Ali Dawah - September 03, 2020
DAUD KIM CONFESSION - REACTION VIDEO
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the recent scandal regarding Prophet Dawood Kim and his alleged attempt to rape a Muslim sister. We also discuss why it is important to stay silent and not speak on matters of this nature.
Transcript
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Islam doesn't say that because we told you Allah and the message said do not be in a secluded place, the third person is shaitan,
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therefore you raping and justifies that, or attempting to rape or whatever.
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It's the place where anybody you wronged, you will have to give them their rights.
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But sometimes we watch old videos of ourselves and we're crying, what the bra, what the, what the raas?
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From a juvenile, where my clothes had holes in them, and my afro was picky, to them 90s, Moschino and Versace, no laces in the rachis, new millennium.
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Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.
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Before I start, I want to praise Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, the most merciful, the most trust, or praise His glory and gratitude to belong to Him.
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Recent controversy and scandal has arisen once again, this time regarding Prophet Dawood Kim.
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And the allegations are that he attempted to rape a Muslim sister.
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Now, before we delve into that, brothers and sisters, we need to understand something, yeah?
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That this is something regarding another person violating the rights of another person.
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So, the Sharia has come down to protect that, yeah?
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You know, a lot of people have been jumping on board, people come to me and say, Prophet Ali, do a video, etc.
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And there was those who genuinely wanted to do a video for other, like, reasons to, you know, which we're going to come to, yeah?
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So, with these things, brothers and sisters, nobody cares about your opinion, my opinion.
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These are matters that are crimes, and Islam, they're crimes, and Islam has come to protect the rights of individuals, yeah?
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Sometimes, in certain situations, a female's rights are greater than a man's, yeah?
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And in certain situations, a man's rights is greater than a woman.
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And in certain situations, both of their rights are equal.
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So, brothers and sisters, when we're touching this, we're coming from an Islamic angle.
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I'm not a medium for people to run to me and look for solutions, but in this specific matter, I'm going to tell you guys why I'm doing this video.
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Because I didn't want anything to do with it, but I'm going to tell you guys why I'm doing it.
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Now, the first thing, my impression was, to stay silent.
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Because, brothers and sisters, when these things happen, you'll have two kinds of groups, yeah?
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If there's two people, one person's wrong with the other.
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They come to his defense, or her defense, and start attacking the other.
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Because a lot of people are going to be in regret.
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As things unfold, you're going to regret certain things.
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I just wanted to analyze and see what's actually going on for myself.
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So, now, it's very important for us to stay silent, brothers and sisters, yeah?
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A lot of scholars have said that they have never, they have regretted many times speaking, but they have never regretted being silent.
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And the Prophet ﷺ said that whoever guarantees what's between his jaws, yeah, jaw bones, and what is between these two legs, I will guarantee paradise for him.
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Meaning those who protect their chastity from zina, what's between your legs, your private parts.
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And whoever protects what's between their jaws, the tongue, yeah?
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A lot of people end up in the fire because of the tongue.
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If you've got nothing good to say, stay silent.
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So, brothers and sisters, that is the first thing of action that we need to do.
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That's the first thing that I want to tell you guys.
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Yeah, I'm going to go through seven points, yeah?
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When these scandals come out, brothers and sisters, whatever it may be, be silent.
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Now, from what I know, brothers and sisters, that a brother Dawood Kim, a video was, a video emerged of him at the bottom of the stairs putting his trousers on.
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And then you've got a sister, excuse me, a sister who's distraught, who's crying, yeah?
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And she's accusing him of allegedly raping her.
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Now, when it comes to Islam, visual content can be manipulated, yeah?
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And we know that with the deep fake or something like that, yeah?
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So, when it comes to that instance, like, obviously, one has to be careful, man, because in today's time, weird times, all kinds of stuff happen.
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However, brother Dawood Kim came out and verified that.
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So, it reminds us of the story of the man who came to the Prophet ﷺ, and also a woman came once as well, and he said,
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And he said it a third time, the Prophet ﷺ moved away from him.
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Because he knows how severe the punishment is going to be.
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Now, in this very instance, zina actually means one penetrating the vagina.
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In this very instance, that didn't happen, yeah?
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But the point that I'm trying to say is that brother Dawood came out himself and said, yes, this happened.
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So, now, the thing is this, brothers and sisters, yeah?
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That misconception is that, for example, Allah ﷻ tells us, Islam is all about prevention, then cure, okay?
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Now, listen to me carefully, before people start jumping to conclusions that, oh my gosh, are you victim blaming?
