Ali Dawah - HER MOUTH WILL DROP OF SHAME

00:00:00.000 if a man calls his wife to bed and she refuses and he goes to sleep angry with her the angels

00:00:05.920 curse her until morning this is disgusting this is a statement of fuffer i'm telling you sister

00:00:12.880 my dear sister this is what we mean wallahi my dear sister

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00:00:46.160 that you read it wherever you was assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh brothers and sisters

00:00:50.960 and dear friends hope you guys are well inshaAllah welcome to this reaction video so this was a video

00:00:54.100 shaykh that i saw by the way guys let's introduce shaykh hasim assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

00:00:58.900 you know sometimes i get into my videos so intensely i'm so passionate one brother goes you know

00:01:03.340 brother last video you didn't introduce the shaykh i was like yeah i totally forgot but i don't need to

00:01:07.720 you know what because shaykh the angels know you that's why alhamdulillah so brothers and sisters

00:01:11.420 we're here with shaykh hasim we're gonna be reacting to a video of this sister when i watched this i got

00:01:16.440 i got really upset i got really angry but why ali why i got angry for the sake of allah

00:01:22.500 nothing to do with her but you know i was thinking how do i go about this should i be ruthless

00:01:25.300 or should i be and there was a video that i saw of hers where she's like oh you know i know there's

00:01:29.620 something upset with me but instead of this come with mercy i thought you know what i'm gonna tone

00:01:34.680 it down a bit i'm gonna try to be as reasonable as i can but i'm also going to show her through her

00:01:39.220 video that disproves herself we're gonna come to inshaAllah so here's this video where this sister

00:01:44.000 is venting out i've been looking at because usually when i speak about someone i go to the

00:01:47.680 tiktok and try to understand the psychology where they're coming from so there are certain things

00:01:50.800 with the sister for example one thing that i saw was this post in this post she says just a south

00:01:57.060 asian breaking general generational generational curses taboos and feeling uh and through it

00:02:05.420 all feeling through it all this path isn't for everyone this is a proof you can come out of the other

00:02:10.160 side etc so you see when she said generational curse this is a typical if i'm not mistaken she's

00:02:15.760 bengali she looks bengali yeah by the way well she says she's south asian no problem i'm just saying

00:02:21.680 she looks bengalish in pakistan whatever the point is this sometimes with those communities it happens

00:02:26.760 yes the way they use culture over islam no it happens so it seems like there's a trauma from there

00:02:33.060 so i'm going to assume the best by saying she comes from a trauma from that post here's the video

00:02:37.220 she done and she made islam look like an absolute misogynistic woman hating woman bashing

00:02:44.500 yeah absolutely like as if the woman like like basically what pre-islam how women were valued she

00:02:50.400 made it seem as if that was islam yeah here's a video and let's see what is her intent and talk

00:02:55.540 about the difference between yes pre-islam and islam oh yes we're going we're going to see if islam

00:03:00.980 is against women or for women we're going to see let's let's see for ourselves here's a video

00:03:05.700 why can't women lead prayer why are women told to hide but men can roam freely okay one second so

00:03:12.660 firstly let's just stop there because this is going to be a long video guys stick through inshallah

00:03:15.340 why can look the first premise is this why can men need prayer no why can't women lead prayer

00:03:22.500 no problem firstly woman can lead other women but why can't a woman lead prayer okay look look let's

00:03:29.380 do one thing do you know the position of a woman when she's leading other women where does she stand

00:03:35.860 no she stands in line with them in the middle yeah she doesn't go and do imam in front of them yes

00:03:42.180 yes you know in in our shara al hanif in our jurisprudence there is the line yeah she stands in the middle

00:03:50.980 yeah and they pray in one line yeah she doesn't even with women she doesn't even now now let's see

00:03:57.940 this a woman is leading man in prayer yeah you understand what i mean so that means that other women

00:04:04.740 should be in line with man okay and let's imagine she goes into ruku yeah and her menses come

00:04:14.340 yeah that means she can't pray well she can't pray but but then again menses we're talking about blood

00:04:20.580 yeah what about if her menses are heavy and the blood ends up on the carpet and all over the masjid and

00:04:26.340 that yeah that's exactly that's one point is one not only that and what she's gonna do when she's

00:04:31.780 pregnant heavily pregnant no no exactly these are the points we're going to come to later which

00:04:36.420 with the premise i want to ask is this why is it that you your criteria of success is a man why does

00:04:43.220 feminism have to say my target and my aim is to be a uh to be like a man to be a man not only be a man

00:04:51.140 why do you want to be like a man why is it that you want to be like a man why cannot be yourself you

00:04:55.140 came to say this is why it's very important and she's talking about oh why can't they lead why not

00:04:59.140 for example why is a lead a a privilege but not a responsibility yes why isn't that leadership is

00:05:03.940 a responsibility that you will be accountable for rather than a perk why does leadership leadership

00:05:10.340 let me tell you something yeah leadership look i have this certain projects that i lead it is not

00:05:14.820 easy dealing with people it's so hard you've got so much on your shoulders sometimes i'm like i wish i

00:05:19.540 could i don't lead this somebody else these man well i just got i do editing because it's such a big

00:05:23.940 manner but let's carry on inshallah another thing she said about oh men can roam free yeah i'll cover up

00:05:28.740 up sorry as a muslim man my dear sister i have to cover from my navel to my knee when i go swimming

00:05:33.940 when i go out my family or swimming whatever it is i cover up i don't find the bottom so long

00:05:40.340 i wear a shirt i have a speedo wearing a speedo or something exactly so i wear something that covers

00:05:45.380 my top so this thing of only women have to cover up and men don't is absolutely nonsense i can't wear

00:05:50.980 tight leggings tight tight jeans or tight clothes i'm not allowed to you know so but anyways

00:05:55.860 i will lower our gaze yes there is why are women still getting shamed by these imams and scholars

00:06:04.180 because we're simply existing why does men have to be and why do men always let me tell you something i

00:06:10.500 have done more videos and many but we have advised many youtubers many brothers in the youtube scene

