Ali Dawah - November 24, 2025AKHIS CAUGHT FLIRTING WITH GIRLS
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Summary
Jummah Kutbahaykah on sisters flirting with the opposite gender in public, especially when it's a brother. I have been talking about this for a long time and it's finally here. I don't know what to do with it.
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Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.
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So, I came across a video, and you guys know, I am the reaction video man.
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And subhanAllah, when I saw this video, brothers and sisters, it really got me angry.
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It actually got me so angry that I actually even forgot that I commented in this video about two months ago.
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I think over two and a half months ago, subhanAllah.
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So, we're going to watch the video, guys, and I want you guys to be consistent.
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Because at the end of the day, guys, I've been talking about this for 13 years, okay?
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And the double standards and the hypocrisy we have within our community.
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When a sister does something, her hair's showing, whatever it is, we go crazy.
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And certain brothers, I'm not going to call them da'abro, alhamdulillah.
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Certain brothers who are doing Islamic romans or whatever it is, they go crazy when it comes to the sisters.
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But the moment it's a brother, it's like nothing can happen.
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Because we are told in the Quran to speak the truth, even if it's against ourselves.
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This was sisters flirting, chatting, free-mixing with the opposite gender.
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Well, let's watch for ourselves and see if you have the same reaction to brothers doing it in thobes.
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And if you've got a turban on their head, let's go straight to the video.
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What I want to say is first thing first here is that the initial approach, you can't really say there's nothing wrong.
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Okay, you're going up and saying, are you looking to get married?
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At the end of the day, there are guys who come and just ask for your number, et cetera.
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So, at least you can say the initial thing was there.
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You know, if you're going to go to a sister, which, again, you have to be careful because that sister can be married.
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But if you're going to approach her and say, look, salam alaykum, sister, I just happen to see you.
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And I'm just wondering, I have no ill intentions.
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But I'm just wondering that I would like to get to know you for marriage.
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Can I speak to your father or your brother and ask their permission if I can get to know you for marriage if you are interested?
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Of course, you need to weigh the pros and cons of that sister might be married, her husband might come, there might be, you know, your janazah, the brothers might be, et cetera.
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But to go there, I'm like, I want your number, I want to get married.
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With all due respect, and you're in a, bro, you're in a shemakh.
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So number two, obviously, this woman is entertaining.
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We don't know if she's a Muslim or not a Muslim, but you can see she's familiar with the terminology, Islamically.
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So they're both as bad as each other in that sense.
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If she's not a Muslim, you can't even say she's bad because, brother, that's the life she's about.
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And if you acted and conducted yourself in a better manner, not even going to do that, she would not go on that.
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Okay, she's on your frequency because you're coming in a way that you can't clearly say it is advised.
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There is you approaching that in a not right manner.
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From one time I went to her account, obviously, just to see who this person is, et cetera.
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This is major, major, major, major alarm bells.
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Any sister that is approached by a brother and he says, yeah, yeah, yeah, I've got an imam.
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Do a U-turn and go the opposite direction in the country.
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Any brother that comes to you and approaches you and this, that, and I've got an imam and
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So, subhanAllah, you can see it is alarm bells all over.
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This is the greatest technique and tools that is used by so-called religious brothers.
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I'll just put it like this from the outward opinion.
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I just believe it was wrong the way it was conducted itself.
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For a couple of days or whatever it is with the intentions.
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And the scholars even say this is not permissible.
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It doesn't invalidate the nikah, but you are sinning.
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I'm likely older than you, so I don't know if I can give you my number.
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You see how she already notices your dress sense?
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Maybe she's hinting, yeah, you're phobe, you know.
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Maybe, look, you need to understand, look, subhanAllah, there's expectations that come with
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And Dave Chappelle put it really funnily, you know.
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I watched it a long time ago before I came to the stamp, where he says, you know, imagine
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that people come and say, oh, just because I'm dressed up in a miniscule or a dressman
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doesn't mean that I am what you think I am, like those women who sell this stuff, et cetera.
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He's like, yeah, but, and it's true, obviously, we can't judge.
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We judge for what's apparent, meaning a sister's dressing up inappropriately or a brother's
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However, to come and then judge and say that woman sleeps around, it's a major sin.
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If you see a brother has an earring and say, oh, he probably drinks alcohol, that's a major sin.
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So here, SubhanAllah, you can see that he's saying, look, you know, Dave Chappelle was
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saying, imagine you're walking down the road and there's someone in a police officer uniform.
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And he said, just because I'm dressed up in a police officer's uniform does not mean
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So the expectation she's having from you by hinting at your phobe is you should conduct
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But if I had a sister, I would put her on with you for sure.
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Brothers and sisters, at the end of the day, like I said before, you know, the way we conduct
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ourselves and Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tells us, you know, that the Prophet shall
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But you need to understand that you are wearing the religious uniform that people can identify
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I don't know if there's anything wrong with it.
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However, me even having this beard is an amanah.
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The way I carry and conduct myself is an amanah.
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And we need to understand that we represent Islam.
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So, sisters and brothers, when you're out there and you're having that hijab or niqab on,
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you know, it's heartbreaking when we hear stuff like, oh, there's a brother, yeah,
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or there's a guy that I'm getting to know, and then you see me in the full, etc.
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Or a sister, you've got some kaffir guy saying, oh, yeah, yeah, I'm meeting with this girl.
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You need to understand that uniform has weight to it.
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Don't make it as an excuse of, okay, if I'm going to be judged, I might not wear it.
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Like, for example, if you're in a hijab and you are kissing a guy on the road, that's not acceptable.
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If you're a brother who's wearing a fob, who has a shemaq on wherever, and you are, I don't know,
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selling drugs or drinking alcohol or stabbing people, whatever, Habibi, what are you doing?
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So the thing is, the point is, brothers and sisters, we need to understand it is an amanah,
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And if you are wearing those things, just to look right to the price, Allah will humiliate you.
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I believe this here was, I don't even know if they knew she was recording.
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I think she might have those glasses on, maybe, if I'm not mistaken, yeah?
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Maybe they didn't even know they were being recorded.
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And look how Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala made that public.
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And again, I'm not trying to have a go at the brothers and make them feel like, you know, rubbish about their self.
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But the way you conduct yourself, I'm so sorry with all due respect.
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This is not something when it comes to sisters, one single hair strand shows and you lose your mind.
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Subhanallah, and I've talked about this years on end, subhanallah.
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So all I want to do is bring you to this attention, brothers and sisters, that let's be careful.
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Let's conduct ourselves in the best way possible, inshallah.
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And know that the way you appear is a religious symbol and people look at you.
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Actions speak louder than words, guys, subhanallah.
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Let's be careful, be mindful, inshallah, and allow our conduct, the way we carry ourselves, how we dress,