Ali Dawah - “BLACK MAGIC IN FRIENDS HOUSE” - EP 1 - LETS PLAY A GAME

00:00:00.560 Have you ever been affected by evil eye? And what does evil eye mean to you?

00:00:05.040 Traditional healers would tell people to sexually assault a child.

00:00:13.840 What's something you pretend to care about but actually don't?

00:00:19.280 Someone that I know who has my number, who I've spoken, who I've done a video with,

00:00:22.160 goes public about me, attacks me and then takes the side of an enemy who's ripping the Quran.

00:00:26.960 there was a community that i was in that decided that i was a deviant conspired to bring me down

00:00:35.520 no i have to be careful no because i don't want to attract the evil eye what's something about

00:00:39.620 you that would shock your followers who do you feel secretly competes with you

00:00:44.200 outside was cold but we just realized this in naima is minus 70 degrees let's play a game

00:00:51.700 assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh brothers and sisters and dear friends welcome

00:00:56.240 to the let's play a game podcast brothers and sisters so on this show we have guests from all

00:01:00.740 around the world and from all kind of backgrounds cultures and religions the game consists of

00:01:05.400 brothers and sisters cards so these cards as you can see are a red card as you can see with the

00:01:10.140 heart and the key lock a white card with a question mark a black card with a key and a

00:01:16.420 card with an s which is symbolized sadaqah the red cards brothers and sisters are more intimate

00:01:20.760 and personal questions that would make our guests a little bit uncomfortable and on the edge the

00:01:25.640 white cards are more generic questions panel just to get to know them a bit better the black cards

00:01:30.120 are pertaining to the unseen magic evil eye and horror stories which would scare some and the

00:01:36.280 sadaqah cards is obviously to encourage our guests to do sadaqah if they feel uncomfortable asking

00:01:41.480 one of the questions or answering them they can pick a sadaqah cards which will encourage them to

00:01:45.800 help teach people how to pray salah with our charity salah pro embark on this journey with

00:01:50.360 with me brothers and sisters it's going to be intriguing exciting and my guests are going to be

00:01:54.280 on the edge so now let's play a game we have an amazing esteemed guest which is sister naima b

00:02:01.100 robert how are you doing alhamdulillah i'm good so far good good you're always energetic let's

00:02:07.520 see how it goes yes yes and i just want to give credit to sister naima because this show we've

00:02:11.480 been developing it for about good three four months we put on the back burner and i invited

00:02:15.420 her and she's like let's do the let's play a game show that you could be talking about and i thought

00:02:19.560 You know what, nothing's ready

00:02:20.900 The sign wasn't ready, the cards wasn't ready

00:02:22.880 Even these were not ready

00:02:24.960 And you know what, sometimes when I put my mind into something

00:02:27.300 Alhamdulillah and all praise belongs to Allah

00:02:28.420 We got it done just on time and she's our first guest

00:02:30.940 So yes, welcome to Let's Play A Game

00:02:33.100 Bismillah

00:02:34.100 InshaAllah, are you ready?

00:02:35.780 I don't know

00:02:36.300 Ready as I'll ever be, I think, is what they say

00:02:39.300 InshaAllah, inshaAllah

00:02:39.900 So what I'm going to do is this

00:02:41.440 So basically, I'm going to give you 10 of the red cards

00:02:43.660 I'm going to give you 4 of the black cards

00:02:45.960 And I'm going to give you 10 of the white cards

00:02:47.740 You have

00:02:49.140 Obviously

00:02:49.640 Nobody can see the questions

00:02:51.440 Anytime you want to answer

00:02:53.200 One of the questions

00:02:53.860 You can slide the card to me

00:02:55.180 And I will read it out

00:02:56.100 Okay

00:02:56.640 Yeah

00:02:56.980 Out of those red cards

00:02:59.380 Which are personal

00:03:00.420 You can forgo

00:03:02.120 Four

00:03:03.100 Okay

00:03:03.700 So you can say

00:03:04.300 Four I don't want to answer

00:03:05.980 You put it face down

00:03:07.360 On the table

00:03:08.020 Okay

00:03:08.360 And we will come to

00:03:09.480 What happens next

00:03:10.460 So for example

00:03:12.020 If there is a question

00:03:13.280 In one of the red ones

00:03:14.500 You don't want to answer

00:03:15.160 You will have to pick

00:03:16.040 A sadaqah card

00:03:16.680 Right

00:03:17.160 And Salah al-Khadi is obviously

00:03:18.300 Take care to do some righteous deeds

00:03:20.160 It's to help teach someone how to pray Salah 1.00

00:03:22.140 Physically yourself

00:03:23.020 Okay

00:03:23.420 Or sponsor someone

00:03:24.740 Okay

00:03:25.200 As you know because the show is sponsored by Salah Pro

00:03:27.400 Alhamdulillah

00:03:27.820 So yeah

00:03:29.000 And

00:03:29.580 The four cards that you put down

00:03:31.740 That you don't want to answer

00:03:32.540 You have to reveal one to us

00:03:35.240 Okay

00:03:35.680 Now

00:03:36.900 I have that amazing job of doing that for you

00:03:40.420 Okay

00:03:41.000 And I can be cold and ruthless sometimes

00:03:43.000 Okay

00:03:43.400 However

00:03:44.060 If you call a friend that you know

00:03:46.040 You can call them on WhatsApp

00:03:47.500 If they answer

00:03:48.920 You will read out the card to them

00:03:51.000 The audience can't hear it

00:03:52.000 Right

00:03:52.300 And they will pick which one you have to reveal

00:03:54.460 Okay

00:03:54.860 If they don't pick up the phone

00:03:56.260 It comes back to me

00:03:57.540 Okay

00:03:57.900 While I'm picking the card that you need to answer

00:04:00.180 If your phone

00:04:00.680 If your friend calls back

00:04:01.820 I'll put the card back down

00:04:03.100 Okay

00:04:03.500 Yes

00:04:04.000 And out of those red cards

00:04:05.700 You can

00:04:06.460 One of them

00:04:07.620 You can choose to

00:04:08.480 Shift it back on me and say

00:04:09.720 I want you to answer

00:04:10.700 Okay

00:04:11.000 So yeah

00:04:11.660 Let's get straight into it

00:04:12.860 Inshallah

00:04:13.080 I hope you are ready

00:04:13.980 Bismillah

00:04:14.340 I know you've been very curious about

00:04:15.360 you know this so yeah i'm going to give you 10 of these cards one one two three four five six

00:04:24.500 seven eight nine ten all righty well we're waiting on you so so i have to start yes whichever card

00:04:32.980 you just put it down to give it to me and i would okay okay interesting

00:04:35.980 just a quick break on the podcast brothers sisters as you guys know at salah pro we are

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00:05:18.960 whatever you can okay when do you feel the most confident um i would probably say that i feel the

00:05:27.380 most confident funnily enough when i'm on stage or when i'm coaching really yeah yeah uh that's

00:05:33.040 like my happy place i think public speaking is something i always did really from quite young

00:05:37.120 so yeah yeah you know you know i'm the opposite right you know i get this mad nervousness really

00:05:42.460 you know i've actually had moments like genuinely i do i do my afkar i do like the the speech of

00:05:47.000 musa um but when i go on stage there's it always happens in most of the times i have a moment where

00:05:53.560 my mind goes blank and i literally i freeze and then i go um and i'm just there and then i start

00:06:00.080 sweating but i genuinely allah always comes to my rescue though it's always like allah comes in

00:06:04.380 then i'm like okay i'm back on track yeah or sometimes i just make a joke yeah or i just i

00:06:08.540 just i pick on someone in the audience and be like the prophet why are you looking at me like

00:06:11.240 that or something like that and it just buys me time right right so that's very interesting so

00:06:14.560 that's the most you're confident you need to give me some tips uh yeah um i mean like i said i've

00:06:18.340 been doing it for a long time i think it's my personality but the thing another another time

00:06:21.800 that i feel most confident when i'm speaking to my dad actually because i think i i know my dad

00:06:27.440 very well and we get along really well so now that he's sort of losing his memory slightly

00:06:32.500 He struggles to finish his sentence

00:06:35.900 And 80% of the time

00:06:38.120 I can finish his sentence

00:06:39.100 And it's what he was looking for

00:06:41.160 That's amazing

00:06:41.880 Because that shows you have

00:06:42.620 A really nice relationship with him

00:06:44.260 SubhanAllah

00:06:44.620 That's my answer

00:06:46.240 MashaAllah

00:06:46.720 Your father

00:06:48.680 And your mother

00:06:50.300 No my mother passed away

00:06:51.960 A long time ago

00:06:52.540 But anyway it wouldn't apply to her

00:06:53.800 It applies specifically to my dad

00:06:55.020 Alhamdulillah

00:06:55.980 Can I ask you a question

00:06:56.900 Because obviously

00:06:57.400 We're getting to know it personally

00:06:58.320 What's one thing you love about your dad

00:07:00.240 My dad he's so clever

00:07:02.100 He's literally the most intelligent man

00:07:05.260 That I've ever ever met

00:07:06.540 The most well read

00:07:07.840 Just you know

00:07:09.460 Just the amount

00:07:10.220 Sheer amount of knowledge that he has

00:07:12.220 Having been

00:07:12.820 You know he's 82 now

00:07:14.060 And he's got a PhD

00:07:15.940 And he just reads copious amounts

00:07:18.340 So I think that's one of the things

00:07:19.600 That I really really just admire him for

00:07:22.960 I just think he's a really admirable man

00:07:24.980 MashaAllah

00:07:25.420 Yeah

00:07:25.700 Really look up to him

00:07:26.460 If I was to ask you that

00:07:27.340 If your dad was here

00:07:27.940 If I was to ask him

00:07:28.620 What is one thing you love about your daughter

00:07:30.560 What do you think he would say?

00:07:32.100 He would say that she is love.

00:07:34.420 Oh, wow.

00:07:34.840 Yeah, that's because my born name means love in Zulu.

00:07:40.340 So I think that's what he would say.

00:07:41.880 What's it?

00:07:42.600 Tando.

00:07:43.520 The name is?

00:07:44.320 Tando.

00:07:44.740 Tando means?

00:07:45.480 Love.

00:07:45.980 Oh, wow.

00:07:46.440 Yeah, so I think that's what he would say.

00:07:48.640 Mashallah, amazing.

00:07:49.520 Okay.

00:07:49.800 We'll show this to him and then we'll check.

00:07:51.260 Yeah, yeah, inshallah, inshallah.

00:07:52.640 All right, next one.

00:07:55.060 Okay.

00:07:57.420 Okay, there you go.

00:07:59.960 Okay, she's picked another white card.

00:08:01.720 So it looks like

00:08:02.480 I think you're one of the type

00:08:03.380 You know

00:08:03.600 You do eat your burger first

00:08:04.800 Or your chips

00:08:05.320 So you're the chips

00:08:06.600 And then you come to the burger

00:08:07.580 Oh my burger or chips first

00:08:09.060 I like both together

00:08:10.020 I think it's weird

00:08:10.720 When people do that

00:08:11.520 Really?

00:08:11.960 Yeah because my kids

00:08:13.140 They eat the chips first I think

00:08:15.460 And then the burger

00:08:16.320 They're like what are you doing

00:08:17.500 No you have to have a bit of this

00:08:18.780 And a bit of that

00:08:19.340 And a bit of this

00:08:19.760 Don't worry I'm coming to the other ones

00:08:20.860 Yeah I was going to say

00:08:21.320 Because you're avoiding the reds 1.00

00:08:22.140 Yeah no they're coming

00:08:22.660 They're coming

00:08:23.000 Okay so there's another white card

00:08:25.160 It says

00:08:25.520 What does home mean to you?

00:08:28.720 Home is where all my children are

00:08:30.700 that's what it means quite frankly all five of my kids wherever we are in whichever country

00:08:36.160 if you're in a house in a flat in a car wherever we are if i have all five of my kids together

00:08:41.860 that's home mashallah yeah do you have a favorite child no i don't actually and they always ask me

00:08:48.040 because each one of them thinks that either they think that they're the favorite or they think

00:08:53.880 someone else is the favorite so every one of them if you ask them like who's your mom's favorite

00:08:57.880 that said no it's me it's me and i'm like no you're not no you're not uh no i don't have a

00:09:02.460 favorite but there are some kids that i get along with better mainly because our personalities

00:09:07.060 match more but not because they're my favorite okay yeah that's my answer and i'm sticking to

00:09:12.560 it um oh you're going for the red let's see um what do you think of the answer really uh oh

00:09:20.020 there you go so sister naima has picked the red card um so she's doing it looks like she's doing

00:09:24.920 Two white

00:09:25.540 One red maybe 0.90

00:09:26.180 That's a pattern

00:09:26.720 She did say she likes

00:09:27.860 Her chips and burger together

00:09:28.760 So that's

00:09:29.200 I think that's what's happening

00:09:29.760 So the red card is

00:09:30.980 Obviously questions that

00:09:32.300 Are a little bit difficult

00:09:33.440 And personal

00:09:34.060 But let's see what

00:09:35.860 She has picked

00:09:36.720 Okay

00:09:38.840 Yes

00:09:39.220 I want to know this

00:09:40.440 And this is why

00:09:41.220 I love this show

00:09:42.040 Because getting to know you guys

00:09:43.320 On a personal level

00:09:43.960 Alhamdulillah

00:09:44.400 So

00:09:45.100 What's something about you

00:09:47.080 That would surprise everyone

00:09:48.880 Oh

00:09:49.660 Surprise everyone

00:09:50.640 Like I said

00:09:50.980 We would never expect

00:09:52.020 Like I said

00:09:52.400 No

00:09:52.800 Really

00:09:53.500 Oh I'll tell you what

00:09:54.600 tell you what it is can i tell you what it is can i tell them i love horror movies oh is it yeah

00:10:01.000 i'm actually a horror movie fan really yes what would you say the pros and cons of that because

00:10:06.060 let me be honest with you i i stopped watching horror movies in a long time okay there was one

00:10:10.080 that i watched that was horrifying i don't know if it's called evil dead 2 or something like that

00:10:13.140 okay right it's like this creature goes through like it was yeah it was so scary and i can remember

00:10:18.120 i watched it when i was really young it really haunted me but i was the type before i came to

00:10:22.500 islam like i would sleep with a duvet yeah and once i stopped watching these movies once i would 0.54

00:10:27.780 do my i came to islam i never like i've been in situations where like we had an old studio back

00:10:32.560 then it was like a haunted house and i used to do uber and i used to get really tired and i have to