00:06:16.260 we have advised and given a seer go and look at my content you see me specifically targeting sisters

00:06:21.620 i give nasir to both genders and i take both accountable accountable for so i don't know what

00:06:26.340 you mean by it's always always i mean it seems like she's projecting stuff as if she's gone through

00:06:31.860 something specific and she thinks everybody's like that i don't know where she gets that from

00:06:36.740 why does a man have to be involved in every single speck of our life i hope you guys enjoyed the video

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00:07:10.340 another thing she says why are men involved in every speck of our life because you guys are vulnerable

00:07:15.780 when you are pregnant you have to be protected this entire world the roads that you drive on

00:07:21.140 the buildings all this who who built it men built it does this mean we built it so we can just enjoy

00:07:27.220 it no we built it so our wives the woman folk can use it as well so when you talk like this as if

00:07:33.860 they're in control in control of what you when you walk down the road at night time what does your

00:07:38.260 mom or father's tell you don't go out at night why would my father or my mother say that to me

00:07:43.220 i have i'm a man i can be involved in whatever it is for that matter i can defend myself you as a

00:07:49.220 woman you are vulnerable so when you come and say in islam why is it always involved because islam is

00:07:54.820 looking for your greater good let me tell you why go to the western system to the western world you've

00:07:59.860 got women who are out there in the dating world and guess what's happening they are being used and abused

00:08:05.780 like it's happy days they've been used and abused by men why because he's giving them false promises

00:08:10.420 getting what he wants treats him like a toilet and says i'm bored of you bye-bye and guess what who

00:08:15.460 will take that man to account another man another man will come and say hold on a second that's why

00:08:20.020 islam has come to protect you my sister that you are so against your father your brother why because

00:08:26.100 a man knows a man we're not emotional creatures we're logical women are bound to be emotional they have

00:08:31.220 their strengths they have their weaknesses as a man i have those i've got three daughters i have a wife

00:08:35.460 i've got a mother i know how my daughters my wife and my mother can be they're emotional and it is

00:08:40.900 absolutely normal it's in their nature to be like that so the feminine is a flow and they need something

00:08:45.780 that is certain like a man to lead you know so i don't find why she's complaining about it oh it's

00:08:50.900 controlling it's controlling your life allah has given the man to protect and serve you uh brother

00:08:56.420 ali subhanallah look at one thing allah subhanahu wa ta'ala created the woman yeah and he knows it's

00:09:04.900 her nature yeah that's it's his own creation yes why isn't talaq in the hand of women because my wife

00:09:12.820 will divorce me uh 75 times a day 100 times a day exactly why not because she means you wake up you

00:09:19.140 wake up i mean i'm getting divorced while i'm sleeping yeah yeah so why ali because it shows

00:09:26.660 that allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and you know what's very interesting even the talaq being in our hand

00:09:30.980 is a responsibility because in jahiliya before islam the men used to give divorce and take her back

00:09:37.620 give divorce take her back as he pleased messing around with it and how many how many women

00:09:41.860 says that allah legislated it to three so it's a check for a man in the sense where if you give the

00:09:48.420 first talaq she has to go and marry another man be intimate then come and now for a man that's a

00:09:54.820 big uh yeah so what does that mean it's actually there the talaqs are there to keep the man in check

00:10:01.380 exactly and if he gives the woman and protect the woman from an abuser man exactly and not only

00:10:07.300 that if he gives the first talaq it's and he can't come and say oh you can't move on it's

00:10:10.980 oh shut up my friend islam says she's moving on and you can do nothing about it absolutely

00:10:15.540 i'm going to come and say why is allah how could all like she said the audacity in the video i'm

00:10:20.660 going to say the audacity you know that's very dangerous because because audacity who said the

00:10:27.140 hadith the prophet and she said how how can he have the audacity about the prophet it's like me

00:10:34.420 going to the measure of allah he's saying hadith and i go how dare you say the hadith yeah

00:10:38.100 and i'm not saying you're a kafir i'm saying the statement the statement let's carry on and if

00:10:45.140 you're going to give me the excuse of always to protect you then why are many women essayed by

00:10:50.100 their close family members so just because woman there's been a sexual assault yes by their close

00:10:55.780 family members depends what you mean by close family members okay your mahram is who your father

00:11:00.660 your brother your uncle your granddad do you understand so generally it's not but if you're

00:11:04.980 talking about that even certain stuff the the um insists she's talking about insists yeah or abuse

00:11:11.060 etc depends what you're talking about you can't come and paint everyone the same again show me what

00:11:16.900 is wrong with islam dictating a man to be your full time forget your culture i'm not talking about your

00:11:23.300 culture please i'm talking about islam put your culture to a side i'm talking about islam don't mix

00:11:27.860 your culture with islam so for that matter but let's carry on inshallah the truth is uncomfortable not

00:11:34.340 islam itself but the way patriarchy has seeped in and wrapped itself around religion that we can't

00:11:41.860 even tell the difference anymore and if you question as a woman you're possessed the devil's gone to you

00:11:47.540 so she talks about if your question so she talks about a person experiencing another video she went

00:11:51.380 to an imam etc she asked some questions and the imam said you're possessed you've got shaitan in you

00:11:56.260 okay he's wrong he's wrong what kind of answer is that you've got shaitan in you

00:11:59.700 but why are you labeling everyone look look you know she reminds me of the you know the famous

00:12:05.940 hadith in sahih al-bukhari of the man that killed 99 yes he went to this to this to this to this

00:12:14.180 cleric who was in in some kind of monastery and he was all he does he he knows nothing yeah all he

00:12:22.100 knows is worship yes when he asked him he said to him that you have no toba so he killed him yeah but

00:12:28.340 when he went to the scholar yes the scholar advised him so it's not that you went to an imam

00:12:34.660 there are some people who are imams and all they know is salah and relates to salah but you ask them

00:12:41.460 a question out of the realm of their knowledge they will not know how to answer yes so absolutely

00:12:48.580 when you want to seek something yeah seek it from the proper channels through the proper channel and

00:12:53.940 don't label everyone the same it's the same let me tell you something i've the stuff that you're

