Ali Dawah - DATING HORRORS OF WESTERN WOMAN

00:00:00.060 Women are calling you out for being serial cheaters, abusers, stalkers, general creeps, 1.00

00:00:06.800 and you respond by posting their nudes.

00:00:10.580 She's basically justifying the app. 0.92

00:00:12.600 She's basically saying, oh, because there was a couple of men,

00:00:14.540 or let's suppose one or two percent of the men on the app

00:00:17.400 that they did a same version of, only for men, were posting nudes.

00:00:21.180 And she went and just labeled, all the men in there are doing that. 0.87

00:00:23.460 That's the reason why she's justifying why the T-app exists. 0.97

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00:00:44.140 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatu wa barakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.

00:00:47.700 The Western woman is going absolutely berserk. 1.00

00:00:50.840 Why? Because they are in the dating world.

00:00:53.740 They are the gatekeepers of sex.

00:00:56.280 And that is something precious.

00:00:58.220 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has created women in a very specific way. 0.86

00:01:01.180 And because they have no guidance,

00:01:03.000 because they don't have Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in their life,

00:01:05.280 they are in turmoil.

00:01:06.460 Why? Because they are dating men,

00:01:08.280 that is dating multiple of them together.

00:01:11.160 Not only that, they are getting false promises,

00:01:13.460 being used, cheated on,

00:01:16.120 some of them are being abused,

00:01:17.300 because you are dating these men that you don't know about.

00:01:19.700 And in the dating world, as a non-Muslim, 0.89

00:01:21.900 it's, you know, whatever you want to do, you know.

00:01:23.460 There's one night stands where you have sex with absolute strangers.

00:01:26.140 Can you imagine sharing your private parts,

00:01:28.600 intimately, with someone that you don't even know?

00:01:31.540 Here's videos that we're going to watch,

00:01:32.720 and we're going to tell you a bit about the T-App.

00:01:33.740 What is the T-App?

00:01:34.220 The T-App is officially known as T-Dating Advice.

00:01:37.340 It's a mobile phone application that allows women to post personal data about men

00:01:40.620 they are interested in or are currently dating.

00:01:42.760 The app has been subject to substantial controversy for both its functions,

00:01:46.500 and it's the exposure of user data,

00:01:47.800 because it's been leaked.

00:01:48.640 72,000 women's information has been leaked,

00:01:51.000 with 13,000 images,

00:01:52.780 with driverless details to what they weigh.

00:01:55.720 Yes, I'm talking about what they weigh.

00:01:57.440 Brothers and sisters, all information has been leaked.

00:01:59.720 Here's some videos that we're going to watch, inshallah,

00:02:01.400 and I want to tell Muslim women that's watching this,

00:02:03.660 or non-Muslim women that are watching this, 1.00

00:02:05.260 that you need Islam. 0.56

00:02:06.640 Because in Islam, there is no dating. 0.99

00:02:09.040 There is no, hey, you know, get to know one another,

00:02:11.640 whatever it is for that matter, because men will take advantage of you. 1.00

00:02:14.340 This doesn't mean women are stupid, or dumb, or vulnerable, or naive. 0.99

00:02:19.020 No.

00:02:19.400 Of course, it's vulnerability to women. 1.00

00:02:20.640 That's the reason why God Almighty has given certain protocols to protect you.

00:02:23.820 But in Islam, we have something called tawakul,

00:02:26.200 putting our trust in Allah,

00:02:27.240 and knowing that he knows who's best for us.

00:02:29.360 Let's watch the first video, inshallah, and see what we can dissect.

00:02:32.120 There is a new king of the App Store free chart.

00:02:35.900 It is T, Dating Advice, helping women date safe.

00:02:39.500 They basically productize the groups on Facebook,

00:02:44.040 the are we dating the same guy groups.

00:02:47.100 And so this acts as a layer over a bunch of different dating apps

00:02:50.980 where women can effectively review, add comments, 1.00

00:02:54.460 leave Yelp-style reviews for the men that they are going on dates with.