00:10:36.760 go stay there yeah you know sleep there and subhanallah that fear just left me but so do you

00:10:43.260 is there pros and cons to watching horror movies because i believe that that like this is something

00:10:46.680 following me something watching me do you know nothing it's a personal thing i don't get scared

00:10:50.940 So I don't have nightmares about them

00:10:53.040 And I don't think about it afterwards

00:10:54.560 But I love me a good horror movie man

00:10:57.320 Yes

00:10:57.600 What is that you like

00:10:58.560 Weapons was so good

00:11:00.720 Zack Kreger

00:11:01.760 Anybody who knows

00:11:02.920 If you know you know

00:11:03.660 But yeah

00:11:04.880 So that's something

00:11:05.620 That I think people wouldn't expect

00:11:06.600 Actually a little bit of a film buff as well

00:11:09.260 But my latest thing is

00:11:11.580 Definitely kind of sifting through horror

00:11:13.960 The horror movie genre

00:11:15.520 And finding some gems there

00:11:16.880 So yeah

00:11:17.220 What is it that you like about horror movies

00:11:19.160 Is it like the

00:11:20.140 The storytelling

00:11:20.680 the storytelling is usually well if it's a good horror movie the storytelling is often really

00:11:25.200 strong um there are lots of layers to horror movies that people don't expect they think it's

00:11:30.220 all about the jump scare or the ball that's not really what it's about a good for me a good horror

00:11:34.940 film has layers and layers of meaning layers of symbolism you know easter eggs hidden there i

00:11:41.040 like the clever ones okay yes yeah okay like get out for example like get out is a classic i just

00:11:46.000 watched it the other day what about soul no that type of thing gore and like that's not so much my

00:11:51.740 kind of thing i'll be i'll be honest oh you don't like that i'm not so much into like the gore and

00:11:56.140 yeah that's just not really my thing because i find it quite obvious i like scream for example

00:12:01.780 scream okay the first one was interesting and it was scary and then afterwards it's like

00:12:05.460 dude you're just doing the same thing again and again no i'm not interested in that i like the

00:12:09.320 clever ones so does that mean that you're you like the whole unseen jinn magic

00:12:13.100 no that is not what it means at all okay let's see okay talking about that yeah speaking of

00:12:20.480 which let's get one of these into circulation um so one of the the i'm actually scared to answer

00:12:26.240 these ones can i forfeit these ones um yeah yeah yeah you can actually yeah the red or black ones

00:12:31.640 you can uh let's see well we want you to answer it since we're talking about horror movies okay

00:12:38.540 So she's

00:12:39.120 This time has picked the black one 1.00

00:12:40.660 As you guys can see

00:12:41.420 Which is

00:12:42.080 Something with black magic

00:12:43.240 Seher

00:12:43.700 Whatever

00:12:44.000 All that kind of stuff

00:12:44.640 So

00:12:45.680 Okay interesting

00:12:46.760 Because it seems like

00:12:47.440 You are more wary about these cards

00:12:48.680 Yeah

00:12:49.260 And you did say that

00:12:50.440 Yeah

00:12:50.620 Okay

00:12:51.200 Have you ever been

00:12:52.960 Affected by evil eye

00:12:54.440 And what does evil eye

00:12:56.080 Mean to you

00:12:56.900 So I'm going to be

00:12:58.580 Really careful

00:12:59.420 With answering this one

00:13:00.620 Oh no

00:13:00.980 We don't want you to be careful

00:13:01.580 No I have to be careful

00:13:02.540 Okay

00:13:02.960 No because I don't want to

00:13:03.640 Attract the evil eye

00:13:04.520 Oh yeah

00:13:04.880 Do you know what I'm saying

00:13:05.880 Audhu billah

00:13:07.300 Minasheh tohan al-rajim

00:13:08.500 Morning even

00:13:09.060 Yes but not as strongly

00:13:11.080 As I should

00:13:11.540 This is what I'm saying

00:13:12.080 Like now you're opening me up

00:13:13.380 To some stuff

00:13:14.060 No

00:13:14.320 But we've got a solution

00:13:15.120 May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 1.00

00:13:16.980 Protect us in Naima

00:13:17.840 Against all harm

00:13:18.720 And not only that

00:13:19.800 And not only that guys

00:13:20.640 We have on our Salah Pro app

00:13:22.120 We've got the Adhkar 0.97

00:13:22.980 Morning and evening

00:13:23.860 So you're going to download it

00:13:24.660 Okay I'm going to do that

00:13:25.320 So you're going to download it

00:13:25.820 It's a new feature

00:13:26.240 Alhamdulillah

00:13:26.520 Okay I'm going to do that

00:13:27.360 And it's very important guys

00:13:28.140 Joke to the side

00:13:28.560 When it comes to this

00:13:29.440 Wallah I'll be honest with you

00:13:30.220 I had a really bad experience

00:13:31.560 Six years ago

00:13:32.260 From that moment onwards

00:13:33.860 I do not miss my Adhkar

00:13:35.080 If you're a public figure 0.97

00:13:36.060 You are out of your mind

00:13:37.840 To be in front of the public

00:13:39.220 And don't do UFK

00:13:40.040 It's true

00:13:40.340 Very dangerous

00:13:41.280 Because unseen

00:13:42.300 Is more dangerous than unseen

00:13:43.580 That's why I was scared

00:13:44.160 Of answering that question

00:13:45.340 But okay

00:13:45.740 So as far as I know

00:13:47.140 I haven't been affected

00:13:49.160 By someone's evil eye

00:13:50.360 As far as I know

00:13:51.280 Part of that

00:13:52.920 Could be that

00:13:53.660 I don't immediately

00:13:55.320 Go to evil eye

00:13:56.940 As like the reason

00:13:57.980 For something not happening

00:13:59.100 Or happening etc

00:14:00.080 I tend not to use that

00:14:02.440 As like

00:14:02.880 Oh that's what it must be

00:14:04.220 But I'm Alhamdulillah

00:14:07.120 Because I do

00:14:08.120 I know people who have had

00:14:09.980 You know

00:14:10.500 Ayn

00:14:11.020 Who've had jinn possession

00:14:12.620 Can you tell us a story about an evil

00:14:14.140 Do you want to go into this one?

00:14:17.060 Okay

00:14:17.380 You know one thing before I come to this one

00:14:20.840 Is that

00:14:21.560 You're right

00:14:22.220 There's two extremes

00:14:22.820 There's one

00:14:23.740 It doesn't exist

00:14:24.640 Number two

00:14:26.000 Because we're not evil

00:14:26.440 It's real

00:14:26.880 You know

00:14:27.280 The Prophet pointed to the graves

00:14:28.600 And said

00:14:28.860 Do you know how many people are in there

00:14:29.740 Because of evil

00:14:30.100 However

00:14:31.360 The other extreme is

00:14:33.120 See I just got my mind just went blank

00:14:36.220 This happens to me on stage

00:14:37.140 The other extreme

00:14:38.120 The other extreme is that

00:14:40.340 They go to the

00:14:41.440 One extreme is it doesn't exist

00:14:44.060 Yes the other extreme

00:14:44.740 Okay good perfect

00:14:45.400 You trip over

00:14:46.640 Someone did evil eye to me 0.96

00:14:47.640 Everything is evil eye

00:14:49.720 And subhanAllah 0.77

00:14:50.380 Some of them even believe

00:14:51.320 As if the evil eye is stronger

00:14:53.180 Than what Allah subhanAllah decreed

00:14:54.580 Which is very very dangerous

00:14:55.900 SubhanAllah

00:14:56.560 So we should really be balanced with that

00:14:57.800 So you went straight for this

00:14:59.680 Because this answer is the question that you asked

00:15:01.380 Okay good

00:15:01.700 So there is another card

00:15:02.940 it says do you know any horrifying gene stories oh okay now i need to prepare for this one so i

00:15:07.700 don't know i'm not going to say i have horrifying ones well that i know of horrifying ones because

00:15:12.160 for me horrifying means to not be in control of your faculties that's horrifying to me i mean

00:15:18.640 that's what you see in horror movies isn't it isn't that what happens you get possessed and

00:15:22.240 you start to say and do crazy things exorcist and everything but i mean for that to happen in real

00:15:27.660 life where somebody is actually not in control of you know for example they hear the quran they 0.98

00:15:33.740 start convulsing and things like that that's that's really really horrifying so any type of

00:15:38.220 you know if i i do know some people who've been affected by it and for me it's just the idea of

00:15:44.060 do you know what is the first question you're going to be asked in your kiyama not many people

00:15:47.420 know it will be about your salah how your salah was now imagine brahman says alhamdulillah you

00:15:52.860 passed that test by answering and hamdulillah your salah was on point but imagine you are

00:15:56.620 responsible for other people learning how to pray salah surah fatih learn how to do wudu

00:16:00.860 and you help them to pass that test by encouraging them to pray salah or if not teaching them how to

00:16:05.260 pray salah that's exactly what we do at salah pro guys this show that we've done let's play a game

00:16:09.660 it's not just for the mere game of it or whatever it is the excitement the main purpose is for us

00:16:14.380 to do sadaqa and for you guys to invest in where it matters which is your akhira so there is a link

00:16:19.260 in the description below a hundred pounds can help teach 20 to 60 people just imagine that 20 to 60

00:16:24.380 the people in your maqiyama who will testify that you help them to learn how to pray salah if not

00:16:28.820 encourage them to pray salah enjoy the podcast inshallah and go to the link and donate whatever

00:16:33.340 you can something else is at play something you can't see something you can't touch something you

00:16:39.220 can't you know like control that's very scary for me so uh so anytime i hear about that i always you

00:16:45.120 know just ask allah to protect me and and my loved ones and everybody all of us subhanallah

00:16:49.160 um because it is a huge major affliction and and it's something that can completely like turn your

00:16:55.840 life upside down you know uh and i and i've seen it happen to you know people that i know and love

00:17:00.740 so i'm afraid i don't have one horrifying jinn story okay not horrifying but do you mind if

00:17:05.820 you're comfortable obviously the shows make it a bit uncomfortable it's a game but do you know any

00:17:10.000 like what happened with that person you don't need to go into detail of who they are but did

00:17:13.640 you see something where he was like super no i've never seen it okay what have you have you heard

00:17:17.220 Like for example

00:17:17.700 That they

00:17:18.260 I don't know

00:17:19.180 Tried to harm themselves

00:17:19.980 Or they did try to lash out

00:17:21.020 Other people

00:17:21.400 No I don't know

00:17:22.680 Nothing

00:17:23.000 I think they didn't tell me either

00:17:25.440 Because as soon as I know

00:17:27.180 That that's what's happening

00:17:28.460 That that's what's at play

00:17:29.620 I'm on the du'as for them

00:17:31.480 And you know

00:17:32.680 You hear about people

00:17:33.780 You know

00:17:34.220 Possessed

00:17:36.160 And sort of

00:17:36.680 Then the raqi comes 0.99

00:17:37.840 And they're on the ground

00:17:39.020 And they tie them down

00:17:39.860 And all of that stuff

00:17:40.640 I've only ever heard

00:17:42.000 Of that like second

00:17:42.720 Third hand

00:17:43.340 But I don't know anybody

00:17:44.740 You're a revert to Islam right? 0.99

00:17:46.660 Okay, did you have any supernatural experiences

00:17:49.160 Before you came to Islam?

00:17:50.260 Not that I know of, no

00:17:51.440 Okay, interesting

00:17:51.940 You know, I was speaking

00:17:52.680 I heard that

00:17:54.120 People who do Rukia

00:17:56.340 They actually said

00:17:57.680 I don't know

00:17:58.120 They said, genuinely

00:17:58.980 Because sometimes

00:18:00.200 They have their methods of testing

00:18:01.500 And they say

00:18:02.140 A lot of people fake it

00:18:03.740 What?

00:18:04.460 Yes, they go

00:18:04.980 A lot of people

00:18:05.620 Why would you do that?

00:18:06.540 I don't know

00:18:07.180 I don't know the method of knowing

00:18:08.860 But they would say something

00:18:09.960 And they'll be like

00:18:10.460 Oh, do you feel it?

00:18:11.700 Because yeah

00:18:11.980 And it's like

00:18:12.480 Why I said it's not even Quran?

00:18:13.980 Oh my goodness

00:18:14.620 And the thing is

00:18:15.540 They see a lot

00:18:16.280 you know what it is i think a lot of people want attention i think and sometimes they use it that's

00:18:20.240 the reason why they're like oh they're possessed it's that some people want attention genuinely

00:18:23.560 and yeah it's it's yeah i see for me the idea of faking that i i guess in my head i think

00:18:29.760 if i fake it i'm inviting it you know what i'm saying it's like oh you're playing with fire

00:18:34.840 and next thing you know the whole house is burning down so i would i can't imagine

00:18:38.560 faking that or or just even just going near those types of things i remember we went

00:18:43.880 a sister was telling us some some some issues that she had had with jinn and i i felt so

00:18:49.980 uncomfortable i i i couldn't even like i i just wanted to disappear from that conversation because

00:18:55.060 i felt like this how can i explain it i felt like this is a person who habitually has stuff with

00:19:01.980 jinn and she's talking about the jinn i was like oh the jinn gonna come and then like jump into

00:19:06.420 one of us you know and i i just i felt so so uncomfortable and maybe i don't know where it

00:19:10.680 comes from but i just yeah it's something that you know sorry it's not related to some kind of

00:19:16.360 trauma is it no no i just i just hate that idea i just think it's it's it's it's those horror

00:19:21.640 movies sister no horror movies i'm telling you i hate the idea you know what psychologists say

00:19:26.520 what they be conscious of the subconscious mind because deep down you know sometimes what they

00:19:30.480 mean is be conscious of the subconscious mind sometimes you don't realize but there's things

00:19:33.760 you do subconsciously and think subconsciously that you're like why am i doing that it's like