00:12:57.940 going to bring up now about hadith we've done videos on this we will answer it with with ease

00:13:02.180 with happiness but don't blame label everyone the same you need to go and pray god forbid a woman

00:13:08.740 has her own brain and question things that just don't seem right these are some of my favorite

00:13:13.940 hadith i'm going to share it with you and you tell me if it fits right with you okay interesting

00:13:18.340 these are some of my hadith and now she's going to ask does this sit right with you meaning uh but

00:13:23.700 she's saying women how dare women question subhanallah women subhanallah look the prophet

00:13:33.860 his wife yeah wives yeah they questioned something and then subhanallah these the mothers of the believers

00:13:42.340 the the the if you're looking to the the seerah of the prophet or or the companions of the prophet

00:13:49.780 you will see how their women were not only that they were questioned the aisha and have praised the

00:13:54.820 unstudy woman for questioning on intimate stuff yes they didn't come and say oh you are like the christians

00:14:01.060 they were deciding if the woman has a soul yes or we will be in the front

00:14:05.940 to to to to the river if she if she drowns she's not a witch no she's not always but if she doesn't

00:14:13.140 brown they burn her alive so you die you die yes like like in the judaism you can't even get a divorce

00:14:19.540 unless your husband gives it to you and if you have got your menses you cannot touch your husband or

00:14:24.900 anything that you touch has to be washed and what the process do the opposite when his wife were menses

00:14:29.780 he would show affection in different ways absolutely so my dear sister you have no idea about islam and

00:14:34.980 the rights of thing and what you've done you further the rights of women in islam exactly

00:14:40.100 and what you've done you've gone out there emotionally driven sadly and yeah and you've

00:14:44.500 gone out there and made islam look bad and this is one of the reasons why women have to be led

00:14:48.980 because you have emotional moments and you say things you don't mean every single one of us are

00:14:54.100 married to a woman come on muslim or non-muslim for that matter come on do not come and tell me that

00:14:58.900 women go and don't say i know my wife she will say certain stuff and i should come and say you know

00:15:03.140 what i don't know why i said that it's normal it is it happens as men we are told to be patient

00:15:08.580 so it it's it's a weakness within a woman and that is a reality but let's carry on let's see what's the

00:15:13.940 problematic hadith that she has the problem is within yourself not islam you have been told liberalism

00:15:19.140 and feminism that's been indoctrinated in your mind instilled so much so that you think there's a

00:15:24.340 problem with islam there's a problem with you my dear sister not with islam

00:15:26.660 people who make a woman their ruler will never be successful yes what's your point what's your

00:15:33.300 point yes and what's what's your problem what's your problem for example how is a woman going to

00:15:42.260 lead yes when she's on her menses yes when her emotions are affected there's imbalances hormone

00:15:47.300 imbalances you need to make decision factors pertaining to warfare number one number two economy economy

00:15:54.580 many stuff not only that normal stuff for example when it comes to um uh pregnancy what if you're

00:16:00.740 pregnant can you imagine we come to you and say you are the leader i'm pregnant no no no no no the

00:16:05.940 affairs of this is a blessing for you it is a blessing for you that that a man is given to the man but but

00:16:13.060 but brother ali let's not forget it doesn't mean that women don't contribute no in opinion and that

00:16:20.180 yes remember in the uh in sulh al-hudaibiyya yes when the when when when the sahaba or the sahaba

00:16:28.500 were upset because they couldn't do umrah and stuff who advised the prophet to shave and slaughter the

00:16:36.820 sacrifice is the sacrificial animal which one his wife is the one um salama she's the one that gave him

00:16:44.740 this opinion exactly and the prophet said upon her advice and subhanallah he didn't say oh you're a

00:16:54.420 woman yeah how how dare you and i'm prophet of allah subhanahu wa ta'ala yes even umar was known to be

00:17:01.140 very harsh when he was a woman yeah in the sadaq in the story of sadaq but pertaining to woman's

00:17:09.140 right of mahar dowry when he said men you've got you're making it too expensive that men can't get

00:17:14.100 married what did the woman come and stand up in the governor yeah she told him and he said umar got

00:17:20.740 it wrong and a woman was right and this is islam this is islam he didn't say how dare you i am the

00:17:27.140 leader of of uh look the umma that time we had the persian we had the levant yes yes it was so yeah

00:17:36.420 you know it's like you can come and say i'm ruling all this and you want to as a woman he allowed

00:17:40.740 he listened he said you're right and i'm wrong not only that the fact that you were doing this video

00:17:45.140 being absolutely misinformed misinforming others giving islam a bad reputation shows that as a

00:17:51.940 woman you emotionally got driven and did something which you should have not done unfortunately if she

00:17:58.340 would have gone if she would have gone to the commentary on the hadith she would have understood

00:18:03.460 if you on the commentary of the hadith yes what the scholars say about it exactly so let's go that's

00:18:10.100 the reason why women have to be led it's like that i believe in the nuclear family it's as simple as that

00:18:15.300 the men is the head of the house it's as simple as that i don't believe in this uh thing the greatest

00:18:19.940 form of okay the greatest form of um inequality is to treat unequal things equally and if she thinks

00:18:26.740 that the western world is different yes let's see in in uh in uh the the epistles of of paul yeah

00:18:34.660 the head of the woman is yes is the husband is the man yes the head of the woman is the man yes even

00:18:42.980 in other religions yes normally and not only that the western woman was fighting for their rights

00:18:48.420 to own property their husbands could sell them if they were in debt in debt in the market they could

00:18:53.940 sell them not only that they didn't have a right to work they never inherited even devoting in

00:18:58.660 system and they would have to take their husband's um surname yes in this time still until today

00:19:07.620 yes again if you studied your religion sister instead of cultural backgrounds whatever that

00:19:12.660 you went through you would not be making this uh video that's embarrassing for you

00:19:16.020 in sahih al-bukhari 4425 openly borrow women from leadership if i were to order anyone to

00:19:23.540 prostrate to anyone i would have ordered women to prostrate to their husbands

00:19:28.020 tirmidhi 1159 and okay yes no problem okay what's what's the issue with that what's the issue with

