Ali Dawah - January 27, 2020


FAMOUS EX PORN ACTRESS EXPOSES INDUSTRY

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Ali Dawah
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16 minutes

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166.24

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2,663

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Harmful content

Misogyny

20

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Toxicity

4

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Hate speech

13

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In this episode, we react to the story of an ex-porn actress, who was brought by her parents to the United States from the home country of Albania, went to university in the USA and fell in love with the sex porn industry.

Transcript

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00:00:15.700 pressured into doing something you didn't want to do you were wearing the islamic headscarf 1.00
00:00:20.320 often known as hijab and of course then it developed into a sort of a sex scene 0.87
00:00:27.520 assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh brothers and sisters and dear friends welcome
00:00:36.440 to my channel hope you guys are well inshallah uh today we're going to be reacting to an ex ex
00:00:42.280 porn actress inshallah and uh apparently uh she must be someone really popular to be on bbc uh so
00:00:51.280 we're going to be talking about we're not going to mention her name uh there might be people who
00:00:54.360 are suffering from pornography who's going to go watch although who are not watching going to be
00:00:58.240 curious they can't hold themselves and go watch this disgusting wild thing uh that's destroying
00:01:03.740 people's souls and lives and we did another video about the five dangers of um pornography which you
00:01:08.760 can go watch let's get straight into inshallah and let's hear from her step by step how did 0.60
00:01:16.400 a girl who was brought by her parents the united states from lebanon your home country schooled in
00:01:23.260 the united states clearly smart went to university in texas read history how did you get involved
00:01:29.880 with the sex porn industry i don't think low self-esteem discriminates against anyone doesn't
00:01:36.720 matter if you come from a great family or if you come from a not so great background uh i struggled
00:01:43.340 my entire childhood with weight and i never felt attractive or worthy of male attention
00:01:50.060 brilliant did you guys hear that she was overweight and she uh struggled with getting male attention 1.00
00:02:01.400 these are two things that are society plus pressure on females and women are made to feel more ugly and 1.00
00:02:09.400 uglier and that's why they need to dress a certain way or dress to impress and this is really sad
00:02:15.500 now she is made to feel like she needs male attention because the society everyone suffers sadly our 0.87
00:02:24.680 sisters are today suffering from that as well our sisters were taking off their hijab showing parts 0.97
00:02:28.460 of the hijab you know getting their hair covered but everything below is showing um with same with men you 0.72
00:02:34.860 have to look a certain way etc you know walking around toddlers and she felt the need to have male 1.00
00:02:44.680 attention that was the norm yes you want to get male attention that's what it's about and sadly what
00:02:48.720 this results in is that a lot of people fall into you know zinner and doing certain acts on their
00:02:54.520 boyfriends or someone that they want to be with or supposedly wanting to marry because the fear of losing
00:03:02.260 him i have to do this you know if i don't he'll go and this is a sad reality because it shows that you
00:03:07.260 don't have to walk on and this is what she suffered from and this leads to a bigger problem suddenly my
00:03:15.180 first year of college i start losing all this weight from making small changes and by the time i graduated
00:03:21.320 i was ready to make a bigger difference i felt extremely self-conscious about my breasts because
00:03:27.020 that was the first thing to go when i lost all the weight i lost about 50 pounds i don't know how many
00:03:31.480 kilos that is or stones um well it's a it's a considerable amount of weight yeah it changed
00:03:36.980 you oh yeah changed you physically completely so my biggest insecurity was my breasts so i wanted 1.00
00:03:41.720 to more or less go back to what they normally were and once i did that i started garnering all this
00:03:47.940 attention from men and okay so now what she does is she starts working on her assets um and yeah once 0.99
00:03:58.940 she works on them and i don't know plastic surgery whatever maybe she's talking about then the male
00:04:04.140 attention came yeah then men were attracted to you now uh but the thing a lot of females will understand 1.00
00:04:11.320 is they are going to be attracted to you oh definitely but why are they attracted to you what
00:04:17.360 do they want for you from you you as a person your character what you have to offer more than your body
00:04:23.180 parts or your body parts i was never used to it and i felt like unless i held on to it and kind of
00:04:33.520 did what was asked of me or what was expected of me it would go away and after feeling what it was