00:19:37.280 A reflex

00:19:37.620 That's why they say

00:19:38.600 Like psychologists

00:19:39.200 Neurons that

00:19:40.160 Fight together

00:19:40.800 Wire together

00:19:41.220 So sometimes

00:19:42.140 If you're watching

00:19:42.780 Horror movies

00:19:43.440 I'm just saying

00:19:44.200 It might have an impact

00:19:45.480 Where it's like

00:19:45.940 Okay

00:19:46.180 You know

00:19:46.780 Because me

00:19:47.620 I'll be honest with you

00:19:48.100 He's like

00:19:48.480 Mehmet behind the camera

00:19:49.440 This story you say

00:19:50.760 He can't sleep at night

00:19:51.780 We have to be careful

00:19:53.300 Around him

00:19:53.700 I will be afraid

00:19:54.920 More afraid

00:19:55.680 Of a real jinn story

00:19:57.200 Than hereditary

00:19:58.140 You know

00:19:58.820 Or any of those

00:20:00.080 Horror movies

00:20:00.660 Because that's fake

00:20:01.780 That's fiction

00:20:02.620 That's Hollywood

00:20:03.300 What you're telling me

00:20:04.620 Sis 0.90

00:20:04.800 This is real

00:20:05.520 This is something

00:20:06.140 That Allah

00:20:06.580 has spoken about

00:20:07.880 this is not

00:20:08.560 magic from

00:20:09.940 Harry Potter

00:20:10.700 this is real

00:20:11.640 so I don't want

00:20:12.960 to have anything

00:20:13.260 to do with it

00:20:13.740 so basically

00:20:14.140 when I watch

00:20:14.580 horror movies

00:20:15.120 I don't mind

00:20:15.920 watching that

00:20:16.400 fictional stuff

00:20:17.080 but not the real thing

00:20:18.340 but if the fictional

00:20:18.920 stuff is that scary

00:20:19.740 I wonder how scary

00:20:20.480 the unseen is

00:20:21.120 maybe

00:20:21.940 well I don't find

00:20:22.960 the fictional stuff

00:20:23.620 scary

00:20:24.040 but the real stuff

00:20:25.140 I do

00:20:25.560 so that's the thing

00:20:26.280 so we're on the

00:20:27.780 fifth question

00:20:28.220 can we get you

00:20:30.040 to four questions

00:20:31.920 from the red or black

00:20:32.700 cards

00:20:33.000 that you do not

00:20:34.340 want to answer

00:20:35.340 let's see okay but this is the same type of question as the last one i feel um

00:20:48.960 we can change it no no no we don't have to do all of that is it already is it obligatory to

00:20:55.260 to swap one out yeah you okay all right so uh okay i'll choose this one

00:21:00.600 I don't want to swap any out

00:21:04.280 They're all good questions

00:21:04.920 Why are you telling her to do something she doesn't want to do

00:21:06.540 Oh that's interesting

00:21:09.680 But I have to take four out right

00:21:11.980 So four you don't want to answer

00:21:13.440 They are uncomfortable

00:21:14.160 I'm not answering because they're uncomfortable

00:21:17.240 They're good questions

00:21:20.800 We should make this pack

00:21:22.720 Available for sale

00:21:24.400 Yeah

00:21:25.180 Okay so these four questions

00:21:29.000 You do not want to answer

00:21:29.840 yeah yeah okay I'm not gonna look at it for now okay one two it's interesting

00:21:37.580 you didn't pick any of the black because you do the black cause you did say you 0.99

00:21:40.100 don't want to run I think yeah that's okay okay so these four cards you don't

00:21:46.280 want to answer yeah I would explain to you these cards a bit more in detail

00:21:49.640 later we'll come to them so okay let's go with you okay let's see ah here we go

00:21:59.780 okay interesting another white god what's a mistake you keep repeating over committing

00:22:07.200 and coming to london okay like oh creating uh more work for myself i keep doing that and every

00:22:16.440 time i come i get completely exhausted and everyone i say i'm not doing this again i'm gonna i'm gonna

00:22:22.160 not gonna come back for another year and then three months later i'm here you're like me i'm

00:22:25.740 like that and sometimes sometimes i enjoy it like i don't know why it might be a bit weird i don't

00:22:29.960 know i think it is weird yeah it's like it's like you get this this it's the adrenaline yeah it's

00:22:34.380 the adrenaline yeah i get it sometimes i like when i tell people brother can you do this for me

00:22:37.800 okay yeah i don't want to say no to them and then bro i've got five people like oh you promised us

00:22:41.060 and i'm like man i wish i never said yes so now i used to say listen bro do you look if i say yes

00:22:45.160 you don't do you're gonna get upset yeah brother i can't do i'm so sorry yeah you know all right

00:22:49.260 That's a good one though

00:22:50.080 That's a good one though

00:22:51.020 Okay let's get a red one

00:22:54.740 Shall we

00:22:55.500 Keep it interesting

00:22:56.260 She's getting nervous

00:23:01.420 No these are really good questions

00:23:03.940 It's about choosing which one to

00:23:05.600 Oh we're going to go through all of them

00:23:06.920 Oh we actually

00:23:07.840 Yeah we are

00:23:08.600 Okay so another red one

00:23:11.000 Yes

00:23:11.340 Which is one of those

00:23:11.980 Personal questions

00:23:13.540 Oh wow

00:23:15.800 Yes

00:23:17.020 God

00:23:17.860 I love this show

00:23:20.800 I love this show

00:23:21.700 Yeah I love the show

00:23:22.920 Okay

00:23:23.560 Okay Alhamdulillah

00:23:24.340 I love the show

00:23:25.240 Can you not stop talking

00:23:26.320 Okay

00:23:26.880 Go and sit over there

00:23:28.420 Yes

00:23:28.860 Okay

00:23:29.920 Okay

00:23:31.100 I'm so intrigued to find out about this

00:23:32.960 What's something

00:23:34.120 We'll be back after the break

00:23:35.280 No joking

00:23:35.660 Don't forget the sponsor

00:23:37.400 Someone

00:23:37.780 What's something you still haven't moved on from

00:23:41.240 Please take your time

00:23:42.720 Because I'm so excited to hear this

00:23:43.960 So I'm not trying to be nosy

00:23:45.100 But like I'm trying to get to know

00:23:46.700 my guests on a personal level so i am really excited in that angle so yes i think um

00:23:53.180 earlier on in my journey of being a public figure and speaking and teaching and stuff

00:23:59.920 um there was a community that i was in that decided that i was a deviant and kind of conspired to

00:24:10.740 to bring me down basically yeah so they like boycott me yeah uh it's not a pity thing because

00:24:19.720 people have the right to their own opinions but the fact that and i felt that firstly you know me

00:24:28.500 yeah on a personal level you've known me for years and um i'm not perfect and i'm gonna do

00:24:35.760 things that you don't agree with and i'm gonna do things that are wrong as well i'm gonna make

00:24:38.680 mistakes but the fact that none of my friends spoke to me about it and kind of just this this

00:24:45.480 thing this this kind of intervention took place and nobody has spoken to me about it up until

00:24:51.640 this day i don't trust those sisters and we will never be friends the way that we were again so

00:24:56.920 yeah that's that's so sad you know because people it's so sad you know but it's allah has made it

00:25:02.520 like that where to remind us if you think about it genuinely no one's there for you except allah

00:25:07.080 Genuinely

00:25:07.980 And Allah has made that 0.99

00:25:09.400 That reality

00:25:10.060 So you

00:25:10.500 Because even Allah says in the Quran

00:25:11.940 Amongst your children

00:25:12.700 And your wife and your partners

00:25:13.760 There will be enemies towards you

00:25:15.120 And you look at it

00:25:16.680 SubhanAllah

00:25:16.980 Like there was a sister on TikTok

00:25:17.980 Where she's someone

00:25:19.360 That does influence about

00:25:20.420 You know hijab etc

00:25:21.380 And she's going through struggles

00:25:23.440 She said you know

00:25:24.520 I'm planning on

00:25:25.580 Taking hijab off 1.00

00:25:26.420 Or something like that

00:25:27.220 And she even 0.59

00:25:28.500 Apparently she sent a picture of her

00:25:30.260 With no hijab to her friend 1.00

00:25:31.320 That leaked it

00:25:32.500 They started

00:25:34.540 It was so toxic

00:25:35.600 They started accusing her of 0.80

00:25:36.860 Oh no you've done that

00:25:38.380 So you can ease your way to the hijab 1.00

00:25:39.620 And I was like

00:25:40.120 Subhanallah

00:25:40.560 Why do we forget the good in people

00:25:43.040 Well the thing is that

00:25:43.940 Nowadays it's obviously so common

00:25:46.280 Because you don't know

00:25:47.840 You don't know any of these people

00:25:49.420 Nobody knows anyone

00:25:50.900 Everyone just sees what they see online

00:25:52.780 So it's easy to kind of make snap judgments

00:25:56.020 And that kind of thing

00:25:57.040 But I think when it's people you know personally

00:25:59.260 Who you've had in your house

00:26:01.120 They've been in your house

00:26:02.180 Your kids were friends

00:26:03.320 Thank you

00:26:03.720 It's different

00:26:04.380 Exactly

00:26:05.000 It's different

00:26:05.460 Exactly

00:26:06.060 And the reason I was mentioning this

00:26:07.200 Because I was like

00:26:07.860 Guys

00:26:08.040 Because I've done a video

00:26:08.740 And I said

00:26:09.040 Look guys

00:26:09.620 Didn't she for years

00:26:10.840 Encourage

00:26:11.340 There's so many sisters 0.80

00:26:12.100 That came and said

00:26:12.540 I wear the hijab because of her 0.99

00:26:13.440 Why are you forgetting

00:26:15.200 All that good

00:26:16.100 And because she has a moment of

00:26:18.140 We all go through it

00:26:19.420 All of a sudden

00:26:20.260 We don't see any good from her

00:26:21.200 Why this attitude

00:26:22.100 And subhanAllah 0.77

00:26:23.000 If these people were judged

00:26:24.040 They froze in the hellfire

00:26:24.840 And like you said

00:26:25.760 For example

00:26:26.200 With me

00:26:26.660 Nothing hurts me more

00:26:28.220 And I can remember

00:26:29.460 An instance

00:26:29.760 A couple of years ago

00:26:30.440 When I had a debate

00:26:30.980 With an enemy of Islam 0.97

00:26:31.760 And the way I conduct myself

00:26:33.700 Was not good

00:26:35.000 It wasn't haram

00:26:35.880 But he was an enemy of Islam 0.91

00:26:37.100 He really enraged me

00:26:38.020 And someone that I know

00:26:39.300 Who has my number

00:26:39.960 Who I've spoken to

00:26:40.580 Who I've done a video with

00:26:41.340 Goes public about me

00:26:42.820 Attacks me

00:26:43.940 And then takes

00:26:45.100 The side of an enemy

00:26:46.540 Who's ripping the Quran

00:26:47.760 And like you said

00:26:48.940 It bothered me so much

00:26:50.180 I was like bro

00:26:50.600 Out of everyone

00:26:51.460 Like do you get what I'm trying to say

00:26:52.960 So that is quite traumatising

00:26:55.120 And you can't trust

00:26:56.020 If I was you

00:26:56.560 I would not trust anybody

00:26:57.600 Thank God you're mature enough

00:26:58.900 To say those type of sisters 0.99

00:26:59.940 And appoint those categories

00:27:00.960 I mean I

00:27:02.660 Like you know

00:27:03.740 I've said before

00:27:04.580 i've said some things that my friends don't agree with right and sometimes it will be a mistake

00:27:10.640 sometimes we genuinely disagree and that's fine um but the i have so much love and respect for

00:27:16.980 my friends who will come and say to me you know that thing that you did or that thing that you

00:27:20.640 said like what's up like what's going on with that like why did you do that or i disagree with that

00:27:25.000 or i don't think you should do any shows with ali dawa anymore you know like that that that's

00:27:29.020 you need to implement that okay wonderful so yeah that's that's that's the truth of that and that's

00:27:35.440 good you know you know why that's good because you know why like if we write each other off with

00:27:38.880 we can never work with anyone do you get i'm trying to say i have mistakes do you get i'm

00:27:41.880 trying to say and i i'm open to naseer you know but to write off people and be like he's done no

00:27:46.640 good and it's it's not fair you know we should be more graceful towards one another yeah in my

00:27:50.580 country they say if you share a tea with a person it has 40 years of remembrance or something like

00:27:55.100 that oh that's yeah like like you know don't forget those good times so how do you think we

00:28:00.060 because i i think when it comes to like people that you see in the public eye there's no way

00:28:06.160 you can know their intention yes but for many of us we know each other a bit more personally than

00:28:10.400 just oh it's someone online yeah so i i don't know i feel like you can tell when someone's sincere

00:28:16.840 you can when you meet them and you you talk and and you know like you can tell when people are

00:28:21.360 putting on an act or like trying to get something exactly and that's what i'll be honest with you

00:28:25.840 like genuinely like with me my philosophy like in life in the senses where like i try to be the best

00:28:32.480 i can to anyone and sometimes people come and say to me bro you need to act you need to behave a bit

00:28:36.320 more like ali dawa you're not i'm like what do you mean by behave like ali dawa what does that mean

00:28:39.480 like i've had that like usually like come to me he's like bro you just act like you're just some

00:28:42.820 just any guy on the road okay and i said okay what do you want me to act like what do you want to do

00:28:47.720 What do you want to do

00:28:48.760 Come with people

00:28:49.360 Doing feathers of me

00:28:50.400 So what do you get

00:28:51.140 I'm trying to say

00:28:51.500 So I try my best

00:28:53.580 And this works for me

00:28:54.660 Sometimes people say

00:28:55.240 No it doesn't

00:28:55.820 And it has its flaws

00:28:56.540 I will

00:28:57.820 I don't want

00:28:58.880 Anyone to come and say

00:28:59.940 Ali Dawah wronged me 1.00

00:29:00.900 Ali Dawah oppressed me 1.00

00:29:02.240 I'm very careful

00:29:03.880 And particular

00:29:04.400 To how I treat people

00:29:05.440 I try my best

00:29:06.340 People that I know

00:29:07.120 And not know

00:29:07.520 And I will give them

00:29:08.800 My all in the sense

00:29:09.880 And if they wrong me

00:29:10.900 At least I know

00:29:12.020 Alhamdulillah

00:29:13.060 It wasn't me

00:29:14.000 It came from you

00:29:14.560 And it keeps me going

00:29:16.060 It might be selfish

00:29:16.820 I don't know

00:29:17.140 Sometimes I was thinking

00:29:17.620 myself is that selfish no it makes sense because you only have control over yourself exactly i

00:29:21.780 can't control anybody else exactly so my job is did i treat you right did my to my best mobility

00:29:26.660 that's your responsibility exactly did i order you iskender iskender came there you go i'm joking

00:29:33.300 all right ready for the next one next one yes sister okay another white question

00:29:41.300 who do you trust the most in your life allah easy easy come on light work easy answer and

00:29:47.460 do i have to say more than that yes give you some tafsir yeah um how did you come to be like that

