Ali Dawah - ASK HER DADS NUMBER - EXPERIMENT

00:00:00.000 how do you know this brother here is serious about you how would you know how

00:00:03.600 would you how would you say you know what what's this guy trying to do what

00:00:05.760 i love my girl right now yeah a penguin yeah you gotta keep it halal yeah the reason you guys say 0.96

00:00:09.440 that is because maybe you had bad experience yeah yeah girl says you know what if you like me you

00:00:13.120 gotta come and speak to my father i'll be like oh no no no no i have the man yeah i have the man

00:00:18.800 i would i would go to the father and see what he has to say if she said to you you gotta come

00:00:23.280 speak to my brother how would you feel

00:00:24.800 assalamualaikum warahmatullahi barakatuh brothers and sisters and dear friends today we are out in

00:00:32.240 shepherd's bush and it's valentine's day as you guys know as muslims we are not allowed to date and we

00:00:36.480 go about things the right way we go to the father so what we're going to do today is we're going to

00:00:39.760 pop this bubble and ask people what they think about the muslim way of getting to know somebody

00:00:44.000 and the dangers of her own relationships we're going to find out now have you guys do you have

00:00:48.880 boyfriends yeah no you don't okay all right so how would you suss out so when you met your boyfriend

00:00:54.640 how did you know this guy is genuine or he's a player how did you know you just don't think

00:00:59.760 you just hold your cars close to your chest and then just wait and see that was my mistake

00:01:05.360 what do you what do you mean by hold like you just keep keep a guard up a little bit and then see how

00:01:10.240 it goes and then if they're genuine it will come through like i've had friends before yeah who were

00:01:15.760 like players and stuff kind of stuff yeah yeah and they say a lot of young boys are yes yes yeah

00:01:20.800 that's what they say men are yes trash yes exactly yeah this phrase exactly the reason you guys say

00:01:26.960 that is because maybe you had bad experience yeah yeah yeah what's your name david david and sister

00:01:32.240 sarah sarah okay you said that there might be a potential that you guys might go out

00:01:35.680 except you know listen no no no no okay okay okay okay okay okay cut that bit cut that you just met

00:01:41.360 you just met okay yeah okay the way you move you you acted like you're a girlfriend or something 0.98

00:01:45.280 i'm joking come on man you know they finish the sentence of men are trash thank you okay how do you 0.86

00:01:50.080 sell someone else the way he talks to you like if he respects you okay if you respect you you can see 0.58

00:01:55.920 in the way that he looks at you and stuff like that or the way that he like yeah okay so even if i'm in

00:02:01.760 a whatsapp conversation or saying the brother has to be there in the whatsapp conversation what's up

00:02:05.760 conversation fam yeah what's your name louie and your girlfriend helio helio okay so basically i'm

00:02:12.080 a muslim yeah i'm orthodox muslim let me put it like this yeah okay how do you know it's a question

00:02:17.280 to you sister yeah how do you know he really loves you but how would you know if he really loves you

00:02:24.640 and he's after the wrong things how how would you suss him out because he's been with me for two years

00:02:29.200 like okay so you've been together for two years yeah yeah if you guys get married you can meet him like

00:02:34.160 okay how do you know this brother here is serious about you how would you know how would

00:02:40.960 you how would you say you know what what's this guy trying to do so now if you really love a girl

00:02:45.760 yeah okay i love my girl right now yeah i love my girl i know you got to keep it halal yeah halal means you got to do it the right way yeah

00:02:53.200 yeah now if you want to get to imagine you like this girl okay yeah when you grow up how old are you

00:03:00.640 11 yeah so when you when you're 16 when you're 16 yeah okay it doesn't matter 11 12 same thing yeah

00:03:05.280 so when you grow up yeah imagine this girl says you know what if you like me you gotta come and speak

00:03:08.720 speak to my father i'll be like oh no no no no no no i have the money you see if somebody's after the

00:03:27.680 wrong intentions here for the wrong reasons he's not gonna come to you looking bait he's not gonna act

