Ali Dawah - March 30, 2015


How to stop sex outside marriage？？ ｜｜ Ali Dawah


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Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

195.3226

Word count

2,216

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

5

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Hate speech

40

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Summary

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How to protect yourself from zina and not fall into it? How to stop committing zina Why you should not go back to sin And why you don t want to commit zina.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
00:00:27.760 Brothers and sisters, welcome to this episode of the matter of zina
00:00:32.460 How to protect yourself from zina and not fall into it 1.00
00:00:36.500 Obviously before I start, I want to praise Allah SWT, the most merciful, the most just
00:00:40.540 All praises and glory belong to Him
00:00:42.040 All the works that we do, we do with His permission
00:00:44.100 So I want to start off like that
00:00:46.060 Now brothers and sisters, the fact that you have clicked on this video
00:00:50.700 Shows that you either, maybe, I'm not jumping to assumptions
00:00:55.640 That you either want to stop committing zina 0.99
00:00:58.420 Or maybe you're on the verge of committing zina 1.00
00:01:00.360 Or maybe you just clicked it, just to watch it, for the sake of it
00:01:03.380 But for those who are on the verge or who are in the act of zina 0.99
00:01:06.960 I've got good news for you
00:01:08.660 Because the fact that you clicked on this link
00:01:10.720 Shows that you have iman in your heart
00:01:13.080 That you hate the sin and you want to stop it
00:01:15.520 Now, the fact that you hate it
00:01:18.020 And the fact that you want to stop it
00:01:19.720 The two principles are there of repentance
00:01:22.700 What do I mean by this?
00:01:24.280 To repent of a sin, whatever it may be
00:01:27.420 You first have to stop the sin
00:01:29.140 Number two, you need to hate the sin
00:01:31.820 Number three, you do not go back to the sin
00:01:34.080 And obviously as we know, it's good to pray two rakah sunnah prayer 0.88
00:01:37.920 And make repentance and tawbah to Allah SWT 0.68
00:01:40.360 So the fact that you've clicked on this video
00:01:42.300 Shows that you do not like the sin that you're doing
00:01:44.760 And you really want to stop it
00:01:46.320 Now, the objective that we have with this video is for you
00:01:49.620 To complete the repentance and not go back to that sin
00:01:52.360 And inshallah, after this video you can pray two rakah sunnah
00:01:55.240 And inshallah, with the permission of Allah 0.92
00:01:57.340 You will not go back to that sin
00:01:58.560 Now, brothers and sisters
00:02:00.220 As you guys know, we live in a society where it's sexualized
00:02:03.420 It is everywhere we go, everywhere we look
00:02:07.280 It's sexualized
00:02:08.480 This is the society that we live in, unfortunately
00:02:10.620 But, now for you guys
00:02:13.040 And this is a message for both genders
00:02:15.260 But specifically for the brothers
00:02:16.980 Now, I understand where you guys are coming from
00:02:20.240 Now, brothers and sisters
00:02:21.400 Many a times, if somebody has hinted that you're in a haram relationship
00:02:25.020 With your girlfriend, boyfriend, whatever it is
00:02:26.720 They will come and say to you
00:02:28.280 It's haram, it's haram
00:02:29.480 Now, me personally, I don't agree with this concept
00:02:32.140 Why? What do I mean by this?
