Ali Dawah - February 17, 2019


ASK HER DADS NUMBER - EXPERIMENT


Episode Stats

Length

14 minutes

Words per Minute

245.40677

Word Count

3,455

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

24

Hate Speech Sentences

20


Summary

As you guys know as muslims we are not allowed to date and we go about things the right way we go to the father, we don t go out on valentines day and we don't go out in public.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 how do you know this brother here is serious about you how would you know how
00:00:03.600 would you how would you say you know what what's this guy trying to do what
00:00:05.760 i love my girl right now yeah a penguin yeah you gotta keep it halal yeah the reason you guys say
00:00:09.440 that is because maybe you had bad experience yeah yeah girl says you know what if you like me you
00:00:13.120 gotta come and speak to my father i'll be like oh no no no no i have the man yeah i have the man
00:00:18.800 i would i would go to the father and see what he has to say if she said to you you gotta come
00:00:23.280 speak to my brother how would you feel
00:00:24.800 assalamualaikum warahmatullahi barakatuh brothers and sisters and dear friends today we are out in
00:00:32.240 shepherd's bush and it's valentine's day as you guys know as muslims we are not allowed to date and we
00:00:36.480 go about things the right way we go to the father so what we're going to do today is we're going to
00:00:39.760 pop this bubble and ask people what they think about the muslim way of getting to know somebody
00:00:44.000 and the dangers of her own relationships we're going to find out now have you guys do you have
00:00:48.880 boyfriends yeah no you don't okay all right so how would you suss out so when you met your boyfriend
00:00:54.640 how did you know this guy is genuine or he's a player how did you know you just don't think
00:00:59.760 you just hold your cars close to your chest and then just wait and see that was my mistake
00:01:05.360 what do you what do you mean by hold like you just keep keep a guard up a little bit and then see how
00:01:10.240 it goes and then if they're genuine it will come through like i've had friends before yeah who were
00:01:15.760 like players and stuff kind of stuff yeah yeah and they say a lot of young boys are yes yes yeah
00:01:20.800 that's what they say men are yes trash yes exactly yeah this phrase exactly the reason you guys say
00:01:26.960 that is because maybe you had bad experience yeah yeah yeah what's your name david david and sister
00:01:32.240 sarah sarah okay you said that there might be a potential that you guys might go out
00:01:35.680 except you know listen no no no no okay okay okay okay okay okay cut that bit cut that you just met
00:01:41.360 you just met okay yeah okay the way you move you you acted like you're a girlfriend or something
00:01:45.280 i'm joking come on man you know they finish the sentence of men are trash thank you okay how do you
00:01:50.080 sell someone else the way he talks to you like if he respects you okay if you respect you you can see
00:01:55.920 in the way that he looks at you and stuff like that or the way that he like yeah okay so even if i'm in
00:02:01.760 a whatsapp conversation or saying the brother has to be there in the whatsapp conversation what's up
00:02:05.760 conversation fam yeah what's your name louie and your girlfriend helio helio okay so basically i'm
00:02:12.080 a muslim yeah i'm orthodox muslim let me put it like this yeah okay how do you know it's a question
00:02:17.280 to you sister yeah how do you know he really loves you but how would you know if he really loves you
00:02:24.640 and he's after the wrong things how how would you suss him out because he's been with me for two years