00:03:32.080 you get to know her

00:03:33.420 obviously in that process

00:03:34.740 you're a man

00:03:35.640 she's a woman

00:03:36.180 you have desires

00:03:36.860 things happen

00:03:37.840 and then

00:03:39.000 what if you turn around

00:03:39.760 and say

00:03:40.080 you're not the one for me

00:03:41.760 what if I do that

00:03:43.380 yeah you can

00:03:44.040 that could happen

00:03:45.440 so then

00:03:46.240 you're just going to

00:03:47.200 casually tell her

00:03:47.960 like sorry

00:03:48.700 it's not meant to be

00:03:50.280 yeah 100%

00:03:50.980 I'm going to talk in general

00:03:52.260 in general

00:03:52.800 like if you've got

00:03:54.940 good morals

00:03:55.680 if you're like

00:03:57.280 I don't know

00:03:57.720 if you're smart

00:03:58.400 not on this voting

00:03:59.440 you know

00:04:00.540 yeah if you're a nice person

00:04:02.240 not just trying to

00:04:03.280 beat and delete girls 1.00

00:04:04.660 okay 0.86

00:04:05.320 we've got respect

00:04:06.760 in that yeah

00:04:07.460 okay alright

00:04:08.360 you know what

00:04:09.060 how men go about things

00:04:10.440 how would you know

00:04:11.020 if he's a player or not

00:04:11.980 coming from a man's 0.79

00:04:13.160 perspective

00:04:13.660 can you

00:04:14.440 can you suss

00:04:15.100 can a girl suss a man out 1.00

00:04:16.640 a player or not

00:04:17.220 or is it hard

00:04:18.060 I don't even know man

00:04:20.520 I don't even know

00:04:21.820 it's up to a girl 1.00

00:04:22.420 is it

00:04:23.140 she's feeling them

00:04:24.120 she's feeling them

00:04:24.860 as after the wrong thing

00:04:26.100 as a male

00:04:27.480 would he go about things

00:04:29.440 like

00:04:29.680 he's not going to

00:04:30.780 make himself bait

00:04:31.280 so can a female 1.00

00:04:32.680 suss out a guy 1.00

00:04:33.420 being genuine or not

00:04:35.500 I don't know

00:04:36.100 it'd have to be female 1.00

00:04:36.800 to know that

00:04:37.380 I don't know

00:04:38.440 no but as a man

00:04:39.520 so for example

00:04:40.060 I had friends back in the day

00:04:40.880 yeah yeah

00:04:41.260 and if they're about

00:04:42.700 messing around

00:04:43.300 I don't think a girl 1.00

00:04:45.000 could ever clock

00:04:45.620 unless he gets caught up

00:04:47.080 yeah I don't really think

00:04:47.840 they could clock

00:04:48.300 unless he makes it bait

00:04:49.100 so if he don't make it bait

00:04:50.000 they would never know

00:04:50.660 until they put themselves

00:04:51.820 in that situation

00:04:52.560 okay

00:04:52.800 I have the money

00:04:53.480 I have the man

00:04:54.280 I would go to the father

00:04:55.720 and see what he has to say

00:04:56.860 yo this guy's a G

00:04:57.640 hold on a second

00:04:58.140 you will go to the father

00:04:58.900 and see what they have to say

00:05:00.280 one second

00:05:00.560 Sophia make sure 0.99

00:05:01.540 if they're all going to

00:05:02.520 if I go to the father

00:05:03.580 and see what they have to say 0.97

00:05:04.540 if you're going to say silly things 0.91

00:05:06.100 then obviously I'm going to go 0.81

00:05:07.220 yes Brian

00:05:07.820 they'll be like

00:05:09.340 oh so you want to 0.99

00:05:10.140 lick my daughter yeah 1.00

00:05:11.020 well you have to go

00:05:11.700 through some steps

00:05:12.280 to keep her

00:05:12.900 yeah but yeah but yeah

00:05:13.860 but like I was saying

00:05:14.400 you can't have my daughter afterwards

00:05:16.080 okay one second

00:05:16.700 if you had a daughter

00:05:17.540 and some man didn't come to you 0.51

00:05:19.220 and went behind your back

00:05:19.880 and started dating

00:05:20.340 that's true

00:05:20.880 that's true

00:05:21.300 but like I'll say

00:05:22.800 if you have to go

00:05:24.340 you have to go to my daughter

00:05:26.000 to do these rules

00:05:26.760 so you don't like 0.98

00:05:27.520 rape her 1.00

00:05:28.060 or anything like that 1.00

00:05:28.740 can a girl 1.00

00:05:29.920 tell the difference

00:05:31.260 between a player

00:05:32.100 and not a player

00:05:33.320 be honest

00:05:35.060 nah I don't think so

00:05:36.220 I don't think so

00:05:37.720 what is the trick

00:05:38.640 that these men have

00:05:39.600 you know

00:05:40.260 that you know

00:05:41.200 they can't be spotted

00:05:41.920 you know

00:05:42.100 what's the camouflage

00:05:42.760 what's the camouflage

00:05:43.460 I can't tell you that one

00:05:45.440 but you just

00:05:45.980 it's a secret

00:05:46.520 it's a secret

00:05:46.920 yeah it's a secret

00:05:47.760 like I don't know

00:05:48.540 man it's different

00:05:49.220 if she said to you

00:05:50.140 you gotta come speak

00:05:51.180 to my brother

00:05:51.580 how would you feel

00:05:52.560 I ain't got my brother

00:05:53.760 okay imagine

00:05:54.980 no I get you that

00:05:56.480 I feel like

00:05:57.140 I feel like

00:05:57.840 she's obviously

00:05:58.720 respecting the thing

00:05:59.500 and if I respect her as well

00:06:01.200 if that's what she grants

00:06:02.540 then I'll do it innit

00:06:03.800 this guy's a good boy

00:06:05.100 so you need to

00:06:05.780 you need to keep this girl 0.99

00:06:06.960 and get married

00:06:07.480 and call me to your wedding

00:06:08.140 but if a man's a player

00:06:10.540 and if the girl says 0.98

00:06:11.860 meet my brother

00:06:12.320 what would you do 1.00

00:06:12.900 say fuck that 1.00

00:06:14.380 pardon 1.00

00:06:15.020 she said come and speak

00:06:16.120 to my dad

00:06:16.640 yeah why not

00:06:17.580 why not

00:06:18.120 why not

00:06:18.620 stay away

00:06:19.540 yeah she said

00:06:20.500 look you're interested in me

00:06:21.540 come speak to my dad

00:06:22.540 what would you say

00:06:23.280 I'll say not right now

00:06:24.920 I can't do that right now

00:06:26.080 okay so now

00:06:26.760 Islamically

00:06:27.300 how we date

00:06:28.280 and how we get married

00:06:29.020 is a bit different

00:06:29.580 yeah

00:06:29.800 so I wanted to share that

00:06:30.840 with you guys

00:06:31.180 and I just wanted your feedback

00:06:31.980 okay

00:06:32.260 okay

00:06:32.680 I think I might know it already

00:06:33.820 okay so okay

00:06:34.700 go on take a guess

00:06:35.600 is it

00:06:36.320 it's not like

00:06:37.380 you go through your parents

00:06:39.240 do you kind of like

00:06:40.420 get your parents

00:06:41.320 to kind of

00:06:42.040 suggest

00:06:43.060 yes

00:06:43.520 so basically

00:06:44.280 like suitors

00:06:45.480 let's suppose

00:06:46.000 let's say

00:06:46.560 I'm interested in a female 1.00

00:06:47.580 yeah

00:06:47.780 I would have to go to her father

00:06:49.920 and say

00:06:50.700 I'm interested in your daughter

00:06:51.580 I would like to get to know her

00:06:53.180 because you're not meant to date

00:06:54.200 are you

00:06:54.640 you can

00:06:55.780 but there's restrictions

00:06:57.100 yeah

00:06:57.400 it's regulated

00:06:58.020 yeah

00:06:58.320 but the reason it's regulated

00:06:59.640 which I'm going to come to

00:07:00.400 in a minute

00:07:00.660 yeah

00:07:00.880 is because

00:07:01.920 when I'm getting to know her

00:07:03.260 her brother

00:07:04.020 or her father

00:07:04.580 has to be in the room

00:07:05.720 so they don't

00:07:06.920 it doesn't have to be like

00:07:07.740 there and like

00:07:08.720 right as you're speaking

00:07:09.620 but he has to

00:07:10.720 you know

00:07:11.140 see what's going on

00:07:12.280 yeah okay

00:07:12.700 because I obviously know

00:07:13.920 genders

00:07:14.980 female males

00:07:16.000 they have

00:07:16.340 you know

00:07:16.680 kind of desires

00:07:17.740 so now

00:07:18.640 how do you think that is

00:07:20.920 compared to

00:07:21.600 in our society

00:07:22.500 for example

00:07:23.060 let me give you guys

00:07:23.660 some stats yeah

00:07:24.280 400,000 people

00:07:26.620 carry STDs

00:07:27.760 yeah

00:07:28.300 you have a chance 1.00

00:07:29.100 of getting raped 1.00

00:07:29.680 you have a chance 1.00

00:07:30.600 of beating your heart

00:07:31.180 you're getting your heart broken

00:07:32.320 yeah

00:07:32.760 because if you meet

00:07:33.220 let's say you're meeting some guy

00:07:34.140 yeah

00:07:34.280 he's not going to tell you 0.78

