Ali Dawah - September 10, 2023


ALI DAWAH MESSAGES OMAR SULEIMAN & TRUTH COMES OUT


Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

228.51517

Word count

1,973

Sentence count

158

Harmful content

Misogyny

1

sentences flagged

Hate speech

7

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, I talk about the growing trend of men being attacked verbally and physically by their wives and partners. I also talk about why a female speaker should not be allowed to call the police when she accuses someone of a crime.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I have to say that this person has a possibility of having evil intent.
00:00:07.280 To speak with confidence like these amazing personalities,
00:00:11.520 every single one of these amazing speakers have taken the same program with brother Mohamed Arshad.
00:00:16.960 Mohamed Arshad has helped develop all of us.
00:00:20.260 It's extremely beneficial to do this course.
00:00:23.320 Definitely recommend this course.
00:00:26.540 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, brothers and citizen, dear friends.
00:00:29.620 I have to say that this person has a possibility of having evil intent.
00:00:35.220 This person could have a possibility of having nifaq.
00:00:38.160 This person doing these actions, can it be truly for the sake of Allah?
00:00:43.760 There's possibilities it can and there's possibilities it can't.
00:00:46.960 It's a 50-50 matter.
00:00:48.160 I'm not talking about Omar Suleiman, Ustar Omar Suleiman.
00:00:51.300 Why am I not talking about him?
00:00:52.480 The reason being is this, brothers and sisters.
00:00:53.760 The person that I'm talking about can be a male or a female.
00:00:56.260 And it can apply to any of us for that matter.
00:00:58.660 I want to make something very clear.
00:01:00.160 As you guys know, yesterday I released a video pertaining to a female speaker called Sister Dunya.
00:01:05.240 I don't really know.
00:01:06.060 I've seen some of her videos.
00:01:06.940 I don't really know nothing of her.
00:01:08.600 Niva, her ex-husband or ex-husbands or whatever for that matter.
00:01:12.060 The point here is the following.
00:01:13.360 There is a massive growing phenomenon of men being attacked verbally, physically.
00:01:18.380 We talk about this day in the house.
00:01:19.940 I don't regret doing that video.
00:01:21.020 Even though some brothers, which I love, may Allah bless them and honor them.
00:01:24.300 I do take the advice that in the sense where, you know, I should take the video down.
00:01:28.460 I'm still consulting.
00:01:29.420 I do not believe I should.
00:01:30.920 But if that changes, if I have wronged anybody, be it Sister Dunya for that matter, be it anyone for that matter, I will publicly repent, apologize and take the video down.
00:01:38.660 Until I do that.
00:01:39.500 But at the moment, me and Mohamed Ijab are preparing for a big debate.
00:01:43.040 So I am focusing on that.
00:01:44.520 But I wanted to do this video because the video that I did about Brother Salman, who's married to Sister Dunya, the video, the evidence were like to me was very clear.
00:01:52.900 There's of course two sides to the story.
00:01:54.160 And if the first story comes up, I would make that public as well.
00:01:56.700 But from what I saw and personal experience that I know, for a female speaker who uses foul language like the F word, for a speaker to be accusing people of certain things, but do not call the police. 0.97
00:02:06.400 And certain voice recordings, which should not be released, by the way, because they were private.
00:02:10.440 But at the end of the day, I want this video specifically about Omar Suleiman.
00:02:13.740 A lot of people, look, you need to understand something.
00:02:15.880 I have my differences with a lot of people.
00:02:17.440 Well, I would say a lot of people, a couple of people, yeah.
00:02:18.920 And some of them have backstabbed me, literally backstabbed me.
00:02:22.220 Now, I can't come out one day and imagine something comes out about them and that argument says somebody's accusing them of zinnah or somebody's accusing them of theft or this and just because they have backstabbed myself, I jump on the bandwagon and go, yeah, I knew it, I knew it.
00:02:35.100 This is insincerity.
00:02:36.640 I would say, no, I would defend their honor, yes?
00:02:40.020 Even if it's Brother Sajid, yeah, who outright backstabbed, backstabbed when we are dealing with enemies in the front line, he backstabbed with no qualifications to turn on his armchair. 0.91
00:02:48.560 And many other people I don't want to name, but I can't be unjust, yes?
00:02:52.020 And question their sincerity.
00:02:53.400 I've never, ever questioned their sincerity.
00:02:55.120 I don't want to mention the individuals by name.
00:02:56.560 Why?
00:02:57.080 Brothers, there's people coming out and saying outrageous stuff.
00:03:00.880 Wallahi, saying stuff like, I've heard, like, for example, which I'm going to come to my discussion with Ustaz Omar Suleiman.
00:03:07.140 I spoke to him, yes?
00:03:08.500 And when it comes to the matter of Salman accusing him that he didn't, he wants to be quiet because, you know, the community will attack, etc.
00:03:14.260 There is no evidence to that, number one.
00:03:16.040 Number two, before people come and say, you know, yeah, just because I have, look, I have Danny Hakikechu's number.
00:03:20.720 I speak to him regularly.
00:03:21.360 He helps me with a lot of stuff.
00:03:23.020 I have Omar Suleiman's number.
00:03:24.320 I speak to them, yeah?
00:03:25.160 If it was done against Danny Hakikechu, I would do the same thing.
00:03:27.760 But people are crossing the lines and limits by backbiting and slandering.
00:03:32.280 Just because you disagree on something, no problem.
00:03:35.620 What these brothers disagree with when it pertains to the American du'at and the imams, etc., I believe there are valid points. 0.97
00:03:41.760 I do not disagree with that.
00:03:42.900 There are valid points.
00:03:43.780 There's valid criticism.
00:03:45.000 And we enjoy the good and forbid evil, but we should do private nasiyah. 0.97
00:03:48.180 And after that, the public nasiyah has to be done if the actions that have been done is in public.
00:03:52.700 However, nobody has a right to go and start accusing them of, oh, for example, if they speak like this in public, imagine what they do.
00:04:02.040 La, this is slander.
00:04:03.520 This is a slander.
00:04:05.020 This is an accusation.
00:04:06.200 Imagine me coming and saying, oh, if this brother did this, therefore imagine why he does it in the private.
00:04:10.740 You can't say that.
00:04:11.640 You are not allowed to say that.
00:04:12.620 That is haram.
00:04:13.660 How does that fall into the guidelines of the sharia?
00:04:15.760 That you are accusing an individual that if they are doing something that you deem not the appropriate argument, say.
00:04:20.660 For example, we have the Bitter Truth Show, yeah, some people, unqualified individuals, yeah, that need to go outpay for their Medina fee if they can go back and study, yeah, simple principles, yeah, they deem that we are free mixing our Bitter Truth Show, which is bring me evidence.
00:04:34.600 Yes, there is no evidence, yeah, unless you hold an opinion, that's calm.
00:04:37.480 But to say that is the opinion.
00:04:38.840 So if people come and say, oh, imagine if they're free mixing and sitting on sofas opposite sisters, imagine what they're doing when the camera's off.
00:04:45.460 Imagine what they're doing when the, this is a slander.
00:04:48.060 And people are backbiting so casually.
00:04:51.620 Wallahi, the Quran and the Sunnah makes it so clear when it comes to backbiting how severe it is.
00:04:56.680 Brothers, how do you guys so loosely, your tongues are so loose. 0.98
00:05:00.480 Fear Allah, I have my differences with certain individuals.
00:05:02.640 I am very, very, very careful to backbiting.
00:05:06.560 Very, very careful, yeah.
00:05:08.120 Unless somebody's done something clear cut of backstabbing, not myself, many individuals,
00:05:12.500 then we will have to say which is the conditions that this person is known for this and we have to warn against him.
00:05:17.140 This person is known to doing this.
00:05:19.320 So the point is what?
00:05:20.600 We can criticize and say this is wrong, doing this.
00:05:23.280 For example, unless it like in the masajid, unneeded circumstances, for example, for men and women to sit and to mingle, etc.
00:05:31.860 Joking, etc.
00:05:32.920 You know, but the point is what?
00:05:34.240 That to go out and start slandering and calling them names, slandering them, calling them names and saying, oh, this person does that.
00:05:39.680 This is haram.
00:05:40.700 I spoke to Ustad Omar and he took an oath by Allah, this accusation by Brother Salman, that he said, oh, that, you know, if we speak about this, the community is going to turn against me.
00:05:50.620 I've seen messages, which he has shown me, I've seen with my own eyes, that he was there for you, Brother Salman, to the best to his ability.
00:05:57.500 You need to understand as individuals who are in the public sphere, we would, I wish I was Superman, I can help everybody.