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Just because Allah ﷻ says, stay away from zina, don't indulge with the opposite gender, do not be in a secluded place.
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Not being in a secluded place, what Allah ﷻ says, is to avoid zina.
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This doesn't mean that if a man and a woman is in a secluded place and the man attempts to rape her,
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or, I don't know if this is even possible, a woman tries to rape him.
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I'm so sorry, I'm not trying to be sexist, but I highly doubt that happens, yeah?
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You can't come and say, oh, you guys were in a secluded place, you deserved it, girl.
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Islam doesn't say that because we told you Allah ﷻ said, do not be in a secluded place, the third person is shaitan,
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therefore you raping and justifies that, or attempting to rape or whatever.
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Number one, you are in a haram, you're committing haram because you're in a secluded place, yeah?
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In the context of it, it can lead to haram, yeah?
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And now on top of that, you are violating the right of another person.
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So when Allah tells the believing woman to cover herself up, it's not...
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Allah doesn't say cover up because men can't control themselves.
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The men should be lowering their gaze from the get-go.
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So this big misconception can be thrown out the window.
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And what really annoyed me further, which is actually point four, but I'll come straight to it now,
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is that certain people who are a fan of Brother Dawood Kim is attacking this sister.
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And I'm going to use big words, it's preposterous, yeah?
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I'm sure that's a word that exists like that, yeah?
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How could you blame somebody who, like, was attempted to get raped, yeah?
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Brother Dawood Kim, in his video, pointed that out as well.
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So that's why I'm saying, this video is not about your opinion or my opinion.
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She may have committed a haram in the context of letting him in.
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But she is not to blame to be raped or attempted to be raped, yeah?
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And now, one thing that we need to highlight is the following, yeah?
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Now, saying this was before Islam does not mean that we're saying what was done was right.
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What we're saying is that the lifestyle he lived on, he said it on his revert story,
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Suicidal, or if I'm not mistaken, you know, drinking, etc.
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Now, the thing is, brothers and sisters, we need to understand that the life,
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and I come from that lifestyle in the context of clubbing and girls and all that nonsense, yeah?
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It's such a miserable life, brothers and sisters, that we're not wishing on anybody, yeah?
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And that's why people come to Islam, because when they come to Islam, reverts are more stern.
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Because they acknowledge the filth they came from.
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And that's why alcohol is the mother of all evils.
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Once again, I repeat, I'm not saying that, um, the, the, the, the, like, the, the, trying to breathe away the blame.
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Even though he says he doesn't remember anything, alcohol is the mother of all evils.
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That's what Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, has told us to abstain from it.
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You know, I don't know what people say, you know, when people come to Islam,
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When it comes to repentance, brothers and sisters, when one repents, or one has come to Islam,
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And wronged Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, is that you stop the sin.
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So, you say, oh Allah, I'm not, I'm going to not go back to it, inshallah.
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This is a condition for one violating him own self, yeah?
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Now, there's a fourth condition for the one who violates someone else's rights.
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I've watched a lot of videos, reacted, not many people touched upon this.
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The fourth condition is that you need to ask forgiveness from the very person.
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That you ask forgiveness from the person because you violated their rights.
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Now, the image that I'm going to have in front of you, brothers and sisters, here, shows
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that in Islam, our worldview, what happens from us coming to this world, to dying, to judgment
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day, to being judged, to expiated, there's a specific place, brothers and sisters, on
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the screen, if you can see on the screen, brothers and sisters, is a place called the
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I don't know what to say, let me turn to it, yeah?
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This place is just those who crossed the Serat, yeah?
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And this is the place where anybody you wronged, you will have to give them their rights.
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That, you know, if you have good deeds, you know, you would give it to that person.
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If you have no good deeds left, then you will have to carry their sins, etc., etc., yeah?
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So this is something that is very severe, very severe, that it's one of the conditions
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of repentance, not only that, if, like, if those people who you have wronged, under
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their judgment, before you enter heaven, oh, you're going to be stopped.
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You've wronged this person, brother, good deeds, yeah, I know you did a lot of good deeds.
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But this person, Allah takes it seriously when you violate the right of others.
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So, brothers and sisters, so, he needs to ask for forgiveness.
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If you have taken money from someone, you have to return that money.
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You owe someone money, you have to give that money back.
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Now, as far as I know, what Daoud, brother Daoud, said is that before that, they pressed
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And the charges were dropped because she dropped charges.
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He said he was drunk or whatever happened, blah, blah, blah, and he apologized.
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Now, if he apologized, and if from what I know, she accepted it, the case is closed.
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When I mean the case is closed, I'm saying she's apologized, he's apologized.
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She, if she has accepted, because from what I know, he said he has, and there was a document,
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Yeah, and if the case is closed in the context of, he made a mistake, the case is closed.
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This was about, yeah, like before, apparently before Islam, as far as I know.
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And may Allah reward the sister for forgiving him, yeah?
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So, from what I know, the case should be closed.
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Now, the one thing that I want to advise, brother Daoud, and I spoke to him in private,
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and I'm still speaking to him in private, you know, because I didn't know one other concern
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that we had, was that the rights of the sister, and now the rights of himself.
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Because he looks like he's in a bad place, and we can't abandon him, yeah?
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Now, brothers and sisters, we need to understand something, yeah?
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And Alhamdulillah, I haven't done nothing crazy, but the thing is, there's people that I've wronged.
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And I think to myself, what the hell was I thinking?
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Now, if he's repented genuinely, brother Dawood, you should have not exposed your sins further, yeah?
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But you should have not go into detail, because you did say that you did drink alcohol, being as a Muslim, etc.
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And I know, look, when I came to Islam, I had a few bad traits, man.
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Allah helped me by getting involved in the Dawah, Alhamdulillah.
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But, brother Dawood, you should have not mentioned your sins.
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And, like I said, brothers and sisters, it's by Allah's mercy that Allah hides our sins and we'll be finished, yeah?
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I know he was not in the right place, but you should have mentioned it.
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And that's why I love the statement of Abu Bakr, radiallahu anh.
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May Allah forgive me for what you do not know about me.
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And may Allah make me better than what you think of me.
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And may Allah forgive me because it's by his mercy that you don't know stuff about me, yeah?
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So, I would just advise him that don't do that, inshallah.
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And one thing that I want to mention is that, you know, yes, you drank alcohol.
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There was a companion of the Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
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Omar ibn Qattab said that the lash should be 80, yeah?
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Because he believed a drunk person is more prone to slander people.
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So, he said the lash, his understanding, should be 80 lashes, yeah?
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But one day, some companions, he would keep doing the same thing.
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And one day, companions came and said, May Allah curse you.
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The Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, said, Don't say that.
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Brothers and sisters, this is the Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, saying,
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You see in a man, if there was today, if you had the super Salafi, subhanAllah, the
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Alhamdulillah, Allah is judging us, not them, yeah?
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The Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, affirming that he loves Allah and his messenger,
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even though he's committing his sin, drinking alcohol, etc.
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We ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to forgive you, Prophet Dawood, and to work in yourself,
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Maybe it wasn't a good idea to jump on YouTube straight away.
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This is something that I suffer on a daily basis.
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But one thing I want to say to you, Prophet Dawood, I've said this to you in private as
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If we're going to disregard people, and totally, if this sister, who's been a victim,
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is asking for Dawood to totally be obliterated, like, finish, kalas, done, this is wrong.
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If he's changed his ways to the better, the sister should say, you know what, yes, what
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But to say to him that he can't be a change man and change his ways for the better, I'm
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If that's the case, then let's take away all the sahaba, the companions.
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Yeah, Omar Ibn Khattab used to bury his daughter alive.
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Brothers and sisters, this is what jahiliyyah is.
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This is what living in ignorance is, brothers and sisters.
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There's certain things I look back and I'm like, what the flipping hell was I thinking?
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Like, I'm looking, what, like, what, is that me?
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But sometimes we watch old videos of ourselves and we're crying, what the bra, what the,
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Brothers and sisters, give people chances, yeah?
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I know in Korea, I was watching a video that some people say that in Korea is very strict.
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And brother Dawood Kim, I highly recommend you to put your videos back up.
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And no, and I believe it's unfair for him to take all his videos down because of the pressure.
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Yes, he should, I'm saying he should keep those up and take time out, reflect, and come back.
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Because if you've changed yourself, if you've sincerely repented, you can't question your intentions.
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If you have, you've learned from your mistakes, you've apologized to the sister, the sister's accepted, move on, inshallah.
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And we ask the sister to forgive him, inshallah, which we believe he has.
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And brother and sisters, brother Dawood, inshallah.
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Like I said, we are here for you in the context of if you feel depressed or whatever, we know how it is.
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And brother and sisters, inshallah, we ask you to make dua for all of us.
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And if there's brothers watching this, it's off topic as well a bit.
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Wallahi, brothers in the scene, inshallah, money, fame, and woman.
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If you are coming to do YouTube videos, to gain these, Allah will humiliate you.
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Anything good for me is Allah and His Messenger.