00:02:34.140 If somebody comes and says to you
00:02:35.620 It's haram, haram
00:02:36.580 The fact is this
00:02:37.800 If you don't have a connection with your Lord
00:02:39.680 If you don't understand tawhid
00:02:41.180 If you don't understand the mercy of your Lord
00:02:43.360 The matters of Jannah, paradise and hellfire
00:02:46.380 If you don't understand this
00:02:48.180 The word haram would not hit your head
00:02:50.040 It wouldn't get into your system
00:02:51.740 Because you're just going to think haram
00:02:52.900 Oh, it's not only allowed
00:02:54.320 But the moment you have that connection with your Lord
00:02:56.480 And you understand that small sin
00:02:57.920 Or that big sin that you do
00:02:59.260 That you commit
00:03:00.280 It's not about the sin of being big or small
00:03:03.280 It's the one
00:03:04.300 It's the almighty that you're sinning against
00:03:06.420 Once you have that connection with Allah
00:03:08.220 Then you will understand the words of haram, halal, etc
00:03:11.040 In detail
00:03:11.980 Now, as we know
00:03:13.500 Our mother Aisha radiallahu anha said
00:03:15.240 If the Quran came down as haram and halal 0.95
00:03:17.640 Nobody, the sahabas would never 0.99
00:03:19.860 Accept the Quran and follow the regulations 1.00
00:03:21.860 So what we understand by this
00:03:24.020 Is that it's the connection that we have with the almighty
00:03:26.660 Now the third part is
00:03:28.360 That you don't want to go back to the sin
00:03:29.880 Now what you need to understand is
00:03:31.440 The shaitan is going to be on your case 1.00
00:03:34.100 And Allah SWT says in the Quran
00:03:36.040 And the Prophet Muhammad SAW 0.96
00:03:37.280 That the biggest fitna for men 0.89
00:03:39.920 Is a female 0.99
00:03:41.280 It is hard
00:03:42.220 It's going to be madness
00:03:43.440 It's going to be crazy for you guys
00:03:44.920 But what you need to understand is this
00:03:46.380 The moment you repent
00:03:47.700 And try your best not to go back
00:03:49.320 Even if you end up
00:03:51.900 Falling for the sin again
00:03:53.300 Do not ever doubt the mercy of your Lord
00:03:55.580 Do not ever think
00:03:56.200 You know what
00:03:56.640 It's not going to happen
00:03:57.580 Don't
00:03:58.320 Because me personally
00:03:59.880 Through the friends that I know before
00:04:01.860 They have had gradual steps
00:04:04.080 And even though they've gone back
00:04:05.440 To committing the sin
00:04:06.180 They've had a moment
00:04:07.800 Where they said
00:04:08.320 Enough is enough
00:04:09.260 Now guys
00:04:10.440 The first step that we need to take is this
00:04:13.180 We don't want to go back to that sin
00:04:15.960 We don't want to go that
00:04:17.260 Acknowledge it in your head
00:04:18.740 Program it
00:04:19.560 You don't want to go back to that sin
00:04:21.540 Now
00:04:22.180 Allah SWT says in the Quran
00:04:23.460 We do not change a nation or an individual
00:04:25.540 Unless they want to change their souls
00:04:27.320 So you need to put in the actions
00:04:28.920 And the effort that you want to do it
00:04:30.280 Then you put your trust in Allah 0.61
00:04:31.640 And another narration of this
00:04:32.980 Is of the Prophet Muhammad
00:04:34.000 Where a man
00:04:35.620 Didn't tie his kamul 0.51
00:04:37.000 And he was walking off
00:04:38.240 So Rasulullah asked him
00:04:39.840 He said
00:04:39.960 Why didn't you tie your kamul 0.99
00:04:40.960 He said
00:04:41.620 Oh Rasulullah 1.00
00:04:42.220 Because I put my trust in Allah
00:04:44.060 He said
00:04:44.560 Tie your kamul first 1.00
00:04:45.780 Then put your trust in Allah 0.99
00:04:47.360 Then or simultaneously
00:04:48.820 So
00:04:49.720 We need to understand
00:04:51.060 That they go hand to hand
00:04:52.340 Make dua to Allah 0.97
00:04:53.540 And say
00:04:53.760 Oh Allah
00:04:54.080 Look your Lord
00:04:54.860 Your Lord is there for you always
00:04:56.860 So you need to understand
00:04:58.120 That you need to make dua to him
00:04:59.620 And say
00:04:59.820 Oh Allah
00:05:00.160 Help me
00:05:01.080 I want to stop this sin
00:05:02.180 Once you acknowledge this
00:05:03.460 The effort comes in
00:05:04.320 Now how does the effort work in
00:05:06.120 I have spoken to many brothers
00:05:07.680 That I know from back in the days
00:05:09.380 And they will say to me
00:05:10.420 Aki 0.90
00:05:10.720 I will cry
00:05:12.140 When I'm committing zina 0.99
00:05:13.580 I don't want to do it
00:05:14.900 I hate it
00:05:16.240 Straight after I do it
00:05:17.680 I start to cry
00:05:18.500 This shows that there's iman 0.98
00:05:20.260 In the individual's heart
00:05:21.180 Even though he's committing the sin
00:05:22.860 He hates it
00:05:23.900 He doesn't want to do it
00:05:24.980 But he can't help himself
00:05:26.340 Now
00:05:26.980 We need to understand
00:05:28.360 As Allah SWT says in the Quran
00:05:31.640 That the biggest fitna 0.93
00:05:32.900 And the Prophet Muhammad SAW 0.96
00:05:34.460 Said this in a hadith
00:05:35.220 That the biggest fitna for a man is female 1.00
00:05:37.700 We acknowledge that
00:05:39.100 And the society that we live in
00:05:40.280 Doesn't make it easy for us
00:05:41.460 But
00:05:42.100 Now we need to understand
00:05:43.980 That what can we do
00:05:45.500 To erase that
00:05:46.960 Now these brothers that I've talked to before
00:05:48.620 Have said to me
00:05:49.280 That when they remove
00:05:50.500 All these images
00:05:51.840 All these nude things
00:05:53.000 The people that they follow
00:05:53.920 In their social media
00:05:55.360 Facebook, Twitter, Instagram
00:05:56.760 Wherever it may be
00:05:58.020 They said
00:05:59.660 That one of the things
00:06:00.480 That was really effective
00:06:01.480 Is they started to unfollow
00:06:03.240 Delete pictures
00:06:04.380 Stop talking to certain individuals
00:06:06.120 Because the moment you do this
00:06:08.420 You are taking out
00:06:09.640 All this advertisement
00:06:11.040 I call it advertising
00:06:12.020 And I'm going to tell you why
00:06:12.960 You are taking out
00:06:14.000 All these advertisements
00:06:15.160 Who are popping up
00:06:15.980 In your screen
00:06:16.840 Every now and then
00:06:17.640 And reminding you back
00:06:19.220 Of your desires
00:06:20.400 Or those individuals
00:06:21.540 That you was with
00:06:22.560 In the past
00:06:23.220 Now that is similar to McDonald's
00:06:24.880 McDonald's is a multi-billionaire company
00:06:26.960 But they still advertise
00:06:28.380 Why?
00:06:29.500 Let me tell you why
00:06:30.440 Because they want to remind you
00:06:32.380 That fillet of fish
00:06:33.880 To keep it halal 1.00
00:06:34.840 That you like
00:06:35.960 Is still there
00:06:36.760 And can be served
00:06:37.520 Now
00:06:38.180 How does this work?
00:06:39.360 If you haven't had
00:06:40.260 Let's say
00:06:40.880 A fillet of fish burger
00:06:42.600 From McDonald's
00:06:43.440 For 2-3 months
00:06:44.340 You've took it
00:06:45.180 You say
00:06:45.360 You know what
00:06:45.700 I don't want that anymore
00:06:46.680 Okay
00:06:47.260 Now
00:06:47.880 What you're doing is
00:06:48.860 The remembrance of that
00:06:50.000 Anything to do with it
00:06:50.960 You're blanking it
00:06:51.680 You know
00:06:52.140 It's like you're lowering it
00:06:53.020 It's like when you go through McDonald's
00:06:54.360 You're lowering your gaze
00:06:55.360 Now
00:06:56.120 I want to tell you guys
00:06:57.420 How that works
00:06:58.080 Because
00:06:58.780 When you go to your social media
00:07:00.680 And block people
00:07:01.520 Delete numbers
00:07:02.360 Don't see those individuals
00:07:03.420 Who will remind you
00:07:04.340 Of your past
00:07:05.360 Anything to do with zina 1.00
00:07:06.600 That's going to
00:07:07.160 Get your desires to urge
00:07:08.680 Now the fact that
00:07:10.320 You don't do that
00:07:10.940 And when you're out in the street
00:07:12.140 Out and about
00:07:12.960 And you're lowering your gaze
00:07:14.360 Wallahi
00:07:15.220 These brothers were telling me
00:07:16.360 This was the main factor
00:07:18.280 That helped me
00:07:19.240 To overcome zina 1.00
00:07:20.360 With the permission of Allah
00:07:22.020 So now
00:07:22.760 This comes into the part
00:07:24.000 Of you're asking Allah
00:07:24.980 For help
00:07:25.420 And you're putting in the work
00:07:26.800 And with the permission
00:07:28.060 Of Allah
00:07:28.420 Wallahi
00:07:29.260 Brothers and sisters
00:07:29.820 Try it
00:07:30.460 Today
00:07:31.000 Twitter
00:07:31.520 Instagram
00:07:31.960 Facebook
00:07:32.400 Delete
00:07:33.040 Unfollow
00:07:33.640 Anything that
00:07:34.740 Nude
00:07:35.440 Anything that's to do with
00:07:36.720 Nude
00:07:36.960 Or girls 0.95
00:07:37.480 Whatever it is
00:07:38.360 Delete it
00:07:39.140 Take it off
00:07:39.960 If you are not reminded of it
00:07:42.240 Like I said
00:07:43.080 With McDonald's
00:07:43.840 Once they start
00:07:45.020 Advertising it
00:07:45.800 Once you haven't had that
00:07:46.680 For three months
00:07:47.380 That fillet of fish burger
00:07:48.300 And you see it on the TV
00:07:51.320 You're going to be like
00:07:52.060 Ah
00:07:52.360 Do you get what I'm trying to say
00:07:54.600 You're going to be reminded
00:07:55.680 They're not going to be like
00:07:56.260 Ah man
00:07:56.780 If you get what I'm trying to say
00:07:59.020 You're going to go
00:07:59.720 And want to buy it
00:08:00.600 So
00:08:01.200 This is how advertisement works
00:08:02.940 So what you're going to do
00:08:03.860 Is cut it out
00:08:04.460 Now
00:08:04.860 Let's move on
00:08:05.820 Okay
00:08:06.380 Now
00:08:07.020 The hope
00:08:08.160 Where does it come in
00:08:09.320 Making it halal 1.00
00:08:10.860 Now
00:08:11.660 Nobody's saying to you guys
00:08:13.160 Okay
00:08:13.900 Move away from the haram
00:08:15.440 The zina 0.82
00:08:15.820 Okay
00:08:16.500 And
00:08:17.640 Just stay like that
00:08:18.880 You know
00:08:19.120 Just be like a nun 1.00
00:08:20.000 You know
00:08:20.400 You're not going to get married
00:08:21.400 No
00:08:21.680 Allah has given you
00:08:22.820 The halal option 1.00
00:08:23.540 Get married
00:08:24.600 You can fast
00:08:25.720 As we know
00:08:26.580 The prophet Muhammad
00:08:27.180 Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
00:08:27.920 Said
00:08:28.260 You can fast
00:08:29.340 If you're going through
00:08:30.040 These urges
00:08:30.540 Try fasting
00:08:31.560 My dear brothers and sisters
00:08:32.580 Wallahi
00:08:33.000 There is nothing
00:08:33.700 With these brothers
00:08:34.340 I've talked to before
00:08:35.220 The beauty of leaving
00:08:36.860 That haram
00:08:37.540 Lifestyle behind
00:08:38.780 And moving on
00:08:40.420 And doing it
00:08:41.220 In a halal way 0.95
00:08:41.960 Getting married
00:08:43.060 Wallahi
00:08:43.920 By Allah
00:08:44.480 I'm telling you guys
00:08:45.680 Halal
00:08:46.720 Doing it the halal option 1.00
00:08:47.760 And marrying that person
00:08:48.740 In your life
00:08:49.120 And striving
00:08:49.820 There is nothing better
00:08:51.080 Or nothing
00:08:51.900 That can replace that
00:08:53.040 So
00:08:53.560 Pursue the way of marriage
00:08:55.900 In the halal means
00:08:56.940 Now
00:08:57.740 Now guys
00:08:58.520 The next step that we want to do
00:08:59.740 Is we want to hate this sin
00:09:00.720 Even more
00:09:01.440 So we don't go back to it
00:09:02.760 Now brothers
00:09:03.620 I really want to talk to you guys here
00:09:05.140 Let's go
00:09:05.920 And take a little walk
00:09:06.820 Down memory lane
00:09:07.660 Now
00:09:08.480 Now guys
00:09:10.960 I want you guys to imagine with me
00:09:13.320 Now you are going out there
00:09:15.460 And committing this act
00:09:16.680 With other people's sisters 0.74
00:09:18.300 Other people's daughters 0.54
00:09:19.860 Now my dear brothers and sisters
00:09:21.900 Can you imagine
00:09:25.780 If the act that you're doing
00:09:28.460 Somebody did that to your sister 0.86
00:09:30.860 Can you imagine the act that you're doing
00:09:34.220 Somebody did that to your daughter 1.00
00:09:36.500 Or your mother
00:09:37.580 Now
00:09:39.060 I want you guys to really reflect upon this
00:09:40.940 Because this is really important
00:09:42.020 No matter how much you say
00:09:43.320 And justify it to yourself
00:09:44.280 And say
00:09:44.520 Oh
00:09:44.720 But she's a hoe 1.00
00:09:46.000 Or she's this
00:09:46.900 Or she's that
00:09:47.400 I don't care
00:09:48.000 So imagine this in your head
00:09:50.440 Every time
00:09:51.500 You take a step
00:09:52.560 To go ahead
00:09:53.680 And do this act
00:09:54.800 You need to think to yourself
00:09:56.000 And say
00:09:56.300 Hold on a second
00:09:57.000 Would I want that for my sister 0.56
00:09:59.000 So now brothers and sisters
00:10:00.140 We've acknowledged
00:10:01.240 The matter of halal and haram
00:10:03.200 Making a connection with your Lord
00:10:05.080 The basic steps
00:10:06.500 As brothers
00:10:07.340 That we can take
00:10:08.440 To prevent this
00:10:09.820 And what we can do
00:10:11.040 To avoid this
00:10:12.100 So brothers and sisters
00:10:13.340 Hope you guys have benefited
00:10:15.060 Inshallah
00:10:15.940 If you have
00:10:16.860 Share it with your friends
00:10:18.080 And inshallah
00:10:19.080 They will benefit
00:10:19.880 And like I said guys
00:10:21.120 If you fall into this sin again
00:10:23.100 Go back to the same process
00:10:25.300 Because Allah says in the Quran
00:10:26.460 All my servants have transgressed against themselves 1.00
00:10:28.520 Do not ever despair the mercy of your Lord
00:10:30.560 Your Lord is always there
00:10:32.020 No matter if you go back
00:10:33.300 Turn back to your Lord
00:10:34.340 Benefited
00:10:34.880 May Allah's mercy and blessings be upon you all
00:10:36.720 So brothers and sisters
00:10:37.680 Thank you for watching
00:10:38.400 May Allah's mercy and blessings be upon you all
00:10:39.900 May Allah spontane grant
00:10:40.760 Every single one of you guys
00:10:41.980 Jannah
00:10:42.300 At the end of the video
00:10:43.720 Before you turn off
00:10:44.560 Watch the videos at the end
00:10:45.740 Very beneficial videos
00:10:46.860 If you're in a haram relationship
00:10:47.760 You want to come off
00:10:48.420 Etc, etc
00:10:49.400 Watch it
00:10:50.140 Take care
00:10:50.860 Goodbye
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