00:19:35.460 that the narration clearly says that one of the company if if no um uh muad ibn jabal he was in the

00:19:42.020 yemen yeah he comes to the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam because he has seen clerics yes in there

00:19:49.060 prostrate people prostrate into their clerics yes so he tells the he tells the prophet sallallahu

00:19:54.580 alayhi wa sallam after he prostrated then the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said if i were to ask

00:20:00.180 anybody to prostrate to someone else i would have asked the reason why why look what she does not

00:20:08.020 understand you have to understand islam allah in the quran says that the most noble of you in the

00:20:16.180 sight of allah are the righteous one yes does that mean if a woman is more righteous than me i'm better

00:20:23.220 than her in the sight of allah exactly so so this is in the quran the quran answers her yes answers

00:20:31.140 her exactly but it's the right of the husband like can your wife do you make your wife pay the rent

00:20:39.140 no pay the bills no i would say the audacity one second why am i paying the rent why am i doing the

00:20:44.900 shopping why am i changing the tire why am i doing the bills the bill is my witness i got a cupboard for

00:20:51.140 my wife like to put her clothing etc yeah okay do you know how long you want to do it take your guess

00:20:56.420 take yes sheikh i because they told me it's 250 pounds two people to come in i said i'm not being

00:21:00.660 250 pounds do you know how long it took me guess how many hours two days it took me sheikh

00:21:05.060 nearly 14 hours straight straight 14 hours check to do the whole thing i can come and say why am i

00:21:15.060 doing this yeah you do it man half half everything not half half you do it not only that when i walk down

00:21:22.340 the road with my wife and somebody says something to my wife you protect yourself whose neck is on the

00:21:27.700 line why am i protecting you guess what yeah if i protect you and i die and you have a right to go

00:21:32.340 get married again i can come and say i'm gonna die and on top of that so apparently you're gonna get

00:21:36.100 married again i can say what no why like do like the hindus when the man dies burn the woman yes i'm

00:21:41.700 going to come and say for example when a war happens the feminists don't want to know what the

00:21:45.060 feminists say take us back to the kitchen that's what that's what they say no no we we want to cook

00:21:49.460 we want to cook now in ukraine what's going on do we as men come and say what kind of audacity why is

00:21:56.980 allah is what kind of religion is this that will always favors the woman wallahi go and look i dare

00:22:02.340 you come on there's so many examples that we can give why am i paying for that maher why am i paying

00:22:07.300 why did she pay me maher yeah she married a man like me i mean she should pay me maher but i want maher as

00:22:12.340 well no i'm the one who's paying maher i'm doing the wedding i'm paying for everything guess what if she

00:22:17.300 goes and works her money's her money yes what can do you see what i'm saying and you know you know

00:22:24.900 you know you know you know in the jury prudence that's the tea of doing this video you know in

00:22:29.140 the jury prudence yeah if you marry a rich woman yeah you have to to to to yes she has to live up to her

00:22:38.580 standards i was gonna say yes to her standards so it means that you go and work so hard yes it's not i'm

00:22:46.820 poor is this is all she has the right to live up to her standards because it's your fault marian

00:22:53.620 rich woman exactly so you have to do that subhanallah and only that her maher is her security

00:22:59.460 if for example i leave her and say bye bye guess what she has a security to fall back on what does

00:23:04.500 the woman have here deadbeat men sleeping around disappearing and then guess what they have to go and

00:23:09.940 beg the government and these women have to be a man and a woman in the household let's carry on

00:23:13.540 like katrina stroke michael yeah exactly let's see let's see how oppressive women are in islam let's

00:23:20.500 carry on the absolute audacity this is a statement of i'm telling you sister my dear sister this is

00:23:29.780 what we mean my dear sister believe me i was going to be a lot harsh in this video if i didn't watch

00:23:35.220 your videos on tiktok and to be like you know what she's got trauma somewhere and you've even said that

00:23:39.540 they would use suffering from narcissism yourself okay no problem you are a sister still the damage

00:23:44.820 that you caused based on your emotional decisions okay believe me wallahi if you spoke to a man again

00:23:52.340 i'm not belittling there are instances where we as men have weaknesses if you spoke to a man they would

00:23:58.100 have given you and say listen you may want to do this and vent out because of something you went through

00:24:02.260 but how is this going to make islam look my dear sister before you move on emotions but no so the very

00:24:07.700 video that you're doing proves that you need men in your life as much as we need our wife you need

00:24:13.540 men in your life for leadership qualities men have that that's our strength and logic and rationale

00:24:19.060 let's carry on of obedience i have not left behind me any fitna trial more harmful to men than women

00:24:26.740 yes and what's what's the point what's the point there is no big fitna yes yes women are the biggest

00:24:31.540 fitna what does fitna mean does that mean fit them in the shaitan no it means the greatest trial for us

00:24:36.420 the biggest weakness for a man is what it's a woman so i don't understand what's the issue for

00:24:41.860 example you have as women you guys have weakness of what wanting to look attractive my this is i'll

00:24:46.740 ask you a question and say to you sorry why is your hijab not on properly why have you got makeup on

00:24:51.140 why are you yeah yeah what's it wasn't why do you say oh but it's a week oh okay so if the person said

00:24:57.380 the greatest weakness for a uh woman or for whatever yes so what i'm saying is you have weaknesses we're

00:25:05.140 saying that the biggest thing that if you see what is the biggest tools people like you have to

00:25:10.580 put the hadith in in in in this context she's not even researching it man it's studying religion

00:25:16.740 what does people like you know the epstein items yes who were they using they were using

00:25:22.340 sadly women these girls innocent girls yes why because these deranged men yes and not only that

00:25:28.740 sometimes they use prostitutes they use really attractive women to get what men it's the oldest

00:25:33.860 trick in the book you know why because men fall for what beauty just the way you what do you woman

00:25:39.700 fall for a man of status strength money fame this that that's your weakness imagine anyways anyways

00:25:46.660 so i'm a bit passionate but let's carry on 509 sahih muslim 2740 the woman is aura and when she goes out

