Ali Dawah - FOUSEYTUBE NEEDS TO FEAR ALLAH ABOUT HIS FAMILY

00:00:00.000 But now I'm 34, so I'm living my own life, so Baba, this is the last you're ever gonna see me, I live in Australia now.

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00:00:24.580 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.

00:00:27.220 I came across it with this video, and obviously I don't like to speak about, you know, I don't want to get into that individual,

00:00:32.160 especially Fuzzy Troop, I spoke to him a long time ago, giving him Naseer, etc.

00:00:35.300 But I'll be honest with you, I came to the point where I'm literally getting irritated, really, really upset,

00:00:39.520 because I just believe, and look, I know he has his ups and downs, etc., but I have to be real with him, man.

00:00:43.180 I'm sorry, man. Look, I care about you also, brother. Okay, you're a Muslim, yeah?

00:00:47.720 I need to keep it straight and to the point. Well, Allah, I'll be honest with you, yeah?

00:00:50.080 Brother, if you're watching this, look, I'm not having a good idea. You've got all the yes-men around you.

00:00:53.060 You've got people who don't give a damn about you, okay?

00:00:54.580 Hey, all right, listen to me, bro. You are disowning your family. Here's a video clip of him disowning his family. 0.77

00:00:58.220 There's clarification, which I saw, thank God, before I done this video, where he said that he did that for a reason.

00:01:02.320 We'll come to that. But the point is the following, bro.

00:01:04.180 To hear your dad on the phone, upset, and saying he loves you, and do not leave us, that's not acceptable, bro.

00:01:08.820 I don't give a damn. And then you are there. Let's just watch the video, for God's sake. I'm just a bit frustrated.

00:01:12.800 Here's a video of Fuzzy Troop disowning his family.

00:01:15.120 Wallah, this is a major sin.

00:01:16.200 Uqsu, blah, this is a major sin. And then after that, what you do is also a major sin. 0.99

00:01:19.120 But we're going to come to, inshallah, a few things. Let's watch it for ourselves.

00:01:22.240 I know, Bob. I'm just calling to tell you, you guys are never going to see me again.

00:01:26.420 Baba, last year, when I crashed out and I was in the hospital, instead of checking on me,

00:01:32.120 Mohammed texted me to say, Yusuf, just to let you know, me and Mama are disowning you as family members. 0.92

00:01:38.720 You are on your own.

00:01:40.300 Every time I've messed up, Baba, Mohammed and Mama cussed me out and let me realize it.

00:01:45.900 Any time I would do a Hollywood red carpet, $100 million contract, anything successful,

00:01:51.580 they didn't open their mouth and I begged them, I no longer need you guys in my life.

00:01:56.020 I'm a Muslim. You guys put me on this earth, Baba, but now I'm 34, so I'm living my own life.

00:02:01.840 So, Baba, this is the last you're ever going to see me. I live in Australia now.

00:02:06.520 The house in San Diego, I'm still paying for.

00:02:09.280 I need you to drop off Muffin to Los Angeles.

00:02:11.900 I'm giving away my dog, Muffin, to her babysitter.

00:02:15.140 You guys lost me, Baba. I'm living my own life now.

00:02:22.820 No, Baba. No.

00:02:25.900 Well, you have to look without me now, Baba.

00:02:28.540 Mama and Mohammed, Baba.

00:02:30.220 Mohammed didn't. Mohammed, last year, when I was suicidal on your... 0.95

00:02:34.180 So, you heard that for yourself.

00:02:35.600 I mean, number one, to call your family members and say you're disowning them.

00:02:38.180 You have no right to disown anybody.

00:02:39.380 You have no right to disown anybody.

00:02:40.540 Read the book, Al-Adab al-Mufrad, by Imam Bukhari, when it comes to the etiquettes of being your father.

00:02:44.800 You should not call your father by his name.

00:02:46.500 Not that I'm saying you are.

00:02:47.180 I'm just saying a few things.

00:02:48.600 You should not walk in front of your dad, okay?

00:02:50.000 You don't call him by his name.

00:02:51.040 You have utmost respect for him.

00:02:52.320 Scholars said it so much so that, bro, the money that you own, he owns, yeah?

00:02:56.040 So much so, your parents.

00:02:57.780 Allah says in the Quran that after you worship Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,

00:03:00.260 that you are obedient to your parents.

00:03:01.460 Let me tell you something, Fuzi, yeah?

00:03:02.580 You will never, ever find happiness in disobedience to your parents.