00:02:29.200 like okay so you've been together for two years yeah yeah if you guys get married you can meet him like
00:02:34.160 okay how do you know this brother here is serious about you how would you know how would
00:02:40.960 you how would you say you know what what's this guy trying to do so now if you really love a girl
00:02:45.760 yeah okay i love my girl right now yeah i love my girl i know you got to keep it halal yeah halal means you got to do it the right way yeah
00:02:53.200 yeah now if you want to get to imagine you like this girl okay yeah when you grow up how old are you
00:03:00.640 11 yeah so when you when you're 16 when you're 16 yeah okay it doesn't matter 11 12 same thing yeah
00:03:05.280 so when you grow up yeah imagine this girl says you know what if you like me you gotta come and speak
00:03:08.720 speak to my father i'll be like oh no no no no no no i have the money you see if somebody's after the
00:03:27.680 wrong intentions here for the wrong reasons he's not gonna come to you looking bait he's not gonna act
00:03:32.080 you get to know her
00:03:33.420 obviously in that process
00:03:34.740 you're a man
00:03:35.640 she's a woman
00:03:36.180 you have desires
00:03:36.860 things happen
00:03:37.840 and then
00:03:39.000 what if you turn around
00:03:39.760 and say
00:03:40.080 you're not the one for me
00:03:41.760 what if I do that
00:03:43.380 yeah you can
00:03:44.040 that could happen
00:03:45.440 so then
00:03:46.240 you're just going to
00:03:47.200 casually tell her
00:03:47.960 like sorry
00:03:48.700 it's not meant to be
00:03:50.280 yeah 100%
00:03:50.980 I'm going to talk in general
00:03:52.260 in general
00:03:52.800 like if you've got
00:03:54.940 good morals
00:03:55.680 if you're like
00:03:57.280 I don't know
00:03:57.720 if you're smart
00:03:58.400 not on this voting
00:03:59.440 you know
00:04:00.540 yeah if you're a nice person
00:04:02.240 not just trying to
00:04:03.280 beat and delete girls
00:04:04.660 okay
00:04:05.320 we've got respect
00:04:06.760 in that yeah
00:04:07.460 okay alright
00:04:08.360 you know what
00:04:09.060 how men go about things
00:04:10.440 how would you know
00:04:11.020 if he's a player or not
00:04:11.980 coming from a man's
00:04:13.160 perspective
00:04:13.660 can you
00:04:14.440 can you suss
00:04:15.100 can a girl suss a man out
00:04:16.640 a player or not
00:04:17.220 or is it hard
00:04:18.060 I don't even know man
00:04:20.520 I don't even know
00:04:21.820 it's up to a girl
00:04:22.420 is it
00:04:23.140 she's feeling them
00:04:24.120 she's feeling them
00:04:24.860 as after the wrong thing
00:04:26.100 as a male
00:04:27.480 would he go about things
00:04:29.440 like
00:04:29.680 he's not going to
00:04:30.780 make himself bait
00:04:31.280 so can a female
00:04:32.680 suss out a guy
00:04:33.420 being genuine or not
00:04:35.500 I don't know
00:04:36.100 it'd have to be female
00:04:36.800 to know that
00:04:37.380 I don't know
00:04:38.440 no but as a man
00:04:39.520 so for example
00:04:40.060 I had friends back in the day
00:04:40.880 yeah yeah
00:04:41.260 and if they're about
00:04:42.700 messing around
00:04:43.300 I don't think a girl
00:04:45.000 could ever clock
00:04:45.620 unless he gets caught up
00:04:47.080 yeah I don't really think
00:04:47.840 they could clock
00:04:48.300 unless he makes it bait
00:04:49.100 so if he don't make it bait
00:04:50.000 they would never know
00:04:50.660 until they put themselves
00:04:51.820 in that situation
00:04:52.560 okay
00:04:52.800 I have the money
00:04:53.480 I have the man
00:04:54.280 I would go to the father
00:04:55.720 and see what he has to say
00:04:56.860 yo this guy's a G
00:04:57.640 hold on a second
00:04:58.140 you will go to the father
00:04:58.900 and see what they have to say
00:05:00.280 one second