00:25:53.380 the devil looks at her i've never heard of this i've never heard of this no no the hadith that the

00:26:00.260 woman when she goes not that the devil she goes with the shaitan and comes back with the shaitan yeah

00:26:05.620 not that the devil looks at her okay but what it means what it means aura a woman is aura yes

00:26:13.380 if a woman like we see now i mean we have all seen this new fashion now of wearing very tight shorts

00:26:20.580 everything is showing dressed but naked that's what it means a woman is aura yeah any little thing

00:26:30.020 would cause fitna yes yes would cause fitna and that's and that's and that's a reality that the

00:26:34.580 reality is this allah has created you in a desirable way that is how it is it's not a attraction in the

00:26:43.460 demand towards women exactly that's for procreation and other reasons if it's done the right way so allah has

00:26:49.380 made you like that now for example would you like it and i'll give an example for example would you

00:26:54.580 like it that when you're out and about with your husband there are women who have extremely beautified

00:26:59.300 themselves and not only that dressed half naked and you know that's a weak that's that's a weakness

00:27:03.700 it's going to attract your husband now you might come and say why can't he control his gaze of course

00:27:07.620 he should but let me give you i'll flip it i'll flip it no problem you go out you and your husband go

00:27:11.940 out your husband is not earning that much and then on the forehead of men you can see how much they value

00:27:17.300 that one million 1.2 million is that not going to be a fitna for you are you not going to be like

00:27:22.260 you know what oh my gosh i should have i should have married him yeah you know what he give me a

00:27:26.580 good love sir look he's worth 1.2 million he's worth 300 000 that is the same thing for us as men

00:27:32.980 we're seeing we want to protect ourselves but don't rub it in my face so the point is when it's a woman

00:27:39.460 it's you don't blame oh it's a man's fault but then wouldn't women start comparing and saying oh my gosh i

00:27:45.220 i don't want to see it it's her right because it's a fitna for her but look she's talking in

00:27:50.180 jahiliya yeah in jahiliya when islam came and put every put the house in order yes the house was a

00:27:56.660 mess yes islam came and put it in order do you know that when the father used to die his son inherits

00:28:03.700 everything inherits his slaves his his maids he would inherit even his mother yes his mother becomes his

00:28:11.460 property subhanallah property and islam came and ordered they used to bury little girls alive

00:28:20.420 alive and islam has come and look how you have made your religion look like it's the opposite because

00:28:26.580 of your because your emotion tiramidhi 1173 if we're not the devil then you are men you're literally

00:28:34.020 telling on yourselves the way she talks about a hadith of the prophet sallallahu alaihi she has no respect

00:28:38.900 you can see there's this trauma involved you can see clearly the way she's talking about the hadith

00:28:42.660 definitely there's some trauma involved i saw hell and i had never seen anything more horrific

00:28:48.420 i saw that most of its inhabitants were women sahiya al-bihari yes okay no problem when that's that's

00:28:55.140 that's that's that's reality but she never finished the hadith yes the hadith exactly what does the

00:29:00.820 prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam they curse so much yes and the woman you can look we all have been

00:29:11.940 through this yeah a woman you can do everything to do to her yes all the good things the day you will

00:29:19.140 make a mistake yes she forgets all the good things yes she'll attack you for that mistake you have made

00:29:24.340 and that's what the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam meant exactly and women are known to be

00:29:32.580 backbiters yeah more than men yeah because you know why they also talk more than men yeah they

00:29:38.660 have to express more and and they're lethal you know there's studies that show this woman to woman

00:29:42.900 do you know how lethal they are to each other sheikh they know women know do you know how much women

00:29:47.540 hate and in a competition with each other there's studies that show they are ruthless sheikh they are

00:29:52.980 ruthless there was a woman and when i used to uber i picked up a nurse two nurses in the back of

00:29:57.300 the car she's crying and i was like airdrop i was thinking why is she crying she goes there's rumors

00:30:01.940 going on with her other colleague nurses saying she's having an affair with a man in another doctor

00:30:06.500 another doctor and i was and in islam what is one of the greatest slander to a chaste woman

00:30:12.420 just it i can come and say why why didn't it say a man you know you know why didn't it say a man

00:30:15.780 you know you know what's the the punishment for that yes it's 80 lashes sheikh i can come and say why

00:30:21.300 does it say that if a chaste woman is slander i want to know why doesn't it say a man because

00:30:26.260 islam knows a woman being slander is worse than that's why so i can come and say why doesn't it

00:30:32.740 say a man because for a man it's something to be boasted in the sense where of oh you know whatever

00:30:38.420 it is he's got many women in his life islam deals with each individual specifically not one shoe

00:30:43.700 it's all look look how islam elevated the woman yeah now in quran chapter chapter four yeah what

00:30:51.940 is it surah nisa have is there a surah rijal no no explain what that means what's nisa women what

00:31:00.740 men one second so there is a whole chapter in quran about women yes but not men not man the audacity

00:31:07.060 how one second let me go with what the sister says the author of the quran the author of the

00:31:11.140 quran yes and another thing yeah chapter chapter chapter three yeah is al imran yes the family of

00:31:18.900 imran yes but the family of imran you would you would think that allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is going

00:31:23.300 to talk about the man husband no it's a mariam he's talking about the mother of miriam yes the mother

00:31:28.180 yes and he's talking about miriam yes but he doesn't talk about yes imran yes imran yes he doesn't

00:31:35.700 talk about him he talk about his wife yes and so on and so forth see this misogynistic religion

00:31:41.300 is so misogynistic unbelievable and allah says very clearly and believe me i speak to couples who

00:31:48.260 have issues etc believe me well let me tell you something it is a known phenomena across the globe

00:31:55.540 you will do so much for your wife do do do do she'll see one wrong i've never seen any good from you

00:32:01.460 and let me tell you something there are i know non-muslims who hear this and they go your prophet

00:32:08.020 said that he has to be prophet of god this is a reality it shows and what did the the woman say

00:32:14.340 and the process and gave them a solution he said give in sadaqa they didn't come and say the audacity

