ALI DAWAH GETS SISTERS IN UNI TO REPEAT... - Middlesex University
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about how important it is to know your worth and how to deal with those times when you feel like you are not enough. Do not fall into the trap of believing in a fairy tale. Allah's Messenger has put in place rules and regulations in place for us to know our worth.
Transcript
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I want sisters to do something, is everybody ready?
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You're in front of the mirror, I'm sure, 10 hours of the day.
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The reason I want you guys to repeat it, is because I want you guys to know your value,
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This is very, very important about all the sisters, because I see and it breaks my heart
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when I get sisters messaging, and they're in situations where they're suicidal, etc.
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And, inshallah, like I said before, please, please, do not.
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Allah's Messenger has put regulations in place.
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Have you seen my experiment that I did, called, ask her dad's number?
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Okay, so basically, I went to, in Valentine's Day, I went to the non-Muslims, I went to the
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non-Muslim females as well, and I asked them a question, yeah?
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I said to them, look, you know, I was saying to them, look, I said, I'm going to say a sentence,
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But they probably, they probably know it because of experience, yeah?
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Because they've, you know, been messed around, etc.
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So when I talked to them about the concept of going through the draft of Wali, they themselves
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were like, yes, you know, this is actually a really, really good way to go about it.
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I even heard that a hundred years ago, in this country, they used to have the same concept.
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If they were getting to know someone, their daughter, they would be there, they would
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Sisters, your Wali, your father, your brother is there for a reason, because a man knows
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So when you go and do stuff, and I know sometimes it's hard, I know sometimes your family
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make it difficult, you can't speak to them, etc.
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But, please, it's better, I believe it's better for you to struggle for two, three years,
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four years, wherever you may be, looking to get married, then get used by some guy with
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So, inshallah, what I've got you to repeat, please understand that.
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And brothers, like I said before, if it's your own sister, you know very well, inshallah.
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Allah says in the Quran, if you fear me, I will give you a way out from places you can't