Ali Dawah - November 10, 2025


CAN YOU DISOWN YOUR CHILD IN ISLAM？ - REACTING TO CHUNKZ


Episode Stats

Length

6 minutes

Words per Minute

238.31776

Word Count

1,598

Sentence Count

1

Hate Speech Sentences

16


Summary

Jummah Kutbahayah: What will make you disown your child who leaves the fold of Islam? What is the one thing that will make a parent disown their child if they leave their religion?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 one thing that will make you disown your child something mental yeah leaving the religion
00:00:04.320 mm-hmm i feel that's big drip we can't do that one there yeah yeah you know what i mean but
00:00:08.400 it'd have to like you said if he if he wanted to leave um not be muslim you'd disown him yeah i'd
00:00:13.440 say yo that can't run for me yeah yeah yeah don't get twisted don't get twisted
00:00:22.400 once you're in that grave there's no i could have i would have i should have case closed
00:00:25.840 allah tells us that a man when his soul is taken away allah says he's going to say what send me
00:00:30.560 back to do hajj umrah salah fasting what no sadaqa brothers and sisters ayera is getting thousands
00:00:37.120 of shahadas monthly yearly hundreds of thousands of people are coming to islam they are printing
00:00:42.480 quran distributing material training duat brothers and sisters do you want the part of that sadaqa
00:00:48.080 that goes on forever this is how islam has spread around the world brothers and sisters carry on this
00:00:53.440 legacy of the process salam inshallah by donating whatever amount inshallah and support ira right
00:00:58.080 now inshallah enjoy the video assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh brothers and sisters
00:01:01.840 and dear friends this is a video that i saw a couple of days ago but i was traveling to netherlands
00:01:05.040 alhamdulillah with the salah plus project salah pro project alhamdulillah 50 000 mats came we
00:01:09.040 delivered three and a half thousand mats in the netherlands to all the dial tables to the mosque
00:01:11.920 there alhamdulillah and we're working closely with them so here's a video of chunks so this is a video
00:01:16.080 that was going viral and i hear where chunks was coming from however there is some corrections to be made
00:01:20.240 inshallah and we know that it's for his love for his religion that he said what he said but there's
00:01:23.840 just some context because we need to talk about islam says um and people can make statements people
00:01:27.760 can make mistakes people can well human beings we will make mistakes i make mistakes so here's
00:01:31.200 the video let's watch it for ourselves inshallah and see what chunks have to say one thing that
00:01:34.640 will make you disown your child if i could forgive a lot you know when it comes to my own you
00:01:38.880 something mental yeah leaving the religion mm-hmm i feel that's big drip you can't do that on there yeah
00:01:44.480 yeah you know i mean but it'd have to be like he said if he if he wanted to leave um not be muslim
00:01:49.040 you're disowning yeah i'd say yo that can't run for me yeah yeah yeah don't get twisted don't get
00:01:56.320 twisted you can leave it but you can also come back you get it yeah but i feel like leaving
00:02:00.480 the fold of islam yeah i can't power with you man you know i mean like i know i always have that
00:02:05.600 unconditional love where i see the you and if i see him in a pastor i'm always going to try and stop it
00:02:10.320 but i feel like having that want to love this person uh-huh without being under the fold of islam
00:02:15.280 yeah i can't i can't power that man okay so what you can see that obviously you need to understand
00:02:19.360 he's coming from a place of his it's protective jealousy over his religion okay but we need to
00:02:23.920 also look at what islam says okay there is nowhere in islam that says that if your child leaves the
00:02:28.720 fold of islam you have to disown them it's nothing that says that so you need to understand we need to
00:02:33.440 make that clear when these things happen guys we need to be really really understanding and be real
00:02:37.760 about it okay disowning them is going to just going to make the situation worse unless you're dealing with
00:02:41.760 a full-blown enemy of islam that's a different story i'm talking about someone who has a doubt
00:02:45.520 someone who has some questions someone who has whatever it is for that matter if you look at
00:02:48.720 noh alayhi salam and luth alayhi salam okay their wives yes some of their wives their children yes
00:02:54.960 luth alayhi salam his son was an outright disbeliever but you did not see him uh nuh alayhi salam you did
00:03:00.160 not see him disown his son so much so that subhanallah he may do out all that protect me and my family