00:29:55.460 tell us how it come to the point where he's like my tawakul is only allah why i i don't know how i

00:30:00.740 was before i lost my my uh late husband um i'm not really sure i'm sure i had you know i was

00:30:09.300 a believer but i think after or during the time when my late husband was in that coma

00:30:14.980 when i feel like i truly um surrendered to his will and to his plan because it's one of those

00:30:21.940 situations you have no control it could go anyway he could wake up tomorrow he could wake up and

00:30:27.460 have brain damage which was one of the uh the prognoses uh he could stay in a coma for the

00:30:32.100 next six months or six years you know anything could happen so literally it was like yarab you

00:30:38.920 chose this for me this is not a very usual situation um if you chose it for me i know that

00:30:45.000 you've got my back and that it's going to be okay it may not and i don't know how it will look but

00:30:49.400 i know it's going to be okay so throughout ever since that time you know through the ups and the

00:30:54.820 downs through the great decisions that i've made and the bad decisions that i've made i have managed

00:31:01.420 i trust that allah has a plan for me and i trust in his plan for me you know um and i and i and i

00:31:08.360 can only ask him to be my wali to to protect me to guide me it is only him and he puts people in

00:31:16.360 my way and he gives me opportunities and he you know whatever it is i have of good it is from him

00:31:21.440 so yeah that's my wali this is a quick ad break if you are watching this podcast just for the

00:31:26.080 entertainment just carry on watching skip this video because this is for those who are genuinely

00:31:29.600 want to invest in the akhira so that on your maqiyama they can enter jannah without any 0.70

00:31:33.680 recognition brothers and sisters allah says in the quran you are busy with the world dfs yes it

00:31:41.980 might be this podcast whatever there's nothing wrong with the handle it's pertaining to the deen

00:31:44.680 until you visit the graves the money the car everything that you own is going to disappear

00:31:49.260 your husband is going to marry another woman your wife is going to marry another man your children 1.00

00:31:54.360 are going to move on your mother is going to laugh when they make a joke when you've passed away

00:31:58.160 because this is human nature the only one that's been there for you before you was born to the day

00:32:03.000 you was born when you spent your life when you enter that grave when you are resurrected when

00:32:07.660 you are questioned until you enter jannah is nobody but allah if you are to occupy trying

00:32:11.900 to prove other people rather than trying to prove yourself to allah i would say brothers

00:32:15.700 sisters donate inshallah in helping people to learn how to pray salah this is exactly what we

00:32:20.340 do this salah project that we have guys we teach people how to do wudu how to pray salah and even

00:32:25.140 teach them the quran surah fatia a hundred pounds can teach anywhere from 20 to 60 people to learn

00:32:30.520 How to do wudu

00:32:31.180 To learn how to praise Allah

00:32:32.440 To learn Surah Fatih

00:32:34.080 The link is there

00:32:35.000 InshaAllah

00:32:35.240 Brothers

00:32:35.400 Enjoy the podcast

00:32:36.540 But have a portion

00:32:37.960 Of the hereafter

00:32:38.680 May Allah bless you guys

00:32:40.020 Enjoy the podcast

00:32:40.820 I'm so deep

00:32:41.660 You know that

00:32:42.000 Because I'm thinking about it

00:32:43.020 Like myself as well

00:32:44.140 Like when it comes to

00:32:45.020 Tawakul

00:32:45.500 It's like

00:32:46.580 You know Allah has shown me

00:32:47.720 In so many scenarios

00:32:48.700 Where I was like

00:32:49.300 I'm finished

00:32:50.700 Like in this moment

00:32:51.660 I think I'm done

00:32:53.000 And Allah always

00:32:55.060 And you know what's interesting

00:32:56.000 I've always been in these situations

00:32:58.420 Like here and there

00:32:59.180 Throughout my 13 years

00:33:00.020 Of being a Muslim 1.00

00:33:00.540 And Allah always proves himself 0.99

00:33:02.920 Like he just comes through

00:33:04.100 You know

00:33:04.680 And you know sometimes

00:33:05.580 I actually like

00:33:06.300 When I'm going through a hardship

00:33:07.160 I think to myself

00:33:08.840 Okay

00:33:09.380 I have no doubt

00:33:10.940 Allah's going to come through 1.00

00:33:11.980 NashaAllah for that

00:33:12.900 That's why the Prophet 0.99

00:33:13.420 That's the yaqeen right there 1.00

00:33:14.580 Yes

00:33:14.980 And that was built up though

00:33:16.420 Because Allah showed me

00:33:17.620 I'm there for you

00:33:18.140 NashaAllah

00:33:18.600 The Prophet said

00:33:19.540 Allah is to his servant 1.00

00:33:20.540 How he thinks of him

00:33:21.300 Yes

00:33:21.660 I love that

00:33:21.960 And do you know what I do

00:33:22.980 I play like a funny game

00:33:24.020 Like in a sense

00:33:24.740 In my own brain

00:33:25.320 Yeah

00:33:25.540 I go

00:33:26.380 I start doing this

00:33:27.640 I go okay

00:33:28.020 I believe

00:33:29.120 These are 10 ways

00:33:30.620 Where Allah's gonna get me 0.99

00:33:31.440 Out of the situation

00:33:31.960 Okay

00:33:32.320 This this this this

00:33:33.500 This and this

00:33:33.900 Allah gets me out 1.00

00:33:38.000 Of that situation

00:33:38.560 And I'm like

00:33:39.080 Man I would never

00:33:40.220 In a million years

00:33:42.320 Bro I would be like

00:33:43.180 I would

00:33:43.620 I would like

00:33:44.880 Wallah 0.89

00:33:45.220 I had 10 brains

00:33:46.340 10 different options

00:33:47.500 And neither

00:33:48.040 None of them

00:33:48.680 It's gonna be this

00:33:49.220 This or that

00:33:49.620 And Allah would get me out 1.00

00:33:51.360 And I would be like

00:33:51.820 Oh my bro

00:33:52.460 I would never

00:33:53.140 If you said to me bro

00:33:53.840 You have a million years

00:33:54.460 Just think about it

00:33:54.960 I would not

00:33:55.760 That's what Allah says

00:33:56.840 In the Quran

00:33:57.120 In Surah Talak

00:33:57.720 If you fear me

00:33:59.240 I will give you a way out

00:34:00.620 From places you can never imagine

00:34:02.400 And I'm getting goosebumps saying this

00:34:04.100 And you know when you have

00:34:05.220 That relation with your Lord

00:34:06.220 It's such a comfort

00:34:07.980 I sometimes feel like

00:34:08.780 I have super powers

00:34:09.680 And a lot of people

00:34:10.540 Can relate to this as well

00:34:11.560 Where I'm like

00:34:12.280 SubhanAllah

00:34:12.720 That relationship is so intimate

00:34:14.020 And that's how the Sahaba work 0.99

00:34:14.940 Sahaba would do du'a 1.00

00:34:16.320 Which clove shall I pick

00:34:17.860 Oh Allah

00:34:18.180 And it's so beautiful

00:34:20.080 Like with trainers

00:34:21.200 Which shall I wear

00:34:22.200 And that's how we need to be

00:34:23.620 With Allah

00:34:23.840 SubhanAllah

00:34:24.440 Deep

00:34:25.260 I love that

00:34:27.000 uh yeah okay she's having trips instead of burger okay okay

00:34:35.760 it's interesting i'll get the audience like i'll just read it yeah exactly no i'm gonna read to

00:34:41.000 myself okay what's something you'd never want to change about your life oh my family and my friends

00:34:49.260 absolutely yes my family my friends my kids my sister my dad that side of the family and

00:34:56.520 Yeah

00:34:57.220 Definitely

00:34:58.060 And my friends

00:34:58.600 Alhamdulillah

00:34:59.180 Who now

00:34:59.880 Many of them have known

00:35:01.380 For decades

00:35:02.100 MashaAllah

00:35:02.540 So yeah

00:35:03.760 That's definitely one thing

00:35:04.800 That I would never watch

00:35:05.500 You're careful with

00:35:06.100 The friends that you pick

00:35:07.400 These are people

00:35:08.560 That I've been with me

00:35:10.000 Like for long

00:35:10.860 From date

00:35:11.200 Yeah

00:35:11.640 What I do struggle with

00:35:13.540 Is making new friends

00:35:14.800 That's actually

00:35:15.500 Very rare for me

00:35:16.820 That's a good feeling

00:35:17.420 And I think

00:35:18.500 Probably the only

00:35:19.640 New friend I have

00:35:20.560 Is Khalila

00:35:21.060 Khalila Lista

00:35:22.320 I would call her

00:35:24.480 A friend

00:35:24.820 But we only met

00:35:25.800 Like a year or two

00:35:26.480 ago but everybody else i've known for like 10 20 years sometimes from childhood um so yeah i'm not

00:35:32.980 so great with making new friends i mean it takes a lot of time and openness and i think when you

00:35:39.020 have a public persona yeah a lot of the time people will invite you due to that public persona

00:35:45.880 which means that you kind of have to be the public persona yes you can't necessarily be

00:35:51.900 yourself or like relax or be vulnerable with sisters that's kind of you know with amongst

00:35:56.680 women that's kind of how we how we bond and i don't really feel comfortable uh doing that if 0.66

00:36:01.720 someone's like brought me in as sister naima yeah i'm gonna be sister naima yeah yeah you know and

00:36:06.560 then that's what it's gonna be yeah right so yeah yeah yeah okay yeah cool uh i don't know about this

00:36:12.640 one i don't know how to answer this go to the gin one go to the gin

00:36:17.120 um okay oh okay there you go okay okay so we've got the unseen cards have you or anyone in your

00:36:29.140 family found black magic in your house wow uh i have not alhamdulillah but i do know uh i have

00:36:36.600 i have a friend who has really yeah how did she tell you how she told me she told me spun on how

00:36:41.980 yeah what do you mean like like like like where how like did she just well she didn't give me 1.00

00:36:45.980 like a house tour or anything but she found evidence that somebody had done you know those

00:36:50.960 tying knots and everything like that yeah was it at tawhiz yeah as far as i know as far as i remember

00:36:56.860 did she open it i don't know i'm just asking i'm curious i don't know i don't know i don't know

00:37:01.620 i don't know so she just found three knots listen ali i already told you once you tell me it's gin

00:37:05.520 i'm like okay sis i'm gonna make dua for you like i'm not digging into the details of it but yeah

00:37:09.780 I think it's the horror movie thing coming

00:37:11.780 I'm not going to do that

00:37:13.680 Okay, subhanAllah, that's crazy 0.90

00:37:15.900 In your house

00:37:18.220 Bro, that means there must be someone that you know

00:37:20.300 Yeah, I mean so often it is

00:37:22.080 So often it is

00:37:23.020 I do know in Zimbabwe

00:37:24.960 Where I remember I was sitting with some ladies for lunch

00:37:28.000 And they were talking about how

00:37:29.440 One of the ladies' husbands 0.94

00:37:32.220 Had started an affair with another woman

00:37:34.540 Who had basically done magic

00:37:36.040 And that's very common actually

00:37:37.660 In southern Africa I've heard

00:37:39.440 that it's very common malawi zimbabwe maybe south africa as well to do magic to get a man

00:37:44.460 to get someone's man yeah yeah to get someone's man yes yes yes to get a man kind of it's not we

00:37:50.100 don't call it juju but it's it's that type of magic um oh my gosh yeah like spells i put in

00:37:55.520 malawi people talk about someone doing a spell on you when they're going to sell you something 0.98

00:37:59.680 and they do like a spell on you and you end up giving them like all your money and stuff like

00:38:03.340 that wow i mean of course it's all things that people talk about that this happens and this

00:38:08.680 happens but i think that there's usually like a basis for that kind of thing yeah morocco all

00:38:15.240 of those places they've got deep deep like superstitious and magical roots um you know

00:38:22.040 in the folklore in the culture and stuff like that and people still use it to today that's

00:38:26.300 actually because in our culture we have something like my mom used to do it and i told her not to

00:38:31.360 do it yeah it's like you know turkish coffee yeah in a small cup yeah you drink it turn it around

00:38:37.460 yeah and then let's settle or whatever actually i can remember once in before i came to islam one of

00:38:42.340 them got me to put my thumb in it okay and i'll take my thumb out yeah and they'll say oh yeah

00:38:45.700 we see a i don't know a donkey and it means you're gonna get married in two years like reading yeah

00:38:49.380 like reading tea leaves yeah so they'll read them like oh can you see there's a a creature there

00:38:53.460 with a forehead or something like that subhanallah so so it's and they say they have a saying they

00:38:58.100 say don't believe in it but don't go without it oh meaning don't believe it but don't go without

00:39:06.740 Now that's dangerous

00:39:07.560 You know why

00:39:07.940 Because that's what I said to my mum

00:39:09.440 I said mum

00:39:09.780 You go to somebody

00:39:10.740 They read it and say something

00:39:11.960 And it happens to come to be

00:39:13.440 Yeah

00:39:13.900 You're going to increase

00:39:14.860 Trust in that person

00:39:15.880 Of course you are

00:39:16.280 That's why it's so dangerous

00:39:18.140 Yeah

00:39:18.380 When we tell people about this

00:39:19.380 People just think

00:39:19.800 Oh it's just

00:39:20.280 No no no

00:39:20.780 It's actually

00:39:22.100 Really dangerous

00:39:23.420 SubhanAllah

00:39:23.760 And to think about

00:39:25.620 Someone in your house

00:39:26.880 But that means someone

00:39:27.520 That you know

00:39:28.460 Has come

00:39:29.200 And now you're telling me

00:39:29.820 There are women doing it 1.00

00:39:30.760 To other people's men

00:39:31.420 Yeah yeah

00:39:32.040 I mean this was

00:39:32.940 You know in Zimbabwe

00:39:34.120 I don't know

00:39:34.940 I don't really hear

00:39:36.380 of it happening in the muslim community in the uk is it muslims doing this i know there's everybody 0.99

00:39:40.680 this in this case it wasn't muslims but it's you know in malawi they might be muslim they might not

00:39:45.240 be muslim it's not the point the point is people feel like there are forces you know sort of other

00:39:51.360 outside forces that they can harness in order to get what they want oh in zimbabwe we have a lot

00:39:56.280 of that stuff like there was a time when because hiv was a big deal in zimbabwe for a long time

00:40:01.780 not so much now but it really was like an epidemic and so the traditional healers would tell people

00:40:08.780 to go and basically uh sexually assault a child or an infant in order to cure themselves uh they 0.60

00:40:16.720 harvest organs and you know to in order to get money and like you know to be had to be blessed

