Ali Dawah - January 21, 2024


HIJABI ON FR3SH & F!T GOES WILD - MUSLIMS REACT


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12 minutes

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2,885

Sentence count

293

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Misogyny

8

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Toxicity

37

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Hate speech

40

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In this episode of the Fresh and Fit Podcast, we talk about the first day a hijab is worn by a Muslim woman and how it affects the way she is perceived by other Muslim women. We also talk about what it means to be a Muslim in the modern world.

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00:00:00.000 And I went into the place and got a hijab, they gave me all this shit for the free because 1.00
00:00:02.940 they f*** you when you're Muslim, you get whatever. 1.00
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00:00:44.320 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.
00:00:47.020 Today's video, as you guys know, it's not regarding Palestine.
00:00:50.080 I've done many, many videos on the topic, etc.
00:00:51.880 But yeah, today's video is something that I saw.
00:00:54.280 And again, you know, with us, you know, our job is to remind.
00:00:57.100 Because reminder benefits a believer. 0.91
00:00:58.180 However, this was sent to me to see a hijabi on the Fresh and Fit podcast that they do.
00:01:02.880 I just wanted to look at it because to me it was a bit distasteful.
00:01:05.940 But obviously there's some context before anybody goes on a mad one and starts backbiting, slandering, whatever for that matter.
00:01:10.380 That's not the aim of this video.
00:01:11.460 It's the first day she's wearing the hijab. 0.95
00:01:13.040 But there's so many lessons to be learned from this.
00:01:15.200 I haven't seen this video.
00:01:16.180 You haven't?
00:01:16.560 So you're saying it's the first day she's wearing the hijab?
00:01:18.460 Yeah, when I heard that, I was like, okay, at least that's the reason why you're behaving in that way.
00:01:22.480 You ready?
00:01:23.180 I'm ready as I am.
00:01:24.100 Are you on birth control?
00:01:26.220 Nope.
00:01:26.860 Okay.
00:01:27.220 If a baby pop out, I'm keeping it.
00:01:28.620 Okay.
00:01:29.160 That's okay.
00:01:29.580 You ain't got it.
00:01:30.720 And I got a four-month-old.
00:01:31.980 Shout out to Khaleesi. 0.99
00:01:33.140 The mother of dragons.
00:01:34.500 Yes.
00:01:34.860 Yes, I made my baby after my mother of dragons. 0.98
00:01:37.420 Damn right, Khaleesi. 0.99
00:01:39.040 Khaleesi, baby. 0.98
00:01:39.740 I'm a mother of three, by the way.
00:01:41.660 I got three.
00:01:42.300 You just can't see it. 0.98
00:01:43.020 I got s*** up under this little dress on the house. 0.98
00:01:48.020 It's my day. 0.97
00:01:49.060 It's my first day.
00:01:50.200 It's her first day.
00:01:51.400 Wow.
00:01:51.840 It's her first day.
00:01:52.660 I went to Japan Inn.
00:01:54.120 Before she called me to invite me, I was walking out of Japan Inn, and my fiancé, who was on
00:01:57.660 the fence about being Muslim, he ran into one of his Muslim brothers, and I asked him,
00:02:00.640 like, how long, what do you got to do to be Muslim?
00:02:01.700 He said, we can get on the phone right now and do your shahada.
00:02:03.440 I'm going to do it.
00:02:05.100 And then I went into the place and got a hijab. 0.99
00:02:07.340 They gave me all this s*** for the free because they s*** you when you're Muslim. 1.00
00:02:10.340 You get whatever. 0.99
00:02:11.080 Then we went to the little Mediterranean place.
00:02:12.320 They gave me a free stylist.
00:02:13.340 No way.
00:02:14.700 The benefits are coming in.
00:02:16.980 I'll present to the most hot.
00:02:18.520 I got free sanity.
00:02:19.580 Free crow. 1.00
00:02:20.480 Bitch, all that. 1.00