00:02:58.860 Okay, firstly, as you can see, this just explained,

00:03:01.040 that managers explained in a brief what the app is about,

00:03:02.820 which I've told you about.

00:03:04.320 And one thing you're going to understand, though,

00:03:06.000 not many people would speak good of their exes.

00:03:08.060 It's very, very hard to find someone genuine.

00:03:10.700 And especially with women, sometimes they are scorned, 0.55

00:03:13.760 and, you know, they are with men,

00:03:16.200 and whatever it is for that matter, and they don't like them.

00:03:18.200 When it ends on, most of the times, marriages,

00:03:20.460 or someone that you're dating ends nasty.

00:03:23.440 Okay, so how do you expect a group of women to come together, 1.00

00:03:26.220 which we know women like to speak more than men,

00:03:28.040 and they are sharing this experience, etc.

00:03:29.900 And to them, anything can be like,

00:03:31.280 oh, it's a narcissist, it's this, it's that,

00:03:32.960 which women tend to use very loosely. 0.93

00:03:35.840 How do you expect a group of women to come together and say, 1.00

00:03:38.540 oh, yeah, that guy, yeah, he's good, yeah.

00:03:39.980 Do you really think a woman is going to recommend her ex to another woman?

00:03:42.820 Do you really think a woman is going to be like, 1.00

00:03:44.300 oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, go, he was such a nice guy, yeah,

00:03:46.060 you know, we broke up, etc.

00:03:47.540 But he's a nice guy, go date him.

00:03:49.200 I don't think the idea is good,

00:03:50.460 because you're looking for a solution,

00:03:52.020 but the solution is in Islam.

00:03:53.400 Yes, prevention is better than cure,

00:03:54.740 which I'm going to come to later.

00:03:55.860 Here's the second video, inshallah.

00:03:56.980 Let's see what this woman had to say. 1.00

00:03:58.440 Women are harassing men online in a new app, 0.99

00:04:01.540 and this app called The Tea is a women's only app

00:04:04.760 where you can upload photos and information

00:04:07.560 and screenshots of men that you might be dating,

00:04:09.720 or maybe you just swiped on, you know, their dating profile,

00:04:12.720 maybe you've just met him.

00:04:14.180 You can post photos of him or screenshots of his dating profile

00:04:17.780 in order to get The Tea on him from other women. 0.97

00:04:21.460 And all hell has broken loose on social media,

00:04:23.680 understandably so,

00:04:24.400 because men are concerned about their privacy,

00:04:27.580 concerned with what accusations or lies

00:04:30.360 or even exaggerations could be, you know,

00:04:33.180 slewn about them online with no consent,

00:04:35.720 with no idea that it is actually happening,

00:04:37.740 and no ability to defend themselves whatsoever.

00:04:41.420 They aren't even allowed on the app.

00:04:43.500 Imagine if men had an app like this. 0.98

00:04:45.940 If men were online posting photos of women

00:04:49.340 ripping their appearances to shreds,

00:04:51.980 saying this is how many men she slept with, 1.00

00:04:54.400 all hell would break loose.

00:04:56.000 Women would be losing their minds. 1.00

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00:05:12.780 As-salamu alaykum, wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

00:05:15.280 Is she wrong?

00:05:16.220 Please, guys, I mean, let's be here.

00:05:17.820 Is she wrong?

00:05:18.760 If we were to start an app,

00:05:19.900 and men would come in and like,

00:05:22.160 it's number one in Islam,

00:05:23.160 slander is very severe, 0.99

00:05:24.460 especially towards a woman.

00:05:25.960 For those who come and say Islam is misogynistic, no.

00:05:27.780 Especially the hadith narrations

00:05:29.720 of the Prophet Muhammad,

00:05:30.340 peace be upon him,

00:05:30.640 mentioned seven major sins.

00:05:31.960 One of those major sins is what?

00:05:33.620 Slander against a chaste woman. 0.99

00:05:35.840 So imagine an app's being made.

00:05:37.540 There'll be hell breaking loose, bro, bro.

00:05:40.060 There'll be chaos.

