Ali Dawah - March 26, 2023


HIJABI WITH 5 KIDS FOUND A HUSBAND!! - REPLY TO REDPILL


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9 minutes

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1,899

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141

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Misogyny

8

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Toxicity

2

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Hate speech

19

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Why is it so surprising that a woman with 5 kids manages to find a man even after having 5 kids? Is it impossible for a woman who has 5 kids to get married? In this podcast, I give my perspective on this and give my opinion on why it is possible for a women with 5 children to get a husband.

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00:00:00.000 How does a woman with five kids manage to find a man, a husband to get married? 1.00
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00:00:41.660 As-salamu alaykum guys.
00:00:43.000 So, the question some brothers who are inclined to the red pill or who are directly involved with the red pill are amazed and shocked.
00:00:49.720 How does a woman with five kids manage to find a man, a husband to get married? 1.00
00:00:54.300 This is the question that's been asked.
00:00:57.200 Now, where is this stemming from?
00:00:58.980 The question that we all need to ask is, where is the curiosity, the annoyance, yes, that they are indulged in or suffering from?
00:01:08.780 Why are they so surprised that a woman with five kids ended up getting married? 0.99
00:01:14.800 This was the discussion at one point with some people talking about this, which you guys know I don't need to mention the names.
00:01:21.620 Now, I want to mention some things.
00:01:24.320 Is it impossible for a woman with five kids to get married? 1.00
00:01:28.840 Now, Allah says in the Quran, for him, Allah, all things are possible.
00:01:34.060 That's number one.
00:01:35.140 We need to understand our religion and our deen.
00:01:37.680 We do not follow feminism.
00:01:39.120 We do not follow red pill.
00:01:40.580 We don't feel any of those pill.
00:01:42.140 The only thing that we follow is the Quran and the sunnah. 0.97
00:01:44.120 So why is it, why does it come as a surprise?
00:01:46.800 For some brothers, why is it a hard pill?
00:01:50.140 A hard blue pill or red pill or whatever pill you want to call it, or should we say the pill from the Quran and the sunnah, hard to swallow?
00:01:56.020 Why is it so surprising that a woman with five kids got married? 0.89
00:01:59.760 Now, let's put some things in check.
00:02:01.700 Of course, usually, sadly, in the times we live in, for a woman to get married when she's divorced, let alone with kids, it is hard.
00:02:10.460 It's a reality.
00:02:11.060 So I'm not here encouraging sisters to go get a divorce, because I know there is a phenomenon happening now where sisters think the grass is greener on the other side.
00:02:19.260 No, it's not.
00:02:20.020 We have many sisters who come on the Bitter Truth Show and other sisters where I know myself who are finding it very, very hard to get married.
00:02:26.580 Now, this is a reality that it is hard for sisters who end their marriages on trivial matters and think it's all grass is greener on the other side.
00:02:35.040 They end up seeing very, very the dark side, where a lot of men, sadly, are after the wrong thing, especially when you're with kids, especially with sub-Asian community, you are looked and frowned upon.
00:02:45.840 Now, this is a reality.
00:02:47.220 However, first thing first, sister Inaya, may Allah preserve your marriage.
00:02:52.820 May Allah subhanahu wa sallam protect you from evil eye.
00:02:55.100 May Allah protect you and your husband and your kids from evil eye and hasad and whatever it may be, from those who have envy.
00:03:04.620 Whoever it may be, and I'm not saying the people that I'm talking about have envy.
00:03:07.860 I'm talking generally.
00:03:09.060 May Allah preserve your marriage because we do not want the breakdown of the marriage unit.
00:03:12.900 I myself, I am so, so happy, my dear sister Inaya, and whoever you are, that you have found your happiness, you have found a man, and may Allah preserve you both.
00:03:21.860 And we want the marriage unit to be intact.
