Ali Dawah - November 24, 2025


AKHIS CAUGHT FLIRTING WITH GIRLS


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11 minutes

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Word count

2,619

Sentence count

275

Harmful content

Misogyny

9

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Hate speech

27

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Jummah Kutbahaykah on sisters flirting with the opposite gender in public, especially when it's a brother. I have been talking about this for a long time and it's finally here. I don't know what to do with it.

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00:00:00.160 Huh? She's Somali. Yeah. Huh? She's 17.
00:00:06.040 When's she turn 18? Next year.
00:00:08.560 Fine. Are you married? Me? No, I'm not married. Are you married?
00:00:12.900 My number?
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00:00:54.920 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.
00:00:57.620 Hope you guys are winning, inshallah.
00:00:58.600 So, I came across a video, and you guys know, I am the reaction video man.
00:01:02.040 And subhanAllah, when I saw this video, brothers and sisters, it really got me angry.
00:01:05.140 It actually got me so angry that I actually even forgot that I commented in this video about two months ago.
00:01:09.680 I think over two and a half months ago, subhanAllah.
00:01:11.600 So, we're going to watch the video, guys, and I want you guys to be consistent.
00:01:13.860 Because at the end of the day, guys, I've been talking about this for 13 years, okay?
00:01:17.240 And the double standards and the hypocrisy we have within our community.
00:01:19.800 When a sister does something, her hair's showing, whatever it is, we go crazy. 0.54
00:01:23.680 Yes? Okay?
00:01:24.300 And certain brothers, I'm not going to call them da'abro, alhamdulillah.
00:01:26.760 Yes?
00:01:26.880 Certain brothers who are doing Islamic romans or whatever it is, they go crazy when it comes to the sisters. 1.00
00:01:32.060 They do A-list, etc.
00:01:33.220 But the moment it's a brother, it's like nothing can happen.
00:01:35.240 And this is not fair.
00:01:36.080 Because we are told in the Quran to speak the truth, even if it's against ourselves.
00:01:39.020 If you do, you're going to watch for yourself.
00:01:40.280 Just imagine for a second.
00:01:41.900 This was sisters flirting, chatting, free-mixing with the opposite gender. 1.00
00:01:47.580 What would have happened?
00:01:48.260 That would have been uproar.
00:01:49.440 Well, let's watch for ourselves and see if you have the same reaction to brothers doing it in thobes.
00:01:53.940 Yes?
00:01:54.320 And if you've got a turban on their head, let's go straight to the video. 1.00
00:01:57.420 Here's the video.
00:01:58.280 Huh?
00:01:58.920 She's Somali.
00:01:59.780 She's Somali.
00:02:00.540 Yeah.
00:02:01.080 Huh?
00:02:01.580 She's 17.
00:02:04.080 When's she turning 18?
00:02:05.100 Next year.
00:02:06.620 Are you married?
00:02:08.540 Me?
00:02:09.080 No, I'm not married.
00:02:10.100 Are you married?
00:02:10.880 I get your number.
00:02:12.200 My number?
00:02:13.100 Why are you trying to get married? 0.99
00:02:14.860 Inshallah.
00:02:15.900 Inshallah.
00:02:16.300 Okay, first thing first.
00:02:20.080 What I want to say is first thing first here is that the initial approach, you can't really say there's nothing wrong.
00:02:25.340 Yes?
00:02:26.340 And there's nothing wrong with that.
00:02:27.480 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:02:27.980 Like, in a way we do with manners and akhlaab.
00:02:29.860 Okay, you're going up and saying, are you looking to get married?
00:02:32.500 It's a little bit bizarre.
00:02:34.620 Like, it's a bit spontaneous in the moment.
00:02:36.400 But you have to say, okay, you know what?
00:02:37.720 At the end of the day, there are guys who come and just ask for your number, et cetera.
00:02:40.720 Like, it's happy days.
00:02:41.480 So, at least you can say the initial thing was there.
00:02:43.220 But then he ruins it off.
00:02:44.220 Can I get your number?
00:02:45.120 Sorry, without your respect.
00:02:46.240 You know, if you're going to go to a sister, which, again, you have to be careful because that sister can be married.
00:02:50.340 Her brother can be there.
00:02:51.080 You can go left real quick.
00:02:52.300 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:02:52.980 But if you're going to approach her and say, look, salam alaykum, sister, I just happen to see you.
