Ali Dawah - February 01, 2019DIRTY PICS SENT BY NASHEED ARTIST - SNAPCHAT
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about an accusation that has been made by a brother's sister towards a brother who does nasheed. She accuses him of sending her a picture of his private parts. He denies the accusation.
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i wake up the next morning notification i see a notification on snapchat
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so i opened it and i'm like hang on a second what have i just seen and it didn't even last a second
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um so this is this is an accusation that's been made from his sister towards a brother a brother
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who does nasheed i'm just going to leave it i'm not going to go further um so i kind of
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investigated the matter obviously when we watch the video we're going to come back and we're going
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to talk about the principles how does the sharia deal with this because a lot of people deal with
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it with their emotions yeah no i saw it i heard it it must be him no no is this how the sharia works
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of course it doesn't so what let's do this let's go and hear the recording okay from the sister her
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story her take on the matter and we'll come straight back yeah uh from our dawa team inshallah who's going
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to be within the conversation so it's not just me and her just to keep it um inshallah i'm just waiting
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for their phone call okay they're calling you okay so inshallah you guys will be able to hear it
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i'm just going to measure the calls because there is no moment okay all right no problem okay
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okay that's good um that's from the start because i think you said that you used to um
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follow this brother yeah so i've been following this brother for almost a year or maybe even more
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than a year he's been on my instagram for quite a while um he's always recited the quran and you
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know he said he sings in the sheets and he's an asheed artist and i think he travels the world and
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things like that yeah to do his performances and he's invited to weddings and stuff um
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so i've been following him quite a while and i've always thought of him as a very lovely guy um if you
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look through the messages i'm sure you've seen after tim you're a very good example for the young
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generation in this day and age um so obviously he messaged me on saturday evening and he said to
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me assalamu alaikum like walaikum brother how are you like i'm good and we exchanged all that and then
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his third question was are you married i said no and at that point i thought to myself um okay hang
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on this guy's asking me are you married he's a very um islamic guy he may be interested in a
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you know in a marriage conversation you know that's the first thing that came into my head
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and then after that um made it even more um clear to me that he is interested in my marriage talk was
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his next question how old are you um and then after that he goes to me um i i use i don't really
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use instagram i use snapchat for my personal life so do you have snapchat i said yes i do but i hardly
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ever use it but here you go anyway so he asked me on snapchat i accepted him and on snapchat we only
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he only asked me one question i asked him one question his question was have you ever been in
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a relationship and i answered that and he and then i asked him and he goes yeah i've been in many
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that's it that was the end i said okay now i wake up the next morning the first thing i do when i wake up
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up is obviously like everyone has to check my phone so was that all you talked on snapchat that's
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it that's all i said and i i'd honestly regret not screenshotting it because with snapchat you know
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when you screenshot the other person knows that you've screenshotted it yeah so the next morning i
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wake up i see this notification i see a notification on snapchat so i opened it and i'm like hang on
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a second what have i just seen and it didn't even last a second honestly not even a second that did
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so i thought hang on is this from that same guy and i looked at it again i got up at that moment i
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sat i sat on my bed i'm like let me just see this again but before i did it i thought to myself you
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know what i think i should screen record this because if it is from that particular guy then
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i'm honestly disgusted and i need proof and evidence i do so i i said he sent you like a
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picture of his private parts he he sent me a picture of his private parts like that's the only
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thing i could see in the picture so i screen recorded it and then i texted i messaged back
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saying i don't even know whether i should be saying this but i said dog yeah and i get a message saying
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um this guy cannot see this snap until he until he accepts you as a friend on snapchat so i was like
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hang on this guy's blocked me that means i went to instagram i'm like i'm not leaving this guy alone
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i'm gonna message him so i messaged him saying um um how dare you send me such a disgusting picture
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look at the state look at the way you dress um i said to him you're getting exposed remember that
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it's people like you that are a disgrace to muslims look at your beard and the way you dress and look
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at your deeds yuck and you're scared of getting exposed on instagram so you wanted to add me on
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snapchat lol so you could send me dirty pictures i said watch you've messed with the wrong person you
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would just wait and then i said to him again what you're gonna do now block me or you're gonna come
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out with some dumb excuses um but then one of my friends actually said to me um that he is actually a
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pervert so that kind of got to me as well like um who told you who told you that uh one of my friends
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she said to me he's a pervert and then i've got another friend um well i don't know how she knows
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i didn't ask her that either so obviously like always i understand it from your perspective and
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the reason why i'm taking this matter so seriously because at the end day like you said we don't want
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people to um just think that they can use the my account got hacked uh and that looks that can happen
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yeah we don't want to make it seem like people's account can't get hacked but the issue here is
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we don't want people to use that as an excuse and say oh that's good idea i'll do this and when i
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get caught i'll just say my account got hacked do you get it but we're not also negating that
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accounts cannot be hacked because they can be hacked do you get it um so so we just don't want people to
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think that because there might be a legitimate case of something like this happening and and
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people can start doubting saying oh yeah your account got hacked yeah a lot of sisters think that if they
