Ali Dawah - August 04, 2025


DATING HORRORS OF WESTERN WOMAN


Episode Stats

Length

13 minutes

Words per Minute

213.84854

Word Count

2,900

Sentence Count

213

Misogynist Sentences

36

Hate Speech Sentences

30


Summary

Jummah Kutbahaykum: The T-App is a mobile phone application that allows women to post personal data about men they are interested in or are currently dating. The app has been subject to substantial controversy for both its function and the exposure of user data.


Transcript

00:00:00.060 Women are calling you out for being serial cheaters, abusers, stalkers, general creeps,
00:00:06.800 and you respond by posting their nudes.
00:00:10.580 She's basically justifying the app.
00:00:12.600 She's basically saying, oh, because there was a couple of men,
00:00:14.540 or let's suppose one or two percent of the men on the app
00:00:17.400 that they did a same version of, only for men, were posting nudes.
00:00:21.180 And she went and just labeled, all the men in there are doing that.
00:00:23.460 That's the reason why she's justifying why the T-app exists.
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00:00:44.140 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatu wa barakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.
00:00:47.700 The Western woman is going absolutely berserk.
00:00:50.840 Why? Because they are in the dating world.
00:00:53.740 They are the gatekeepers of sex.
00:00:56.280 And that is something precious.
00:00:58.220 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has created women in a very specific way.
00:01:01.180 And because they have no guidance,
00:01:03.000 because they don't have Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in their life,
00:01:05.280 they are in turmoil.
00:01:06.460 Why? Because they are dating men,
00:01:08.280 that is dating multiple of them together.
00:01:11.160 Not only that, they are getting false promises,
00:01:13.460 being used, cheated on,
00:01:16.120 some of them are being abused,
00:01:17.300 because you are dating these men that you don't know about.
00:01:19.700 And in the dating world, as a non-Muslim,
00:01:21.900 it's, you know, whatever you want to do, you know.
00:01:23.460 There's one night stands where you have sex with absolute strangers.
00:01:26.140 Can you imagine sharing your private parts,
00:01:28.600 intimately, with someone that you don't even know?
00:01:31.540 Here's videos that we're going to watch,
00:01:32.720 and we're going to tell you a bit about the T-App.
00:01:33.740 What is the T-App?
00:01:34.220 The T-App is officially known as T-Dating Advice.
00:01:37.340 It's a mobile phone application that allows women to post personal data about men
00:01:40.620 they are interested in or are currently dating.
00:01:42.760 The app has been subject to substantial controversy for both its functions,
00:01:46.500 and it's the exposure of user data,
00:01:47.800 because it's been leaked.
00:01:48.640 72,000 women's information has been leaked,
00:01:51.000 with 13,000 images,
00:01:52.780 with driverless details to what they weigh.
00:01:55.720 Yes, I'm talking about what they weigh.
00:01:57.440 Brothers and sisters, all information has been leaked.
00:01:59.720 Here's some videos that we're going to watch, inshallah,
00:02:01.400 and I want to tell Muslim women that's watching this,
00:02:03.660 or non-Muslim women that are watching this,
00:02:05.260 that you need Islam.
00:02:06.640 Because in Islam, there is no dating.
00:02:09.040 There is no, hey, you know, get to know one another,
00:02:11.640 whatever it is for that matter, because men will take advantage of you.
00:02:14.340 This doesn't mean women are stupid, or dumb, or vulnerable, or naive.
00:02:19.020 No.
00:02:19.400 Of course, it's vulnerability to women.
