Ali Dawah - August 04, 2021


3 GIRLS TOUCH MUSLIM MAN AND….


Episode Stats

Length

2 minutes

Words per Minute

243.67195

Word Count

722

Sentence Count

65

Misogynist Sentences

2

Hate Speech Sentences

4


Summary

In this episode, we talk about the importance of respecting the opposite gender and why it's not okay to touch them out of respect. We also have a discussion about the sexualization of women in the beauty industry and how it affects our perception of women.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Okay, look at, look at, yeah, yeah, it's haram to touch the hand.
00:00:03.940 Oh, sorry, it's okay, yeah, it's just out of respect.
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00:00:21.960 So, so, so all we're just saying, guys, in a nutshell,
00:00:24.440 No, and it was lovely, it's actually...
00:00:26.440 Thank you, thank you for your time.
00:00:28.620 Yes, yes.
00:00:29.140 Thank you, thank you.
00:00:29.900 It's really nice to have an actual Ramadan conversation.
00:00:31.260 I really like your perspective instead of this.
00:00:33.720 Right, I'm your view.
00:00:34.980 Yeah, yeah, 100%, but what I'm saying is,
00:00:36.800 one thing that I'll ask you guys is pray to God.
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00:00:42.160 That's all it takes.
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00:00:45.640 You won't lose anything.
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00:00:53.240 Sisters, thank you very much for your time.
00:00:54.580 It was a pleasure.
00:00:55.040 Thank you so much.
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00:01:00.080 What's the name of your YouTuber?
00:01:01.060 On Ali Dawah.
00:01:02.680 Wait, can I put it in my new watch?
00:01:03.800 Yeah, sure, sure.
00:01:06.060 Yes, look at this watch.
00:01:08.040 You see that design there?
00:01:09.100 Let's have a look.
00:01:09.880 Look at it, look at it.
00:01:10.320 I'm going to look a bit closer.
00:01:11.060 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:01:11.880 It's haram to touch the hand.
00:01:13.580 Oh, sorry, is it?
00:01:14.360 It's okay, yeah.
00:01:15.140 It's just out of respect.
00:01:16.400 Oh, sorry.
00:01:16.960 No, it's okay, it's okay.
00:01:18.300 No, it's haram, you said.
00:01:20.080 I know what that means.
00:01:21.960 You see the design?
00:01:22.660 Look behind it.
00:01:23.140 Why does it have harm to touch his hand?
00:01:24.740 Oh, basically, the opposite genders, for example, out of respect.
00:01:28.520 Because, you know, look, if you think about it, you know you've had this whole issues in the workplace.
00:01:32.400 For example, touching a woman's knee.
00:01:33.980 Yeah?
00:01:34.100 I've never had an issue in the workplace.
00:01:34.980 No, no, in the workplace now, in the workplace now, they say that you even have to keep the door open
00:01:38.600 because a lot of women feel uncomfortable when a man is talking to you
00:01:41.720 and he starts touching your knee.
00:01:42.960 Like, not in a sexual way, but maybe she doesn't want to be touched.
00:01:45.920 So what Islam says, prevention is better than cure.
00:01:48.260 Because I have respect for the opposite gender and I'm married, the only way I can touch the opposite gender is if they are married.
00:01:53.980 Why don't you wear a ring?
00:01:55.340 I don't need to.
00:01:56.580 It's not a symbol, like, in Islamically.
00:01:59.300 Yeah, there's nothing that symbolizes it, but I tell the person I'm married.
00:02:02.200 So the thing is, our respect for the opposite gender, because we honor them, like, when I was referring to you, I was referring to your sisters.
00:02:07.660 Why?
00:02:08.080 Because I have respect for you.
00:02:08.940 I don't want you to feel as if I'm talking to chat you up, because I believe, and this is really important,
00:02:15.580 because I believe society has really sexualized women to a point where any kind of discussion is all sexual.
00:02:22.100 All of it, why does it have to be like that?
00:02:23.980 Even as Muslim men, we are told to lower our gaze.
00:02:25.940 For example, if I'm walking down the road and I see a woman dressed up in a certain way,
00:02:29.820 I have to look the other way, out of respect.
00:02:31.860 So I believe today we've lost that, because women have been sexualized, objectified.
00:02:35.760 The beauty industry has made you feel so ugly.
00:02:38.360 Why? You guys are all beautiful in your own way.
00:02:40.380 Why do you have to feel and look a certain way?
00:02:42.680 So what we say is Islam, Islam has come to honor women to a status where you are a human being.
00:02:47.980 You have your intellect to offer, not just your body parts, whatever it may be.
00:02:51.520 So that's the reason when it comes to the question of shaking the hands, out of respect,
00:02:55.220 that I believe you have a husband.