00:40:21.620 with wealth it's a lot of that stuff happens yeah all right here you go yes okay

00:40:25.640 okay oh okay oh this okay yes yes yes we have to talk about marriage on the show

00:40:34.620 yes okay this is interesting i i um how long did it take you to get married and tell us

00:40:39.980 the struggles and yes it wasn't really that much struggles because it was when i first became

00:40:46.080 muslim um that was way back 26 years ago or so and we were around a lot of other new muslims or

00:40:53.020 kind of returnees so like that was the topic of conversation it's marriage marriage how to find

00:40:57.420 someone to find someone i think i was in the searching phase for about three to six months

00:41:03.740 and i had a few meetings and then i met uh the father of my kids and then that was that was the

00:41:08.460 end of that alhamdulillah so it wasn't very long for me can i go into specifics sure not too much

00:41:13.980 um how did you meet uh we were introduced by a friend actually somebody who grew up with him

00:41:20.700 up in northwest london who i was at university with so he was like you know what are you actually

00:41:24.780 looking for so i was like well i would read like an african brother you know obviously someone who's

00:41:28.540 who's practicing he's like well i know brother he's you know really cool he's been married he's

00:41:32.300 been muslim for two years i think you guys would really get along and then we basically we swapped

00:41:37.100 numbers we spoke on the phone and then we met at regent's park mosque with my wally oh wow yeah so

00:41:41.420 this was in london yeah oh wow okay so you i became muslim here okay so you live in zimbabwe

00:41:47.020 you came here for university yeah so i became muslim in my second year of uni

00:41:51.980 okay i want to know a bit about that as well okay so where was your first impression when you saw him

00:41:56.780 this man is for me he was it was exactly that because we had already spoken on the phone and

00:42:00.540 we just like we'd like a house on fire and when i saw him i was like yeah that's that's that's

00:42:05.980 that's my one i'll have that okay what's okay what is one quality you look in a man you're

00:42:12.220 like this quality has to be in this man or my my future husband you're not talking about

00:42:16.700 Like physical right

00:42:17.640 We're not talking about physical

00:42:19.460 Physical is not important

00:42:21.220 I'm sorry but to say one thing

00:42:24.740 That must be in a man physically or a woman 0.99

00:42:26.740 It can be like for example

00:42:27.400 I'll be honest with you like personally for me

00:42:29.160 I would come and say for example

00:42:30.560 No no no

00:42:33.860 No no

00:42:34.460 Cut all of this

00:42:38.060 Cut all of this

00:42:39.520 I would like I would personally say

00:42:42.740 I

00:42:43.280 okay i'll be a bit careful okay but what i'll say is this i mean i like a woman that has a long hair 0.98

00:42:50.940 that's fine but just because you say you like someone with long hair doesn't mean you won't

00:42:55.500 like someone who doesn't have long hair no no i would say that would you okay fair enough like

00:43:01.160 it depends how short if it's like i i'm not personally attracted to really sure but if she

00:43:04.160 has short hair she can grow it like it's not for me i'm sorry i don't have time to wait i'm an

00:43:08.200 ah no i'm an auntie so like in my stage of life yes you know i just think that it's it's a tad

00:43:14.940 shallow to say i need a man who looks like this because true but also just looks true but also

00:43:21.500 bear in mind you might be saying this now because the thing is i'm saying it now because i'm old

00:43:26.220 you're not old yes i am okay i'm in my auntie era that's why i'm saying that when i was young

00:43:30.940 i didn't used to say that thank you so so we have to be fair here so what i'm saying is this

00:43:34.660 you need to understand as men as well to marry a woman that you're attracted to help you lower 0.59

00:43:38.200 your gaze but uh wait a minute attraction is not the same as they have to look a particular way

00:43:43.600 okay because you can be attracted to someone who's not your type not your normal type i'm sure people

00:43:47.980 have had that experience before if maybe not but if that's yeah you can you can find someone

00:43:52.820 attractive if they're not as tall as you normally want or they don't have the kind of hair you

00:43:57.560 normally want but hey you know what they're still attractive and i think with women even though 0.99

00:44:01.440 not going to get started on this conversation but i think that you started with the question

00:44:05.360 attractiveness is not purely based on the way someone looks but the way that a man actually

00:44:10.880 makes you feel when you speak to him and stuff it can increase the attraction so that's important

00:44:14.880 because as a woman for you that's important you know because you're emotional and you like you

00:44:18.720 know nice words he can't help himself yeah what's wrong with that there's nothing wrong with it

00:44:23.360 what's wrong with that okay um what's the one quality that for me i would say that one of the

00:44:27.680 quality that i look for in a woman is gratitude yes having gratitude being contenting alhamdulillah 0.65

00:44:33.760 you know it reminds me of the story of ibrahim when he came to his son's house and said how's

00:44:37.440 it going said oh we don't have nothing we're struggling but i said tell my son when it comes

00:44:40.960 to change his gait or something on those lines and he said look your dad came today he said this and

00:44:44.800 he said he told me to divorce you yeah and then he came back and his wife said you know alhamdulillah

00:44:48.720 whatever we have is good yeah i think that's such a beautiful quality in a woman to be grateful in

00:44:52.720 This error

00:44:53.260 When sadly

00:44:54.520 Sometimes it happens both ways

00:44:55.680 But also like

00:44:56.300 When a man is working hard

00:44:58.160 And he's being compared to

00:44:58.980 Oh but I want that

00:44:59.760 And I want this

00:45:00.320 In a

00:45:01.560 And I think it's both men and women

00:45:02.840 A quality of gratitude

00:45:03.920 What's it for you?

00:45:05.640 Yeah no no

00:45:06.200 What's it for you?

00:45:06.940 It's not going to be the top quality

00:45:08.280 What's the top quality for you?

00:45:10.140 If I'm going to say one

00:45:11.360 Two

00:45:12.200 Okay make it two go on

00:45:12.860 Okay two

00:45:13.060 Go on two

00:45:13.700 Responsible

00:45:14.740 Yep

00:45:15.380 Yeah and incapable

00:45:16.320 And confident

00:45:17.660 That's for me

00:45:18.500 Confident okay

00:45:19.420 Yeah responsible and confident

00:45:20.820 It's no good being confident

00:45:22.040 But you're not responsible

00:45:23.020 And it's also kind of

00:45:24.280 Not that great

00:45:24.800 Being responsible

00:45:25.460 And not confident

00:45:26.040 So yeah

00:45:26.980 That's what I would say

00:45:27.940 But I think that

00:45:29.040 In my idea of masculinity

00:45:31.640 That's what it is

00:45:32.620 Is a masculine man 0.97

00:45:35.000 Is responsible

00:45:36.020 And confident

00:45:37.120 In who he is

00:45:38.300 And what he's doing

00:45:38.980 Etc

00:45:39.360 He can lead

00:45:40.100 Today there's a lot of men 0.77

00:45:41.180 Who are masculine 0.71

00:45:41.980 And owls

00:45:42.440 But sadly they are

00:45:43.200 It's okay

00:45:43.580 We're not going to talk about that

00:45:44.820 I'm going to call them out

00:45:45.820 Okay

00:45:46.520 I'm very intrigued

00:45:48.060 To see what's one of these cards

00:45:49.100 I don't know

00:45:50.760 What my answer is to this

00:45:51.700 But I'm going to give it to you anyway

00:45:52.960 Okay, interesting

00:45:53.700 These are one of the dangerous cards

00:45:54.780 The red one

00:45:55.180 I don't know

00:45:55.780 I have to think of what my answer is

00:45:57.360 Can you put some

00:45:57.940 Like attention building

00:45:59.120 I'll pick up slowly

00:46:00.500 You know they did repeat

00:46:01.700 Okay

00:46:03.420 Oh, wow

00:46:05.980 You're brave

00:46:07.000 You are brave

00:46:08.620 Wow

00:46:08.940 She wants to play a game

00:46:10.040 It's only because I'm a revert 1.00

00:46:10.980 So

00:46:11.260 What's the worst thing

00:46:13.620 You've done out of peer pressure?

00:46:15.340 When Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.98

00:46:16.240 Asked Ibrahim to sacrifice his child

00:46:18.520 All of us think

00:46:19.420 The first sacrificial thing done

00:46:21.020 was to sacrifice a child rather no the first thing he had to sacrifice was internally to accept that

00:46:27.260 he's going to sacrifice child for the sake of allah and allah replaced it with something better

00:46:31.060 are you ready to sacrifice this dunya for the akhira brothers and sisters there is a link there 0.99

00:46:35.460 that you can help teach 20 to 60 people just for a hundred pounds to learn how to pray salah to

00:46:40.680 learn swara fatih to learn wudu and every time they do those actions it is on your deeds the

00:46:46.500 link is there donate whatever you can inshallah what's the worst thing you've done out of peer

00:46:51.080 pressure and yes yeah yes uh i would probably say that when i was young sneaking out

00:46:58.220 oh to go partying yeah oh okay yeah okay so you're you're you're

00:47:03.760 okay enough to elaborate on that really okay you know because i mean that's we had friends who did

00:47:09.860 that and that was just like so unnecessary so dangerous so just who's more lenient your mom

00:47:16.000 or your dad no they were both strict really yeah we didn't have a second is your mom i mean your

00:47:21.320 dad a muslim no oh no he's not no yeah but neither of them were neither of them were neither of them 0.99

00:47:27.960 were lenient they were both strict yeah we didn't have like good cop bad cop let's do bad cops uh

00:47:33.860 but yeah i think yeah no i was a very very uh unfortunately i was a very naughty teenager and

00:47:38.400 that was due to the group that i was with yeah that's what you pick your friends yes same yes

00:47:44.100 Okay

00:47:44.640 Alright

00:47:45.520 There we go

00:47:49.400 Everyone's gonna like that question

00:47:52.620 If there's any question

00:47:53.260 You don't want to answer

00:47:53.920 Do you know the Sadaqa cards are still there?

00:47:56.060 Sadaqa cards are there

00:47:57.060 Don't worry about them

00:47:58.000 Avoid that

00:47:58.300 Of course

00:47:58.660 Okay

00:47:59.640 What's the kindest thing

00:48:01.220 You've done for someone?

00:48:03.940 Bismillah

00:48:04.420 I would say

00:48:05.180 Probably buying them a house

00:48:06.640 Wow

00:48:08.560 Mashallah

00:48:09.160 Yeah

00:48:09.780 Must really love them

00:48:10.640 Yes

00:48:11.520 Like my surrogate mum

00:48:13.080 In Egypt

00:48:14.040 to was like oh wow she was like my kid's granny and she was just there for us so so so much

00:48:18.840 especially around the the time of my late husband's passing and um alhamdulillah we had the means and

00:48:25.000 she didn't own her place yet so alhamdulillah we bought it for her wow may allah bless you i mean

00:48:32.680 slowly coming to the end of the show let's play we still got something okay all right

00:48:38.600 okay what's a mistake you keep repeating in relationships i think if i'm honest

00:48:48.840 i think it is maybe not giving enough um yeah not giving enough and maybe i won't say taking

00:49:01.080 too much because i don't necessarily ask a lot either but i feel like i i would like to be a

00:49:07.720 more giving person within my relationships within my friends and my family no I give them all the

00:49:13.180 time but with friends especially um yeah I think I think I think I think it's a mistake you know

00:49:19.160 like when you don't reach out to people and you don't check on them um you know you can go for

00:49:24.200 like weeks or months without like just giving someone a ring and you know just having a chat

00:49:28.380 I think that that's yeah I think my the way that I use my time is so focused on like work and and

00:49:34.460 and kind of my life i think that's a mistake because if something was to happen to one of

00:49:39.180 my friends and things happen right things happen all the time yeah when if something was to happen

00:49:44.480 to your friend where you could no longer speak to them you would feel like i wish i had made more of

00:49:49.540 an effort you know i wish i had let them firstly not let them know how much they mean to me find

00:49:54.540 out how they are what's going on with them because i think that that's one of the things that you

00:49:59.140 know a lot of certainly sisters feel is that everyone's just in their own lives you know and

00:50:04.820 everyone's busy with their own lives no one's got time for you very few people will just give you a

00:50:09.660 call and say how's things going like let's catch up you know so i think that that's that's the

00:50:13.940 mistake just one mistake that i feel that i'm making and i'll always rest if you don't mind

00:50:17.700 me asking please choose not to and this question did your husband late husband does it come to

00:50:24.440 your mind like um i think i've said before that i just i do wish i had been a more attentive wife

00:50:30.360 i think i was a good wife and we we had a good relationship we got along very well and we were

00:50:35.400 happy as a couple but i do think i could have pushed myself more in terms of just like making

00:50:41.480 sure that his needs were prioritized and that's why that's when i i say to sisters like you know

00:50:45.980 while you have what you have you know don't take it for granted because it's so easy to do that

00:50:50.400 just to take whoever whether it's your spouse whatever spouse you know husband or wife uh to

00:50:55.260 take them for granted and just assume that they'll always be there and that you'll get to them later

00:50:58.480 you'll get to them later that's what i was going to ask that what would be one advice you'll give

00:51:01.400 a sister like let's say they're having a little bit of issues at home like what advice would you 1.00

00:51:06.000 give because obviously you've lost your husband may i love mercy on him what advice would you give

00:51:09.220 to that sister who's watching this who might be going through some little difficult situation

00:51:12.340 testing trials with her husband yeah um you know obviously nothing i think it's just like your

00:51:17.320 normal yeah no the the advice i give sisters and brothers is always like just focus on the good

00:51:24.360 in your relationship in your spouse focus on the good be grateful for the good like feed into the

00:51:30.660 good because whatever you focus on is what will grow you know and there is none there not a single

00:51:35.700 one of us has zero mistakes uh zero bad habits none of us even the ones who are getting annoyed

00:51:41.840 we have our own bad habits right so so focusing on the good being grateful for the hair pouring

00:51:48.080 your energy into that will actually make you feel better about the relationship actually make you

00:51:52.820 feel better towards your spouse so that's probably something you may want to do if you intend to stay

00:51:58.220 married right because if you are pouring into the bad things and focusing on the things that are not

00:52:03.880 working and things that are not there eventually you're going to start disliking this person and

00:52:08.660 for a woman once she starts to dislike disrespect or feel disdain for her husband is not good yeah

00:52:16.160 that's that's that's bad that's a bad situation because um it's hard to come back from that yeah

00:52:23.100 and one of the reasons it's hard to come back is because it was created by her in the first place