00:04:40.100 like that validation and you know the compliments for the first time i did not want that to go away
00:04:46.020 now that's an addiction now you're getting compliments you're getting attention that is
00:04:54.040 making you happy you don't want that to go away now like she said and what did she do to preserve that
00:05:00.920 you were spotted i think on a stream there you were you were a young graduate wanting to sort of find a
00:05:09.220 job and and you were spotted on the street by a guy who said i i i can work with you uh and clearly
00:05:16.100 he opened up and said it's the porn business what was it in you that that far from running away was
00:05:24.580 was drawn into it um i it wasn't that's not how it was it wasn't just hey do you want to come do porn
00:05:30.860 it was more so oh you're beautiful like would you like to do some modeling
00:05:34.660 you see shaytan doesn't really come to you with hey do you want to do pornography or hey do you
00:05:41.220 want to commit shirk yeah you know it's a gradual step and shaytan will take what he wants from you
00:05:48.680 you know if he tries to come to you with shirk you know he'll either work his way up to shirk or he'll
00:05:53.400 start with shirk if not shirk innovation if not innovation major sins can't do major sins i'll get
00:06:00.140 him to do minor sins if not minor sins i'll get him to do the lesser of two good deeds if not i'll
00:06:05.400 keep him busy with things that are permissible etc and this is how shaytan comes to you and with her
00:06:10.640 what did it come to you did it come to say pornography she's gonna go uh no 0.81
00:06:13.940 you know you have a great body like i think you'd be great in nude modeling uh things like that and 0.86
00:06:23.260 after i came in toward the studio you know it was very respectable it was a gorgeous location it was
00:06:28.880 uh in miami in doral florida um it was clean everyone who worked there was nice all of their
00:06:36.040 cubicles were decorated with family photos like it was nothing dodgy or that made just so you feel
00:06:43.020 at home uncomfortable and after do like it the first time i went in wasn't the first time i i filmed a
00:06:50.840 porn movie um it was the second time uh the first time was more so do you want to do this like sign
00:06:59.960 the paperwork etc etc so these guys they just this is why it's so important you know with these kind
00:07:09.080 of things to have a male guardian now you guys are thinking oh are you saying that we women you know
00:07:14.580 we can't make our own decisions etc i'm not saying that because there's a lot of women in the chains 1.00
00:07:22.660 of hadith maybe 120 who narrate hadith and in a lot of different things in in in our religion in all
00:07:31.000 kinds of fields but certain things you see the male is there as your protector as a man your husband
00:07:39.080 or be it your father or your brother because these are people that care about you these people don't
00:07:42.740 know what harm but sadly the feministic movement has made it seem like we're independent and we can
00:07:48.200 do it and yes that's why it's fundamental brothers and sisters that even when getting to know somebody
00:07:56.940 a wali is fundamental you know if you don't have that in your life you can be easily persuaded
00:08:03.320 to a lot of stuff you know as a money machine absolutely but you still had no advisors you had
00:08:11.500 no lawyer you had no nothing so i was what 21 year old has a lawyer on retainer
00:08:16.160 i'm just trying to get my head around how stressful this must have been and whether even now because
00:08:25.660 you sit here so poised and obviously a lot of time has passed and you've moved on but do you think
00:08:30.600 there is some sort of post-traumatic stress that is in you from this experience yes and uh i think it
00:08:38.820 kicks in mostly when i go out in public because the stares i get i feel like people can see through
00:08:45.360 my clothes and it brings me wow wow wow when she's out in public she she feels like people can see 0.92
00:08:57.820 through her yeah and because she's out there and now she's going to live the rest of her life
00:09:04.880 people knowing what she was doing her marital relationship marrying somebody knowing that your
00:09:13.440 wife was doing all these things with god knows how many men and how they were violating her be it god 1.00
00:09:21.020 knows what and that could be very disturbing to a man very very disturbing to a man and she's going
00:09:29.600 to live the rest of her life like that and she admits that
00:09:32.080 and it brings me deep shame it makes me feel like it makes me feel like uh i lost all right to my privacy
00:09:43.260 which i did because i'm one google search away yeah and those images you cannot expunge you have no
00:09:52.160 right even though it is deeply personal to you you have no right to to remove them from anybody's view
00:09:58.940 around the world in a nutshell if you think about it she got groomed that's she just she got groomed
00:10:04.380 she got used and abused and she's groomed that she has no rights to them 1.00
00:10:09.340 yeah it is very hard and i'm just thinking this isn't i mean the story is your story but
00:10:18.660 frankly it's also the story of other porn actors and actresses i honestly started seeing that recently