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come out um that you know they're going to be shamed and this star so they stay silent and when they
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stay silent um their um aggressors or these people who are taking advantage of them uh become louder if
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that makes sense the victims are staying silent but the perpetrators are becoming louder um the funny
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thing is yesterday night um stop there before we start our video with our my sheikh inshallah i want
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to give you guys an update the marriage documentary is nearly ready inshallah i will be advising this sister
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in the full clip in my marriage documentary how to suss out somebody who's genuine and not and who is
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who is there to mess around and play around and give you heartache and waste your time also i'll be
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telling you guys how a sister came through a brother that i know which you'll find out in my marriage
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documentary for marriage and i said okay that's really good and guess what happened as i was following
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her and seeing stuff that she likes and you know stuff that she comments on stuff that i found out was
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very grim and very unexpected in my marriage documentary you're going to find out exactly how that happened
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so you will see for yourself the kind of stuff i found out i don't want any of you guys to fall
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into what i did and to find the genuine true partner inshallah brothers and sisters we've got an
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amazing amazing website coming that's going to make your life easy i'm going to help every single one
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of you guys to get married easily to the person you want very soon now let's watch the video brothers
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and sisters you heard that for yourself very clearly the sisters told her side of the story
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um and i briefly do touch up um in that audio clip uh that i got in contact with the brother yeah i got
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in contact with the brother um i found out because the the sister put it on a story i said sister first
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you take it off absolutely because the first thing we need to do is like let's take it off you know
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let's talk let's start here okay good somebody comes with it someone comes with an accusation comes
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with an accusation yes now the sharia has a way of dealing with this there's a mechanism the sharia yeah and
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this is called the qada what does qada mean yeah it literally means judicial law so there's a due
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process that has to happen yeah okay whenever an accusation is made on another person yeah
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yeah literally the plaintiff the complaint and the and the defense and the plaintiff yeah yeah now
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firstly allah says oh you have iman if a fascic and evil rebellious person comes to you
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yeah with something for tabayin you clarify clarify now our position in a court of law is that we cannot
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accept the verse the the the the the accusation of anyone irrespective of who it is yes until we look
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at the and we hear the side at the other side okay okay okay and then obviously there's certain
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mechanisms that we can use such as witnesses or oaths or etc etc some supportive evidences and a
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ruling can be made but the point i want to emphasize here is that it is invalid it is invalid
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for anyone to claim and to make an accusation and for it to be taken of face value like this the fact
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it's a crime to do this and in fact a person who makes a claim upon another person irrespective of what
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it is can be subject of course this within islamic state islamic environment it can be subject to what
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we call ta'zira that is a punishment by that the ruler or the judge okay if a false accusation is made
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and it's not supported with any corroborative evidences okay so that's very interesting because
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this is a very serious matter because in the sharia slander is punishable by lashes you know why
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no normally it's to preserve the ird of someone yes to preserve the honor and that's why the
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sharia came down the sharia came down to protect five things some say six the sixth thing being the
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ird the order of someone yes so there is a mechanism there are placed uh protocols and principles in
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place qawaid in place and to protect this exactly especially with the uh the accusation that was made
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made to aisha and her and you know and allah sent down revelation why didn't the believing man
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assume the best so our default position you're telling us is that firstly we assume the best
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number one and that's the one thing that i tried to tell the sister let's assume the best could have
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been hacked anything could have happened and that's and that's how the first step should be and the
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reason why we're coming to people of knowledge brothers and sisters is because slander is a massive
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thing for me to be honest to do the video on my own i thought to myself because slander is a huge
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thing and it has to be dealt accordingly because people haphazardly yeah i heard this no i saw this
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and they spread this information and you're actually damaging this person's honor you know you mentioned
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something in mtaz ali yeah may allah raise your jannah amen surah al-ahzab surah noor afwan where allah
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has one whole page dedicated to the story of aisha yes it's incumbent upon all the listeners of this
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video to go back and read that and you know you know why it's so important because three years ago i did
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a documentary where i went to france i went to paris yeah okay into this ghettos and actually we
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was threatened with a cameraman a girl committed suicide she threw herself out the window because
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a video was circulating of her committing zina with a man and this rumor was flying about and
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i was saying how could you make this accusation you don't know oh the video what are you talking about
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we've got we live in a technology where it can be photoshopped anything could have happened
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freak me from rock like the judge will look for shubha like you look for doubt is there any doubt of
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course these people by the way you know camera you know some of the ulama were actually of the opinion
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that cctv video footage can't even be admissible in the court yes especially in today's time
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photoshop especially because of this yeah and in fact this was actually i found out with sheikh
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muqbil so back in the day 15 20 years ago he was like you're off this opinion
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we're not for the rahmah of allah and you can see you for example what's inside my heart yeah you'll
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never be friends with me same same exactly this is the mercy of allah you would not sit with me
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and you know abu abdallah tahtani he says in his nunia wallahi law alimu qabiha as-sirirati