00:05:00.560 Sophia make sure
00:05:01.540 if they're all going to
00:05:02.520 if I go to the father
00:05:03.580 and see what they have to say
00:05:04.540 if you're going to say silly things
00:05:06.100 then obviously I'm going to go
00:05:07.220 yes Brian
00:05:07.820 they'll be like
00:05:09.340 oh so you want to
00:05:10.140 lick my daughter yeah
00:05:11.020 well you have to go
00:05:11.700 through some steps
00:05:12.280 to keep her
00:05:12.900 yeah but yeah but yeah
00:05:13.860 but like I was saying
00:05:14.400 you can't have my daughter afterwards
00:05:16.080 okay one second
00:05:16.700 if you had a daughter
00:05:17.540 and some man didn't come to you
00:05:19.220 and went behind your back
00:05:19.880 and started dating
00:05:20.340 that's true
00:05:20.880 that's true
00:05:21.300 but like I'll say
00:05:22.800 if you have to go
00:05:24.340 you have to go to my daughter
00:05:26.000 to do these rules
00:05:26.760 so you don't like
00:05:27.520 rape her
00:05:28.060 or anything like that
00:05:28.740 can a girl
00:05:29.920 tell the difference
00:05:31.260 between a player
00:05:32.100 and not a player
00:05:33.320 be honest
00:05:35.060 nah I don't think so
00:05:36.220 I don't think so
00:05:37.720 what is the trick
00:05:38.640 that these men have
00:05:39.600 you know
00:05:40.260 that you know
00:05:41.200 they can't be spotted
00:05:41.920 you know
00:05:42.100 what's the camouflage
00:05:42.760 what's the camouflage
00:05:43.460 I can't tell you that one
00:05:45.440 but you just
00:05:45.980 it's a secret
00:05:46.520 it's a secret
00:05:46.920 yeah it's a secret
00:05:47.760 like I don't know
00:05:48.540 man it's different
00:05:49.220 if she said to you
00:05:50.140 you gotta come speak
00:05:51.180 to my brother
00:05:51.580 how would you feel
00:05:52.560 I ain't got my brother
00:05:53.760 okay imagine
00:05:54.980 no I get you that
00:05:56.480 I feel like
00:05:57.140 I feel like
00:05:57.840 she's obviously
00:05:58.720 respecting the thing
00:05:59.500 and if I respect her as well
00:06:01.200 if that's what she grants
00:06:02.540 then I'll do it innit
00:06:03.800 this guy's a good boy
00:06:05.100 so you need to
00:06:05.780 you need to keep this girl
00:06:06.960 and get married
00:06:07.480 and call me to your wedding
00:06:08.140 but if a man's a player
00:06:10.540 and if the girl says
00:06:11.860 meet my brother
00:06:12.320 what would you do
00:06:12.900 say fuck that
00:06:14.380 pardon
00:06:15.020 she said come and speak
00:06:16.120 to my dad
00:06:16.640 yeah why not
00:06:17.580 why not
00:06:18.120 why not
00:06:18.620 stay away
00:06:19.540 yeah she said
00:06:20.500 look you're interested in me
00:06:21.540 come speak to my dad
00:06:22.540 what would you say
00:06:23.280 I'll say not right now
00:06:24.920 I can't do that right now
00:06:26.080 okay so now
00:06:26.760 Islamically
00:06:27.300 how we date
00:06:28.280 and how we get married
00:06:29.020 is a bit different
00:06:29.580 yeah
00:06:29.800 so I wanted to share that
00:06:30.840 with you guys
00:06:31.180 and I just wanted your feedback
00:06:31.980 okay
00:06:32.260 okay
00:06:32.680 I think I might know it already
00:06:33.820 okay so okay
00:06:34.700 go on take a guess
00:06:35.600 is it
00:06:36.320 it's not like
00:06:37.380 you go through your parents
00:06:39.240 do you kind of like
00:06:40.420 get your parents
00:06:41.320 to kind of
00:06:42.040 suggest
00:06:43.060 yes
00:06:43.520 so basically
00:06:44.280 like suitors
00:06:45.480 let's suppose
00:06:46.000 let's say
00:06:46.560 I'm interested in a female
00:06:47.580 yeah
00:06:47.780 I would have to go to her father
00:06:49.920 and say
00:06:50.700 I'm interested in your daughter
00:06:51.580 I would like to get to know her
00:06:53.180 because you're not meant to date