00:02:20.640 That's the reason why God Almighty has given certain protocols to protect you.
00:02:23.820 But in Islam, we have something called tawakul,
00:02:26.200 putting our trust in Allah,
00:02:27.240 and knowing that he knows who's best for us.
00:02:29.360 Let's watch the first video, inshallah, and see what we can dissect.
00:02:32.120 There is a new king of the App Store free chart.
00:02:35.900 It is T, Dating Advice, helping women date safe.
00:02:39.500 They basically productize the groups on Facebook,
00:02:44.040 the are we dating the same guy groups.
00:02:47.100 And so this acts as a layer over a bunch of different dating apps
00:02:50.980 where women can effectively review, add comments,
00:02:54.460 leave Yelp-style reviews for the men that they are going on dates with.
00:02:58.860 Okay, firstly, as you can see, this just explained,
00:03:01.040 that managers explained in a brief what the app is about,
00:03:02.820 which I've told you about.
00:03:04.320 And one thing you're going to understand, though,
00:03:06.000 not many people would speak good of their exes.
00:03:08.060 It's very, very hard to find someone genuine.
00:03:10.700 And especially with women, sometimes they are scorned,
00:03:13.760 and, you know, they are with men,
00:03:16.200 and whatever it is for that matter, and they don't like them.
00:03:18.200 When it ends on, most of the times, marriages,
00:03:20.460 or someone that you're dating ends nasty.
00:03:23.440 Okay, so how do you expect a group of women to come together,
00:03:26.220 which we know women like to speak more than men,
00:03:28.040 and they are sharing this experience, etc.
00:03:29.900 And to them, anything can be like,
00:03:31.280 oh, it's a narcissist, it's this, it's that,
00:03:32.960 which women tend to use very loosely.
00:03:35.840 How do you expect a group of women to come together and say,
00:03:38.540 oh, yeah, that guy, yeah, he's good, yeah.
00:03:39.980 Do you really think a woman is going to recommend her ex to another woman?
00:03:42.820 Do you really think a woman is going to be like,
00:03:44.300 oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, go, he was such a nice guy, yeah,
00:03:46.060 you know, we broke up, etc.
00:03:47.540 But he's a nice guy, go date him.
00:03:49.200 I don't think the idea is good,
00:03:50.460 because you're looking for a solution,
00:03:52.020 but the solution is in Islam.
00:03:53.400 Yes, prevention is better than cure,
00:03:54.740 which I'm going to come to later.
00:03:55.860 Here's the second video, inshallah.
00:03:56.980 Let's see what this woman had to say.
00:03:58.440 Women are harassing men online in a new app,
00:04:01.540 and this app called The Tea is a women's only app
00:04:04.760 where you can upload photos and information
00:04:07.560 and screenshots of men that you might be dating,
00:04:09.720 or maybe you just swiped on, you know, their dating profile,
00:04:12.720 maybe you've just met him.
00:04:14.180 You can post photos of him or screenshots of his dating profile
00:04:17.780 in order to get The Tea on him from other women.
00:04:21.460 And all hell has broken loose on social media,
00:04:23.680 understandably so,
00:04:24.400 because men are concerned about their privacy,
00:04:27.580 concerned with what accusations or lies
00:04:30.360 or even exaggerations could be, you know,
00:04:33.180 slewn about them online with no consent,
00:04:35.720 with no idea that it is actually happening,
00:04:37.740 and no ability to defend themselves whatsoever.
00:04:41.420 They aren't even allowed on the app.
00:04:43.500 Imagine if men had an app like this.
00:04:45.940 If men were online posting photos of women
00:04:49.340 ripping their appearances to shreds,
00:04:51.980 saying this is how many men she slept with,