00:03:05.520 so when he was building the ark and so much so that when the waves were coming he said to his
00:03:09.920 son oh my son come on board even at that level he was asking and his son was arrogant and saying no
00:03:15.360 i'm going to climb to a high mountain and i'll be saved and he said no one's going to save you from
00:03:18.800 the wrath of allah this day and when uh noh alayhi salam in the boat made the door crying he said oh
00:03:23.840 allah you promised me that you would save me and my family he was upset about his son allah subhanahu
00:03:28.000 wa ta'ala rebuked noh alayhi salam and corrected him and said oh no your your only family is what the
00:03:34.880 believers yes make that meaning what blood is thicker than water lineage blood relations yes
00:03:41.760 iman is thicker than blood so your actual family members are who the believers that's why in the
00:03:47.600 battle of badr you will see people who are fighting their family members on the other side yes because
00:03:52.400 when it all boils down believe me it's going to be the people who have iman that are going to be
00:03:56.480 together that is the reality okay so subhanallah in this matter when you look at the evidence from
00:04:00.480 the quran and sunnah we do not have anything about this owning and we need to be patient and give them
00:04:05.120 nasir and we need to be patient and talk to them and answer their doubts be kind this is not a
00:04:10.800 correct attitude it is not from hikmah wisdom yes to be like oh you left islam i'm going to disown
00:04:15.600 you and i don't think chunks means that because you need to understand he doesn't have a child of
00:04:18.640 his own just yet and that will totally change now even then it's a important principle to be like okay
00:04:24.400 which i believe this is where chunks is coming from that my loyalty to allah is messenger i don't
00:04:28.240 give it to my child and i know it's easy to say i have three daughters and i would never want that
00:04:32.640 however that if it came to a point where i know my daughter or if i had a son and they are outright
00:04:38.480 insulting allah hell no bye bye like to me allah and his messenger comes first but if they say i have
00:04:44.240 some doubts i don't believe they're respectful and they have some doubts sometimes you keep them
00:04:48.960 close and do dawah with your actions and words as well inshallah yes and you have to be patient because
00:04:53.280 allah subhanahu wa ta'ala test and like chunk said you don't know they can come back to islam so
00:04:57.760 don't write off people so i think this is what chunks means and just to give a context because
00:05:02.640 islamically we can and we should have wisdom and be careful and try to cater and like allah
00:05:09.440 subhanahu wa ta'ala says repel evil with that which is good and you see the one you have enmity there
00:05:14.000 will be friendship and it is important for us to have this hikmah and wisdom because look the quran is
00:05:19.040 like that we cannot have this black and white attitude this happened no there has to be patience
00:05:23.680 there has to be correction there has to be mercy do you get what i'm trying to say and there has
00:05:28.000 to be compassion and empathy so subhanallah we know what chunks meant he came from a place of
00:05:32.720 his love and his religion that is really admirable so it's actually to me it's praiseworthy it's just
00:05:37.520 maybe the way he worded it was a little bit wrong he's a human being he's corrected himself and that's
00:05:42.880 all i have to say inshallah brothers and sisters may allah bless and preserve you guys inshallah may allah
00:05:46.640 subhanahu wa ta'ala bless brother chunks his family inshallah and you guys that are watching at home
00:05:50.800 how far i do this video because it's very important there's a lot of misconception that that's happening
00:05:53.840 we have to be patient if not alayhi salam not alayhi salam not alayhi salam was going to give his
00:06:00.480 daughters to flipping homosexuals bro to homosexuals who were into men he was saying look i have daughters
00:06:07.120 that you can marry yes today would you give your daughter to an individual who has his inclinations
00:06:12.600 because tawhid understanding the mission and understanding what islam came with it's more
00:06:18.080 important than your cultural beliefs and what i think oh i would never look if luta alayhi salam
00:06:22.320 don't know what you're trying to say he was wrong was luta alayhi salam wrong no he said instead of
00:06:25.680 committing this act marry my daughters subhanallah look at what they believed and look at how we are
00:06:31.360 today subhanallah may allah make us among those who follow the true form of islam not our cultures
00:06:36.080 and desires and desires and all that kind of stuff inshallah until next time assalamualaikum warahmatullahi
00:06:40.320 warahmatullahi wabarakatuh