00:32:20.100 they didn't fall into kufr they looked for a solution solution was what given sadaqa do you

00:32:25.140 more do you could eat look the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam before on his last breath yes on his

00:32:30.580 last breath yeah he said salah and salah and woman like at a man because he said that the woman should

00:32:37.540 be fully slave to her husband he said salah salah prayer prayer yeah and take care of women ah

00:32:48.180 sheikh this the audacity sheikh the audacity care of women the audacity on the last the last the last

00:32:55.940 the sermon of uh the sermon of uh yeah yeah in hajjat al-wada yeah the khutbah of hajjat al-wada yeah

00:33:04.740 the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is talking about how we should be with women he didn't say how

00:33:10.580 women should be with men yeah he said how men should be with women exactly exactly exactly and what did he

00:33:17.140 say he said that they're like a bent rib if you try to strain them you break them you break it yes

00:33:21.540 so much and see of being gentle even when it comes to intimacy the person mentioned everything and how

00:33:27.300 he was with his wife is a fine example but did you research this look no let's not the when when

00:33:33.780 fatima zahra radiya allahu anha came to the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam very angry because ali

00:33:39.860 was going to marry the daughter of abu jahl yeah the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam go angry for his

00:33:46.340 daughter yeah and he went yeah and he did the khutbah on the member yeah he said by allah that he

00:33:54.820 it's not gonna happen yeah that's what he was the enemy of the daughter the daughter of adu allah

00:33:59.940 and rasul allah cannot be under the same yes so so so why the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam didn't

00:34:07.380 say to her huh that's your husband and you have to obey yeah exactly exactly and not only that so

00:34:15.460 one thing that i've got to mention about uh prostrating if i ask anyone to prostrate will

00:34:19.540 be their husband is where the wife to the husband is because of the responsibility the man has on the

00:34:24.260 day of judgment the man of the house is going to be questioned i can come and say why doesn't my wife

00:34:29.140 get questioned the audacity i'm the one that's the protector the provider the breadwinner i'm the one

00:34:34.100 that changes the tire electric issue this issue that issue fix this fix that the there's a

00:34:39.060 responsibility when we think about that you're let me be honest here with all jerusalem i don't know the

00:34:43.620 sister and i'm trying to be careful here maybe one of your family members whoever it is i'm not going

00:34:48.660 to get the mail has done something bad whatever and you think allah is talking about that man you

00:34:53.620 think allah is allah's message is talking about to bow down to a man like that what are you talking

00:34:59.380 about seriously seriously let's carry on hey al-bukhari 1052 sahih muslim 2737 god if a woman dies

00:35:09.060 whilst her husband is pleased with her she will enter paradise man man man it's all to do with

00:35:14.580 men are you not seeing this are you not seeing this you are you're i'm so sorry you are so ignorant

00:35:19.620 i've we've just pointed out to you all the stipulations the rulings pertaining to against men in that

00:35:25.940 and if you think about if you're going to use it it's against men yeah okay why are you not talking

00:35:28.820 about that and here what's the look at this look at this look at the reward if you pray your salah

00:35:34.660 if you pray your fives your fives and fast your your man yes and keep your chastity yes you and and

00:35:41.780 obey your husband yes you enter jannah from whichever gate whichever so there are people and there are eight

00:35:47.380 gates yes and you are going to give me that privilege why because it shows i pray to allah that that the

00:35:52.820 hadith was for men yeah i would obey my wife yes i would obey her to enter jannah exactly and only

00:35:58.740 that it shows you that the the the nature of woman there's ingratitude there yes there's sometimes

00:36:06.580 rebellious there and because of the emotions you say things that you don't mean like look sometimes

00:36:11.380 even social media you see women coming and saying when i'm on my menses everything about my husband i hate

00:36:19.220 yeah so can you imagine if they were labeled as psychological abuse if i could have said

00:36:25.860 bst or something yeah yeah whatever it is so imagine if i was to come and say when i'm going

00:36:30.580 through my hormonal imbalances i just hate my wife's guts and i just you know some of them what they do

00:36:34.900 they do videos saying oh um i'm on my menses my wife my husband has a good time i'm going to go

00:36:40.020 ruin this day and people are laughing imagine if i said that and i go yeah i'm having a bad day i'm

00:36:44.420 i'm going to go and ruin wallahi they will say you're an evil narcissist manipulating gaslighting

00:36:51.380 for some odd reason always the men are the narcissist for some odd reason women are never the

00:36:55.380 narcissist yeah but you never talk about this why don't you talk about all of the responsibilities

00:36:59.620 that's on the man's shoulders nope totally ignore that this is the reason why allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:37:04.900 has given that that degree over the man because the man has responsibilities it's not a privilege

00:37:11.780 it's not a perk it is a responsibility that i will be accounted on the day of judgment so what are

00:37:18.100 you crying about you are served sheikh from when you're born your dad takes care of you then your

00:37:22.740 brother then your husband then your son you are being taken care of from the moment you are born till

00:37:29.780 you die and you have an issue with that you know in islam yeah for example if you divorce and you've got

00:37:37.220 daughters yes and you've got a son yes when the son reaches puberty you don't have to pay the

00:37:43.540 maintenance i'm talking about paying maintenance but for the girls you pay maintenance until they get

00:37:49.060 married the audacity sheikh the audacity and what is it when you have the free daughters and you look

00:37:54.180 after them jannah the audacity sheikh why doesn't it say free men the audacity and the prophet said two

00:38:00.820 daughters and then he reduced it to one to one the audacity sheikh the audacity men now i'm going to

00:38:06.420 say woman woman woman woman woman woman sheikh what's going on woman woman woman woman you reminded

00:38:11.300 me a young man comes to the prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam he said oh rasulallah who is more deserving

00:38:18.820 of my companionship look don't say men men men again he said your mother okay then your father

00:38:25.860 father no okay your mother okay after that your father your mother

00:38:32.420 then your father three times woman and then uh a man the audacity why is it always what she always

00:38:40.340 woman woman woman woman woman jannah is at the feet of your mother woman woman woman woman go there

00:38:46.580 that's where jannah is i've had enough the audacity look at this wallah if you studied your religion