00:04:54.400 all hell would break loose.
00:04:56.000 Women would be losing their minds.
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00:05:12.780 As-salamu alaykum, wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.
00:05:15.280 Is she wrong?
00:05:16.220 Please, guys, I mean, let's be here.
00:05:17.820 Is she wrong?
00:05:18.760 If we were to start an app,
00:05:19.900 and men would come in and like,
00:05:22.160 it's number one in Islam,
00:05:23.160 slander is very severe,
00:05:24.460 especially towards a woman.
00:05:25.960 For those who come and say Islam is misogynistic, no.
00:05:27.780 Especially the hadith narrations
00:05:29.720 of the Prophet Muhammad,
00:05:30.340 peace be upon him,
00:05:30.640 mentioned seven major sins.
00:05:31.960 One of those major sins is what?
00:05:33.620 Slander against a chaste woman.
00:05:35.840 So imagine an app's being made.
00:05:37.540 There'll be hell breaking loose, bro, bro.
00:05:40.060 There'll be chaos.
00:05:41.500 It'll be filled at 12.7 on the Richter scale
00:05:43.560 everywhere around the world.
00:05:45.000 But when women do it, it's fine.
00:05:47.240 Why?
00:05:47.680 Because the core of the problem is something deeper,
00:05:49.440 which I'm going to come to,
00:05:50.220 and I'm going to watch the final video,
00:05:51.460 and then we're going to come to
00:05:52.240 what is the solution, inshallah.
00:05:53.640 This video is of a hijabi sister.
00:05:56.020 I wanted to see what she had to say
00:05:57.340 as a Muslim's perspective on it.
00:05:59.380 Someone who does pro-Palestinian stuff,
00:06:00.660 I follow her on Instagram,
00:06:01.940 she does pro-Palestinian stuff,
00:06:02.800 but let's see what she had to say
00:06:03.660 because she had her two-pence peas on this app.
00:06:05.860 Okay, this is absolutely fucking insane to me.
00:06:08.240 The tea app got men so mad
00:06:09.740 that they've been threatening
00:06:10.580 to drop their own version of the girls.
00:06:12.880 And one of those apps,
00:06:14.500 I'm sure it'll be one of many,
00:06:16.140 was already launched and shut down within 24 hours
00:06:20.580 because men kept posting women's nudes.
00:06:24.100 Like, y'all think I'm playing with you.
00:06:25.960 This is from the Tea Born app.
00:06:27.920 App is down until everyone learns how to behave.
00:06:30.900 If you're posting nudes,
00:06:32.360 I will be posting your face.
00:06:34.440 These men are just like consistently proving
00:06:36.840 why the tea app was created in the first place.
00:06:39.060 Like, honestly, I really, I can't believe this.
00:06:41.980 Women are calling you out for being serial cheaters,
00:06:45.100 abusers, stalkers, general creeps,
00:06:47.900 and you respond by posting their nudes.
00:06:52.780 You are everything that they're saying that you are.
00:06:55.500 I don't understand how you don't see that.
00:06:58.160 This app is like Dearborn specific too,
00:07:00.500 I'm pretty sure.
00:07:01.220 So like, these are Muslim men
00:07:03.260 posting nude pictures of Muslim women.
00:07:06.060 Like, have some...
00:07:07.680 Okay, firstly, again,
00:07:08.900 I'm a bit taken aback in the sense where,
00:07:11.560 because she's basically justifying the app.
00:07:13.920 She's basically saying,
00:07:14.700 oh, because there was a couple of men,
00:07:15.900 or let's suppose one or 2% of the men on the app
00:07:18.760 that they did a same version of only for men's
00:07:21.820 were posting nudes.
00:07:23.060 And she went and just labeled,
00:07:24.160 all the men in there are doing that.
00:07:25.360 That's the reason why she's justifying
00:07:26.840 why the tea app exists.
00:07:28.840 And it's the same problem.
00:07:29.460 And then she went towards the end,
00:07:31.080 I'm just giving a constructive criticism,
00:07:32.280 towards the end saying that,
00:07:33.420 oh, she's not even saying for sure.
00:07:35.880 She's saying,
00:07:36.400 oh, it's around the Michigan area,
00:07:37.960 there's a lot of big Muslim population there.
00:07:39.280 Therefore, she's concluding, yes,
00:07:41.340 that there has to be a correlation that,
00:07:43.760 therefore, that means Muslim men
00:07:45.960 are most likely posting...
00:07:47.540 It's basically saying,
00:07:48.620 there were men there posting nudes of women.
00:07:50.720 This app is based in Michigan as well,
00:07:52.780 also people down in Michigan.
00:07:53.860 Michigan is populated by Muslims.
00:07:55.900 Therefore, it concludes that Muslim men
00:07:57.520 are posting nudes of Muslim women.
00:07:59.980 I'm so sorry.
00:08:01.140 You've just made that assertion.
00:08:02.900 You've just made that thing up there.
00:08:05.680 There's no evidence to it, sister.
00:08:07.460 And not only that,
00:08:08.420 you're actually justifying what they're doing.
00:08:10.280 So are you okay?
00:08:11.240 So you're basically saying,
00:08:12.260 because of this,
00:08:13.000 that's why women have a right to do that.
00:08:14.440 Well, the solution is very simple.
00:08:15.460 You are a Muslim woman, my dear sister.
00:08:17.100 I just advise you to everybody for that matter.
00:08:18.880 In Islam, we believe in something.
00:08:19.940 And Islam has protocols.
00:08:21.740 Islam believes in prevention is better than cure.
00:08:24.440 We do not do dating in Islam.
00:08:25.900 If you were not to do dating in Islam,
00:08:28.080 you Muslim women,
00:08:28.940 and not only Muslim women,
00:08:29.840 they should know better,
00:08:31.020 non-Muslim women,
00:08:31.640 if you follow the Islam,
00:08:32.380 you will not have this problem.
00:08:33.660 You will not have the problem of
00:08:34.720 going on dates with random men.
00:08:36.860 You don't know who they are.
00:08:37.880 Nothing about them.
00:08:39.080 And they give you some false promises.
00:08:41.260 Say some words they want to hear.
00:08:42.900 And whatever it is for that matter.
00:08:44.120 And the next thing you know,
00:08:44.880 you like them,
00:08:45.540 sleep with them that night.
00:08:46.500 Or a week later.
00:08:47.360 Or two weeks later.
00:08:47.940 Or a month later.
00:08:48.480 Or three months later.
00:08:49.320 Or four months later.
00:08:50.380 And then afterwards,
00:08:51.140 you decide,
00:08:52.240 or you find out that he's an F boy.
00:08:54.140 Whatever it is for that matter.
00:08:54.800 He leaves you.
00:08:55.960 And then you are broken.
00:08:57.220 You're shattered.
00:08:57.840 Etc.
00:08:58.260 You need to understand,
00:08:59.120 women are the gatekeepers of sex.
00:09:00.760 Therefore,
00:09:01.500 if you,
00:09:02.100 something that is valuable,
00:09:03.440 something that is valuable.
00:09:04.460 Why is something valuable?
00:09:05.340 Because it is rare.
00:09:06.520 It is rare.
00:09:07.320 If you give that to everybody,
00:09:10.600 the value doesn't stay there.
00:09:13.260 Yes?
00:09:13.480 It depreciates.
00:09:14.280 So therefore,
00:09:15.140 you need to understand,
00:09:16.140 men are going to be men.
00:09:18.040 This doesn't excuse them.
00:09:18.800 Because in Islam,
00:09:20.060 the punishment for a man and a woman is the same.
00:09:22.220 If an adultery happens,
00:09:23.620 sex outside of marriage,
00:09:25.340 there's a capital punishment.
00:09:26.460 The punishment is the same.
00:09:27.440 In Islam,
00:09:27.760 it doesn't say,
00:09:28.860 one rule for men,
00:09:29.420 one rule for women.
00:09:29.900 No.
00:09:30.380 But if you did that,
00:09:31.460 you will understand that it protects you.
00:09:32.820 I'll give you a fine example of myself.
00:09:34.220 When I was getting to know my wife for marriage,
00:09:36.140 I couldn't go on dates.
00:09:37.160 There was no date,
00:09:38.240 you know,
00:09:38.680 let's just go on casual dates,
00:09:39.920 let's go out, etc.
00:09:40.740 No.
00:09:41.180 Because God Almighty knows,
00:09:42.400 the Prophet Muhammad said,
00:09:43.740 when a man and a woman is alone,
00:09:44.760 the third is Satan.
00:09:45.400 Meaning what?
00:09:46.300 A man and a woman are created
00:09:47.280 with this strong attraction to one another.
00:09:49.340 So what do you think is going to happen
00:09:50.140 when you're alone?
00:09:51.520 Something is going to happen.
00:09:52.560 So therefore,
00:09:53.480 I could get to know my wife for marriage
00:09:55.280 with a chaperone.
00:09:56.340 Somebody had to be there.
00:09:57.780 Not where we are sitting exactly,
00:09:59.660 but there was someone there
00:10:00.800 who was keeping an eye.
00:10:01.980 Why?
00:10:02.460 It's to protect her
00:10:03.360 and it's to protect me.
00:10:04.880 So,
00:10:05.440 number one.
00:10:06.180 Number two.
00:10:07.140 And,
00:10:08.000 number two,
00:10:08.380 when it comes to that,
00:10:09.420 if I am happy with a marriage,
00:10:10.940 number one,
00:10:11.280 before all of that,
00:10:12.020 I speak to the Father.
00:10:12.820 Why?
00:10:13.320 You talk about patriarchy,
00:10:14.600 patriarchy, patriarchy.
00:10:15.600 Another man takes another man's account
00:10:16.860 with all due respect.
00:10:17.940 Okay?
00:10:18.460 Another man takes another man's account
00:10:20.060 because a man knows a man.
00:10:21.380 So therefore,
00:10:22.280 that is the second protocol
00:10:23.140 that protects you.
00:10:23.920 Number three,
00:10:24.600 my wife would ask for a dowry.
00:10:26.400 That is her right.
00:10:27.500 Why?
00:10:27.780 In case I'm a deadbeat dad,
00:10:29.640 decides to disappear,
00:10:30.380 she has money,
00:10:30.940 finances that she can fall back on.
00:10:32.340 Not only that,
00:10:32.840 it also as a man shows me what?
00:10:34.540 If I'm serious about her,
00:10:35.880 or if I don't like her,
00:10:36.760 I don't want to pay the dowry,
00:10:38.380 it's her protection.
00:10:40.560 Number four,
00:10:41.200 I have to do a wedding.
00:10:42.720 Yes?
00:10:43.060 Not something extravagant,
00:10:44.260 but a wedding,
00:10:44.980 and tell the people
00:10:46.300 that I've married her,
00:10:47.460 we're married,
00:10:48.100 so people know
00:10:48.960 there's no chit-chat,
00:10:49.960 gossiping happening.
00:10:51.040 And then,
00:10:51.760 not only that,
00:10:52.520 I have responsibilities and duties.
00:10:54.380 What that means is the following.
00:10:55.800 I have so many protocols
00:10:57.360 that Islam has given me
00:10:58.360 to go through
00:10:58.960 that gives the right of my wife
00:11:01.020 to not be abused and used.
00:11:03.960 Think about that, guys.
00:11:05.220 Islam has brought protocols
00:11:06.380 to protect the woman
00:11:07.620 and also protect the man
00:11:08.980 against gold diggers
00:11:10.220 because if she's a gold digger,
00:11:11.240 the dowry that he gave,
00:11:12.440 he will take that back.
00:11:13.360 So there's protocols
00:11:13.980 to protect both hearts
00:11:15.120 and do it in a way
00:11:16.180 that God Almighty
00:11:17.040 has objectively decided.
00:11:18.740 Now, we need to abide
00:11:19.500 by those laws.
00:11:20.420 Yes?
00:11:21.240 What happens is chaos
00:11:22.540 because you're attaching yourself
00:11:23.680 to a human being.
00:11:24.720 Yes?
00:11:25.120 There's heartbreak.
00:11:25.820 There's people who kill themselves
00:11:26.740 out of heartbreak.
00:11:27.960 You're meeting people,
00:11:29.380 dating,
00:11:30.080 and guess what?
00:11:31.180 Dating doesn't work.
00:11:32.480 Dating doesn't work.
00:11:33.120 And then what's happening
00:11:33.900 that is destroying yourself,
00:11:35.040 especially it affects a woman.
00:11:35.980 Studies show that a woman
00:11:37.080 who has more than
00:11:37.760 three or four sexual partners,
00:11:39.900 her likelihood of having
00:11:40.760 a successful marriage
00:11:42.220 goes from 80% to 20%.
00:11:44.580 Okay?
00:11:45.340 And then not only that,
00:11:46.060 you've got men
00:11:46.600 who are also having
00:11:47.700 all these women.
00:11:48.400 Now he's going to be
00:11:49.280 comparing his wife
00:11:50.180 to all the other women
00:11:51.020 that he had
00:11:51.400 and he's not going to be happy.
00:11:52.640 And there's so much
00:11:53.420 other illnesses
00:11:53.820 and the main thing
00:11:54.760 in this is what?
00:11:55.420 The tea app.
00:11:56.940 Which is what?
00:11:57.800 Let's come together
00:11:58.620 and find a solution.
00:12:00.080 God Almighty,
00:12:01.120 Allah has given you
00:12:02.240 that solution
00:12:02.960 from the get-go
00:12:03.800 to protect yourself.
00:12:05.040 And if you don't do that,
00:12:06.140 you make man-made ideas
00:12:08.040 or apps or laws
00:12:08.980 and then you put that together,
00:12:10.540 backfires,
00:12:11.280 doesn't work,
00:12:12.200 and guess what?
00:12:13.160 It makes it worse
00:12:14.140 because while you're going there
00:12:15.500 and talking about men,
00:12:16.440 you're actually slandering them
00:12:17.280 because there might be men
00:12:18.060 that are innocent there,
00:12:18.840 but there's a woman
00:12:19.480 who's,
00:12:20.060 excuse my language,
00:12:20.560 but hurt,
00:12:21.180 upset for whatever reason,
00:12:22.720 yes,
00:12:23.120 and then what happens is
00:12:24.120 talks bad of him
00:12:25.460 and he's slandered.
00:12:26.340 And now men do the opposite
00:12:27.300 and the cycle continues.
00:12:29.220 Alhamdulillah for Islam.
00:12:30.020 You know why?
00:12:30.460 Because we have trust in God.
00:12:31.800 We have relation with God.
00:12:33.000 We communicate with God.
00:12:34.220 Before I met my wife,
00:12:35.200 I've done istikhara.
00:12:35.900 Istikhara is what?
00:12:36.720 Asking God Almighty,
00:12:38.220 if that woman is good for me
00:12:39.400 or if I'm good for her,
00:12:40.760 make it happen.
00:12:41.740 If it's not,
00:12:42.460 move away from me
00:12:43.140 and move me away from her.
00:12:44.700 We make du'as.
00:12:45.540 We have, why?
00:12:46.280 Because we trust the due process
00:12:47.820 that God has given me
00:12:48.720 and we have the divine connection
00:12:50.520 with God Almighty
00:12:51.900 that we ask Him for guidance.
00:12:54.260 And that is where
00:12:55.020 successful true marriages happen
00:12:56.920 and truly prosper.
00:12:58.920 So for the tea app,
00:12:59.940 you can carry on drinking that tea
00:13:01.360 because in Islam,
00:13:02.460 Alhamdulillah,
00:13:02.920 we have laws and legislation
00:13:04.060 that has been put in place
00:13:05.060 to protect my heart,
00:13:06.760 my wife's heart
00:13:07.320 and that unit together,
00:13:09.240 the generations to come
00:13:10.240 of our children
00:13:10.900 are also protected.
00:13:12.920 And the Western world
00:13:13.680 is in absolute collapse
00:13:15.600 of morality
00:13:16.560 and everyone is suffering
00:13:18.220 at the consequences
00:13:18.920 and some even go
00:13:20.560 and take their lives.
00:13:22.700 Alhamdulillah for Islam,
00:13:23.660 you can keep your tea app,
00:13:25.320 join Islam
00:13:25.920 and find true freedom
00:13:27.180 from the shackles
00:13:28.020 of the worldly life
00:13:28.960 and to your creator.
00:13:30.700 Till next time,
00:13:31.400 As-salamu alaykum
00:13:32.040 wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.