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he says wallahi if they only knew the disgusting nature of the of my soul my inner secrets no one
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would even say salam to me they would shy away from me turn away from me and they will never be my
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friends and that's where there's a dua that if someone praises you if someone praises you you say to
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them that you know may allah forgive me for what you do not know about me and may allah make me
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better than what you think of me and it's a beautiful dua that you should keep in mind
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but just moving on yeah now obviously the reason one of the reasons why we're doing this video is
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because yeah at the end day even though we assume the best with his brother we don't believe it was
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him his account was had no problem but the issue is there are brothers out there with these platforms
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that are doing this yeah now us brushing under the carpet takes the responsibility of us yeah absolutely you
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know okay yeah and it just no because these are sisters if they can't turn to other brothers yeah
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okay then who are they going to turn to yeah and this makes them and this issues happened before do
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you get it so now what do you advise those brothers who have these platforms yeah because one of the
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reasons we've done this video is to yeah i'll be honest very but put the fear in their heart and
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should i tell you something for myself as well they should keep me in check that if it's me expose me
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well i'm telling you if if it's me whoever it is you know if if it's been done because i had stories of
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15 sisters came to me about a specific number 15 and yeah and it's it's it's it's a problem and we
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have to and this should keep everybody in check so so what do you advise those brothers we have a
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platform be it nasheed be it dawah be it quran whatever it may be whatever you're doing no you
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gotta give some advice you know maybe they fold short but yeah yeah i mean look number one and you know
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no doubt you've been advised yourself and you've passed a better position than me to advise
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due to your position due to your platform that you have okay okay now the reality is is that
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firstly allah will question you for what allah has given you it's as simple as that every
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that you have is question so this platform that you have number one are you using it
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for good or are you using it for sure are you from the awliya of allah from the friends and
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helpers of allah who help this deen allah says kuna ansar allah be from the helpers of allah
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or are you from the ansar shayateen the hizb of shayateen are you the helpers of shaytan so the
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reality is we have to really question ourselves and see exactly where do we fit in this line
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because it's too very good for free comfort jannah or free for now allah says there will be a party
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in the jannah and a party in the nar it's as simple as that there is no in between okay except for
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ashab al-a'raf and eventually they will go to jannah long discussion anyways the ulama whenever they
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would meet with one another they will advise one another with these words whenever they write to one
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another they will write at the bottom of their letters on their books and stuff these words you
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know what the words were you know what that means whomsoever rectifies his private affairs
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allah rectify his public affairs now whomsoever rectifies that which is with allah allah will
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rectify that which is with the people whomsoever does this and concerns himself with the akhira
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allah will take care of the dunya for him yeah you're right sheikh you know allah you need to ask
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yourself this question bottom sisters allah says that they hide away and they shy away from the
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people but they don't shy away from allah and allah is with them when they spend their nights doing
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things with displease allah yeah so we really have to give this because it's a form of it's a form of
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hypocrisy hypocrisy in our actions and you know subhanallah the worst of the people of course we know from
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the hadith abu huraira radiallahu ta'ala anhu that one of the first person of three people to be
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thrown into the fire the qariq the mujahid the alim the recite of the quran you know the mujahid and
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the and the scholar and these are supposed to be the most blessed of deeds yeah and we can extrapolate
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from this anyone who's a platform to call for good if it means that behind closed doors he's
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doing that which he warns against yes and his his position with allah is very questionable may allah
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may allah protect us yeah and brown sisters in a nutshell and this this happens both ways i have to
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say this this thing it's not just brothers doing this uh yeah it happens both ways yeah and personally
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in my marriage search i've i've witnessed things that have been asked towards me and so let's get
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this right because it's not like a whole monopoly on the men's side absolutely females do this females
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even actually message to trap public figures on purpose and speak in certain ways you know just so
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they can arch up and say ah you see and wallahi this is done it's perfect one is plotting one is
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plotting and the other one the one the man who's doing it maybe he's doing it because of his desires
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which is wrong still allah is still wrong the other one is plotting and planning you know let me take
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him how can i trap him and you're using a man's biggest weakness what is that yes yes sort of the
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woman of uh yeah yeah yeah you're doing better than shaitan subhanallah yeah and that's why brothers
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sisters inshallah and also fear allah imagine this was your sister imagine some other man sending dirty
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pictures to your sister your wife your mother your daughter well now you lose your diploma don't be
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a hypocrite don't do not be a hypocrite you for sure every every one of us are sinners don't think
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of us some perfect beings well anyway we ask allah to protect us you know we ask it's allah's
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protection that we're not doing it don't think of oh the great ali dawa shaykh abu sophia wallahi if
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we ask allah's wanted to protect us and that's it brothers and sisters hope you guys have enjoyed this video
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and to be honest there's nothing to be enjoyed about but i hope it's been a yeah and it's been
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you've learned a lot and you deal with the situation the right way and jump on it you know
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because otherwise you hear something yeah yeah let's no don't go with don't add fuel to the
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fire assume the best inshallah till next time assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh