Ali Dawah - March 02, 2019


ALI DAWAH GETS SISTERS IN UNI TO REPEAT... - Middlesex University


Episode Stats


Length

3 minutes

Words per minute

168.9

Word count

563

Sentence count

57

Harmful content

Misogyny

2

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Toxicity

6

sentences flagged

Hate speech

2

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Summary

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In this episode, I talk about how important it is to know your worth and how to deal with those times when you feel like you are not enough. Do not fall into the trap of believing in a fairy tale. Allah's Messenger has put in place rules and regulations in place for us to know our worth.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Please, I. I. I. I. I. I 1914.
00:00:30.000 I want sisters to do something, is everybody ready?
00:00:33.000 You guys can join in for that.
00:00:35.000 I want you guys to repeat after me, okay?
00:00:39.000 So let's do a practice run, yeah?
00:00:40.000 I.
00:00:41.000 I.
00:00:42.000 Now properly, come on, mean it, yeah?
00:00:45.000 I.
00:00:46.000 I.
00:00:47.000 Come on, sisters, please. 1.00
00:00:48.000 I.
00:00:49.000 I.
00:00:50.000 Am.
00:00:51.000 Am.
00:00:52.000 Worth.
00:00:53.000 More.
00:00:54.000 More.
00:00:55.000 Than.
00:00:56.000 Than.
00:00:57.000 Being.
00:00:58.000 Being.
00:00:59.000 I want you guys to repeat this in your head.
00:01:03.000 Go.
00:01:04.000 You're in front of the mirror, I'm sure, 10 hours of the day.
00:01:08.000 Repeat it, yeah?
00:01:09.000 The reason I want you guys to repeat it, is because I want you guys to know your value,
00:01:14.000 inshallah, yeah?
00:01:15.000 This is very, very important about all the sisters, because I see and it breaks my heart
00:01:18.000 when I get sisters messaging, and they're in situations where they're suicidal, etc.
00:01:21.000 Why?
00:01:22.000 Because they believed in a fairy tale.
00:01:24.000 And, inshallah, like I said before, please, please, do not. 0.98
00:01:27.000 It's very simple.
00:01:28.000 Allah's Messenger has put regulations in place.
00:01:30.000 Have you seen my experiment that I did, called, ask her dad's number?
00:01:33.000 No.
00:01:34.000 Well, you guys are not.
00:01:35.000 Bad, are you?
00:01:36.000 You haven't seen that?
00:01:37.000 Have you seen that experiment?
00:01:38.000 Ask her dad's number.
00:01:39.000 Yeah?
00:01:40.000 Okay, so basically, I went to, in Valentine's Day, I went to the non-Muslims, I went to the 1.00
00:01:45.000 non-Muslim females as well, and I asked them a question, yeah?
00:01:48.000 I said to them, look, you know, I was saying to them, look, I said, I'm going to say a sentence,
00:01:52.000 finish it off for me, yeah? 1.00
00:01:53.000 So I said, men are, and they said, trash. 1.00
00:01:56.000 Yeah, you guys know it though, yeah? 1.00
00:01:58.000 Okay.
00:01:59.000 But they probably, they probably know it because of experience, yeah?
00:02:02.000 Because they've, you know, been messed around, etc.
00:02:04.000 So when I talked to them about the concept of going through the draft of Wali, they themselves
00:02:10.000 were like, yes, you know, this is actually a really, really good way to go about it.
00:02:15.000 I even heard that a hundred years ago, in this country, they used to have the same concept.
00:02:19.000 If they were getting to know someone, their daughter, they would be there, they would
00:02:22.000 be present.
00:02:23.000 Why?
00:02:24.000 Sisters, your Wali, your father, your brother is there for a reason, because a man knows
00:02:29.000 a man, yeah?
00:02:30.000 So when you go and do stuff, and I know sometimes it's hard, I know sometimes your family
00:02:33.000 make it difficult, you can't speak to them, etc.
00:02:36.000 But, please, it's better, I believe it's better for you to struggle for two, three years,
00:02:43.000 four years, wherever you may be, looking to get married, then get used by some guy with
00:02:47.000 false promises and ruin your life.
00:02:49.000 And it ruins your life.
00:02:50.000 So, inshallah, what I've got you to repeat, please understand that.
00:02:54.000 Know your value.
00:02:55.000 Do not fall for these traps, inshallah.
00:02:57.000 And brothers, like I said before, if it's your own sister, you know very well, inshallah.
00:03:02.000 So, go by the right way.
00:03:03.000 Allah says in the Quran, if you fear me, I will give you a way out from places you can't
00:03:07.000 imagine, yeah?
00:03:08.000 Okay.
00:03:09.000 It can be done.
00:03:10.000 Believe me, it can be done.
00:03:11.000 Is it hard?
00:03:12.000 Yes. 0.90
00:03:13.000 But it's damn worth it. 0.83
00:03:14.000 So, inshallah, keep that in mind. 0.75
00:03:16.000 Questions?
00:03:17.000 Thank you, sister.
00:03:18.000 Thank you, sister.
00:03:19.000 Thank you, sister.