00:38:52.500 if you just studied your religion you would have never made this free statements you would not

00:38:56.820 make a mockery of your religion and wallah it was the biggest disservice and this is an evidence

00:39:02.260 within itself why women have to be led isn't this we heard all this from polemicists of course from

00:39:09.060 from islam i thought she was an islam i thought she's a fake muslim for a moment yeah yeah because that's

00:39:14.500 where the polemicists come to us with to to to we we week week in week out we deal with this on the

00:39:22.180 dialogue table yeah exactly again one of my favorites that many try to interpret but it still never makes

00:39:29.060 sense at the end of the day if a man calls his wife to bed and she refuses and he goes to sleep angry

00:39:36.180 with her the angels curse her until morning this is disgusting guilt tripping women into doing sexual

00:39:43.140 actions where it doesn't want to it's solely based on pleasing men wallahi that's a statement of

00:39:50.100 kuffer it could even take you the fault of islam you are basically saying what the messenger of

00:39:54.660 allah said it's good it's it's not it's good it takes it takes for the foot of islam i'm not saying

00:40:00.740 you're a kafir i'm saying that statement takes you've just called the messenger of allah disgusting

00:40:06.340 this is the message of allah this i'm saying like allah says in quran when allah and his messenger

00:40:10.500 decide the matter it is not for the believers befitting the believing man and woman

00:40:18.100 to disagree disagree and let me tell you something sheikh this is this is going to show you my dear

00:40:23.780 sister how how ignorant you know you know why this hadith is actually the opposite way because what does

00:40:30.580 the hadith say if a man calls his wife to bed a wife yes now let's reverse it what if it was

00:40:38.100 a woman wants intimacy and calls her husband and by the way we know what if the man doesn't give her

00:40:44.580 intimate rights does she have a right to divorce she has woman woman woman again oh my god sheikh woman

00:40:49.540 again to divorce we say to annul annul the marriage so let me get this right if a woman is not sexually

00:40:56.100 satisfied and this happened at the time no no no what sexually sexually satisfied yes no maintenance

00:41:03.620 yes if you don't bring the food if you don't bring the food if you don't pay the only that they said

00:41:08.740 that you can even go and take from his pocket yes imagine the prophet allowed him yes the the wife of

00:41:16.420 abu sufyan yes because abu sufyan was miser exactly exactly exactly he said but take what is enough for

00:41:23.780 you and your children good enough good take enough exactly from but he didn't say to abu sufyan take

00:41:30.740 from her money good now sheikh it says the hadith says if you call your wife now let's put this in

00:41:36.820 the perspective as a muslim man i fear allah i can't go and sleep around yes i can't go and have one night

00:41:43.940 stands yes i can't go and mess around meaning the only place that i can get my intimate rises from him

00:41:50.180 from your wife okay good and the only person she can interact with is who is your which means she

00:41:54.820 relies on me and the way i rely on her meaning for example at her most weakest for example at my wife's

00:42:00.740 most weakest is what physical combat if a man comes to her or tries to attack her she can't defend

00:42:05.940 herself she requires me to defend the entire process to die so a man at his most weakness is what

00:42:13.700 when it comes to intimacy so and both of them it can be for that as well so he calls his wife to bed

00:42:18.420 does the hadith say if she says no force yourself upon her no no it says the angels will curse

00:42:24.100 her now one second on what basis is she saying no is it because she's on her menses no is it because

00:42:30.020 she's really really tired no is it because she's pregnant no it says you know what that shows she's the

00:42:35.380 narcissist who's using sex as a tool to punish him yeah and i'm the what happened sister and another

00:42:43.140 thing did you know he didn't know that if the husband goes and plays around yes

00:42:49.060 yes then what she's gonna say just uh what do you mean there's a capital punishment on him

00:42:56.100 she's got capital punishment yeah sure there's too much woman woman woman yeah you know the ego

00:43:00.660 spanner but let me get something he's uh there's a gunner he's got capital punishment yeah so subhanallah

00:43:06.900 and not only that i'll give something knock out any man it is let me tell you something this with men

00:43:12.660 it's death blood if if if a man for example if you come home for example a man this happened at

00:43:19.860 the time of the process he came and saw his wife having sex with another man he comes to the message

00:43:25.700 of allah he tells him and he says i have seen listen carefully i have seen my wife have intimacy full

00:43:33.700 blown intimacy with another man the process say okay yeah go kill her go do this go do that you know

00:43:42.260 what he said to him he said now you are going to get lashed why because you have four witnesses

00:43:51.620 let me get this right as a man you're going to catch your wife in a bed with another man

00:43:55.540 come to the message of allah and the message of allah says instead of saying i'm sorry that's what

00:43:59.300 happened and we're gonna go and we're gonna bring her four yeah and we're gonna kill whatever

00:44:03.940 we're gonna now lash you for slander yeah you're thinking slander i just saw my wife and guess what

00:44:10.180 saved them wahi wahi came down and liyan which is that they take curse by allah you know sheikh look

00:44:17.220 at this but you know what was liyan is to save the the the the woman and the man and they both take

00:44:23.140 curses by allah if he slander her if he slander her the curse of allah is on him what is it if she

00:44:27.700 lies what did i say sheikh they said in the and the narration says yeah said wallahi wallahi i saw it

00:44:33.940 wallahi i saw it and the fourth one is what do you know what some of the narrations say they say

00:44:45.940 when the woman was told to see the same woman the same woman in this instance she was brought to court

00:44:49.940 she said wallahi i didn't wallahi i didn't wallahi i didn't they said when it came to her saying may

00:44:54.900 the curse of allah she paused she she paused now imagine what would be going through this people's

00:45:00.820 mind if she paused they would say she's a liar she stopped stopped and then she said may allah's curse

00:45:06.260 be upon me everyone would say what but what did islam say some said no did she say it and subhanallah

00:45:10.820 let me give you the end let me give you the end of this i'm gonna give you the end of this

00:45:15.460 hadith when she she had the baby yeah and it was born the prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam send

00:45:24.260 i think zaid ibn harika said go and look and tell me if the baby is this this and this okay when he came