00:05:41.500 It'll be filled at 12.7 on the Richter scale

00:05:43.560 everywhere around the world.

00:05:45.000 But when women do it, it's fine. 1.00

00:05:47.240 Why?

00:05:47.680 Because the core of the problem is something deeper,

00:05:49.440 which I'm going to come to,

00:05:50.220 and I'm going to watch the final video,

00:05:51.460 and then we're going to come to

00:05:52.240 what is the solution, inshallah.

00:05:53.640 This video is of a hijabi sister.

00:05:56.020 I wanted to see what she had to say

00:05:57.340 as a Muslim's perspective on it.

00:05:59.380 Someone who does pro-Palestinian stuff,

00:06:00.660 I follow her on Instagram,

00:06:01.940 she does pro-Palestinian stuff,

00:06:02.800 but let's see what she had to say

00:06:03.660 because she had her two-pence peas on this app.

00:06:05.860 Okay, this is absolutely fucking insane to me.

00:06:08.240 The tea app got men so mad

00:06:09.740 that they've been threatening

00:06:10.580 to drop their own version of the girls.

00:06:12.880 And one of those apps,

00:06:14.500 I'm sure it'll be one of many,

00:06:16.140 was already launched and shut down within 24 hours

00:06:20.580 because men kept posting women's nudes.

00:06:24.100 Like, y'all think I'm playing with you.

00:06:25.960 This is from the Tea Born app.

00:06:27.920 App is down until everyone learns how to behave.

00:06:30.900 If you're posting nudes,

00:06:32.360 I will be posting your face.

00:06:34.440 These men are just like consistently proving

00:06:36.840 why the tea app was created in the first place.

00:06:39.060 Like, honestly, I really, I can't believe this.

00:06:41.980 Women are calling you out for being serial cheaters, 1.00

00:06:45.100 abusers, stalkers, general creeps,

00:06:47.900 and you respond by posting their nudes.

00:06:52.780 You are everything that they're saying that you are.

00:06:55.500 I don't understand how you don't see that.

00:06:58.160 This app is like Dearborn specific too,

00:07:00.500 I'm pretty sure.

00:07:01.220 So like, these are Muslim men 1.00

00:07:03.260 posting nude pictures of Muslim women.

00:07:06.060 Like, have some...

00:07:07.680 Okay, firstly, again,

00:07:08.900 I'm a bit taken aback in the sense where,

00:07:11.560 because she's basically justifying the app. 0.81

00:07:13.920 She's basically saying,

00:07:14.700 oh, because there was a couple of men,

00:07:15.900 or let's suppose one or 2% of the men on the app

00:07:18.760 that they did a same version of only for men's

00:07:21.820 were posting nudes.

00:07:23.060 And she went and just labeled,

00:07:24.160 all the men in there are doing that.

00:07:25.360 That's the reason why she's justifying 1.00

00:07:26.840 why the tea app exists.

00:07:28.840 And it's the same problem.

00:07:29.460 And then she went towards the end,

00:07:31.080 I'm just giving a constructive criticism,

00:07:32.280 towards the end saying that,

00:07:33.420 oh, she's not even saying for sure.

00:07:35.880 She's saying,

00:07:36.400 oh, it's around the Michigan area,

00:07:37.960 there's a lot of big Muslim population there.

00:07:39.280 Therefore, she's concluding, yes,

00:07:41.340 that there has to be a correlation that,

00:07:43.760 therefore, that means Muslim men 0.88

00:07:45.960 are most likely posting...

00:07:47.540 It's basically saying,

00:07:48.620 there were men there posting nudes of women.

00:07:50.720 This app is based in Michigan as well,

00:07:52.780 also people down in Michigan.

00:07:53.860 Michigan is populated by Muslims.

00:07:55.900 Therefore, it concludes that Muslim men 0.88

00:07:57.520 are posting nudes of Muslim women.

00:07:59.980 I'm so sorry.

00:08:01.140 You've just made that assertion.

00:08:02.900 You've just made that thing up there.

00:08:05.680 There's no evidence to it, sister.

00:08:07.460 And not only that,

00:08:08.420 you're actually justifying what they're doing.

00:08:10.280 So are you okay?

00:08:11.240 So you're basically saying,

00:08:12.260 because of this,

00:08:13.000 that's why women have a right to do that. 1.00

00:08:14.440 Well, the solution is very simple.

00:08:15.460 You are a Muslim woman, my dear sister.

00:08:17.100 I just advise you to everybody for that matter.

00:08:18.880 In Islam, we believe in something.

00:08:19.940 And Islam has protocols. 0.77

00:08:21.740 Islam believes in prevention is better than cure. 0.99

00:08:24.440 We do not do dating in Islam.

00:08:25.900 If you were not to do dating in Islam,

00:08:28.080 you Muslim women, 1.00

00:08:28.940 and not only Muslim women,

00:08:29.840 they should know better,

00:08:31.020 non-Muslim women,

00:08:31.640 if you follow the Islam,

00:08:32.380 you will not have this problem.

00:08:33.660 You will not have the problem of

00:08:34.720 going on dates with random men.

00:08:36.860 You don't know who they are.

00:08:37.880 Nothing about them.

00:08:39.080 And they give you some false promises.

00:08:41.260 Say some words they want to hear.

00:08:42.900 And whatever it is for that matter.

00:08:44.120 And the next thing you know,

00:08:44.880 you like them,

00:08:45.540 sleep with them that night.

00:08:46.500 Or a week later.

00:08:47.360 Or two weeks later.

00:08:47.940 Or a month later.

00:08:48.480 Or three months later.

00:08:49.320 Or four months later.

00:08:50.380 And then afterwards,

00:08:51.140 you decide,

00:08:52.240 or you find out that he's an F boy.

00:08:54.140 Whatever it is for that matter.

00:08:54.800 He leaves you.

00:08:55.960 And then you are broken.

00:08:57.220 You're shattered.

00:08:57.840 Etc.

00:08:58.260 You need to understand,

00:08:59.120 women are the gatekeepers of sex. 1.00

00:09:00.760 Therefore,

00:09:01.500 if you,

00:09:02.100 something that is valuable,

00:09:03.440 something that is valuable.

00:09:04.460 Why is something valuable?

00:09:05.340 Because it is rare.

00:09:06.520 It is rare.

00:09:07.320 If you give that to everybody,

00:09:10.600 the value doesn't stay there.

00:09:13.260 Yes?

00:09:13.480 It depreciates.

00:09:14.280 So therefore,

00:09:15.140 you need to understand,

00:09:16.140 men are going to be men.

00:09:18.040 This doesn't excuse them.

00:09:18.800 Because in Islam, 0.91

00:09:20.060 the punishment for a man and a woman is the same.

00:09:22.220 If an adultery happens,

00:09:23.620 sex outside of marriage,

00:09:25.340 there's a capital punishment.

00:09:26.460 The punishment is the same.

00:09:27.440 In Islam,

00:09:27.760 it doesn't say,

00:09:28.860 one rule for men, 0.95

00:09:29.420 one rule for women. 1.00

00:09:29.900 No.

00:09:30.380 But if you did that,

00:09:31.460 you will understand that it protects you.

00:09:32.820 I'll give you a fine example of myself.

00:09:34.220 When I was getting to know my wife for marriage,

00:09:36.140 I couldn't go on dates.

00:09:37.160 There was no date,

00:09:38.240 you know,

00:09:38.680 let's just go on casual dates,

00:09:39.920 let's go out, etc.

00:09:40.740 No.

00:09:41.180 Because God Almighty knows,

00:09:42.400 the Prophet Muhammad said,

00:09:43.740 when a man and a woman is alone,

00:09:44.760 the third is Satan.

00:09:45.400 Meaning what?

00:09:46.300 A man and a woman are created 0.97

00:09:47.280 with this strong attraction to one another.

00:09:49.340 So what do you think is going to happen

00:09:50.140 when you're alone?

00:09:51.520 Something is going to happen.

00:09:52.560 So therefore,

00:09:53.480 I could get to know my wife for marriage

00:09:55.280 with a chaperone.

00:09:56.340 Somebody had to be there.

00:09:57.780 Not where we are sitting exactly,

00:09:59.660 but there was someone there

00:10:00.800 who was keeping an eye.

00:10:01.980 Why?

00:10:02.460 It's to protect her

00:10:03.360 and it's to protect me.

00:10:04.880 So,

00:10:05.440 number one.

00:10:06.180 Number two.

00:10:07.140 And,

00:10:08.000 number two,

00:10:08.380 when it comes to that,

00:10:09.420 if I am happy with a marriage,

00:10:10.940 number one,

00:10:11.280 before all of that,

00:10:12.020 I speak to the Father.

00:10:12.820 Why?

00:10:13.320 You talk about patriarchy,

00:10:14.600 patriarchy, patriarchy.

00:10:15.600 Another man takes another man's account

00:10:16.860 with all due respect.

00:10:17.940 Okay?

00:10:18.460 Another man takes another man's account

00:10:20.060 because a man knows a man.

00:10:21.380 So therefore,

00:10:22.280 that is the second protocol

00:10:23.140 that protects you.

00:10:23.920 Number three,

00:10:24.600 my wife would ask for a dowry. 1.00

00:10:26.400 That is her right.

00:10:27.500 Why?

00:10:27.780 In case I'm a deadbeat dad,

00:10:29.640 decides to disappear,

00:10:30.380 she has money, 0.94

00:10:30.940 finances that she can fall back on.

00:10:32.340 Not only that,

00:10:32.840 it also as a man shows me what?

00:10:34.540 If I'm serious about her,

00:10:35.880 or if I don't like her,

00:10:36.760 I don't want to pay the dowry,

00:10:38.380 it's her protection.

00:10:40.560 Number four,

00:10:41.200 I have to do a wedding.

00:10:42.720 Yes?

00:10:43.060 Not something extravagant,

00:10:44.260 but a wedding,

00:10:44.980 and tell the people

00:10:46.300 that I've married her,

00:10:47.460 we're married,

00:10:48.100 so people know

00:10:48.960 there's no chit-chat,

00:10:49.960 gossiping happening.

00:10:51.040 And then,

00:10:51.760 not only that,

00:10:52.520 I have responsibilities and duties.

00:10:54.380 What that means is the following.

00:10:55.800 I have so many protocols

00:10:57.360 that Islam has given me 0.89

00:10:58.360 to go through

00:10:58.960 that gives the right of my wife 1.00

00:11:01.020 to not be abused and used.

00:11:03.960 Think about that, guys.

00:11:05.220 Islam has brought protocols 1.00

00:11:06.380 to protect the woman

00:11:07.620 and also protect the man

00:11:08.980 against gold diggers 0.99

00:11:10.220 because if she's a gold digger, 1.00

00:11:11.240 the dowry that he gave,

00:11:12.440 he will take that back.

00:11:13.360 So there's protocols

00:11:13.980 to protect both hearts

00:11:15.120 and do it in a way

00:11:16.180 that God Almighty

00:11:17.040 has objectively decided.

00:11:18.740 Now, we need to abide

00:11:19.500 by those laws.

00:11:20.420 Yes?

00:11:21.240 What happens is chaos

00:11:22.540 because you're attaching yourself

00:11:23.680 to a human being.

00:11:24.720 Yes?

00:11:25.120 There's heartbreak.

00:11:25.820 There's people who kill themselves

00:11:26.740 out of heartbreak.

00:11:27.960 You're meeting people,

00:11:29.380 dating,

00:11:30.080 and guess what?

00:11:31.180 Dating doesn't work.

00:11:32.480 Dating doesn't work.

00:11:33.120 And then what's happening

00:11:33.900 that is destroying yourself, 0.62

00:11:35.040 especially it affects a woman. 1.00

00:11:35.980 Studies show that a woman 1.00

00:11:37.080 who has more than

00:11:37.760 three or four sexual partners,

00:11:39.900 her likelihood of having

00:11:40.760 a successful marriage

00:11:42.220 goes from 80% to 20%.

00:11:44.580 Okay?

00:11:45.340 And then not only that,

00:11:46.060 you've got men

00:11:46.600 who are also having

00:11:47.700 all these women. 0.96

00:11:48.400 Now he's going to be

00:11:49.280 comparing his wife

00:11:50.180 to all the other women

00:11:51.020 that he had

00:11:51.400 and he's not going to be happy.

00:11:52.640 And there's so much

00:11:53.420 other illnesses

00:11:53.820 and the main thing

00:11:54.760 in this is what?

00:11:55.420 The tea app.

00:11:56.940 Which is what?

00:11:57.800 Let's come together

00:11:58.620 and find a solution.

00:12:00.080 God Almighty,

00:12:01.120 Allah has given you

00:12:02.240 that solution

00:12:02.960 from the get-go

00:12:03.800 to protect yourself.

00:12:05.040 And if you don't do that,

00:12:06.140 you make man-made ideas

00:12:08.040 or apps or laws

00:12:08.980 and then you put that together,

00:12:10.540 backfires,

00:12:11.280 doesn't work,

00:12:12.200 and guess what?

00:12:13.160 It makes it worse

00:12:14.140 because while you're going there

00:12:15.500 and talking about men,

00:12:16.440 you're actually slandering them

00:12:17.280 because there might be men

00:12:18.060 that are innocent there,

00:12:18.840 but there's a woman 0.99

00:12:19.480 who's,

00:12:20.060 excuse my language,

00:12:20.560 but hurt,

00:12:21.180 upset for whatever reason,

00:12:22.720 yes,

00:12:23.120 and then what happens is

00:12:24.120 talks bad of him

00:12:25.460 and he's slandered.

00:12:26.340 And now men do the opposite

00:12:27.300 and the cycle continues.

00:12:29.220 Alhamdulillah for Islam. 0.54

00:12:30.020 You know why?

00:12:30.460 Because we have trust in God.

00:12:31.800 We have relation with God.

00:12:33.000 We communicate with God.

00:12:34.220 Before I met my wife,

00:12:35.200 I've done istikhara.

00:12:35.900 Istikhara is what? 0.50

00:12:36.720 Asking God Almighty,

00:12:38.220 if that woman is good for me 1.00

00:12:39.400 or if I'm good for her,

00:12:40.760 make it happen.

00:12:41.740 If it's not,

00:12:42.460 move away from me

00:12:43.140 and move me away from her. 1.00

00:12:44.700 We make du'as.

00:12:45.540 We have, why?

00:12:46.280 Because we trust the due process

00:12:47.820 that God has given me

00:12:48.720 and we have the divine connection

00:12:50.520 with God Almighty

00:12:51.900 that we ask Him for guidance.

00:12:54.260 And that is where

00:12:55.020 successful true marriages happen

00:12:56.920 and truly prosper.

00:12:58.920 So for the tea app,

00:12:59.940 you can carry on drinking that tea

00:13:01.360 because in Islam,

00:13:02.460 Alhamdulillah,

00:13:02.920 we have laws and legislation

00:13:04.060 that has been put in place

00:13:05.060 to protect my heart,

00:13:06.760 my wife's heart

00:13:07.320 and that unit together,

00:13:09.240 the generations to come

00:13:10.240 of our children

00:13:10.900 are also protected.

00:13:12.920 And the Western world

00:13:13.680 is in absolute collapse

00:13:15.600 of morality

00:13:16.560 and everyone is suffering

00:13:18.220 at the consequences

00:13:18.920 and some even go

00:13:20.560 and take their lives.

00:13:22.700 Alhamdulillah for Islam,

00:13:23.660 you can keep your tea app,

00:13:25.320 join Islam

00:13:25.920 and find true freedom

00:13:27.180 from the shackles

00:13:28.020 of the worldly life

00:13:28.960 and to your creator.

00:13:30.700 Till next time,

00:13:31.400 As-salamu alaykum

00:13:32.040 wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

Ali Dawah - August 04, 2025

DATING HORRORS OF WESTERN WOMAN

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