00:06:54.200 are you
00:06:54.640 you can
00:06:55.780 but there's restrictions
00:06:57.100 yeah
00:06:57.400 it's regulated
00:06:58.020 yeah
00:06:58.320 but the reason it's regulated
00:06:59.640 which I'm going to come to
00:07:00.400 in a minute
00:07:00.660 yeah
00:07:00.880 is because
00:07:01.920 when I'm getting to know her
00:07:03.260 her brother
00:07:04.020 or her father
00:07:04.580 has to be in the room
00:07:05.720 so they don't
00:07:06.920 it doesn't have to be like
00:07:07.740 there and like
00:07:08.720 right as you're speaking
00:07:09.620 but he has to
00:07:10.720 you know
00:07:11.140 see what's going on
00:07:12.280 yeah okay
00:07:12.700 because I obviously know
00:07:13.920 genders
00:07:14.980 female males
00:07:16.000 they have
00:07:16.340 you know
00:07:16.680 kind of desires
00:07:17.740 so now
00:07:18.640 how do you think that is
00:07:20.920 compared to
00:07:21.600 in our society
00:07:22.500 for example
00:07:23.060 let me give you guys
00:07:23.660 some stats yeah
00:07:24.280 400,000 people
00:07:26.620 carry STDs
00:07:27.760 yeah
00:07:28.300 you have a chance
00:07:29.100 of getting raped
00:07:29.680 you have a chance
00:07:30.600 of beating your heart
00:07:31.180 you're getting your heart broken
00:07:32.320 yeah
00:07:32.760 because if you meet
00:07:33.220 let's say you're meeting some guy
00:07:34.140 yeah
00:07:34.280 he's not going to tell you
00:07:35.280 he's a rapist
00:07:35.840 or he's a player
00:07:36.500 he's going to tell you
00:07:37.320 everything you want to hear
00:07:37.980 so based on
00:07:38.880 I just want you to
00:07:39.220 honest reply yeah
00:07:39.860 the way we go about it
00:07:42.060 would you not say
00:07:43.520 it's a more of a
00:07:44.620 way where it secures
00:07:45.800 the interest of a female
00:07:46.980 and as I'm getting to know her
00:07:48.240 the father or the brother
00:07:49.440 has to be present
00:07:50.280 yeah
00:07:50.880 what do you think about that
00:07:52.800 that's wrong
00:07:53.340 it's long
00:07:54.900 it's long
00:07:56.300 why do you think it's long
00:07:57.240 because it might not work out
00:07:58.780 and all of that
00:07:59.240 is just the way
00:07:59.860 no no that's calm
00:08:00.600 if it doesn't work out
00:08:01.240 it doesn't work out
00:08:01.960 then you've got to do that
00:08:03.300 all over again
00:08:03.940 the whole process
00:08:04.680 yeah
00:08:05.400 but do you not think
00:08:07.060 it takes
00:08:07.520 it's there to secure
00:08:08.960 the female's interest
00:08:09.980 because you know
00:08:10.920 some men
00:08:11.620 are after the wrong things
00:08:12.340 you get me
00:08:12.760 against
00:08:13.760 because we also have
00:08:14.500 this concept called
00:08:15.240 the female can ask
00:08:16.120 for something called
00:08:16.580 maher
00:08:16.820 so what that means is
00:08:17.640 if I'm proposing to you
00:08:19.040 you can say
00:08:19.960 okay as a maher
00:08:20.920 as a gift
00:08:21.280 I want five grand
00:08:22.040 yeah
00:08:22.920 so
00:08:23.920 if I'm after the wrong things
00:08:26.280 I'm not going to pay five grand
00:08:27.380 yeah
00:08:28.200 do you get what I'm trying to say
00:08:29.260 yeah yeah
00:08:29.500 but how
00:08:30.120 it's a bit of a safety in there
00:08:31.520 the prophet Kisopanum told us
00:08:32.920 that when a man and a woman
00:08:33.800 is alone
00:08:34.220 the third person is Satan
00:08:35.280 yeah
00:08:35.480 this would be even saying
00:08:36.200 what that means is
00:08:36.940 desires might kick in
00:08:38.140 and something might happen
00:08:38.940 so it's now we have this
00:08:40.120 so if you go to the cinema
00:08:40.960 like
00:08:41.480 okay so we have this concept
00:08:42.840 called prevention is better than cure
00:08:44.580 yeah
00:08:44.940 so that's the reason why