00:52:28.120 you see not that it didn't exist yes but because you've kind of almost talked yourself into

00:52:33.640 disliking your husband

00:52:35.560 self fulfilled prophecy

00:52:36.640 everything he does now

00:52:38.580 becomes like a proof

00:52:41.080 for those negative feelings

00:52:42.380 that you have

00:52:43.080 so I think being on our guard

00:52:45.760 as Muslims

00:52:46.520 as humans

00:52:47.240 against those

00:52:48.900 and the negative push

00:52:51.260 from Shaitan

00:52:51.980 who wants us

00:52:52.680 eventually Aslan

00:52:53.540 he wants to break our families

00:52:54.700 he wants us to be on our own

00:52:56.340 he wants us to be out here

00:52:57.620 on Tinder and Muz

00:52:58.900 and all of this thing

00:52:59.780 like trying to find the one

00:53:01.120 because it's tough out there

00:53:03.180 That's why I said gratitude

00:53:06.040 Because you could truly do that

00:53:08.320 By looking at someone's good rather than their dad

00:53:10.160 Even Allah says in the Quran you might hear something about

00:53:11.920 There's goodness in them as well

00:53:14.400 That's why gratitude is so important

00:53:16.960 Because if someone has gratitude

00:53:18.160 If you're grateful to me I will increase you

00:53:20.640 And if you're not my punishment is severe

00:53:22.460 But interestingly Allah never says

00:53:24.120 What he will increase you in

00:53:25.460 And when people hear this they think oh increase me in money

00:53:27.480 No Allah doesn't say it, it can be that if you're gratitude

00:53:30.100 He will increase you in gratitude

00:53:31.500 That you become more content

00:53:32.940 With the little things that you have

00:53:34.000 And if you're content

00:53:34.700 Then what more do you want

00:53:35.940 Exactly

00:53:36.340 And if you're not content

00:53:37.300 Like I said before

00:53:37.900 Doesn't matter how much you have

00:53:38.980 If you're not content

00:53:39.960 Then you're never going to be happy

00:53:41.360 There is nothing

00:53:42.280 That you can do for that person

00:53:43.860 That it's like

00:53:45.160 Literally

00:53:45.560 And it's so sad

00:53:47.120 That's why gratitude

00:53:47.960 Is so important

00:53:49.320 Like for me

00:53:49.840 And anyone that's watching this

00:53:50.920 Be you looking for a brother

00:53:52.000 Or a sister

00:53:52.520 Gratitude

00:53:53.580 Because let me tell you something

00:53:54.340 If the gratitude is not there

00:53:55.620 SubhanAllah

00:53:56.500 There is nothing you can do

00:53:58.220 That will please that person

00:53:59.620 From the get go

00:54:00.540 You're doomed

00:54:01.060 You know

00:54:01.700 And then they will blame you

00:54:02.900 They will blame you

00:54:04.120 For that thing

00:54:05.340 That they expect sadly

00:54:06.340 But may Allah protect us

00:54:07.360 I was trying to

00:54:08.140 I mean

00:54:09.100 I'm really enjoying

00:54:10.360 This

00:54:10.740 It's our first episode

00:54:11.380 I'm not going to say

00:54:11.860 Wallahi

00:54:12.120 I've benefited so much already

00:54:13.340 Go another red card

00:54:14.720 Inshallah

00:54:16.260 You're not going for

00:54:17.600 The Sadaqah cards

00:54:18.080 Yeah

00:54:18.220 Okay

00:54:19.880 What is one hadith

00:54:21.020 Oh

00:54:21.540 Yes

00:54:22.520 What is one hadith

00:54:24.860 You struggle

00:54:25.820 To come to terms with

00:54:27.140 But still accept

00:54:28.060 Take your time

00:54:28.900 This is very interesting

00:54:29.960 Because I really want

00:54:30.880 I hope this card comes up

00:54:31.920 With every guest that I have

00:54:32.740 Because it's intriguing

00:54:33.880 What's one hadith

00:54:34.560 Because

00:54:34.800 Tim

00:54:35.640 Like before you come to us

00:54:36.540 To me it was like

00:54:37.220 It was a hadith

00:54:37.960 When I heard the companions

00:54:39.080 Fought each other

00:54:40.020 I can remember like yesterday

00:54:41.180 I was in Stratford

00:54:41.900 I was a new Muslim

00:54:42.540 Yeah

00:54:42.920 I sat down

00:54:44.000 It shook my iman to the core

00:54:45.620 Really

00:54:46.000 I was like the best of people

00:54:47.460 Fought each other

00:54:48.260 And they killed each other

00:54:49.140 Gosh yeah

00:54:49.680 That really shook me

00:54:50.940 But I came to terms with it

00:54:51.960 But it's just like you know

00:54:52.940 What is it for you

00:54:54.000 Well I'm glad that you had that high

00:54:56.060 Whatever

00:54:56.920 Philosophical moment

00:54:59.140 Yeah

00:54:59.440 Oh it's a hadith about the past

00:55:00.860 Sorry

00:55:01.380 About the

00:55:02.020 The pass

00:55:02.680 They're licking the pass

00:55:04.580 Can you tell me

00:55:05.900 About the husband

00:55:06.940 Say that again 0.67

00:55:09.240 Sorry

00:55:10.140 The hadith where it says

00:55:11.660 That if I was to command

00:55:12.960 Anyone to prostrate

00:55:14.120 To anyone other than Allah 0.96

00:55:15.520 It would be to her husband 0.63

00:55:16.420 And that if his body had passed 0.98

00:55:18.220 And she licked it 0.79

00:55:18.960 She would not have fulfilled her right

00:55:20.240 Isn't that the hadith

00:55:20.960 As far as

00:55:21.980 Okay that

00:55:22.980 Okay it might be

00:55:23.880 I know the thing that says

00:55:25.280 That if I was to ask anyone

00:55:26.960 To bow down to anyone

00:55:27.680 It would be the husband 0.79

00:55:28.420 The wife to the husband 0.95

00:55:29.480 Yes

00:55:29.740 The passing I never heard of

00:55:30.740 It might be there

00:55:31.280 Check it please

00:55:32.000 Fact checker

00:55:33.400 The hadith 0.79

00:55:34.100 That if she licked the pus 0.99

00:55:36.080 From wounds on his body

00:55:37.240 She would not have fulfilled

00:55:38.180 His right on her 0.50

00:55:39.360 Yeah because let's check

00:55:40.060 Because

00:55:40.300 I've heard the one

00:55:41.980 The prostration

00:55:42.560 The pus I haven't

00:55:43.720 That'll be interesting

00:55:44.440 So happily

00:55:45.440 Okay

00:55:46.060 Happily

00:55:46.640 It's not in Bukhari or Muslim 1.00

00:55:48.380 But it is in Musnad Ahmad

00:55:49.700 And I remember reading it

00:55:50.800 Interesting

00:55:51.240 I've never heard this side of it

00:55:52.780 Yes

00:55:53.100 Okay

00:55:53.400 Tell me what is it

00:55:55.360 That you struggle 0.99

00:55:56.140 It's just disgusting 0.89

00:55:57.060 It's just a disgusting idea

00:55:58.880 It's just

00:55:59.420 Obviously it's an image

00:56:01.260 It's an image that's very powerful

00:56:03.420 And it's an image

00:56:05.140 And it's not literal

00:56:06.020 It's a metaphor isn't it

00:56:10.120 Or a simile

00:56:10.660 But it's a very powerful one

00:56:13.040 But it's also like really gut-wrenching

00:56:15.460 Just so I can understand

00:56:17.760 Is it the licking of the pus

00:56:19.900 Oh my god

00:56:20.760 Is it that you're saying that

00:56:23.960 Why is my husband

00:56:25.800 That's not why

00:56:27.400 That's just deep man

00:56:29.080 that's just really like do you think do you think you know sometimes i ask myself ask myself this

00:56:33.440 question yeah like and you've mentioned this as well but why is there so much emphasis on the

00:56:39.060 husband so our fact checker has let us know that this hadith is actually considered weak by hadith

00:56:44.800 scholars and the actual you look happy about that do you know what it's regardless it still

00:56:51.820 is burned in my brain from whenever i read it um but you know it's yeah it's just i think yeah

00:56:57.440 that was that was a hard and i think i think those are difficult when i'll be honest when did you

00:57:01.940 long time ago how did you feel in that moment when you heard this just because i think it must

00:57:06.220 have been in the context of other hadith related to the rights of the husband another one that's

00:57:10.740 difficult to be honest is um that if your husband calls you to to lay with him and you refuse the

00:57:17.040 angels curse you till the morning um i think that those types of hadith are difficult for many many

00:57:23.460 women to to kind of come to terms with because our understanding of of our relationship with 0.98

00:57:29.440 our husbands is is maybe different to that and and and it's kind of scary it's kind of scary so

00:57:35.220 you may accept it but it's it may be one of those things that's difficult to kind of put into

00:57:38.860 practice in a way that's healthy so yeah and i think if you probably put this question out you

00:57:43.680 may find maybe more of your female guests yeah it is and that's why i really want to like cater 1.00

00:57:48.040 for them in like understanding because sometimes what happens is they think of the the father

00:57:51.820 Who's been abusive to the mum 1.00

00:57:52.900 And their ex-husbands or whatever

00:57:54.660 And I don't think this hadith

00:57:56.000 It relates to these people

00:57:57.780 Because it's talking about

00:57:58.720 I think I believe

00:57:59.760 The hadith 0.79

00:58:00.100 There's no way the Prophet 0.99

00:58:00.900 Will talk for you to do that

00:58:02.840 To a man like that

00:58:03.760 Because you have Islamic rights

00:58:04.820 So I think it's talking to a man 0.85

00:58:06.380 Who is good to you

00:58:07.120 Who's a God-fearing man

00:58:08.160 Who fears Allah

00:58:08.840 Who treats you well

00:58:09.740 Etc

00:58:10.400 That his rights

00:58:11.220 But I think with regards

00:58:12.840 To the prostration

00:58:13.700 I think it is meant

00:58:14.820 To impress on wives 0.77

00:58:16.880 Just the amount of respect

00:58:19.400 And reverence

00:58:20.000 And that either they owe their husbands

00:58:21.920 Which is something that obviously today

00:58:23.300 Is not that common

00:58:24.340 And either that popular

00:58:25.560 But you know

00:58:27.200 Even the hadith 0.98

00:58:27.680 When the woman came 0.99

00:58:28.320 The Prophet ﷺ said

00:58:29.080 Are you married?

00:58:29.520 He said yeah

00:58:29.820 He said how are you to owe to your husband?

00:58:31.380 He said I try my best to please

00:58:32.840 To the best of my ability

00:58:33.520 He said that's good

00:58:35.140 For he is your hellfire or jannah 0.85

00:58:37.160 So I think it's important

00:58:38.740 Because it shows that

00:58:40.420 And obviously like I said before

00:58:41.460 Alhamdulillah

00:58:41.740 If you've got a good husband

00:58:42.520 I'm sure any woman for that matter

00:58:43.720 If they've got a good husband

00:58:44.640 You know they would

00:58:45.420 They would appreciate the hadith more 0.91

00:58:46.960 So I just want to give that clarity

00:58:48.060 Because there's a lot of misunderstanding

00:58:49.000 Misconceptions around it

00:58:50.040 It's not applying

00:58:51.080 To these abusive men

00:58:51.980 Who do wrong

00:58:52.500 And do haram

00:58:53.080 And mistreat their wives 0.97

00:58:53.800 I don't think it's

00:58:54.540 Applying to them

00:58:54.960 Good

00:58:55.420 So how many cards

00:58:55.920 Have you got left

00:58:56.280 One second

00:58:56.720 One two three four five

00:58:58.240 Five okay

00:58:58.980 One more card

00:59:00.440 And we're going to go

00:59:00.940 To these four cards

00:59:01.980 That you don't want to answer

00:59:02.920 Sure

00:59:03.300 And we're going to

00:59:04.740 Tell you what's going

00:59:05.420 To happen after that

00:59:06.160 Okay

00:59:06.940 Okay

00:59:09.400 Okay well

00:59:10.340 This is good

00:59:10.780 Fantastic for you

00:59:11.480 We still need to

00:59:12.640 Write my book

00:59:13.080 What's your favourite

00:59:14.580 Book or movie

00:59:15.240 And why

00:59:15.860 I have quite a few

00:59:18.040 Favourite books

00:59:18.760 but the one I'm going to mention in this session

00:59:21.800 is Half of a Yellow Sun by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichia.

00:59:25.980 It's a Nigerian novel.

00:59:26.900 Wow, what's it about?

00:59:27.780 It's about the Biafran War, actually,

00:59:29.640 about the time when the Igbo people wanted to separate

00:59:33.240 from the rest of Nigeria.

00:59:34.780 And it's just a very personal historical story

00:59:37.860 and it's amazingly written.

00:59:40.680 I think it's her best novel.

00:59:43.400 Is there any other book that you recommend to read?

00:59:46.380 Leila Abu Leila is beautiful.

00:59:47.400 She's a Sudanese writer.