00:03:05.540 Ever.

00:03:05.800 I'm telling you, bro, even if you're someone that prays salah, if you are someone that oppresses his family members,

00:03:10.720 directly or indirectly, I don't care how it is, and your family are on edge with you,

00:03:14.020 you will never find happiness.

00:03:15.220 Fuzi, your solution is Islam. 1.00

00:03:17.280 The effort that you give to your bodybuilding and make your body look amazing, whatever it is,

00:03:20.120 give that effort to Islam.

00:03:20.920 Give 20% of that effort to Islam. 0.99

00:03:22.980 Obedience to Allah. 0.51

00:03:23.800 You will find change in your life.

00:03:24.980 Allah's promise is true.

00:03:26.660 Only in his remembrance do your hearts find peace.

00:03:29.080 If you forget his remembrance, you will have a depressed life.

00:03:31.800 This is haqq.

00:03:33.000 I've lived to see it.

00:03:34.120 I've put it to the test and I've lived to see it.

00:03:36.080 I've been a Muslim for 11 years and it is the truth.

00:03:39.080 True contentment comes with that.

00:03:40.540 I live the lifestyle maybe not as lavish as yours or whatever.

00:03:43.760 Nothing brought me happiness and it never would.

00:03:46.200 And I would think to myself as a 35-year-old man,

00:03:48.440 if I was to live that same lifestyle of clubbing, partying, girls, this stuff, 0.79

00:03:50.940 I would hang myself today. 0.95

00:03:52.000 I would say, is this the life? 0.99

00:03:52.900 Is this what I need to do? 1.00

00:03:53.740 Perpetual cycle of like a moron. 1.00

00:03:55.540 35, you are 34-year-old, you're a 34, 35-year-old man, yeah? 1.00

00:03:58.580 You're saying, I'm going to live my life.

00:03:59.720 You've been living your life all this time, bro.

00:04:01.360 Why are you acting like your family's been stopping you?

00:04:03.220 Your family's been stopping you doing what, bro?

00:04:04.580 You have been living your life.

00:04:05.660 So I don't know what you're saying about, oh, I'm going to live my life.

00:04:07.660 You have been doing this.

00:04:08.660 And then you're ordering your dad to go and drop your,

00:04:10.580 some puppy, whatever the hell it is for that matter.

00:04:12.380 Oh, drop him. 0.76

00:04:13.020 Your dad should be telling you what to do.

00:04:14.260 Not you telling your dad what to do.

00:04:15.700 The dynamics is very dangerous.

00:04:17.660 The dynamics is very dangerous.

00:04:18.600 You should be giving utmost respect to your father.

00:04:19.980 And I'm not saying you're a disrespectful person to your dad, etc.

00:04:23.220 But you have no damn right to come and tell him, 0.89

00:04:25.460 I disown you. 0.97

00:04:26.180 I'm going to be paying for this.

00:04:27.180 Take my dog. 0.92

00:04:28.060 Who are you to order your dad?

00:04:29.460 Wallahi, we have forgotten.

00:04:30.380 We are out of our minds.

00:04:31.560 The Prophet ﷺ said,

00:04:32.520 Wallahi, they have reached an old age.

00:04:33.680 You should be looking after them. 0.89

00:04:34.700 May his face be rubbed in dust. 0.83

00:04:36.640 May his face be rubbed in dust.

00:04:38.000 And the Prophet ﷺ repeated the statement three times.

00:04:40.160 It shows it.

00:04:40.560 Some scholars will say,

00:04:41.400 it shows it's going to be a major sin. 0.99

00:04:42.760 May his face be rubbed in dust. 0.94

00:04:44.200 They said,

00:04:44.500 For the one whose parents reach old age

00:04:47.580 and he does not care for them.

00:04:49.200 And you are there, distressing them.

00:04:50.600 He's on the phone saying,

00:04:51.460 I can't live without you.

00:04:52.620 And he's saying, you have to.

00:04:54.460 Wallahi, wallahi.

00:04:55.360 Let me tell you something.

00:04:56.140 Dhulm, this is oppression. 0.94

00:04:57.680 Shame on you.

00:04:58.640 Grow up.

00:04:59.360 You're a 34-year-old man.

00:05:01.020 You should be serving them.

00:05:02.160 You should be having kids.

00:05:02.860 You should be serving them.

00:05:03.560 Not going around doing videos,

00:05:05.580 this, that, etc.

00:05:06.220 Bro, come on, man.

00:05:06.680 How old are you, man?

00:05:07.180 You're 34-year-old.

00:05:07.920 Act your age, man. 0.58

00:05:08.800 Act your age.

00:05:09.360 I'm going to tell you as it is, man.

00:05:10.420 And that's because I care about you.

00:05:11.480 Okay, you might not like this.

00:05:12.680 Oh, I don't care, bro.

00:05:14.020 Grow up, man.

00:05:14.500 You're a 34-year-old man.

00:05:15.880 What are you doing?

00:05:16.700 And then in this other video,

00:05:17.740 let's see for ourselves.

00:05:18.340 He's now giving clarification.

00:05:19.280 Oh, this is what I made in my life.

00:05:20.260 I don't get it.

00:05:20.960 I'm a bit confused.

00:05:22.560 Yo, you know how I disowned my family the other day?

00:05:25.460 Well, I just flew.

00:05:26.760 I drove all the way to San Diego

00:05:28.640 to look at them in the eyes

00:05:30.140 to show them that their son's not crazy.

00:05:32.420 And then I told them every single thing they did

00:05:34.600 since I was a child.

00:05:35.900 That hurt me.

00:05:37.180 And then I told them how much I love them

00:05:39.600 and need them in my life

00:05:40.900 and said, I don't want you to just be parents.

00:05:43.380 I need you to be my best friend for once.

00:05:45.800 And they said, of course.

00:05:48.000 Of course, yeah.

00:05:50.240 The only reason I publicly did what I did

00:05:52.620 on the phone with my dad is to protect them.

00:05:55.000 I had fake allegations against me.

00:05:57.520 My sister is a prominent figure in this world.

00:06:00.140 My brother's a very reputable surgeon.

00:06:02.480 My other brother's a pediatrician.

00:06:04.080 My parents, they're retired.

00:06:06.720 If I had the real allegations against me,

00:06:10.840 of course I'm going to disown them.

00:06:12.340 Why?

00:06:12.980 So that my name and my problems

00:06:15.220 don't bring them down.

00:06:17.080 I'm an harakat.

00:06:18.600 We respect that name.

00:06:20.140 I love you, Baba.

00:06:20.820 I love you too.

00:06:21.680 Look, I'm happy that we are with your father.

00:06:24.200 But what games are you playing, bro, man?

00:06:26.020 I don't understand you, man.

00:06:26.800 What games are you playing, man?

00:06:27.720 What is this about, bro?

00:06:28.700 One minute you're disowning them.

00:06:29.760 Next minute.

00:06:30.000 What games are you playing, man?

00:06:31.380 Like seriously, man.

00:06:32.040 What on earth is going on?

00:06:33.060 There's another video.

00:06:34.000 He mentioned that his dad always told him,

00:06:36.860 you know, like how much money do you make

00:06:38.360 or something like that.

00:06:39.220 I mean, if that was a relationship,

00:06:40.340 I mean, I'm just going to speak generic.

00:06:42.000 I don't want to be disrespectful to anybody, yeah?

00:06:43.520 But as parents, if we teach our kids successes

00:06:46.100 and he talks about, oh, oh, success.

00:06:48.500 When my most success time, you guys were there.

00:06:50.200 You think having 100 million dollar contracts

00:06:51.780 and this is success.

00:06:52.740 Bro, this is not success, bro.

00:06:53.800 We don't measure success based on that.

00:06:54.960 If success is that,

00:06:55.900 then Pharaoh was the successful.

00:06:57.380 Allah loved Pharaoh.

00:06:58.020 No, he didn't.

00:06:58.600 It's not about money or whatever, bro.

00:07:00.020 Success is not based on that.

00:07:01.460 Your compass of success is flawed.

00:07:03.820 Your measure, your yardstick is flawed.

00:07:05.460 I mean, what can I say?

00:07:08.140 As parents, we need to teach our children

00:07:09.880 what true success is.

00:07:11.100 Quran, Islam, your religion,

00:07:13.260 sticking by the truth, justice, salah,

00:07:16.180 doing righteous deeds.

00:07:17.320 This is success.

00:07:19.000 This is what should be chasing.

00:07:20.500 If we get our kids and teach them about money, success,

00:07:23.520 what profession you are, this stuff,

00:07:25.140 their measurement's going to be that.

00:07:26.420 And what do you expect them to do?

00:07:27.800 You are building a generation of failure.

00:07:30.220 Success dynamics is what?