00:06:01.840 And some people have a go at me, oh, brother, I'm messaging you, they're messaging you, like, brother, I'm not Superman.
00:06:05.100 I've got my family to look after.
00:06:06.520 I'm trying to save myself.
00:06:07.560 The point is, understand that, to accuse him and make it seem, and this whole niqaagfin contract that he was on, it was fake.
00:06:14.780 Yes, it was outright fake.
00:06:16.900 Okay, he didn't do that.
00:06:18.520 He's made a very clear token of, by Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, that he's had no communication.
00:06:23.620 Yes, with sister, like, since six, seven years ago, or something like that, for that matter.
00:06:28.100 So we need to be very, very careful to jump on the bandwagon.
00:06:30.880 I know a lot of people are going to be watching this and thinking that I'm going to be attacking Omar Suleiman.
00:06:33.680 Look, whoever it is for that matter.
00:06:34.740 If it's Daniel Hakkatu's honor, I would defend it.
00:06:36.800 If it is Sajid's honor, I would defend it.
00:06:39.120 Okay, whoever it is.
00:06:40.420 Unjustly being accused and slandered is haram.
00:06:42.700 And we need to be very careful, brothers and sisters, to jump on the bandwagon.
00:06:45.300 Omar Suleiman is not perfect, neither am I.
00:06:47.160 He's made mistakes.
00:06:48.400 We are human beings.
00:06:49.500 We make mistakes.
00:06:50.480 And the best of sinners are those who repent.
00:06:52.480 So how could people hold something against an individual when he has repented, he's changed it,
00:06:58.080 he's made videos vocalizing himself when it comes to the LGBTQT issue.
00:07:01.660 Yes, he's not perfect.
00:07:02.720 He might make many other mistakes.
00:07:04.200 So do I, so do you.
00:07:05.780 Imagine I stuck to your mistake that you've done and not let go.
00:07:09.400 Wallahi Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
00:07:10.960 Wool punish us severely.
00:07:12.300 I just want to say that.
00:07:13.160 Let's be very, very careful.
00:07:14.360 Wallahi, you can have your differences.
00:07:15.660 You can criticize.
00:07:16.580 You can say this is wrong.
00:07:17.480 Good.
00:07:17.880 Without name calling.
00:07:18.940 Without backbiting.
00:07:19.720 Without slandering.
00:07:20.360 Can you not do a video of refutation?
00:07:21.860 Brothers, where's the adab and akhlaq of refuting gone? 1.00
00:07:24.620 Where is the demanah?
00:07:25.960 Trying to advise privately.
00:07:27.180 It doesn't work okay publicly, but in a specific demeanor.
00:07:29.720 I see videos, people are like, wallahi, ajeeb, weird.
00:07:33.180 You're giving your goodies to the person you dislike the most.
00:07:36.160 On your makiyama, do you want to give your goodies to a person you don't like or to the people that you love?
00:07:39.240 On your makiyama, you're going to end up giving your goodies to a person you dislike.
00:07:42.980 Make it make sense to me.
00:07:44.200 That's why myself, I'm very careful because if I dislike this person for the sake of Allah and they've wronged me,
00:07:48.280 I will abstain from name calling and slandering them.
00:07:51.160 Because why should I give my good deeds to him?
00:07:53.020 Am I mad?
00:07:53.540 Am I crazy?
00:07:54.200 So please, brothers and sisters, when it comes to this, be very careful with assumptions.
00:07:57.600 And brother Salman, like I said before, you have been wronged.
00:08:00.140 And whoever has been wronged, I will stand for it.
00:08:03.480 And many, many brothers are going through this.
00:08:05.320 That's the reason I've done that video.
00:08:06.600 Yeah, and I stick by it until I change my mind and, you know, speak to the people of knowledge.
00:08:10.460 And then we're going to see, inshallah.
00:08:11.440 If needed, I will take the video then and do a public apology.
00:08:13.520 But for now, it is a well-needed video.
00:08:14.960 I've had brothers messaging me left, right, center of what they're going through.
00:08:19.060 Left, right, center, wallahi.
00:08:20.260 It's crazy times.
00:08:21.260 Let's be very, very careful to our tongue.
00:08:23.000 The Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, said,
00:08:24.480 The one who guarantees what's between his lips and what's between his legs, 0.92
00:08:26.880 I give him good news of paradise.
00:08:28.820 Do not let these lips cause you to destruction, inshallah.
00:08:31.560 Like one scholar said, I have never regretted being silent.
00:08:34.280 But many times I've regretted speaking.
00:08:35.900 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.