00:10:27.280 after the interview came out and people started reaching out and uh all of the emails go my manager
00:10:33.420 checks them and when he gets stuff like that he filters them and sends them to me and reading
00:10:39.600 the words of some of these girls who have been sex trafficked and forced into porn and all of these
00:10:45.300 stories of girls whose lives have been ruined by it and by men who have taken advantage of them and by
00:10:50.800 contracts that they didn't even didn't even understand the jargon of it it makes me feel like
00:10:56.760 okay maybe maybe it was good that i started talking and that i posted this interview and that i'm
00:11:02.260 speaking out now because other people feel the same way and even if they don't relate on
00:11:08.600 as deep a level as you know doing porn they can relate on the level of being insecure and being
00:11:15.360 pressured into doing something they didn't want to do you were wearing the islamic headscarf 1.00
00:11:20.000 often known as hijab and of course then it developed into a sex scene wow you must have known how provocative 0.94
00:11:31.460 that was wow they got her to dress up as a hijabi 1.00
00:11:37.280 i guess it's a new fetish verbatim told them you guys are gonna get me killed 0.98
00:11:45.740 and they said they just laughed because they don't give a damn about you because they don't care about you 0.98
00:11:56.000 you are nothing but a money-making tool
00:11:58.200 sadly
00:12:00.700 why didn't you then say i'm not doing it
00:12:06.480 intimidation i was scared
00:12:08.700 i i knew that if i said no
00:12:12.320 the certain you know feminist you know she's like you know somebody who's a career woman 1.00
00:12:18.060 who goes out there and you know gets it and you know oh for god's sake i don't know what to say
00:12:24.140 i do not know what to say man
00:12:25.740 what we've made society what we've made females degraded them to such a level unbelievable 1.00
00:12:32.840 and then the corner you know the the the in light you know the western um values
00:12:39.300 unbelievable and this thing is okay this is uh it's promised it's okay you know it's all right
00:12:45.140 no problem
00:12:45.920 it would it would you know they're not you can they're not going to force you to do it 0.83
00:12:50.960 that's that point that's rape no one's going to force you to have sex um but i was still scared i
00:12:57.880 mean i have you ever felt scared to not scared but nervous to speak up and say something at a
00:13:05.840 restaurant when your food's not right and the waiter comes by and says how is everything
00:13:08.880 i i was intimidated i was nervous we interview a lot of people and many of them are middle-aged
00:13:13.960 or older it's great to have somebody in the studio is only 26 years old there is a a school
00:13:18.760 of thought which says that that our culture as a whole i'm not just talking about the united
00:13:23.480 states or the uk but many many countries is being pornified and that young people in particular are
00:13:29.000 so exposed to pornography so young in their lives that it's it's materially changing the way males and
00:13:36.380 females relate to each other the way they think about relationships in a potentially very corrosive 1.00
00:13:42.720 damaging way exactly women are seen as nothing but excuse my language she's just some kind of a 1.00
00:13:51.440 example that i'm just going to use for my sexual desires subconsciously on a subconscious level
00:13:57.180 a lot of men think like that a lot of men look at their partners as somebody that's just an animal
00:14:05.820 you're just an animal that is there for my desires that i'm going to use i'm going to treat you on as
00:14:10.680 well you know even in intimacy certain words phrases hits abuse is being used why because that's what
00:14:19.920 they're watching and that's what they want to do because just watching is not enough what's your
00:14:25.240 take on that of course it affects relationships and porn addiction is very prevalent in america and
00:14:31.840 i'm sure here too uh the things that men see in videos they expect from the women in their lives and
00:14:38.540 that's just not reality no one is going to be that perfect no one is going to do those acts on
00:14:45.700 a wednesday night with the person they love
00:14:47.840 guys what else can be said from somebody that's been in this viral disgusting industry and have seen it for
00:14:57.160 their self i don't know what else i can say absolutely disgusting soul violating life destroying 0.83
00:15:05.960 and people the thousands are addicted to this and you can see that how it's destroying your lives and
00:15:14.640 we've discussed this in another video five dangers of pornography guys you heard it for yourself i had to
00:15:21.180 blur her face um just in case it could be fitna to brothers watching etc and that's what i'm going to say
00:15:29.440 there's nothing else i can really say it's it's it's it's so sad it's so sad i don't know what to say
00:15:37.880 i hope you guys have listened and heard please stay away from this vile disgusting disease ask allah 1.00
00:15:46.420 subhanahu wa ta'ala from help take measures gradual steps and processes and stay away from it because
00:15:52.460 this is going to violate your soul pornography is a vile thing and it will destroy your soul till next time
00:15:59.060 assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh