but he keeps
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saying he keeps saying he he he he he he doesn't say spirit he says he when the spirit of truth shall
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come now at the end he says something very interesting he says that spirit i mean that being
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he will glorify me now let me ask you a question is there any other religion put islam to a side
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that believes in mary believes in jesus believe in his miracles believes he's the uh he's uh the
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the the messiah he's the messiah and we believe he's going to come back there is no other religion
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except islam islam is the only religion that believes in jesus believes in his mother believe
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in his miracle believes he's the messiah and believes he's going to kill the antichrist you know
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the antichrist catholics believe in that exactly exactly so we believe jesus we believe if jesus
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comes today we will join his army against the antichrist because we believe he's going to kill
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it you get it we accept all of that there is no other religion jews do you know what jews believe
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about jesus do you know in the talmud they believe mary is a adulterer they believe she had sex outside of
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marriage and jesus is the baby we say this is blasphemy so we are we speak against them they
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also believe jesus is burning is going to burn in hellfire in his own um feces if that makes sense
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this is what the jews believe so we say as muslims no we say to the jews you are dishonoring mary and
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jesus so we speak out against them then we come to the christians and say the jews they dishonor jesus
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the christians come and say no no jesus is god we say listen don't go to two extremes don't say he's
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nobody don't say he's god we say in the middle jesus is a mighty prophet he came to tell us about
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god and have relationship with god so islam in a nutshell is what worship god alone god is one
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he does not have partners he's not a man he's not a woman he's not in the creation he's not a statue
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so we say that islam the quran has been preserved it's not like the bible the bible has been corrupted
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the quran is the only scripture that has not changed in 1400 years and has been memorized by
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muslims yeah but who wrote the quran was the quran was revealed it's called the quran yeah the quran is
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yeah the quran was quran quran yeah yeah yeah yeah quran can i say something quick about jesus
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the thing that i want to say to you is that in islam like he said we glorify jesus in the quran it
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says that jesus is the blessed one yeah we bless him and after saying the prophet's names we always
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say like upon them be peace so we always send praise to jesus now the bible in the bible it actually
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curses jesus says jesus is the cursed one did you know this so you know paul you know paul
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paul yeah so he says that jesus is the cursed one he says he was cursed to take all of our sins
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who's him the cursed one now the quran curses satan and says jesus is blessed yeah the bible
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says jesus is cursed that's a very good so which one do you think is from god and which one you
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this was a big shock to them yeah yeah i'm guessing you weren't aware of this
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no i have never saw that so so look into it and there's i have no no reason to lie so if you want
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to find out but yeah you can check yeah jesus is the cursed one in the bible now if you believe jesus
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is the you believe he's the son of god so you even elevate him more than us do you believe god
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would curse his own son no of course not now do you believe do you believe our sin and he died on
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the yeah okay so here's the next thing here's the next thing here's the next thing do you think do
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you think it's befitting of jesus yeah you believe he's the son of god you believe god will send his
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son to die naked in the cross being lashed until his skin is falling off because he was doing that
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for us he's doing that for us but i'm saying do you believe it's befitting of him resurrection
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resurrection he believed in that so he didn't care why does god need to sacrifice his son for us
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so we we we believe that nobody needs to die for anybody's sins in islam we don't believe that it
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is god is just god is the most just you know what i mean justice okay we believe god will never punish
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anybody his son daughter innocent person it doesn't make sense for an innocent person to bear the sins
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of the entire world it doesn't make sense number two this is not something that was taught by jesus
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know where jesus said i am dying for your sins this is something paul came out with you know paul
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and you know who paul was before paul was a bounty hunter paul was looking for christians to catch and
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kill them yes he's a bad person then he said i was walking one day and i saw jesus it's like hitler
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telling me telling the jews yeah you know i had a i saw uh moses i saw i saw moses they'll say get lost
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we don't believe you killed us now i'm not saying people cannot change but what i'm saying is in islam
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we don't believe this concept of blood sacrifice it's like a vampire like i don't want to be
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disrespectful but it's like oh we need blood blood blood why does god need blood in islam we believe
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something simple we believe if you sin you repent to god not to anyone else
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we want blood why do you want why do you want blood we have the free
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no we don't literally no i know i know yeah yeah okay killed jesus not god who killed jesus
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the men okay the men the men the jews the jews killed jesus yeah but you said he was sent by god
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to that for us yeah but but is with this sent by god or did these men kill him because when god
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created the world and us the creatures yeah he gave us the free the free will free will yes
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so when jesus arrived to the earth the world was already bad yeah okay yeah god cannot control
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everything we we are we have free will we believe god wouldn't have bad people yeah no no we believe
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god controls everything but we also have free will so there's predestiny but we also i have a choice
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of doing this but which one is my choice yeah yeah which one is higher our free will or god's will
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which one is higher it depends it depends god cannot control us like he cannot say oh you're not
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gonna cross this street now and get hit by the car but he can kill you they can kill you you're saying
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god can't do that that's control so if you're walking across the road right now and you're
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about to get hit by a car god can't say do you know what that's not gonna happen god can't do that
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no because then you're saying that when someone died from cancer you're saying well god permitted
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that person no no of course of course we say nothing this is just things that happens because we
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because we are sinners because we've been doing this for a long time good good but you know what
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happens the reason why islam came down as a final revelation because you have the old testament you have
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the new testament the quran is the final testament meaning the following this concept comes from the
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following because we are sinners and we cannot stand in the presence of god because god is holy
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we need someone in the middle this is why islam came islam came to say listen you don't need any
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person in the middle if you have sinned if you have wronged turn to god and repent so you don't need
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to go to a priest hey priest i want to confess my sins the priest has got sins why am i confessing
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to a sinner that has sins so god says in islam it's very clear no blood sacrifice nobody dies for
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your sin no one get crucified you sin you repent so the relationship in islam is very beautiful
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if i do a sin i say i am wrong oh god forgive me so there's three conditions number one you hate the
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sin number two you stop the sin and number three you try not to go back to the sin but even if you go
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back to the sin one million times you repent because god is the most merciful and we believe
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in the quran every chapter except one says allah the most merciful they're very merciful we believe
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god is very merciful he loves us he doesn't want to kill anybody for no reason it's not fair for me to
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kill you because of her if she's done the punishment why are you dying so so we say islam is about mercy
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and that god has come to tell us the final revelation and the quran is preserved the bible has been
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changed these things that you believe about jesus's resurrection is made by men and the bible tells
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you that if you open your bible there are certain passages that will tell you this story doesn't
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belong here it's made up but you don't believe in resurrection no we don't we totally reject
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no no but the thing is in the quran you can still be spiritual in the quran you mean jesus's
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resurrection or our resurrection no no no no no jesus says no no no do you mean
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no no we believe we believe in the resurrection not we don't believe jesus died for us us we believe
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no no no as muslims we believe we're going to die and be resurrected yeah we believe that yeah so we
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believe we're going to be judged based on our deeds nobody's going to come and say oh i believed in
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jesus even jesus says in the bible he says many on that day on the day of judgment will say to me
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lord lord did we not prophesize in your name and in your name cast out demons jesus says get away
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from me i never knew you like saying go away i don't know you why is he saying that who prophesies
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in the name of jesus christians who cast out demons in the name of jesus christians we muslims don't so
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jesus is saying move away from me i don't know you so we say that in the in the quran we love him too
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we actually do as muslims we have to love him so so the thing is here is that in the quran it says
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that allah god almighty asked jesus did you tell the christians those people to worship you and
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your mother besides god he says i never said such a thing god you know so god jesus always praises
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the father he always says the father is greater than me the father is greater than all or when they
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asked him when is the hour he said i don't know the father knows so this shows what that the father
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is super but you guys already believe that so i would say look in a nutshell read the quran i came to
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islam 11 years ago i was not muslim i know i look muslim i don't know what muslim i don't know what
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muslim looks like yeah yeah yeah yeah no i came to islam 11 11 years ago because i was i was a um
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theist i believed in god but i didn't believe in any religion i started reading the bible and then i
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looked into judaism islam seekerism i spent three years my only condition was any scripture that i'm
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going to follow it has to prove it's from god the bible being changed to me was like i can't because
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it's being changed and altered and because they believe jesus is god i said i'm not going to
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believe a man like me is god i said no so yeah to me it took some time but yeah i mean in a nutshell
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yeah i don't know how to answer your question i've got a question all like all our conversation is
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about us turning to muslims or to believe look i can't the conversation is yeah yeah i would i would
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no no it's a good question no it's a good question look of course i would want everyone to be a muslim
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however i don't control the hearts my job and my duty is i convey the message
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you hear it because in the quran it tells me there is no compulsion in religion i cannot force you to
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be a muslim it's not permissible my religion says no you talk you explain thank you my job is done
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you want to ask me questions here till tomorrow i'm here at your service however i cannot control
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your heart so my job is to answer questions if you say one day you know what it makes sense to me
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like for me i had many questions about islam before i came to islam why this why that why
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this i had so many questions the more i learned the more it made conviction for me so i accepted
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islam so the same with us we want you to become a muslim we believe it's the best solution we follow
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mary mary for example she wears the hijab she's covered up jesus was circumcised you know for it
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they didn't eat pork they didn't drink alcohol you look at them we are more we are more christians
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we are more christians than the christians we follow jesus more we follow jesus more look we
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follow her more than you guys why do you call god allah okay allah means the true god what that
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means is for example because we believe that god is not a man he's not a statue so the one true god
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is allah he's not a man he's not a woman he there is nothing like it yes it's it's yes yes you know
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what language jesus spoke uh latin no he spoke aramaic yeah do you know how to say god in aramaic
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yeah yeah yeah it's very close yeah yeah yeah yeah it is very close did you know that yeah how do you
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pronounce it i don't know the actual pronounce it is right allah and the jews they call him
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yeah yeah yeah the jews they call him so so jesus spoke the aramaic language he didn't speak greek
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the bible is translated in greek and we call him deus deus yeah yeah yeah why do you fast
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we we fast we believe many prophets fast as well but because god told us to fast
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okay there's there's look there's anything that we do we do because god tells us to do
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now if you ask me what's the wisdom the wisdom is number one two number one control yourself
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number one number two to understand the people who are poor there are people who are like these
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are just wisdom for example people yeah of course people who don't like people who don't eat for
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hours it's for us to understand and get a glimpse number two appreciate food look you can go and eat
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whenever you like if i said you're not going to eat for 24 hours oh my gosh you're going to be oh my
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stomach etc you will appreciate food more you any next time you have water and food you will say
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thank god because not even water yeah together i go i go i go and train on top of that why why do you
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need to not suffer but i go through what like poor people girls to understand then you can just have
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empathy and like i i understand that i feel sorry for them i do charity i help when i have but why
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do why do i need to fast why do i need to suffer while they're suffering you know you know sometimes
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i'll let him say sometimes for example like my wife when she was giving birth yeah my wife my wife was
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pregnant yeah when she was giving birth i was there i can never understand that pain but me being there
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was like oh my gosh this is this is like i my respect and love for her group even though i didn't go
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through the same pain i don't know what pain she's going through but the fact that i witnessed
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that to me was a miracle and the fact that she is half dead like if some of them die to me it makes
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me appreciate value her more because in order for us to see what what is beautiful you have to see
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ugly so to us is that we have to go through certain stuff to appreciate anything that you do like do you
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work what do you do i work in an office you work in an office stone company construction no problem
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whatever you do you worked your way to that they didn't you didn't wake up and they gave you a job
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good thank you you wish but again the struggles that you went through appreciates the job that you
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have today exactly do you get it it's it's it's yeah it's like donald it's like donald trump donald trump
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said my dad gave me a loan of one million pounds a small loan like because he was a small loan
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if you go and give someone everything you have a child you will destroy them if you give them
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everything they want you will destroy that child but when you teach them hardship they have respect
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they appreciate they value do you get what i'm trying to say that's how life is god has created
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in a way there are stages in you getting something islam will keep you humble because no matter how
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much you have you're still gonna fast yeah yeah you're still gonna put your head on the floor
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pray and pray to god yeah so all of these things it keeps you humble as a person no matter how much
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you have yeah and the other thing is maybe you can empathize with the poor you can empathize the
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with the uh with homeless people whatever yeah but going through something like fasting you will
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empathize even more do you get what i'm saying so even if you have that little bit of empathy that
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will increase it yeah and someone who has no empathy they will surely be taught a lesson yeah and
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not only that it has many benefits there were studies that show in the middle east they have the lowest
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rates of cancer because of fasting because you know when you fast your body i was kind of doing
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three day fast i do i three day fast detox is recommended you know what it is like even now i
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eat i eat one meal a day one meal a day but it's a good meal yeah so i have like about 18 18 hours you
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know why because your cells renews itself when you fast you know you know we are not created to eat
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every day you know that our body is not created to eat every day we think we need to a free course
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meal we don't need to i promise you i used to in ramadan one ramadan five years ago because i'm very
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i'm into my fitness i jog i run so it was ramadan and in my head i was thinking oh i'm fasting
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i don't know because usually i run five kilometers so that day i said it's ramadan i'll do two
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kilometers no no but okay so i started jogging i was jogging jogging i looked yeah it's like two
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kilometers bro i still got energy i'm fasting i haven't eaten for 18 hours i said let me do one what i did
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four kilometers and i knew it's all in the head i ran better i train better i train better
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even when i do boxing when i train i promise you i train better when i'm fasting and from now on
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you know what i do anytime i train today i went jogging empty stomach yeah i train better i have
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more clear mind when you fast honestly you know a lot of people they get scared of ramadan they think
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oh i'm not gonna be able to do the things i usually do i swear to god ramadan comes even me i've done it
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for many years sometimes ramadan's coming i'm thinking oh it's gonna be hard it's that wallahi i feel
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amazing my body feels healthy i feel energetic and whatnot a lot of the time i actually feel
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more energy during ramadan exactly then before after but but they even ask for days off yeah
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and not only that though exactly yeah but there are also there are some muslims they end up they
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end up putting weight because when it comes it's not good they eat everything like an animal it's not
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from the this is not from the tradition the prophet peace be upon him he have a date something small
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yeah now fasting exactly but fasting is not also just not eating food the prophet muhammad said to us
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allah god does not need you is staying away from food and water if you are going to start talking ill
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you backbite swearing at people you um yeah yeah because god god doesn't need you to stay away from
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food and water if you are abusing your friend if you are swearing at your mother if you are cheating
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someone else god doesn't need your food and water the main thing is spiritual cleansing that's why as
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muslim men for example for us we don't if a woman is dressed in a in a way revealing clothes we we are
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not allowed to look we are we should allah tells us tell the believing men when you see a woman just
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look away okay why we have this uh yeah fasting we have in the christian yes yes you do you do yeah
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but you guys can drink water you can drink water but i think not we we have different beliefs because
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like during easter yeah we choose something that we really like and then we give up during this time
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yeah and then it's a way of us to there's a reason for fasting in the bible as well so
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you struggle when you're fasting yeah so when you struggle you get closer to god same takwa we call
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it we got takwa getting closer to god exactly because you claim for him more exactly exactly
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other than when you have everything in your hands exactly same same we use ramadan to get closer to god
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sorry we should we should be always but he wants us claiming for him yes and that is there's a
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sweetness to that when you do things for god when you're going through struggles there's a sweetness
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we call it the sweetness of faith when you get closer to god your faith increases that's why to
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me alhamdulillah the best thing i believe that happened to me is islam because i don't like i
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used to chase like i'll be honest with you this place i used to come clubbing here before when i was
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not muslim i used to come clubbing party in here every every every week that was my life i was like a
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westerner partying clubbing girls holidays i never found happiness never when i came to islam
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when i came to islam to me if they took everything from me no problem everything money everything as
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long as i have islam and my faith i'm good and that is something where you become truly free because
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all of us think we're free we're not as women for example one of the things that you guys suffer from
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is the beauty industry look this way lorio because i deserve it i look lorio because i'm lorio because
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i'm worth it it's like sometimes sometimes we see women here dressed in mini skirt it's freezing cold
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my hands are cold i see how we're dressed i'm cold okay good but what i'm saying is this
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are you truly free you guys don't seem like you're coming out in this skirt some people come and say
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like oh this is freedom maybe not how are you free if you think about it do you choose to wake up
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and say i want to spend two hours putting makeup no okay you would prefer to come outside with no
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makeup but because there's pressure from other women in society it makes you want to look a certain
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way do you know what i'm trying to say yeah but if we're getting that subject i'm gonna sit down
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and then we're gonna have a chat exactly i am no extreme feminist but i believe in freedom
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i believe we should do whatever we want to do not because i'm a woman because you are men
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freedom in what sense if you are being told what to think how do you have freedom
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if you are being taught that for example the values that you have for example today is against
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christianity a year from now yeah there's certain things that christian women do it's not christianity
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the way you dress i'm not gonna be worrying for example the bible says that your husband is the
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head of the house christ christ ah see exactly but you're just saying christ is the head of the
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church and the man is the head of the house even tells you when you come to church you are not
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allowed to talk i don't care what people think you should not raise your voice over your husband
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that's the thing i think the way society raised us all of us yes uh it's very sexist because my
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parents are sexist so my stepfather more yeah so i was raised in a way that i didn't i didn't
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feel free like to wear clothes what i i want to wear how i want to wear so now that i'm a
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like grow up like grow up woman i believe i can do whatever i want to do if i want to dress in a
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way i shouldn't be judged by the way i'm dressing men shouldn't look at me with the bad eyes or
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whatever because of the way i'm dressing as i cannot look at a muslim and i cannot judge them
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because they're wearing hijab of course yes because their religion i totally respect as i
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want they to respect me it doesn't make sense it doesn't make sense but the thing is this we live
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in a real world and when you dress up in a certain way it's going to get the attention of men i'm not
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saying i'm not saying that a man has a right to touch you no no no i'm saying the reality is that
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as a man he's created with a desire for a woman so when a woman dressed in a certain way he wants to
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talk to you i'm not talking about rape i'm not talking about that i'm talking about he's going
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to come and lie to you because he wants you for one thing and he's going to give you false promises
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and it's going to break your heart that's why islam says a woman has a role a man has a role
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we are not we are not the same we are equal in the sense in the sight of god you are equal i am equal
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however your responsibility is different mine is different my job for example with my wife is i'm
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the protector and provider i'm a full-time bodyguard i'm a full-time bodyguard when i'm walking if
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somebody says something to my wife i'm not gonna i can't run away i have to defend her so you see
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when it comes to feminism with this stuff for example you will understand that i do it number
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two i have to protect and provide for my wife my wife doesn't have to pay for rent shopping bill gas
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electric petrol nothing i pay for everything she has to be served why because she's a woman she's
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vulnerable she's weak you're not strong look you are not strong would you agree that men a woman is not
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as strong as a man physically no way you have to agree that you have to agree that
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no no no look right listen if i don't know if you believe in divorce do you believe in divorce
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yes we are allowed to divorce yeah so if your wife you are the provider and you and your wife break up
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yes and you'll say bye-bye who is going to provide to her are you going to still provide to her islam
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says the following before i get married um there's something called uh maher maher it's a dowry so
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argument let's say you are a muslim you marry a muslim man before you marry number one he has to speak
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to your father okay because why because if he has bad intentions with you your dad will know a man knows
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a man so to protect you because if he's after dating and just sex to use you and run away he knows he
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has to face the consequence of your father number one number two you have a right to ask for money
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any amount again we live in a real world no no no no it works no no no it works with my wife
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not in the uh it works okay in my world my wife she asked for some money yeah i don't want to tell
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you amount it was okay okay why because if i leave that's her protection that money she relies on
00:30:23.180
for example my parents they broke up when i was two yeah my mom had to work and leave me with my
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grandparents yes my mom found my stepfather good who provided to the house whatever she helped
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him to grow as a like yes yes worker raised me and my brother he cheated on her he left her and now
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she's financially uh she needs she needs him to pay the bills because she was supporting him to get
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the money the house and then he broke up so now now she's by herself with my brother i'm here and he
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has a lot of family already and then what's left so that's why that's why in islam that's why islam
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gives the right for the woman to ask for a money that if this happens it's like a deposit it's like
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a security so she keeps that for example 10 000 pounds she says you want to marry me my maher is
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10 000 pounds he has to do a wedding he has to give her that money that's her money he cannot touch
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that money you know the money i gave my wife i am not allowed to touch that money that is that is her
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money i have to do shopping all of the stuff i do okay good if she doesn't have to work she can
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work if she wants islamically she's allowed to work but if she says no i want to be with the kids
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no problem i'm happy with i'm happy with that however if me and her go our separate ways
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she has that money to rely on number one number two if i go her father her brother her uncles have
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to look after her has to so we say the men has to always protect the woman because a woman is
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vulnerable she is weak in what sense when a woman is a pregnant is she not weak she's weak she has
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to be looked after i'm not gonna argue exactly no no no i'm not saying the same way but yeah okay
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okay but what i'm saying is the following when a woman if you are walking down the road
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two men come to attack you can you defend yourself
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i did my time yes i two guys look good i can kick and run okay that's good but what i'm saying is
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if two men are behind you me and my friend yeah we're gonna come and help you yeah okay what we're
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saying is yes but i believe women are mentally more stronger than men much stronger so do you see
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how god has created us you have points where you need my help and there is points where i need your
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help good perfect that's what i'm saying so we're saying we complete one another yes we're not
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competitors yes do you get it because the feminist world falls for the idea that they want to be like
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man why do you want to be like a man exactly exactly perfect because a woman you should enjoy it let
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your husband my help my wife go work look after me okay no problem let her enjoy life let her enjoy
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time with the kids because the family of father and mother it brings a good generation of kids
00:33:11.940
healthy-minded kids divorces affect society that's why islam has these protocols in place
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to protect the men and protect the woman but there's more there's many stuff to learn about islam
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but read the quran i mean yeah like you know just read it and yeah
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yeah yeah yeah i just told you if you believe this is other than god respect yeah this man he sat
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down for one year back in right yeah yeah something yeah he wanted to prove to not be like my mom he
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wanted to bring something in this way i see i hear you because of what happened yes yes you know
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why because because of a bad man and and i i understand sadly sadly sadly sadly sadly
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and i know true but a lot of men men a lot of men they don't today men are not men and women are not
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women and sadly this is the reality that's why islam believes in traditional values yes a man does his
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job a woman does his job community flourishes yes it's very good in theory but in fact
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it doesn't work yes it will but it's they don't follow it yeah yeah yeah yeah but it was nice
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talking to you yeah if you have any other questions let me know i went to brazil once
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sao paulo yeah i went like seven eight years ago it was nice yeah i like brazil yeah because
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we we as muslims we are allowed to marry christians and jews yeah and we could but only muslim men
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not more women muslim women cannot and i'll tell you why muslim men yeah yeah i'll tell you why
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we are allowed to eat christian food and jewish food okay because we eat halal halal but we can
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have jewish and christian food the reason why as a muslim man i can marry a christian or a jew
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but not my wife is because if i marry a christian woman or a jewish woman i cannot force her to
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become a muslim i cannot force her to accept my religion however if my wife marries a christian man
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or a jewish in their religion they can force her to become a christian that's why it's to protect her
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because because generally men when they are leaving the house they can control and manipulate
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so it's a protector for men as a muslim man i'm not allowed to force my christian wife or my jewish
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wife to become a muslim but a muslim woman she's weak he can tell her no you're gonna accept
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christianity so it's a protector okay but both muslim man and muslim woman we cannot marry hindus
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you know idol worshippers yeah both us we're not allowed to marry hindus india hindu yeah yeah but
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christians and jews muslims we live together for centuries together because we're very close in
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belief you believe in god you believe in angels you believe in hereafter we're very close allah
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tells us we are very close to the christians yeah yeah he knows the universe it's nice talking to you
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how long are you guys here for oh you live here oh good good good but originally you're from brazil
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oh wow i'll leave you guys it was nice talking to you