00:07:31.180 How much you earn.

00:07:31.600 And that's why the reason why

00:07:32.440 we've got our sisters,

00:07:33.980 mashallah, tabarakallah,

00:07:35.100 growing up.

00:07:35.820 I want a guy who's going to give me

00:07:36.600 50,000 pound mahr.

00:07:37.420 What are you, made out of gold, bruv? 0.93

00:07:38.640 What are you, some dusty woman 1.00

00:07:40.460 who doesn't even pray salah, 0.98

00:07:41.380 don't do nothing,

00:07:42.080 and you want 50 gram mahr.

00:07:43.160 For you, who's going to pay?

00:07:44.200 I won't pay you 50p, bro.

00:07:45.240 50 pence I won't give you.

00:07:46.460 What is the value you're bringing?

00:07:48.020 And then you've got men,

00:07:49.280 brothers, mashallah,

00:07:50.180 even better,

00:07:51.300 sleeping around,

00:07:52.620 drugs, everything.

00:07:53.880 Yes, brother, mashallah,

00:07:54.860 I'm going to give my daughter to you.

00:07:55.960 Brother, I won't give you toenail.

00:07:57.460 Yeah?

00:07:57.840 So, this is the generation we're building.

00:08:00.360 Wrong goals.

00:08:01.840 Wrong goals.

00:08:02.640 What can I say?

00:08:03.560 May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 1.00

00:08:04.360 allow him to serve his parents

00:08:05.920 the way they deserve to be.

00:08:06.860 And may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 1.00

00:08:07.760 make us parents

00:08:08.640 who bring a new generation

00:08:10.200 that will serve the deen of Allah. 0.95

00:08:11.620 Make Allah's kalam the highest. 1.00

00:08:13.080 Not, what do I drive?

00:08:14.600 What do I wear?

00:08:15.300 How many times do I go on holiday?

00:08:16.940 Let me measure how good my wife is 1.00

00:08:19.680 based on this or that.

00:08:21.760 Or let me,

00:08:22.740 what is wrong with you, man?

00:08:24.560 Where's the measurement of, you know,

00:08:25.800 Quran, salah,

00:08:26.520 relation of Allah?

00:08:27.820 Where's those measures?

00:08:28.680 They are left.

00:08:29.360 Even family members are doing this.

00:08:30.920 They've left it now.

00:08:31.620 The measurement is not based on,

00:08:32.900 let's see, you know,

00:08:33.300 what's he doing for my daughter

00:08:34.220 or for my son?

00:08:35.560 What's it?

00:08:36.180 It's all based on metrics of materialism.

00:08:39.620 What can you say?

00:08:40.460 That's all I have to say,

00:08:41.020 brothers and sisters.

00:08:41.880 As-salamu alaykum,

00:08:42.880 wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

00:08:44.480 The Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said,

00:08:46.340 whoever builds a masjid 0.85

00:08:47.520 for the sake of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,

00:08:49.280 Allah will build for him 1.00

00:08:50.820 a similar house in Jannah.

00:08:53.080 On that day

00:08:53.780 where Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.58

00:08:54.700 tells us

00:08:55.420 that our books will be given

00:08:56.600 and every little atom weight

00:08:58.940 of good deed you've done

00:08:59.780 will be there.

00:09:00.860 And imagine you see a mountain

00:09:02.620 and you're like,

00:09:03.540 what a lucky person.

00:09:04.800 Which righteous person?

00:09:06.840 And Allah says,

00:09:07.440 this is for you.

00:09:08.460 For me?

00:09:09.180 Yes.

00:09:09.840 What did I do?

00:09:11.200 You allowed people to pray.

00:09:12.920 You built a masjid.

00:09:13.960 I never had the money

00:09:14.520 to build a masjid, oh Allah. 0.88

00:09:15.960 You helped.

00:09:17.000 You gave towards it

00:09:17.980 and Allah gives you the reward

00:09:19.120 of as if you've built it.

00:09:20.760 Donate now, guys,

00:09:21.780 and do not delay

00:09:22.560 and share the video

00:09:23.780 for extra rewards.

00:09:24.700 and do not delay Nath.

00:09:30.740 Bye.

00:09:31.320 Bungu. 0.85

00:09:31.840 Tenerife.

00:09:32.160 Bungu. 0.85

Ali Dawah - November 13, 2024

FOUSEYTUBE NEEDS TO FEAR ALLAH ABOUT HIS FAMILY

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