00:45:33.460 back and he told him the baby is this and this the prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam knew she lied

00:45:39.140 he said if it wasn't for the li'an yeah i would have had her uh subhanallah wallahi this is the

00:45:46.500 takmila of the hadith the end of the hadith you understand they go so so look look rasool

00:45:52.500 allah sallallahu alayhi wasallam now she is lying yes but because of the li'an yes he would not

00:45:59.700 take the punishment in the dunya he lets her in the akhira in the akhira if it's a misogynist religion

00:46:05.380 all about men he would say no bring her here even from the get go from the get did you see her

00:46:09.780 let's deal with her alhamdulillah for islam and the right islam has been given to to uh to the

00:46:16.980 woman from the get-go when no one had it subhanallah let's carry on what this is subconsciously telling

00:46:21.940 women is that we're inherently ungrateful and sinful the chronic fear and guilt and shame that's been

00:46:28.900 put in us is from a very young age obey your husband or be cursed your needs don't matter

00:46:35.300 because obedience is salvation obedience makes you a good person a good wife and if you don't

00:46:41.700 then there's no worth sorry yes you have to be obedient it's all simple as that you have to be

00:46:46.740 obedient simple as that um and it's made it and if you have a problem obedient in halal but if a husband

00:46:55.220 comes and ask his wife something which is haram of course not that's exactly so the thing is what

00:47:02.020 this is what allah and his messenger demand simple as that okay it's simple as that the men the man

00:47:07.300 i'm talking about real man please don't get confused with your dad or whatever this etc um i'm talking

00:47:11.780 generally not this woman yeah generally who abuses your mom we're not talking about that kind of man

00:47:15.860 a man who does islamic duties etc there has to be obedience he's the breadwinner he's the one out

00:47:21.780 there who's doing providing for you doing everything that's the reason why that responsibility is on him

00:47:27.060 and he will be accountable of their judgment he requires obedience you don't want to give it no

00:47:30.740 problem it's simple as that allah's measures decreed that and that's the matter at hand

00:47:34.900 to anyone are you men there's a disconnection between your body and yourself because the world

00:47:41.540 is telling you you are filthy a walking mistake and that causes illnesses that causes mental health

00:47:50.020 issues that causes identity crises it causes religious shame and even religious trauma it causes

00:47:57.700 self-hate you're a walking temptation so cover up hide god forbid a man sees you it's always

00:48:06.020 our bodies it's always what we wear it's always us but never their thoughts their eyes their filthy

00:48:13.300 brains do you guys not question this because the reason why a lot of you women have so many

00:48:19.700 issues is because of this disconnect the world is already pushing this now okay if that's the

00:48:24.580 case then if why does allah say in the quran firstly to the man tell the believing men to know the

00:48:27.940 gaze why does allah say to the man first for the woman where does allah say in the quran that because

00:48:32.820 men are animals you have to cover yourself up where do you get this where are you getting this nonsense

00:48:37.060 from okay we have to cover up if that's the case yes men know men okay that's the reason why allah

00:48:43.220 subhanahu wa ta'ala stipulated certain things to protect you to protect your heart okay if you want to go and

00:48:49.300 live like a liberal feminist go out there go out there and you're going to see these women who

00:48:53.940 have been destroyed why do you think so many women come to islam why do you think majority of the

00:48:58.900 people that come to islam are women if he's so misogynistic and he hates you know why because the

00:49:03.140 western women know they know what true liberation is in islam they know how they will use sexually

00:49:10.500 abused 97 of british women have been sexually um um assaulted one way or another you you want to

00:49:18.500 but you want to merchandise a car put a naked woman next to it exactly you want to merchandise

00:49:23.700 chocolate to merchandise chocolate yes a naked woman you want to merchandise a drink yes naked

00:49:28.900 exactly you know what is exactly slavery exactly slavery and not only that you are slavery to the

00:49:36.260 the beauty industry to makeup this is look at you why do you come out without makeup look at islam

00:49:42.020 who is the first woman to have the first university in the world do you know what is it no shah in

00:49:48.020 faz morocco in morocco who built it ali i don't know fatima al-fahriya the oppression shah they're so

00:49:54.340 oppressed fatima al-fahriya so pressure so she built a university and have people coming to seek knowledge

00:50:02.500 there yeah look when our women were thriving uh um darda the wife of abu darda yeah she used to have

00:50:11.220 halaqa in the masjid al-umawi in damascus yeah the daughter of imam ahmad yeah fatima yeah she used to

00:50:21.220 listen to her father she used to learn when her father used to give halaqa who look what muslim women's

00:50:28.900 produced produced to us imam uh thawri sufyan al-thawri no no no imam malik yes imam shafi these were

00:50:42.580 they didn't have fathers their mother inside exactly you work together you are in the sight of allah

00:50:51.940 yes none is better yes but by righteousness exactly exactly and brothers sisters that's all we have to

00:50:57.540 say inshallah alhamdulillah the rights islam has given women 1400 years ago till today

00:51:02.580 the western women were fighting blood tooth and nails for it subhanallah alhamdulillah for islam

00:51:09.220 alhamdulillah for the liberation and you can see all of the misconceptions got absolutely debunked

00:51:13.620 why because it only takes for you instead of venting out in an emotional rampage if only you took that

00:51:19.620 time that you do this video and did a bit of research you would know wow how islam liberates me but no

00:51:25.780 that emotional rant is now and only cause you to fall into kufr even maybe leave the fold of islam

00:51:32.260 that's not me to judge now you are letting people the enemies of islam use your clips to attack your

00:51:38.580 religion and guess what alhamdulillah the truth is the truth and this video will show what that islam

00:51:44.020 has honors women and has given their rights a long time ago that's all we have to say from sisters to

00:51:49.380 next time inshallah and remember as allah says in the quran that the best of you in the sight of

00:51:57.540 allah is the righteous ones amongst you man or women until then until next time

00:52:05.860 assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu

Ali Dawah - July 22, 2025

HER MOUTH WILL DROP OF SHAME - MUSLIMS RESPOND

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