Ali Dawah - December 31, 2025
HIJABI DEMANDS ANSWERS FROM DAWAH BRO!
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Summary
In this episode, I had a chance to sit down with my brother in the Dawah scene, Abdurrahman Dawah, to talk about his journey in the social media space, as well as his views on women in the Muslim community.
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everything you own from your clothes to your car to your wife or your husband is going to forget
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you and move on and be replaced the moment you die that's what allah says you are busy with the
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worldly affairs until you visit the graves brothers and sisters masjid norway the one that we built
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is looking to another masjid around the area of norway subhanallah where there's so many muslims
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that do not have somewhere to pray this masjid is only five hundred thousand dollars and any
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donation that you give will go towards your akhirah because when you enter that grave nobody's going
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to remember you except allah subhanahu wa ta'ala so make it count brothers and sisters and donate
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towards this masjid inshaAllah a new project that's only five hundred thousand dollars and believe me
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if every single one of us give one pound ten pounds a hundred pounds a thousand pounds that's going to
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be something you will never regret on your maqiyama and everything that you lose is going to perish and
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go but your deeds on your maqiyama are not donate to the link inshaAllah let's get to the video yeah i
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have a question to ali dawa um i do watch a lot of your videos and i think you would describe
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yourself as someone who's influential because people do follow you and i just want to ask like
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in your videos when you do like uh speak about i i understand speaking about the content of some
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women who are saying things are un islamic or not in line and it's important to spread uh knowledge and
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information about that but when we speak about oh her hand movements are not feminine she's acting
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masculine or she's so fake she's wearing so much makeup she's done so much work how is that islamic
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how is speaking as such is in line with islamic teachings and i'm not attacking you you are my
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muslim brother and i care about your ending and i appreciate if there's some space for people to
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reflect and be like you know what i talk a lot on the internet and it's only about it's a statistic
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thing at the end of the day i will say something wrong yeah thank you i really appreciate the way
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you've put that forward you know and i'm a human being you know and i do make mistakes i do get
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passionate sometimes and i've had my differences with a lot of brothers in the dawah scene a lot of
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male youtubers adam saleh fuzzy tube um nas daily you know all these people so to me
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you know a lot of people think that oh you know you're a misogynist you're this that like these
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are just words to me because i'll be honest with you i know there's never ever been a scenario nobody
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no sister and i'm like they come and accuse me of misogyny if they find one statement of mine just
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one statement of mine that i've ever ever said something that is hateful towards women never and
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if anyone can i will retract and i'll apologize i'll repent however now my issue is not pertaining
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to that let's say specific sisters whoever it is when i see anybody and my issue is never personal
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i genuinely try not to have personal issues with people do you get it no matter if people call me
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names they call me a spy they call me undercover christian they call me a kafir i would be calling
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the manafir i've been i've been called so much stuff i'm like yeah okay words don't really phase me
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however when you have individuals who are misguiding people yes and this like i said with adam
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saleh i had a back and forth with him i met with him in mecca we sat down we hugged we're brothers
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and i told him actually it's nothing personal you've done nothing personal to me like you know
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yes there might be times where he's insulting me i don't it's not that deep for me i don't
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go to seek revenge however if it's something that affects other people i have a problem and who's those
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other people they can be muslim or non-muslim if i see a muslim with their words abusing a non-muslim
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i will stand up for that non-muslim and my religion calls for me to do that that's what allah says in
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the quran speak up for justice and truth even if it's against your kin or your family members
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when i came to islam my dad i can remember he slapped me across my face and kicked me out the
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house three months i was homeless he's my dad so but to me it's like the reality is what if islam
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is the truth i will face the entire globe because the hak is more important to me to me why because
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when i'm looking at an individual what message are they conveying to our sisters or our brothers
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vice versa if an individual is coming and saying once you've popped your baby leave
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divorce divorce i'm gonna say whoa hold on a second man do you know what divorce means
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you are literally breaking a family there could be a sister who's had an issue with her husband
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scrolls on tiktok and comes across her and she goes yeah have your baby and leave
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divorce him it's that now vice versa if i saw a brother saying the same like oh okay listen
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if she's doing this divorce her best believe i'll be doing it i don't pick i would say brother
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who are you to come to a public platform on social media that can get thousands of views
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and say something so dangerous like that oh just divorce what are you talking about bro so to me
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these sisters and there was another one who was an individual who was literally slandering us
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backbiting us calling us names you name it my issue was not personal still because she was basically
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saying that i would be like she was accusing the process of a heinous crime by because of her lack
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of knowledge so in that scenario what we do is in islam is if an individual for example if i'm walking
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here and i hear a sister say something really crazy or a brother if i'm going to get the camera out
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why am i doing that it's something that was done in private i can give an issue ignore it and walk away
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she has no harm to anybody but when somebody puts a camera and gets hundreds of thousands of views
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and is purposely promoting divorce or a brother or whoever i it's my duty i'm not trying to be
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superman here if i don't see argument say if a brother has done a video i'll say okay the job is
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done i don't need to talk about it so with that aspect this time the question that you asked about
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okay why do you come and you know say certain stuff i believe that sister if she's so reckless
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okay and she is making point about for example oh men for example there's another sister men watch
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pornography and that is fake and da da da da with all due respect you're against fakeness okay sister
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if that's the case why have you got lip fillers why have you got three kilos of makeup on your face
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you have to be consistent with your worldview i'm not saying anything different i'm saying if you are
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talking about fakeness and something that is not real then i have to say be consistent if you're
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gonna have a go at the brothers or if it's a brother saying the same thing i say hold on a second
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brother what about this now sometimes can i get carried away yes and sometimes do i say things
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and and i try very careful not to backbite but sometimes i say certain things and i'm a human
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being in that specific instance video i don't remember what i've said now for example if this
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is doing that would say that that's a bit masculine sister okay with all due respect and the same with
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the brothers like if a brother was doing this i'll say brother that's a bit feminine you get that's
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you're moving a bit feminine i i i i i i i'm just brother why are you doing that i will say the
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same for the brother but i'm a human being i make mistakes and if i've any how hurt someone unintentionally
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i apologize but anyone who is trying to misguide the youth i have no apologies to nobody unless i am
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told what you said about that sister is haram then i'll say i apologize and i repent i'll take you back
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because the process said going back to your question i promised jannah for the one who protects
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what's between his lips and what's between his legs so that's why i have to be more careful and if
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there's anything that you believe i've said if you can remind me later on or whenever i will apologize
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as far as i know i haven't said anything haram i've made comments on things that are real which
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you know can be observable if an individual if i see a brother you pluck his eyebrows and it's clear
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i'll say brother stop plucking your eyebrows right yeah i hope that makes sense
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everything you own from your clothes to your car to your wife or your husband is going to forget you
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and move on and be replaced the moment you die that's what allah says you are busy with the
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worldly affairs until you visit the graves brothers and sisters masjid norway the one that we built is
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looking to another masjid around the area of norway subhanallah where there's so many muslims that do
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not have somewhere to pray this masjid is only five hundred thousand dollars and any donation that you
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give will go towards your akhira because when you enter that grave nobody's going to remember you
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except allah subhanahu wa ta'ala so make it count brothers and sisters and donate towards this masjid
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inshallah a new project that's only five hundred thousand dollars and believe me if every single
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one of us give one pound ten pounds a hundred pounds a thousand pounds that's going to be something
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you will never regret on your maqiyama and everything that you lose is going to perish and go but
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your deeds on your maqiyama are not donate to the link inshallah let's get to the video