00:08:46.440 what it does is
00:08:47.280 it says the brother has to be there
00:08:48.320 you know why
00:08:48.740 because a man knows a man
00:08:49.880 I'm a man
00:08:50.800 if I know some man
00:08:52.440 if I talk to him
00:08:53.700 and you can tell
00:08:54.740 and another thing is
00:08:55.580 if he's after the wrong thing
00:08:56.880 he's not going to want to meet me
00:08:57.620 but that's about it really
00:08:58.820 it's just there to secure
00:08:59.580 the interest of the female
00:09:01.260 so then we don't call men
00:09:03.020 trash anymore
00:09:03.500 even though some of them are
00:09:04.580 do you say
00:09:05.180 that's a good method or not
00:09:06.620 yeah yeah
00:09:08.140 it's a good
00:09:08.440 yeah yeah
00:09:08.940 yeah it's a good method
00:09:10.140 I think so
00:09:10.620 you would appreciate
00:09:11.420 or be honest with me
00:09:12.120 that if a man came and said
00:09:13.140 look I'm interested in you
00:09:14.400 I want to speak to your father
00:09:15.900 and go about it the right way
00:09:17.140 do you not say
00:09:17.600 you know what
00:09:18.080 no that would be impressive
00:09:19.540 yeah exactly
00:09:20.240 no if he was like
00:09:21.680 coming up to me
00:09:22.460 and just like
00:09:22.840 listen I really like you
00:09:23.920 I want to get to know you
00:09:24.880 but I'm going to see
00:09:25.580 if it's okay with your dad first
00:09:26.840 that's like
00:09:27.660 oh okay
00:09:28.320 so you actually want to be serious about it
00:09:29.920 yeah
00:09:30.200 what do you think
00:09:30.980 I just want you
00:09:31.400 are you muslims?
00:09:32.980 I am
00:09:33.480 oh you're a muslim sister
00:09:34.280 yeah okay
00:09:34.620 so as a non-muslim
00:09:36.860 that sister
00:09:37.960 what do you say about
00:09:39.560 what do you think about
00:09:40.100 imagine if you had a daughter
00:09:40.920 yeah
00:09:41.440 would you
00:09:42.200 would you want that
00:09:43.680 to be implemented
00:09:44.200 so if a guy wanted to marry a daughter
00:09:45.440 for him to come to you
00:09:46.300 or would you say
00:09:46.800 I just want your honest feedback
00:09:48.160 no I don't want him to come to me
00:09:49.420 and like ask for my
00:09:50.520 like permission
00:09:51.720 yeah
00:09:52.120 you prefer that
00:09:53.080 yeah
00:09:53.500 I've always agreed with that
00:09:55.380 like the muslims
00:09:56.140 yeah of course
00:09:56.160 you have to ask for the father's permission
00:09:57.720 that's what I'm talking about
00:09:58.920 see as muslims
00:09:59.760 yeah
00:09:59.880 well the reason we're doing this
00:10:00.840 is because islamically
00:10:01.560 if I love somebody
00:10:02.220 I have to go and approach their father
00:10:03.460 so you know why
00:10:04.600 so then if I'm messing her around
00:10:06.000 I wouldn't approach their father
00:10:06.960 innit
00:10:07.100 because I've got bad intentions
00:10:07.920 but if I've got good intentions
00:10:09.100 I don't mind meeting her father
00:10:10.500 do you get what I'm trying to say
00:10:11.120 and that's what we're trying to say fam
00:10:12.320 don't you think that's the right way
00:10:13.000 to go about it
00:10:13.580 if you like a girl
00:10:15.000 they sometimes do tricks
00:10:16.340 are you mad fam
00:10:17.180 yeah I know
00:10:17.600 you've got to be careful to girls
00:10:18.480 while they do tricks fam
00:10:19.360 yeah
00:10:19.840 you've got to watch out for the tricks
00:10:20.880 yo fam
00:10:21.280 my hand's in the air
00:10:22.340 what's going on
00:10:22.940 Ali Dawah
00:10:23.800 Ali Dawah
00:10:24.300 you're going to keep
00:10:25.220 look to the camera
00:10:26.680 and say keep it halal
00:10:27.680 keep it halal
00:10:29.120 keep it halal
00:10:30.560 keep it halal
00:10:31.320 keep it halal