00:07:35.280 he's a rapist 0.90

00:07:35.840 or he's a player 1.00

00:07:36.500 he's going to tell you

00:07:37.320 everything you want to hear

00:07:37.980 so based on

00:07:38.880 I just want you to

00:07:39.220 honest reply yeah

00:07:39.860 the way we go about it

00:07:42.060 would you not say

00:07:43.520 it's a more of a

00:07:44.620 way where it secures

00:07:45.800 the interest of a female

00:07:46.980 and as I'm getting to know her

00:07:48.240 the father or the brother

00:07:49.440 has to be present

00:07:50.280 yeah

00:07:50.880 what do you think about that

00:07:52.800 that's wrong

00:07:53.340 it's long

00:07:54.900 it's long

00:07:56.300 why do you think it's long

00:07:57.240 because it might not work out

00:07:58.780 and all of that

00:07:59.240 is just the way

00:07:59.860 no no that's calm

00:08:00.600 if it doesn't work out

00:08:01.240 it doesn't work out

00:08:01.960 then you've got to do that

00:08:03.300 all over again

00:08:03.940 the whole process

00:08:04.680 yeah

00:08:05.400 but do you not think

00:08:07.060 it takes

00:08:07.520 it's there to secure

00:08:08.960 the female's interest

00:08:09.980 because you know

00:08:10.920 some men

00:08:11.620 are after the wrong things

00:08:12.340 you get me

00:08:12.760 against

00:08:13.760 because we also have

00:08:14.500 this concept called

00:08:15.240 the female can ask 0.99

00:08:16.120 for something called

00:08:16.580 maher

00:08:16.820 so what that means is

00:08:17.640 if I'm proposing to you

00:08:19.040 you can say

00:08:19.960 okay as a maher

00:08:20.920 as a gift

00:08:21.280 I want five grand

00:08:22.040 yeah

00:08:22.920 so

00:08:23.920 if I'm after the wrong things

00:08:26.280 I'm not going to pay five grand

00:08:27.380 yeah

00:08:28.200 do you get what I'm trying to say

00:08:29.260 yeah yeah

00:08:29.500 but how

00:08:30.120 it's a bit of a safety in there

00:08:31.520 the prophet Kisopanum told us

00:08:32.920 that when a man and a woman 0.89

00:08:33.800 is alone

00:08:34.220 the third person is Satan

00:08:35.280 yeah

00:08:35.480 this would be even saying

00:08:36.200 what that means is

00:08:36.940 desires might kick in

00:08:38.140 and something might happen

00:08:38.940 so it's now we have this

00:08:40.120 so if you go to the cinema

00:08:40.960 like

00:08:41.480 okay so we have this concept

00:08:42.840 called prevention is better than cure

00:08:44.580 yeah

00:08:44.940 so that's the reason why

00:08:46.440 what it does is

00:08:47.280 it says the brother has to be there

00:08:48.320 you know why

00:08:48.740 because a man knows a man

00:08:49.880 I'm a man

00:08:50.800 if I know some man

00:08:52.440 if I talk to him

00:08:53.700 and you can tell

00:08:54.740 and another thing is

00:08:55.580 if he's after the wrong thing

00:08:56.880 he's not going to want to meet me

00:08:57.620 but that's about it really

00:08:58.820 it's just there to secure

00:08:59.580 the interest of the female

00:09:01.260 so then we don't call men 0.99

00:09:03.020 trash anymore 0.92

00:09:03.500 even though some of them are 0.97

00:09:04.580 do you say

00:09:05.180 that's a good method or not

00:09:06.620 yeah yeah

00:09:08.140 it's a good

00:09:08.440 yeah yeah

00:09:08.940 yeah it's a good method

00:09:10.140 I think so

00:09:10.620 you would appreciate

00:09:11.420 or be honest with me

00:09:12.120 that if a man came and said

00:09:13.140 look I'm interested in you

00:09:14.400 I want to speak to your father

00:09:15.900 and go about it the right way

00:09:17.140 do you not say

00:09:17.600 you know what

00:09:18.080 no that would be impressive

00:09:19.540 yeah exactly

00:09:20.240 no if he was like

00:09:21.680 coming up to me

00:09:22.460 and just like

00:09:22.840 listen I really like you

00:09:23.920 I want to get to know you

00:09:24.880 but I'm going to see

00:09:25.580 if it's okay with your dad first

00:09:26.840 that's like

00:09:27.660 oh okay

00:09:28.320 so you actually want to be serious about it

00:09:29.920 yeah

00:09:30.200 what do you think

00:09:30.980 I just want you

00:09:31.400 are you muslims?