00:59:48.760 also a literary author and she has some beautiful books about sudanese people in sudan and also in

00:59:56.120 uh in in the west as well mashallah and she's got a beautiful writing voice alhamdulillah

01:00:00.360 um so yeah she's another person i would recommend perfect yeah okay so now you want to do something

01:00:05.640 with these yeah so these cards that you don't want to answer we have a little catch for you here um

01:00:10.840 you need to reveal one okay um you can well let me put it like this i will be revealing one

01:00:18.840 okay to put it if you don't want me to reveal one or i choose which one you can call one of

01:00:24.020 your friends no um don't want to call a friend yeah no problem so you prefer me so so trust me

01:00:29.380 more than the friend yes that's not about trust you're just gonna pick up at random aren't you

01:00:32.640 so no no no no okay it's fine then okay okay no problem she's got her friends he's like if

01:00:37.680 watching this now yeah okay let me see i'm gonna be cold as ice what because he picks it does that

01:00:47.280 mean that i have to answer it no no he's just gonna reveal your question oh okay and people

01:00:52.400 gonna think oh why didn't you answer i'll answer it then okay yeah i'm cold but not this cold

01:01:01.440 he's reading and thinking did i really come up with these questions i'm saying i'm cold as i

01:01:09.960 who came up with this question let me say i the most powerful thing in islam is the shahada and

01:01:14.120 the second pillar of islam is what to pray salah and it's been told to every single prophet to

01:01:19.200 establish salah so much so the only revelation that was revealed that it didn't come down that

01:01:24.360 rather the process had to go up and the angel gable couldn't even go for a barrier was the 0.94

01:01:29.320 salah imagine the reward of not only just praying yourself but encouraging other people for

01:01:34.700 generations to come to learn how to pray salah a simple 100 pounds can teach 20 to 60 people

01:01:40.120 to do wudu to pray salah and learn surah fatih you can add this into your sadaqah jariah that

01:01:45.400 keeps on going when you will not be here anymore go to the link and donate now now this one i can't

01:01:50.860 do this to you because i respect you a lot and i can't do that to you i'm gonna have mercy i'm so

01:01:54.940 Sorry

01:01:55.180 If it was

01:01:56.540 But if it was someone else

01:01:57.540 Trust me

01:01:58.440 Ah bro

01:01:59.540 Okay these two

01:02:00.340 Okay

01:02:04.640 So I'm

01:02:05.280 I'm

01:02:05.580 I'm going to

01:02:07.420 Read this out

01:02:08.140 Okay

01:02:08.500 Yeah

01:02:08.920 And you're okay with this

01:02:09.680 I don't know

01:02:10.920 I don't even remember

01:02:11.680 What was in the question

01:02:12.360 I mean you still have the chance

01:02:13.300 To call your friend

01:02:13.900 I'm not calling your friend

01:02:15.140 He doesn't want to call a friend

01:02:16.100 He doesn't want to listen

01:02:16.500 Don't blame me

01:02:17.120 Don't blame me

01:02:17.740 Okay

01:02:18.020 So this is one of the questions

01:02:19.720 That you don't want to answer

01:02:20.420 Among the four

01:02:21.220 So it's

01:02:22.360 Was something about you

01:02:23.820 that would shock

01:02:24.720 your followers

01:02:25.460 and your fans

01:02:26.180 so you don't

01:02:27.040 you don't have to answer it

01:02:28.160 it's just

01:02:28.560 just to put it out there

01:02:29.420 that

01:02:29.640 that was one of the

01:02:30.800 questions

01:02:31.380 of course

01:02:32.020 with good reason

01:02:32.760 why would I want to

01:02:33.660 shock my fans

01:02:34.500 and followers

01:02:35.080 I mean

01:02:35.420 you would also

01:02:36.920 make the same choice

01:02:37.700 and so would you

01:02:38.380 me I don't know

01:02:39.180 I'm a bit crazy

01:02:39.840 okay no problem

01:02:41.780 should we carry on here

01:02:42.580 let's carry on

01:02:43.240 let's carry on

01:02:43.740 this one is done

01:02:44.300 finished another

01:02:44.740 okay

01:02:45.600 and by the way

01:02:46.980 if there is anything

01:02:47.820 these are such good questions

01:02:49.160 because I'm still thinking

01:02:50.640 about the answer to that one

01:02:51.800 really

01:02:52.060 that's interesting

01:02:53.060 I'm still thinking about it

01:02:54.100 That's good that you saw them now

01:02:55.480 Isn't it Mehmet?

01:02:56.180 Instead of saying

01:02:56.720 Yeah

01:02:57.240 You had another idea

01:02:58.200 But that's good

01:02:59.240 Okay

01:02:59.520 Also

01:03:00.500 You can

01:03:02.980 Pick one of the red cards

01:03:05.140 Or the black cards

01:03:06.160 And you can pose a question to me

01:03:08.160 Yeah

01:03:08.360 To have some payback

01:03:09.320 Alright

01:03:09.720 Okay

01:03:10.660 What's the hardest

01:03:12.700 Hardest lesson

01:03:13.700 You've learned

01:03:14.860 So far

01:03:23.060 Oh, this must be deep

01:03:25.060 Wow, I've never seen a system this quiet

01:03:27.220 And it's a white card as well

01:03:30.640 It's not even a red one

01:03:32.700 It's not even the gin

01:03:33.600 It's a very thought-provoking question

01:03:35.600 I think the hardest lesson

01:03:38.800 Has been that there are no do-overs

01:03:41.900 There's no what?

01:03:43.960 Do-overs

01:03:44.940 What do you mean by that?

01:03:46.580 You don't get a chance usually

01:03:48.120 To have another go

01:03:49.980 With people, with situations

01:03:52.700 you know it's you get one chance you know and um if you mess up you mess up and you got to deal

01:03:59.540 with the consequences of that you know i mean when i look at my life and i think of if i had the

01:04:04.660 chance for a do-over there would be so many things right i'm sure the same with everybody it's so

01:04:09.760 many things that you would do differently you would show up differently you wouldn't have said

01:04:12.760 that you wouldn't have done this um and whether that's with your spouse or your kids or your

01:04:17.100 parents or your colleagues whatever I think that's the hardest lesson is that you have to live with

01:04:23.000 the consequences of your actions at the end of the day that's interesting you know why because if you

01:04:26.700 was to go back and do something different you won't be who you are today I don't know my friend

01:04:30.980 my friend Ali always says that she's like yeah you may see it as a mistake but that's what you

01:04:34.840 needed to go through to be who you are today and where you are today I don't know I feel a bit like

01:04:40.300 that's copium like it's like just a coping strategy which makes you feel good but just

01:04:45.920 because that does make you feel good doesn't mean it's not true because genuinely it doesn't make

01:04:49.680 you who you are i'll be honest with you yes if i went back would i change but if changing that

01:04:52.960 would have made me worse today no no let it be my my daughter asked me mom do you wish that daddy

01:04:58.320 didn't pass away you know do you wish daddy was still here and if he was still here would we be

01:05:02.960 living in zimbabwe with this with this with this and of course our lives would be so so different

01:05:07.760 and of course i'm grateful for who i am today and what i get to do today but i am also aware that if

01:05:13.200 he had not passed away i wouldn't be where i am today you know what i'm saying so but i can i

01:05:18.000 really say no it's better he passed away so i could be who i was today no let me go back to being his

01:05:22.080 wife and being a kept woman and us living as a whole family do you know what i mean obviously

01:05:26.960 that wasn't a choice but look at it from like subhanallah if the question was asked to him

01:05:31.520 subhan if you think about it like inshallah you know it's in jannah like and that reunion because

01:05:36.400 you know allah has a plan like we we look at it from the the the world where in the 10 20 30 years

01:05:41.360 But if that situation

01:05:43.260 Happening means

01:05:44.120 You'll be reunited

01:05:44.860 In Jannah forever

01:05:45.620 That is worth it

01:05:47.180 You know

01:05:47.480 In the sense where

01:05:48.180 Obviously

01:05:48.800 Sad is what happened

01:05:49.600 But Allah has a plan

01:05:50.660 And if we look at it

01:05:51.260 From a perspective

01:05:52.800 In a million years

01:05:53.540 And billion years ahead

01:05:54.380 You know

01:05:54.860 Allah SWT has a plan

01:05:55.700 So

01:05:55.880 Yeah

01:05:56.040 I mean

01:05:56.240 That's the acceptance

01:05:57.560 Of the qubul 0.91

01:05:58.420 Of just like trusting

01:05:59.700 In Allah's plan

01:06:00.320 Like we talked about earlier

01:06:01.440 You know

01:06:02.480 I can't say to my child

01:06:04.900 No it's okay

01:06:05.940 That your father died

01:06:07.020 Because it made me

01:06:07.760 The woman I am today

01:06:08.720 Of course not

01:06:09.600 Of course not

01:06:09.980 No I can't say that

01:06:11.120 Or even feel that

01:06:12.500 100%

01:06:13.020 It's just

01:06:13.400 It was Allah's will 0.96

01:06:14.440 Yeah

01:06:14.760 And you know

01:06:15.920 If that's

01:06:16.600 Those are the cards

01:06:17.980 That you're dealt

01:06:18.600 Then you know

01:06:20.360 May Allah help us

01:06:21.240 To do the very best

01:06:22.120 That we can with them

01:06:22.900 So yeah

01:06:23.900 That's my answer

01:06:24.280 Well that's good

01:06:24.660 With the cards that you're dealt

01:06:25.300 You've got one red

01:06:26.000 One white 0.90

01:06:26.500 And one black 0.97

01:06:27.020 Yeah

01:06:27.160 So

01:06:27.520 There you go

01:06:28.920 It's been very interesting

01:06:30.100 So far

01:06:30.660 Okay

01:06:32.920 Have you

01:06:36.080 Or someone

01:06:37.300 You know

01:06:38.060 Resorted

01:06:38.660 Oh okay

01:06:39.360 To magic

01:06:40.380 To solve the issue

01:06:41.420 Because they were desperate

01:06:43.340 So sometimes people

01:06:44.160 Are in situations where

01:06:45.220 Sadly

01:06:46.300 Tawakun might not be there 1.00

01:06:48.400 And then they do

01:06:49.180 By going to do magic

01:06:51.260 To get rid of magic

01:06:52.160 Do you know anyone

01:06:52.640 That's ever done that?

01:06:53.580 No

01:06:53.760 Nobody?

01:06:54.700 No I don't

01:06:55.600 Okay

01:06:55.940 Someone said

01:06:57.200 That we need to do magic

01:06:58.660 In a situation

01:07:00.080 A family situation

01:07:01.660 But you know

01:07:02.300 Nothing ever happened of it

01:07:03.700 And I wouldn't do that anyway

01:07:05.240 Like

01:07:05.680 You know how I feel

01:07:06.860 About magic and gin

01:07:07.880 Like I'm not playing

01:07:09.060 With that stuff

01:07:09.840 Was there a reason that person wanted to do that

01:07:11.680 They just said well if they're going to do it

01:07:13.040 Then you better counter it

01:07:14.200 That's interesting subhanAllah 0.97

01:07:16.060 Counter it with Baqarah 1.00

01:07:18.220 Yeah that's the best way to go about things

01:07:20.580 To be fair that is the best way

01:07:22.040 Now this question is really difficult

01:07:24.020 And you'll see why I think when you read it

01:07:26.420 I don't know how to answer that one

01:07:29.320 Read it and see

01:07:30.780 Who is my best friend

01:07:35.140 You know what I mean

01:07:37.560 favoritism now yeah like i'm so sorry this white card is turned into a red card oh you don't you

01:07:42.520 don't need to answer if you want to pick a sadaqa card uh do you want to go with i think i'll pick

01:07:46.280 a sadaqa card yes for the sake of the sadaqa card and also because i i love all my friends and i

01:07:51.480 can't say any of them is my best friend allah says you might hate something which is good for you

01:07:55.480 look allah gave a solution now with a sadaqa you want to pick randomly anywhere

01:08:01.720 let me do it for you okay go ahead you pick that one this one yeah okay bismillah so i'll

01:08:05.720 I'll tell you a bit about the Sadaqah card.

01:08:06.800 It's good.

01:08:07.160 Thank God we did the Sadaqah card. 0.99

01:08:08.200 So Sadaqah card is basically a little cop-out.

01:08:11.240 Alhamdulillah.

01:08:11.720 But we get our guests to do a righteous deed by supporting our charity.

01:08:15.880 Not bad.

01:08:16.740 You're lucky.

01:08:17.420 Why?

01:08:17.760 Not bad, Alhamdulillah. 0.99

01:08:18.920 Help six people to learn how to pray Salah.

01:08:21.320 Six people?

01:08:22.440 I thought it was one by one by one.

01:08:24.200 No, no, no.

01:08:24.740 No, no, no.

01:08:25.140 It's basically one to a hundred.

01:08:26.680 So you're lucky we need to pick a hundred.

01:08:27.800 Yes.

01:08:28.400 I see.

01:08:29.440 Okay, let me put it like this.

01:08:30.100 Let me put it like this.

01:08:30.760 Look, you're lucky.

01:08:31.460 You know why?

01:08:32.200 Because now we get our mats much cheaper.

01:08:33.960 So teaching six people

01:08:35.640 How to

01:08:35.900 Yeah yeah no

01:08:36.320 You're very lucky

01:08:36.920 You have two options

01:08:37.920 Okay look

01:08:38.320 You can physically teach them

01:08:40.040 May I see this card

01:08:41.080 Yes of course you can

01:08:41.880 She wants to double check it

01:08:42.820 Just make sure

01:08:43.800 Right okay

01:08:45.260 Okay good

01:08:45.680 So now

01:08:46.420 Okay usually

01:08:47.880 Usually

01:08:48.340 This will

01:08:49.000 Cost someone

01:08:50.320 It's about 60 pounds

01:08:52.340 Usually

01:08:52.920 Okay

01:08:53.200 So what I would say is this

01:08:54.740 You have two options

01:08:55.300 Right

01:08:55.660 You can help

01:08:56.300 We've got a lot of people

01:08:56.940 That want to learn Salah

01:08:57.620 We have Salah instructors

01:08:58.720 As you know

01:08:59.080 Salah pro

01:08:59.520 Or you can donate towards it

01:09:01.660 We'll leave that to you

01:09:02.400 So it's all your choice

01:09:03.800 Do say you know what

01:09:04.360 I would like to teach six people

01:09:05.400 Or I would like to donate

01:09:06.660 It's no pressure

01:09:08.060 You know

01:09:09.100 If you have the means

01:09:09.980 If you can

01:09:10.480 Or you can just get

01:09:11.760 A few friends together

01:09:12.420 For the sake of this

01:09:13.380 Wonderful conversation

01:09:14.340 Of course

01:09:14.900 Alhamdulillah

01:09:15.520 May Allah bless you inshallah

01:09:16.300 And that's my brothers

01:09:16.980 And to preserve all my best friends

01:09:18.360 Alhamdulillah

01:09:20.220 That's got the actual thing to use

01:09:21.500 I'm so excited

01:09:22.600 Alhamdulillah

01:09:23.280 So six people are going to learn

01:09:24.200 How to pray salah

01:09:24.660 Thanks to our sister Naima

01:09:25.940 And you know

01:09:26.900 Her friends

01:09:27.280 And I think the six people

01:09:28.020 Should be your friends

01:09:28.520 I think so

01:09:29.120 I think they have to pay

01:09:30.240 Have you got six friends?