00:10:33.460 you've just spoken to the people
00:10:34.720 you heard what they had to say
00:10:35.800 now in a nutshell
00:10:36.820 obviously putting jokes aside
00:10:38.600 and all these kind of things aside
00:10:39.560 obviously we're trying to
00:10:40.360 you know
00:10:40.980 do a bit of banter with the people
00:10:42.300 and stuff like that
00:10:42.980 but putting jokes aside
00:10:44.000 this is actually a serious matter
00:10:45.460 you know
00:10:45.860 so if you think about it
00:10:46.860 we asked them
00:10:47.480 and most of them said
00:10:49.200 you know what
00:10:49.560 they actually appreciate and value
00:10:50.920 the Islamic way
00:10:52.880 of getting to know somebody
00:10:54.360 in the right way
00:10:55.000 yeah
00:10:55.240 now that says a lot
00:10:56.960 you know why
00:10:57.400 because most of the time
00:10:58.500 it's coming from experience
00:10:59.360 a lot of the time
00:11:00.120 females
00:11:01.020 majority of the time females
00:11:02.160 and I know
00:11:02.540 there's a lot of female corporates
00:11:03.800 as well
00:11:04.120 but a lot of the time
00:11:04.880 females are the ones
00:11:05.600 that are suffering
00:11:06.220 they're the ones
00:11:06.760 who get the end of the stick
00:11:08.500 do you get what I'm trying to say
00:11:09.220 and they're suffering
00:11:10.060 and because
00:11:10.840 because of the most of the females
00:11:12.960 that we went and said
00:11:13.620 men are
00:11:14.420 they finish off with trash
00:11:15.740 why
00:11:16.040 because they've had this bad experience
00:11:17.520 and why do you have this bad experience
00:11:18.780 because
00:11:19.300 if you do not have something
00:11:20.920 that's regulating
00:11:22.080 that's being sent down
00:11:23.440 or any kind of regulation in place
00:11:25.020 what's going to happen is
00:11:26.040 you're going to have males
00:11:27.400 who are there
00:11:27.880 who's going to mess you around
00:11:28.640 who's going to mess around with you
00:11:29.480 who's going to come to you
00:11:30.500 and say
00:11:30.900 I want to marry you
00:11:31.700 going to give you these false promises
00:11:32.860 and afterwards
00:11:33.560 what's going to happen
00:11:34.480 boom
00:11:34.900 they're going to leave you
00:11:35.620 they're going to go to move on
00:11:36.660 and that's the reason
00:11:37.520 this phrase
00:11:38.540 men are trash
00:11:39.380 is used
00:11:39.820 why
00:11:40.060 because a lot of females
00:11:41.120 have suffered this
00:11:41.760 and they've seen
00:11:42.480 how they get messed around
00:11:43.500 they get used around
00:11:44.300 they get abused
00:11:44.980 and what does a man do
00:11:45.960 he says
00:11:46.360 I'm moving on now
00:11:47.100 and all he has to do
00:11:48.100 is grow a beard
00:11:48.660 wear a fub
00:11:49.160 or whatever it may be
00:11:49.840 the story is done for him
00:11:51.160 but at the end of the day
00:11:51.860 females
00:11:52.180 they're the ones who suffer
00:11:53.020 so brothers and sisters
00:11:53.960 it's very clear
00:11:54.600 Allah says
00:11:55.900 do not even come close to zina
00:11:58.980 so with this
00:12:00.320 you can see the people
00:12:01.340 who are living it
00:12:02.100 and telling you
00:12:03.020 the negative side of it
00:12:04.220 do you get what I'm trying to say
00:12:04.840 and whatever Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:12:06.500 has legislated
00:12:07.160 it's for your own benefit
00:12:08.700 and you heard it for yourself
00:12:10.120 most of them
00:12:10.700 you heard it for yourself
00:12:11.380 even the men that said
00:12:12.460 nah nah nah
00:12:13.060 you know
00:12:13.460 when he said
00:12:13.820 ok but what if you're a duta
00:12:14.720 when his duta came into the equation
00:12:16.440 when his sister comes into the equation