00:03:23.920 That's what we want.
00:03:24.840 Following the Quran and Sunnah intact. 0.54
00:03:26.180 That's why I started the Bitter Truth Show.
00:03:27.840 The marriage documentary is partly about that as well.
00:03:30.200 And I'm working on another project.
00:03:31.580 It's all pertaining to, to avoid the breakdown of the marriage unit.
00:03:35.080 Now, I want to speak to the Red Bull Brothers.
00:03:37.100 Putting that two aside.
00:03:38.780 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says in the Quran, let's go to the Quran.
00:03:41.120 Let's go to the Kalam of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. 0.97
00:03:43.040 What does Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala say?
00:03:44.120 And it's in Surah Talam.
00:03:45.620 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says in the Quran that when you go your separate ways, you decide to go your separate ways.
00:03:50.620 Then, when they have almost reached the end of their waiting period, then retain them honorably or separate from them honorably.
00:03:57.020 Number one, Allah is telling you how to deal with a woman that you want to divorce or you guys want to go your separate ways. 0.93
00:04:01.720 Honorably.
00:04:02.640 And call two of your reliable men witnesses either way and let the witnesses bear true testimony for the sake of Allah. 0.55
00:04:08.720 This is enjoined on whomever, whomsoever has faith in Allah on the last day.
00:04:13.960 And listen carefully.
00:04:15.020 And whoever is mindful of Allah, he will make a way out for them.
00:04:19.000 Next verse.
00:04:19.780 And provide for them from sources they could never imagine.
00:04:22.660 And whoever puts their trust in Allah, then he alone is sufficient for them. 0.97
00:04:27.100 Certainly Allah achieves you as he wills.
00:04:29.720 Allah has already set a destiny for everything.
00:04:32.880 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will give a way out.
00:04:35.280 Why am I mentioning this?
00:04:36.900 Because most of these brothers in this specific instance are thinking with their logic.
00:04:42.080 Now, how did Iblis fell into disbelief?
00:04:45.120 This is a story we all need to understand.
00:04:47.500 Why?
00:04:48.320 Iblis was told to bow down to Adam.
00:04:50.820 He said, using my logic, aqal, aqal means logic, naqal means what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has revealed.
00:04:58.020 Yes?
00:04:58.420 Okay, what he directly says, the hadith that was from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
00:05:01.580 Yes?
00:05:02.060 The naqal, this is what comes from Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. 0.98
00:05:04.420 And direct wahi.
00:05:05.540 Yes?
00:05:06.340 So, Iblis said, hmm, logically it doesn't follow that I should bow down to that being when I believe logically I am better than him.
00:05:18.240 Listen carefully.
00:05:18.960 Now you're thinking, Brother Ali, you went from marriage, divorce, five kids, sister with five kids getting married to a red pill to this.
00:05:24.600 There is a direct connection, correlation, causation.
00:05:28.620 How?
00:05:30.160 Iblis fell into disbelief because he said, logically this doesn't follow, therefore I'm going to ascribe a mistake to Allah because this is how he fell into disbelief.
00:05:38.240 Not because he committed, not because he didn't bow down.
00:05:40.780 No.
00:05:40.920 Because Adam alayhi wa sallam was told not to eat from the tree, he ate from the tree. 0.81
00:05:44.180 Did he fell into disbelief?
00:05:45.200 No.
00:05:46.100 But because he, Iblis, said, therefore I believe Allah, you are telling me to do something which is wrong. 0.73
00:05:53.220 Kufur.
00:05:54.240 It's rejecting one of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala's attributes. 0.90
00:05:56.820 The all-knowing.
00:05:57.320 You're saying Allah, you don't know, I know. 1.00
00:05:59.220 A'udhu billahi min shaitan al-rajim.
00:06:00.700 Now the same thing is happening with the red pill and I'm not saying they are like Iblis or Kufar, please I'm not saying that. 0.96
00:06:05.780 They are looking and thinking, logically a woman with five kids should not be able to get married.
00:06:12.180 It should not be able to.
00:06:13.620 We say from the Quran and the Sunnah Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says, for Allah all things are possible.
00:06:18.840 And we read from Surah Talaq that Allah will give a way out from places you can never imagine.
00:06:24.760 My dear brothers who are obsessed with the red pill or inclined to them,
00:06:28.160 we do not follow your, don't you respect, nonsense. 0.95
00:06:33.480 This is nonsense. 0.99
00:06:34.920 We call out feminism. 1.00
00:06:36.380 We call out the sisters who promote feminism. 0.98
00:06:39.280 But, me, myself, whoever knows what I've done for the past 10 years, yeah, knows that I call out both.
00:06:46.160 Male YouTubers, sisters, female YouTubers.
00:06:48.440 And if I'm wrong, justly, yes, if I'm wrong and I've done a mistake, haram, whatever it may be,
00:06:52.680 I am offered to be called out.
00:06:54.400 Not, I think you've done something wrong, it seems like to my man had you something wrong, no.
00:06:58.620 So, the point I'm saying in a nutshell is this.
00:07:01.080 In Islam, it is possible for a woman to have 10 kids, 20 kids, 50 kids to get married to a man who loves her.
00:07:07.320 This is our adeem.
00:07:09.080 Anyone that thinks otherwise and thinks, no, it's not possible, I'm so sorry, you are following other man-made, woman-made laws. 0.94
00:07:15.180 That's the reason why I wanted to do this video.
00:07:17.700 To educate our brothers.
00:07:18.940 To get rid of this disturbing, toxic mentality of the red pill.
00:07:23.640 Now, is everything the red pill says false?
00:07:26.000 No.
00:07:26.720 There are a lot of facts they talk.
00:07:29.220 However, they mix it with shubahat.
00:07:31.520 That's why we have the Quran and sunnah, because there's nothing mixed with shubahat or something that is dirty.
00:07:36.580 No.
00:07:36.920 It is pure.
00:07:38.160 It is pure.
00:07:38.840 So, therefore, all I'm saying to my brothers and sisters who are listening to this, be it feminism, be it red pill, for Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, all things are possible, and a woman who has five kids, like I said before, can get married.
00:07:49.380 So, therefore, number one, that's the thing, and I'm going to finish on this note, inshaAllah.
00:07:53.920 Number two, to even have that as a discussion point and talking about it can fall into backbiting.
00:08:00.100 And talking about the sister and her family can even fall into slander if what you're saying is not true.
00:08:06.820 If you're talking about them, it is backbiting.
00:08:10.300 If what you say is not true, it is slander.
00:08:12.980 And the Prophet ï·º said, I guarantee paradise for the one who can secure.
00:08:18.160 Guarantee me what's between their lips and what's between their private parts. 0.99
00:08:22.240 Let's be careful, brothers and sisters.
00:08:24.000 It is Ramadan, we should, and outside of Ramadan as well, subhanAllah. 1.00
00:08:29.240 Let's be careful, and let's be very, very, very careful.
00:08:32.620 Because believe me, the Salaf used to say, we would rather stand in front of our Lord with 70 sins.
00:08:38.520 Meaning said, 70 used to be the word of expression of many.
00:08:41.700 Between us and our Lord, then one sin between me and me wronging someone.
00:08:47.280 May Allah protect us, subhanAllah.
00:08:49.660 That's all I'm going to say.
00:08:50.760 May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala preserve our sister Inayah's marriage.
00:08:53.820 May Allah keep her firm.
00:08:55.340 And I ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to bless their marriage to the day they die, and inshaAllah, in Jannah. 0.67
00:09:02.600 And that's it, that's all I want to say, inshaAllah.
00:09:04.740 This does not mean, by the way, I'm promoting sister Inayah, anyone for that matter.
00:09:08.700 Okay, because there's public figures themselves, there's things I agree and disagree with them.
00:09:12.380 Just to make a disclaimer, I'm not promoting, I'm just saying that this disease that we have of this attitude, this is from no other than shaytan. 1.00
00:09:18.880 We take the naqal, what Allah said, revealed from his messenger, over our aqal.
00:09:23.660 Over what this little limited brain, yes, this little brain, yeah, okay, it's quite a little, yeah, all of us.
00:09:30.800 We take that over this all day, every day.
00:09:33.620 If not, we will fall into disbelief.
00:09:35.840 May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala protect us.
00:09:37.180 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.