01:09:31.380 Yes I have

01:09:32.020 Oh perfect

01:09:32.660 Alhamdulillah

01:09:33.040 So sisters you are watching this

01:09:34.540 Alhamdulillah

01:09:35.080 There you go

01:09:35.540 Alhamdulillah

01:09:35.920 If you get a text from me

01:09:37.040 Then you know that you are one of the six

01:09:38.480 Exactly inshallah

01:09:39.400 And for you guys at home

01:09:40.560 As well brothers and sisters

01:09:41.200 You can be a part of this project

01:09:42.740 Inshallah

01:09:43.020 The reason we set up this whole show

01:09:44.180 And this is one of the reasons

01:09:45.340 Is that inshallah

01:09:45.960 That you can help teach someone

01:09:47.460 Learn salah guys 0.98

01:09:48.900 Imagine they learn Surah Fatih

01:09:50.100 They learn how to pray salah

01:09:51.440 The entire salah

01:09:52.140 They learn how to do wudu

01:09:53.520 And just brothers and sisters

01:09:55.060 10 pounds can teach 1 to 3 people

01:09:57.560 100 pounds can teach 10 to 30 people

01:09:59.400 500 pounds can teach 50 to 150 people

01:10:02.300 And the list goes on

01:10:03.520 The link is there

01:10:04.060 From Sisters

01:10:04.500 If you donate

01:10:05.400 Inshallah

01:10:05.740 Imagine the Saddakha Jariah 1.00

01:10:06.940 And not only that

01:10:07.920 Imagine on Yom Ha'Qiyamah

01:10:08.940 The first thing you'll be asked about

01:10:10.260 Is your Salah

01:10:10.740 So imagine helping others

01:10:12.300 To learn their Salah 0.82

01:10:13.520 It's the second pillar of Islam 1.00

01:10:14.500 I urge you guys

01:10:15.200 Please Inshallah

01:10:15.720 Do follow the footsteps

01:10:17.780 Of Sister Naima

01:10:18.500 By doing a Saddakha Jariah 1.00

01:10:19.600 Inshallah

01:10:19.820 The link is there

01:10:20.760 For you guys

01:10:21.220 And we're a charity

01:10:21.980 And you can donate

01:10:23.000 Inshallah

01:10:23.240 And we've got the last card

01:10:24.860 Before we go to the last card

01:10:25.780 Is there a question

01:10:26.840 That you'd like to ask me?

01:10:30.400 I have no idea

01:10:31.220 What the question is going to be

01:10:32.140 so can i just pick random yep you can take the whole batch oh i can pick three okay

01:10:41.020 oh my gosh that's so good no uh oh these are so good how many can i ask him no one

01:10:50.220 no come on make it three this is gonna be so juicy okay okay okay no no no okay no you can

01:10:55.260 ask me you can ask me two but i have a chance i have a chance to go okay one no it's these two

01:11:00.940 so what do you want to do take them both and then forgo one so can i read them or are you

01:11:05.180 going to read them choose choose the one that you want and then you can read out the one i can't

01:11:09.820 believe this whose idea was this so good and you have to answer honestly okay um which one are you

01:11:22.140 going to forgo or which one are you going to answer do i have to read out no can i do two

01:11:28.220 two sadaqad no you have to answer okay all right so here's a quick two questions when did you last

01:11:34.400 do something you knew you'd regret who do you feel secretly competes with you this one i don't want

01:11:42.860 to answer i don't want this who do you feel secretly competes with you it's okay you're

01:11:50.500 not going to say anything just put it down so you don't get yourself into trouble yeah i don't want

01:11:54.480 to answer this because i don't want to hurt some anyone's feelings yeah i just gotta okay when did

01:11:59.880 you last do something you knew you'd regret when did i do something like i did intentionally yeah

01:12:06.440 knowing i regret yeah but i'm not that kind of guy please please i'm a lovely guy let's be honest in

01:12:13.440 life come on now when have i done something intentionally that i would regret even i can

01:12:18.840 answer this question really yes i can but you can start first and then i will say what i think

01:12:23.500 the whole thing with the the the that was not i would not say that's intentional that was wrong

01:12:28.700 the eyelashes wasn't intentional oh like if you do you mean that for example i said it out of anger

01:12:35.980 okay if that yeah yeah i would go straight if that's what you mean yeah if you mean i calculated

01:12:40.640 and i said i'm going to do on purpose to hurt that person i would say i was angry at what they

01:12:45.000 were calling towards no no just yes yes something you did that yeah that 100 i fully regret because

01:12:49.720 You know why

01:12:50.140 Number one

01:12:51.040 It didn't befit me to do that

01:12:52.060 Being in the dawah 0.91

01:12:52.860 Number two

01:12:53.620 It took away from the whole nasir 1.00

01:12:54.900 And number three

01:12:55.880 It's my fault

01:12:56.380 Because at the end of the day

01:12:57.400 I could have gone about that

01:12:58.720 The right way

01:12:59.220 My message would have been

01:13:00.380 Taken more better

01:13:01.320 Even though I kind of think

01:13:02.860 Maybe it would have not

01:13:03.520 It's an excuse

01:13:03.940 But let's say it would

01:13:04.820 So to me

01:13:05.660 I genuinely

01:13:06.280 That's one thing I regret

01:13:07.780 I wish

01:13:08.320 I wouldn't say turn back time

01:13:09.900 In the sense

01:13:10.320 It's one of those things

01:13:11.620 It's one of those things

01:13:12.340 Yes

01:13:12.700 But it taught me a massive lesson

01:13:13.920 You know why

01:13:14.280 Because these things

01:13:16.060 Subhanallah

01:13:16.860 And not because of the back

01:13:18.000 I'll be honest with you

01:13:18.680 But genuinely sisters

01:13:19.800 Who genuinely know me

01:13:20.700 And work with me

01:13:21.400 Said brother Ali

01:13:21.900 Yeah

01:13:22.340 You should have not done that

01:13:23.360 And that's why I appreciate a lot

01:13:24.820 You know why

01:13:25.120 Because there's sisters around me

01:13:26.080 Alhamdulillah

01:13:26.340 May Allah bless and preserve them

01:13:27.140 Like yourself as well

01:13:27.840 You know who will come and say

01:13:28.920 Look Ali

01:13:29.280 Sorry you're wrong here

01:13:30.140 And you should fix that

01:13:31.220 And Alhamdulillah

01:13:32.060 May Allah make us amongst those

01:13:33.200 Who accept their mistakes

01:13:34.180 And genuinely to me

01:13:35.260 It was a mistake

01:13:36.080 I inshallah

01:13:36.680 Were never going to repeat again

01:13:37.800 Inshallah

01:13:38.080 Because it's unneeded

01:13:39.160 It's unnecessary

01:13:39.780 It takes away from the whole message

01:13:41.340 And yeah

01:13:42.400 So that's why yes

01:13:43.360 So Alhamdulillah

01:13:43.900 I'm happy to do that

01:13:44.920 Inshallah

01:13:45.240 And the internet is forever

01:13:46.680 It is

01:13:47.360 It is

01:13:47.600 so we have to be

01:13:48.420 really really careful

01:13:49.120 this is my last one

01:13:50.060 and I actually wish

01:13:50.600 I had not

01:13:51.360 left it up

01:13:52.840 I wish I'd put it in

01:13:53.640 with those four

01:13:54.300 but yeah

01:13:55.100 there you go

01:13:55.460 oh really

01:13:55.740 okay

01:13:56.120 wow

01:13:56.560 the last card

01:13:57.420 and she's

01:13:59.060 regretting it

01:14:00.320 now this is my regret

01:14:01.640 do you want to

01:14:02.260 do you want to

01:14:02.500 call a friend

01:14:02.940 no it's okay

01:14:03.420 okay

01:14:04.180 oh okay

01:14:07.140 hmm

01:14:08.880 I'm just trying to see

01:14:09.780 why you would have

01:14:11.140 I mean I want to know

01:14:14.920 the answer to this

01:14:15.580 when did you feel undeserving of love and tell me why you find it difficult to answer this

01:14:23.980 I think bismillah um you seem like you're getting a bit emotional I think for people who are

01:14:34.920 generally kind of confident and self-assured um moments of self-doubt are not comfortable

01:14:40.800 right and but we all have them we all have those low moments sometimes it's an estrogen low

01:14:48.180 other times it's related to other things um and and you almost can feel yourself going there to

01:14:56.280 that dark place where you know nobody will will ever see me or or love me or i don't deserve love

01:15:03.380 you know i'm not a lovable person you know i'm a bad person you know i'm not worthy you know those

01:15:08.160 types of of thoughts or feelings uh i think people think that some people never have those

01:15:12.840 um but we do and um it doesn't matter what you achieve in the world it doesn't matter what you

01:15:19.340 achieve in front of people even just around you um there will be times when you will you know

01:15:24.300 call into question you know whether you are who people think that you are you know whether you

01:15:30.080 are worthy of people's respect or love or whatever so i think my honest answer to that question is

01:15:37.000 whenever a relationship falters or fails in that dip afterwards there is often a low moment where

01:15:44.920 you're like you know i'm a i'm a failure you know i'm a failure um i can't i can't do this you know

01:15:51.340 i'm not worthy of of someone's time or this or that or that or that so yeah that's what i think

01:15:57.000 interesting i do i do get that thought as well sometimes i do get that thought as well well

01:16:02.020 sister name it's been absolutely a pleasure it's been amazing thanks for taking part you're our

01:16:06.140 first guest not only that you inspired us to get the show on track so i want to thank you for that

01:16:11.240 for being here and thank you for encouraging me even though simple words of you know let's just

01:16:15.560 do that show um you kick-started alhamdulillah and i ask allah that anyone that benefits from

01:16:19.840 the show um and my guests future guests not come on inshallah you get a portion of that reward

01:16:24.260 inshallah and may allah bless you for the sadaqa that you're going to do with your friends six

01:16:27.400 friends inshallah my six best friends forgive me so this so yes these are my six best friends so

01:16:33.460 Actually have six best friends

01:16:34.440 Yeah

01:16:35.520 Oh wow

01:16:36.380 That's perfect

01:16:37.000 SubhanAllah

01:16:37.360 SubhanAllah

01:16:38.580 Look how Allah made you 1.00

01:16:39.420 Best friends come together

01:16:40.240 For a Sadaqa Jari 0.97

01:16:40.860 InshaAllah

01:16:41.300 And I believe these sisters

01:16:42.320 Are going to bypass the target

01:16:43.960 Yeah

01:16:44.460 Definitely

01:16:46.060 InshaAllah

01:16:46.600 Brothers and sisters

01:16:47.260 Alhamdulillah

01:16:47.700 Like I said before

01:16:48.260 We are developing the idea

01:16:49.620 Of the show

01:16:50.040 This is the concept so far

01:16:51.300 If you guys believe

01:16:52.460 There can be a little touch to it

01:16:53.560 A spice to it

01:16:54.060 Whatever it is

01:16:54.440 And yourself

01:16:54.840 Please do tell us

01:16:55.640 So far this is what the show is about

01:16:56.960 Alhamdulillah

01:16:57.180 It's called Let's Play a Game

01:16:58.060 And yes

01:16:58.820 Brothers and sisters

01:16:59.160 InshaAllah

01:16:59.360 I hope you guys enjoyed it

01:17:00.140 I benefited so much

01:17:01.300 And got to know our sister Naima

01:17:02.580 May Allah bless and preserve her

01:17:03.920 On a personal level

01:17:04.900 Alhamdulillah

01:17:05.760 And that's what we want to do

01:17:06.640 We want to get to know these

01:17:07.600 And by the way

01:17:08.260 Our guests are not just going to be

01:17:09.500 Muslim and public figures

01:17:11.020 I want to talk to Stacy

01:17:12.840 Darren

01:17:13.620 Down the road

01:17:14.540 Genuinely

01:17:14.920 You know why?

01:17:15.420 Because there's so much stuff

01:17:16.180 That they could go through

01:17:16.700 You're going to have some

01:17:17.420 Really interesting conversations

01:17:18.680 It will be

01:17:19.340 And that's what we want to do

01:17:20.300 Inshallah

01:17:20.620 May Allah subhanAllah 1.00

01:17:21.480 Accept it

01:17:22.040 Inshallah

01:17:22.340 And once again

01:17:23.120 Bom sisters 0.99

01:17:23.500 From Let's Play Game

01:17:24.320 Don't forget to do your

01:17:25.660 Sadaqah Jariah

01:17:26.280 By sponsoring and helping

01:17:27.220 Teach someone how to play Salah

01:17:28.200 As you can see guys

01:17:29.340 Sister Naima is quite excited

01:17:30.960 With the red cards

01:17:31.700 And if you're curious why she's picking the red cards

01:17:33.720 It's because she has to pick a card

01:17:35.740 That my next guest has to answer

01:17:38.060 And they will know it's from you by the way

01:17:39.820 Sister Naima

01:17:40.280 So yes

01:17:41.680 It's not going to be anonymous

01:17:43.800 Sister Naima, specifically pick this card

01:17:46.080 And you need to answer it

01:17:47.960 The good thing is I don't know who the next guest is going to be

01:17:50.620 We're spoiled for choice here guys

01:17:52.640 That's fine, they will remember you when I tell them who it is

01:17:54.540 I'm sure they'll remember you in your dua

01:17:55.780 Jazakallah khairan

01:17:57.200 So these questions are excellent

01:17:59.500 And I'm like

01:18:00.900 Between these four

01:18:02.060 I'm going to go with

01:18:04.400 Why don't you tell us

01:18:05.200 The four that you

01:18:05.880 Should I tell you the four

01:18:06.820 And then tell us

01:18:07.740 Which one you picked

01:18:08.340 And then let them

01:18:09.140 Also pick which one

01:18:10.440 So okay

01:18:10.840 Out of these four

01:18:11.840 When did you last

01:18:13.640 Regret helping someone

01:18:15.120 Oh okay

01:18:16.020 When did you last feel

01:18:18.160 You betrayed

01:18:18.900 Your own values

01:18:20.880 Wow

01:18:21.520 Who in your life

01:18:23.680 Do you trust

01:18:24.740 The least

01:18:25.880 I'll just say

01:18:27.340 For the next guest

01:18:27.820 and what's something you pretend to care about but actually don't and that's the one i want you

01:18:35.800 to ask them i thought outside was cold but we just realized this in naima is minus 70 degrees

01:18:40.860 so our next guest this question is for you inshallah yes so next time from let's play a game

01:18:46.340 would you not want to be a part of teaching someone how to do sajda how to do ruku how to

01:18:53.280 do wudu how to recite surah fatia surah ikhlas imagine all of that a person living for 20 30

01:19:00.240 40 years all on your scales it only takes a simple click of the link guys a hundred pounds

01:19:04.700 can teach 20 to 60 people to learn all of these inshallah and for generations to come

01:19:08.800 you get the sadi khajari go to the link and donate now

Ali Dawah - March 05, 2026

“BLACK MAGIC IN FRIENDS HOUSE” - EP 1 - LETS PLAY A GAME

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