00:02:21.320 On the question, what's your body count? 1.00
00:02:23.600 Oh, s***. 1.00
00:02:24.120 My body count like her, b***h. 1.00
00:02:24.980 I don't even know. 0.99
00:02:26.000 What are you talking about? 0.99
00:02:26.840 But when you do shahada, you start over, b***h. 1.00
00:02:28.320 I'm a virgin. 0.99
00:02:29.060 Right now, right now, I'm a virgin.
00:02:30.760 All the way.
00:02:31.600 Okay, so it's your first day converting.
00:02:37.320 It's only been a few hours, so go easy on me.
00:02:39.220 No, no, no.
00:02:39.580 I'm not going to.
00:02:40.040 I'm just curious.
00:02:41.020 What made you want to convert?
00:02:42.700 Well, my fiancé was on the fence about it because he believed in God, but he didn't
00:02:46.160 know which religion to pick, and I was like, just go whichever one. 0.96
00:02:48.540 I'm baptized Christian, and I'm also in Santeria, aka Ifa, if you're African.
00:02:51.640 So I was like, let's do Muslim.
00:02:52.820 Okay, let's do it all. 1.00
00:02:53.840 Just f*** it? 1.00
00:02:55.040 F*** it. 1.00
00:02:55.880 F*** it. 1.00
00:02:56.300 What is? 1.00
00:02:56.740 Yo, no. 0.90
00:02:57.300 Follow a God.
00:02:57.800 That's not a matter.
00:02:58.520 There's only one God at the end of the day anyway.
00:03:00.700 And every single year of the religions that I've been, they have a God.
00:03:03.220 That's it.
00:03:03.720 There's one God.
00:03:04.440 We all, no matter what race you are, we come from the same thing.
00:03:08.420 Was a specific reason just, or because?
00:03:10.340 It was really, okay, so I want a man who's going to lead.
00:03:15.020 So I'm telling him, pick a religion, whatever one you want to do, I'm going to do.
00:03:18.820 I'll do all of them if you want to do all of them.
00:03:19.760 I'll do one if you want to do one.
00:03:20.780 Okay.
00:03:20.960 And you know, being Muslim is a little more disciplined than all the other. 0.99
00:03:23.740 Yeah.
00:03:24.220 That's why he's on the fence about it.
00:03:25.480 But I just want to show him, like, I'm going to jump in it first.
00:03:27.680 Both feet in.
00:03:28.460 So you can feel a little confident.
00:03:30.180 Like.
00:03:30.320 You just said you want a man who leads.
00:03:31.380 I do.
00:03:32.020 Yeah, I was going to say.
00:03:33.260 Right.
00:03:33.640 But he did it too.
00:03:34.740 He did.
00:03:35.160 No, but after you.
00:03:35.760 Right.
00:03:36.020 But as soon as, some people need that extra push.
00:03:37.800 No, you're leading him.
00:03:38.660 Literally.
00:03:39.200 Right.
00:03:39.600 What are you doing?
00:03:40.320 But everything else he leads.
00:03:41.760 That's what I'm saying.
00:03:42.140 He already lives his life like a Muslim man. 1.00
00:03:43.920 Because you said that you got pregnant in high school.
00:03:45.340 Is he your high school sweetheart?
00:03:45.920 No, he's not.
00:03:46.520 He's my third baby daddy. 0.73
00:03:47.420 My high school sweetheart was a bum. 1.00
00:03:49.140 My high school sweetheart was a bum. 1.00
00:03:50.840 And my second baby daddy is in jail for murder. 0.59
00:03:53.660 So my third is the only one.
00:03:55.760 Third time is the charm, bro.
00:03:57.260 Wait.
00:03:57.600 Hold on.
00:03:58.080 Wait, wait, wait.
00:03:58.840 Too much unpacked.
00:03:59.520 Let me get it straight.
00:04:00.380 Three baby daddies.
00:04:01.380 One's in jail.
00:04:01.880 Three baby daddies.
00:04:02.440 One's a deadbeat.
00:04:03.300 And one's there right now.
00:04:04.080 One is the one, bro.
00:04:05.440 You see the ring?
00:04:06.180 Yo, this guy's get out of jail.
00:04:08.520 You saw one guy's in for murder?
00:04:09.740 My baby daddy's in jail for murder, too.
00:04:11.340 So my son's dad was my high school sweetheart.
00:04:13.760 Yeah.
00:04:14.100 And my second baby daddy.
00:04:15.040 Two years in, he got the feds game and got it.
00:04:17.100 Chris.
00:04:17.620 Chris.
00:04:18.380 What's going on, bro?
00:04:19.460 Baby daddy's in jail for murder.
00:04:21.020 Capital homicide.
00:04:22.200 Free him.
00:04:22.900 He ain't mean to do it.
00:04:23.820 Don't find your baby.
00:04:24.960 You don't know what these niggas do before you have babies with them. 1.00
00:04:27.740 You got to run a background check on niggas before you have them. 1.00
00:04:29.480 Because I ain't playing for that shit. 1.00
00:04:31.100 My daughter hasn't seen her dad since she was 10 months. 1.00
00:04:33.020 And he's been locked.
00:04:33.740 She's seven.
00:04:34.520 She's seven now.
00:04:35.180 Yo, I see.
00:04:35.720 I think I need a handker tonight.
00:04:37.000 That was a bit painful to watch.
00:04:38.240 Anyways, in a nutshell, I don't know what you make out of it.
00:04:40.680 But I'll be honest with you, it's a lot of the plays.
00:04:43.360 In America, girls come from a certain background, etc. 0.99
00:04:46.400 They're a bit rough around there.
00:04:47.620 Just a bit too rough.
00:04:48.980 So, I don't know.
00:04:49.840 There's a few things that I can learn from this.
00:04:51.140 Number one.
00:04:51.700 As a new Muslim, if you're a woman or a man, focus on yourself. 0.99
00:04:55.660 Take a good couple of months out.
00:04:56.820 A year out.
00:04:57.680 Because there's a lot of baggage you're coming with.
00:04:59.540 A lot of jahiliyyah, times of ignorance that you're bringing in.
00:05:03.040 For example, for me, the fact that she's there wearing a hijab, spewing, swearing, 1.00
00:05:07.660 talking about her past, past sins.
00:05:09.740 Oh, I didn't smash Myron.
00:05:12.200 Do you get it?
00:05:12.580 So, again, you can excuse her that in the sense where it's her first day.
00:05:16.340 You can genuinely excuse her because it's like, she doesn't know anything.
00:05:19.340 So, you really cannot blame her.
00:05:20.960 But it's just so painful to watch a hijabi on that show, talking about her past, 1.00
00:05:25.300 talking about, oh, I was a slut before. 0.99
00:05:27.900 I'm being honest with you. 0.99
00:05:28.680 I'm thinking, how does a non-Muslim man, who she's apparently married or going to marry, 1.00
00:05:33.640 who's, again, I think they're both Muslims.
00:05:35.700 There's stages, etc.
00:05:36.860 I understand.
00:05:37.360 But, I mean, your girl, your wife, talking about this.
00:05:39.700 Typically speaking, whenever you're learning something, you have a teacher.
00:05:42.880 For example, if you're learning to drive, you get a driving instructor.
00:05:45.200 If you're learning to become an electrician, you go and you study with somebody who knows about electrics.
00:05:53.200 So, similarly with Islam, when you accept Islam, learn under a teacher. 0.94
00:05:57.540 Sometimes the person that gives you shahada, somebody that gives you da'wah, invites you. 0.96
00:06:04.320 Keep, you know, in contact with them and ask them for classes, ask them for resources.
00:06:09.620 I think that's what majority of the reverts or converts actually do.
00:06:13.980 They do actually refer to teachers.
00:06:16.300 However, this girl over here, it doesn't seem like she came with that zeal.
00:06:21.980 It was like, oh, all of them believe in a God.
00:06:24.120 One is, you know, more disciplined.
00:06:25.840 I'll just go with this one.
00:06:27.140 Although she's adorning the hijab, but it seems like, you know what I mean?
00:06:31.720 Like, it's clear from what she said, that's not really where she's coming from.
00:06:36.120 And for her to come on a podcast and start, you know, you're adorning the uniform of religious women. 1.00
00:06:43.500 It comes with, you know, even if you don't understand, there's a degree of rationality and logic.
00:06:50.080 That I'm wearing a uniform of somebody, I need to treat it with respect.
00:06:53.600 So, if you don't know, then, you know, you're wearing the hijab. 0.87
00:06:56.500 You're saying you're a Muslim, you're effing blinding, talking about how much you smashed. 1.00
00:07:01.260 And it just doesn't suit, it doesn't suit what you're going into.