00:09:32.980 I am

00:09:33.480 oh you're a muslim sister

00:09:34.280 yeah okay

00:09:34.620 so as a non-muslim

00:09:36.860 that sister 0.99

00:09:37.960 what do you say about

00:09:39.560 what do you think about

00:09:40.100 imagine if you had a daughter

00:09:40.920 yeah

00:09:41.440 would you

00:09:42.200 would you want that

00:09:43.680 to be implemented

00:09:44.200 so if a guy wanted to marry a daughter

00:09:45.440 for him to come to you

00:09:46.300 or would you say

00:09:46.800 I just want your honest feedback

00:09:48.160 no I don't want him to come to me

00:09:49.420 and like ask for my

00:09:50.520 like permission

00:09:51.720 yeah

00:09:52.120 you prefer that

00:09:53.080 yeah

00:09:53.500 I've always agreed with that

00:09:55.380 like the muslims 1.00

00:09:56.140 yeah of course

00:09:56.160 you have to ask for the father's permission

00:09:57.720 that's what I'm talking about

00:09:58.920 see as muslims

00:09:59.760 yeah

00:09:59.880 well the reason we're doing this

00:10:00.840 is because islamically 0.88

00:10:01.560 if I love somebody

00:10:02.220 I have to go and approach their father

00:10:03.460 so you know why

00:10:04.600 so then if I'm messing her around

00:10:06.000 I wouldn't approach their father

00:10:06.960 innit

00:10:07.100 because I've got bad intentions

00:10:07.920 but if I've got good intentions

00:10:09.100 I don't mind meeting her father

00:10:10.500 do you get what I'm trying to say

00:10:11.120 and that's what we're trying to say fam

00:10:12.320 don't you think that's the right way

00:10:13.000 to go about it

00:10:13.580 if you like a girl

00:10:15.000 they sometimes do tricks

00:10:16.340 are you mad fam

00:10:17.180 yeah I know

00:10:17.600 you've got to be careful to girls 1.00

00:10:18.480 while they do tricks fam

00:10:19.360 yeah

00:10:19.840 you've got to watch out for the tricks

00:10:20.880 yo fam

00:10:21.280 my hand's in the air

00:10:22.340 what's going on

00:10:22.940 Ali Dawah

00:10:23.800 Ali Dawah

00:10:24.300 you're going to keep

00:10:25.220 look to the camera

00:10:26.680 and say keep it halal

00:10:27.680 keep it halal 1.00

00:10:29.120 keep it halal 1.00

00:10:30.560 keep it halal 1.00

00:10:31.320 keep it halal 1.00

00:10:33.460 you've just spoken to the people

00:10:34.720 you heard what they had to say

00:10:35.800 now in a nutshell

00:10:36.820 obviously putting jokes aside

00:10:38.600 and all these kind of things aside

00:10:39.560 obviously we're trying to

00:10:40.360 you know

00:10:40.980 do a bit of banter with the people

00:10:42.300 and stuff like that

00:10:42.980 but putting jokes aside

00:10:44.000 this is actually a serious matter

00:10:45.460 you know

00:10:45.860 so if you think about it

00:10:46.860 we asked them

00:10:47.480 and most of them said

00:10:49.200 you know what

00:10:49.560 they actually appreciate and value

00:10:50.920 the Islamic way

00:10:52.880 of getting to know somebody

00:10:54.360 in the right way

00:10:55.000 yeah

00:10:55.240 now that says a lot

00:10:56.960 you know why

00:10:57.400 because most of the time

00:10:58.500 it's coming from experience

00:10:59.360 a lot of the time

00:11:00.120 females 0.96

00:11:01.020 majority of the time females 0.99

00:11:02.160 and I know

00:11:02.540 there's a lot of female corporates 1.00

00:11:03.800 as well

00:11:04.120 but a lot of the time

00:11:04.880 females are the ones 1.00

00:11:05.600 that are suffering 0.99

00:11:06.220 they're the ones

00:11:06.760 who get the end of the stick

00:11:08.500 do you get what I'm trying to say

00:11:09.220 and they're suffering

00:11:10.060 and because

00:11:10.840 because of the most of the females 1.00

00:11:12.960 that we went and said

00:11:13.620 men are 0.99

00:11:14.420 they finish off with trash 0.98

00:11:15.740 why 0.97

00:11:16.040 because they've had this bad experience

00:11:17.520 and why do you have this bad experience

00:11:18.780 because

00:11:19.300 if you do not have something

00:11:20.920 that's regulating

00:11:22.080 that's being sent down

00:11:23.440 or any kind of regulation in place

00:11:25.020 what's going to happen is

00:11:26.040 you're going to have males 0.74

00:11:27.400 who are there

00:11:27.880 who's going to mess you around

00:11:28.640 who's going to mess around with you

00:11:29.480 who's going to come to you

00:11:30.500 and say

00:11:30.900 I want to marry you

00:11:31.700 going to give you these false promises

00:11:32.860 and afterwards

00:11:33.560 what's going to happen

00:11:34.480 boom

00:11:34.900 they're going to leave you

00:11:35.620 they're going to go to move on

00:11:36.660 and that's the reason

00:11:37.520 this phrase 1.00

00:11:38.540 men are trash 1.00

00:11:39.380 is used 1.00

00:11:39.820 why

00:11:40.060 because a lot of females 1.00

00:11:41.120 have suffered this

00:11:41.760 and they've seen

00:11:42.480 how they get messed around

00:11:43.500 they get used around

00:11:44.300 they get abused

00:11:44.980 and what does a man do

00:11:45.960 he says

00:11:46.360 I'm moving on now

00:11:47.100 and all he has to do

00:11:48.100 is grow a beard

00:11:48.660 wear a fub

00:11:49.160 or whatever it may be

00:11:49.840 the story is done for him

00:11:51.160 but at the end of the day

00:11:51.860 females 0.96

00:11:52.180 they're the ones who suffer

00:11:53.020 so brothers and sisters

00:11:53.960 it's very clear

00:11:54.600 Allah says

00:11:55.900 do not even come close to zina

00:11:58.980 so with this

00:12:00.320 you can see the people

00:12:01.340 who are living it

00:12:02.100 and telling you

00:12:03.020 the negative side of it

00:12:04.220 do you get what I'm trying to say

00:12:04.840 and whatever Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:12:06.500 has legislated

00:12:07.160 it's for your own benefit

00:12:08.700 and you heard it for yourself

00:12:10.120 most of them

00:12:10.700 you heard it for yourself

00:12:11.380 even the men that said

00:12:12.460 nah nah nah

00:12:13.060 you know

00:12:13.460 when he said

00:12:13.820 ok but what if you're a duta 1.00

00:12:14.720 when his duta came into the equation

00:12:16.440 when his sister comes into the equation

00:12:17.640 his auntie

00:12:18.200 his mom

00:12:18.640 his wife

00:12:19.360 it's a different story

00:12:20.460 and brothers and sisters

00:12:21.460 in my marriage documentary

00:12:22.520 inshaAllah

00:12:22.800 that's exactly

00:12:23.760 what I'll be showing you guys

00:12:25.080 because

00:12:25.600 this is just like

00:12:26.740 you might see this as like

00:12:27.440 a little banter thing

00:12:28.320 but at the end of the day

00:12:28.820 what I live through

00:12:29.460 I've had people close to me

00:12:30.900 kill their self

00:12:31.740 I've had my cousin hang himself 1.00

00:12:33.140 I've had his friend hang himself

00:12:34.300 I've had my neighbour kill himself

00:12:35.520 in my documentary

00:12:36.500 we're going to go

00:12:37.220 and delve into this matter

00:12:39.040 and see

00:12:39.960 the destruction

00:12:41.020 that lies behind it

00:12:42.320 and also

00:12:43.580 we're going to be speaking

00:12:44.300 in my marriage documentary

00:12:45.220 inshaAllah

00:12:45.520 speaking to a female

00:12:46.560 who her life was destroyed

00:12:47.600 she was on the verge

00:12:48.340 of committing suicide

00:12:49.460 why?

00:12:50.080 because she got messed around

00:12:50.880 for five years

00:12:51.540 five years

00:12:52.300 she got messed around

00:12:53.280 when she went to the guy's house

00:12:54.580 they told her get lost

00:12:55.660 just like

00:12:56.480 she goes 0.99

00:12:56.720 I feel like an absolute trash 0.99

00:12:57.760 you're going to see that 0.99

00:12:58.560 in my marriage documentary

00:12:59.180 and also

00:13:00.020 also

00:13:00.580 the reason I'm saying this as well

00:13:02.340 is me personally

00:13:03.200 and I'm only sharing this

00:13:04.040 with you guys

00:13:04.580 so you benefit

00:13:05.180 in my jahiliyat

00:13:06.360 I was involved in

00:13:06.940 haram relationships

00:13:07.680 yeah

00:13:08.140 and we go

00:13:09.240 ten years back

00:13:10.800 we go

00:13:11.180 about 200 miles away

00:13:12.760 to a place that I used to live

00:13:14.100 and I was involved

00:13:14.660 in a haram relationship

00:13:15.460 yeah

00:13:16.420 and we go there

00:13:17.560 and we speak to my friends

00:13:19.000 who were involved in

00:13:19.520 haram relationships

00:13:20.180 and we even go and speak

00:13:21.480 to the mum

00:13:22.220 the mother

00:13:23.020 of the girl

00:13:24.800 that I was in that relationship

00:13:26.120 with

00:13:26.320 alhamdulillah

00:13:26.680 protected me

00:13:27.400 from anything

00:13:28.480 major

00:13:29.620 alhamdulillah

00:13:30.080 but

00:13:30.780 we're going to go there

00:13:31.720 and find out

00:13:32.720 and

00:13:33.240 learn

00:13:34.340 inshallah

00:13:34.720 the damages

00:13:35.740 the destruction

00:13:36.300 and haram relationships

00:13:36.860 cause

00:13:37.200 brothers and sisters

00:13:38.120 do not learn it the hard way

00:13:39.660 islam says

00:13:41.020 prevention is better than cure

00:13:42.400 there is no point

00:13:43.300 you're getting into this

00:13:44.060 and then looking for cure

00:13:44.800 ok what's the medicine

00:13:45.680 don't even go close to it

00:13:47.800 hope you guys have benefited

00:13:49.500 share this with your friends

00:13:50.220 and family inshallah

00:13:50.860 marriage documentary

00:13:52.340 is going to be up very soon

00:13:53.060 inshallah

00:13:53.300 and it's going to change

00:13:54.080 the way

00:13:54.640 you go about things

00:13:56.040 inshallah

00:13:56.260 and you will learn

00:13:56.720 from my story

00:13:57.320 and my mistakes

00:13:58.080 not to commit the same things

00:13:59.400 may Allah bless you guys

00:14:00.340 for watching

00:14:00.620 hope you guys enjoyed it

00:14:01.400 share it with your friends

00:14:02.040 and family

00:14:02.400 till next time

00:14:03.260 assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

Ali Dawah - February 17, 2019

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