00:02:55.840 And I'm just wondering, I have no ill intentions.
00:02:58.380 But I'm just wondering that I would like to get to know you for marriage.
00:03:00.480 Can I speak to your father or your brother and ask their permission if I can get to know you for marriage if you are interested?
00:03:05.220 Calm, respectful, decent.
00:03:07.040 Yes, brother.
00:03:07.560 No, brother.
00:03:08.100 Thank you.
00:03:08.920 Bye-bye.
00:03:09.500 There's nothing wrong with that.
00:03:11.040 Islamically, there is nothing wrong with that.
00:03:13.340 Of course, you need to weigh the pros and cons of that sister might be married, her husband might come, there might be, you know, your janazah, the brothers might be, et cetera.
00:03:19.160 So you have to be careful.
00:03:19.940 But to go there, I'm like, I want your number, I want to get married.
00:03:22.680 Bro, that doesn't look serious to me, bro.
00:03:23.720 With all due respect, and you're in a, bro, you're in a shemakh. 0.94
00:03:26.340 You're wearing a phobe.
00:03:27.560 Yes?
00:03:27.860 You're wearing a phobe.
00:03:28.420 You're representing Islam, bro.
00:03:29.400 Like the hijabi sisters that represent Islam. 1.00
00:03:31.120 You're representing Islam, bro.
00:03:32.400 Well, let's carry on.
00:03:32.920 So number two, obviously, this woman is entertaining. 0.60
00:03:56.500 We don't know if she's a Muslim or not a Muslim, but you can see she's familiar with the terminology, Islamically.
00:04:00.520 Our niqadam, et cetera.
00:04:01.500 I don't know if she's got a niqadam before. 1.00
00:04:03.360 She knows what it is.
00:04:03.940 She's a Muslim from a Muslim background.
00:04:05.060 We don't know.
00:04:05.640 But you can see she's entertaining it.
00:04:07.060 So they're both as bad as each other in that sense.
00:04:09.220 We don't know if she's a Muslim.
00:04:09.920 If she's not a Muslim, you can't even say she's bad because, brother, that's the life she's about.
00:04:14.460 Let's hold your respect.
00:04:14.980 That's her life. 0.88
00:04:16.000 Do you get it?
00:04:16.400 You should know better.
00:04:17.560 And if you acted and conducted yourself in a better manner, not even going to do that, she would not go on that.
00:04:22.380 Because she's basically on your level now.
00:04:24.060 She's in your frequency, bro.
00:04:25.120 Okay, she's on your frequency because you're coming in a way that you can't clearly say it is advised.
00:04:30.480 I don't know if you can say it's haram.
00:04:31.800 Yes, okay.
00:04:32.760 There is some kind of free mixing involved.
00:04:34.700 There is you approaching that in a not right manner.
00:04:36.800 So she's just matching your energy, bro.
00:04:38.600 And that energy is there.
00:04:40.000 As you can see, she's from a jahil background.
00:04:41.640 From one time I went to her account, obviously, just to see who this person is, et cetera.
00:04:45.820 And she doesn't look like she's practicing.
00:04:46.880 She doesn't look like she's a Muslim. 0.99
00:04:47.680 I don't know.
00:04:48.440 So yeah, let's carry on.
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00:05:18.760 Let's go back to the video.
00:05:19.560 This is major, major, major, major alarm bells.
00:05:30.260 Any sister that is approached by a brother and he says, yeah, yeah, yeah, I've got an imam.
00:05:35.240 Or I know somebody who can do any care.
00:05:36.440 Listen, brother.
00:05:36.960 Listen, sister.
00:05:38.520 Listen, not to run for your life.
00:05:40.420 Do a U-turn and go the opposite direction in the country.
00:05:43.340 Leave the country.
00:05:44.560 Any brother that comes to you and approaches you and this, that, and I've got an imam and
00:05:47.700 we can do this or over Zoom and this, that.
00:05:50.100 Red.
00:05:50.640 Listen, alarm bells.
00:05:51.880 Forget the red flag.
00:05:52.600 This man is a red flag.
00:05:53.700 He's a red flag.
00:05:54.240 There is no red flags.
00:05:55.260 He himself is a red flag.
00:05:56.400 Okay.
00:05:56.700 Actually, forget the red flag.
00:05:57.380 He's a black flag.
00:05:58.100 Okay.
00:05:58.580 So, subhanAllah, you can see it is alarm bells all over.
00:06:01.160 We know an imam.
00:06:02.120 This is the greatest technique and tools that is used by so-called religious brothers. 0.99
00:06:07.100 I'll just put it like this from the outward opinion.
00:06:08.800 Okay.
00:06:09.000 May Allah forgive these brothers.
00:06:09.700 I'm not trying to belittle them, etc.
00:06:11.320 I just believe it was wrong the way it was conducted itself.
00:06:13.280 And they use this.
00:06:14.820 Okay.
00:06:15.160 And they do temporary nikahs. 0.98
00:06:17.200 Yes.
00:06:17.820 Okay.
00:06:18.120 For a couple of days or whatever it is with the intentions.
00:06:20.140 No, no, no, no.
00:06:20.860 Like, wallahi.
00:06:21.600 And the scholars even say this is not permissible.
00:06:23.300 It is haram.
00:06:23.920 It doesn't invalidate the nikah, but you are sinning. 1.00
00:06:26.380 So, be very, very careful.
00:06:28.600 So, cousin of all?
00:06:29.500 Yeah.
00:06:30.300 How old are you?
00:06:31.460 I don't know.
00:06:32.360 21.
00:06:33.100 Okay.
00:06:33.420 I'm likely older than you, so I don't know if I can give you my number.
00:06:37.300 I'm older than you, so I can give you my snap.
00:06:41.240 How old are you?
00:06:42.320 How old are you today?
00:06:45.200 She's 17.
00:06:46.120 No, sir.
00:06:49.340 I hear a thobe. 0.95
00:06:50.780 Did you get it from here?
00:06:52.120 I don't know.
00:06:52.580 Where did I get it from?
00:06:53.400 You don't know where you got it from?
00:06:54.360 Where are you supposed to be?
00:06:55.020 You see how she already notices your dress sense?
00:06:57.560 Do you know what I'm trying to say?
00:06:58.020 He knows, like, you know.
00:06:59.120 Maybe she's hinting, yeah, you're phobe, you know.
00:07:01.260 Maybe, look, you need to understand, look, subhanAllah, there's expectations that come with 0.99
00:07:04.020 the uniform.
00:07:04.520 It's not easy.
00:07:05.340 It's not easy for the sisters.
00:07:06.080 It's not easy for the brothers.
00:07:07.060 But there's expectations that comes with it.
00:07:08.720 And Dave Chappelle put it really funnily, you know.
00:07:10.740 I think it was Dave Chappelle.
00:07:11.720 He was making a comedy sketch, et cetera.
00:07:12.820 I watched it a long time ago before I came to the stamp, where he says, you know, imagine
00:07:16.760 that people come and say, oh, just because I'm dressed up in a miniscule or a dressman
00:07:19.880 doesn't mean that I am what you think I am, like those women who sell this stuff, et cetera.
00:07:24.020 He's like, yeah, but, and it's true, obviously, we can't judge.
00:07:27.020 It's very important.
00:07:27.960 We judge for what's apparent, meaning a sister's dressing up inappropriately or a brother's 0.70
00:07:31.260 doing unoperative stuff, 100%.
00:07:32.580 However, to come and then judge and say that woman sleeps around, it's a major sin. 1.00
00:07:36.440 You cannot say that.
00:07:37.380 If you see a brother has an earring and say, oh, he probably drinks alcohol, that's a major sin.
00:07:40.480 You can't judge that deep.
00:07:41.560 Yes, you can judge for what's apparent.
00:07:43.180 So here, SubhanAllah, you can see that he's saying, look, you know, Dave Chappelle was
00:07:47.720 saying, imagine you're walking down the road and there's someone in a police officer uniform.
00:07:51.080 He said, officer, officer, I'm being robbed.
00:07:52.760 And he said, just because I'm dressed up in a police officer's uniform does not mean
00:07:55.180 I'm a police officer.
00:07:56.000 He said, what the hell are you talking about?
00:07:57.340 Why are you confusing me?
00:07:58.520 There's expectations.
00:08:00.200 So the expectation she's having from you by hinting at your phobe is you should conduct
00:08:03.740 yourself better and you should know better.
00:08:05.300 Hmm?
00:08:06.140 You got a sister.
00:08:07.780 No.
00:08:08.440 I don't have a sister.
00:08:09.120 No, we got a sister.
00:08:10.040 But if I had a sister, I would put her on with you for sure.
00:08:12.820 Huh?
00:08:13.860 East African.
00:08:14.640 She's Somali.
00:08:15.500 She's Somali.
00:08:16.100 Yeah.
00:08:16.780 Oh.
00:08:17.200 Look at that.
00:08:19.160 I'm not an old Jew.
00:08:20.560 Huh?
00:08:21.360 Nah, I didn't tell you.
00:08:22.240 She's 17.
00:08:23.520 She's turning 17.
00:08:24.600 When she turned 18?
00:08:25.500 Next year.
00:08:27.360 She's young, right?
00:08:30.180 Yeah, I texted you.
00:08:32.860 Nah, I didn't get it.
00:08:34.240 You said, Sub, no?
00:08:35.380 No.
00:08:35.680 She's young, Dean.
00:08:36.400 You sure?
00:08:37.720 I said, Sub, no.
00:08:38.880 What I look like, say, what's up?
00:08:40.380 She young, Dean?
00:08:41.060 Yeah, you don't see her.
00:08:43.300 Oh, we're going to first get food, okay?
00:08:45.100 So, in a nutshell, guys.
00:08:46.760 Okay, why am I doing this?
00:08:47.740 Brothers and sisters, at the end of the day, like I said before, you know, the way we conduct
00:08:51.440 ourselves and Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tells us, you know, that the Prophet shall
00:08:55.000 have the best of akhlaq and manners, etc.
00:08:56.940 We're not innocent.
00:08:58.540 Anyone has a sin, etc.
00:09:00.380 But you need to understand that you are wearing the religious uniform that people can identify
00:09:05.480 with Islam that comes with responsibility. 0.98
00:09:07.700 Brother, I don't dress up and talk.
00:09:09.020 I don't know if there's anything wrong with it.
00:09:10.080 I would love to.
00:09:10.740 It's the most comfiest thing ever.
00:09:12.020 For personal reasons, I don't.
00:09:13.540 However, me even having this beard is an amanah.
00:09:16.520 The way I carry and conduct myself is an amanah.
00:09:18.860 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:09:19.680 And we need to understand that we represent Islam.
00:09:22.240 So, sisters and brothers, when you're out there and you're having that hijab or niqab on, 1.00
00:09:25.280 you know, it's heartbreaking when we hear stuff like, oh, there's a brother, yeah,
00:09:29.300 or there's a guy that I'm getting to know, and then you see me in the full, etc.
00:09:31.880 Or a sister, you've got some kaffir guy saying, oh, yeah, yeah, I'm meeting with this girl. 0.97
00:09:36.340 She's a hijabi. 0.99
00:09:37.660 Zina. 0.80
00:09:38.340 You're already niqabi. 1.00
00:09:39.340 Yes?
00:09:39.660 You need to understand that uniform has weight to it.
00:09:42.540 And understand that weight.
00:09:43.780 It's not easy.
00:09:44.520 Don't make it as an excuse of, okay, if I'm going to be judged, I might not wear it.
00:09:47.060 No.
00:09:47.680 Try your best.
00:09:48.480 But there's certain things that you don't do.
00:09:49.840 Like, for example, if you're in a hijab and you are kissing a guy on the road, that's not acceptable. 0.98
00:09:54.900 If you're a brother who's wearing a fob, who has a shemaq on wherever, and you are, I don't know,
00:09:59.900 selling drugs or drinking alcohol or stabbing people, whatever, Habibi, what are you doing? 0.95
00:10:04.700 So the thing is, the point is, brothers and sisters, we need to understand it is an amanah,
00:10:09.060 and we need to understand that responsibility.
00:10:10.720 Yes, it's not easy, but Jannah has a price.
00:10:13.720 It has a price.
00:10:14.840 And if you are wearing those things, just to look right to the price, Allah will humiliate you.
00:10:18.420 I believe this here was, I don't even know if they knew she was recording.
00:10:21.180 I think she might have those glasses on, maybe, if I'm not mistaken, yeah? 0.96
00:10:24.540 She had those glasses. 0.85
00:10:25.040 Maybe they didn't even know they were being recorded.
00:10:26.540 Subhanallah, look how embarrassing.
00:10:27.400 And look how Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala made that public. 0.96
00:10:29.720 Isn't that embarrassing?
00:10:30.400 Isn't that shameful?
00:10:31.200 And again, I'm not trying to have a go at the brothers and make them feel like, you know, rubbish about their self.
00:10:35.240 But the way you conduct yourself, I'm so sorry with all due respect.
00:10:37.740 This is not something when it comes to sisters, one single hair strand shows and you lose your mind. 0.98
00:10:42.280 Yeah, what about you?
00:10:43.160 What about the way you're conducting yourself?
00:10:45.060 Subhanallah, and I've talked about this years on end, subhanallah.
00:10:47.740 So all I want to do is bring you to this attention, brothers and sisters, that let's be careful.
00:10:51.700 Let's conduct ourselves in the best way possible, inshallah.
00:10:53.820 And know that the way you appear is a religious symbol and people look at you.
00:10:58.400 Actions speak louder than words, guys, subhanallah. 0.99
00:11:00.560 Let's be careful, be mindful, inshallah, and allow our conduct, the way we carry ourselves, how we dress,
00:11:05.900 be a positive da'wah, then a negative one.
00:11:09.180 That's all I wanted to say, inshallah.
00:11:10.640 May Allah bless and preserve you guys.
00:11:11.960 Until next time, Ali Da'wah. 0.83
00:11:13.700 Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.