00:07:05.080 Like, for a serious student that's embraced a religion, again, you're supposed to be a student.
00:07:09.760 You're learning.
00:07:10.640 You're not supposed to go on there.
00:07:12.420 And, you know, like you said, that sort of behavior.
00:07:14.980 Even if a person doesn't know, bro, logically, it's not befitting.
00:07:19.340 Yeah, so, yeah, you're right.
00:07:20.700 You know, like, first thing I'll say, she said, oh, the following day, I'm going to start praying.
00:07:23.680 Look, at the end of the day, we're not telling you, just because you said things, which, again, is totally against Islam. 0.97
00:07:28.320 We're not telling you, oh, now you cannot wear the hijab. 1.00
00:07:30.040 Keep your hijab on. 1.00
00:07:30.660 Nobody's saying to take it off.
00:07:31.460 We're just saying, it's a gradual process for you to go on the show wearing a hijab for the first day and talking about all this kind of stuff, etc.
00:07:37.220 It's a general message to people that are accepting Islam.
00:07:41.940 This is just an example and a case study.
00:07:43.760 It's a general, yes.
00:07:44.520 So, yeah, we're just saying that.
00:07:45.600 Be very careful.
00:07:46.400 And not only that, this shows us that to outer appearance.
00:07:49.700 I mean, if we saw this sister out on the streets, we would never, ever think that there's this trauma, background, baggage, all that comes with it.
00:07:56.660 It's very important that as new Muslims or Muslims who are starting to practice again, that you start, take a couple of years out or even a year and detox yourself, rehab. 1.00
00:08:04.980 You know, because you come with, same with me.
00:08:06.620 You came with a lot of baggages, bad habits.
00:08:08.700 And you know what?
00:08:09.240 We want to send this sister a prayer mat, yeah? 0.99
00:08:11.200 Because at Salah Plus, we help born Muslims and new Muslims how to pray Salah.
00:08:15.780 Salahplus.com, guys.
00:08:16.820 You can, for free, go there.
00:08:18.320 If you want to book an instructor, if you want to learn how to pray Salah, we've got videos.
00:08:21.260 And if you want to order, we want to send her a guided prayer mat which shows her how to pray.
00:08:24.900 At the end, again, she's our sister.
00:08:26.380 Yes, it was very distasteful.
00:08:27.860 It's her first day.
00:08:28.840 We can assume the best in that because it's her literally, she says, it's her first day.
00:08:32.340 Maybe she doesn't understand the whole concept, no problem.
00:08:34.160 But it's an example for us to all understand, just because somebody observes the hijab or just because they're wearing a fob or a beard or whatever for that matter, it does not mean.
00:08:43.980 Don't make this mistake.
00:08:45.200 A lot of people make this mistake in the marriage taken process where they look at a person and how they look, their outer appearance, and they make a judgment.
00:08:51.600 Oh, you don't know nothing about them.
00:08:53.500 Niqab. 0.95
00:08:53.860 I don't care if they wear a niqab. 1.00
00:08:54.860 I don't care if they have a motorbike helmet.
00:08:56.160 I don't care if they've got a beard that's up to their feet.
00:08:58.340 It means nothing.
00:08:59.360 There's a verse in the Qur'an where Allah tells you to look at the taqwa. 1.00
00:09:02.020 So it's very important to not make these decisions based on appearance because believe me, there are lots of people out there who have troubles, who have traumas, who have baggage, etc.
00:09:08.900 And they just put a hijab on and you're thinking that's the only thing you see is that. 0.96
00:09:12.300 Of course, the beard and the hijab, it's not, you're not saying that it means nothing.
00:09:16.940 What you're saying is don't take it at the face value.
00:09:21.520 Exactly.
00:09:22.000 Somebody with a beard, of course, that's rewarding.
00:09:24.600 Of course.
00:09:24.820 You're doing an amr of the Prophet ï·º, a hijab, you're following an amr of the Qur'an, and you're doing what your creator has told you. 0.99
00:09:32.360 However, with that comes a person's actions as well.
00:09:36.080 With that, it's important to look at a person's character, not just to rely on one's appearance.
00:09:41.640 Yes.
00:09:42.000 And when it comes to marriage, you do not make a marriage decision based on what they wear or what they look like.
00:09:45.860 You can look at them and be like, I admire the fact that you wear a hijab.
00:09:48.040 I admire that you've got a beard, big up, all day, every day.
00:09:49.960 But you do not make a marriage decision.
00:09:52.120 This is fundamental where a lot of people are making a mistake, which I'll be, throughout this whole year, I'm heavily focused on projects that I'll be launching, pertaining to helping you guys into the marriage so you can process.
00:09:59.760 Nice.
00:10:00.220 Which Ishaan is involved as well, inshallah.
00:10:01.680 But that aside, we would like to send a sister a guided prayer mat.
00:10:06.540 Check salahplus.com if you guys want to check out as well an audio prayer mat, please do.
00:10:09.860 And yes, again, guys, please, please, please, inshallah, make du'a that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, guys, our sister makes a firm and her husband.
00:10:17.160 And inshallah, this video is taken down.
00:10:19.040 Even Myron said, you know, I don't like look at women in hijab in that way, which I respect and admire, even though he says he's outright, he doesn't practice and all this kind of stuff that he does. 1.00
00:10:26.360 Inshallah, he's a smart guy.
00:10:28.660 Of course, of course.
00:10:29.880 Each two, you know, everyone, there's a specific time written for them.
00:10:33.840 Of course, we try our best.
00:10:35.680 But you know what?
00:10:36.360 Honestly, you know, seeing the isms and the schisms out there, even those people that leave Islam, there is nothing else out there. 0.97
00:10:43.060 Like Islam is the one that's head and shoulders above the rest. 1.00
00:10:46.540 When you look at the preservation of the book, when you look at the amal and the practice, when you look at, you know, every aspect Islam shines the brightest.
00:10:54.420 So I have no doubt that these people eventually will come back.
00:10:57.820 But we need to make sure that when they come back, you're the person that they're going to be calling.
00:11:02.480 You're the person that they're going to be saying, you know what this, but if you've cut off relations, if you have, you know, soured, you know, relations between you guys, they say don't ruin relations between people such that if tomorrow the time comes to rekindle ties, you're able to.
00:11:18.480 And don't befriend somebody so much that if tomorrow you become enemies, they know your deepest, darkest secret.
00:11:23.400 So there is a balance.
00:11:24.540 So even here as well, if you see somebody going off the path, you know, still give them that dignity, that respect and, you know, speak.
00:11:30.620 Sometimes people want to maintain distance because they say either you give da'wah, you get given da'wah, so they don't want to receive da'wah.
00:11:36.600 Some people can maintain those relationships and give da'wah.
00:11:39.560 So it's very important how you address such people.
00:11:42.820 If you can give da'wah with hikmah and beautiful preaching that the Quran says, Alhamdulillah, all well and good.
00:11:48.660 If not, with all due respect, pass the baton on to somebody else.
00:11:51.820 Exactly, exactly.
00:11:52.660 That's all I have to say, Barham Siss, inshallah. 0.99
00:11:54.220 I hope this message reaches the sister and we can send the Disguided Prayer Matt and it connects her to her Lord, which is the most powerful thing, inshallah,
00:11:59.860 which is the second pillar of Islam, which is salah.
00:12:01.640 Until next time, assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.