00:12:17.640 his auntie
00:12:18.200 his mom
00:12:18.640 his wife
00:12:19.360 it's a different story
00:12:20.460 and brothers and sisters
00:12:21.460 in my marriage documentary
00:12:22.520 inshaAllah
00:12:22.800 that's exactly
00:12:23.760 what I'll be showing you guys
00:12:25.080 because
00:12:25.600 this is just like
00:12:26.740 you might see this as like
00:12:27.440 a little banter thing
00:12:28.320 but at the end of the day
00:12:28.820 what I live through
00:12:29.460 I've had people close to me
00:12:30.900 kill their self
00:12:31.740 I've had my cousin hang himself
00:12:33.140 I've had his friend hang himself
00:12:34.300 I've had my neighbour kill himself
00:12:35.520 in my documentary
00:12:36.500 we're going to go
00:12:37.220 and delve into this matter
00:12:39.040 and see
00:12:39.960 the destruction
00:12:41.020 that lies behind it
00:12:42.320 and also
00:12:43.580 we're going to be speaking
00:12:44.300 in my marriage documentary
00:12:45.220 inshaAllah
00:12:45.520 speaking to a female
00:12:46.560 who her life was destroyed
00:12:47.600 she was on the verge
00:12:48.340 of committing suicide
00:12:49.460 why?
00:12:50.080 because she got messed around
00:12:50.880 for five years
00:12:51.540 five years
00:12:52.300 she got messed around
00:12:53.280 when she went to the guy's house
00:12:54.580 they told her get lost
00:12:55.660 just like
00:12:56.480 she goes
00:12:56.720 I feel like an absolute trash
00:12:57.760 you're going to see that
00:12:58.560 in my marriage documentary
00:12:59.180 and also
00:13:00.020 also
00:13:00.580 the reason I'm saying this as well
00:13:02.340 is me personally
00:13:03.200 and I'm only sharing this
00:13:04.040 with you guys
00:13:04.580 so you benefit
00:13:05.180 in my jahiliyat
00:13:06.360 I was involved in
00:13:06.940 haram relationships
00:13:07.680 yeah
00:13:08.140 and we go
00:13:09.240 ten years back
00:13:10.800 we go
00:13:11.180 about 200 miles away
00:13:12.760 to a place that I used to live
00:13:14.100 and I was involved
00:13:14.660 in a haram relationship
00:13:15.460 yeah
00:13:16.420 and we go there
00:13:17.560 and we speak to my friends
00:13:19.000 who were involved in
00:13:19.520 haram relationships
00:13:20.180 and we even go and speak
00:13:21.480 to the mum
00:13:22.220 the mother
00:13:23.020 of the girl
00:13:24.800 that I was in that relationship
00:13:26.120 with
00:13:26.320 alhamdulillah
00:13:26.680 protected me
00:13:27.400 from anything
00:13:28.480 major
00:13:29.620 alhamdulillah
00:13:30.080 but
00:13:30.780 we're going to go there
00:13:31.720 and find out
00:13:32.720 and
00:13:33.240 learn
00:13:34.340 inshallah
00:13:34.720 the damages
00:13:35.740 the destruction
00:13:36.300 and haram relationships
00:13:36.860 cause
00:13:37.200 brothers and sisters
00:13:38.120 do not learn it the hard way
00:13:39.660 islam says
00:13:41.020 prevention is better than cure
00:13:42.400 there is no point
00:13:43.300 you're getting into this
00:13:44.060 and then looking for cure
00:13:44.800 ok what's the medicine
00:13:45.680 don't even go close to it
00:13:47.800 hope you guys have benefited
00:13:49.500 share this with your friends
00:13:50.220 and family inshallah
00:13:50.860 marriage documentary
00:13:52.340 is going to be up very soon
00:13:53.060 inshallah
00:13:53.300 and it's going to change
00:13:54.080 the way
00:13:54.640 you go about things
00:13:56.040 inshallah
00:13:56.260 and you will learn
00:13:56.720 from my story
00:13:57.320 and my mistakes
00:13:58.080 not to commit the same things
00:13:59.400 may Allah bless you guys
00:14:00.340 for watching
00:14:00.620 hope you guys enjoyed it
00:14:01.400 share it with your friends
00:14:02.040 and family
00:14:02.400 till next time
00:14:03.260 assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh